The absolute WORST advice for CHRISTIANS.

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 23. 04. 2024
  • There are a thousand disclaimers I could put in this video, but I decided to keep it short & simple speaking directly to the people who clearly are NOT where the Lord wants them but insist on persisting in their own ways, striving against the His will for them. If it doesn't apply to you, maybe share with someone who you think it could apply to? Thanks for being here 💛
    With love,
    Aly ✹
    Insta 🩋🌾 - / earthyaly

Komentáƙe • 23

  • @NanaHoneyB
    @NanaHoneyB Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    Absolutely!! Just earlier, I had to make a decision to remove myself from a situation because I am clearly not where I'm meant to be because I am holding myself back.

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      Thankful you had the insight to see that & actually move forward!

  • @alexiselaine9603
    @alexiselaine9603 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    Thank you for this! I always felt the same way when people said this phrase to me but didn't want to knock down their "positive advice"

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

    Yeah I know I was not where I needed to be a few years ago and we should always be growing! I don't like that advice either! I am glad you gathered what you did from it too! Stagnancy is bad.

  • @fortheladies771
    @fortheladies771 Pƙed 23 dny +1

    Glad someone finally said it!

  • @CAI.DREAMS
    @CAI.DREAMS Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I think when ppl say this they mean that even your bad situations have a purpose and that God uses everything for our good. At least that’s how I’ve understood that phrase. I don’t think ppl mean to say it in a “just stay in this disobedient or unfruitful place because it’s ✹exactly where you need to be✹” but rather in like “God knew you’d be in this place at this time and He’s working with you to 1. Bloom where you are planted 2. Learn from where you’re at to help you move into what God has in store for you”

    • @NanaHoneyB
      @NanaHoneyB Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      Yes, that's usually the case, but without that context some people will take it the wrong way because it tickles their ears when what they truly need is conviction.

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      I agree! I think I mean this more for the people who aren’t genuinely taking inventory of their lives and truly assessing why they may be in the turmoil they are in (which usually points back to sin). There’s definitely a difference between being in a growth phase where God is using the bad for your good vs. using the bad to get your attention to lead to repentance

    • @CAI.DREAMS
      @CAI.DREAMS Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      @@NanaHoneyB ah I see what you mean! That is very true especially since it’s a common phrase used by non-Christians as well

    • @CAI.DREAMS
      @CAI.DREAMS Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      @@EarthyAly ah so like for some people it’s an excuse to avoid having to confront the reality of where they’re at? That makes total sense , thank you for clarifying & replying đŸ€đŸ€

  • @jerusar8000
    @jerusar8000 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Thank you for sharing this. It resonated. ❀God bless and congratulations on your marriage and growing family!

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      Thanks so much 💛

  • @TiffahLabeeb
    @TiffahLabeeb Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I'm a Muslim and I definitely hear that too!! You can't be doing bad n still think, "you're where you are meant to be" coz you're not!!

    • @whitneymoten6324
      @whitneymoten6324 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      I dont think it's face value advice it's a little bit deeper like if you didn't experience that bad place where you are (that sick and tired of being sick and tiredplace) to get you where you need to be. And the lessons from thT place carry you gracefully into the next like she spoke on her disobedience to a life of obedience doe example❀

    • @jdfodio
      @jdfodio Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      You need to be IN CHRIST.

  • @erinsalmon-nx5wv
    @erinsalmon-nx5wv Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    The way this was for me
 ughhhhhhh. I’m heartbreakon beyond my own understanding but not feeling convicted anymore for being with my ex is still better but when I get in my feelings I really do. It’s so hard it’s so hard to be obedient but thank YYOUUUU thank you!!!

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Its hard to be obedient but honestly even harder to be in that "stuck" season. It's painful to obey in the moment but GIRL the joy comes in the morning!

  • @brandflour
    @brandflour Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Thank you for sharing this

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      thanks for watching 💛

  • @miguelpasamano4995
    @miguelpasamano4995 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    The title of your video is false if they're really Christians and why God ProHibits women from publicly speaking on spiritual matters.

    • @EarthyAly
      @EarthyAly  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

      I’m thinking maybe my channel isn’t the place for you lol

    • @2220CC
      @2220CC Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Where does scripture ever say women cannot speak on spiritual matters? Clearly you do not understand scripture. In a congregational setting, I would agree that women should not teach or have authority over a man. But women can't speak on any spiritual matters anywhere? Laughable.