3 Steps to Better Connect With Your Fellow Humans | Amber Cabral | TED

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  • čas přidán 11. 05. 2024
  • How can you effectively support people at work and in your community, especially when they're different from you? Inclusion strategist Amber Cabral shares three steps you can take to build connection - emphasizing that even small, everyday actions can make a big difference to those around you.
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Komentáře • 65

  • @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116
    @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116 Před měsícem +87

    Be the person who breaks the cycle. If you were judged, choose understanding. If you were rejected, choose acceptance. If you were shamed, choose compassion. Be the person you needed when you were hurting, not the person who hurt you. Vow to be better than what broke you-to heal instead of becoming bitter so you can act from your heart, not your pain.

    • @beitophfongfu
      @beitophfongfu Před měsícem +3

      Assalamu Waleikum, sister!

    • @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116
      @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116 Před měsícem +4

      @@beitophfongfu 😊
      Salam 🙏🏻

    • @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116
      @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116 Před měsícem +3

      TED❤️
      When they meet Him they will be greeted with ‘SALAM’- and He has prepared a generous reward for them.
      -📖The Holy Quran, chapter 33, verse44
      Abdul Haleem✍🏻

    • @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116
      @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116 Před měsícem +3

      TED❤️
      Their greeting, on the Day when they will meet Him, will be, “Salām ” . And He has prepared for them a noble reward.
      -📖The Holy Quran, chapter 33, verse44
      Mufti Taqi Usmani✍🏻

    • @varadacandles
      @varadacandles Před 29 dny +1

      Beautiful ✨🙏🏻

  • @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116
    @ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116 Před měsícem +14

    At this time of turmoil and divisions, we must work together to find solutions to global challenges and to build a better future for all…

  • @MaybeYoureRight-1234
    @MaybeYoureRight-1234 Před měsícem +21

    🐦 a bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song…😅

  • @MaybeYoureRight-1234
    @MaybeYoureRight-1234 Před měsícem +6

    🌀 I hope we can fill each of our days to the brim with positive energy. We thought the world had stopped, but it continues to move forward 🌀

  • @China-129
    @China-129 Před měsícem +7

    Humans need a freedom seldom mentioned: freedom from intrusion. We need a little privacy as much as we need vitamins or exercise or praise.
    - Phyllis McGinley

  • @Loving-waves
    @Loving-waves Před měsícem +3

    This is such a wonderful conversation! Thank you for this. Great reminder.

  • @sgibson964
    @sgibson964 Před měsícem

    Amber,Big YES! to the simplicity you so easily present in this talk. Thank you for gifting us with this great talk. Sharing it far and wide!

  • @micro8106
    @micro8106 Před 6 dny

    This video gives me the moral how to connect with the different background and perspectives people. It doesn't acquire huge mandate at their. it is simple and easy to follow that we just need to focus on our neighbour. Related with the small action in daily life, these behaviour playing on important role to make a link with people. And one of the interesting story that I heard in this video is about acknowledge all of the people include their own privilege. It is essential for people who want to connect them more effectively.

  • @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192
    @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192 Před měsícem +7

    🌱👩🏼‍🎓
    “Education is the great engine of personal development. It is through education that the daughter of a peasant can become a doctor, that the son of a mine worker can become the head of the mine, that a child of farmworkers can become the president of a great nation. It is what we make out of what we have, not what we are given, that separates one person from another.”
    ~Nelson Mandela

  • @Travel-Rizma
    @Travel-Rizma Před měsícem +7

    *Dalai Lama* ✍️🌿
    _"If someone greets me with a nice smile, and expresses a genuinely friendly attitude, I appreciate it very much. Though I might not know that person, or even understand their language, my heart is instantly gladdened... Kindness and love, a real sense of sisterhood and brotherhood, these are very precious. They make community possible, and therefore are an essential part of any society."_
    ─ His Holiness *Dalai Lama* ✍️🌿

  • @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192
    @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192 Před měsícem +4

    *👩🏼‍🎓TED❤*
    “The support of tested and dependable friends gives one the strength to hold on to hope and to endure successfully even the most challenging knocks in life."
    ~Nelson Mandela

  • @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192
    @tka-tpa-prapatankalisari45192 Před měsícem +14

    Oh yeah haaaa…😀🤭
    I have a new content [LIVE-for you! And yes for yourself👏🏼
    Thank you, CZcams😊

  • @corlisscrabtree3647
    @corlisscrabtree3647 Před měsícem

    Thank you 🙏

  • @parsapakdel7808
    @parsapakdel7808 Před měsícem +1

    I would like to applaud you for what an amazing speaker you are Amber… just WOW

    • @parsapakdel7808
      @parsapakdel7808 Před měsícem

      The way you integrated ally ship(first time hearing about it) and your rhetoric about noticing differences and investing in them to expand connections was incredibly touching.

  • @l01230123
    @l01230123 Před měsícem

    Great speech! 👏👏👏👏

  • @KaMiQa16
    @KaMiQa16 Před měsícem

    touching talk, also i could listen to her for hours on

  • @Mina1019
    @Mina1019 Před měsícem +1

    Congratulations Amber!!!

  • @jackieb.7368
    @jackieb.7368 Před měsícem

    Great content.

  • @andrewpayette621
    @andrewpayette621 Před měsícem +1

    After watching this video, I walked over to my neighbors house, who are going to put their home on the market. I offered to pretend to own the home during the appraisal.
    They declined and told me to never speak to them again.

  • @chrisjackson4066
    @chrisjackson4066 Před měsícem +1

    Good work 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @Travel-Rizma
    @Travel-Rizma Před měsícem +3

    *Dalai Lama* ✍️🌿
    _I believe that every human being has an innate desire for happiness and does not want to suffer. I also believe that the very purpose of life is to experience this happiness. I believe that each of us has the same potential to develop inner peace and thereby achieve happiness and joy. Whether we are rich or poor, educated or uneducated, black or white, from the East or the West, our potential is equal. We are all the same, mentally and emotionally. Though some of us have larger noses and the color of our skin may differ slightly, physically we are basically the same. The differences are minor. Our mental and emotional similarity is what is important._
    ─ His Holiness *Dalai Lama* ✍️🌿

    • @Travel-Rizma
      @Travel-Rizma Před měsícem +1

      *Dalai Lama* _✍️🌿_
      _“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.”_
      ─ His Holiness *Dalai Lama* _✍️🌿_

  • @InsanSalsabila
    @InsanSalsabila Před 4 dny

    10:07 conclusion

  • @kevinwilliams3272
    @kevinwilliams3272 Před měsícem +3

    I was hoping to hear a great talk on a really interesting subject. But I've dropped out after only 5 minutes - I just can't take any more "OK?" or "Right?" or "Alright?"

  • @dleebonics
    @dleebonics Před 10 dny

    "An" empathy problem

  • @ccvccv5600
    @ccvccv5600 Před měsícem

  • @China-129
    @China-129 Před měsícem +1

    A co-worker's work habits are not your problem, they're their problem-- unless you allow yourself to be constantly annoyed by them and that becomes your problem. Your co-worker isn't your problem; the desire to control others is your problem. You are volunteering for aggravation. Other people's problems are other people's problems. We aren't in control of them in even the slightest way unless we have been given explicit supervisory obligations to fix them. Has anyone at your company asked you specifically to modify a co-worker's behavior? Has someone else been assigned to supervise them? Live and let live. Spend your precious energy figuring out what you can do to be a more integral, essential worker.

    • @China-129
      @China-129 Před měsícem +3

      Spend your mental energy becoming a positive force for your business or workplace. Improve your own attitude and productivity. Don't be dragged down by anyone else. Life will present us with plenty of challenges. Look for joys in life, not challenges that you have no responsibility or control. The only mistakes that should concern us are our own. Every mistake contains a lesson for us. Instead of stressing out about it, absorb the lesson and move forward more wisely. Have you ever noticed yourself repeating a mistake when you should have known better? Maybe you were focusing too much attention on the mistakes of others rather than remaining conscious of your own. Zero in on what's in front of you today. Trying to improve yourself isn't selfish, it's smart. You are the only person in the world who you can improve.

  • @ashleydensmore1561
    @ashleydensmore1561 Před 27 dny

    I immediately knew you were DEI.

  • @berbudy
    @berbudy Před měsícem +1

    these comments section shows that bot accounts are using famous quote now to seed their account activities

    • @cyano3d
      @cyano3d Před 17 dny

      Will youtube fix it ??? Noooooo

  • @MrAgro98
    @MrAgro98 Před měsícem +3

    What an absolutely incredible TED Talk! I very much wish more talks about DEI in companies were like this!

  • @alexandrugheorghe5610
    @alexandrugheorghe5610 Před měsícem +1

    I thought this talk is C-PTSD informed. My mistake.

  • @sibanganidube2482
    @sibanganidube2482 Před měsícem

    Since Fikile became a Zanu PF member he will bleed the ANC

  • @ziggie16
    @ziggie16 Před měsícem +3

    wtf has ted talk turned into.....

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173

    applausi

  • @khaledradwan3466
    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

    .

  • @19129j
    @19129j Před měsícem

    So they conspired to commit fraud on a home buyer. Think about the buyer, the lender, and the appraiser who were misled by one person’s paranoia. That’s DEI. You are being lied to by thinking you’re getting one thing and getting a misrepresentation.

    • @l01230123
      @l01230123 Před měsícem

      So if your property is worth less because of your race, you wouldn't want to do anything about it? You're blatantly ignoring racism, and you're being extremely sensitive if you feel bad for the racist home buyers.
      There's no fraud: the house is sold as it is presented. Are you saying actors aren't allowed to sell things anymore..? Obviously there is an element of deception that often exists in advertising, why are you using that to defend the racist buyers?

  • @sohu86x
    @sohu86x Před 3 dny

    Sounds like she works for corporations to make more money, not for the sake of people

  • @y-ddraig
    @y-ddraig Před měsícem +3

    Thank you so much for a lovely talk.

  • @freedomrings.0007
    @freedomrings.0007 Před měsícem +5

    Step one. Put down your phone.
    Step two. Turn and face your company.
    Step three. Say hello and engage in face to face conversations.
    The end

  • @555Trout
    @555Trout Před měsícem +1

    Useless pablum.

  • @rdr6269
    @rdr6269 Před měsícem +2

    Not here to watch. Just dropped in to express my scorn for what Ted Talks has become. Bye.

  • @JULIANAHASSANI
    @JULIANAHASSANI Před měsícem +2

    Pay attention of Humains empathy : our differencies are privileges ! Access of power 🤍 Peace

  • @poonamtripathi143
    @poonamtripathi143 Před měsícem +1

    👍👍👍👍👍

  • @fashiongik
    @fashiongik Před měsícem +3

    woke mind virus in da house

  • @JULIANAHASSANI
    @JULIANAHASSANI Před měsícem +2

    🌐🗣️↗️🔎

  • @RollingTwentiesPhotography
    @RollingTwentiesPhotography Před měsícem +1

    HUMANS SUK WHY WOULD I WANT TO DO THAT!!

  • @dirtybies
    @dirtybies Před 24 dny

    I don't understand: if i go out and do my job from Monday to Friday to pay my bills and taxes, how's that hot water a privilege? It's not like i'm getting it for free, i make an effort to contribute to society and in return i reap the benefits from doing so. I don't take it for granted either, for instance: if my power fails i have a backup system, if the water supply fails i have a well in my garden. For all those things i worked and made efforts. So what privilege are we talking about here? People these days are quick to tell other people they're so called privileged and it's demeaning all the work and effort those people did to build something in their life.

  • @khaledradwan3466
    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

    .

  • @ernestomojica115
    @ernestomojica115 Před měsícem +3

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    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

    .

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    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

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    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

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    @khaledradwan3466 Před měsícem

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  • @TheRealASN
    @TheRealASN Před měsícem +2