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  • čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
  • Here's a handy guide to Tom Sandoval's red flags that we might've chosen to ignore over the years...
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Komentáře • 68

  • @leahvibes
    @leahvibes Před 11 měsíci +227

    Imagine taking your vegetarian girlfriend to Korean bbq. He’s a psycho

  • @mariasolis1545
    @mariasolis1545 Před 11 měsíci +173

    Ariana never wanted to believe that Tom was doing shady things. Even if her friends would try to tell her she would defend him.

    • @bunnykinssmile
      @bunnykinssmile Před 11 měsíci +21

      That’s because how a narcissist will manipulate you into believing everyone else is wrong and make you believe you only have each other. I no that my ex did same to me and cheated on me multiple times for months. I found out around same time Ariana found out. So this story is so close to home. The way he shouted at her like was her fault. Yep my ex did that to me to even tried to make me feel bad for the other women.

    • @ginao6810
      @ginao6810 Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@bunnykinssmile I hope you’re away from him and building a wonderful new life without him.
      He will always be miserable, but you don’t have to be!

    • @profhortsunlover1536
      @profhortsunlover1536 Před 11 měsíci +2

      i'm rewatching, the amount of times she steps in to defend him is a whole lot, didn't do her any good in the long run, learning lesson for the rest of us

    • @joscaragay
      @joscaragay Před měsícem

      Sometimes love does that to you…

    • @claudialucia9072
      @claudialucia9072 Před dnem +1

      @@bunnykinssmileAriana hizo lo mismo, ella se metió con Tom cuando él sostenía una relación de muchos años con Kristel!!!! Y no le importó el sufrimiento de esta. Esto no es criticable, lo criticable es que den tantas explicaciones. Si se mostrarán firmes y seguros nadie diría más nada, pararían los insultos pues quién quiere obligar a otro ser a estar contigo??? Eso es algo que fluye o no. Su relación ya estaba muy desgastada. Por otra parte James está dolido porque Raquel estuvo con él en otro tiempo y la chica es muy atractiva además siempre se le ha notado cierta envidia hacia Tom Sandoval.

  • @LibbyT
    @LibbyT Před 11 měsíci +98

    Holy shit the bulldozer conversation is so dark

  • @KA-eu9sy
    @KA-eu9sy Před 11 měsíci +88

    Stassi's booksigning. That was a HUGE red flag.

    • @annad9534
      @annad9534 Před 11 měsíci +18

      That was when his mask started to really slip, like it fell off and he couldn’t put it back on properly again

    • @KA-eu9sy
      @KA-eu9sy Před 11 měsíci +6

      @@annad9534 Well said. And he went after Schwartz too.

    • @Nous520
      @Nous520 Před 11 měsíci +4

      That was red flag central

  • @irishsphynx
    @irishsphynx Před 11 měsíci +81

    And when he emotionally blackmailed her into letting him piggyback on her book

  • @whythenumber
    @whythenumber Před 11 měsíci +111

    Tom: im always gonna be here for you......... BUT apparently were gonna be crushing shit w bulldozers 🤪🤪🤪

    • @Lrop940
      @Lrop940 Před 11 měsíci

      Right? What a complete moron lmao

    • @Quinn_2623
      @Quinn_2623 Před 11 měsíci +12

      He’s like a child in a man’s body. That was so inconsiderate.

    • @Mara.La888
      @Mara.La888 Před 10 měsíci

      ,🤦

    • @MISSSUPERNOVA-
      @MISSSUPERNOVA- Před 6 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️💩💩💩💩

    • @joscaragay
      @joscaragay Před měsícem

      Poo poo head!

  • @mcjlove1227
    @mcjlove1227 Před 11 měsíci +104

    This video needs to be way longer.

  • @imalwaysright
    @imalwaysright Před 11 měsíci +114

    The way he can boldly lie is demonic

  • @ah3738
    @ah3738 Před 11 měsíci +28

    Dead weight be gone. Ariana was too emotionally intelligent for him. He was too jealous of her success Love u Ariana ❤

  • @Khyarro
    @Khyarro Před 11 měsíci +19

    The title should be renamed to : A Guide to Recognize Patterns of Narcissism.

  • @anjali5372
    @anjali5372 Před 11 měsíci +53

    Wow so Ariana mum had a feeling about Tom

  • @milesmoralerizz_
    @milesmoralerizz_ Před 11 měsíci +70

    he wanted to smash stuff with a bulldozer than be with his gf??💀

    • @caitlinbrennan9039
      @caitlinbrennan9039 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Whose dad’s anniversary was coming up

    • @Auto6ix
      @Auto6ix Před 11 měsíci

      Hahaha

    • @chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914
      @chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@caitlinbrennan9039 I think they were talking about kristen

    • @caitlinbrennan9039
      @caitlinbrennan9039 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 no they weren’t

    • @islakay
      @islakay Před 11 měsíci +3

      that was right after 'Miami Girl' so I think she was scared he would cheat in Vegas

  • @alkiebythesea
    @alkiebythesea Před 11 měsíci +39

    The way he uses disgusting language to Ariana & ALL women speaks volumes of Sandoval's character....
    My advice...ALL girls....RUN for the hills.

  • @Quinn_2623
    @Quinn_2623 Před 11 měsíci +21

    I died laughing at the worm with a moustache sitting on toms shoulder. 😂 serves him right!

  • @JadeReal
    @JadeReal Před 11 měsíci +34

    Ariana actually enabled Tom’s behavior by not calling him out for a very long time on his bad behavior. What I don’t like is because it has now happened to her this is so bad (which it is) but what about when he was disrespectful to others? She should have left him a long time ago. But because comfort was the focus she stayed with someone who would eventually treat her the way he treated others.

  • @sahar3547
    @sahar3547 Před 11 měsíci +19

    Rachel and Tom deserve each other, I just hope they never procreate...

  • @CalliopexMaria
    @CalliopexMaria Před 11 měsíci +12

    anytime he tries to justify himself like when he talks about being 40, the intonation of his voice reminds me of kelso saying "damn jackie i can't control the weather!"

  • @amandaclarke763
    @amandaclarke763 Před 11 měsíci +8

    On the back of Jax’s door is exactly the same picture frame as on friends on Rachel and Monica’s apartment.

  • @Botanybabe
    @Botanybabe Před 11 měsíci +7

    Wow she’s lucky to have a dad who told her things like that. My stepdad had to be drunk to even mention he cared about us

  • @nicciberriman3032
    @nicciberriman3032 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Ariana is always so negative. I’m watching reruns 🙈

  • @alexsim8063
    @alexsim8063 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Ariana is not manipulative, so she never saw this side to him… But damn he lied sooooo much

  • @oldorleans9583
    @oldorleans9583 Před měsícem +1

    I can't believe that Tom took Kristen out to a restaurant that literally only had one item for a vegetarian, thats wild especially since you know that she is a vegetarian since she was 11 years old

  • @francinejones2524
    @francinejones2524 Před 11 měsíci +10

    He’s a narcissist for sure. He couldn’t be there for her on her birthday.

  • @lisalane3291
    @lisalane3291 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Definitely!🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @dashakavka111
    @dashakavka111 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Narcissistic Abuse 101

  • @annea5781
    @annea5781 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I’ve never seen a t-shirt with popsicle prints all over it 😬

    • @mannygracioppo7868
      @mannygracioppo7868 Před měsícem

      that t-shirt looks like something that a 5 year old would wear 😂😂😂😂

  • @oldorleans9583
    @oldorleans9583 Před měsícem +1

    Please also do one for all the hypocrites on this show too including Lala who is trying to rewrite history about her past

  • @calmtea5369
    @calmtea5369 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This actually shows Ariana being misogynistic and a liar.

  • @oldorleans9583
    @oldorleans9583 Před měsícem

    I definitely knew that they both lied about miami girl just because Ariana didn't want to look stupid, especially when Kristen came at it so hard, i think that Tom came clean to her when they briefly left sur and then they came back with the plan that they deny it and she trusts him, but its only because she didn't want anyone to say i told you so, she pretty much allowed him to get away with crappy behaviour and then wonders why he cheated with Raquel, especially when they did a similar thing to Kristen, she was still in the same friends group as Ariana so its not a hard jump for him to do something like that, it doesn't make it right as he should of broken up with her not cheated on her, but she has a short memory because she basically cheated on him with Lala in front of him and he couldn't do anything about it but go along with it, imagine if he had gotten a bj from Schwartz in front of her, she would of played the victim but because it was just two girls he was supposed to shrug it off which must of hurt him because they weren't being intimate at that time and she allowed Lala to touch her in ways he wanted to and that must of been not nice for him deep down, so they both blurred the lines with stuff, i don't in any way condone what they did because theres no excuse for it, but they should of called it quits right back when he cheated the first time

  • @ekagelashvily5192
    @ekagelashvily5192 Před 11 měsíci +2

    He is childish man.. not ready for a relationship with anyone

  • @user-ex7ts8jo1v
    @user-ex7ts8jo1v Před 11 měsíci +11

    Ariana knew all of this like for a long ass time them is like crying and telling the misstress and the rest of the world their she's the victim. He never took sides for her.

  • @milisamyers5008
    @milisamyers5008 Před 11 měsíci +4

    A guide to “Hayu” red flags.

    • @Hayu
      @Hayu  Před 11 měsíci +4

      outch..