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  • čas přidán 13. 06. 2018
  • Alex Lewis, father of one, came down with a common cold in late 2013, which quickly developed into septicaemia and toxic shock syndrome. With less than a 3% chance of survival, doctors fought to save him. From arriving back at his family home and readjusting his relationships, to taking his first steps, this film delves into some of the raw moments that shape his days.
    Starting just days after he lost his last limb, the film follows Alex’s incredible journey as he seeks his purpose in life, rebuilds his relationships and reinvents himself.
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  • @RealStories
    @RealStories  Před 2 lety +2969

    5 years on from this documentary, we asked you to comment with questions for Alex to answer! Here are his responses: czcams.com/video/4-O7EuZb224/video.html

  • @teehamster2418
    @teehamster2418 Před 4 lety +39129

    His son might not realise it now. But when he’s older he’s gonna be so proud of his dad.

    • @najaehyun7759
      @najaehyun7759 Před 4 lety +238

      Yea

    • @LACEMSK1980
      @LACEMSK1980 Před 4 lety +205

      truth

    • @eerievibes6854
      @eerievibes6854 Před 4 lety +82

      And the chipmunks he lives with now

    • @wpg7083
      @wpg7083 Před 4 lety +588

      Hide San why would he be traumatized? Nothing detrimental has happened to the kid or at least we know off. Just cause he is scared now doesn’t mean he’s going to be scared forever. He’s just to young to understand what is happening. When he understands he won’t be afraid anymore.

    • @krazykatizzy9172
      @krazykatizzy9172 Před 4 lety +21

      Tee Hamster I agree

  • @lala_k05
    @lala_k05 Před 4 lety +13040

    His wife is an extremely loyal and strong woman. This is love, she stayed with him through thick and thin, in sickness and in health

    • @TheNubie66
      @TheNubie66 Před 4 lety +132

      This is true undying love ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @craftylittlerthings
      @craftylittlerthings Před 4 lety +50

      I’m sure they weren’t married, though I’m only part way through watching this, so might change before the end.

    • @craftylittlerthings
      @craftylittlerthings Před 4 lety +75

      Kayla Nguyen No as someone else pointed out, he said no to marrying her. They are not or were not married, but may well be by now! They lived together, she must really love that guy, I think they are perfect for each other. They have a strong relationship and know when to make a daft joke and it’s not taken wrong. I’m Scottish but I now live in England as my hubby and son are English. Over her when talking about them, if they were married, they would say his wife or her husband, they wouldn’t say partner. Best wishes, for health and happiness in these strange times xxxAnnxxx

    • @allenbyrne1157
      @allenbyrne1157 Před 4 lety +4

      Omg thanks Kay

    • @We1rd0967
      @We1rd0967 Před 4 lety +20

      Kay SHE IS STRONG

  • @SlenderManIsDead
    @SlenderManIsDead Před 9 měsíci +1219

    When the son becomes a teenager, I believe he will love his father 1000x more once he truly understands.

    • @asosyalpicimamk
      @asosyalpicimamk Před 9 měsíci +12

      He will be traumatized forever for seeing his dad losing limbs, and will be bullied at school for his dad's looks. A lot of psychiatrists will serve him.

    • @wilpri
      @wilpri Před 9 měsíci +20

      Stop forcing that kid to hug and kiss and love him. Just leave him be and he will learn.

    • @nat7891
      @nat7891 Před 7 měsíci

      He might be bullied and is traumatized, but it's up to his mother to teach him to be a good person anyway. To teach him empathy, love, and compassion. Like another commenter said, once the son gets older, he will truly understand. Because I would rather have my dad alive without limbs, than no dad at all. @@asosyalpicimamk

    • @peepogob
      @peepogob Před 7 měsíci +15

      @@asosyalpicimamk and then the cynic will bring up the fine details of misery like anybody asked or would ever ask...

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 Před 6 měsíci +2

      SLENDER+ YES I AGREE, TREMENDOUS SACRIFICES HE HAS MADE FOR THE KID

  • @zappababe8577
    @zappababe8577 Před 7 měsíci +724

    The fact that this was caused by bacteria that normally lives harmlessly on the surface of your skin is terrifying! Makes you think that this could happen to anyone, at any time. I deeply admire his wife for being so devoted to him.

    • @rattaxi9645
      @rattaxi9645 Před 5 měsíci +23

      It truly can I know someone who lost both feet and hands. There was no rash, but she felt terrible and had a low grade fever for days. I think her disaster started with a bladder infection, but what I mean is it's terrifying how vulnerable we all truly are.

    • @lilo7741
      @lilo7741 Před 4 měsíci +7

      Nothing has been explained as to why this happened. Stop freaking out. There was a cause to this.

    • @207humanity
      @207humanity Před 4 měsíci +20

      ​@@lilo7741It was explained in the documentary. He got a sepsis from a bacteria that lives on the surface of the human skin, but in his case it turned out infectious and it started to attack the tissues and organs in his body.

    • @lilo7741
      @lilo7741 Před 4 měsíci +12

      @@207humanity why did it turn out infectious. That’s the key point everybody is interested to know. How did a bacteria evade him immune system?

    • @ddestefano2.0
      @ddestefano2.0 Před 4 měsíci +39

      ⁠@@lilo7741​​⁠​⁠​⁠It wasn’t that the bacteria evaded his immune system, it was the immune systems reaction to the bacteria that caused the extensive inflammation//sepsis. his immune system was fighting the infection but then at the same time started attacking his normal tissues as well.
      Tho I understand what you’re saying in regards to wondering WHY a bacteria that is normally harmless caused his immune system to go bonkers. I guess it has something to do w how some people get sick by things that other people have no reaction to- it just depends on how your immune system works.

  • @neymarjr8516
    @neymarjr8516 Před 4 lety +16293

    Remember she married a soul not a body

    • @indiamoore7205
      @indiamoore7205 Před 4 lety +152

      Yes ❤

    • @caglakaracay1126
      @caglakaracay1126 Před 4 lety +225

      Omg please don't say anything because i can't stop crying

    • @neymarjr8516
      @neymarjr8516 Před 4 lety +115

      @@caglakaracay1126 yeah it is better to look at the personality of a person than his looks

    • @Lady.B0420
      @Lady.B0420 Před 4 lety +38

      How do people not get it?

    • @neymarjr8516
      @neymarjr8516 Před 4 lety +9

      @@Lady.B0420 i hope u get me right

  • @julians7268
    @julians7268 Před 3 lety +5416

    Jesus Christ... That man is stronger than me. If my children pulled back in fear from me... I'd die.

    • @luccalourencini1751
      @luccalourencini1751 Před 3 lety +62

      I feel you

    • @whiteclover6686
      @whiteclover6686 Před 3 lety +127

      I feel you. I honestly would just let my family members choose for me to die.

    • @celhpwns
      @celhpwns Před 3 lety +32

      He must be INTP. We tend to only see the things as they are. Logic is our motto, this is who I am? This is who I will be and surpass my limits.

    • @miaokatt
      @miaokatt Před 3 lety +52

      I feel bad cause I did that to my mom. Me and my sister cried bc my mom did surgery and she looked so scary ;-;

    • @luccalourencini1751
      @luccalourencini1751 Před 3 lety +44

      @@miaokatt dont feel bad

  • @georginastanciu
    @georginastanciu Před 8 měsíci +203

    I've had this exact thing happen to me in 2017, but luckily I rushed myself to an ER the minute my lips started turning purple. What I thought was a ' cold ' turned out to be a severe double pneumonia with sepsis caused by strep A. How I wasn't able to 'feel' how serious my condition was, is still beyond me. The docs were pretty angry I waited so long, but I honestly thought it was just a bad cold. I didn't even notice my saturation was dropping by the minute.
    I too had a 2 yr old running around.
    I came pretty close to dying, but through sheer luck I got out of this unharmed ( well at least for the most, my energy levels still are that of 90 yr old ) after a year of rehabilitation.
    He's a brave man and I'm so sorry to see the damage this can do. It's heartbreaking and I find this so unfair.

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 Před 6 měsíci +2

      HOW DID YOU GET IT? SEPSIS?

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@Speedster189 CLOWN

    • @theogdeer
      @theogdeer Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@leelunk8235 they had pneumonia, any infection could cause sepsis

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@theogdeer I KNOW..I WAS ASKING GEORGINA HOW SHE GOT IT

    • @watchthisheadspace
      @watchthisheadspace Před 5 měsíci +5

      This happened to my best friend about 6 months ago. She got a hypoxic brain injury. She was able to walk a bit when leaving hospital but she is barely able to stand now. It's absolutely awful

  • @juanitaboonzaaier3420
    @juanitaboonzaaier3420 Před 4 měsíci +32

    My father died when I was 7, I am now 34 years old and I cannot remember him. I would much rather have my father around, no matter what he looks like then no father.

  • @saleopeepo2916
    @saleopeepo2916 Před 3 lety +9157

    just imagine his son avoiding him, it will be the worst pain of his life.

    • @1rken1nfantry
      @1rken1nfantry Před 3 lety +353

      Might wanna kill myself 2b honest. He is a strong man.

    • @kelseyryan6439
      @kelseyryan6439 Před 3 lety +47

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😱

    • @tituswheatbread9646
      @tituswheatbread9646 Před 3 lety +53

      Pretty sure being like that would be the worst pain.

    • @saleopeepo2916
      @saleopeepo2916 Před 3 lety +18

      @@tituswheatbread9646 ya bro.

    • @saleopeepo2916
      @saleopeepo2916 Před 3 lety +32

      @@asosyalpicimamk ya, he is lucky that he got back his dad.

  • @zeemahlonoko6503
    @zeemahlonoko6503 Před 3 lety +6645

    I can not imagine how this man's self-esteem and confidence and anxiety actually his mental health...he is the strong one here...he really do have a loyal and loving wife..

    • @Ieatmanydrywalls
      @Ieatmanydrywalls Před 3 lety +164

      @@asosyalpicimamk lmao he is strong and so are they, the nurses and doctors aren't the only people who are strong during a hard time, stfu man

    • @dachadoodle7146
      @dachadoodle7146 Před 3 lety +65

      Mutlu Sarıtaş stfu he’s not hopeless

    • @Caesar904
      @Caesar904 Před 3 lety +97

      @Mutlu Sarıtaş sadly this man has accomplish more things then you ever will be able to so shut yer trap

    • @gordon317
      @gordon317 Před 3 lety +66

      @@asosyalpicimamk Aren't you the purest definition of a "hopeless" Moron!

    • @haunebu2360
      @haunebu2360 Před 3 lety +14

      He really does have a loyal and loving wife

  • @carrowcobb-cu2yh
    @carrowcobb-cu2yh Před 8 měsíci +45

    When your son grows up to see this he will know what a fighter his dad is. Keep fighting. The technology is getting better you will be robo dad running, hugging, working, cooking and making more babies before you know it.

    • @asosyalpicimamk
      @asosyalpicimamk Před 8 měsíci

      The poor son will be traumatized forever with a lot of psychiatrists serving him, and will be bullied by his school mates for his dad's looks, only God knows what 5u1c1d4l thoughts he's living with.

    • @Halzel
      @Halzel Před měsícem +8

      @@asosyalpicimamk- what a presumptuous and idiotic thought process to have.

    • @asosyalpicimamk
      @asosyalpicimamk Před měsícem

      @@Halzel If it happened to my parents I'd be traumatized forever and wouldn't dare to see their faces or have meals with them, for example. I'd need an army of psychiatrists to help me.

    • @chrismartin3125
      @chrismartin3125 Před měsícem

      @asosyalpicimamk Thats you then, i guess

    • @Halzel
      @Halzel Před 21 dnem

      @@asosyalpicimamk - Hmm very telling indeed. This is actually quite a profound insight into several important aspects of your personality, your social insight and your familial ties. At first I thought you were just yet another internet troll trying to get dopamine hits, however i see now i was wrong and you were actually being truthful. My mistake, apologies. Best of luck to you going forward.

  • @Doctor_Shenzo
    @Doctor_Shenzo Před 8 měsíci +71

    As a doctor myself i see cases in the emergency room everyday that break my heart but this one hits different, i have to say i have mad respect for him because he carried on with his life and i can already tell that patients who exprience amputation resort to depression quite often or surrender to bieng disabled and to this way of life but he did not , also i can't even describe how lucky he is to have a strong and resilient woman as lucy she is the type of woman that can lead people which by the way very rare these days but she stayed all the way till the end and she did not gave the impression that she sad or suffering even by a tiny bit in this entire video i have mad respect for the woman she is

    • @a1b9c2
      @a1b9c2 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Doctor...yeah right! Worst grammar, syntax and spelling I've ever seen a doctor write.

    • @charlie_says3841
      @charlie_says3841 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@a1b9c2 exactly my thoughts. This " Doctor " who can't spell, use grammar correctly, or even understand the need for full stops. I'm sure there's a joke here somewhere about a semicolon too....

    • @alishacarolan9934
      @alishacarolan9934 Před měsícem +1

      I mean they could be dyslexic I mean I have dyslexia and it affects my spelling and grammar

    • @starrdub
      @starrdub Před 25 dny +3

      Why the hate, people?

  • @oscarbrittain748
    @oscarbrittain748 Před 3 lety +7579

    Everyone’s talking about how strong the wife is, but I gotta respect how the kid still looks up to his dad

  • @tatethetottle
    @tatethetottle Před 4 lety +16368

    Mad respect for him. You can see the pain in his eyes when his son doesn't want to kiss him. It's crazy how much bad luck one can have.

    • @arundathiesubasinghe5368
      @arundathiesubasinghe5368 Před 4 lety +515

      Look in the end Sam kissed his dad...... I feel so happy to see that....

    • @tatethetottle
      @tatethetottle Před 4 lety +26

      @• sleepy • 16 years ago is that ironic?

    • @N.D.A75
      @N.D.A75 Před 3 lety +127

      @@tatethetottle Hes just saying respect to those who endure pain, the ''all'' is just meant as respect to the full extent.. :)

    • @ry795
      @ry795 Před 3 lety +22

      I'm respect you from Indonesia ❤️

    • @rozlyne.official5869
      @rozlyne.official5869 Před 3 lety +9

      mexican_ peanut : yes she still love ‘s him🙂🥰

  • @mrgaud
    @mrgaud Před 10 měsíci +63

    It's amazing to think somebody has lived through what is literally my worst nightmare and still came out strong

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    @heidekathrine4433 Před 3 měsíci +258

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      @elsebabette1727 Před 3 měsíci

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      @arnaulfeike1474 Před 3 měsíci

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  • @silont-
    @silont- Před 3 lety +4234

    His wife has a heart of gold.

  • @thatwolfinyourbackyard6011
    @thatwolfinyourbackyard6011 Před 3 lety +1554

    His son avoids him, his wife is suffering for him. Yet he still fights, believing that he will someday, make everything go back to normal. What an absolute chad. People with strong wills are better to look up to than celebrities you barely know.

    • @TalkingXatu
      @TalkingXatu Před 3 lety +8

      Why haven't anyone said anything

    • @cloudrz
      @cloudrz Před 3 lety +4

      @Justin G average sad video comment enjoyer

    • @G3n10s1TY
      @G3n10s1TY Před 3 lety

      @@cloudrz fr

    • @7r4iL3r
      @7r4iL3r Před 3 lety

      @pm PM exactly

    • @ugotit221
      @ugotit221 Před 3 lety +16

      Celebrities are definitely not the ones to admire & look up to.

  • @TheAppolonia6
    @TheAppolonia6 Před 8 měsíci +38

    Life is so unfair...Huge respect for Alex, for being a warrior..and to his wife for staying and supporting her husband. We can see the beauty of his father in the boy's face...The wife is amazing!

  • @randelkobby7174
    @randelkobby7174 Před 6 měsíci +52

    I felt for him when he first woke up at the hospital. I cried the entire video. You've inspired me man, thank you so much and God bless you 🙏🏿❤️

  • @ROSE-cs4hq
    @ROSE-cs4hq Před 3 lety +43133

    I need to be more thankful about my life..

    • @killzone_5029
      @killzone_5029 Před 3 lety +2040

      We all have problems in our lives just because they're not as bad as this guy's doesn't mean you don't have any!

    • @cathy8612
      @cathy8612 Před 3 lety +965

      Honestly!!! We need to count our blessings!!!

    • @happydickson9266
      @happydickson9266 Před 3 lety +192

      Me too

    • @katherinemooney4396
      @katherinemooney4396 Před 3 lety +348

      Even if we have to stay in due to COVID19, nothing in my life compares to this!

    • @darkslippy-throne2403
      @darkslippy-throne2403 Před 3 lety +59

      Me too

  • @gameinfinity4199
    @gameinfinity4199 Před 3 lety +3724

    A guy's son was scared of his own father by the dad's look I can't believe how much he must have suffered dang

    • @imlucifer5997
      @imlucifer5997 Před 3 lety +13

      bruh I'm scared of my dads look ;-;

    • @damiangarcia9400
      @damiangarcia9400 Před 3 lety +6

      TenTJx Vamista not like that tho

    • @charliegill8740
      @charliegill8740 Před 3 lety +53

      I cut my fkn hair and my 8 month old wouldn't even look at me without crying ;_;

    • @wladimirputin6171
      @wladimirputin6171 Před 3 lety +1

      Charlie Gill poor guy

    • @murilo2837
      @murilo2837 Před 3 lety +53

      i hope the kid doesn't feel too bad about this once he grows up and understands what happened
      but boy is that tragic

  • @fatboiiiii9104
    @fatboiiiii9104 Před 10 měsíci +124

    Just goes, to show when you think your life is hard and things are tough. Think about those in the world that are going through something like this, my heart goes out to this man.

  • @eddiespartan6410
    @eddiespartan6410 Před 8 měsíci +110

    Heartbreaking at first, but deeply inspirational. The courage exhibited is a great lesson for all. His wife an ever shinning gem.

  • @logancaine9616
    @logancaine9616 Před 3 lety +4378

    This man married the closest thing to an angel on earth. If only we could all be as lucky to find such a significant other.

    • @musiana4041
      @musiana4041 Před 3 lety +87

      So true she's an amazing woman

    • @sports3215
      @sports3215 Před 3 lety +11

      Nop.you wouldn't wish to have his luck.

    • @gp8666
      @gp8666 Před 3 lety +15

      I can't even get friends I'm jealous

    • @ashleymartinez6830
      @ashleymartinez6830 Před 3 lety +7

      I didn’t get to see the whole video.. so he said he didn’t want to get married at the beginning, I assuming they did? Is that correct? I hope so!!

    • @kate101085
      @kate101085 Před 3 lety +12

      They are not married yet. They still engaged. Because in the last minutes of this video said that they celebrate their engagement. And it relate with their joke about "will you marry me? - no"
      Wish they will marriage and their love grow up more and more.

  • @clarem9639
    @clarem9639 Před 2 lety +1344

    “That’s the old daddy”
    That broke my heart

  • @catsinq5726
    @catsinq5726 Před 8 měsíci +31

    The footage around 14:00 just made me want to cry. Dogs show such unconditional love. I'm sure it was a huge help to him through all this.

  • @primitiivireaktio
    @primitiivireaktio Před 4 měsíci +22

    Alex seems like such a loveable person. This whole family is just pure love ❤

  • @beef4847
    @beef4847 Před 4 lety +2051

    When she goes "you still look like a clown" and he just shakes his head "no" even though he knows shes joking you can just feel how badly he doesnt want to look like this. Poor soul

    • @maleekah26
      @maleekah26 Před 4 lety +2

      Not MLG what time

    • @jerry1296
      @jerry1296 Před 4 lety +6

      @@maleekah26 10:35

    • @maleekah26
      @maleekah26 Před 4 lety

      Tricksterino thanks

    • @matildamorgan5018
      @matildamorgan5018 Před 4 lety +6

      Cus she’s horrible

    • @rein3935
      @rein3935 Před 4 lety +81

      Matilda Morgan
      She was trying to lift the mood up, don’t mean for people like you to understand

  • @khashmoney6985
    @khashmoney6985 Před 3 lety +6677

    He lost all his body parts. But the one thing he did not lose is his personality.

    • @renderz8435
      @renderz8435 Před 3 lety +96

      But if the bacteria attacked the brain too... Then Alex would not be Alex anymore

    • @ML-oo4rp
      @ML-oo4rp Před 3 lety +8

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    • @dallygaming538
      @dallygaming538 Před 3 lety +25

      His heart!

    • @webaeri
      @webaeri Před 3 lety +24

      @@HungVu-gy5nb his life is still the same as anyone else’s, he’s rlly strong

    • @emmanuelmanait2051
      @emmanuelmanait2051 Před 3 lety +3

      James Nguyen no the only one is not lost is his heart ❤️

  • @user-fv5xn8bg5z
    @user-fv5xn8bg5z Před 10 měsíci +59

    Alex has gone up in life. He’s a hero. He and his family are an inspiration for the world. Some people are chosen to be heroes and these people personify that.

    • @billyskittles1036
      @billyskittles1036 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Not to be a jerk, but how is he a hero? He is a survivor of something terrible. We need to stop throwing that word around. He is a survivor, not a hero. The doctors who saved his life are heroes.

  • @mammolese2002
    @mammolese2002 Před 8 měsíci +16

    Strong woman and strong man, I think we all take for granted all the minimum movements that we do with our hands, our feet or any other parts of our body.
    I wish this Man the best.

  • @surajvarne3992
    @surajvarne3992 Před 3 lety +2903

    this woman deserves everything. The best mom,wife, everything

    • @riannastewart6534
      @riannastewart6534 Před 3 lety +12

      Mom?? wife?? Nah that doesn't sound right

    • @dln7214
      @dln7214 Před 3 lety +5

      Did you say women

    • @TMesser74
      @TMesser74 Před 3 lety +10

      She has become his new hero I’m sure.

    • @Kevo44
      @Kevo44 Před 3 lety +3

      Edit it and take out mom

    • @TMesser74
      @TMesser74 Před 3 lety +1

      CD Clapps why would you say that?

  • @golden7582
    @golden7582 Před 3 lety +3617

    I was crying when his son wouldnt kiss him and when he showed a picture of him and Alex said "thats the old daddy". This video gave me so much inspiration that I am very lucky I have everything I need bc there is ppl out suffering and have nothing. (This guy is very strong!!)

    • @cell6554
      @cell6554 Před 3 lety +31

      Because due to INGURED lips

    • @picoperson3514
      @picoperson3514 Před 3 lety +109

      @@cell6554 thats just so insensitive

    • @lamponeEbasilico
      @lamponeEbasilico Před 3 lety +83

      Kids don't like kisses, I mean, I didn't like it when I was a kid. I think the father understood. This people are really brave and strong.

    • @longdong7667
      @longdong7667 Před 3 lety +27

      @@cell6554 Are you kidding me? Stfu.

    • @trinitypunk7102
      @trinitypunk7102 Před 3 lety +13

      @@picoperson3514 Did u know not everyone is the feely feely sensitive type?

  • @rydervaliquette7362
    @rydervaliquette7362 Před 10 měsíci +10

    watching this amazed me and made me remember my dad. my father died of skin cancer in 2014, in the final stage there was a massive scar on the right side of his head and he looked zombified, he looking like a rotting corps in the final weeks, his eyes were died no shine almost looked like his soul left his body. it was horrible but this documentary made me so happy . he even in his state his family was there for him and stayed by his side even in his state. my family couldn't be in the same room as my dad, the sight of him made them want to cry when i saw him on his deathbed he turned his head slightly like he saw me. he opened his mouth slightly tried to say a word then died minutes later only. almost no one was there for him so when i saw Alex and his family help and support him it made me happy to see a family get through something so terrible.

  • @xXAnGeLiiCXx
    @xXAnGeLiiCXx Před 10 měsíci +43

    Brought tears to my eyes. A really inspiring story. Hope Alex and his family are doing even better now.

  • @Prince-dt6wq
    @Prince-dt6wq Před 3 lety +1636

    when the kid grows up, he'll realize how great and heroic his parents are

    • @brandstore1552
      @brandstore1552 Před 3 lety +10

      We gather money for a child who has leukemia to be treated in Riley Hospital for Children .
      You can donate throw the link below
      urlr.me/pCkw6
      We appreciate your support

    • @jasonbock3690
      @jasonbock3690 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes

    • @jasonbock3690
      @jasonbock3690 Před 3 lety

      @@brandstore1552 I would donate but I don't want to

    • @banana7558
      @banana7558 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jasonbock3690 that makes no sense lol "I would donate but I don't want to" (unless your were joking and I'm too dumb to understand)

    • @banana7558
      @banana7558 Před 3 lety +4

      @sebas Stein Then he could've just said "I don't want to" why would he elongate the process?

  • @jt-gk9dl
    @jt-gk9dl Před 4 lety +1839

    they werent even married and she stayed she's an angel

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 4 lety +28

      he said he didnt want to marry her...what a douchebag i would move on no love lost

    • @YesDaddyTDPop
      @YesDaddyTDPop Před 4 lety +139

      YV-HE W you don’t have to be married to truly mean you love someone.. most married people are cheating and getting divorced

    • @user-jt6hj1nb2f
      @user-jt6hj1nb2f Před 4 lety +13

      Deathtrap 400 I think you have to get married and don’t cheat. That’s the perfect life and of course God has to be first in your life.

    • @YesDaddyTDPop
      @YesDaddyTDPop Před 4 lety +18

      William Noe yeah if its part of your religion you do, but I know the Bible talks about husband and wife, what’s the actual scripture that says you have to be married though?

    • @jt-gk9dl
      @jt-gk9dl Před 4 lety +2

      Deathtrap 400 you only become husband and wife when you’re married though

  • @donnalouisekay4893
    @donnalouisekay4893 Před 6 měsíci +57

    You absolute bloody legend. Your story amazes me. Your strength, fight, and outlook are fantastic. You have a wonderful family too. Im sorry this happened to you, but youve faced it like a boss. I have recently had cancer surgery and lost half of my neck, ear, some of my face, tongue, and thigh from where the flap was taken. I am paralysed down the right side of my face. I know of the looks and stares. My injuries arent as bad (not the right word there) as yours and I have tried to face it with as much strength as you. You inspire me. You'll inspire many others

  • @moynul313
    @moynul313 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Man seeing him cry made me emotional. Makes you appreciate what we have and not take anything for granted.

  • @satrickptar6265
    @satrickptar6265 Před 2 lety +3865

    He's a person who doesn't need pity. He managed to climb a mountain in that condition figuratively and literally. Instead, he should be an inspiration for everyone.

  • @eldonselmani9982
    @eldonselmani9982 Před 3 lety +14435

    I hope this doesn’t happen to anyone. Not even my worst enemy

    • @popcornsheep9769
      @popcornsheep9769 Před 3 lety +512

      Ok probbaly my worst enemy

    • @basicallyshayshay2446
      @basicallyshayshay2446 Před 3 lety +354

      Popcorn Sheep a bit to harsh but ok

    • @MarioGabrielJ02
      @MarioGabrielJ02 Před 3 lety +142

      God bless you

    • @MilkBaggins
      @MilkBaggins Před 3 lety +161

      Popcorn Sheep I’m with you I got some real dicks in my town

    • @JamieYAYme
      @JamieYAYme Před 3 lety +273

      @@ehmehsmeh824 when you grow up you'll realize those things don't matter, your friend isn't your friend if they went with your ex behind your back. There's plenty of people out there so don't waste your time on the ones who toy with you. You might miss "the good ol days" but trust me, those people won't even be in your life when you grow up. As an adult myself, none of my high school pals talk anymore. And I don't know any adult friends who hang out with their "school buddies" think about it, do you know any adults that still see their school friends? Not really. Maybe rarely, because most of the time people just settle for what they can get for a friend. Don't settle. Do with my advice what you will, I just know that I've had the same scenario, getting cheated on and all.. don't get hung up on it, not enough to wish a devil disease on them anyway. Like I said, when you grow up, you'll realize the impact of that statement. As for your friends, their young, sometimes hormones take over and you definitely can't be mad at one and not the other. I wish someone told me not to waste so much effort worrying about other people that have hurt me, and just move on, and get better friends and partners that *actually* make me happy.
      I just know I wish someone told me this as a teen. I'm now 32, and don't talk to any exes or friends. You grow up, do other things where you make new friends. Especially when you have kids, your world changes, so don't worry, they'll both be history in the scrapbook of your life in years time, mark my words. Good luck young one. Much love. Spread the love, and be happy. Hate takes too much energy. ♥️

  • @lw4082
    @lw4082 Před 9 měsíci +14

    You're a true inspiration, Alex. A real life super hero for your son and wife. Hats off to you.

  • @patriciastrang
    @patriciastrang Před 10 měsíci +5

    This is a man in real struggle. God Bless him!! So blessed to hear his family stayed w him!! ❤️

  • @waciehawks
    @waciehawks Před 2 lety +2901

    I met this guy. While I was a student nurse, he came to give a talk on sepsis. Afterwards he came around and spoke to us all individually. Absolutely amazing guy. Had us all in tears x

    • @snapshots7902
      @snapshots7902 Před 2 lety +53

      how lucky you are tbh......

    • @sassylrhg
      @sassylrhg Před 2 lety +66

      Strep Grp A happens a lot more often than we know. I was part of a team who took care of a 1yr old in the Foster Care system who got Strep A. She lost all of her toes, most of her fingers but she kept on being a toddler. I WISH I knew how her life went on...she would be about 48 yrs old now. I hope she went on to be awesome and to help others.
      I would love to see an update video of this guy and his family. I'm sure he has made lemonade out of what happened to him.

    • @sabina7914
      @sabina7914 Před 2 lety +13

      Спасибо🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 всем кто был с ним трудный днииии.

    • @adarideau5602
      @adarideau5602 Před 2 lety +4

      We

    • @user-gd4rh4xn8g
      @user-gd4rh4xn8g Před 2 lety

      @Gavin Frost н

  • @aquablue1252
    @aquablue1252 Před 4 lety +2389

    Im crying. I cant even imagine that, waking up to find limbs amputated. This poor man. His wife loves him so much. He was, and still is so handsome.

    • @VRLoft
      @VRLoft Před 4 lety +8

      Beautiful comment

    • @happinesskibe3885
      @happinesskibe3885 Před 4 lety +11

      God bless him

    • @bethchantre9230
      @bethchantre9230 Před 4 lety +6

      God bless him and his family

    • @bobbyballs1478
      @bobbyballs1478 Před 4 lety +2

      Come on now....

    • @robinbrl
      @robinbrl Před 4 lety +5

      I can't imagine it either. I have never really heard of a strep infection taking over someone's body like this.

  • @marilyncatling6866
    @marilyncatling6866 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Alex, you have the respect of millions for your spirit, your tremendous efforts to be the man she loves, and the father Sam needs. You also have the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen in a man.

  • @siegridthomas9674
    @siegridthomas9674 Před 8 měsíci +4

    WHAT A MAN ..crying does not help anybody...but I could not help it! What a fight he has for the rest of his life..I WISH THIS MAN THE BEST THERE IS...

  • @sklingen21
    @sklingen21 Před 4 lety +27839

    So much pain in his eyes yet so much strength in his soul.

    • @jusrayne
      @jusrayne Před 4 lety +246

      That's such a beautiful and correct statement

    • @SignificantPressure100
      @SignificantPressure100 Před 4 lety +114

      How long can he stay strong? I bet not so long...We humans should stop putting so much of our money and attention into such mindless entertainment such as people punching each other inside a cage so we could reduce the suffering of people like this in the video...... Instead we should put all our money and attention into supporting the transhumanist movement so we could benefit the people like the person in this video or benefit the whole human race itself.......If you don't know about Transhumanism, I highly recommend that you research about it because it will change the course of humanity....... Transhumanism is simply about augmenting or enhancing our bodies and mind.....thank you for reading my comment and I hope you spread the message and if you're skeptical then just ask me what you're skeptical about, I'm more than happy to answer :)

    • @u3acoordinator858
      @u3acoordinator858 Před 4 lety +30

      So agree with you Scott a remarkable man, a beautiful wife and son.

    • @logancampos2436
      @logancampos2436 Před 4 lety +48

      @@SignificantPressure100 if I was rich or famous,I'd help people like this man/father. I see the pain in his eyes but,he's fighting no matter what. I cried 2 but,at the same time I admire his strength,his courage,his hope,his fatherness,his will.

    • @hailey5499
      @hailey5499 Před 4 lety +21

      if you look in the description there is a link to his blog where you can donate

  • @HoneyHoney-ue8qb
    @HoneyHoney-ue8qb Před 4 lety +4139

    The PAIN he must've felt when his son refused to kiss him and when he was afraid of him.

    • @mahensaj3043
      @mahensaj3043 Před 4 lety +76

      Yes the same disappointment probably his “partner” felt whenever she asked him to marry her and he refused at all times.

    • @dianaproboteanu6028
      @dianaproboteanu6028 Před 4 lety +7

      Is no possible I not look imaginez, is very amanzing because is real !!!

    • @mr.greenjeans8323
      @mr.greenjeans8323 Před 4 lety +27

      That would've been the worst part of the whole thing..i was so happy at the end when his son kissed him I started to cry

    • @lisasargent7111
      @lisasargent7111 Před 4 lety +50

      @froyo Yes. Why wouldn't it be?

    • @mr.greenjeans8323
      @mr.greenjeans8323 Před 4 lety +18

      @froyo same question..why wouldn't it be ..would you think it acceptable for a mother to kiss their child

  • @Blessed_ByTheHighestPower
    @Blessed_ByTheHighestPower Před 7 měsíci +26

    What a awesome woman to stay by his side during this tragedy. How could some sick minded people ever find humor in making fun of others that's different or sick? My prayers go out to him and his family 🙏

  • @marklewis4530
    @marklewis4530 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I am truly humbled by this guy and his wonderful family. I will try to be a better person because of his courage and determination.

  • @ddg_._e
    @ddg_._e Před 3 lety +2061

    This man is the strongest person I have seen till date.

    • @fsk1ng982
      @fsk1ng982 Před 3 lety +8

      nose que dice pero no miente xd

    • @joseluisavilaleguizamon8780
      @joseluisavilaleguizamon8780 Před 3 lety +4

      @@fsk1ng982 No miente, dice que el chico del vídeo es la persona más valiente que ha visto hasta la fecha.

    • @amandac2574
      @amandac2574 Před 3 lety +17

      He gives a new meaning to appreciate what God has Given us. To be healthy. I cant imagine his pain. God bless him and his family.

    • @nczarnecki86
      @nczarnecki86 Před 3 lety +9

      @@asosyalpicimamk she didn't say God blessed him, read before you write something so idiotic. Maybe you should stop spreading false information?

    • @carolehankinson4969
      @carolehankinson4969 Před 3 lety +4

      @@asosyalpicimamk Stop blaming God for everything bad that happen's. I'm sick of hearing that and why bring negativity into this when Alex has strived so much to overcome the negativity that could have consumed him. Oh and to call his life now hellish is disgusting and wrong on so many level's..

  • @its_ya_boi_et_5142
    @its_ya_boi_et_5142 Před 3 lety +588

    His little boy has the bravest dad in the world.

  • @maryellenblount6376
    @maryellenblount6376 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Extraordinary doesn't begin to cover this story. Its so heartwarming. Two very strong and determined people.

  • @fonzycat
    @fonzycat Před 7 měsíci +20

    You can't control what challenges life will throw at you but you can control how you respond to the challenges. Alex is responding at the highest level. Very inspirational!

  • @cheribiumlewis1725
    @cheribiumlewis1725 Před 3 lety +2029

    His wife is the kindest person ever because she chose him for him not his looks she. Is a amazing person

    • @harleyme3163
      @harleyme3163 Před 3 lety +12

      I'd like to ask one question to that man. "are you happy, or are you fighting for her" if the later, I can make her understand.
      I'd just like to point what I mean is... is he truly happy EXISTING, and being taken care of like a child. or is he truly happy.
      I watch a man being nursed in the hospital I was in for brain cancer surgery... looking at his eye's while the nurse's changes his diapers was unforgetable. All I seen in his eye's were "please, let me die"

    • @insomnia1484
      @insomnia1484 Před 3 lety +5

      She said he was amazingly handsome

    • @blacknoir1024
      @blacknoir1024 Před 3 lety +1

      Why did she say she wont feel sorry for him?

    • @sarahmoonnoon1536
      @sarahmoonnoon1536 Před 3 lety +4

      She told him that he looked like a clown when he got his mouth and lips. Clearly he was upset and sad behind it.

    • @kivakay8124
      @kivakay8124 Před 3 lety +3

      @@sarahmoonnoon1536 definitely that's why he shook his head

  • @funeral_moshpit
    @funeral_moshpit Před 3 lety +943

    You wouldn’t expect him to be able to talk so well and fluently. He is so strong.

    • @forrmyheart
      @forrmyheart Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah

    • @namrathad1755
      @namrathad1755 Před 3 lety +4

      It's very Sad 2C .They All R Very stronger. I wished GODNever Do All these 2Anybodys.Its Really very Painfully.God Help and Blessed Them.😔😌😇

  • @drewnealski969
    @drewnealski969 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I’m humbled and amazed by this beautiful, courageous family.

  • @andylee5759
    @andylee5759 Před 9 měsíci +24

    They are SO good for each other. It's absolutely incredible! I love his son didn't take much time to start giving him kisses. I try to stay mindful of my actions/emotions but I'm human so I fall short and this fuels my motivation to be better. Thanks for posting!

    • @berrylly
      @berrylly Před 2 měsíci

      Really? All he did was drink while she was exhausted running two pubs and then after the illness she's taking care of him. Sounds like SHE'S good for him and he's just existed and not done much in their relationship.

  • @luki163333
    @luki163333 Před 5 lety +4291

    His woman was the catalyst. She never left him. And didnt think about it. True love.

    • @angelrider1602
      @angelrider1602 Před 5 lety +36

      luki163333 what I heard from her in the video is “ he still has to work as hard as he did before for this relationship or I’m not gonna feel sorry for him “

    • @loreleiwood9837
      @loreleiwood9837 Před 5 lety +113

      @@angelrider1602 no she said he she certainly isn't gonna feel sorry for him period, as in she's gonna work hard to make sure he feels normal

    • @TheJackierose1
      @TheJackierose1 Před 5 lety +85

      @@angelrider1602 Feeling sorry for him would not have helped him. He would probably feel like he was a burden to her and would have given up wanting to live. Jacqui

    • @DarkKittycat
      @DarkKittycat Před 5 lety +52

      if it were the other way around he would have just left her, women are way too nice for this world

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol Před 5 lety +40

      @@DarkKittycat that's not true and entirely sexist and ignorant. Check yourself

  • @migi7597
    @migi7597 Před 3 lety +4412

    This makes me feel rlly guilty that I complain about my life

    • @sleepydge5331
      @sleepydge5331 Před 3 lety +90

      Honestly same,and how I say I wanna die

    • @sn-sx2wd
      @sn-sx2wd Před 3 lety +125

      @@sleepydge5331 oh no listen here i have unstable mental health too and suicidal thoughts but someones pain isn't what is gonna make me realise that i should stop its ok not to feel ok and it needs times to get better so don't compare different things

    • @sleepydge5331
      @sleepydge5331 Před 3 lety +27

      @@sn-sx2wd I know its ok not to be ok,but its hard to keep that in mind,its hard to realize it.

    • @sleepydge5331
      @sleepydge5331 Před 3 lety +7

      @@sn-sx2wd oh and im sorry about your health!

    • @sleepydge5331
      @sleepydge5331 Před 3 lety +8

      @Muffin chan Of course you do!! There has to be something!!

  • @K.Frizzy
    @K.Frizzy Před 8 měsíci +2

    I've been at a very stagnant and sedentary point in my life and watching this has made me realize how I should be so grateful for the health I have. I can do so many things that other people would be envious of and I shouldn't waste those abilities. I'm lucky and I should act like it.

  • @marysiab5792
    @marysiab5792 Před 4 lety +4945

    The bacteria destroyed his body but didn’t destroy his soul!

  • @hindsanitation618
    @hindsanitation618 Před 10 měsíci +1

    his wife is so brave during this complicated situation and care her hubby so nicely i salute her .

  • @rmcginnis616
    @rmcginnis616 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Such a beautiful story, I wish there were more kind, sweet people like this in the world.

  • @manajitbhowmik7482
    @manajitbhowmik7482 Před 3 lety +3648

    She is not a wife. She's "The Wife".

    • @ML-oo4rp
      @ML-oo4rp Před 3 lety +16

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    • @Ken-sr9ly
      @Ken-sr9ly Před 3 lety +16

      @@ML-oo4rp nah I have a better one czcams.com/video/dQw4w9WgXcQ/video.html

    • @-.V0id_Dw3ller.-
      @-.V0id_Dw3ller.- Před 3 lety +7

      WhIcH oNe

    • @ArnoldSchwarzernigga
      @ArnoldSchwarzernigga Před 3 lety +5

      No my wife is the THE WIFE. speak only for yourself

    • @dxrkicey62
      @dxrkicey62 Před 3 lety +14

      @@ArnoldSchwarzernigga doubt

  • @lauren6522
    @lauren6522 Před 5 lety +1280

    him calling himself lucky to have a second chance is the most beautiful thing i’ve ever heard

    • @oonlg6805
      @oonlg6805 Před 5 lety +15

      But is the saddest of saying, that he can no longer be himself as he was and has to endure his burdens now that he struggles

  • @keithgordon3314
    @keithgordon3314 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Such a touching story. So very glad you all have each other to lean on and to share the love.

  • @jenniferoguguo3943
    @jenniferoguguo3943 Před 2 měsíci

    This is really beautiful, the love, resilience, the times when Alex tried and failed and finally overcoming challenges, just got me tearing up ❤

  • @ava_adamsg
    @ava_adamsg Před 4 lety +3408

    He’s a strong man and she’s a strong woman. She loves that man and that’s all that matters. It’s amazing.

    • @norddinerezouk5385
      @norddinerezouk5385 Před 4 lety +13

      i hope if women like her does exist in this complicated world

    • @ava_adamsg
      @ava_adamsg Před 4 lety +2

      Ava Adames I’m not only one huh

    • @ava_adamsg
      @ava_adamsg Před 4 lety +1

      Viral 10 omg. Not me. That’s Ava Addams. K

    • @petermunyao7698
      @petermunyao7698 Před 4 lety

      Oh right! Thought there was something missing. Guess its double d

    • @Justanotherdude25
      @Justanotherdude25 Před 4 lety

      @@ava_adamsg looked up ava addams and now i need to delete my history godammit lol

  • @bayan6484
    @bayan6484 Před 4 lety +3479

    I really feel ashamed and stupid for crying over silly things while others are striving for better life despite everything

    • @cannabis1490
      @cannabis1490 Před 4 lety +14

      For real.

    • @rbivgq1734
      @rbivgq1734 Před 4 lety +29

      bayan waeel me too it’s easy to take life for granted but I feel the same way sad humbled and a little ashamed

    • @lulusparkles9649
      @lulusparkles9649 Před 4 lety +41

      I've been going through a horrible depression and sucide has been a constant thought. Seeing this makes me feel ashamed of myself

    • @BorboletaWings
      @BorboletaWings Před 4 lety +3

      bayan waeel me too!!!

    • @Steve20127
      @Steve20127 Před 4 lety +5

      Same here, my friend.

  • @bear544
    @bear544 Před 10 měsíci +18

    No, I couldn't watch it without tears. An incredibly strong family! Especially the little kid. He held the spirit in his parents with a strength that even the pyramids don't have! He never let his parents down. There was a moment when I felt that this little boy would eventually collapse and sink into depression, but he didn't! He soon accepted that his life had changed, thus easing the difficult situation of his parents, especially his father! You are a wonderful little person! Stay strong as an adult, because this terrible world that needs your bright smile needs to be strong like that! You saved your father, and with it your mother!💝💝💝👪

  • @rti_sharma
    @rti_sharma Před 7 měsíci +5

    His wife is a diamond who supports him at every stage of life
    This is what we called true love

  • @carlostuta10
    @carlostuta10 Před 3 lety +3981

    When you see cases like this, everything you don't like about yourself becomes silly

  • @mrticketmaster
    @mrticketmaster Před 2 lety +3720

    Alex might just be one of the bravest, strongest people on this planet. He will hold his head up and continue, I’m sure of it

    • @mrbluesky2521
      @mrbluesky2521 Před 2 lety +15

      One if not the most

    • @benmccanain5504
      @benmccanain5504 Před 2 lety +25

      I wouldn't be able to go on

    • @truly_sonic7410
      @truly_sonic7410 Před 2 lety +12

      @@benmccanain5504 me neither

    • @AgentMk07
      @AgentMk07 Před 2 lety +11

      @@benmccanain5504 I would of found a way to kill my self, in all honestly

    • @benmccanain5504
      @benmccanain5504 Před 2 lety +6

      @@AgentMk07 I would have begged the doctors to kill me. I couldn't be seen like that. He's a much bigger man than myself

  • @rudyxbeauty
    @rudyxbeauty Před 3 měsíci +6

    God bless this man’s support system and this man ! I pray many blessing upon his family and I pray that he prays as well🙏🏼

  • @arleasecoleman6884
    @arleasecoleman6884 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Alex you're an inspiration to me. I'm in total admiration of you and your perseverance. Also, you truly hit the jackpot with Lucy, now thats TRUE UNCONDITIONAL love. Sending love to you and your family all the way from the United States.

  • @jenniexsims1459
    @jenniexsims1459 Před 4 lety +3165

    'WhY dIdN't sHe lEaVe hIm?'
    She didn't leave him because she loves that man for him, not his looks

  • @lazymuhdud9460
    @lazymuhdud9460 Před 3 lety +1468

    Just imagine being feard by your own child
    Is one of the worst feeling you will ever have
    Poor guy😭

    • @whiteclover6686
      @whiteclover6686 Před 3 lety +27

      I’d cry every night. Imagine knowing your own child knowing you dont look right and seeing the fear in the childs eyes.

    • @igetpeoplemadsometimes9502
      @igetpeoplemadsometimes9502 Před 3 lety +7

      Fachri can you not call him horrifying? He really isn’t it’s just the lips that might look weird but he’s not horrifying. You make me sick

    • @lazymuhdud9460
      @lazymuhdud9460 Před 3 lety

      @@igetpeoplemadsometimes9502 okih :)

    • @lazymuhdud9460
      @lazymuhdud9460 Před 3 lety +1

      @@igetpeoplemadsometimes9502 i deleted the comment ^^

    • @igetpeoplemadsometimes9502
      @igetpeoplemadsometimes9502 Před 3 lety

      Fachri thank you.

  • @user-lz3we8yu7q
    @user-lz3we8yu7q Před 7 měsíci +4

    Such strong people.
    Alex and Lucy. This gives me motivation to try harder with mental issues and depression

  • @user-eu3cx3rp6r
    @user-eu3cx3rp6r Před 8 měsíci +12

    This is 110% Unconditional Love, God bless

  • @adrent3304
    @adrent3304 Před 4 lety +688

    Just imagine a kid look at you and say “Is that a monster mummy?”
    God I feel so bad for him
    He didn’t deserve this

  • @robertp137
    @robertp137 Před 4 lety +1906

    he looked into his wife's eyes like she was the only thing keeping him on this planet

  • @jamestew1463
    @jamestew1463 Před 10 měsíci +7

    "what happened to your hook" - "its been amputated"
    this guy is absolutely incredible and a wonderful father to his son

  • @googleuser-id4db
    @googleuser-id4db Před 7 měsíci

    This documentary showed me the commitment of their love, the dedication and limitation of the NHS and the power of the community, I hope them all the very best in the future.

  • @bheenachoytooa1604
    @bheenachoytooa1604 Před 3 lety +1841

    His eyes must have cried all the tears possible for a human being, his heart and brain must have gone through extreme agonies and I wish from the bottom of my heart that he succeeded to overcome all these.

    • @davidortiz3094
      @davidortiz3094 Před 3 lety +41

      I can't even imagine his pain. I just hope he lives the happiest & most peaceful life anyone can live in this world

    • @bheenachoytooa1604
      @bheenachoytooa1604 Před 3 lety +10

      @@asosyalpicimamk he clings to his very fragile life because of his exceptional wife and his loving son and not for himself.

    • @bheenachoytooa1604
      @bheenachoytooa1604 Před 3 lety

      @@asosyalpicimamk Oooh, I am relieved to hear someone having the same line of thought like you. Totally agree with you because you can't be extremely sad every second of your life. I sincerely have the same wish as yours.

    • @Aerylithe
      @Aerylithe Před 3 lety +1

      You’re such a wonderful and empathetic person. Never change. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

  • @EatPieNProsper
    @EatPieNProsper Před 4 lety +1272

    When he cried about how he thinks life would be so much easier for her without him 😭 and then petting the dog while she simply says "it's love"...I want to be a better person wow.

    • @InstaCrg_077
      @InstaCrg_077 Před 4 lety +1

      wander*wish Best part ...people in that situation always says that

    • @cloudiamettelli
      @cloudiamettelli Před 4 lety +10

      The fact that you think that means that you already are a great person.

    • @cloudiamettelli
      @cloudiamettelli Před 4 lety +22

      Since getting married, my husband has been through so much with my health. I’ve had to have my thyroid removed, had trouble stabilizing it with meds, had the thyroid regenerate, had to go through months of infusions for anemia, and then finally breast cancer, the treatments took away everything that made me beautiful, my hair, my long eyelashes, my eyebrows. It made me so so sick. Even though I am in remission, I am still on oral chemo that makes me incredibly sick, and which suppresses my immune system. Through it all, my husband cared for me, loved me, cuddled me, and made me feel as beautiful as ever. It isn’t just the women who stick it through. There are wonderful men out there who are simply amazing. I am so very thankful for my husband.

    • @RDVT9
      @RDVT9 Před 4 lety

      @@InstaCrg_077 No , Not always . Some people start to see from a different perspective.

    • @Halzel
      @Halzel Před měsícem

      @@cloudiamettelli- It's simple. So simple. He loves you.

  • @js-365
    @js-365 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Truly amazing and inspirational! I have nothing to compIan about my life! Absolutely nothing!! Suffering and trials bring out the real person in all of us, Alex. You’ve been the strong man that you are all your life. Your wife, son, and friends are so blessed to have you in their life. What lessons they must have learned through seeing your perseverance and endurance.

  • @cooleycool3852
    @cooleycool3852 Před 7 měsíci +7

    God bless this man. His strength is something that most people most people don’t have. Much love brother 💙💙💙

  • @libbyholster3742
    @libbyholster3742 Před 3 lety +3361

    the best part was when his son finally gave him a kiss.

    • @jayanderson147
      @jayanderson147 Před 3 lety +79

      Right??? Him talking about missing the physical closeness with his baby broke my heart

    • @sorenirae
      @sorenirae Před 3 lety +4

      @Marina Kirova please stop

    • @karrlz
      @karrlz Před 3 lety +3

      It was definitely the best part

    • @estrellaarevalo8699
      @estrellaarevalo8699 Před 3 lety +6

      I literally broke down in tears

    • @Champypk
      @Champypk Před 3 lety +2

      @@estrellaarevalo8699 me too

  • @Atlaspower78
    @Atlaspower78 Před 5 lety +5489

    My heart hurt when the boy wouldn't kiss him.... I can't imagine how difficult this must be for all of them. I wish them all the strength in the world

    • @Sxnemi-
      @Sxnemi- Před 5 lety +131

      It must just be a sucker punch to him when his kid refuses to kiss him or hug him that part kinda broke me

    • @madeleinebacallao1915
      @madeleinebacallao1915 Před 5 lety +2

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    • @ashlyncanteen438
      @ashlyncanteen438 Před 5 lety +2

      Mine too

    • @sonnyfazhindi
      @sonnyfazhindi Před 5 lety

      MaddeInSweden #codelazar?

    • @RTM459
      @RTM459 Před 5 lety +29

      Has to be the worse me and my wife can't have children so we are saving to adopt. We as a couple had a gut punch and I can only imagine how he feels when his little boy want hug him or kiss him. My prayer go out to anyone that has pain like this never give up

  • @Salvadoriantravelkid
    @Salvadoriantravelkid Před 6 měsíci +39

    What an AMAZING INCREDIBLE WOMEN. Research shows most man leave their spouses or partners if they become overweight or medically I’ll. She is a true hero to her self, her son and her partner.

    • @mygirldarby
      @mygirldarby Před 6 měsíci +5

      It's sadly true. Conversely, women are less likely to get divorced if a partner gets sick than if their partner is well! My husband of 25 years left me 6 months ago when I got terribly ill. I was in the hospital for 19 days. He took the money, locked me out of accounts, and badmouthed me to everyone as if I had done something wrong to him! Now he has a lawyer and is trying to take everything. I'm shocked, traumatized and still trying to heal. It's a nightmare I never saw coming. I thought he loved me. He never spoke to me again, but I got one email a few months ago from him that said he wasn't "strong enough" to be with me. Meanwhile, he's trying to take our home and get out of any alimony. I will be destitute if he succeeds.

    • @Halzel
      @Halzel Před měsícem

      @@mygirldarby- sounds like he is the one that has lost, he is the one that is in massive denial about the cause of the problems that are in his life. Him. His broken personality and by the sounds of it, possibly undiagnosed mental illnesses or conditions. I hope he fails, i hope you rise and DON'T LET THAT PIG TAKE ANYTHING! Such a short time on the planet, don't let one insecure, idiotic despot make the rest of yours unpleasant. Find your happy place again. It's waiting for you.

  • @natoshawilliams5869
    @natoshawilliams5869 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Mom is so STRONG & I hope she realize how much this will help, build, showcase, exemplify & mold this childb in what a Real woman.. strong..as well for dad looks like. Their family..communication, diligence, love, patience etc.. will reflect this baby upon Adulthood ❤💙🙏🏾

  • @yummyapplestroodle
    @yummyapplestroodle Před 4 lety +3696

    It must be so painful when his kid didn't want to kiss him :(

    • @user-gt7oh6pq6y
      @user-gt7oh6pq6y Před 4 lety +38

      Yes im sure ((but God love him

    • @jessl1089
      @jessl1089 Před 4 lety +5

      apple pie ikr...😞😞

    • @fatherlandchild2780
      @fatherlandchild2780 Před 4 lety +14

      I cried

    • @shatterpointgames
      @shatterpointgames Před 4 lety +71

      It's the mom's fault, why would you ask a child to kiss those lips? I didn't even kiss my dads healthy lips let alone his dissolved face lips

    • @yummyapplestroodle
      @yummyapplestroodle Před 4 lety +69

      @@shatterpointgames you don't have to kiss on the lips. I have never kissed my parents on the lips. Kiss on the cheek could have been fine or even a big hug.

  • @BrandyJButts
    @BrandyJButts Před 3 lety +2160

    Watching him cry broke my heart. He is being so strong for his wife and son. I admire this man so much.

  • @anamariamartinez6927
    @anamariamartinez6927 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You are a strong person, sir, and so you can get through this. Everday, I have so much pain that I have a difficult time walking more than a few steps unassisted. I feel so sorry for myself. I am ashamed at my lack of strength and perseverance. Blessings to you and your family. 🙏

  • @cxshboi_zay6344
    @cxshboi_zay6344 Před 2 měsíci

    This is the definition of true love and he is trying so hard. You got this!

  • @abeltesfaye_
    @abeltesfaye_ Před 2 lety +1473

    His wife saying she isn't going to feel sorry him is wonderful! Alex doesn't want to be pitied, he wants to be respected and she respects and loves him. Wonderful!

    • @henoksol
      @henoksol Před 2 lety +1

      Abel is that you?

    • @karlscher5170
      @karlscher5170 Před 2 lety +10

      I didn't get a very wholesome vibe from her. She was mocking him.

    • @sweetsamy2
      @sweetsamy2 Před 2 lety +28

      @@karlscher5170 trust me there happy together

    • @ptvsophie
      @ptvsophie Před 2 lety +31

      @@karlscher5170 where at any point does it seem like she’s mocking him? she is telling the story, and in a respectful manner, she is his wife for christ’s sake

    • @reggaefan2700
      @reggaefan2700 Před 2 lety +2

      It's like that dude in the Metallica song "One".