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  • čas přidán 7. 07. 2024
  • Njeri* (not her real name) has tried love times but each of the relationships ended in tears. She first got married in a come we stay. Her relationship ended when the man started to demand that she gets him another woman. To him, Njeri had failed to give him children.
    She then got into the second marriage, did a white wedding but ended after numerous cases of infidelity and the third…..
    Here is a story of a girl who has not given up on love despite the many times love has wounded her.
    #whyareyousingle #methayakagoni

Komentáře • 152

  • @pearlynina7597
    @pearlynina7597 Před 12 dny +36

    I had an ectopic pregnancy and was in a really toxic relationship, then 10 years later, I'm holding my baby and happily married. God doesn't forget. God is faithful! Don't give up!

  • @charitywanjohi884
    @charitywanjohi884 Před 12 dny +12

    Sometimes When You Listen To Such Stories, You See As If Life Is Unfair. May God Be The Driver Of Your Life n Give You The Best. ❤❤❤

  • @isaacndirangu9259
    @isaacndirangu9259 Před 12 dny +20

    That last guy was a total simp! This lady sounds very responsible, may you find happiness

  • @pollymburu282
    @pollymburu282 Před 12 dny +16

    Kairitu I feel ur pain but why don't u sit-down with ur father and talk coz ata kama ni mubaya he will remain as ur father na as long as ako hai ndie ako na blessings zako.i wish u the best

  • @sharonn9769
    @sharonn9769 Před 12 dny +10

    Love this very raw and honest conversation.
    Pole kwa guest for relationships not working. It's better without than one that is unfulfilling. And YOU ARE ENOUGH...with or without kids or husband...its just a desire in life. ❤. Wish you well, and thanks for sharing

  • @annekamau6738
    @annekamau6738 Před 11 dny +7

    Please come back with a testimony coz i know God will restore you❤❤❤

  • @MonicahKamau-vg5ys
    @MonicahKamau-vg5ys Před 11 dny +4

    You sound so responsible,loving and ready for marriage such that the right time haven't come.Hang in there,God will make it beautiful at His own time 🙏

  • @sinyoritan1647
    @sinyoritan1647 Před 12 dny +16

    Huyu angeonyesha uso angepata mtu ...she sounds wife material.

  • @jacqueypatrick4090
    @jacqueypatrick4090 Před 11 dny +8

    The many "us" who love marriage reke ngwire many of us meet the sons of pharaoh 💔💔 it is well gal. May the Lord see you through

  • @mia-me6293
    @mia-me6293 Před 11 dny +10

    Sad story. Please sit down with your dad, have a conversation with him, msameheane na akubariki.

  • @jamesngare8878
    @jamesngare8878 Před 13 hodinami

    The lady is a gem.Happiness & contentment is on way coming!!! God is alive

  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 Před 12 dny +8

    Life is spiritual disconnect yourself with every relationship you have been , cleanse yourself through prayer . Yours is coming

  • @janekiniiya4841
    @janekiniiya4841 Před 12 dny +9

    Sweetheart you're beautiful and smart. The pregnancy clock is ticking... Get a child married or not .. God's blessings will still locate you. Good luck

    • @shikokariuki212
      @shikokariuki212 Před 7 dny

      Again the question begs, Must a woman get children or marriage for her fulfillment..!?🤔

  • @Mercy-yh9tz
    @Mercy-yh9tz Před 11 dny +2

    I believe that God's time is always the best when it arrives, no one will stop it,,he will never forsake you,,your strong lady may God grant you happiness you deserve it no more pain in life

  • @wanguimwash7326
    @wanguimwash7326 Před 11 dny +2

    Mungu huwa anasema you can do ALL things through HIM who strengths you. All THINGS. Hata ukikosa ndoa ama watoto hakuna kitu mbaya kama kuabort alafu in your 40s unatafuta hao watoto. Hakuna uchungu kama hiyo but God still heals that heart na anaipa amani. Nakuombea Mungu akupe amani n never give up. Do what you can coz life must go on alafu unachievable Mungu yale huwezi.
    Amen

  • @user-wk5cf8fs4m
    @user-wk5cf8fs4m Před 5 dny +1

    Sorry for you gal but what I know is you are complete with or without kids nether husband usijisumbue sana na mambo huwezi jifanyia trust in God and when the time comes God will answer your prayers gal we love you ❤

  • @printpoint100
    @printpoint100 Před 12 dny +6

    I think this is the most inspiring story I have heard on this channel.

  • @ceciliahmwangi497
    @ceciliahmwangi497 Před 11 dny +8

    When will women learn that's when you leave marriage dont go to your parents house just rent or be hosted with friends

    • @estherwatheri5506
      @estherwatheri5506 Před 10 dny

      Maybe what's the reason.
      Or
      Nitataboo

    • @leratosabu3515
      @leratosabu3515 Před 5 dny

      What if you don't have the means to rent out your own place?
      What if you're friends are not able to host you?

  • @jackiekarimi4078
    @jackiekarimi4078 Před 11 dny +2

    Guess we are sailing in the same boat na Njeri when it comes to relationship...but ipo siku😢😢😢

  • @janendegwa5462
    @janendegwa5462 Před 11 dny +2

    People dream about been married and the way many marriages are wrong in this Kenya

  • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
    @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny +2

    Me nafkiri wasichana kutumia izi family huleta shda na kubadilisha men huyu ule....

  • @lucymaina1555
    @lucymaina1555 Před 5 dny

    A very good lesson.May God pave way for her. He is Faithful.

  • @susangathoni8750
    @susangathoni8750 Před 11 dny +5

    Aki hapo Kwa hakuna relationship yako huwork ni kama Mimi....hakuna yangu hukaa but I believe one day God will bless me with my Better half ...

    • @ChelseaSonia
      @ChelseaSonia Před 11 dny

      God will❤

    • @judymwangimuthoni4176
      @judymwangimuthoni4176 Před 11 dny

      Usijali sweetheart God's time is the best,one day you'll look back & tears of joy will flow. Amen

    • @charitykawirambaabu9747
      @charitykawirambaabu9747 Před 11 dny

      Sometimes kuna mtu hana bahati ya mapenzi/ ndoa poleni sana,,God knows why​@@judymwangimuthoni4176

    • @suzzanenjoki9547
      @suzzanenjoki9547 Před 10 dny

      Mi too....married twice and still single now

    • @charitykawirambaabu9747
      @charitykawirambaabu9747 Před 9 dny

      @@suzzanenjoki9547 ndoa sio must,,watu wengi wanaishi single na wako na amani na pesa za kulea watoto wao,,acha kuabudu ndoa

  • @njeriwamumnahubby
    @njeriwamumnahubby Před 12 dny +1

    Best conversation ever❤❤❤❤!! Love you girl! May the Lord locate you

  • @EstellNEssy
    @EstellNEssy Před 11 dny +1

    I've listened to this woman, and one thing I can say is that she needs to seek therapy with a licensed professional to heal her inner child. It seems like she had a father but never had a healthy relationship with him.
    As girls and women, the first example of how to be treated by a man comes in the form of our fathers. As women, we need to stop chasing the Cinderella fairy tale and start vetting these men. Stop falling for words and look at how he treats you.
    HPV is also real and a silent form of cancer. Lets use protection before offering our wombs to men who do not deserve us.

  • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
    @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny +3

    Me ni singo one kid na sjawai kosa usingizi ju sjaolewa.mimi sjawahi olewa ata siku mbili i was dumped na mimba na nikakaa ivo....usijali ata kua singo sio ulemavu

  • @irinemugambi2048
    @irinemugambi2048 Před 11 dny +1

    That man is jealousy,he don't want to loose this lady,but still,he's a player

  • @Marywanjix4631
    @Marywanjix4631 Před 10 dny

    I am so, so sorry for you Njeri for what you've gone through. May the Lord heal every brokenness, there are so many things that come into our lives which we can't explain.First things first, just pray to God for favour with your dad, sit down with him and let him know how his actions have affected you and forgive him.Its obvious he too has issues. Blessings upon blessings.

  • @Gorgeousij
    @Gorgeousij Před 12 dny +5

    Community husbands reke nemwo

  • @RoseNyambura-il7wf
    @RoseNyambura-il7wf Před 9 dny

    This girl has really suffered.Oh God have Mercy on her. I am so touched by her story.

  • @zediemhumble4593
    @zediemhumble4593 Před 10 dny

    Uyu mrembo anakaa very young, may God locate you and fulfill your desires.

  • @FaithWanjiru-oj7kz
    @FaithWanjiru-oj7kz Před 10 dny +1

    God will restore what the caterpillar and the cankerworms have eaten, God is of another chance,never say die baby gal

  • @rodahnjoroge1037
    @rodahnjoroge1037 Před 10 dny

    The idea of adopting a child is very good. It's much better than looking for a man to get a baby especially if you fear God.

  • @kungunganga4903
    @kungunganga4903 Před 12 dny +7

    Oiiyìì ..its really hard to think about..mùirìtu ùyù nìacoke na mùciì ..Niethe karanja wa mwangi kana kamau wa kìrigì..some things are not just like that as Christianity gets as to think..😮

  • @shiksjustin
    @shiksjustin Před 11 dny +1

    Ka dem roho safi,may God relocate you with your rib❤️❤️

  • @bensonikara8580
    @bensonikara8580 Před 6 dny

    Your father is a good man sisi wote tulipitia hio life

  • @kaibungarose
    @kaibungarose Před 12 dny

    Thanks madam kagoni

  • @leahmuthoni9576
    @leahmuthoni9576 Před 11 dny +1

    😂😂 huwezi saidia mwanaume kupanga pesa yake my friend especially kwa watu wao 😅

  • @margretnyambura7381
    @margretnyambura7381 Před 12 dny +1

    the testimony for the job was amazing❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @moreen8833
    @moreen8833 Před 12 dny

    Wow such an inspiration all the best girl

  • @Nancy-h2s
    @Nancy-h2s Před 10 dny

    Njeris story is very similar to mine, hoping one day i will also have a courage to share my story

  • @catecate8191
    @catecate8191 Před 12 dny +1

    May God fulfill the desires of your heart gal..umepitia kweli

  • @milkahkamugu8103
    @milkahkamugu8103 Před 11 dny

    May God restore you and put you a new song in your mouth ❤❤❤

  • @waridim9249
    @waridim9249 Před 12 dny +1

    Mûirîtu mwega ma. Mwathani aromûhe mûmwendi na twana.

  • @marykiboi4269
    @marykiboi4269 Před 10 dny +1

    Her story and my story are so similar

  • @Kinyua6
    @Kinyua6 Před 11 dny +4

    The lady has much unrealistic expectations

  • @sherahm.inspires9969
    @sherahm.inspires9969 Před 12 dny

    The testimony for the job amazing ❤❤

  • @charitykawirambaabu9747

    Woiyee 😢kuna watu hupitia mateso juu ya mapenzi aki,,Mungu atuonekanie

  • @user-eq5cn8hy8b
    @user-eq5cn8hy8b Před 11 dny

    😢 sorry for the misfortunes..God give u peace ❤

  • @lydiahnyambura4298
    @lydiahnyambura4298 Před 11 dny

    Njeri,have a one on one with your dad for dads blessings

  • @maggievlogskenya3109
    @maggievlogskenya3109 Před 12 dny +1

    That's me i like having family husband but i have bbygal i thanks God's for that

  • @MercywangariGititi
    @MercywangariGititi Před 12 dny +1

    Tuned

  • @peninahkabugi7173
    @peninahkabugi7173 Před 7 dny

    Njeri ur strong woman n God got you gal.Kagoni u look awesome.

  • @Njeriblessedblessed
    @Njeriblessedblessed Před 11 dny

    May God remember us .....najua tu ipo siku tutapata true love

  • @goddymtrue
    @goddymtrue Před 8 dny

    In my opinion, and without offense, I think that if a woman is single for a long time, it means she has standards and will not accept just anything. For a woman, there's nothing like the right one or waiting for God's time; you simply need to change yourself to be the right one for anyone. I would suggest that she show her face; maybe she might attract someone from the viewers, kama mbaya, mbaya.

  • @MargaretKimani-wq8dl
    @MargaretKimani-wq8dl Před 11 dny

    Wah,aki life wewe!!!!I have two children in school,I got another this year,am giving up on my children coz Kwanza the girl is in collage wueeh

  • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
    @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny

    Mo nilikua nachapwa Sana na mama..ety niko kama babangu☹️kuonewa kufkuzwa😢😢 ata staki kukubuka

  • @margaretngugi8262
    @margaretngugi8262 Před 11 dny

    I have marriage to another tribe and what i see this people are so attracted to their families such that when its comes about money share the bills and each save they money do your own things .

  • @kezzybett1142
    @kezzybett1142 Před 12 dny +1

    Wah😮

  • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
    @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny

    Wacha kupea men pesa....shda ya wanaume,ata ukisalimia mtu kila siku anaanza kuona unamtaka....ukimsupport anamea pembe.....usiwapee...kua mgum... WA provide wakikataa waede....they are using u

  • @jacquelinenjeri1871
    @jacquelinenjeri1871 Před 12 dny

    Stand with those promises and God will fulfill your desires,He's with you.

  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 Před 12 dny +1

    Hallo Monica from Pensacola Florida

  • @charitykawirambaabu9747
    @charitykawirambaabu9747 Před 11 dny +1

    Wanawake hii kupenda mtu kiufala mtaacha,,unaonyeshwa madharau na unajifanya huoni,,those are red flags,,ndio maana mwanaume hatawacha madharau kwako

    • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
      @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny

      Waambie....huyu alikua anaforce issues Kwa Huyo WA harusi....kutolewa bags nje? Na haedi? Desparation

  • @user-rc2yg1ko1p
    @user-rc2yg1ko1p Před 10 dny

    Huyu Msichana alikua anaforce hio relationship... The guy was not in love

  • @miria659
    @miria659 Před 11 dny

    May God have mercy it is well

  • @annewenjiku-oc8bk
    @annewenjiku-oc8bk Před 9 dny

    My sister she has been looking for love which she didn't found it from her parents I understand her very well plus her father has been not good with her he has been fighting his own demons so he transfers his hatred to his dear family this is why this girl has been falling into evil men shetani ishindwe milele in Jesus Christ Name and you beautiful girl learn to heal first and to draw closer to God Almighty Jesus Christ and the Holy spirit seek first the kingdom of Heaven and the rest shall fall into it place again kagony kindly it a wish of every woman to have a beautiful marriage with kids and a peaceful home it every woman dream and those who are yarning to settle down with all cost many are disappointed and many has never been loved so they want to fill that gap and many in search of happiness has been wounded we are breeding to much those wounds must heal first through Jesus Christ if we are ready to allow Him into be the centre of our life I mean real landlord of our life may God Almighty heal all the Brocken heart in Jesus Christ Name

  • @esthernyambura3892
    @esthernyambura3892 Před 12 dny +4

    Athuri amwe matikona muoyo😭

  • @MaryMuriu
    @MaryMuriu Před 12 dny +2

    Njeri you can adapt a child and kagoni akuonyeshe promito upewe chumba ulipange polepole

    • @estherwandati5163
      @estherwandati5163 Před 11 dny +1

      Promito ni gani I'd like to know too

    • @user-rl3fe3te1z
      @user-rl3fe3te1z Před 11 dny

      Promito ni branch ya kagoni

    • @carolshii8023
      @carolshii8023 Před 11 dny

      Promitto makagira mundu wina handu hagwakiruo ucoke urute 30% naniwaigua nihindi arefanga kugura

  • @faithbeckykinuthia5654

    Hii story ni kama mimi though I have never been married am 30 but hakuna relationship yangu huwork...no kid...but nkama relationship it's another mountain in my life...

  • @user-hi8sg6pt6l
    @user-hi8sg6pt6l Před 10 dny

    So sorry baby girl,hugs

  • @emmawanjiku9781
    @emmawanjiku9781 Před 7 dny

    God remember this lady

  • @noble7918
    @noble7918 Před 11 dny

    Hapo kwa born again na God fearing 🤦🤦🤦
    The word of the Lord brings light and understanding to the simple.
    You cannot be born again and not fear God! You cannot be a non believer and fear God!

  • @MarsMars-d9w
    @MarsMars-d9w Před 8 dny

    Kenye naweza kukuabia atakama hukukosea babako Neel down newbie akusamehe juu baraka hutoka kw wazazi

  • @bethwambui99
    @bethwambui99 Před 12 dny +1

    Unfortunately love !!!

  • @mworiabeatricenyambura581

    Trust in God

  • @Essykimz_1
    @Essykimz_1 Před 12 dny +1

    There has to be a limit though 😮

  • @CJM2248
    @CJM2248 Před 11 dny

    Narcissist my God,they are never remorseful.

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 Před 11 dny +1

    Anakaa/anaongea kama Dolly.

  • @wambuirk
    @wambuirk Před 7 dny

    Lakini she's also controlling

  • @florencegatuku3479
    @florencegatuku3479 Před 12 dny +1

    Our God is not limited that's y I love him.waoh,

  • @lydiahnyambura4298
    @lydiahnyambura4298 Před 11 dny

    This will help you in your marriage n your children to come.

  • @vertyverty7334
    @vertyverty7334 Před 12 dny +6

    Hello Monica niko iraq nakam kenya na my madam will you invet me please

    • @susankomu8978
      @susankomu8978 Před 12 dny +5

      Invet?😅invite or interview??

    • @charitykawirambaabu9747
      @charitykawirambaabu9747 Před 11 dny

      Ebu aseme tumuelewe😅😅​@@susankomu8978

    • @carolegitahi8414
      @carolegitahi8414 Před 10 dny +1

      ⁠@@susankomu8978 she is addressing @Monica Kagoni. And am sure Monica understands what she means .

    • @susankomu8978
      @susankomu8978 Před 10 dny

      @@carolegitahi8414 En where is the problem now??

  • @joycemuthigani1886
    @joycemuthigani1886 Před 12 dny

    Mah hizo vitambaa ilikua inachoma😢😢😢

  • @DadaSophia-rk2kj
    @DadaSophia-rk2kj Před 12 dny +3

    Life is spiritual,one should always pray,and because of prayer one will always be warned about a person, through dreams and vision.

    • @ThankGod2024
      @ThankGod2024 Před 12 dny

      Many of these ladies and men involve God only when things goes bad … it’s so blaspheming complaining to God about an issue one never involve God before doing it . 😢

  • @nancygiteru6309
    @nancygiteru6309 Před 4 dny

    Ladies if you ever get an ectopic pregnancy soon as you realise I know of a OBG doc who will give you a drug which enables the foetus to come out without surgery which means the Fallopia tube remains intact

  • @user-ze1so1kq6z
    @user-ze1so1kq6z Před 12 dny +1

    Achana na pombe , malaya wako ata ma pastors,, tigana na njohi

  • @Shriken9175
    @Shriken9175 Před 12 dny +1

    About the phone, anytime you take your spouse phone and go through it there's very high chances to be frustrated. May God fulfill your desire.

  • @user-wn9nz2zv9f
    @user-wn9nz2zv9f Před 12 dny

    Hey

  • @halimask3239
    @halimask3239 Před 11 dny +2

    Monica pls,am ur fun from long time,but manzee haupendi hawa watu they don't like showing there face,,that's a red flag.....

  • @gracekiarie-iz1sj
    @gracekiarie-iz1sj Před 12 dny +1

    Tuned nanyuki

  • @user-ze1so1kq6z
    @user-ze1so1kq6z Před 12 dny +1

    Wewe kairitu tiga wana,, pombe haina shinda hiyo kubwaa,, kagoni is Trying to shp u up, kuna wanaume wengi ukunywa lakini wako responsible, my husband drink but only few drinks and comes home, hiyo masharti ya waaa,

    • @Gorgeousij
      @Gorgeousij Před 12 dny +1

      @@user-ze1so1kq6z
      Pombe na wanawake zinapelekana pamoja.mtu alewe na pombe na aliwe na wanawake,kwisha

    • @polinegichuki530
      @polinegichuki530 Před 12 dny +6

      Na sasa kama wewe uko sawa na bwana anakunywa, nani amekwambia kila mtu ako hivo? Everyone has their deal breakers

    • @noble7918
      @noble7918 Před 11 dny

      ​@@polinegichuki530pewa glass ya maji kwa bill yangu ❤

    • @ceciliahmwangi497
      @ceciliahmwangi497 Před 11 dny

      Kila mtu na principles zake kwa marriage sawa

  • @wanjiruwanganga5707
    @wanjiruwanganga5707 Před 12 dny +1

    Mmmh... popcorns time.....

  • @noble7918
    @noble7918 Před 11 dny +1

    This not a judgmental post but a sad observation......
    We have very many people professing salvation but living lives away from the tenents of Word of God.
    Its a high time that the Body of Christ implements a robust discipleship system for all believers.

  • @julianjambi212
    @julianjambi212 Před 12 dny +1

    Ukiishi kuchukua simu za wanaume kusoma message utaishi single🤔

    • @gracewairimu937
      @gracewairimu937 Před 12 dny

      Whether one doe or not , red flags don’t lie , next it willl be diseases one can’t cure run for your life and dignity, but each to their own

    • @estherwandati5163
      @estherwandati5163 Před 11 dny

      Its good once in a while, you might die na iyo simu ingekuikoa..

    • @sylviaotieno1264
      @sylviaotieno1264 Před 10 dny

      So HIV is better

    • @estherwatheri5506
      @estherwatheri5506 Před 10 dny

      What about being infected with STDS n HIV

  • @miriamgacheru5544
    @miriamgacheru5544 Před 12 dny +2

    Mapenzi wewe😂😂😂

  • @user-iv2xx6kl3i
    @user-iv2xx6kl3i Před 11 dny

    Hauna nyota

  • @19566
    @19566 Před 10 dny

    Aki kogoni siku hizi unaleta video refu...aslong as they are good tunaboeka😢

    • @wehavebeen7450
      @wehavebeen7450 Před 10 dny

      When she would do a long interview in two parts people would still complain. You simple cannot please everyone.

    • @19566
      @19566 Před 10 dny

      @@wehavebeen7450 we are sorry 😔 keep watching

  • @kk-xl2pp
    @kk-xl2pp Před 12 dny +2

    Coka na muciii orore maundu ninaku that's not normal

  • @mathengejessie9019
    @mathengejessie9019 Před 11 dny

    Quite a story
    The lady is amazing
    Wish her well
    You didn't give us her email 😮

  • @teclamukami1149
    @teclamukami1149 Před 12 dny

    Tuned