"No Means No" [A Different World 1989]
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- Perfect answer. Content deals with date rape and the rapist trope.
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Episode synopsis:
"Freddie falls for Garth Parks, a handsome and intelligent baseball star. Teammate Dwayne backs out of a date to the dance with Freddie so that she can go with Garth. However, Dwayne is disturbed when Garth shares details of a past incident with a woman. Dwayne describes the story to Walter, who confirms that it should be considered date rape. When Dwayne tries to dissuade Freddie from dating Garth, she accuses him of jealousy. Garth takes Freddie to an observation point and tries to force himself on her, but Dwayne comes to the rescue. Freddie and the other victim make statements to the police and help put Garth behind bars."
when a woman says no and you don't listen to her, it's rape, plain and simple, case closed, 10 to 20
Amen!
Indeed!
Kongman4547 Then she should pay her half of the bill cause I'm getting my money's worth.
Period point blank!
Mavericks Choices just cause you paid for dinner. Doesn't mean you're getting sex later.
This was said 25 years ago and we still gotta teach this shit smh
Super surprised this had no replay with "NOT ALL MEN!"
***** women dressing slutty is the excuse for all rapists and their defenders use for rape
***** teach women? You mean blaming them for their own rape. Women have a right to walk around showing skin as much as men. Rape culture at it's finest! *sighs* double standards and male privilege... People who defend rapists make me sick
Destiney Tran I'm attacking you because you are hating on men, when they made you who you are and you are a man hater..Men are better off single.. FIGHT FOR MEN'S RIGHTS
romans52345 i didnt hate on men. I hate men who have little to no respect for women (the ones that gave us life). Fuck men's rights! Men are already the default. Yall hate me becuz I'm a woman...a carefree woman. You and your buddy cant handle that too well. Since both of you hate women so much, yall should just be gay...but yall will hate them too cuz they have "feminine traits"
Such a great and memorable scene. This is why A Different World will always be one of the most important shows to have ever been on the air.
Movie matics I'm so glad that they did a topic about rape in this episode, because ot was rare that they talked about this on TV back in the 80s.
Movie matics Scratch That. Different Strokes actually did two rape episodes in the 80s. One called the Bicycle Man, and the other one was the episode where Kimberly almost got raped in the hitchhiker episode.
And the irony about it is this show was created by a rapist.
Definitely one of the most important sitcoms in television history
@@louise9024 actually Cosby was only executive producer after season 1. The gorgeous Debbie Allen was the director and producer after season 2 which is why the cast changed. Allen's shows are always very funny but never shy away from deep social issues affecting the community which is why i respect her work so much. And you are right......no one was talking about this in the 80s which is what makes A Different World so special. Its a monument
He's right. If she says "NO" and you force yourself on herself anyway IT'S RAPE.
I remember watching this episode when it first aired in the spring of 1989..I was just reaching male adolescence and I learned a very valuable lesson from it..there was a particular time when I was going out with this girl and we were starting to get serious...I remember we were just getting in the grove (basically like Dwayne explained it) we had the house to ourselves lights were turned down low soft music playing etc...we were kissing and touching each other and then snap...she stopped and said she didn't wanna go "all the way"..I remember getting upset with her because my hormones were going haywire at the moment and then all of a sudden everything went to a screeching halt...I didn't understand why she stopped..I kept trying to talk her into it but she said "no I really don't wanna do this". Then I remembered this episode and she was absolutely right...I was going too far and got upset with her about it but I apologized to her expeditiously I told her that I was WRONG by trying to convince her into doing what she really didn't wanna do..I told her she was right and that I was really sorry and it wouldn't happen again..from then on I NEVER made the 1st move...I always had the woman make the 1st move and I ALWAYS asked "are you sure you wanna do this"? As I said this episode taught me a very valuable lesson...
Right on, Jason Sprague. A woman’s body is sacred. And we have no right to tell who to give it up to sexually
We need shows like this again to teach us how to treat our partners
Respect for this show man. Sometimes we need this reminder.
Bills Cosby should have listened to his own show.
Jason Downs Damn!!!! That some shade
Jason Downs Bill put Lisa off of both shows. He doesnt give zero fucks.
Yolanda Crespo fuck cosby show good times way better
Wow...
His women didn’t say no because they didn’t get a chance to...
I was cheering when Dwayne rescued Freddie in the end, when she was about to get raped.
Gera WallStar , yeah, me too! He was such a good friend.
He a good friend and all but didn't he get his ass whooped?
They were dating in real life
Teddi Bear
Yeah but he's still a hero. As you would be too if you helped a friend like that.
We were all cheering!
Classic scene from a great show back in the day...
I just smiled when he said 'guys need to talk about this stuff too', because of how true that sentence is.
Sinbad said it best. When she (OR HE!) says no, IT MEANS YOU STOP!!!
Everything about this video is 100% spot on. No means no, and there's not a damn thing confusing about that. Second, everyone needs to talk about this kind of thing, because correct knowledge brings correct conduct. If you rape, you deserve to spend the best years of your life in prison.
We were so lucky to have good quality shows back in the day.
Great episode... this clip should be shown all over... everywhere.
People don't appreciate how far we've come since the 1960s and the start of the Sexual Revolution. This episode was aired because it was still a fairly novel idea that "no means no", and this was 1989. These days, "no means no" is a bedrock principle among everyone except the very worst people, to say nothing of how far we've come in terms of the importance of the ability to offer consent, or whether consent is informed or even coerced.
Robocop: SHE SAID NO. Maybe you have a hearing problem?
Sinbad knew what he was talking about. It's too bad other people aren't listening to his mouth or paying attention.
Sinbad is wise : If a woman says no and you don't listen to her that's rape end of discussion case closed 10 to 20.
When he jumped in the sunroof that was the best part
Back when sitcoms got it right and had respect for their audiences intellegence.
Consent means everything no means NO!
If a woman says no, find one who says yes.
Memorable scene and still pertinent today
No means No and don't forget it.
To be the writers room for this episode would be cool. I wonder what that was like. Great underrated show all around
The episode was written by Margie Peters and Bill Cosby.
I appreciate the direction that Miss Debbie Allen took this show after she took over...
A different world was a fantastic show......funny as hell but dealt with some real heavy social topics too. To me, this is exactly what a sitcom should be like.
I know. This is what Different Strokes should've done in the bicycle man episode: balance out humour and dark moments. Instead we got humour at inappropriate moments.
Later in the series, Dwayne replaces Walter as Professor Wayne.
"Jeffrey Osborne is telling you that you're going all the way..." 😂😂😂
Was super mad the character portrayed as an idiot douche, was my man Taimak aka Bruce Leroy.
Guys definitely need to talk about this stuff.
Love these reruns.
I just learned that ! If a girl says no more than once it's considered sexual assault. Wish I would've known that earlier
+Lindsey Schuyler No. I'm a woman who just found out she was sexually assaulted.. A couple years ago
If a girl says no at any point, even just once, it's sexual assault.
My favorite episode of a different world
Who still watching a different world
Thank you for this Simbad
I remember this episode. Great message.
Can somebody post the whole episode!!! I woukd love that...
As a child of the 80s I have NEVER seen this show or even knew it existed... Holy fuck
@xtrmst_01 absolutely the lame 80s were the best I have no idea what you're talking about
ADW was making this point back when movies still made jokes about a guy "going for it"
Why isn't this on Netflix?
It is
But I can't find it... I've been searching for months now.
Kimeka Gallier Try looking one more time; I just got done watching it on there :)
+Kathryn Elizabeth Okay I will
They removed it but Amazon streaming has it.
Hey Trump! Did you ever watch this episode? You need to if you havent
Bill Clinton, too. We know what happened with Monica.
mkl62 Monica was just the tip of the iceberg...
silkdragon504 LMAO fool. He was talking about groupies dipshit.
lol
tamak was on this episode
I guess 5 people don't understand no means no
Yes!... YES!.... "guys need to talk about this stuff, too."
Didn't your daddy have this talk with you?
Janell Irving Yeah, that’s funny!! 😂😂😂😂😂
*Created by Bill Cosby.*
Oh the irony. 🤦🏻♂️
Somebody please post the whole episode...i have looking for that for years...
And the dude was so charming...smh
Public Service Announcement. 👍👍👍🙌🙌🙌.
This is the spin off to the Cosby show (awkward)...
No means no
Oh dear
I remember this
Why can't someone upload a scene from this episode with Taimak?
Walter the boss
Awesome
10 to 20 !!! ... Unless you're Bill Cosby ... If that guy gets acquitted, Women should really be Upset !
true dat
facts 💯
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great :)
This scene is hypocritical considering Mr.Cosby right now.
Uh huh
yassssss
yassss
Five rapists watched this video
And the rest became serial killers and heading to the chair and the needle 💉 💺 ⚡ 👹
Sinbad the ultimate WHITE KNIGHT MANGINA
+romans52345 what do you mean by that?
romans52345
Yeah but still Case Closed 10 to 20 years if you don't