De-Transitioner: Here’s What Her Doctors Didn’t Tell Her

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  • čas přidán 11. 01. 2023
  • Dr Peterson and Chloe Cole walk through her early childhood as she was going through puberty leading up to her transition. Jordan breaks down her gender dysphoria from a psychologist's point of view.
    Chloe Cole is an 18-year-old de-transitioner from The Central Valley of California. She started her transition at 12 years old, puberty blockers and testosterone at 13, and had a double mastectomy at 15 years old. She is now a strong advocate against gender ideology.
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  • @treyjenkins5672
    @treyjenkins5672 Před rokem +9692

    Ironic how this man is at risk of losing his license and yet the doctors that completely screwed this young woman are not being prosecuted.

    • @Selenium764
      @Selenium764 Před rokem +79

      It was her decision. Don’t blame the doctors for her lack of her own research. 🙄

    • @mikefamm5712
      @mikefamm5712 Před rokem

      @@Selenium764 at 13 years old? Do you have any idea how sick you sound? Do you believe children can consent to life altering, irreversible changes made by adults? Do you think kids even have the ability to think long-term?? Do you REALLY not put this on the Doctors who told her that her problem is being transgender and that making these changes will make it better? You’re a sad person and I genuinely hope you find God.

    • @romanticblossom
      @romanticblossom Před rokem +1389

      ​@@Selenium764 she was a minor, and also, she didn't have the obligation to explain the pros and cons of doing a procedure, that's always the doctor's responsibility.

    • @siongoodier5330
      @siongoodier5330 Před rokem +410

      ​@@Selenium764 plus your forgeting that the health sector in america releys insurance and private payment , so i suppose its easy money for them as soon as she leaves the hospital them doctors arnt worried about her or her health

    • @Sheskis
      @Sheskis Před rokem +378

      @@Selenium764
      Where were her PARENTS during these decisions 🤔

  • @hugh_manatee
    @hugh_manatee Před rokem +15864

    Imagine having someone like this in schools to explain real issues to students instead of misinforming them

    • @freebird7369
      @freebird7369 Před rokem +273

      It would probably be best to leave controversial subjects out of school and in the hands of parents.

    • @zrl1017
      @zrl1017 Před rokem

      @@freebird7369it’s only controversial because of the bullshit that’s been taught for years now. Even back when being gay was held on the same level that being trans is held on now. It’s controversial because of the misinformation.

    • @tigerdcd
      @tigerdcd Před rokem +196

      oh man just imagine that, such a less chaotic world that uses reason and logic, sounds so blissful

    • @kevinshamrok
      @kevinshamrok Před rokem +65

      @@freebird7369 real issues that effect less than 1% of the trans community which in itself is a small community when compared to the rest of society?

    • @eldenlordnux1802
      @eldenlordnux1802 Před rokem +79

      I would have been such a better person if he was a guidance counselor.

  • @cullen3624
    @cullen3624 Před 3 měsíci +542

    The girl deserves a lot of credit for discussing this in public!

    • @kathymceachern3247
      @kathymceachern3247 Před 2 měsíci +21

      Chloe has testified in front of Congress! She’s extremely courageous, and is trying to stop it happening to other children. I can’t say how many of them HEARD her .. but you’re right, she deserves a lot of credit.

    • @spacecadet4876
      @spacecadet4876 Před 2 měsíci +10

      So true. Takes my breath away. An amazing beautiful person.

    • @haleyspapa
      @haleyspapa Před měsícem +2

      Now this is personal accountability.

    • @EarthsGeomancer
      @EarthsGeomancer Před měsícem +2

      Don't believe everything you see in the internet.

    • @woundedhealer999
      @woundedhealer999 Před měsícem +4

      Not a girl.

  • @pnoonan4018
    @pnoonan4018 Před 8 měsíci +1125

    I am floored at how brave this person is to put her own therapy session on CZcams. Thank you for doing this. I hope people (younger especially) take heed.

    • @thebreifcaseman269
      @thebreifcaseman269 Před 7 měsíci +18

      This is not a therapy session and more informative warning to those that believe all the nonsense you see trans activists spreading all over the internet tbh quite honest and to kids that may believe transitioning is what they need to do to fix their problems. He would be bound by confidentiality if this was in fact a therapy session and wouldn't be allowed to post it. The writing he is doing isn't taking notes and more probably crossing of notes he had given himself as prompts Or questions. I would think they would have had a conversation about what she was comfortable sharing before the making of the video given the invasive nature of the conversation. It's deeply personal. So having prompts or questions written down before hand would be helpful in keeping the conversation within the boundaries already set.

    • @pnoonan4018
      @pnoonan4018 Před 7 měsíci +45

      @@thebreifcaseman269 The bravery that this young woman possess to help others with gender dysphoria is the premise of my reply. Splitting hairs about semantics disinterests me. Call it a therapy session. Call it a recorded conversation. Call it Bob. It matters not. Please don't confuse the topic with a strawman argument.

    • @Peculiarsafe83
      @Peculiarsafe83 Před 5 měsíci

      @@pnoonan4018His/He. Use the right pronouns.

    • @HumansAreShitFactories
      @HumansAreShitFactories Před 4 měsíci

      @@pnoonan4018Intelligent, thinking people recognise nuance and discriminate. Thick people say “oh it doesn’t matter”.

    • @TheDoomsdayzoner
      @TheDoomsdayzoner Před 4 měsíci +13

      ​@@thebreifcaseman269 It is quite brave to do such a video, exposing yourself to the world, despite your trauma - all to save kids from being butchered.

  • @nerdalert27
    @nerdalert27 Před rokem +5702

    I was a hardcore tomboy, around age 8 I began to wear boy clothes, cut my hair, even had my family call me a boy name and now I’m 23, very feminine, straight , and love being a woman and mother. I’m so glad my parents let me be who I was and left it at that, no labels or medical intervention

    • @freiat.9734
      @freiat.9734 Před rokem +362

      My daughter, when she was very young (3 years) she said she was a boy. We said her she was a girl. Then she became a little angry and said: "when I am older I will become a boy". We tolded her that was possible to change as adult.
      She accepted that after a few discutions.
      Now she is still a woman and is happy to be a woman.

    • @ThaQueen5566
      @ThaQueen5566 Před rokem +36

      Same

    • @reneeangele4766
      @reneeangele4766 Před rokem +105

      My sister was the same. And a very happy mother and wife today.

    • @sincerely-b
      @sincerely-b Před rokem +122

      We were allowed to exist and be loved as is back then, whether we were girly or not. It was wonderful.

    • @BleakVision
      @BleakVision Před rokem +119

      @Freia T. It is only possible in a legal and cosmetic sense.
      But no woman has ever physically become a man ever.

  • @gsherk6978
    @gsherk6978 Před rokem +2638

    Double mastectomy at 13.!!! Why would any doctor allow that!! I’m so sorry for her 😢

    • @gerardk51
      @gerardk51 Před rokem +217

      "Doctors" that do that have a lot to answer for. "Doctors" guilty of that kind of abuse should have something chopped off of them.

    • @leathermissalcovers2885
      @leathermissalcovers2885 Před rokem +148

      Yep, That is criminal! They wrecked this girls life

    • @twentytwo138
      @twentytwo138 Před rokem +235

      Money money money money MOONEY! MOOOOONEY!

    • @pauladams8475
      @pauladams8475 Před rokem

      Insanity to commit such an act and then demonising those that practice FGM. What a world of double standards, and what a crazy deranged species we humans are.

    • @silverforest4682
      @silverforest4682 Před rokem +100

      Agreed. Surgery should wait till adulthood.

  • @MommaARA
    @MommaARA Před 6 měsíci +267

    As a mom who raised daughters through puberty, I can confirm that adolescents going through puberty will experience a wide range of curiosities and emotions. They do not know who or what they are. They have no idea what their preferences are BEFORE they experience anything. Leaving them be mentally and letting them ask questions was the best choice. Both of my girls thought they might be gay or bi simply because the other malformed teenage boys around them weren't interested. Has nothing to do with it. Children transitioning to adulthood do not know how to act or think like developed adults. I never told them no. I never told them they were bad, wrong, or gross. Both have grown out of it.

    • @Alias3141
      @Alias3141 Před 3 měsíci +18

      My armchair opinion is that this is the consequence of raising a weak willed society where nobody wants to hurt anyone's feelings. Parents do not want to hurt their kids feelings and so accept their confused feelings as truth rather than make them and themselves uncomfortable by guiding them through the confusion as they are meant to. Strong willed parents are seen as controlling, evil, and backwards to those who don't have the fortitude to guide the next generation properly. And our society gets to the point it is at today.

    • @trxpho._
      @trxpho._ Před 3 měsíci +4

      My mom is just like you and I grew out of it,honestly being a teenager is all about identity and exploring it on your own teaches you so much I'm 16 now and no longer "trans" I'm grateful to my mom for not judging me while I was going through it because it could've affected me mentally being a 13 year old that knew nothing but I can tell she's proud to see me growing and finding myself, she's the best

    • @englishatheart
      @englishatheart Před 3 měsíci +5

      That's simply not true for everyone, so please don't generalize. I have always known who and what I am. I grew up with boy cousins as I was an only child and the only girl amongst those in my "family" I actually knew and spent time with. I still prefer guy friends over females because we usually vibe better. I never liked dolls, didn't like dresses for the longest time, I didn't/don't like makeup, high heels, or dolls. I still never once thought I was a boy and I have always known I was straight from the moment I started school and was around boys I wasn't related to. You don't have to experience things in order to know if you feel drawn to or repelled by them.

    • @MommaARA
      @MommaARA Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@englishatheart When it comes to sexual preference Yes it is psychologically proven you need to experience these things and the emotions attached to them to know whom you prefer. This is why sexual abuse at a young age can drastically change the way a person views who is safe through attraction. This is not the same as liking or disliking inanimate objects like dolls or trucks. This the very basis of how we interact with the same and opposite sex in regards to trust, attraction, love, relationships, children, and a whole host of subconscious expectations that were shaped by.....Experiences. Even as a baby the brain is absorbing information and storing it for later use. As the brain grows so does the capacity to hold information and utilize it. Prefacing your argument with "not everyone" and "don't generalize" shows you are not actually thinking about the topic more than replying to correct.

    • @sandradube4456
      @sandradube4456 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@MommaARAas a clinical psychologist I can tell you there is no such theory in psychology.

  • @Bananaman-jm4xl
    @Bananaman-jm4xl Před 3 měsíci +45

    My ex girlfriend is a trans man who regrets transitioning. She was encouraged in middle school to start thinking about transitioning because she was a tomboy who was attracted to girls and when her parents asked her if she wanted to be a boy she thought it seemed fun. After hormones and top surgery she realized she likes boys and wants to be a girl and a mom. But her parents and therapist encouraged her to try and reject those feeling s and commit to transitioning. After she finished hormone therapy she was infertile, which was something she was specifically told would not happen by her doctor. When we met she was suicidal because of how hopeless she felt in her situation. We dated for six months and fell in love. But she was ashamed of her body and that she couldn’t make babies knowing both of us want to be parents. I didn’t hold that against her, we could have adopted, but she couldn’t keep the suicidal thoughts away and eventually broke things off with me and moved away because a relationship was to much for her to handle being that unstable. She couldn’t handle the guilt, shame and regret she felt. The more supportive I tried to be the more she felt bad about being with me. When she shared her experiences and regret with me it was the saddest and most hopeless thing I could ever imagine. She was so young, impressionable and trusting as a kid and the people she trusted ruined her life.
    Anyone who thinks kids are old enough to to consent to that madness should know this. At 18 she changed her name to Richard so she can go by Dick because she thought it would be funny to be a Dickless Dick. But she hates the name Richard. When she told people her name is Dick and the reason why she would get made fun of, which should be expected when your friends are that ages. So after only a couple weeks she started going by Richard, which she hates. She’s so traumatized by the changes she did to herself that she refused to change her name again. So every time someone calls her by her name it reminds her of all of her regrets. That’s not the decisions making of a person who is mature enough to make those decisions. She was 18 when she did that. They are pushing this stuff on kids way younger than that.

    • @Sed_Contra
      @Sed_Contra Před 25 dny +6

      This is so sad. 😢😢 Thanks for sharing this. I will pray for her.

    • @robbisson6317
      @robbisson6317 Před 3 dny +2

      Doctor should be liable. That is very disgustingly gross.

  • @SongbirdGLS
    @SongbirdGLS Před rokem +4534

    I was a tomboy, my mother didn't discourage it. But I was never allowed to forget that I was a girl. I was well dressed, hair done, etc. Tore the knees out of slacks, got dirty, but it was okay. Mom made me confident, comfortable in my skin. I was tall, she taught me to embrace it. Whatever I'd dislike in the mirror, she coached me to love as who I am. I did this with my boys. Embrace who you were created to be. Love starts in the heart.

    • @tkern2
      @tkern2 Před rokem +187

      Amen! You have a great mother and sounds like it passed on to you.

    • @Ethian315
      @Ethian315 Před rokem +131

      This is the correct mindset.

    • @MrBCorp
      @MrBCorp Před rokem +71

      Exactly! We really need to learn to accept ourselves. We are our own person.

    • @jacobparis5903
      @jacobparis5903 Před rokem +53

      Mum always knows best! That's why these parents who go along with the transition process are horrible parents

    • @thebackrooms7511
      @thebackrooms7511 Před rokem +13

      @@jacobparis5903 YES!

  • @MrGuzman72
    @MrGuzman72 Před rokem +882

    My daughter started developing at 10, by 12 going through puberty, she hated it, she didn’t like boobs, she didn’t want them, she said she wanted to get a hysterectomy because she didn’t want a period or babies, I sat her down and explained to her, 2 years ago you loved dresses, 2 years ago you liked ponytails, today you don’t. There’s a reason why I wouldn’t let you get a tattoo is because what you like today you can dislike tomorrow. Having boobs and a period is normal, I also explained to her that her sister at her age was the same way. She’s almost 15 now and is accepting of herself, if I would of bought into what they are pushing I would of done great damage to my daughter, I’ve told my kids that your are perfect them way you were made.

    • @wakuku3916
      @wakuku3916 Před 6 měsíci +133

      12 yr/o wanting a hysterectomy... blame the internet for that. still you did a good job.

    • @MRImage1987
      @MRImage1987 Před 5 měsíci

      @@wakuku3916 *Trans ideologues on the internet poisoning children.

    • @SuperDrLisa
      @SuperDrLisa Před 4 měsíci +35

      Great mom.

    • @woozledog
      @woozledog Před 4 měsíci +31

      Had the same thing with our daughter. Thank you so much for staying true to your gut feeling. Fucking love you. Her mom and family gave her a phone against my wishes. I'm her step dad, but had to put my foot down. Was a rough road but goddammit she's OK now

    • @woozledog
      @woozledog Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@SuperDrLisa "MrGuzman" lol

  • @lisamcphee8923
    @lisamcphee8923 Před 9 měsíci +104

    Every parent with a confused child should be made to watch this with said child.

    • @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed
      @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed Před měsícem +5

      About 90% wouldnt be confused if they got off the damn internet. This virtual realm IS real. We are all real people providing a very real experience and influence on each other.

    • @Ariella-mx3xq4cw6n
      @Ariella-mx3xq4cw6n Před 4 dny +1

      ​​@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed I would put it at 99% wouldn't be confused about their sex if they got off social media and parents started putting their feet down when it comes to the libral left woke teachers.
      We were called tom boys if we had those male tendencies, but we were girls and that was that. I knew I was female and I am NOT homosexual.
      Now I don't even have any ovaries but I'm still female. It made no difference. I'm XX still

  • @mysweetesttime
    @mysweetesttime Před 3 měsíci +31

    Hearing him speaking about negative emotions when women hit puberty made me realize just how lucky I was to have a psychologist as my mom who was there to support me as I also hit my puberty really early. I freaked out on so many levels with my period, hormonal imbalances, depression, my body changed way too quickly and I was in a constant conflict in my head… frustration was too real. But I had support, and she was always there to explain everything I was going through. Never would I have imagined that now days there would be people using the immense confusion that puberty and adolescence causes us to their advantage…

  • @legs_11.82
    @legs_11.82 Před rokem +6341

    How the best psychologist is at risk of losing his licence is beyond me.

    • @barbaraz5251
      @barbaraz5251 Před rokem +694

      that's why. he makes others look like the liars they are.

    • @tomasvetrak
      @tomasvetrak Před rokem

      Because that judgement is not based on his quality. The puppet masters are afraid of his influence and knowledge

    • @LadyGreyAgeingDisGracefully
      @LadyGreyAgeingDisGracefully Před rokem

      Tall poppy syndrome. Cut down those who have shown themselves as leaders in a field beyond what they group is comfortable with. They operate from fear and jealousy when doing so.

    • @dabstradamus
      @dabstradamus Před rokem +946

      no one is hated more than he who speaks the truth. its a backwards world we live in

    • @HawkeyePierce1981
      @HawkeyePierce1981 Před rokem +74

      @@dabstradamus Very true.

  • @sbender3787
    @sbender3787 Před rokem +4282

    Mom explained menstruation to me at 8. I had my 1st period at 9. Mom also explained the emotional side to puberty. This was in the early 1960s. At that time, nearly all the "tomboys" grew up to be happily married women.

    • @mindedempath
      @mindedempath Před rokem +535

      I was just thinking this thr other day. I was a tomboy who played basketball until I was 18. No one tried to label me as anything and no one thought I was trying to be a boy. I was just a girl who loved baggy clothes. I am now a wife and mother. Do tomboy even exist anymore?

    • @landryharrell7
      @landryharrell7 Před rokem +228

      Yes! Here I am! I feel like we are a dying breed…I’ve been a tomboy all my life (I’m 20 now) and probably will never grow out of it. I type this in my sweatpants and SnapBack hat haha! But I’ve always been straight and have been with my Boyfriend over 2 years!

    • @mindedempath
      @mindedempath Před rokem +107

      @@landryharrell7 You never really grow out of it haha no matter how fancy I dress or how high my heels are, I will always feel like the baggier the better. I love being a tomboy!

    • @charlottehayward5943
      @charlottehayward5943 Před rokem +34

      Yep I'm one of them.

    • @marilynyoung8477
      @marilynyoung8477 Před rokem +65

      My mom told me at age 8 and I had my first period at 9 too. I then developed endometriosis over the years and had a hysterectomy at 41 because of all the endometrium pre cancer. I already had a daughter and now at 67 have 2 awesome grandsons, 2 Mos and 2 years .

  • @Faramous
    @Faramous Před 3 měsíci +35

    The courage it must take for this lady to come on and talk about this is amazing. Respect.

  • @shawng7902
    @shawng7902 Před 3 měsíci +29

    I listen to him for hours. The way he explains situations that dont even pertain to me, still teach me so much. He could breakdown just about anything to terms someone will understand.

  • @breyette4697
    @breyette4697 Před rokem +1993

    People should not be told to transition while they are ALREADY transitioning from a child to a reproductive adult. One of the most important parts of testing a hypothesis is to have ONLY ONE VARIABLE. My heart breaks for all of these children who were lied to, abused and irrevocably mutilated.

    • @StreetPreacherr
      @StreetPreacherr Před rokem +88

      Yes! Puberty is often 'difficult' for MANY people.
      However, now doctors are suggesting that the 'discomfort' experienced during puberty can be 'helped' by these types of 'procedures'?

    • @JustBuyTheWaywardsRealms
      @JustBuyTheWaywardsRealms Před rokem +88

      @@StreetPreacherr that's fucked up. no children is mature enough to make those type of choice.

    • @breyette4697
      @breyette4697 Před rokem +35

      @@StreetPreacherr exactly!! For girls getting our periods, experiencing the hormonal changes and high levels of negative emotions is such a life altering experience. It does make us feel that we're changing into a new person but these days girls don't get much encouragement by their peers. They're told they should take hormonal birth control to fix their "problematic" periods and become medical experiments by doing so. If they were told it increases their risk of beast cancer by 50% I bet they wouldn't do it. Its also so sad to see a similar thing happen with boys and men. People are too critical of others and not critical enough of themselves imo. And then we get into "self esteem" 🙄

    • @grider421
      @grider421 Před rokem

      @@StreetPreacherr the only thing these monsters make more money from is the sale of aborted baby organs and tissue. unimaginable sadistic and cruel don’t begin to describe the crimes these monsters commit every day

    • @MrTruthAddict
      @MrTruthAddict Před rokem

      They aren't TOLD anything. This is an evil fascist lie that Peterson is pushing. You're gullible fools if you believe this.
      Peterson is courting the lunatic fringe evangelicals with this lunacy. He knows they'll swallow this whole and worship him for taking up their fake outrage cultural war.
      He's a fraud and a grifter who will say anything for a dollar.

  • @rymilli
    @rymilli Před rokem +1307

    It breaks my heart that nobody had this conversation with her years ago.

    • @miaash3870
      @miaash3870 Před rokem +18

      These are surely issues for the parents to help their child with!

    • @c.kainoabugado7935
      @c.kainoabugado7935 Před rokem

      It's not a common conversation. This comment sounds like an assumption that every parent knows or understands what this doctor is explaining. (And the other comment in this thread replies included). That's a FALSE assumption and unfair to compare parents knowledge with a doctor's knowledge. Not every parent has the opportunity to be a doctor.
      DOCTORS ARE SCAMMING CHILDREN PERIOD.

    • @elsiem7295
      @elsiem7295 Před rokem +7

      I believe there are few people in the world who get that conversation. I didn't even know what a period was when I first got mine. It still blows my mind till this day but I basically raised myself.

    • @steveogwankwa5654
      @steveogwankwa5654 Před rokem +8

      ​@@elsiem7295 if I was a girl and I had my first period without knowledge of what's happening I would honestly think am about die 😅

    • @gugeyao8640
      @gugeyao8640 Před rokem +1

      Thanks for having a heart. Lots of us don’t.

  • @emilieclarke5074
    @emilieclarke5074 Před 4 měsíci +26

    36 year old woman... never had this explained to me either.
    This is so SO helpful!

    • @Anna_Stetik
      @Anna_Stetik Před 15 dny

      Me neither, and I'm older than you. Wish I would have known this as a teen. I hated myself. I look at pics of me as a teen and see a cute girl. Can't believe I thought I was ugly. Every kid needs to hear what Dr. Peterson said here.

  • @Paragonpariah
    @Paragonpariah Před 3 měsíci +16

    She seems lovely, I'm sorry those doctors were allowed to do the damage that they did. Jordan is fighting a very important fight and we need to support him

  • @maxe16
    @maxe16 Před rokem +3212

    The fact, that people repeatedly attempt to cancel him and now try to take his license… we should be thankful for his voice! In fact our world needs more of this kind of people… unfortunately Dr. Peterson is very unique. We appreciate you Professor! Please stay safe and well!!!

    • @rishiramkissoon6976
      @rishiramkissoon6976 Před rokem +62

      he is the only voice of reason in the social science field

    • @7spiritualcompass706
      @7spiritualcompass706 Před rokem +13

      @@rishiramkissoon6976 Agree.

    • @padillaj492
      @padillaj492 Před rokem

      Thats what happens when you criticize the Fuhrer. They come after you. First Trudeau came for the truckers... then the psychologists. When he comes for the jews or whatever is next, there will be no one left to speak up. Just a normal day in nazi germa- I mean canada.

    • @daynarisbarathion8602
      @daynarisbarathion8602 Před rokem +4

      He is _saying_ part of the truth.
      But odd how he's *consistently* bringing these things up 3 or 4 years late each time...

    • @chinchillacoat7465
      @chinchillacoat7465 Před rokem +12

      @@daynarisbarathion8602 whats these things

  • @miapdx503
    @miapdx503 Před 10 měsíci +364

    Anyone who would mutilate a minor deserves prison time.

    • @EarthsGeomancer
      @EarthsGeomancer Před měsícem +15

      Imagine all the doctors that perform circumcision.

    • @sublimnalphish7232
      @sublimnalphish7232 Před měsícem +6

      I second that! 🤚🏼

    • @jiafei6833122
      @jiafei6833122 Před měsícem

      @@EarthsGeomancer This is rather idiotic.
      Circumcision doesn't stop the penis from performing any of its intended function.

    • @Vintageshutters
      @Vintageshutters Před měsícem +10

      @@EarthsGeomancerapples and oranges

    • @MelHS-gr4lv
      @MelHS-gr4lv Před měsícem

      @@Vintageshutters JESUS CHRIST WHAT is with that ridiculous insanity WHAT in idiotic bs are you smoking with that. DO YOU EVEN UNDERSTAND THE QUESTION he was talking about YOU HAVE NO FRICKING IDEA WHAT you are talking about. Jesus Christ buddy GET A FRICKING CLUE ROFL :D

  • @strawberry-vl8ki
    @strawberry-vl8ki Před 3 měsíci +6

    my child is 13 and going through puberty. She hates it, hair growing in areas they didnt before, wearing bralets, she dreaded her monthly period coz its annoying and uncomfortable, sometimes painful, she's become very emotional. I talked to my kid (couple times), told her my experience of puberty growing up, reassured her that what she's going through is perfectly normal, and that mama's always here and she can always talk to me about anything, and that how and what she's feeling is valid and she has all the right to feel that way.

  • @DB-cx6cb
    @DB-cx6cb Před 4 měsíci +11

    This is heartbreaking. I have two daughters and they both wanted breast implants at thirteen. I refused and years later they developed but the emotional shame is influenced by friends who developed earlier. Prayers for this beautiful young girl to find peace and comfort.

  • @andreamurphy2470
    @andreamurphy2470 Před rokem +2335

    Loved the fact he treated her as an intelligent mature adult.

    • @scottjulius2834
      @scottjulius2834 Před rokem +167

      Mr. Peterson is a professional clinical psychologist. I would like to emphasize professional

    • @juventino2144
      @juventino2144 Před rokem +80

      why shouldnt he?

    • @iamjsams755
      @iamjsams755 Před rokem +80

      She is mature and intelligent.

    • @chuckrobinson599
      @chuckrobinson599 Před rokem

      ​@@spur007 did you hear her say she had a double mastectomy? If she were a he, she wouldn't have needed that.

    • @chuckrobinson599
      @chuckrobinson599 Před rokem

      You've been immersed in feminism for way too long. Feminist ridicule men, men don't belittle women without good cause.

  • @Mansplaner63
    @Mansplaner63 Před rokem +1158

    This happened to my daughter. I didn’t affirm, she didn’t kill herself. We had to move because the school was absolutely insane. She is a happy girl now and I’m so thankful that I saw what she was going through.

    • @exoticalBecky_Miami
      @exoticalBecky_Miami Před rokem +1

      I'm a liberal. Watch conservative CZcams just to break bread with others... I'm also a teacher... What I cannot get these teachers to understand as number one there are not enough hours in the day for math... But the very fundamental nature of LGBTQ is sexual intercourse and how you prefer it... That doesn't belong in a school as open-minded as I am and sex certainly happens in high schools and Junior high's but not involving the teacher usually hopefully... I don't want to have these discussions with these kids there's kind of no way to have it if you're talkin about lgbtq

    • @Mansplaner63
      @Mansplaner63 Před rokem +101

      @@exoticalBecky_Miami thanks for this comment. My husband and I have been saying this for years! I don’t understand why the school is involved with any of this. Sexual preferences should be a private matter that you work out on your on in your own time. I’m happy that there are sane teachers out there!! Keep on spreading the word

    • @black-aliss
      @black-aliss Před rokem +1

      Even the schools are funneling patients to hormone peddlers, it seems. Disgraceful.

    • @godspeedhero3671
      @godspeedhero3671 Před rokem +2

      How old is she now?

    • @Mansplaner63
      @Mansplaner63 Před rokem +70

      @@godspeedhero3671 17 she started her delusion just before she turned 13. It was a pretty dark time

  • @johnaugsbury1638
    @johnaugsbury1638 Před 5 měsíci +83

    My heart goes out to this young woman and the trials she has been through. She shows great courage is sharing her journey.

  • @Loyalty80
    @Loyalty80 Před 4 měsíci +4

    There should be a law stating that no child can get a sex change surgery until they are between the ages of 18-21. As a child, you are learning the ways of the world, not just school things but feelings too. I’ve known many men who when they were young boys would play with dolls with their sisters. This didn’t make them gay! Boys playing with dolls basically prepared them for fatherhood, just like when girls do for motherhood. There’s also quite a lot of stories of adults who got sex changes at a young age that regretted it. Huge decisions should be done at an adult age.

  • @FrankValchiria
    @FrankValchiria Před rokem +3026

    i have no idea why so many hate this man, he is truly a great psychologist

    • @JohnDoe-jt5lb
      @JohnDoe-jt5lb Před rokem +551

      No one is hated more than the man who speaks the truth.

    • @Spencerianism
      @Spencerianism Před rokem +290

      In a decaying society, truth tellers are the first to get scolded.
      Misery loves company to sustain itself.

    • @MrAllstar
      @MrAllstar Před rokem +44

      I just wish he would stay out of politics because that’s what muddies his otherwise clear waters.

    • @JohnDoe-jt5lb
      @JohnDoe-jt5lb Před rokem +210

      @@MrAllstar he's not political. He jist calls a dictator a dictator. There's a difference.

    • @elbow6380
      @elbow6380 Před rokem +78

      Media brainwashed sheep. He a great man

  • @rave400v6
    @rave400v6 Před rokem +1330

    What they did to her was absolutely unforgivable. It's infuriating.

    • @rtd7066
      @rtd7066 Před 10 měsíci +9

      I don’t feel this person is telling the whole story. Not sure but this generation always thinks they know best and don’t want to listen to anyone older and wiser then them and can be quite arrogant about it. Not saying this is the case … but I am left wondering. It’s easy to blame and not be accountable. Once again, not sure that this is the case but…this is not he first case … and some are suing without first looking at how they contributed to the situation. And, I am deeply sorry that this person is in this situation and in suffering❤

    • @viincanity
      @viincanity Před 10 měsíci +50

      @@rtd7066 fair enough (maybe) but you really expect a 13 YO to make a decision on this kind of stuff?! As if at that age people (kids ffs) can make responsible decisions on such important topics.

    • @a.m.h.2819
      @a.m.h.2819 Před 10 měsíci

      @@rtd7066 She was a child. Stop being an idiot.

    • @JDRChief420
      @JDRChief420 Před 10 měsíci +15

      @@rtd7066 exactly why they should not have the ability to access these things until they can think for themselves like when they are adults! they are children and they don't even have a pre frontal cortex so wait till your 18-21 😇

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 Před 10 měsíci

      it happens to plenty of children youth and adults. so why question their story. THEIR story..@@rtd7066

  • @AlonyaJ
    @AlonyaJ Před 3 měsíci +12

    Chloe, you are one of the bravest people I have ever stumbled across. Please continue being a shining star in the universe of humanity. I am humbled to have been allowed to view this. Thank you.

  • @kf8ht5
    @kf8ht5 Před 2 měsíci +2

    It's the fact that she has my EXACT story and I went most of my life being "androgynous" and "gender fluid" and feeling like I "should just be a boy" until I had my son. And it took me being pregnant and this all happening for it to make me realize I'm autistic, my son got diagnosed. And everything made sense. Gender and sexuality were always confusing to me as a kid until I saw all of this occurring and it made me realize it was just a lot of trauma and misunderstanding that women come in all shapes and sizes and i wasn't any less attractive for not being societies "ideal" as a young human. At 32 I'm happy as hell that I'm a woman and I've worked through most of my trauma. But like bigger people getting skinny, you kinda never forget the mentality you had and the realization about how you thought you were experiencing life versus what was actually happening. Being so literal when being autistic, we need someone to give further explanations. Or it's literally black and white and we just take that because we just want to not feel "weird" and just want to "fit in and be normal". I was not like most girls.. but that was okay. I wish someone had told me.. I hated myself for so so long.

  • @shughy1
    @shughy1 Před rokem +765

    Jordan's level of focus, attention, compassion and knowledge is incredible. The Ontario college of Psychology in Canada should be ashamed for how they are treating Jordan. He has helped millions of people around the world, mostly for free. The College is clearly unfit for purpose

    • @ImJustSayingLOL
      @ImJustSayingLOL Před rokem

      @@TrainWreck444 that's what he said you fool. Is reading hard for you ?

    • @lulubeukes2296
      @lulubeukes2296 Před rokem +1

      He might have helped many people, but he also spread a lot of misinformation and views that harm people. He might be a good psychologist by the book, but I genuinly don't think he's a good person.

    • @TheWhills
      @TheWhills Před rokem +18

      @Lulu Beukes May I ask why you think he's not a good person and what misinformation he spread? Not trying to spark an argument, but debate.

    • @shughy1
      @shughy1 Před rokem +27

      @@lulubeukes2296 rather than just slag him off with vague insults, how about naming what you disagreed with as you're playing the man not the ball.

    • @lulubeukes2296
      @lulubeukes2296 Před rokem +3

      @@TheWhills I think he overstates the harm trans people do, villifying them instead of trying to understand their arguements. From what I can see his actions aren't driven by compassion but rather a will to inforce a rigid world view and gain liking with other popular conservative personalities, like Ben Shapiro. I judge people on their intentions, and I don't believe his are in good faith.
      I also don't agree with his takes on systematic racism, but that's a bit longer of a discussion.

  • @Sempiternal.Traditions
    @Sempiternal.Traditions Před rokem +1032

    I have no idea why she decided to talk with JP or why she’s being so candid but this is SO brave of her. It’s also incredibly helpful to society that this conversation is happening and being broadcast.

    • @shaec3405
      @shaec3405 Před rokem +77

      To help stop other kids from going thru this

    • @Sempiternal.Traditions
      @Sempiternal.Traditions Před rokem +12

      @@shaec3405 of course, and I truly hope it does. ❤️

    • @GORT70
      @GORT70 Před rokem +33

      She did it to be an example of why you don’t want to do that. Most adults don’t have that courage.

    • @Sempiternal.Traditions
      @Sempiternal.Traditions Před rokem +1

      @@GORT70 yes, I agree.

    • @queengoblin
      @queengoblin Před rokem +1

      she's a vocal anti trans activist

  • @garyevans8116
    @garyevans8116 Před 7 dny +3

    Any parent who allows their child to do this stuff should be charged with child abuse.

  • @Camuvingian
    @Camuvingian Před 9 měsíci +13

    She speaks incredibly. What a brave person...

  • @KingSkrap
    @KingSkrap Před rokem +3570

    I like how Peterson explains puberty perfectly when the schools litterly teach you nothing

    • @luisgarcia-chow3652
      @luisgarcia-chow3652 Před rokem +113

      Exactly. School teaches us nothing about hormones or puberty. To that point, the schools completely avoid this topic

    • @tthbro
      @tthbro Před rokem +16

      ​@@luisgarcia-chow3652 u were in school like 1940?

    • @davidcardinal3654
      @davidcardinal3654 Před rokem +11

      @@luisgarcia-chow3652 lol I remember sex ed. you might have been in school in the 40s and it was a forbidden topic

    • @desertedenblooms
      @desertedenblooms Před rokem

      schools are center of indoctinations they are no longer there to teach...they have not for a while, seeing the amount of illiteracy , stupidness, lack of understanding, narcissistic, no national pride these the youth and young adults exhibit.

    • @yessir8089
      @yessir8089 Před rokem +49

      Yes, they should at least teach you how to write "literally" properly !! (Just joking, friend)

  • @mals4142
    @mals4142 Před rokem +1911

    I was a huge tomboy growing up. I wanted to talk like a boy, play with boys toys, I wore boys clothes and even dressed like a boy at school. It was 100% just a phase. I am so thankful my parents, school, and social media didn't pressure me into acting on that. I am now a happy and healthy 21 year old girly girl and have absolutely no desire to be a stinky boy haha!

    • @sagen06
      @sagen06 Před rokem +30

      Love you too cootie girl 😘

    • @losthorizions1415
      @losthorizions1415 Před rokem +40

      Many are .. it's just circumstance and comradery as the play is fun but we all grow up😂... to many people interfering with agendas today ... and it's not like all us boys never put on a pair of our mother tights or tried walking in high heals when we was 6 😂

    • @lizzy-wx4rx
      @lizzy-wx4rx Před rokem +162

      Even if it's NOT a phase...you can be a sporty girl; a girl who doesn't like dresses or makeup; a girl who fixes cars; even a girl who likes other girls!! No need to physically mutilate yourself to be who you really are.

    • @pannacota4799
      @pannacota4799 Před rokem +25

      @@lizzy-wx4rx exactly, to the point

    • @connaeris8230
      @connaeris8230 Před rokem +4

      I'd like to ask you a question. Did you want to be like the boys you knew or were those things you actually liked?

  • @annelacoste90
    @annelacoste90 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I finally have a better understanding of what actually happens to us as children heading into puberty. Jordan is wonderful, educated, knowledgeable, and the only person I’ve ever heard explain it so clearly. I hope parents take note of this in order to better understand, love, and protect their children.

  • @boragjebrea7776
    @boragjebrea7776 Před 25 dny +2

    I really appreciate this woman sharing and expressing her experience for the public, and it’s so wonderful to see all the support in the comments. It’s beautiful. As a trans man myself, I only hope this very specific case of de-transitioning is not used as a tactic to inhibit many older youth to get what they need as a person who is trans in this society. It is really hard to live in this world with that title placed on you, not because it’s wrong or perverted, but because of the opinions people hold about trans youth AND adults trying to live their lives. It may seem as if this is all new, but this experience has been around for centuries through indigenous tribes, religious practices, and old societies incorporating and accepting those who do not fit into the sexual roles of a biological male or female. These things need to be talked about, those who de-transition, but please accept the existence of people that do experience dysphoria and go through that mental strife. Thank you for reading! Knowledge is power and all voices deserve to be heard, even if I disagree with some.

  • @catholicfemininity2126
    @catholicfemininity2126 Před rokem +2530

    I was a tomboy growing up, had pride that I was stronger than my brothers being the oldest... but once puberty hit, I was mad because I slowly found out that it was out of my control.... my brothers grew stronger and stronger and I had to work harder if I wanted to get buff. My parents never talked to me about any of this.... so I had it rough. Thank God I didn't grow up during this decade or they would've tried to turn me trans for sure. I finally accepted my femininity and it's value in my 20's.

    • @kellygalvin7775
      @kellygalvin7775 Před rokem +85

      Snap i almost felt like I’d been punished when you eventually aren’t faster or stronger than the boys

    • @SolidChristianTeachings
      @SolidChristianTeachings Před rokem +112

      Same! Same same same!!!
      If I was born 10-20 years later, I would have almost definitely ended up going down the trans female turning into male pipeline.
      I was a “tomboy” girl. And it was 100% due to the fact that my mother and society taught me that “Girls are weaker than boys. And girls have a harder time in life than boys..”
      My mother used to say things like that to me, word for word.
      If the parent tells a 4 or 5 year old kid that they are going to be weak if they are a girl-then of COURSE they are going to want to be a boy.
      And the same goes in reverse. Let’s say you have a male little boy, and his mother tells him, “Men are bad! Men are mean, violent, angry creatures. Men hurt people. Women are gentle, beautiful, and loving.” And you get an empathetic little boy who doesn’t want to hurt other people. Of course he is going to say inside his little brain, “Being a man is bad, I don’t want to hurt people! I want to be nice to people, so therefore I will be a girl!”
      And society accidentally reinforced those lies that were told to me in my life back then-back then, there was less girls in science, for example. Less girls in engineering. Less female doctors. Less female rocket ship builders. Etc. Women only got to either like makeup or stay at home and make babies and clean and cook.
      And all the clothing and toys(especially back then in the 90’s and 00’s) was like… ridiculously gendered. So sexist.
      The toys that girls only got to play with were sparkly neon makeup, dress up princess clothing, and Barbie dolls, and baby dolls.
      And boys got the cool toys like science kits, Lego sets, building stuff with tools, medical toys, bows and arrows, etc. and I liked that cool science stuff! I had several construction building kits. I had science kits. I liked play fighting games. I had a whole arsenal of pretend knives, bows and arrows, shields, swords, armor, etc. (I wish someone had taught little me about badass female Vikings! Being good at fighting to protect people you love, doesn’t have to be a male-only quality!)
      But I liked toys that boys were supposed to like, and I liked sports-so that would have made me female to male trans, right….? In today’s society, sadly it might.
      And even at school, the boys would pick me last for playing kickball or for sports teams, because I was the only girl in my classes who wanted to play kickball or play sports.
      They would even pick the boys who couldn’t kick as far as me, before me. 🙄 Because I was a “girl”.
      So I thought inside my little head, “I don’t want to be weak! Girls are weak! I want to be strong! I need to be a boy to be strong! And I want a job that makes a big difference in the world, I don’t want to stay home and cook and clean! So I don’t want to be a girl. I need to be a boy!”
      And I thought that way for a LOT of years. Even accidentally subconsciously, I viewed being a woman as being “weaker” than men.
      And it took years of self therapy that I basically gave myself as a teenager, to become more comfortable with my gender. And learning to not be afraid of looking beautiful, and that it wouldn’t make me “weaker”.
      and after I became a christian at age 21, I did even more years of prayer therapy with God and a several christian counselors. And now I understand that women are just as strong as men-our strengths just lie in different categories. Strong in different ways. And also it depends on the individuals themselves too, and almost nothing in life is black and white. Plus the gender talents can overlap. Plus some of the modern church does teach some lies and gender misinformation as well, but that’s a different story…
      Anyway. By like 17 or 18, was glad I was a girl and hadn’t transitioned into being a male. Like I was comfortable enough in my own female skin to be like, “Whew. I am glad I didn’t become trans. I like looking cute in a dress some days, when I feel like it. And looking cute isn’t necessarily a bad thing. And I’m not weaker, girls can be scientists too.”
      And even THEN, I was still not 100% fully comfortable in my gender until maybe like age 26 or so. Because then I had to break out of some christian church lies about gender that get forced wrongfully into women… and actually women CAN teach and those verses that supposedly claim that women are weaker and claim that women cannot teach men are taken out of context…
      But anyway.
      Long story short: it was only because of society’s lies, and my mother’s lies, and school kids’ bullying at recess, and some church bullying, that I had accidentally believed that girls were “weaker” than boys. And that those lies had tricked my mind into wanting to be a boy and not a girl. I was never really gender dysmorphic.
      But in today’s times, I would have probably been told that I was experiencing gender dysphoria. And been transitioned to male.
      When all I needed, was some therapy, to heal the trauma. And some gender-reaffirming care, for someone to reaffirm for me that being a woman is: strong, smart, beautiful, can succeed in sports, can succeed in the military, can do anything she wants, can be a rocket scientists or an automotive engineer too, can be a pirate or a Viking too, etc.
      And for someone to tell my that “being a girl didn’t make me “weaker” or “less than” boys.”
      And these kids today are getting the opposite type of care. 😭😭😭
      Maybe a small subset of the population truly is transgender, like Blair White teaches, and it is discernible on a brain scan. I don’t know about that, I haven’t researched it.
      But we can say with a high level of certainty that 99% of the people in today’s era who are being projected as “trans” might not actually be trans at all.
      There is a high chance that they were just fed lies in their childhood and teenagehood, that made them believe lies, and made them uncomfortable about their birth gender.
      And sadly, many times, sexual assault plays a role in wanting to transition too. A victim of assault might see a transition to the other gender as a way to “escape” the assault and then say to themselves “the attacker won’t ever be able to attack me again, when I am a different gender.”
      So many kids need therapy for assault.
      Instead these kids get society and bad therapist pushing on them, “Omg you’re trans! And if you don’t transition you’re going to be miserable the rest of your life and want to kill yourself!!!! Transitioning will fix all your problems.”
      And panicked, they think, “I don’t want to be miserable and kill myself!
      I am already miserable. My therapist said that this will fix my issues. I should transition.”
      And then 3, or 5, or 10, or 15, or 20, or however many years later…
      They realize they were never truly trans at all. And they were rushed into it. When they needed a different type of therapy.
      But it’s too late now. Some level of permanent damage has already been done to their body. :(
      The society online and therapists rushing to tell kids “you’re trans”- is so dangerous. So many of them aren’t actually truly trans at all.
      They’re lost and broken kids who need therapy to undo some lies and trauma.

    • @ankavoskuilen1725
      @ankavoskuilen1725 Před rokem +21

      When I was 5 I realised that I would never be strong enough to win a fight with my dad and one day my brothers would be. So a child can have a realistic world view.

    • @elisefessler6681
      @elisefessler6681 Před rokem +77

      Also so glad I did not grow up in todays push for “labeling” girls that are tomboys with gender dysphoria. I grew up with 4 brothers and definitely felt the perception of boys being “better”. When I was very young I even denied being a girl seeing the positive response my brother (3.5 years younger) got especially from family that hadn’t had a boy in the family for generations. I hated and still dislike cooking. I am an engineer and trumpet player. I am now the mother of 4 and a grandmother. My husband does most of the cooking still. I wear mostly jeans and no make up. That does not make me a male.
      I pray that our society would stop defining people by their sexuality only. It’s another tool to divide.

    • @wutsit2yuhhuh246
      @wutsit2yuhhuh246 Před rokem +17

      I finally completed my internet quest of finding someone like me with the with a similar situation and viewpoint. "Thank God I didn't grow up in this decade or they would've tried to turn me trans for sure." This is exactly what I've been saying. Thank you!

  • @cosmo588
    @cosmo588 Před rokem +539

    If I had Jordan as my Psychologist as a teenage girl, I think I would’ve been much better off then I am now. Keep going Jordan, you have people all around the world rooting for you.

    • @muurrarium9460
      @muurrarium9460 Před rokem +4

      Well, he is a rather stuck in one vision kind of person as well, so "better off" I cannot be sure.
      He has really petrified the past few years and is steering back to 1950's gender-roles (like all people do" the olden days were the golden days" /MY ASS! Things were different then both the good and the bad, but they always seem to forget that.)
      Don't get me wrong I love how smart and articulate he is (and used to be), but he is really going down the drain the past few years.

    • @user-kz4gf1wp2d
      @user-kz4gf1wp2d Před rokem +3

      Israel here!

    • @EddiXP
      @EddiXP Před rokem +1

      I'm rooting for you. Keep going. Stick close to loved ones like glue ❤️

    • @john98765333
      @john98765333 Před rokem +8

      @@muurrarium9460 Cringe take.

    • @damianbrown279
      @damianbrown279 Před rokem +5

      @@muurrarium9460 is possible to take the good from the past, without taking the bad from the past with it. Gender roles weren't implemented, but more often than not are chosen by those that you'd expect to be in those roles. Jordan just understands all this. Most people do too, as it's common sense. Sorry you are lacking of common sense.

  • @josephmorelli3191
    @josephmorelli3191 Před 3 měsíci +7

    What a bright, well spoken, brave & pretty young lady. I wish her the best!

    • @monaliza3334
      @monaliza3334 Před měsícem

      She's a man..

    • @jfr1995
      @jfr1995 Před 21 dnem

      @@monaliza3334 why are you going around and posting this to multiple people? It's a biological female. You must be thick

  • @caddycraft6823
    @caddycraft6823 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow, this is an amazing and eye-opening story. I had no Idea how many people are affected by these ideas. I have so much respect for her taking back herself. I hope she knows all the way to her cor, that it's ok to be different, stand, out, be in the background, like boys, like girls, be a tomboy, and/or be girly. it's ok to do those things. Take the time and effort to explore all of the things you dream to without boundaries placed on you and without fighting yourself. You know it's ok to be awkward, everybody else is too! at different times. there is a list of words to describe the steps you took to get back where you belong in this world, I hope and pray you are fully able to move forward in life with you chin up. such a beautiful thing you did for yourself and many others in your circumstance. I wish you many great things to come. (this tragedy brings me to tears, how often this happens now)

  • @jdshuda30
    @jdshuda30 Před rokem +424

    As a physician with 5 children of my own, the eldest on the cusp of pubescence, this sort of conversation is EXACTLY what children transitioning into early adulthood need. It's honest, captivating, understandable, and it wastes no time with political or societal motives. Thank you to Dr. Peterson, and to Chloe for her honesty and courage.

    • @shutup6731
      @shutup6731 Před rokem +4

      If I would have known this as a young girl growing through puberty, so much more would have made sense to me.

    • @johnnybird5466
      @johnnybird5466 Před rokem

      As if dr.Peterson doesn’t have political motives though.

    • @astonish_injurer5598
      @astonish_injurer5598 Před rokem

      Honesty? Chloe was born as Cole Grefell. His mom wished he were a girl so she made him into one. He's a fraud-aka-the opposite of honest.

    • @alexisgs8800
      @alexisgs8800 Před rokem +1

      He's often against both the right and the left even though he's more conservative and has more to say against the woke/radical left. I don't believe he has political motives. He's motivated by what he perceives as being the truth.

    • @SteveHinrichs
      @SteveHinrichs Před rokem

      So, you as a doctor, how can you use your position in the medical field help spread the word? What Dr. Peterson and this lady is trying to tell the world needs everyone in the field of medical science supporting this message. I would say all doctors, no matter what field of study, needs to support this message. It should be an obligation. Too many people in the medical field fall short due to fear of political repercussions. Don’t be one of them.

  • @susanb5259
    @susanb5259 Před rokem +147

    This breaks my heart… when did parents stop protecting their children. 😢

    • @firstnamelastname6717
      @firstnamelastname6717 Před rokem +7

      This is what happens when you’re married to your kid

    • @jasonpatchett2251
      @jasonpatchett2251 Před rokem

      When we let the left infiltrate our institutions where ultimately, the state took charge of us all. That's its raison d'etre.

    • @maximusprime3459
      @maximusprime3459 Před rokem +5

      The moment they caved and catered to whatever the kid says they want.

    • @Crucial_End
      @Crucial_End Před rokem +7

      In some cases the state moves in and prevents parents from interferring. Its quite horrific.

    • @annat6249
      @annat6249 Před rokem +3

      Unfortunately, being smart and loving is not a requirement to be parents. People make babies all the time with very little effort. Some parents are into the trans movements. My son at 3 year old hate orange. Following year, he love orange. Kids should never make permanent body changing decisions! Let them mature and then make decisions to avoid regrets later on.

  • @lindaadmans4089
    @lindaadmans4089 Před 6 měsíci +15

    What an informative podcast. I feel inclined to share it with anyone who has children, boys and girls. Thank you Dr! I have been binge watching you on utube and must say I'm grateful for your podcasts 🙏

  • @succubliss379
    @succubliss379 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I also started puberty earlier than most kids. I had C cups in fifth grade, just overnight they popped up as a nine year old, and was taller then most of the kids in my class. 😅 As a tomboy, the amount that I got made fun of for when I would jump and run and my boobs would do the boob thing, and bullied for my now very big boobs for such a young kid, made me stop playing the sports I loved, was basically not able to connect with the boys anymore, and the girls spread nasty rumors about me. My chest wasnt even fully developed yet, and by the beginning of highschool I could no longer shop for bras cause none of them fit. Its horrifying how badly it affected my self esteem, and I became anorexic because I thought if I lost enough weight they would go too....even under 100lbs I was still too big for 30DD bras and couldnt find any in my size. I even still have a picture on my fb from highschool which has over 200 comments, about how my boobs are so big they have to be fake 😅 even a couple weeks ago trying to announce a pregnancy and making it a guessing game, people were guessing I had a boobjob. As a grown up, it doesnt bother me the same, but as a young kid and teen it was devestating and I never felt comfortable unless I had several layers on to hide my chest, stopped playing sports, stopped connecting with people as well, and was told people thought I was fat because of how many layers I wore. And once one of my friends found out, he stole all my jackets and the clothing I had used to shield myself, and all of a sudden people looked at me very differently. It was definitely a horrible decade. 😅

  • @RichardVaught
    @RichardVaught Před rokem +378

    I just wanted to note that you can tell how difficult it was for Chloe to talk about all of this. Thank you for sharing, and for having the courage to do so.

    • @ThisIsMeArnold
      @ThisIsMeArnold Před rokem

      She's autistic. It's difficult for her to do just about anything. You won't find a clip online of her coherently stringing words together, even if it's on the topic of her favorite ice cream.

  • @gtfg3800
    @gtfg3800 Před rokem +660

    I feel badly for Chloe but I'm glad she has shared her story. If those who pushed gender choice spent their time pushing self love & self acceptance, we wouldn't be in this mess now. Adolescence has always been a time of stress throughout man's history. Dr. Peterson knows his stuff and every adult & teen needs to listen to this material. Love & support your child as they grow. STOP allowing money hungry doctors to destroy the children you love !

    • @Noname-ew9js
      @Noname-ew9js Před 11 měsíci +8

      We all have various sides to our personality. We must love All of ourselves.we were taught in college we must integrate to be at peace with ourselves. Woke was called a split psyche in those days. What happened to all that?

    • @rodrigodejesusoliveira8535
      @rodrigodejesusoliveira8535 Před 8 měsíci

      Self love is only regarded for the morbid obese unfortunately nowadays

    • @darkshadowsx5949
      @darkshadowsx5949 Před 4 měsíci

      I really hope this gender dysphoria delirium fad goes away.
      if it grows rampantly humanity will go extinct. all our effort we put in to improve society and living conditions since the stone age will be wasted.
      everything we done and everyone who died to protect society would have been in vain.

  • @susanpendell4215
    @susanpendell4215 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm a lot older than Chloe, but am from the same valley. I went through puberty early too. I can related to her and feel for her. I'm praying for her restoration.

    • @SamT304
      @SamT304 Před 2 měsíci

      It will never happen…Her life was taken away from her 😢

  • @mmmadiamond
    @mmmadiamond Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was a tomboy. I had only brothers. My mom had only brothers. I didn’t like most “girly” things. I also started puberty quite young (but not as young as my grandma (8) or my mom 10)). BUT I had parents who recognized that, while I had a lot of masculine traits, that I was still a girl. And they they never tried to FORCE me to be anything, just taught me that I was always a girl and that it’s ok for a girl to have masculine traits. Now, I am a grown woman in my 30s. I still have some masculine likes/traits, but I am absolutely, 100% a woman. And I’ve never questioned that. Because my parents were great. They let me play with Tonka trucks over Barbies (all my Barbies ended up in the mud haha), and they never forced anything on me, but they also always made sure I knew it was ok to be a girl and like “boy” things. Not everything I liked was boy things, though. I hated Barbies and the color pink, but I loved my cute outfits and my karaoke machine (with mic) that had my favorite Whitney Houston tracks. If I had the same likes and my parents were ridiculous today? I could have ended up a boy! With irreversible damage I’d definitely want to undo because I’m definitely a straight female! I got so lucky. I can’t imagine the trauma everyone is going through now (and even 20 years ago) that makes them think they’re transgender!

  • @perfectpeace352
    @perfectpeace352 Před rokem +707

    So sad because everything she explains about what she went through is what almost every girl has gone through in life...

    • @fuandyourmom
      @fuandyourmom Před rokem

      I feel like he talks a lot and interrupt her or him

    • @theSpian1
      @theSpian1 Před rokem +49

      @@fuandyourmom She's always been a her.
      And she has de-transitioned, so her "preferred pronoun" (whatever this means) is her.

    • @taramay8174
      @taramay8174 Před rokem +43

      How could the parents even allow this is what makes me sick

    • @c.kainoabugado7935
      @c.kainoabugado7935 Před rokem +32

      Very sad and unfortunate. Yet at the same time, her story is now a public example for others to learn from. It's great she consented to us seeing this.

    • @c.kainoabugado7935
      @c.kainoabugado7935 Před rokem

      @DezertFox you're right. This culture's Evil cultural Practices needs to be put to a stop and cultivate all people in a natural loving way.
      This way is wrecking young bodies and minds for profit, making them into scientific experiments because of their unnatural methods.

  • @bigmaryhelen
    @bigmaryhelen Před rokem +281

    This video should be shown in all schools as part of biology and sexual education. It is a travesty that the mental effects of puberty aren't taught to children going through puberty, and it's more needed than ever. How brave this young woman is in stepping forward to help young girls going through this themselves.

    • @anitaharris9095
      @anitaharris9095 Před rokem +3

      They are not going to show this or anything like this is school, as much as they should, because it goes against what they want the children to learn and believe.

    • @brendas.3470
      @brendas.3470 Před rokem +4

      On the contrary, in Ontario, Canada where I live, the Ontario school boards are (or want to start) instructing Ontario school staff (and encourage the other students) to hide a young trans (aka 'gender variant') student's preferred gender, his/her new chosen name and his/her chosen pronouns from this student's parents, supposedly to provide a 'safe space' at school for the child to 'live his/her true self' while supposedly protecting the child from possible parental violence upon hearing of their child's decision to transition. I would love to hear Dr. Jorden Peterson's response to this new development in Ontario schools and to hear what the effects he would expect to see develop in a child who is encouraged by the teachers and guidance counsellor to lead a double life as he/she lies to and deceives his/her parents at home. I would think that would vastly increase the child's feelings of depression, anxiety, guilt and possible suicidal thoughts.

    • @Btx931
      @Btx931 Před rokem +2

      They need to update it with the new stats which say trans kids have higher suicide rates (the only difference in problems with self modulation being the struggle of being trans) and despite the belief that the earth is being invaded by ship loads of trans people and taking over the schools, less than 1% of kids identify as trans with 1% of those kids regretting transition. That said, kids shouldn’t be getting surgeries until they are 18.

    • @JustBuyTheWaywardsRealms
      @JustBuyTheWaywardsRealms Před rokem

      that's strange i never felt the effect of puberty(i'm a men maybe it's less stronger for men)

    • @bigmaryhelen
      @bigmaryhelen Před rokem

      @@JustBuyTheWaywardsRealms It's impossible you didn't feel the effects. Your brain chemistry changes. And, yes, as Jordan said in the video, it is worse for girls.

  • @MickFutz
    @MickFutz Před 5 měsíci +14

    Chloe, I applaud your very brave efforts to share your story! You are a beautiful soul.

  • @tzeitelmccormick8297

    I really wish someone would go over this kind of stuff with students and kids today. I've struggled hard with my confidence and self-image. I admit fully that I have hated the way I look so much that I wished I just didn't exist, and a lot of that was pushed by girls my age and going through puberty. We talk about how girls need to be better informed about their bodies, especially when it comes to menstrual cycles, but I think it's also important to inform the boys as well about what girls go through, and the other way around. I feel like relationship struggles for us young adults stems a lot from a lack of understanding of emotional differences of boys and girls. A boy doesn't know what it's like for a girl who is going through puberty and having people tell her she isn't sufficient enough in looks. A girl won't understand what it's like for a boy being told he isn't tough enough or whatever. I don't even understand what boys experience. It is so hard for me to even understand how a boy could possibly be attracted to me even though I have fat on my body. My idea of what makes a woman attractive is not and never will be the same as what a man actually thinks makes a woman attractive. This is the kind of topic that I wish had been explained to me when I was young, now I have to build my confidence from nothing. No one ever really explains how horrible it is growing up in a society that values a specific look and body type that you don't fit. Many of us never do fit that "perfect" look, and it is constantly changing. When I was in school, the desire was a girl who was skinny and athletic. This wasn't just the desire of the boys around, but the judgment of the girls. I was told often that I was chubby and weird. I was told that I didn't dress right, and basically everything I did was wrong, especially how I dressed and ate. That kind of stuff sticks with you. On top of all of the insecurity being put on me, I was faced with puberty and an abnormal cycle that brought PMDD. No one ever told me that none of what I was feeling wasn't normal. I was made to believe that this was just what it was to be a chubby girl in school. I don't know about other girls, but my mental health went down hill really fast. I had thought myself at an acceptable level for many years, but with one disaster, my emotions were put out of balance. My mental health was far more fragile than I had ever thought. I've never stopped seeing myself as fat, even when I was at a normal and healthy weight. Because I didn't fit into a size 12 or smaller, I was therefore fat. Nevermind the fact that I was heavily exercising more than 10 hours a week and eating around 1500-2000 calories a day. But because the scale didn't read 120lbs, I was still fat. Everyday we compare ourselves to others, and it's enough for one person to have confirmed our insecure thoughts that we'll believe it to be the only truth and reality. I can't pretend I know what guys go through, but I doubt it's anything like this, not to say men don't experience struggles and insecurity, it's just clear that it's a different "flavor." The reason I think men should be informed fully on the workings of women's minds especially once puberty has struck, is because I believe that it played an important role in my most recent relationship. The man I was in love with didn't really understand why I was so overwhelmingly insecure and how I could continue to be so even when he had regularly reassured me. I couldn't understand how he could possibly love me with all of my issues and the fact that I am "fat." This led to my insecurities becoming overwhelming, which meant that I would become stressed and then lash out, just like when you bottle something up for far too long. To make things worse, I finally realized how incorrect my cycle was and attempted to fix it with the pills us women are so freely given. They don't ever tell you how badly birth control can mess you up, because they want us to use it to prevent our bodies from doing what they're meant to do (make babies) and they want to continue to teach us to follow unhealthy behaviors in life. I may have been one of the few women who wasn't seeking birth control because I intended to be promiscuous, but they don't really go over what it can do for those who may suffer from menstrual disorders. We've got to do better when it comes to teaching our youth about puberty and how it changes you both physically and emotionally. No one ever truly explained it to me, and now as an adult, I am suffering the consequences.

  • @janetmayer3562
    @janetmayer3562 Před rokem +765

    This man has such real compassion for people. Much more so than the so called doctors who are butchering both the minds and bodies of children. I hope someone is watching this who needs to hear Dr. Peterson's explanation.

    • @valenciasanchez93
      @valenciasanchez93 Před rokem +14

      It’s just a big experiment at the expense of children’s confusion.

    • @klmegm197682
      @klmegm197682 Před rokem +4

      Well stated!

    • @treasuretrovel3816
      @treasuretrovel3816 Před rokem

      yt and other social media platforms have been censoring Jordan Peterson over the last 5 years and other experts in the field of psychiatry and psychology because they were speaking the truth. There is a faction that wants to promote the myth that children should be transitioned. The main stream media and social media were also censoring detransitioners from being able to tell their story. This only changed recently when elon bought twitter. Finally the majority is fighting back and demanding the truth so now we can hear Chloe and thousands of others. This is the same level of censorship that occurred with the pandemic in which the actual scientific and medical experts in our country were made to go completely silent or lose their careers.

    • @ndakhotmail
      @ndakhotmail Před 11 měsíci +3

      ​@@valenciasanchez93Absolutely correct. These people are doing what the Nazis's did in the 1940‘s.

    • @valenciasanchez93
      @valenciasanchez93 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@ndakhotmail oh yes!! I’ve made that point before!! We brought their researchers and experiments here to the US after the war. This is just a continuation of that

  • @bari2883
    @bari2883 Před rokem +1454

    I’m a 52 yr old female and this is the first time I’ve understood when I started puberty I felt such shame and guilt , growing into a woman.
    This intelligent man shouldn’t be at risk of losing his licence, he should be idolised for the clever man he is.

    • @OmerDrifts
      @OmerDrifts Před rokem +43

      We men are supporting and learning from this king everyday 💪

    • @naelyneurkopfen9741
      @naelyneurkopfen9741 Před rokem +15

      I will never understand shame, guilt, whatever surrounding puberty. I couldn't wait! I wanted it all.

    • @childofGod1067
      @childofGod1067 Před rokem +31

      They devil can take his licence and so on, but the gift of God (his intellectual) can never be take, and many will benefit from it.

    • @OmerDrifts
      @OmerDrifts Před rokem +30

      @@childofGod1067 man i agree with you, as a Muslim boy, i think the lives this guy has saved he is earning himself a spot in heaven 😭

    • @xena6894
      @xena6894 Před rokem +13

      @@OmerDrifts Agree , as a christian

  • @tommim4353
    @tommim4353 Před 3 měsíci +11

    thanks to both, especially HER for speaking on her experiences

  • @FastRiposte
    @FastRiposte Před 3 měsíci +2

    Jordan explained that extremely well. It also shows how the issues dealt with, while stressful and confusing, often normalize without anything more that a supporting point of view and understanding. Too many people (like the more conformist Psychologists) and other doctors quickly reach for the scalpel and a pile of pills.
    Everyone's puberty is a time of chaos, mentally, physically, socially and emotionally
    Today, families are more stressed. Businesses pay people less (adjusted) than 10, 20, 30 years ago. So family time is almost nonexistent. So the children are not getting their support and knowledge and feel abandoned, unloved, confused and self hate.
    If Jordan's explanation was compulsory viewing for all 11+_ year old, then most of this issue may not happen.

  • @johnnycrinkle
    @johnnycrinkle Před rokem +378

    The "professionals" that allowed this confused child (no offence intended) to embark upon such a horrifically missguided and permanently damaging endeavor should NEVER be able to work in the health sector, In any capacity, EVER AGAIN.
    Criminally negligent, the lot of them!.
    Thank you to this brave young lady for sharing her story, hopefully it finds it's way to vulnerable young ears that need to hear it the most.
    Brilliant content as standard JP 👍

    • @poetmaggie1
      @poetmaggie1 Před rokem +1

      Right now we are all victims of the medical and the Authorities, this last couple of years, Where they can they are sterilizing everyone they can. So one thinks they know what only God know. They have decided the earth needs fewer people, they are blaming all kinds of things that they themselves are causing.

    • @gardengnome3249
      @gardengnome3249 Před rokem +24

      The Ontario board of psychologists want to re-educte Dr Peterson over his words used on social media but nothing is said about the doctor that misdiagnosed this poor girl.
      What is happening?
      Does she have any recourse through the courts?

    • @freespirit0788
      @freespirit0788 Před rokem

      the doctors bend to the woke crowd, if they dont they might lose their job..
      so dont blame the doctors, blame the woke crowd, and the people that listen to them

    • @VintageCardinal
      @VintageCardinal Před rokem +14

      @@gardengnome3249 They want to "re-educate" him b/c they know he speaks the truth and he ruins their endgame (normalizing p3 d0h feel eea)

    • @iwersonsch5131
      @iwersonsch5131 Před rokem

      Trans surgery below 18 should simply not be a thing. This woman was able to access the actually committal part of transition way earlier in life than the left wants. And now people like JBP are trying to use this person, who mind you knew to detransition before reaching adulthood! Who would not have been railroaded into surgery at 18! to fearmonger about puberty blockers.

  • @showdimorti7103
    @showdimorti7103 Před rokem +1133

    Now I understand why so many hate this man. We need more professionals like him.

    • @xlkarma8446
      @xlkarma8446 Před rokem +10

      He’s a quack

    • @andrewhartley3
      @andrewhartley3 Před rokem +123

      @@xlkarma8446 How wrong you are.

    • @xlkarma8446
      @xlkarma8446 Před rokem +5

      @@andrewhartley3 a quick google search will tell you otherwise

    • @andrewhartley3
      @andrewhartley3 Před rokem +108

      @@xlkarma8446 I don't need a fake news Google search. I have been following the guys career for a long time.

    • @xlkarma8446
      @xlkarma8446 Před rokem +6

      @@andrewhartley3 you’re not educated

  • @xxweirdofromspacexx1119
    @xxweirdofromspacexx1119 Před 3 měsíci

    This is when I feel the most glad I was homeschooled, I was never pressured by other girls, or people in general, I was hanging out with other girls, and never heard a single comment on anyone’s appearance, I hung out with boys later on, and still had no insecurities about my body.
    I got my phone pretty early at 11, but never went on social media, because I had no reason to, I watched CZcams and played mobile games. I simply was not raised to care about my appearance other than keeping my hair tidy. For example, my rib cage is relatively big and round, as opposed to being flatter, so my stomach sticks out a little farther, (I”m only 5’4, 120lbs for reference), that’s purely a skeletal thing, but I know if I were in school I’d get insecure about it.
    A lot of these things are a result of people you hang out with.

  • @Willow2024
    @Willow2024 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This young detransitioned biological woman just breaks my heart. Dr Peterson is such a brilliant psychologist. I wish my daughters friend, a 20 year old biological female transitioned thru school without parent knowledge until it was too late, had been able to have access/or been informed before this horrible experiment of transition was pushed upon her. All the failsafes our society had in place to protect children failed: mother (sole custody), school, doctors, society. All failed her.
    The trip wire of the Woke movement is our children. The fight has begun to stop the madness.
    Ms. Cole is brave to speak openly about her horrific experiences. I respect her immensely.

  • @apm9507
    @apm9507 Před rokem +451

    Start suing doctors and political figures.

    • @iwersonsch5131
      @iwersonsch5131 Před rokem

      Ah yes, the political figures who want trans people to get surgery AT FIFTEEN. As if that's an actual political position and not some rogue doctor going against the course of the political left.

    • @guimon78
      @guimon78 Před rokem

      @@glennverdeyen5685 for what?

    • @tweetlebugzz
      @tweetlebugzz Před rokem +9

      Yep! Sue the shit out of all of them!!!!!

    • @fbcpraise
      @fbcpraise Před rokem +19

      The clinic in London that performed 19,000 transitions on children is now closed and facing a class-action lawsuit brought by 1000 of their “patients.” Here’s hoping this catches on in America. I will give money to that cause.

    • @jean-philippe-devise
      @jean-philippe-devise Před rokem +2

      Good idea.

  • @sjkborn81
    @sjkborn81 Před rokem +478

    I have 3 daughters. I have found that talking to them before puberty and before they get their period helped a lot for them to understand what was about to happen. My wife and I both spoke with them about it so it helped them to feel comfortable with coming to Dad. I'm not an ignorant guy and I'm not a guy who is afraid or grossed out by a woman's coming of age. They have come into their womanhood with no fear or awkwardness because we were always there for them

    • @blessedblessed5018
      @blessedblessed5018 Před rokem

      Can I ask you a ??

    • @sjkborn81
      @sjkborn81 Před rokem +1

      @@blessedblessed5018 sure

    • @cherylp.3347
      @cherylp.3347 Před rokem +14

      Great supportive dad.

    • @krisess7997
      @krisess7997 Před rokem +2

      That’s super weird for you to be doing that part instead of the mom, the woman doing that

    • @sjkborn81
      @sjkborn81 Před rokem +84

      @Kris Ess My wife and I both do it. I do nothing to make it "weird". There is also nothing "weird" about a man knowing how a woman's body works. There's lots of men out there called doctors, specifically called gynecologist. Idk maybe you've heard of them.

  • @Asil0831
    @Asil0831 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I hit puberty at 9 as well and remember having my period very young while in grade school. I had to carry maxi-pads in my book bag. I developed very early too, and boys my age would beat me up a lot and make fun of me. Older boys would ask me out not knowing my age. I was definitely a victim of exploitation at a young age and all throughout my young adult life. I had a very very difficult time as a young girl and a young woman. I never experienced wanting to be a man, but I'm also 2nd year GenX and really didn't know about this until we moved to Oregon 20 years ago when I saw my first transsexual. I also worked with a (wo)man who was 6'2" and very obviously a man. When I worked in HR at another Oregon company, I experienced hiring a (wo)man who transitioned and when I had to call the previous employer to verify employment, I had to give both the male and female names stating that I was trying to verify two different people. It was very strange, but I never thought much of it...until now. I saw Epoch's documentary on this and was very very saddened; now, I am totally against it (the gender hustlers not these poor people). OHSU is a mutilation and sterilization factory and they brag about how long their list is, how many surgeries they perform, and how they are pretty much flying by the seat of their pants. The literally said, "I guess we'll see how it all turns out in 10-15 years from now." That's how sick this industry is and a lot of it is because of Obamacare. Many people don't know Obama is very much to blame for the incentives he offered for this industry in Obamacare. That's what Gender Affirming Care is folks.

  • @suzanneburns2931
    @suzanneburns2931 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My youngest daughter hung around with and felt more comfortable with boys because she wasn’t interested in primping or fussing about her physical appearance . Even more she resented the wasted time that she felt her female friends put into getting ready to go and do things . Her focus on her male friends , was actually friendship and not attraction to them , so she found them more readily available to go do things when she wanted to do them . This all changed as everyone aged out and the attraction to the opposite sex became more important .

  • @wcooman1694
    @wcooman1694 Před rokem +339

    It is truly amazing what one can learn once the political agenda is removed. Thanks Dr. Peterson & Miss Chloe for sharing.

  • @edjarrett3164
    @edjarrett3164 Před rokem +826

    I have never had someone so clearly describe the development of adolescent kids. His video should be adopted as the standard in schools. I was stunned by the clarity of his understanding and explanation without judgment. That’s the type of information that people rarely see or are exposed to.

    • @HanstheTraffer
      @HanstheTraffer Před rokem +4

      A less clinical but more expository interview is with Sophia Galvin and Allie Beth Stuckey.

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 Před rokem

      Much of it is very debatable and misandrist.
      The idea that women are more "vulnerable" sexually is ridiculous. They're more POWERFUL sexually. They have all the sexual power. Men develop the physical power, women develop the sexual power. And the "burden" of child birth has been completely vetoed by modern medicine, namely abortion and contraceptives (post-conception contraceptives in the case of women), and that burden has been passed onto men. Now it's boys and men who bear the risk from sex, as women hold all the reproductive power.
      Plus, if this is self-reported data he's using, it's very suspect. And then there's all the sociological factors. You can punch a boy and a girl in the face with the same force, the girl will report that it hurt her more.

    • @jacobking3211
      @jacobking3211 Před rokem +1

      Jesus said, "I tell you the truth no one will see the kingdom of God unless he is born again. I am the way the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father except through me." For God so loved the world that He give His only Son that whoever believes in Him will not perish but will have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world but to save the World through Him. For all have sinned and come short of the Glory of God. For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord, and All who call upon the name of the Lord will be saved. " If you want to be sure of Heaven and avoid the other place below say the following prayer sincerely from your heart." Lord Jesus I repent and am sorry for my sins forgive me. I forgive all who have offended me. Come into my heart and save me. I accept you as my Lord and Saviour. Fill me with your Holy Spirit and baptise me with your Holy Spirit. Fulfill your plan and purpose in my life. "I recommend you read John's Gospel especially chapter 3.Gbu.John 3v3v22,John 14v6.

    • @0422Juls
      @0422Juls Před rokem

      I agree! I loved the easy-to-understand explanation of human development. It was taken from a clearly unbiased scientific view and presented in a way I've never seen done so well. I think this information is very important for people to view with an open mind though, considering the topic has a lot of bad information swirled around it... it can (unfortunately) sometimes fog up people's interpretation of what's going on and what's actually being said.

  • @yl5148
    @yl5148 Před 8 měsíci

    I was an insecure teenager, when I was 12-15, I wanted to change everything about my body (not my gender though): my body shape, my skin and hair color, I wished I had a nose job done etc. I am so happy I didn’t have access to plastic surgery. Imagine letting teenagers do whatever they think is right! When you’re 12 or even 15-16, you’re too young to make such huge decisions. Poor girl, I hope she recovers and lives a happy life.

  • @jimbo9313
    @jimbo9313 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Teen life is hard. I’m 30 and when I think about those times I’m glad it’s over.

  • @KingSkrap
    @KingSkrap Před rokem +173

    There’s a lot of kids in my school like that. I’m told I have no say “my body my choice” I reply, “ok, don’t blame anyone when your life is fucked in 10 years”

    • @freespirit0788
      @freespirit0788 Před rokem +10

      exactly
      they will pay for that arrogance, in their own little personal hell on earth

    • @athirstyguy
      @athirstyguy Před rokem +27

      The problem with that argument is that as a kid you're just not capable of making that decision.
      That goes for almost everything that kids need to be protected from themselves. It's really a failure of guardians to do so.

    • @MeMe-lx2jw
      @MeMe-lx2jw Před rokem +7

      I can't even imagine what it's like to be a student now with all this craziness. Best of luck navigating this nightmare.

    • @dbo514
      @dbo514 Před rokem +5

      @@athirstyguy now they're in many case removing parental oversight, when it used to be well known that kids cannot consent until they're adults.

    • @financialdecimation
      @financialdecimation Před rokem +2

      when i was a kid we didnt have a choice

  • @insightinspiration9922
    @insightinspiration9922 Před rokem +201

    It’s really painful to hear how her emotional suffering was ignored as a child. People talked her into removing her breasts rather than listening to what she was feeling and reassuring her. At age 8 or 9, it’s very young for a child to go into puberty and it must have felt isolating to experience these physical and hormonal changes while the other girls were still playing with Barbie. When you start developing at such a young age you will be necessarily seen as strange not just by the other girls but also by their parents. No wonder she felt uncomfortable in her body … but how do we get from here to removing parts of her body? Puberty is not an easy undertaking and especially for girls as he explained there is a lot of added stress as they want to fit in and evaluate their value based on their physical attractiveness and how they fit in either the group. There are many many reasons why she may had a hard time communicating with other girls and settling into her femininity other than concluding that she should be a boy. Girls going through neglect or abuse at home for instance may feel uncomfortable with their femininity as it makes them more vulnerable, for the reasons he explained. If people talk about children in emotional distress, I ALWAYS want to know in what environment a child grows up and how it is treated at home!

    • @jayembee7067
      @jayembee7067 Před rokem +11

      Fortunately I had extremely supportive parents and lived in a different time than these poor kids when I hit puberty at 9. My mother had also been early as were my sisters. I still remember the early breast development and how uncomfortable they felt especially when involved with sports. One highlight though was I was able to help a fellow classmate who was crying in the toilets because she had just begun menstruation. I was able to reassure her she wasn’t dying, rather she was growing up and take her to a kind female teacher for help (rather than our male teacher). ❤️from Australia 🇦🇺.

    • @xluckycharmsx3
      @xluckycharmsx3 Před rokem +1

    • @ellielynn8219
      @ellielynn8219 Před rokem +2

      I was thinking this the whole time. Starting her period at 9 must have been so traumatic. I have a 9 year old and I can’t imagine what that would do to her because she’s still so young mentally. My heart goes out to Chloe and she is truly brave, coming forward like this and having these hard conversations, publicly. 💜

    • @rebeccajodhiwilliams182
      @rebeccajodhiwilliams182 Před rokem

      This might be an unpopular opinion but not helping girls feel comfortable wearing "feminine" clothing is damaging. I am talking from personal experience. I appreciate my parent's respect for my decision but it was incorrect thing to overly respect it.

    • @karoberts4139
      @karoberts4139 Před rokem

      Ñ

  • @cherylemaybury9967
    @cherylemaybury9967 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I have a granddaughter who thinks she is a male and has had a double mastectomy and takes hormone blockers etc. I pray for her to wake up and realise that this is a mistake and will learn to accept herself as she is. She has never had any counselling but her parents encouraged her. They lost a son to suicide before she decided she is male. I think she is trying to replace her brother.

  • @cococalm
    @cococalm Před 4 měsíci

    This poor girl, looking at her hands during the interview, she is trembling. I cannot imagine the torment she endured during this "phase" of her life. I am hoping her life is finding greater meaning for herself and that she finds serenity and peace for her future.

  • @Test-uj6nh
    @Test-uj6nh Před rokem +331

    How can the Canadian board of Psychologists want to de register this great man? Shame on them.

    • @peterpadazopoulos2954
      @peterpadazopoulos2954 Před rokem +34

      The only ones that should be re educated IS THE BOARD

    • @williamhutchinson7
      @williamhutchinson7 Před rokem +39

      They will try because they are afraid of him, he is one they can never control

    • @LeelooMinai
      @LeelooMinai Před rokem

      It's because they are not naive like the target audience of Peterson - they are not going to let the first charlatan around the corner to manipulate them this easily. With an average person it's easy: just take some exceptional case, agree on the script with them, suggest this is a normal outcome and try to demonize all transgender people and all of the professionals that try to help them, and it will work, people will eat this kind of taboid-level nonsense gladly, thinking they are on the right side of the issue, little effort, instant gratification, ignorance is a bliss... but that board is not average people...

    • @Yewbzee
      @Yewbzee Před rokem

      Trying to silence and cancel people is the left's main weapon.

    • @yuvalgal-shahaf2782
      @yuvalgal-shahaf2782 Před rokem

      How? I guess because of the biased , unethical videos like this who can not be more further from the truth, lack scientific standards, and increase ignorance and stigmatisation against very weak and suffering population

  • @emilyphilpott5984
    @emilyphilpott5984 Před rokem +371

    As a woman engineer on the spectrum who has suffered from severe suicidal depression for many many years, I appreciate hearing this very much.

    • @0422Juls
      @0422Juls Před rokem +18

      You are a wonderful human being for also sharing this part of yourself :) Know that there are people who have made it to this video and have scrolled down to your lovely comment who will feel as though they aren't alone as well.

    • @SneedEmFeedEm292
      @SneedEmFeedEm292 Před rokem +9

      you are loved and even though I don't know you I will be praying for you and hope you get through this dark time. I am going through something similar myself and recently quit my first real engineering job. I think given enough time even the worst shit can change.

    • @aalainalarcon
      @aalainalarcon Před rokem

      Show them fanta-autistic tiddies🎉🥵

    • @ishqnoor
      @ishqnoor Před rokem +4

      Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I'm happy you got some relief from his explanation. I am sure you are infinitely loved and I pray you will live a long, healthy, joyful life 🙏

    • @susannabonke8552
      @susannabonke8552 Před rokem +5

      You are here for a reason. So sorry you suffered that much. High career jobs are dangerous sometimes. Please be kind to yourself. 😢

  • @sisyphus883
    @sisyphus883 Před 3 měsíci

    Dr. Peterson's knowledge at age 5 would have changed my life. As a boy of 5 going on 20 real fast, nobody was there to help me understand. It was not until the unimaginable happened at the real age of 21. When all hope for a good life was gone, I finally received help. Now 45, life will still never be what it could have been. If I had Dr Peterson 40 yrs ago.

  • @kevingolden5675
    @kevingolden5675 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Brave girl thanks for sharing your story I hope someone listening that's going through the same problem can find peace in this. Chloe is a beautiful girl and comes across very well. I wish her all the best.

  • @gamerelated3887
    @gamerelated3887 Před rokem +1372

    I'm so impressed with how brave this young lady is, going on public record discussing such a deeply personal thing in hopes of helping someone else. What a selfless act! You're an amazing woman! I have so much respect for you!

    • @MrRdh567
      @MrRdh567 Před rokem +14

      I agree!

    • @raymo6795
      @raymo6795 Před rokem

      I agree,,, but she is probably doing what her lawyers told her to do, I hope she sues the hell out of these mad scientists that think they can usurp Mother Nature, and turn a girl into a boy. IT CAN NOT BE DONE!! You simply can not outwit God

    • @darkracer1252
      @darkracer1252 Před rokem +13

      young lad

    • @TP-nx7uf
      @TP-nx7uf Před rokem +6

      It´s a very sensitive topic. I am amazed she was so well-spoken and collected despite being so young.

    • @raymo6795
      @raymo6795 Před rokem +20

      @@TP-nx7uf Yeah, she has really been through it. She can probably never live a normal life, she is too damaged, but I do hope that all the “ Dr Moreau “and “Dr Frankensteins” that did all this to her pay dearly. I believe the only reason all this gender bending is getting traction is because it is highly profitable for the medical community. When it becomes a financial liability, we may see things return to normal.

  • @veronicamonell7263
    @veronicamonell7263 Před rokem +221

    I grew up as a SUPER tomboy. As a 30 year old woman I’m extremely feminine. I could see how social media could have had an impact on the transition to begin with. Hope you’re doing well now❤

    • @ecyaj1289
      @ecyaj1289 Před 3 měsíci

      You don't look feminine at all

    • @CramcrumBrewbringer
      @CramcrumBrewbringer Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@ecyaj1289Yeah she does

    • @ecyaj1289
      @ecyaj1289 Před 3 měsíci

      @@CramcrumBrewbringer you see her face that looks like 🗿

    • @SayMyNameAgain
      @SayMyNameAgain Před 3 měsíci

      ​@ecyaj1289 You look like a child. Keep out of adult conversations, you clearly lack maturity.

  • @jupitersworld244
    @jupitersworld244 Před 4 dny +1

    I was a Tom boy all of my friends were boys! I panted basketball, did combat sports and related more to the boys then girls… I still do… however, my parents never fostered the idea of me wanting to transition it was simply I enjoyed what society considered “ “ boy things “ as I grew older I became interested in skirts, dressed and make up! I’m 35 now married with children. I still do combat sports I hate makeup and shopping lol… this doesn’t mean I want to be a man!

  • @KM-690
    @KM-690 Před 9 měsíci +1

    After going through my pubescent years and seeing how i dealt with it.. im realizing now how important it is to have that conversation with your child. My mom told me i would juat have boobs and a period but never explained the feelings i would be feeling and how to deal with it. I was just angry and for no reason either. I let a lot of people take advantage of me too because i just didnt understand ny self worth.

  • @Tania-zn8pr
    @Tania-zn8pr Před 10 měsíci +221

    What craziness! How can any parent let their child start transitioning at such at young age? Any parent knows that we all go through many emotional barriers in our youth. I just can't comprehend how any loving parent can think that transtioning is the answer to a childs emotional problems. What a good explanation this doctor has given.❤

    • @elephantality3753
      @elephantality3753 Před 10 měsíci +24

      I wouldn't blame them, seems the system tries to scare parents into it.

    • @FifthofEleven
      @FifthofEleven Před 9 měsíci +21

      If you watch the full interview, Dr. Peterson actually goes into this at least a couple times. He talks about the pressures and basically manipulation that healthcare "professionals" inflict on parents of children suffering like Chloe.

    • @JNL76
      @JNL76 Před 7 měsíci +19

      What I find absolutely CRAZY is that there are doctors who go forwards with that at such young age and that it is actually legal to do that. A minor is not able to buy alcohol but is able to do this??? UNbelievable. Doctors should have told this girl and her parents, wait until your 18 at least.

    • @jjjordan3881
      @jjjordan3881 Před 6 měsíci +20

      ​@@JNL76can't believe any doctor would even consider doing these treatments and procedures. It's completely unethical imo.

    • @JNL76
      @JNL76 Před 6 měsíci +12

      @@jjjordan3881 Exactly, me neither. And that it is legal by law even less.
      So don't drink, don't drive, don't get a tattoo and don't vote, before 18, but hey chop your breasts off and take treatments that have no way back, you're old enough for that. Completely unbelievable and unethical to be doing this as a doctor, as a healthcare specialist and as a system that should protect minors.

  • @scottbrechbiel2889
    @scottbrechbiel2889 Před rokem +215

    This man explains things in a way that would allow a man or woman going through puberty to understand they are normal and give them the facts to make a informed decision when they become an adult.

    • @FM19MONTH
      @FM19MONTH Před rokem +7

      This man is Dr. Jordon B Peterson. He is amazing and unlike no other!! He has as much compassion as he does intelligence.

    • @tankerd1847
      @tankerd1847 Před rokem +2

      I think a lot of it is a matter of parenting as well. Not only not affirming their delusions if they go down that route, but encouraging them and helping them to understand that these mental stresses are normal during puberty. We all have to live through that, and I feel like many parents are failing to be the beacon through the fog for their kids.
      Frankly? I don't think we should be telling anyone to get their body cut up and their hormones modified in this vain pursuit of being the other gender. Because when you look at adults that have gotten their bodies modified like that they are still depressed, and oftentimes even more so because they are both sterile and irreversibly altered. It doesn't help anything except in the most extreme cases.

    • @RhythmEmotions
      @RhythmEmotions Před rokem +2

      He is the only guy who can speak to all age groups at once and everyone would understand lol

  • @maureenjacqueline1857
    @maureenjacqueline1857 Před 2 měsíci

    I'm a Jamaican-Canadian teacher living and working in Kuwait. I just discovered your content and I'm very thankful for this information.

  • @cd1847
    @cd1847 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Jordan explained a situation I had in my teenage years which I thought was weird, but it seems it was not. I was attracted by my male friends (I’m a male), and thought to be gay and was pretty confused. I never said it to anyone, and because of this I never had a teenage relationship like my peers. I fixed alone around 18/19 and had my first relationship with a girl, now I’m 28 and completely straight, zero attraction for men. If I lived in America in 2023, I’d probably fucked up like the girl in the video and ruined my whole life because of normal teenagers processes

  • @feger481
    @feger481 Před rokem +1218

    I want to express my greatest of admiration and respect for her, to have the courage to participate in this very personal interview. I'm sure everyone here has nothing but sympathy and encouragement for her, in hopes that someday she will develop a peaceful and content state of mind.

    • @maverickg1740
      @maverickg1740 Před rokem +5

      Him.

    • @Berserk0653
      @Berserk0653 Před rokem +1

      Agreed. I only question your use of commas, likely in place of an ellipsis.

    • @alexprice3747
      @alexprice3747 Před rokem +27

      Not only is she courageous, but she is also incredibly clear-minded and self-aware. She sounds very mature and logical in her explanations. Had one competent professional taken the time to tell her the things JP is telling her here, the outcomes could have easily been less devastating.

    • @halla1548
      @halla1548 Před rokem

      @@maverickg1740 this is a girl that was born a girl and attempted to transition to male through the means described and is now transitioning back to female. She is a female.

    • @desertedenblooms
      @desertedenblooms Před rokem +8

      @@alexprice3747 She is highly intelligent...I keep seeing these virtues you described in other people going through the same or similar experiences and Im beging to see a pattern. Its almost like the establishment doest want intelligent, clear, deep thinking people to reproduce or be happy contributing members of society.

  • @jdcharlie
    @jdcharlie Před rokem +181

    Absolutely relateable. Growing up, I was shamed by boys that I didn't have breast. This guy legit threw it as an insult to me that I didn't have breast and all his friends around him laughed and I felt humiliated. When my breasts and hips started coming in, I was also embarrassed for it. I remember hitting my hips regularly to 'make them go down' imagine all these up and down. Desperate to develop, desperate not to develop. It was exhausting.

    • @pyroman6000
      @pyroman6000 Před rokem

      Teenagers are dicks... i was the fat socially awkward kid that tried too hard, so i know just what you mean. Eventually everyone grows up. Most have the grace to be mortified by how they sometimes behaved, and the junk that fell out of their mouths.
      Im concerned with this newest generation, who've been exposed to, and programmed by, all this emotional manipulation and politicization their entire lives. When they eventually grow up, the WTF was I thinking? Bill is going to be very steep... worse, some may never get that far.

    • @pyroman6000
      @pyroman6000 Před rokem

      Teenagers are dicks... i was the fat socially awkward kid that tried too hard, so i know just what you mean. Eventually everyone grows up. Most have the grace to be mortified by how they sometimes behaved, and the junk that fell out of their mouths.
      Im concerned with this newest generation, who've been exposed to, and programmed by, all this emotional manipulation and politicization their entire lives. When they eventually grow up, the WTF was I thinking? Bill is going to be very steep... worse, some may never get that far.

  • @I_drive_fast
    @I_drive_fast Před 7 měsíci +1

    I was a tomboy too. Not so much interested in people and very quiet. But nobody cared. Thank god there was no social media back then. But once I was out of high school, I was normal and feminine. All was well. I still have some “manly” interests (I’m an engineer and I love war movies, for example), but generally I’m a very normal and feminine woman. I actually love being a woman. But going back to age 12-13, I felt exact like her. I think there were many girls like that. Lots of shame, negative emotions etc. Again, thank god there was no social media and no school “counsellors” to bother with us and mess up our lives.

  • @hgm2704
    @hgm2704 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I think there is some confusion as to why people are against giving children pills for gender transitioning. People are against it because we feel being able to make that decision for someone is too much power to put in another person's hands. The best example I can give you is to ask you to imagine someone in a coma and having to make the choice of pulling the plug or not. The person is unable to tell you if they want you to do it or not but you are left to make the decision yourself. One group of people are yelling to pull the plug and stop their suffering (transition), and the other people are yelling to wait and see if they will snap out of it and wake up (let the child grow as normal). I'm on the side of not pulling the plug, because the problem with this is that there is no medical way of telling if it is the right thing to do and there are alot of people that can manipulate this for their benefit if the power is put in their hands. Doctors that just want to make the money for the surgeries will always say yes. Parents that may have mental disorders where they want to harm their children to receive gratitude from others because on the surface it may look like they are helping. Also the saddest of them all, someone that just will ruin someone’s life as a prank, all these people are out there. We have the drugs for the procedure, but we now need to do the research to determine when it is right to use those drugs. Maybe a CT scan that can determine the difference between a male and a female brain till then this is just abuse.

  • @leaf6356
    @leaf6356 Před rokem +382

    oh my god, I literally want to cry. she sounds exactly like me and what I went through, the body dysmorphia and puberty not working like you thought it would really hit close to me. I feel like the only difference between her and I is that I never underwent surgery. wow. I'm so scared for future kids, not everything has to be labeled and medicated. I feel like a lot of us proud and confident women today were also tomboys when we were young and played in the dirt and looked for snakes, and we didn't have the internet to rope us into communities where people with undiagnosed mental illnesses collect and feed into each others' (I'm sorry, but) delusions.
    the internet can be poisonous to a growing mind. I know it had an effect on why I cut all my hair off and binded my chest for 2 years when I was 15. I was online way too much and let it influence me to believe I must've been trans because of the complicated body image issues I was dealing with. but the girl in this interview put it into words perfectly. I feel for her so much.

    • @sharedexperiences2773
      @sharedexperiences2773 Před rokem +22

      Yea I was very much a tomboy but it was a phase. I love being a women.

    • @leaf6356
      @leaf6356 Před rokem +7

      @@sharedexperiences2773 so do I, I can't imagine not having my body the way it is today. I would feel just like these detransitioners, depressed and alienated from my own body. 🥺

    • @azurephoenix9546
      @azurephoenix9546 Před rokem +12

      I mean, we and a huge issue of "doctors" deciding that just being a normal kid was ADD and ADHD and then about a decade later declaring that kids grow out of it when all these adults would be reevaluated and discover they weren't ADD or ADHD. Imo, I think that, even more than barbiturates and sedatives in the 60s and 70s, damaged the approach to mental health and the endless drive to label and medicate everything.
      If my kid has ADD and she'll grow out of it, then why would I toss amphetamines down her throat?
      When I asked her teacher and the school nurse this, what it basically came down to was that it makes their lives easier.
      Same goes for this. It's completely normal for kids to have these feelings of discomfort or uncertainty about their changing bodies and feelings and behaviors, so it's a matter of convenience to slap a label on it and give them a transitioning steps to follow. It gives them a plan of action to "handle" it, rather than to just go through the hard parts and to learn from them.
      I cannot imagine how emotionally stunted a person would be after blocking their puberty for years or corrupting their bodies natural development, which includes chemical shifts in the brain that occur at adolescence. If we think we have a problem with prolonged childhood now, give it another 10 years...
      These poor kids are being absolutely abused and you can't say anything about it.

    • @ChrisCanomi
      @ChrisCanomi Před rokem +4

      This is true! Those internet communities are dangerous, trynna put everything in good light while thwre are deep issues that should NOT be ignored!

    • @ChrisCanomi
      @ChrisCanomi Před rokem +2

      Growing up w internet can be dangerous! Love to read your experience. Im gay n was very troubled back as a 12 yo, talking to pedos n planning a suicide
      Its weird when they say “the community” when it only put me in danger, and this happens to most people, they enf up feeling unstable n suicidal if they get into that ideology!

  • @joshuabriggs7114
    @joshuabriggs7114 Před rokem +504

    My heart goes out to this beautiful, intelligent young woman who was betrayed by those who should have protected and nurtured her! I pray she finds peace and self acceptance.

    • @genodedemon5109
      @genodedemon5109 Před rokem +9

      Damn....I feel bad for her. Does she look more masculine because she de-transitioned? I'm honestly confused.

    • @rayriley4020
      @rayriley4020 Před rokem +17

      I am guy and I see a beautiful young lady ......

    • @caffieneaddict8716
      @caffieneaddict8716 Před rokem +13

      @@genodedemon5109 I assume she has a more masculine look because of hormone blockers being mentioned, and she had a double mastectomy. I forgot if she took testosterone, however, listening to her voice, it seems like she may have taken testosterone. All that can shift the body to seem more masculine. And she stated that she already had broader shoulders.

    • @Crypto_369_Trader
      @Crypto_369_Trader Před rokem +1

      he is a man

    • @redtobertshateshandles
      @redtobertshateshandles Před rokem

      @@Crypto_369_Trader they are a person. I wouldn't advertise as 50% potential asshole and 50% potential asshole. 100% potential asshole.

  • @adacathy3018
    @adacathy3018 Před 7 měsíci +1

    i'm so glad that stories like this are coming to light, there are so many young people who are trying to figure out who they are and the media and society are doing them a grave disservice. i am ashamed that i used to believe the lies that we were fed when they hurt so many people and worst of all children
    this discussion was very illuminating as well, god bless

  • @jordanabarcelos3733
    @jordanabarcelos3733 Před 9 měsíci

    The guy just described the worst and most confusing time in my life. I was 13/14, when I was getting very sure I was a trangender, after had watched a million videos and content trying to understand that. I went to a psychiatrist, talked to him just for a bit, and he gave me an antidepressant. I didn’t think I needed that at all, I didn’t think I was depressed. I thought my misery was coming all from my gender doubts. Until today, I thought that medicine was useless. Now it makes sense. I just started to accept the fact that I am a woman with time. I can say that I was profundely influenced by the internet that time, by all the references I had on CZcams. I am 21 now and homossexual. I study aerospace engineering and, although I know from my psychologist that I am not autistic, I have some signals, mainly when it comes to social skills. So, looking at the statistics it’s really impressive. I get sad knowing how I could be so vulnerable and stupid.

  • @carriebailey4455
    @carriebailey4455 Před rokem +427

    She's a beautiful soul and so brave for sharing her experiences during this complex time.

  • @kalanuarte683
    @kalanuarte683 Před rokem +169

    This poor girl is so nervous, just watch her hands. She is so brave, and doing this to help other children and parents that are confused. She needs an award for her honesty! Thank Dr Peterson for having her on, we applaud her and you for bringing this into the light.

    • @blatherskite9601
      @blatherskite9601 Před rokem +1

      Must have been very stressful for her to explain all her problems to a camera, or even a stranger such as JP.

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie Před rokem +6

      I'm not being disrespectful but that's not a girl.

    • @Sa_m-sam
      @Sa_m-sam Před rokem

      @@cooliipiei was so confused… I didn’t know what that person was. Thank you for the clarification

    • @farukhadzihasanovic6943
      @farukhadzihasanovic6943 Před rokem +5

      @@Sa_m-sam I think it is a biological female transitioned into male, then detrans back to female. (Had double mastectomy)

    • @zxwoodzy
      @zxwoodzy Před rokem +2

      @@farukhadzihasanovic6943Oh wow. i did not think that. What a terrible process to go through :(

  • @Fuukutoob
    @Fuukutoob Před 3 měsíci +1

    Isn't there something in a doctor's oath about not doing any harm?. It should be completely illegal to perform any type of surgeries like this on children!.

    • @tugmeboat
      @tugmeboat Před 3 měsíci

      It will be someday. Unfortunately, people generally have to suffer before others realize they are enforcing the wrong things.
      Scandinavian countries didn't eliminate their Eugenics laws until the late 1970s.

  • @Iamknwownastrouble
    @Iamknwownastrouble Před 9 měsíci

    What I find crazy is I was a tomboy through and through growing up but never thought once i was a boy. Even when puberty started i never really cared the changes i was going through vs boys. I hated my breast but only because i veiwed them as an inconvenience for the sports i wanted to do and even would claim id remove them one day.
    Now at 25 with a second little boy on the way i realize it wasnt the fact of being a girl that i hated it was the inconvenience (as stated earlier) it brought onto me and how it pales in comparison to surgeries i have had and how little of an impact the things i hated truly have overall have on what i want to do on a daily basis