Men Don't do this 1 Mistake !! (malayalam)
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- Men. Don't do this one big mistake.
DON'T consider only growth in job and career as 'growth'.
This is the story of a large segment of men in our country. While women are also struggling in terms of mental health and healing, I see they are taking more initiative towards learning & unlearning.
Older men, once they retire, enter burn out & do not have anything to look forward to.
➡️ Men, do you resonate with this point?
➡️Family members - are you seeing men in your family leading fulfilling lives?
➡️Are they practicing stress relief or mindfulness of any kind?
➡️Are they trying to learn new things, apart from what's needed for their career ?
➡️What do you feel when you see them leading quite a sad life or a dull old age??
Swati Jagdish
Psychologist
Sexuality health educator
Everything becomes concepts when you are a middle class or lower middle class men. Life sucks anyway. The whole pressure of being poor and want to gain and enrich with money. Meanhile loose every meaningful purpose.
I totally agree with you 💯😢
Exactly
@@azad738 you can come out of the victim mode.. Please believe in yourself. Believe in a different destiny. You can manifest it. You need to become the main character of your life ❤️
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 most women i have met are in victim mode.... Yapping about period pain, past trauma, being scared, physically weak... Etc
Still get great deal of reservation, women friendly laws, ecnomic assistance (window pension, did man have that option) etc still yapping and crying about inequality 😂😂😂
Dheey Azad sir
you do not ask a fish about fishing : A wise man
Very true when you say that men should think beyond their professions and jobs. Cultivating two hobbies is necessary, whatever they may be. I see a lot of men in their 40s and beyond who have no interests in life. They don't read, write, travel or do anything else. Some like to get drunk and others watch toxic soap operas on TV. Men need to come out of their rot. Make men great again! 😊
Men and mental health is only mattered by the society when they are lacking content and impression
@@mantrake528 too sad, you have such a perspective.
I thought the same😅@@mayasamma-malayalam4666
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666say that to warren ferrel who was blicked by feminist when he came to speak on mens mental health
Hey woman,
You really dropped this 👑
So sad to know that IPS officer committed suicide. Seems that he couldn’t survive a day without his soulmate. Hope they don’t have any kids. An all around development of the individual - be it boy or girl - is a concept that must be put into practice beginning with schools. Indian schools are so heavily concentrated on academic syllabus. Testing only for memory capacity, book worm capabilities and sadly nothing more.
Pete ;”)
This is not just for men.
Any professionals can relate to this.
Good work 👌
I like to add we all are social beings. So it is not good for anyone to be alone, whether you are a child or an old person, we all need someone to share or someone in hard times. And I appreciate you bring this topic, you are right men think they should be more stubborn and that's not really good (situation wise). I like you said grandfather's are stubborn to grandchildren's and that's so true specially in india
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Thank you for doing this. Literally cried after long time watching this video.
@@Jeevan-gw1hf aw that's so sweet. I'm glad it resonated with you.
Great Video❤
Good content 💯
Great work mam❤
Just loved the presentation 👏♥️
@@deatman7713 thanks
Really a good content 💯
Peace have caused our strength , victory has defeated us 😢
ശെരിക്കും എനിക്ക് എന്താ പറയേണ്ടത് എന്ന് അറിയില്ല.ഇഷ്ടമില്ലാത്ത ജോലി, അച്ഛനെയും അമ്മേയും നോക്കണം, ഒരു long time reln breakup aayi. ആകെ ഒന്നുനിലും ഒരു interestum തോന്നുന്നില്ല.ആകെ എൻ്റെ വരുമാനത്തിൽ ആണ് vtl എല്ലാം നടക്കുന്നത്.28 വയസ്സ് ആയി ,കൂടെ ഉള്ളവർ എല്ലാം settle ആയി. എനിക്ക് മാത്രം ഒന്നും ശെരി ആകുന്നില്ല.🥺.എന്താ എൻ്റെ life purpose. ഒരു പിടിയും കിട്ടുന്നില്ല .
Ninne pole kodikkanakkin manushyar und koode njanum 29 vayas
@@akshaydev5213 big hugs.. All I can suggest is two things. There's a recorded content on my app titled Life purpose . Listen to that to get some clarity. Or sit and talk one on one with a professional
You are not alone bro
Most males ഇന്നും ഇത് തന്നെ ആണ് അവസ്ഥ.. competition is very high..also old people and മുമ്പ് ഒക്കെ jobs കിട്ടിയവർക്ക് അറിയാത്ത കാര്യം ഉണ്ട്.. മുമ്പ് ഒക്കെ ഉള്ളത് പോലെ അല്ല ഇന്ന് situation മാറി.
മുമ്പ് ഒരു 20 years മുന്ന് ഒക്കെ ജോലി കിട്ടിയ പുരുഷന്മാർ ഇന്നത്തെ 1990s, 2000s kids ഇന്നേ ജോലി കിട്ടാത്തതിൻ്റെ പേരിൽ കളിയാക്കുന്നുണ്ട്.
അവർക്ക് മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ കഴിയാത്ത കാര്യം.
1. അന്ന് ഒന്നും girls ജോലി cheyyunnavar വളരെ വിരളം ആയിരുന്നു മാത്രം അല്ല ചില തസ്തിക കളിൽ മാത്രം ഒതുങ്ങിയിരുന്നു.. ഇന്ന് പുരുഷന്മാരിൽ നിന്ന് മാത്രം അല്ല സ്ത്രീകളിൽ നിന്നും competition ഉണ്ട്..പിന്നെ (female preferred) aan പല ജോലികളും അതായത് extreme rare ആണ് ഇന്ന് ജോലി കിട്ടുക എന്നത് males ഇന്നേ സംഭധിച്ച്..
2. ഇപ്പോഴും males only use money for family trend മാറിയിട്ടില്ല..
3. ഇനി വരുമാനം ഉണ്ടായി കഴിഞ്ഞ് വരുമ്പോഴേക്ക് കുറച്ച് late ആവും.. ഇന്ന് കാസ്സിൽ നിന്ന് തന്നെ പയ്യങ്കാരെ കിട്ടുന്നത് കൊണ്ടും.. majority girls ഇന്നും 3 years gap max ഉള്ള പുരുഷന്മാരെ മതി എന്നായി..
4. Overall value of males is lesser. പെണ്ണിന് കിട്ടുന്ന വില പുരുഷ്മാർക്ക് ഇനി കിട്ടില്ല.. female domination ആണ് വരുന്നത്..
ഇത് ഒക്കെ ആണ് underlying problems..
Aa breakup issue maati vechal we r same bro iam also 28😢
Good content ❤
live a little 🌟
" Men are brave"
Spiritually and Science 😂👏
Thanku mayas Amma ❤
Very interesting
thanks. thats a sub...
SUBSCRIBED loved it mam
Patriarchy കാരണം??? Brev wt are you even talking about?
Life messed up when ppl focused on the western society.
A man is a man and should be.
Njn oru 26 years old men ann enikk ente life l orupaad achievements nedanam ennund athinte oru first step hardwork il ann njn.. Ath kanjaalum orupaad velye velye kryghal cheyyanam ennaaghrahikunnr aahl ann njn... But enne kure kaalayitt allattunne oru vishyam mrg ann bcs ente life le ente achievements neduka ente kudumbhathod oppam happy jeevikuka ennathann ente life nte agraham.... Achievements ellam nedi enn enikk thonumbozhe njn mrg ne pati chindikkallo... Athokke nedi varumbizhekkum pinne mrg kazhkko ennum ariyilla bcs enikk aghane oru chaaya kudi bendhathil ninno aghane thiranj pidich mrg cheyyano onnu ottum thalpparymilla.. Ayaale natural aay kand mutatte ennan athum kure naalathe parijayam venam pinne enne kurich ayaalum.. Pinne ayaale kurich njanum nannayianslakkitt lifelong kude indaavum enn urappnindekile mrg cheyallo bcs njn ente bendhaghalil. Valare emotionally connected aavunne aahl ann athond thanne ente ella bendhaghalum enik irreplaceable ann.. Enikk oru vaapayum ummayum illo ennath etra satym ano ath pole thanne ente life il kadann varunne women um oraal mtramme indavallo ath ath girlfriend aay kadann vannaalum sheri wife aay kadan vannaalum sheri physically and mentally otta womene ente life il indavallo athum life long kude indaaavhm ennu urapp indenkile njn ente lifelott aduppikkallo... Ente kude kudi pinned divorce n oru chance um indavilla enurappulla atrem njnumaayi connected aaye aahl ann enn enikk ayaalkkum urapp indenkile oru women ente life il varallo... Unfortunately innathe kaalath aghane oru concept il oraal indaavo enn polum ariyilla.. Athkond thanne njn mrg cheyyathirikkaanann koodthal chance.. Appozhann problem naatukaarum bendhakkarum okke parayum avan entho kuzhappam ind kandille mrg onnum cheyyand nadakunnath nalle doctor ee kaanichude ennokke parayum allenkil parayum avan entho chittikali indenn okke... Ee vaka preshnaghal ellaam oru men aayaal anubhavikendi varum njn churukki paranjathann ithonnumallanithinte appuram anubhavikkrndi varum enikkariyaam... Anyway njn ente life l. Busy aayrikkum ath onnum enne vedhanippikkilla enn thonunnu... Padachone ariyaam..
@@user-it4zb7vt6z may you get whatever you dream about in life. God bless
Life is simple …. Don’t complicate it…. we born …we live …we die…. Don’t care about what others think about you… don’t ever commit suicide … If you want to die, eat drink smoke repeat…you will die eventually…
Parvathy Thiruvothinu youtube channel okke undaruno..❤
I committed a lot of past mistakes and I want to overcome traumas related to that
@@Aazikka you can do it. Start with therapy or some form of inner work whenever you feel ready ✌🏼
The past is past, bro. You are not perfect until you make some mistakes, bro, and those mistakes are not your fault either. It's okay.
It's okay to start again. To get over the past, get therapy; it will definitely help you.
Or if you want to get some temporary relief by yourself, read about internal family systems. It will help you find out why you made those mistakes and how you can overcome them.
@@_illuminandi thank you so much 🫂
@@_illuminandi thank you so much 🫂
I thought something big is coming.. it's just personal development and that is something not particular for any gender..
Long distance relationshipne kurchu oru video cheyyumo
Must reading books ethaoke enna paryamo
@@CINEMA-TALK..... Attached, Surrounded by idiots, Becoming super natural, autobiography of a yogi, many lives many masters, there are more. I'll do a video on my fav self help books.
Men are brave🗿
You doing to much voice clutter. Insted of uhm and ahh u can use a poses its help
Can you share fatherhood video?
There is a different aspect from Patriarchal Society ; it's not Patriarchal : It's all about basic human nature of women that imposes their ideology unknowingly on a Man. Man at certain young age has specific look at everything with honest and later regret it . And after certain age you have to take responsibility, they become responsible for everything which also becomes a matter in relationship and jobs { still women's always tend not to care for responsibilities which will cause = Two way crushing society}
താങ്കൾ പറഞ്ഞ ഗുരുജി വീഡിയോ ഞാൻ കണ്ട്. അയാള് പറഞ്ഞ കാര്യങ്ങൽ scientific ആണോ, wifi, 5G , artificial light. ഇതിൽ നിന്ന് എങ്ങനെ നമുക്ക് അസുഖം ഉണ്ടാകും. ഇയാള് പറഞ്ഞ കാര്യങ്ങൾക്ക് എന്തെങ്കിലും scientific backing ഉണ്ടോ. It seems like a sponsored content . Anyway, If you are bringing such people to your platform means you agree with his views. Such a pathetic
@@NASEEFMOHAMMED Just because you don't understand doesn't mean something is unscientific. Plenty of data on every thing he spoke. All I can do is talk about things in my sessions, on my channel etc. Ultimately without shunning anything it's up to the individual to do their own research
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 such things are pakka unscientific, so when you promote such people and their content you should also be responsible. There is no scientific backing or evidences to such things.
Another mistake: dear men plz don't put assets on your own name.
Patriarchy oru double edged sword aanu.
After long time 🤝 Swathi
@@vishaloc8092 yes.. Been a long time
Dating advice നെ കുറിച്ച് videos ചെയ്യാമോ
Simple if you are a chad(great looks, above average earner) you attract most women.. If you are a normie with high earning you either get gold diggers or sell-outs... If you area sub 5 with no money just rope max your genatic material is not needed to pass down😂😂😂
@@anandu.s6886 bro rope max nu vecha ntha ?
ഇപ്പോളത്തെ പെൺപിള്ളേർ ഇഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നത് gentlemen നെ ആണ് with high character strengths and virtues.
പിന്നെ ഇതിൻ്റെ ഒക്കെ ഒരു byproduct ആണ് money. If you have high values there's a high chance that you are succeeding in life.
@@ajn6091ഞാൻ ഉദ്ദേശിച്ചത് പെണ്ണിനെ നോക്കി നടക്കാണ്ട് സ്വന്തം character strengths and virtues ഏതൊക്കെ ആണെന്ന് വച്ചാൽ അതിനെ ഡെവലപ്പ് ചെയ്യാൻ ആണ്. അങ്ങനെ ചെയ്യുവാണെങ്കിൽ ഒരു 25 ആവുമ്പോൾ നല്ലൊരു ജോലി ഒക്കെ ആയി ഇഷ്ടം ഉള്ള പെണ്ണിനേയും കെട്ടി ലൈഫ് സ്റ്റാർട്ട് ചെയ്യാം എന്നാണ്.
100 👍🏻
Parvathy thiruvoth pole undello🤗
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Parvathy thiruvothu nte arengilum aano🙃
life after 40 is hell
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All round development..njan ready aan...but eviden ,,egane thudagum ennn enikkarillla..
@@hideandseek7606 get on Maya's Amma App. Plenty of resources.. On my website www.mayasamma.com under affiliates and counselors section plenty of professionals who have classes / coaching etc. Watch my previous videos plenty of books are listed too.
Mm
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Enik 17 vayass aayi ini lifil enthenkilum aavan kayumo?😢
ath enthada ni penn ketti kuttikal ayo?
@@rexraymond5039lifil enthenkilum aakan penn ketti kuttikal aavano?🙄
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semen retention & spirituality...
waiting..... 🙎🏻💤
11:36 where actual video starts 😂
Why blame patriarchy for everything?😂😂 @3:40 a woman will leave a man the moment he starts opening up about his problems.
@@AjmalHameed the word patriarchy itself is not in the video. And regarding women, it depends on finding the right one. Do not generalise. There are no absolutes in the world..
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 you do blame "patriarchy" @3:32.
@@AjmalHameed I know patriarchy is mentioned because I made the video. What I meant was - video is not about patriarchy or patriarchy's impact on women being victims. When men's emotions are discussed it is important to mention that patriarchal mindset might have been a reason for men to be so closed emotionally. Ithil evideya blaming Patriarchy for EVERYTHING ?? When one specific behaviour trait in most men can be because of patriarchal ideologies, athu mention cheyyunnathu is just calling a spade a spade.
@@AjmalHameed patriarchy il vishvasikunath men matram alla womenum und, athanu angane leave chyunath so we can blame it on patriarchy
WONAM ☕
Egganatha videos edan femisnist association sammathiko
Age 30 aayi 😢
അത്ര അല്ലേ ആയൊള്ളൂ. Life begins in the thirties.
Do athoke chumma parayunnatha...... 30 velye age onnumalla... You can restart now...
Thailandileke oru trip poyal mathi yellam sheri avum
@@gokulr2394 pathetic mindset
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 what weed is legal there 😒
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 but I like the way you think :P
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 what pathetic. His life his choice..
@@gokulr2394 pala levelil ulla issues ollavr ond mahn chilark just oru entertainment ondel sheriyakum chilark ath pora professional help thanne venam. So trip pokumbo ellam ready akanm enn illa
13 mintues?
Naah im good.
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😎KoOi😅😂
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