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  • @loricrowder2170
    @loricrowder2170 Před 4 měsíci +268

    Welcome Home Kelly! I'm so glad you are back. I can't wait to get inspired with you! I can only imagine how hard it must be for you to move on. I pray that you have peaceful days ahead. May God bless you always Kelly...

    • @mimihaines2891
      @mimihaines2891 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Welcome back Kelly. Of course I will stick with you. You know how to create great crafts, and how to connect with your audience. Sending you strength. ❤️

    • @amybossieux9109
      @amybossieux9109 Před 4 měsíci +5

      What about the puppy. That is a reflection of new life. Show us on puppy. Ray is not gone he is all of you! He has just found a better place to rest with NO pain and peace

    • @MissEvv77
      @MissEvv77 Před 4 měsíci

      🙏🏿🙏🏿Prayers lifted for our Heavenly Father to continue to bless you and your family with HIS Comfort and Strength. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Leah-fw5kn
    @Leah-fw5kn Před 4 měsíci +208

    When my daughter died, I felt like I would die too, I thought I could never laugh or smile again.... in time I was able to laugh and smile and feel joy again. God gives us the comfort and peace we need to get up each day. Much Love and Hugs, God Bless Your Family ❤❤❤❤

    • @jenniferggreer457
      @jenniferggreer457 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Sorry for your loss!

    • @georgiastewart4479
      @georgiastewart4479 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Hi, It's so good to hear this. I hope you are always able to smile, laugh and feel joy always

  • @elaineparsons2656
    @elaineparsons2656 Před 4 měsíci +598

    You NEVER get "over" it. You get "through" it. Try to find some small good in every day. God bless you and your family.

    • @jayneweathers
      @jayneweathers Před 4 měsíci +11

      Amen, exactly!

    • @teresamilner9179
      @teresamilner9179 Před 4 měsíci +9

      Amen, sister! That’s exactly how it is. 💕

    • @niseyjones598
      @niseyjones598 Před 4 měsíci +3

      🙏

    • @niseyjones598
      @niseyjones598 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Amen to that Kelly.
      One day at a time , we r all here for u Kelly and for the girl's all 3 of u r strong.
      We all love u Kelly u make such wonderful and beautiful things.
      Ray will never leave yr heart cuz that's where he's at now.
      God bless u and the girl's.

    • @teresamilner9179
      @teresamilner9179 Před 4 měsíci +8

      I never had children because I was terrified of being responsible for another human being so I can’t know what you’re feeling but I understand what you’re saying. We will be there for you. I enjoy your videos.

  • @user-hz6qu7ei5v
    @user-hz6qu7ei5v Před 4 měsíci +25

    I lost my son suddenly in 2010. For awhile, it felt like I couldn't breathe. To honor him, I set a goal of making one baby quilt a month for our local hospital. It slowly helped me recover. You will too. You will always have three children. One is now your guardian angel watching over you. God bless you on your recovery journey. It will get easier.

  • @catnippetsitting
    @catnippetsitting Před 4 měsíci +17

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son, Ray. Thank you for sharing your very personal grief. You are helping others knowing they are not alone and honoring your son by sharing. Ray was so blessed to have you for his mother. Sending love, hugs and heartfelt prayers to you and your family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @karleenmiller1023
    @karleenmiller1023 Před 4 měsíci +77

    You have three kids. One lives in your heart, he will never be gone. Looking forward to you crafting again. Stay strong.

  • @crystalmurphy296
    @crystalmurphy296 Před 4 měsíci +114

    You always have three! Ray will always be in your heart!!

  • @crushnell
    @crushnell Před 4 měsíci +13

    Kelly, how brave you are to bring this to the community you have created! You are handling the grief the best way for you. Your question about "how many children you have" ? You are still a mother to your heavinly child. Bless you and your family.

  • @Floppyearsmomma
    @Floppyearsmomma Před 4 měsíci +36

    Kelly we are here for you. Last night I was making a new dish. Suddenly, I started thinking about you and Ray and the new cookware he bought for you. In my mind I saw the picture you posted of him cooking with his sister. I wanted you to know how you and your Journey have become a part of us. You are so loved by us your subscribers. There’s an old saying in recovery, “Things got better when I got busy.” You are doing the right thing by reaching out and proactively recover your life. ❤❤❤

  • @dinaanduha3066
    @dinaanduha3066 Před 4 měsíci +157

    You have 3 kids and will always have 3 kids. You are a very strong woman. I’m sure that’s one of the many things Ray loved about you. You got this Kelly!

    • @sherryvaughn7632
      @sherryvaughn7632 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Amen!!

    • @connier2246
      @connier2246 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Amen!!

    • @debagino011
      @debagino011 Před 4 měsíci +1

      This is exactly true. You have 3 children. You will always have 3 children. Ray is always with you. Stay strong Kelly. You’ve got this and when you feel like you need a lift close those eyes and talk to him he left you with all of his heart and strength and that’s what will help you through. Thoughts and prayers for you and the girls. His light shines on for you.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @territhigpen942
      @territhigpen942 Před 4 měsíci

      Absolutely! You have 3 kids, Kelly, forever and always. Looking forward to seeing you more on YT. Still sending prayers and hugs.

  • @karenwalker3233
    @karenwalker3233 Před 4 měsíci +147

    You have 3 kids Kelly you’ll always be the momma of Ray and your girls! You gave birth to 3 amazing babies. Ray will always be your son.

    • @louiselill1528
      @louiselill1528 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I agree

    • @BronteBlu2
      @BronteBlu2 Před 4 měsíci +7

      I heard a mom say, I have 2 children, one is in heaven.

    • @chriswiley5184
      @chriswiley5184 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I like that. I have two children, one is in heaven. How eloquently put ❤️

    • @lisabell7934
      @lisabell7934 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@chriswiley5184 I agree. just how it should b said

  • @grammyspa-jammies1737
    @grammyspa-jammies1737 Před 4 měsíci +18

    When you said, "Grief is love with nowhere to put it.", I just cried. Thinking of the dynamics of that statement, it is so true! I have so much love for my lost son but can no longer express it because he is no longer here to receive it. Such a powerful way to say it! 💞

  • @maryfreitas6484
    @maryfreitas6484 Před 4 měsíci +23

    It's not easy losing a child. I lost my 3 yrs old 30 yrs ago. When someone asks me how many kids I have, I still say 3, but one is in heaven. God bless you Kelly.

    • @uschihouseholder8237
      @uschihouseholder8237 Před 4 měsíci +1

      It’s Ok to find a new normal and to laugh! Start with memories were you all were cracking up and imagine him being there laughing right along! The grieve will always be there, but the knowledge that he is there will grow and will make it better. More and more each day! He is just a thought away! Be good to yourself! The girl may worry more about you than you do about them .

    • @margaretbedwell3211
      @margaretbedwell3211 Před 4 měsíci

      Perfect answer.

  • @kathy1t
    @kathy1t Před 4 měsíci +141

    You have 3 children, period. Proud of all three.

  • @meghorne9636
    @meghorne9636 Před 4 měsíci +147

    After my son passed, I was confused also about how to respond to people. I finally settled on " I have 3 children but 1 has passed." I figured that covers it. It doesn't ignore my son since he is still here with me in my heart.❤

    • @ecbrent2
      @ecbrent2 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss ❤❤

    • @conniemooreloman3573
      @conniemooreloman3573 Před 4 měsíci +10

      I lost my parents to COVID one month apart. I just couldn't remember them as part of my past. They are still a wonderful part of my life. I don't say "I loved them so much", "They were". No, they are. I still love them just as much. So, I don't consider them as "were". I consider them as "are" and can't consider them in past tense. No, they are still a big part of my life. They are just not physically here, but they are forever here in my mind. I love my parents, not I loved my parents.

    • @ecbrent2
      @ecbrent2 Před 4 měsíci

      @@conniemooreloman3573 ❤️

    • @lesleyyeldham6629
      @lesleyyeldham6629 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Sending you lots of positive thoughts and love Kelly. You still have Ray he will always be in your heart and thoughts. Every single moment of the day ❤❤

    • @magickittens3157
      @magickittens3157 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Sending prayers your way 🙏 Glad your back. You can do it

  • @debbiebritton1874
    @debbiebritton1874 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Kelly, I am a 73 year old Grandmother. My youngest son passed away in 1978. My life changed forever. Parents that have lost children are now called Angel Moms and Angel Dads. I feel your heartbreak and devastating sadness. I found it helped me to talk to a friend who has also lost their child. They truly could understand every question I had. May our dear Lord hold you and your children in his arms. Give you strength courage and much love to walk with you during this difficult

  • @anunknownknown
    @anunknownknown Před 4 měsíci +20

    I lost my son 19 years ago, and I still grieve. You never get over it, but you can go on living!

  • @EdwardsFamilyMemories916
    @EdwardsFamilyMemories916 Před 4 měsíci +101

    You have 3 kids Kelly - nothing will ever change that. SO proud of you and your decision to come back. We're all here for it and for you.

  • @nancyt.pasour7658
    @nancyt.pasour7658 Před 4 měsíci +195

    Glad you're back, Kelly! If someone asks if you have children just tell them yes, you were blessed with three wonderful children. ❤🙏

    • @labbrockington7854
      @labbrockington7854 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Such great advice.

    • @debbiesscrapbookingroom4245
      @debbiesscrapbookingroom4245 Před 4 měsíci +21

      Yes!! You have three children. Two on earth and one is your angel. You will always have three. ❤️❤️❤️ May God continue to bless you and carry you through….

    • @angelagamez8950
      @angelagamez8950 Před 4 měsíci +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @josephiinewilson6268
      @josephiinewilson6268 Před 4 měsíci +7

      Yes you have 3 children as Viewers have already said. God Bless you in your recovery journey it takes different times each person.

    • @maryjarrell5824
      @maryjarrell5824 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I would say 3

  • @chesiedengun
    @chesiedengun Před 4 měsíci +8

    Day by day, minute by minute, hour by hour. Take care of you and your sweet girls and fur babies. There is no clock with mourning and grief. You are beautuful, you are brave, you are strong, you are loved. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dorothystgeorge6681
    @dorothystgeorge6681 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Welcome back. So happy to see that your going to move forward and come back. Your not alone my friend, we are here with you.
    All the positives you want to do and that your speaking is exactly what your Son Ray would want for you and the girls.
    Prayers for you all for Health, strength and Joy.

  • @fredahedrick4300
    @fredahedrick4300 Před 4 měsíci +86

    Kelly, You tell everyone you have 3 children. 2 on earth, and 1 angel in heaven, and 3 precious fur babies! You will ALWAYS have 3 children, no matter weither they are here on earth or an angel in heaven! Continued prayers for you, the girls and family! Hugs!

    • @LisaMccarty-fm2ec
      @LisaMccarty-fm2ec Před 4 měsíci +2

      I have one in Heaven. And 3 here. That's a beautiful way to give recognition to all my girls.

    • @DCHL5260
      @DCHL5260 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Hi Kelly It’s good to see you
      In my opinion you gave birth to three children and so you will always have three children

    • @alenaharris8443
      @alenaharris8443 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I love this. I'm sure many have wondered that same question and this is the best answer I've heard. ❤

    • @sharonbrueck6026
      @sharonbrueck6026 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Very well said, I agree 100%.

  • @livelovewaxahachie
    @livelovewaxahachie Před 4 měsíci +50

    Some dear friends of mine lost one of their 4 children in a tragic farming accident the day after his 5th birthday. They still say they have 4 children. One in heaven and 3 with them here on earth. Sending hugs and continued prayers as you adjust to your new "normal"

  • @donnaramirez163
    @donnaramirez163 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Kelly, so glad your back! What an inspiration you are ♥️. Hang in there and know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you. God bless!

  • @diamondlee9034
    @diamondlee9034 Před 4 měsíci +27

    “Grief is love with no place to put it. Grief is love in reverse” WOW. Kelly, those are some very powerful words. that really hit me in the heartstrings. again, I cant express how sorry I am for you & the girls. I continue to pray for all of you daily. you will ALWAYS have 3 children. ALWAYS.

  • @barbaracoleman4175
    @barbaracoleman4175 Před 4 měsíci +66

    You have three children. Two beautiful daughters and Ray, your spirit child. He’s always there, no matter where you are, no matter what you are doing.

  • @sharonjerseygirl7165
    @sharonjerseygirl7165 Před 4 měsíci +73

    I'm Glad You're Back Kelly...Stay Strong!!!👍☺️

  • @kelbog9690
    @kelbog9690 Před 4 měsíci +7

    We miss you and all your creativeness! ❤ We will be here when you are ready! Thinking of you all and sending big 🤗.

  • @patriciacano3549
    @patriciacano3549 Před 4 měsíci +12

    We all miss you Kelly welcome back!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏and yes you have three children one is a ANGEL shining ☀️ down on your and the girl every day!!! Love you all.

    • @user-ns8ct7ke3k
      @user-ns8ct7ke3k Před 4 měsíci

      I am sorry but no where in The Bible does it state our loved ones become angels. That simply is not true.🙏🙏

  • @lauryshattock7570
    @lauryshattock7570 Před 4 měsíci +49

    Hi Kelly-Great to see you again! I am glad you are back! Grief is Love-you are right. Still holding you all in my thoughts and prayers❤️

  • @lindafaulkner9750
    @lindafaulkner9750 Před 4 měsíci +23

    I lost my husband of 31 years two years ago. Grief is a hard journey and it takes time. I don't know if you have heard of Griefshare but it helped me so much to understand this journey I'm on. I admire your determination and desire for you and your girls to start living again. I pray for God to give you all strength and peace.

  • @elnore4106
    @elnore4106 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Grief is love with no place to put it. Profound.
    You’ve nailed how I feel.

  • @candicegaier2649
    @candicegaier2649 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Kelly, I am happy to see your face again. I am still wandering around. I am still trying to find my new normal. Listening to you has helped to clear my mind. My son always told me to not cry any time the doctor had bad news. I am trying to do as Andy asked. I am much better. Knowing that you and the girls are working thru this has helped me to see an opening in the fog. Please keep that positive attitude. I know we all can get thru this in our own way. Thank you for the wise words. I will always have 3 kids as you will too.

  • @debbiediercks2080
    @debbiediercks2080 Před 4 měsíci +32

    Come back any time Kelly. We love you. We will support you!

  • @jennifereldridge8603
    @jennifereldridge8603 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Everyone grieves differently.
    Love and hugs to you and your girls and Ray.❤

  • @user-qc9pd5fe5q
    @user-qc9pd5fe5q Před 4 dny

    I'm sorry for your loss. I haven't seen any of your videos in a while and was wondering about your son. God laid you on my heart. Praying for you!

  • @Lisa-ql5wr
    @Lisa-ql5wr Před 4 měsíci +6

    Grieving is the only way to heal. You and your daughters are a testimony of Ray's life. Good to see you back. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

  • @ashleychasko4618
    @ashleychasko4618 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Ray would be so proud of. He knew how much you loved crafting. He wouldn't want you to ever stop.

  • @hollyweaver7292
    @hollyweaver7292 Před 4 měsíci +16

    I’m proud of how you are teaching all of us that grieving is so much more than crying. We’re watching you learn how to keep putting one foot in front of the other and doing the next right thing.

  • @antoinettebilocca9868
    @antoinettebilocca9868 Před 4 měsíci

    Good for you Kelly like you said life goes on Ray is resting and no more pain bless him

  • @gwendurden5096
    @gwendurden5096 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Welcome back sweetheart Ray would be proud of you and he is and will forever live on in your hearts,minds, and souls. May god bless each of you in the way you need.

  • @pmelaglover9913
    @pmelaglover9913 Před 4 měsíci +19

    You have three children. Two earthly angels and one Heavenly Angel. So happy you are coming back. I do believe it will help you. God bless you. 💝💙💓💓🙏

  • @orawright6305
    @orawright6305 Před 4 měsíci +32

    My sincerest condolences to you and your family 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️

  • @tanyajohnston8262
    @tanyajohnston8262 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Grief is so so hard. I find that at times I feel panicked because I can’t see or hold the person I’m missing. I have to hang on, grab onto some memories and breathe. Hugs ❤

  • @KimberlyLetsGo
    @KimberlyLetsGo Před 4 měsíci +9

    I had a therapist tell me that 'grief is love with nowhere to go.' It rings so true for me.
    You've got a great plan and determination. Sending you and the girls tons of love.

    • @lisapitts9518
      @lisapitts9518 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I lost my parents in 2020, my niece in 2022 and my daughters father in 2023. I am in a grief class at church and learning so much about grief and the many facets that comes with it.

    • @SKochc
      @SKochc Před 4 měsíci

      Hey Kimberly 🌹, how are you feeling today ?

  • @ronaldkrueger5470
    @ronaldkrueger5470 Před 4 měsíci +63

    Three children. If you care to explain further, you could Say "one in heaven, and two on earth"
    We are ready, when you are, to continue on this journey. Your Talent is so Awesome. We missed the lessons and all your inspirations. If you would like to do a caring collage of Ray with all the great moments, We would love that, and you could look at it any time you miss Ray. 😢 We got this ❤ not easy, and definitely not fair, but we got this!❤

  • @kayk8123
    @kayk8123 Před 4 měsíci +54

    You will always have three. Ray didn't stop being your son, he's just not here. I love how you defined grief. You are so much stronger than you realize even on your weak days. Grace and LOVE. ❤

  • @marlenehoeppner
    @marlenehoeppner Před 4 měsíci

    Kelly, welcome back. We're (I'm) with you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You have ans will continue to help others going through grieving a loss. I agree with you setting goals is a good avenue for anyone grieving. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

  • @juneeaves1773
    @juneeaves1773 Před 4 měsíci

    Sending love and hope. Every day is a new day. Ray is always with you. God bless.

    • @juneeaves1773
      @juneeaves1773 Před 4 měsíci

      You will always have 3 children. They (regardless of where they are) you have 3. Sending so much love

  • @michellet3237
    @michellet3237 Před 4 měsíci +37

    Hi Kelly!! I am so glad you and the girls are trying very hard to continue to live!

  • @mildredyearwood8747
    @mildredyearwood8747 Před 4 měsíci +29

    Prayers for your Strength They say that time heals all wounds , but no one can tell you how long. Continue to Live your Life with Purpose

  • @blueyes9912
    @blueyes9912 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I'm glad to see you back. Kelly, You have shown such strength& I Pray God continues to give you what you need to see you through. DAY BY DAY ❤💙😇

  • @kathyking1468
    @kathyking1468 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Kelly I'm glad to see you back ! You coming on and talking with us and sharing your feelings is a healing process. Never hold them keep sharing. We love you and we can't wait for you to start crafting . You are such an inspiration. Love and prayers for you and your family. ❤

  • @mainerstoo
    @mainerstoo Před 4 měsíci +13

    You will always be a mother of 3, one is in heaven. Prayers for comfort during this most difficult time. My mom passed away 2 years ago, and faith is one thing that has helped me to push forward.

  • @iam2bear
    @iam2bear Před 4 měsíci +24

    He is physically gone, but energy doesnt die, it transforms. He is with you. You have 3 kids, one is just an angel, and lives in your heart. Baby steps...and wobbles are ok;) P.S. the light above makes warrior stripes from your glasses on your face..it looks badass!

  • @janiah423
    @janiah423 Před 4 měsíci

    I am so sorry for your loss! My prayers are with you and your precious daughters! ❤️❤️🙏🏾

  • @jfarrell5798
    @jfarrell5798 Před 4 měsíci

    Love you Kelly. You inspire all of us!

  • @annew8365
    @annew8365 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Kelly, you’re doing such a great job honouring the lives of your mom, your sister and Ray. They live on as you remember them and share about them. ✨May their memories be blessed. You, Kayla and Allisyn remain in my prayers.

  • @mariamalban1037
    @mariamalban1037 Před 4 měsíci +17

    You are such a wonderful, loving MOM! You are such a a strong and courageous lady. ONE DAY AT A TIME! ❤😊

  • @tuskbear
    @tuskbear Před 4 měsíci

    You have 3 kids one of them is an angel now.Memories they are the best one thing that can never be taken away .Grieving never goes away you just learn to live with it.A big Hug

  • @adventurebythemile
    @adventurebythemile Před 4 měsíci +4

    It has been a little over a year since my mom passed and almost three since my Dad passed and I feel like there is a dark cloud hanging over me. I cannot get past anything. Some days I don’t even get out of bed. I cannot find joy in anything anymore. I see someone a psychiatrist and a counselor. I know my parents would want me to go on but something inside me is so damaged and I feel so broken. When I watch how strong you are it gives me hope. I still think about Ray and I cried from Missouri watching his funeral on my tv. I want to be more like you. I love you for sharing everything you did because it has helped me some. Thanks Kelly.
    ~Elaine

  • @sandycampbell7467
    @sandycampbell7467 Před 4 měsíci +17

    😊Hello Kelly glad to know you choose to come back and create cause we love you. Grief is LOVE and know He's not gone he's just away he will be in your life forever!!! Prayers continue for y'all. God bless you hun 🌹

  • @jannicelockley8424
    @jannicelockley8424 Před 4 měsíci +10

    You have 3 beautiful babies.. one is now your beautiful gaurdian angel.

  • @JoyceDye
    @JoyceDye Před 4 měsíci +4

    You have 3 kids love :) , one of them just lives in heaven and has become a guardian angel for all of you. You are an inspiration for everyone to keep going :)

  • @unbelievable2me
    @unbelievable2me Před 4 měsíci

    It's been 15 years & that question Always gets me. I understand!

  • @cherb_soco1891
    @cherb_soco1891 Před 4 měsíci +31

    When I lost my son to cancer, I couldn't imaging "normal " life. Like you, I had to become used to a new normal. It took a long while to get to the point where I could think of him or see a photo & not cry or feel sad. But slowly, it came around. We don't get over our loss, but we can get through it. And Darlin', you will always have three children ❤

    • @dawnsarrach6612
      @dawnsarrach6612 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @cherb_soco1891 what a sweet post for Kelly. God bless you.

    • @ecbrent2
      @ecbrent2 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I'm very sorry for your loss. You know exactly what Kelly is going through and I'm sorry for you both. ❤❤

    • @laurieutter8760
      @laurieutter8760 Před 4 měsíci +2

      💙🕯️ 🙏🏼

  • @shelleybaine3465
    @shelleybaine3465 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Sweet sweet Kelly I would never leave you! You will always love your three children . Being a mom is tough wonderful job. I know without a doubt you are a fabulous momma. Ray loves you and you the same. May god give you love peace and inspiration. Love you so so much

  • @barbwright9065
    @barbwright9065 Před 4 měsíci

    Continued prayers Kelly! Ray would be so proud!

  • @jbicandi3033
    @jbicandi3033 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Emotions during grieving is like a rollercoaster. It happens in waves. It will get better. You will always miss Ray. In time your memories will take over. Sending prayers 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ms.krueger2660
    @ms.krueger2660 Před 4 měsíci +30

    My neighbor lost her only child, a son. She is a strong woman. She is in her 70s. She found a way to go on. She became a school teacher. She helped raise everyone’s kids. I really don’t know how she has done it. Her son died in a wreck at 19. He would have been 50 this year.
    You can do it !!
    You are a strong woman too !! 💖🙏🏽Praying for you and your girls!!

  • @westy14
    @westy14 Před 4 měsíci

    Kelly you have 3 kids,two on earth and Ray 🙏🏻in the other world,because he is with you all.
    He is in a better world and one day you all will be there with him again ❤️
    Sending a big hug from Houston Texas 🤠

  • @shanaroberts2567
    @shanaroberts2567 Před 4 měsíci +9

    You’re an amazingly strong person and great role model for your girls! You still have so much to live for. You’ve got to remember, “ just because you’re moving forward, and trying to find a way to live without Ray, doesn’t mean you’re leaving him behind, or forgetting about him. “You have so many wonderful memories of him to carry with you. You’re not disrespecting your son, by continuing to live your life. He would want you to move on and be happy. Prayers for all of you!

  • @Dalelynne3
    @Dalelynne3 Před 4 měsíci +5

    All three of your children must be so very proud of you......what an inspiration you are. xxoo

  • @kimberlypillman2983
    @kimberlypillman2983 Před 4 měsíci +9

    You, your family, the officers Ray worked with and above all, Ray himself have been huge inspirations to many of us. I KNOW I can say that on behalf of many of us. I will continue to support you here and send you love and prayers! Love you! 😊❤

  • @morningstar8530
    @morningstar8530 Před 4 měsíci

    You are a great mom, we look forward to see all new creations, it will be therapeutic to you and will help you to move on, God bless you and guide you through this ❤

  • @christolecontreras3610
    @christolecontreras3610 Před 4 měsíci +4

    You have 3 children and 1 being your son is with the Lord. God bless you Kelly♥️
    I love your doggies!!

  • @Supergenesia
    @Supergenesia Před 4 měsíci +8

    I started watching you because you DID inspire me to create❤but the last 20 months, you have inspired me in ways I never imagined Kelly💞 I look forward to watching you bloom in this new season 🌸 Your faith, your girls, your pups, your followers AND Ray will keep you watered! 💦 💐 💞

  • @cindycindy1
    @cindycindy1 Před 4 měsíci +11

    May God wrap his comforting arms around you and your family.

  • @MOrtiz-tm4qe
    @MOrtiz-tm4qe Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am so sorry that you lost your son. You lost his physical body, but he will always be with you. May God be with you and your family.🙏🙏

  • @dianedoslich8167
    @dianedoslich8167 Před 4 měsíci

    So glad you are back. Praying for you and your girls everyday. You are strong and God will help you and the girls. You are an excellent example for your girls.

  • @corinasegundo6669
    @corinasegundo6669 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Glad to have you back Kelly, God bless you and your family. Prayer's always 🙏

  • @maryschmidt7035
    @maryschmidt7035 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Welcome back, It's hard , baby steps and we are walking with you.

  • @DoraDominguezCarey
    @DoraDominguezCarey Před 4 měsíci

    ... Sending hugs. Always praying for you all. Hugs from Midland, Texas.

  • @susanjones7491
    @susanjones7491 Před 4 měsíci

    Prayers to you and the girls. A new journey begins!

  • @chunkiebetz1141
    @chunkiebetz1141 Před 4 měsíci +36

    My answer would be I have 3, I lost 1.. you have to take one day at a time!! ❤ I'm so glad to hear that you have chosen to continue crafting!!

    • @jerseyandhernomads
      @jerseyandhernomads Před 4 měsíci +3

      That's exactly what I say. I have 7 children but lost my oldest ❤

    • @gingergrivois3313
      @gingergrivois3313 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I would answer I have 3 kids. 2 girls and 1 angel. He is always watching you. Just look for the signs. He is always with you. Love you Kelly and glad are slowly getting back to what you love.❤

    • @deborahanneohara9386
      @deborahanneohara9386 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I don't see any reason to say anything after, I have 3 children, of course depending on the circumstances and who is asking.

  • @theresascott8387
    @theresascott8387 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Kelly, you will always have 3 children. Because Ray may not be with you physically, he is still in your heart. I am so proud of your courage to be so truthful and transparent about your life now…we are here for you!

  • @tracycompton7829
    @tracycompton7829 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Everyone has a different path to travel and we can only manage one day at a time, you are an inspiration to all of us, and a wonderful mother to your children, sending hugs and best wishes to you all ❤x

  • @rosalindanerio8169
    @rosalindanerio8169 Před 4 měsíci +3

    My prayers for Ray, your daughters and you continue. I admire your strength and courage.

  • @terryciavola5962
    @terryciavola5962 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Kelly you still have three. He will always be in your heart. Prayers and love to you all. 🙏🏻❤️ We are with you always, glad you are back!

    • @judylagasse3135
      @judylagasse3135 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Absolutely, I will never leave her channel.

  • @deehickman6417
    @deehickman6417 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Continued prayers of strength for you, Kelly. I have found in those times of grief, that those we love so deeply never truly leave us. There is a bond that nothing can break and they live on through us. What a perfect way to honor Ray by living each day as he would want you to do. Your channel is a blessing to so many and I thank you for it. May you find peace and creativeness waiting for you every morning and many blessings along the way.

  • @Sandersdma
    @Sandersdma Před 4 měsíci

    Im so happy your back!! You have ALWAYS been an inspiration to me. You are my hero! Im not going no where, and I look forward to your next video.❤

  • @debbiemiller5196
    @debbiemiller5196 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Kelly we have missed you so much. You are such an inspiration too us. Thank you for who you are and all that you do

  • @LindaM1976
    @LindaM1976 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Remember crying is cleansing. Cry when you have to and then keep marching. You are doing a wonderful job. You are an inspiration 💕

  • @cherylshaffer4083
    @cherylshaffer4083 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I’m so glad you are back. Continued love, hugs and prayers as you and the girls find a new normal. Baby steps Kelly, we are all here for you.

  • @nancykowle1293
    @nancykowle1293 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You never get over it but it will get better you n the girls have had a routine taking care of Ray n being there for him also remember we are all here for you ❤

  • @mariehoney31
    @mariehoney31 Před 4 měsíci +1

    🤗🤗🤗

  • @klwh6513
    @klwh6513 Před 4 měsíci +14

    A very special mom I knew was a mom of 6. (She passed last year after a long life) 2 of her sons passed away as teenagers . She always said i am a mom of 6. 2 are in heaven. You are always a mom of 3. She was a wonderful Godly graceful woman.

    • @deborahanneohara9386
      @deborahanneohara9386 Před 4 měsíci

      Always and Forever. 💝

    • @BronteBlu2
      @BronteBlu2 Před 4 měsíci

      Your comment made me think of a friend of mine who is 74; he is the youngest of 5. His mother is now 102 years old. She still lives in her own home with the recently widowed wife of another of her sons that passed away about a year ago. She has outlived all of her children except her youngest, my friend. How painful that must have been for her!

  • @cathy5439
    @cathy5439 Před 4 měsíci +7

    If it were me, I would say I HAVE three children because Ray will always be with you. But you say it anyway you feel. Say whichever way makes you happy. It is so good to have you back!

  • @Nonnie1227
    @Nonnie1227 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You have 3 children; two are physically with you, one lives forever in your heart.

  • @sherryvaughn7632
    @sherryvaughn7632 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Hi Kelly!!! Welcome Back❤ I am here, been here with you, and not going anywhere. You are an inspiration to me❣️ looking forward to watching your creations again 😊