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- čas přidán 16. 07. 2022
- When Tabby Njeri speaks of her father, bitter tears roll down her face. She remembers of her man who she says 'extremely hated her.' Whenever he found her eating, he would grab her plate and pour that food. Whenever he beat her mother, he would wake Tabby up and beat her as well.
Tabby also recalls of an incidence in which she was defiled by two men. The men and her father as well, would later confess that it was her father who planned the act. Here is a story of a young woman seeking answers from her father.
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My mum got married while I was in class 8...hearing this story I see how lucky I was because the man took me through high-school and never mistreated me in any way.
Waoh God bless your dad
Thanks to God c abarikiwe tu saana huyo mbaba
This lady is beautiful she looks waiguru the Governor
Kumbe tuko wengi tu naona waiguru
Maybe niwa baba mmoja they look.each other
Looks like njoki ndugu
Ngai you have told my story my dear friend 💔. Mine nikiwa ata married the hatred will be extended to the husband. I healed when I came to Saudi ohhh. God has been faithful to me. My Dota was done the same but I stood with her I couldn't imagine her going the pain I went through. I run away with her she was in class 6 now she's at the university completed 3rd yr. Who is God!!!
Sorry namesake may God heal you totally
Pole Sarah Ngige.Nì kurì Ngai wa ihinda rìngì.
@@sarahmoses2343 thank you, sometimes hukumbuka naona kama njana wee
@@nelaswanjiru1209 na ni Ngai mwibokeku ma ndahana mundu
Oh my
I am a victim of sexual abuse. Its one topic l have written in my book " l SLEPT ON SACKS". Sexual abuse is traumatic and it could run into cycles. We got to STOP it. Shout loud and tell it to the world. Mothers please protect your children.
Nii ndingitikira if I have to chose my daughter and husband I would choose my daughter forever ngai mbere
Joyce njoki kinyanjui hao wazazi wakitambo sio kama wa siku izi sisi diyo tuko tuwesi kumbali
How you still call him dad is a wonder to me 😢😢
So sad story, for my son I had to sell my business in Mombasa and relocate to Meru to be near him when he close school can't trust anyone 100% with my kids
Shes beautiful she resembles Governor Waiguru
Or Tabitha of kiroche industry.
I feel you,although I can not really explain what you went through..but I everyday thank God because I was also raised by my step-dad but God has been good since my he loved me like his own birth daughter despite my mum giving him 3more kids, he is poor but he gave me love,education, protection and the fatherly love that till today I have never had a good reason to think of finding my biological dad,actually it's a few number of people who knows he ain't my biological dad since he doesn't treat me any less than his biological children... I love him so much
Salute to that man
May the lord God remember the good work your dad did to you
May God bles that man
The beauty of growing up is realizing that those who tormented you when you were young and defenseless are indeed weak and that you were way stronger than them even at your small age. That's also when you realize how powerful and strong you are.
That doesn't excuse what such abusers do. Because it's bad and they cause trauma that takes years to heal.
But on the Bright side, as you grow up, you realize you are above them and you learn that you are a child of God and that God never moved his love away from you no matter how much the abusers tried, God made sure your light kept shining.
And with time the abusers get old and weak. And you see them as small and weak. It also makes you realize that they really were weak people. And that your light will never stop shining
The reason I chose to be a single mother all the way 🤗🤗🤗🤗it ll be better if I suffer alone and my kids be safe
Watching from University Of Oregon,United States Of America. Thanks dear Monica.
Afadhali wewe. Si utuite huko.
As mum’s there is no justification as to why your own girl/boy child can go through such horrendous trauma without any woman picking sign warnings…. Regardless how tired I am I always have time with my child she calls it “mum daughter time”, everyday after school my daughter must either call me if am
At work or when she comes and am
Home she’s always keen to tell how her day was… it I say am tired she gets upset and so I got used to saying pls make it short because mum is tired… and I make sure I go to her bedroom for catch up… May God take care of our children..
That's why am single.i can't imagin my son akiteswa na burukenge
so eloquent...born a leader,mayb a presenter ...she has something in her...may God bless u n may u realize that what is hidden
Waah..
That's why I decided not to remarry after separation with my husband.
Why did the mum not have the strength to leave this man. I better go to eat soil with my daughter than live with such a man.
Waiting to hear from this gorgeous soul 🥰
I see the pain of this woman,and May God always protect you and love you...I always say wanaume hushika watoto wana faa kuuawa wote😡😡😡😡☹️😔😒
Kuchinjwa ata,ni mashetani was watu.sorry to say but HAPANA AKI
Pole sanasana
She's soo eloquent
Great 👌 story
Wao that's wonderful. Sorry for your painful story.
The mum is the cause of all this lady's troubles....If her mum took action of ending that abusive relationship immediately that's from the moment the guy begun to be abusive this lady couldn't have gone through all those masaibus....some men/women tend to pretend to be so good during courtship but after marriage that's when they begin to show their true colors.....Some women tend to choose their husbands over their children and I guess that's why tuna so many street children suffering in the streets, only few percent of women stands for the right of their children and aren't even afraid to quit the relationship for the sake of their safety and that of their children ...A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter.
Waiting from Switzerland 🇨🇭
Ahana waiguru Ann
Nikuri Ngai urihanagiria na matigakoma mbirira-ini matarihite. At times as a woman when you have a child outside wedlock it's better to remain unmarried n take care of the kid/s . They suffer so much
Mwathani teithia motherhood othe tuhe uhoti wa kurera ciana iria utuhete amu dwatuheire cikagerera maundu maritu tamaya..na
Umagitagire he maugwati omothe turi hakuhi nao ona turi haraya nao God protect our children 🙏..
Sad story but Inspiring.
This gal is destined for greatness.God knows what she has gone through n all those tears are not in vain,He will wipe all away.
Kaititu Ngai will rift you up to your destiny watching from Seattle Washington
Waiting
Pole sanaa tabby sorry to for what happened
May the Almighty always protect our kids
Am proud of you girl
Some men are devils ni sheep's Clothing. Wangu alikuwa anarape maids, tukitoka kwenda jobs anarudi kwa nyumba...and he threatened them never to tell me. But one told me why she left after leaving. I also parked and left with my 2 kids who are mature now, I decided to park and leave because mzuri ya rwanio ikuaga na rwanio. I have never remarried but I think he is now on 4th or 5th wife. Now that my kids are well educated and working he is showing intrest but for me wacha I remain single, if his children want to meet him sina shida but Walikataa.
Ata mm ebu nikae single some r devil.i don't trust any man with my daughters.wakikua wakubwa watake their dad I will show them
So painful story,,, but at the end it's inspiring
Saudi Arabia watching ✅👀👌
That the reason I hate my step dad he abuse me and my sister so painful I can feel the pain she is going through 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hugs dear 🤗 😞
Hugs dear
@@angelinawanjiku7137 thanks dear
Mmmmh...so painful gal.. may God heal your hearts...🙏🙏
Poleni...Just go for counseling if you haven't gone that's and pour your hearts out..you shall overcome and the hatred you have towards your step dad will end....It's not right to live in this world carrying a heavy burden in your hearts it's not healthy actually....Go for counseling you and your sister that's...poleni again it's a sad thing but in this life shit happens but don't let the shit to take away your happiness koz to live in the past is to die in the present....
Mama yake alikua anajua shida yenye mtoto wake anapitia bt alikua anapenda bwana yake sana hakujalishwa na Mambo yenye mtoto wake anapitia,Kwa hivyo huyo mwanaume akatake advantage ya huyo mtoto ,coz after kujua bwana yake aliita watu warape msichana wake hakutate action,soo alikua anajua nini inaendelea ,lakini yeye alichagua marriage
They say,if rape is not talked about when it happens for the first time, the probability of it happening again is 100% sure,,,I know understand
Watching from Bahrain
She is very beautiful aki
Apart from the curse from the parent of this man, selling an inherited land is a curse itself.words from my late grandfather.
Hugs mum to u njeri,God bless is always on the throne.
Weeeu mi nilishindwa kuitana dad after what he made me pass through..kwa roho yangu 👎 👎 👎 no. The pain 💔 😢 always fresh
Pole sana Tabby. Btw you resemble madam Waiguru.
If I would choose between a husband and my daughter....I don't have to think even once ..my daughter is my life
True, that's why I chose and like being single than go back to marriage.
Niko nimagwo ni kuhika ndingegeria ndiui ingitigaga mwana wakwa ku naa tugatigana na shiru gakwa nda huruka
Wamama wengi it like ni kurogwa hero wa maintain married ata Kama watoto wao wateswe...
So sad 😞 😔 😟 🙁 😥
Definitely, not all men are bad, many are so good. I am one of those good men👍👍👍. Just like wise not all ladies are bad , definitely many are good 👍
Very sad,,tabby stay blessed
I know your pain.mimi nilibaguliwa mpaka leo.nguo walikuwa wananunuliwa mimi nawachwa ati pesa imeisha.very painful
Teach your child about body autonomy, don’t let everyone hug your child and it becomes a norm , that child need a to know they can say no to hugs , that way they know how to create personal space , know when they are touched inappropriately, and always tell them no one should ever touch them that way and if they do they must tell . Grown men who violate any child are not real men
Ngai nî wa thaa nyingî na aroteithia woone njîra.Ici nî mbaara na Mwene Nyaga aronania njîra îrîa ûkûgera wîmenye na kîhonia kîoneke.
That's very sound advice. Sex Pests are in your house. Talk to your children, and give them the freedom to tell you how their day was. Most of all please read their body language. Children who have been sexually or physically abused are groomed over a long period of time, they also leave in immortal fear of the abuser. Anyone who comes into contact with an abused child should be obliged to report it. Teachers should be taught how to spot signs of abuse in a child. A dirty unkempt child should not be ignored. A withdrawn child should not be ignored. Doctors should report any injuries they deem to be inflicted by a perpetrator, Neighbours and the wider public ought to question and report abuse when they see it being perpetrated or report it. We need a child protection agency in every County.
The lady looks like governor Ann waiguru
Aki she is so cute hugs gal🤗
Tabby I understand what you were feeling because I also didn't do well in high school because of what my mom was going through
Huyo mama alikua na kasoro. Kwani iko haja gani kuolewa na mtoto ateseke kwa macho yako, wewe kama mama
💔💔
😭😭😭This story 😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭acha kwanza nilie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭have not yet healed ,cjui when will I get such courage to speak out so that I can heal from the same ,,,😭😭😭😭bt to all mums out there ,am not married neither do I have a child bt what I can tell to mums who are seeing this pliz ,love ur kid or kids first ,,thank to my mum she opted to leave the marriage so that she can protect me despite that the moment she left I had already finished school and working ,😭I only feel the guilty being the reason my mum's marriage broke down ,bt one thing I sweared to myself I will never forsake her ,wish one day I will come out and speak out or get someone I can talk to and get healed 😭
May God console dia
So sad aciari angi matikarathimwo
oh she is from my village woi pole Tabby
Very sad the reason i work hard cz of my kids cz cant imagn getting married wth my kids mundu ekeugo woi angirara mocarì nanie kamìti my kids comes first
These are terrible facts about life that is happening everyday.
That man is cursed...
This is world is mad mad.
Waiting here
Hear from LNS.
Mm naeza revenge😭😭😭😭aai
Me too eeeish!
Ucio ari muguruki wa muthuri...kiu kiari gitango kia muthuri...shindwe kabisa...
So sorry for what you went through in life, may God heal you from everything you have gone through, may karma catch up with all those put you through this pain, personally I was brought up by a step dad actually from a different tribe but I'm greatful because he loved me as his own, never even wanted me to know that he's not my biological dad till he passed, we had challenges like any home but I thank God he always protected me, now I'm a mum of a son and honestly it's taken me over seven years to date coz I really wanted to protect him.
I rather stay single for the safetyness of my two children
Please do,am currently planning on how to live because my daughter and i tunateswa na mwanaume just coz mtoto si wake
@@anjelinemorengua9474 Heee !!!!!toka na usiangalie nyuma your child is more important than a man who has been raised by his mother with fully support and love then ukae Kwa ndoa apo mtoto wako akiangaishwa🤔🤔never
Keep going dada
@@anjelinemorengua9474 oooo pls look after your daughter
That why I have decided to never get married again for sake of my three amazing awesome boy's
Give them 💕
Lemi stay single for the sake of 2 baby girls
My friend tabby 😭😭😭😭😭😭Pole Sana sweetheart
Watoto wengi wakuolewa pamoja tunamejionea shida mingi
Germany locked as usual
Good job kagoni thank for voice of the voice less
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
But why??😭
I can relate your pain,my mum till date has never known how my dads brother used to do to me.Some men are so hurtless
I’m so sorry for what happened to you 💛
Really sorry about what happened to you. You need to talk to someone about it.
@@Mimi-xo2yr True talking about it helps... I hope one day I will be able to tell my own experience🤔🥺
Dance Dance girl and enjoy, women can we raise fearless kids this world is weird.
Whyyyy? In whose hands are we safe? Own dad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
He was step... But even biological are doing those things
Safe only in the hands of the Lord, but parents be very particular to your children's safety, open up and let them know to report if anyone advances to them in a fishy way, and teach them to tell you about anyone who said anything they don't understand or is confusing
I'm sorry to say this ucio mundurume nigiamutandikire nie ..atakijiarite caitani ya mundu
Watching from Nicaragua not maragua....
Nii ndingigeria kuhika tondu njitikitie gutiri mundu ungikwendera ciana ciaku 100%
Sasa Njeri tumenunua woga ,sisi tuko gulf tuliachwa na hawa wanaume wa shenzi tukawa single ,tukaachia wazazi watoi aki ..mm nikiona ivi nafeel kufly
Maombi maombi kwa wingi
I so sorry for this lady ngaiii not nice
Introduction ni Refu sana
Aki hii ndunia iko na mambo
This isn't a new story but ,God has a purpose for your life dear ,may you heal and may God elavate you.
Pombe sio wazmu,,,kama ni wazimu agekua ana confuse watoto wake na huyo sio wake ,,,soo ni kitu alikua anapanga then anakunywa ndio ajifanye Ati ni pombe
😭😭😭😭 Jesus Christ...
Is she from thogoto?
If she is the one..I love her Sana,she really has a good heart Sana ...
Mugunda wa inheritance dwendagio...but that guy was insane from the word go...
Some parents though 🙄.Njeri u r strong lady,be blessed
Women lets learn to let go if marriages that torture u or ua kids
Kangoni congrats
Monicah i think mtoto akitishiwa ata kutembea atajaribu watu wasijue, juzi hapa kuna mtoto alikuwa amearibiwa na babake and we never new it hadi vyenye alipelekwa hosi, and the painest part ni babake mzazi, i felt it na mahali imefika i cant trust any man.
Kaí andú mahana atía? Ithe múgima!?