#3 Saif Al Yasi - The Untold Truth About Love In A Men's World
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- čas přidán 13. 12. 2023
- In this episode we speak with Saif Al Yasi, founder of the BeHuman Academy in Dubai, UAE. Saif is coaching people to be healthier and stay connected to themselves and their family values.
Saif is speaking about his divorce, new marriage and the challenges of growing up with a conservative Iraqi background, seeking wives as subordinates.
He speaks about breaking down these barriers in his mind and behaviour and how he shifted into a healthy 3-dimensional relationship with his new wife, embracing emotional challenges and finding a common goal.
We introduce you to the secret recipe for finding a husband and the emotional growth it takes for a man to mature and succeed in his love life!
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Somehow this entire conversation, I was hearing in my head James Brown singing "This is a man's world, but it wouldn't be nothing without a woman or a girl.." ;)
I love this man’s mentality ❤
This guy is the true definition of a man! Ty!
He is indeed a wise man, the advice that he gives is very simple and logical at the same time. He seems to know who he is and what love is about. It is refreshing to see someone that is working on becoming a better man and also a better human being. I think a lot can be learned from him. My only one question is how he manages to be close with his wife if he is not home most of the time so i am curious to know that. But apart from that he resonates with me.
thank you so much for your support - the interview was very insightful 🫶🏼☀️
I like the approach where as a woman - you need to affirm your partner and make him feel apprecited. The part where women wouldn’t want to work to pay the bills, well, so are men happy to work just to pay the bills? I dont think so. I think both sides want to do fulfilling things and if those things pay money - even better
Can I get a clone of you 😍🙏🏽 your emotional intelligence is amazing- MashAllah !
Thank you for this amazing podcast. I enjoyed every minute of it. Such pure & honest talk. He's absolutely an amazing MAN.
Thanks for listening! What a nice comment to receive 🫶🏼☀️
It was a pleasure to be a guest in this podcast.
@@saifalyasiofficial ✨🙏🏼thank you ✨
A woman must do what she wants to do. A man must do what he has to do.
💯 agree. I indirectly told that to my boyfriend until he got it.
Wonderful interview! ❤
Great podcast!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
20:00, 29:30 Make sure he has the ability to grow otherwise you're pouring into a cup with holes and it drains you of all you can give as a woman. Does he have purpose? Does he have dreams? Does he have ambition? Or does he just want to sit on the settee/ couch and drain you of all resources? Use you to take his anger out on? Be careful but if he is a man who has had a difficult time and wants to grow and change himself into his full potential, he is husband material!
42:00 I've always wanted a provider do I could focus on my children, unfortunately I've had men my first husband and my daughters father who have not been a good provider, rather a taker and where I've had to slso take on s masculine and feminine role become both to get stuff done. It's awful, it's been detrimental to my parenting as I've been too drained, I've fone my best, tried to build my kids up and be an emotional support but I could have been loads better without ths weight of free loading men!
so sorry to hear this. you seem like a wonderful mother 💗🌷
@@blissrepublicI feel like I could have been far better had I had the support of the man I'm with. I chose boys instesd of men. Men who were not responsible people. The man I'm with is emotionally and verbally abusive and disengaged from life. Very negative, we've had to walk on eggshells over the years.
He wasn't like this when he was 12 years old or at least I never saw it, I'm still hoping for him to be that lovely person I saw in our youth. I only knew him for about 6 months when we were kids so he may have always had this side to him but I didn't see it.
I saw the signs in the early days, the door was off the hinge propped up against the spare room wall with a hole in it and his wardrobe top ( it was a door/drawer was ripped half way. I never asked about it, I was in love.
Anyway I've tried to learn as much as I can about narcissism and abuse and tried to build my kids up, to treat them with respect, to respect their boundaries so they know what feels right or wrong to them. Unfortunately my middle son has fallen in with a manipulator. I'm trying to be calm and just show him he's got somewhere to go and that he's always loved but she's isolating him. Anyway awareness is the first step. I'm going to make some pocket booklets with the equality wheel, abuse wheel. I did make them all a file on relationships both healthy and toxic but I doubt they read it.
It's going to be a tough lesson for him, he's just turned 20 but at least it will be early on in his life. If I push it to get him out it will push him closer towards her. She's love bombing him at the moment, intermittently abusing him covertly. I've just got to be there for him when he needs me.
I hope my kids settle down with good people. That's all you can hope for.
you know, my grandma sadly passed a few months back.
She held the family together with her love and warm heartedness. She never forced anything but rather invited ❤
And yet, she was the most powerful women i’ve ever gotten the pleasure to have known.
It’s not about what you do right or wrong but about the intention you do it with.
@@blissrepublicThank you, this hit hard. I've always tried to infuse love and understanding. I know my kids love me, feel safe with me and can talk to me about anything and they do but I just wish I'd been able to give them the warm loving home that they all deserved. We just had a two year break from my daughters dad so all was lovely. However his mother passed away in August and so I couldn't desert him. However this time round I've not given him a key so he knows, I've applied for a flat for him 🤞I want to see him fulfill his potential, he's great at physics and stuff, he's smart and has alot to contribute but totally disillusioned with life!
I'm trying to get myself to a place of financial stability so I can move on when everything is balanced stable and he's processed some of his grief. I don't think he's ever going to change with me, he's likely to give someone else his best. I don't know what to do, you can't change anyone else only work on yourself.
@@prismonthethehorizon5793 what you say and the way you describe him, sounds to me like you’re taking on another teenager. It’s important that you are clear about what the difference in behaviour is - knowing what a man needs to be for you compared to what your sons are to you. Ask other man also what they think is the difference.
When you are 100% clear on what you need your man to be for you, responsibilities, attitude, maturity, accountability, then have a conversation with him that these things are needed from him and set boundaries. Perhaps he may also want to seek support to understand how he can get there (saying this with best intentions). And most importantly, know that boundaries are for you, not him. Don’t expect people to respect your boundaries. You have to respect yourself enough to walk away if they aren’t respected by other people. Hope this helps. X
What about his previous woman? Does he support her ? They have 3 kids, who pays for the cost of living of these children?
Cant help,but feel sorry for his ex wife and kids.Yes,now he sounds sooo great and wonderfull, on expense of destroying one women to make other one happy( with no kids and responsibilities,while the ex wife still raising his kids)