Thank you for reminding us of this truth. I sometimes struggle to just accept a complement without adding a comment after, “Thank you!” (“It’s so old!”...). My cousin taught me that I should always add, “It’s not often I receive such a lovely compliment! “ after, “Thank you!” This is a way to return the focus on their thoughtfulness. When I remember to say this, it is always well received.
I have this same struggle with compliments. I also tend to disparage whatever it is I am being complimented on, because I am not really comfortable with attention being directed my way. Especially if the compliment is given in the presence of other people. I like the tip your cousin had, and I am going to try doing this.
I always say "Thaaank you, your eyes are prettier/see things in a beautiful way" it's literally the typic arab answer to accept compliments and return them back.
I worked with a woman and not so long ago she posted a question on social media asking people what they remembered about her or a share memory or st of that nature, and I responded with; "I always admired how well you took a compliment". It actually made her memorable to me. I'd say something and she'd respond with a simple "thanks!" But her whole face would light up and it made me really enjoy the moment. She didn't try and dismiss it or talk herself down or try and respond which can derail a conversation. It made her appear very charming and confident, which she was. I'm teaching my students to take compliments as you said, as gifts, and not worry about reciprocating or making them transactional. As someone who has given many a compliment I can say an enthusiastic "thank you" is the best response.
I just wrote about exactly what you said further up in the comments. Someone who is good at taking compliments - a simple thanks and visible glee on their face - makes them memorable. Its a very charismatic trait imho!
Believe me, i have never disregarded a compliment im my life. And i fail to understand why women or just people in general can't accept a compliment gracefully. A nice compliment always makes my day. Heck i love receiving compliments.
I always say thank you. I then try and find something I can complement about them in return. If I genuinely can't, then I just leave it at thank you. I don't want to risk coming off as fake.
Same here, I tend to play it down or say where I got it. I’ve received a lot of nice items as gifts or hand-me-downs, so I typically feel awkward accepting the compliment for something I don’t feel like I “got myself.”
I recently had several compliments on my hairstyle and now I know that I have actually been countering. I would say thank you this style has been up for quite some time and now needs redoing however I know now to just accept the compliment. Thx
One CAN however refuse an unwarranted and untrue compliment, even if it was given with appreciation, sincerity, thanks, or kindness. In such a case, one can gently and kindly correct them or calmly and quietly ignore the insult.
Thank you for another great video :) I usually respond with a smile and saying "thank you". BUT do you have any advice on what to do when somebody just keeps going? The scenario: "I love your hair" "Thank you" "It looks so beautiful" "Thanks" "Honestly, it looks great". *Awkward smile* I find it particularly challenging to handle those situations with grace.
You could say something like "thank you so much! you're too kind" or "it's not often I receive such a compliment" with a smile. often when someone just keeps on going, it may indicate that they are interested in having a conversation with you. in that case, you could shift the conversation toward them and either give a genuine compliment about them like their energy or physical appearance and whatnot or you could ask them something about themselves. incase you do not want to have a conversation with that person, simply smile, say "thank you" and break eye contact. this will indicate that you are not interested in the conversation and hopefully, they get the message. a helpful not to keep in mind is that as long as its not too rude in the situation you are in, you could simply walk away or talk to a different person, shifting the topic and communicating that you don't want to talk anymore
Its hard when someone compliments my beauty In detail. Like someone said they like my lips. I was waiting for him to say something inappropriate. That’s why i don’t like compliments. It’s usually followed by someone say something inappropriate 😒.
I'm so awkward when getting compliments on my art. I just sit there like a dear in headlights.😆
Haha same. That’s literally why I came to this video 😂
@@rosieburness9559 😂
i just say ik
Lmfaoo facts tho
That’s why u came here lmaoo😂
Thank you for reminding us of this truth. I sometimes struggle to just accept a complement without adding a comment after, “Thank you!” (“It’s so old!”...).
My cousin taught me that I should always add, “It’s not often I receive such a lovely compliment! “ after, “Thank you!”
This is a way to return the focus on their thoughtfulness. When I remember to say this, it is always well received.
I have this same struggle with compliments. I also tend to disparage whatever it is I am being complimented on, because I am not really comfortable with attention being directed my way. Especially if the compliment is given in the presence of other people. I like the tip your cousin had, and I am going to try doing this.
I always say "Thaaank you, your eyes are prettier/see things in a beautiful way" it's literally the typic arab answer to accept compliments and return them back.
I worked with a woman and not so long ago she posted a question on social media asking people what they remembered about her or a share memory or st of that nature, and I responded with; "I always admired how well you took a compliment". It actually made her memorable to me. I'd say something and she'd respond with a simple "thanks!" But her whole face would light up and it made me really enjoy the moment. She didn't try and dismiss it or talk herself down or try and respond which can derail a conversation. It made her appear very charming and confident, which she was. I'm teaching my students to take compliments as you said, as gifts, and not worry about reciprocating or making them transactional. As someone who has given many a compliment I can say an enthusiastic "thank you" is the best response.
I’m always GENUINELY appreciative. I say thanks and my whole face lights up. Makes the other person feels good as well.
I just wrote about exactly what you said further up in the comments. Someone who is good at taking compliments - a simple thanks and visible glee on their face - makes them memorable. Its a very charismatic trait imho!
It feels weird to respond to compliments when ppl only compliment on your looks not in the hard work u do....
A girl in my class got offended and angry at me because i said "thank you" and now i'm here lol
Believe me, i have never disregarded a compliment im my life. And i fail to understand why women or just people in general can't accept a compliment gracefully. A nice compliment always makes my day. Heck i love receiving compliments.
Maybe because we feel like when we accept a compliment, we may sound conceited.
I always say thank you. I then try and find something I can complement about them in return. If I genuinely can't, then I just leave it at thank you. I don't want to risk coming off as fake.
00:45 is when it starts
I do have problems with this, I think in some way I feel undeserving . I need work. Thank you for sharing 😊❤️
Same here, I tend to play it down or say where I got it. I’ve received a lot of nice items as gifts or hand-me-downs, so I typically feel awkward accepting the compliment for something I don’t feel like I “got myself.”
I recently had several compliments on my hairstyle and now I know that I have actually been countering. I would say thank you this style has been up for quite some time and now needs redoing however I know now to just accept the compliment. Thx
you look stunning in white queen
I just keep saying “I know” everytime. I feel rather rude. Thank you so very much hun!
After listening to you i think I messed up, yesterday in a office meeting my boss appreciated my work and I passed the credit to my team 🙁
One CAN however refuse an unwarranted and untrue compliment, even if it was given with appreciation, sincerity, thanks, or kindness. In such a case, one can gently and kindly correct them or calmly and quietly ignore the insult.
Hey! You're such an inspirer..!!
Can you tell how to dress in a classy way to college??
Thank you for another great video :)
I usually respond with a smile and saying "thank you". BUT do you have any advice on what to do when somebody just keeps going?
The scenario:
"I love your hair"
"Thank you"
"It looks so beautiful"
"Thanks"
"Honestly, it looks great".
*Awkward smile*
I find it particularly challenging to handle those situations with grace.
You could say something like "thank you so much! you're too kind" or "it's not often I receive such a compliment" with a smile. often when someone just keeps on going, it may indicate that they are interested in having a conversation with you. in that case, you could shift the conversation toward them and either give a genuine compliment about them like their energy or physical appearance and whatnot or you could ask them something about themselves. incase you do not want to have a conversation with that person, simply smile, say "thank you" and break eye contact. this will indicate that you are not interested in the conversation and hopefully, they get the message. a helpful not to keep in mind is that as long as its not too rude in the situation you are in, you could simply walk away or talk to a different person, shifting the topic and communicating that you don't want to talk anymore
@@merriamal-khannaq3219 Thank you so much, I'll try that 😊
Great video on a topic that is hard for some women(me). Like you said it is gift. Receive it in a gracious manner. Thank you.
Cheers 😉 🌷
I have always said Aww thank you ❤️
Its hard when someone compliments my beauty In detail. Like someone said they like my lips. I was waiting for him to say something inappropriate. That’s why i don’t like compliments. It’s usually followed by someone say something inappropriate 😒.
i say i know or as u should
I can confirm: This also apllies to men
How am i supposed to response to someone sayin something like
"You look great with glasses"
"Thanks!"
"You look better than me"
Wtf do i say to that