Jordan Peterson - Men Can't Control Crazy Women

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    Men are defenseless against female insanity. Sane women could act as a regulating force.
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  • @williamjconde
    @williamjconde Před 5 lety +2292

    I bounced in nightclubs. When a man gets out of line, it gets physical. Women know, its not going to get physical, so they can go crazy. And they do.

    • @rimjobledouche5201
      @rimjobledouche5201 Před 5 lety +29

      what did you do in those circumstances?

    • @kimjunoon8369
      @kimjunoon8369 Před 5 lety +22

      Yes tell us what to do under such circumstances?

    • @theisisreincarnate
      @theisisreincarnate Před 5 lety +137

      I'd assume that's why they get their drinks spiked . To chemically restrain them . It's like women now have a license to behave really badly because there's no repercussions. It's like a I'll mannered child who knows there's no consequences to their behaviour

    • @swimmingduck9905
      @swimmingduck9905 Před 5 lety +109

      They get their drinks spiked so they fall unconscious and then get raped by evil people.

    • @aliray1165
      @aliray1165 Před 5 lety +151

      Drinks spiked? What the fuck are you guys talking about?

  • @superoriginalname
    @superoriginalname Před 6 lety +981

    Believe it or not, boxing gyms are the most civilized environments I've been in

    • @lebeete1900
      @lebeete1900 Před 5 lety +12

      superoriginalname forreal

    • @carlangaz007
      @carlangaz007 Před 5 lety +56

      well, you might say it sarcastically but if you think about it, they are civilized since a good boxing gym have well stated rules that are enforced and that people follow, thats part of the definition of civilzied

    • @Ookkii
      @Ookkii Před 5 lety +63

      Same here dude. Been doing mma for quite some years. There is no respect like inside the gym. It brings out the willingness for people to help others improve in their technique aswell as managing their emotions. You learn to respect the people around you for their skills and how they handle themselves and they really appreciate you as a person in a place like that. No place to make you humble like a ring.

    • @HellAintHalfFull
      @HellAintHalfFull Před 5 lety +42

      Because the threat of violence is there. It's like going to a shooting range, unless you're drunk and apathetic, you're going to be as careful as possible around guns.

    • @darthphaser2991
      @darthphaser2991 Před 5 lety +16

      Exactly. No disrespect is tolerated. You wanna talk shit, get in the ring.

  • @Fa6oomka94
    @Fa6oomka94 Před 5 lety +2128

    “Sane women are busy doing sane things “ bottom line ..

    • @TuequoiseQueso
      @TuequoiseQueso Před 5 lety +57

      Agreed! Sane women are like, aint no body got time fo dat.

    • @mistermasterful3556
      @mistermasterful3556 Před 5 lety +14

      lmao I Love Jordan Peterson.

    • @mohammadnurfiqri2831
      @mohammadnurfiqri2831 Před 5 lety +24

      Actually "Most of the women I know who are sane, are busy doing sane things..."

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez Před 5 lety +3

      Mike Splitt I love him more! LOL

    • @anthonyrymer4391
      @anthonyrymer4391 Před 5 lety +17

      @LESLIE TURNER Naw Einstein said doing the same thing everyday expecting a different result is insane. Doing daily activities every day is not insane. You need eat sleep and shit nearly every day that doesnt make you insane.

  • @SquireWaldo
    @SquireWaldo Před 5 lety +1644

    I spent almost 20 years of my life trying to reason with a crazy woman who was my wife. Perhaps the only thing I learned was to not waste your time.

    • @aliray1165
      @aliray1165 Před 5 lety +17

      A H I like this. Wise words.

    • @dmc7890
      @dmc7890 Před 5 lety +77

      You learned not to wast time on them after *20 years*

    • @ramosa999
      @ramosa999 Před 5 lety +94

      Exactly. Just walk away and ignore them. The two things they hate the most - rejection, and no more attention.

    • @SnookOnTheFly
      @SnookOnTheFly Před 5 lety +51

      Married 13 years and I'm drawing the same conclusion

    • @russell2975
      @russell2975 Před 5 lety +29

      Took me 10 :/

  • @ummagumma00
    @ummagumma00 Před 6 lety +973

    Neither men nor women need to control crazy. Ya just don't cooperate with crazy. You do not comply with crazy. You let them meltdown into a pile of burning rubber, showing no reaction at all.

    • @birdtopaz5627
      @birdtopaz5627 Před 5 lety +23

      ***THIS!*** Yes!!! Sane truth here!!

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 Před 5 lety +16

      exactly...if there is no sense of reason from a man or woman you just walk away an let them be lost in there ignorance and insanity

    • @PerfidiousPuffin
      @PerfidiousPuffin Před 5 lety +35

      That's all very well hypothetically but it assumes no other constraints are on you.

    • @nancypatricia511
      @nancypatricia511 Před 5 lety +29

      Yes. This probably would have worked in my home. If my father would just have stopped building footbridges by apologizing for an offense for which he was not his responsibility, she might have had to sit there alone in her mess and realize that SHE was responsible for what she was feeling. Instead, my father kept building footbridges of senseless apology that were only strong enough for his return trip back over because my mother was never wrong. She had no capacity to build a bridge or help build a bridge that they could both walk over and move on from. It was the icy, cold, silence which is so difficult to be in the same house with let alone the same room that motivated these senseless apologies. This was my "assertiveness training" and "Peacemaking education;" teaching that this is how you let people in authority walk all over you. Even if you are in the right and tell the truth, the one that dominates, even if they lie, are the ones that get what they want. Nothing and no one else matters.

    • @reikocool1
      @reikocool1 Před 5 lety +11

      Drunk or drug induced crazy making people are a REAL hazard to ones health, it's not just the context of women. Go 'grey rock' method... if the process allows for it or the 'observe dont absorb' method. Both deal with toxic types. But, yeah, until there are societal rules of engagement for this type of behavior the best thing is the walk away response for a person's personal safety.

  • @darylmiranda8597
    @darylmiranda8597 Před 5 lety +681

    Best remedy is to avoid them and leave them alone. That’s the best thing

    • @llewellynkinnaird2481
      @llewellynkinnaird2481 Před 5 lety +52

      Daryl Miranda Bro I tend to agree. The bible says it's better to dwell in the corner of a rooftop than with a contentious woman.

    • @J.R.S.G.S
      @J.R.S.G.S Před 4 lety +14

      That has always been the best remedy. The challenge at the moment is that the MSM is glorifying and supporting them while demonizing the male sex. I honestly don't know how long this phase is going to last.

    • @Lionofthelovinggod1
      @Lionofthelovinggod1 Před 4 lety +5

      Especially when pre-menstrual. Lol

    • @dadedon305
      @dadedon305 Před 4 lety +1

      Fucked up truth and why i wanna die everyday cuz i cant love myself enough without who My father in heaven and cosmic mother made to b my partner. There arent any truly Christ like divine mothers left on earth. This is Jezebels and Babylonias program. Not Gods. The archetype women love is Satan not Christ zeus or apollo or any good spirits smh. When she christlike arxhetype now feminist she good she dont need a man 👨🏾 we too much

    • @dadedon305
      @dadedon305 Před 4 lety

      Llewellyn Kinnaird i did two nights living with my evangelical mother

  • @loveandpeace8760
    @loveandpeace8760 Před 5 lety +372

    In all honesty, women don't understand crazy women either.

    • @haitiangal1361
      @haitiangal1361 Před 5 lety +28

      Hot Tube Umm no we don’t. Crazy women are aggressive. No one likes aggressive women.

    • @cswong6102
      @cswong6102 Před 4 lety +2

      @Brian Jones Not true

    • @inkwyvern5171
      @inkwyvern5171 Před 3 lety +14

      The problem is all women are crazy yet all women believe they're the only one who isn't. Imagine my face when my marriage counsellor was female 🤦🏽‍♂️No prizes for guessing who she sided with.

    • @Oshin_Life
      @Oshin_Life Před 3 lety

      same

    • @mr.e5791
      @mr.e5791 Před 3 lety +6

      They do. They're lying to you. The 'sane' woemen are just as complicit. They sit back with their mouths shut as they observe the wicked acts of their crazy sisters. The reason why they're sane is that they have no reason to demonstrate their craziness. Perhaps their gentlemanly husband is catering to all their needs and has given no opportunity for them to show their crazy side. They want to keep all the cards in their backpocket, so if the need arises, they can use them!
      All woemen are complicit! There are very very few women who call woemen out on their bullshit, and support men.

  • @doyalgauranga
    @doyalgauranga Před 5 lety +665

    The only way to fight a crazy woman is ignoring her totally. It works most of the time.

    • @Microbex
      @Microbex Před 5 lety +5

      @Mr. Happy spot on, sir.

    • @kevinjacobson969
      @kevinjacobson969 Před 5 lety +39

      My wife hates it but it's the only tactic that works.

    • @jofriedman4528
      @jofriedman4528 Před 5 lety +61

      As a sane woman raised by a crazy woman, and dating my fair share of crazy (feminine dominant) men, I 100% agree.
      Going 'grey rock' and not giving them the attention they're looking for, communicating clearly your standards and then calmly walking away when those standards are not being met and respected is the only way. The biggest realisation I've ever had about dealing with narcissists/crazy deluded folk and wondering what made them think they could treat me disrespectfully was, "because I let them".
      Just don't let them. Easier said than done, but can be done.

    • @rinawmachhakchhuak2377
      @rinawmachhakchhuak2377 Před 4 lety

      Proven?

    • @TheHammer454
      @TheHammer454 Před 4 lety +12

      But a lot of time when crazy doesn’t get a rise out of someone they’ll resort to violence

  • @thisismychannel607
    @thisismychannel607 Před 6 lety +853

    Its like he's sayin you can't do anything but walk away

    • @herp_derpingson
      @herp_derpingson Před 6 lety +65

      Yeah, you should try "going your own way".

    • @system3335
      @system3335 Před 6 lety +7

      Absolutely

    • @SdotPdotGhost
      @SdotPdotGhost Před 6 lety +9

      Yea it seems that way but then if you watch his lecture on marriage the vows saying "I won't leave no matter what" he seems to want them to be obeyed more than anything else. So I guess it's true one can't win vs women.

    • @thecastle09
      @thecastle09 Před 6 lety +42

      zack soto bingo. The woman wants you to b violent. That’s the goal. You lose big time if you don’t walk away ASAP..

    • @allananderson5840
      @allananderson5840 Před 6 lety +11

      No...you can speak the truth, and get arrested. (See what happens).

  • @kanahbal
    @kanahbal Před 5 lety +242

    "Men Can't Control Crazy Women" without breaking the law.

    • @cynthiasarah4286
      @cynthiasarah4286 Před 4 lety +22

      Thank God.. who defines Crazy. How misogynistic
      And patriarchal.
      Women are not your enemy.. your need for control is your enemy

    • @melaniehope2750
      @melaniehope2750 Před 3 lety +5

      @Snabbar Jabbar well yes and no! You will be arrested but without clear cut evidence the courts will be forced to drop your charges

    • @Atclav
      @Atclav Před 3 lety +16

      @@cynthiasarah4286 You missed the point. Some people are the enemies of peace. Men know how to handle men but how do you deal with a woman who is the enemy of peace? Answer that instead of sitting back picking at things.

    • @dehistoriapisciumfish7639
      @dehistoriapisciumfish7639 Před 3 lety +9

      Hitting men is illegal too

    • @CvnDqnrU
      @CvnDqnrU Před 3 lety +2

      @@cynthiasarah4286 HAHAHA very funny, the crazy women in my life are control freaks who wanted to control me by defining "misogynistic" everything that went against their wishes. Men are not your enemy, your feminist need for control is your enemy.

  • @huncheaux5828
    @huncheaux5828 Před 3 lety +56

    Whenever my mom would bring up certain topics, my dad would grab his truck keys + ask me if I wanted to come with him. I understand exactly what he’s talking about.

    • @uzalet6826
      @uzalet6826 Před 3 lety +6

      I could actually believe that hahahaha

    • @megax5000
      @megax5000 Před 3 lety +2

      sorry to hear your dad wanted to punch women like peterson and apparentl you too

    • @Laneous14
      @Laneous14 Před 2 lety +1

      @@megax5000 Male feminist, huh? Link us the article where you sexually assaulted your 'ally' and save us all a google search.

    • @GreekHouseEffect
      @GreekHouseEffect Před 2 lety +8

      This is really fucking sad

    • @jamiesmith3259
      @jamiesmith3259 Před rokem

      Sounds like he was a weak man

  • @andrewtruscott8515
    @andrewtruscott8515 Před 5 lety +48

    You can’t reason with someone who wants to be unreasonable, man or woman. Don’t try!

  • @Craig07L
    @Craig07L Před 6 lety +654

    I was having a conversation with my fiancée a few months ago which touched on this. We were amusing ourselves with a hypothetical scenario of both of us spending the day in the body of the opposite sex. During that conversation I told her that the average woman, in a man's body, would end up in a physical fight within hours. Women are just more forthright in displaying their annoyance and displeasure to others in public (in my view) and are just not as curtious to others. I hypothesised this may be due to the lack of any serious physical confrontation between females and other females, or females and males, compared to male-on-male confrontation.
    You say "excuse me!" rather too abruptly to someone in your way as a man and it could get violent. As a woman you get a pass. Someone steps on your toe by accident and they say 'sorry', you have to respond with 'no problem' or 'its ok' as a man. Show your annoyance too much and it could mean a trip to hospital or a dentist. Again, as a woman you can roll your eyes, shake your head and demand the idiot who stepped on you to watch where they're going in future! A man just cannot do that or he'd be forever being punched. Men are forced to be more polite to avoid dangerous physical scenarios.

    • @lindabigden111
      @lindabigden111 Před 6 lety

      Craig07L i

    • @andrewtregoning
      @andrewtregoning Před 6 lety +39

      i grew up literally playfighting every day, therefore i have an unconscious understanding of physical boundaries. it's a gender difference for sure. in my experience girls have terrible impulse control when it comes to physical stuff during outbursts and conflict. ie we have a far greater understanding of consequences because we've seen them many times before

    • @LordSantiagor
      @LordSantiagor Před 6 lety +10

      The result of this experiment: Gay men

    • @breakingthemasks
      @breakingthemasks Před 6 lety +28

      secondary point made obvious by this example... that the threat of harm results is careful moderation of behavior... a exactly why an armed populace can be predicted to behave in more cautious ways. i.e. you never know who might draw on you for trespassing on their rights.

    • @wanitagons4269
      @wanitagons4269 Před 6 lety +11

      Craig07L actually I think that's quite insightful.

  • @jagemobe
    @jagemobe Před 6 lety +348

    I'll never forget this girl who I liked back in middle school - she used to chase me and bully me, but I didn't mind because my little mind was just happy for recognition from the object of my imagined affection. Then one day, something happened that changed me forever - it essentially woke me from what seemed like a slumber. We were sitting at the lunch table, and she took the opportunity to start making fun of me in front of everybody. I usually sat alone as I liked being with my thoughts; but that day I sat with the other kids. As she berated me at length, I smirked and smirked and people started remarking at how she didn't seem to be affecting me. then, the unthinkable happened - she stood up over the table and got in my face, and when I looked up at her, she spit on my cheek. I remember the utter shock that hit me, as a realization dawned on me: holy shit this girl actually HATES me. I wouldn't do that to an animal (spit on it). I had totally misread the situation all along - she actually had contempt for me. Then, shock turned to rage and I grabbed her by the hair and slammed her down on the lunch table, wanting to grind her face out of existence. I couldn't bring my self to hit her the way I wanted to, and just held her face down on the table until I felt myself being lifted in the air by a teacher who'd arrived and broken it up. I hand't even heard the other kids yelling and screaming and laughing until he picked me up.
    Whatever - this clip just reminded me of that day long ago - and how only a girl (albeit crazy girl) would even dream of doing something like that to another person and have full expectation of getting away with it. Didn't quite pan out that way for her that time. Shrugs. She avoided me for the rest of the school year after we both returned from our three-day suspension - wouldn't even look at me. It saddened me then that she seemed broken, in a way...but there was a small twinge of justification.nonetheless.

    • @logant44
      @logant44 Před 6 lety +12

      you must have been a very ugly kid

    • @jagemobe
      @jagemobe Před 6 lety +48

      Even more than you think lol

    • @jeremysmith3318
      @jeremysmith3318 Před 6 lety +69

      Good for you. Don't let a bitch/liberal get away with anything.

    • @expression15
      @expression15 Před 5 lety +4

      What did you parents said?

    • @taigressbloommer8192
      @taigressbloommer8192 Před 5 lety +10

      ......how does that relate with anything being said here lol. Ya'll were just kids and she probably learned from her parents.

  • @wolfy9549
    @wolfy9549 Před 5 lety +353

    Good to see a rational woman who agrees with a guy like Jordan, not gobbling in disbelief thinking woman are perfect

    • @enigmatheinfj5346
      @enigmatheinfj5346 Před 5 lety +10

      Ikr. If you are perfect you are not pooping.

    • @francischimenti1374
      @francischimenti1374 Před 5 lety +13

      Nothing's perfect, BUT there are those who come ever so slightly closer to it or away from. Peterson provides the disservice to our gender by confirming my statement with his outdated, archaic assessment on handling any "crazy" PERSON alluding to an issue with gender stereotypes when he's supposed to be a professional fucking clinical psychologist!

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před 5 lety +17

      @@francischimenti1374 actually he's a psychology research professor for the last 30 years..... and what are you??? Just a crazy angry woman who knows more than a professional???? Just like how if you get 3 or more women together they suddenly know more than any doctor who spent 7 years in university and 25 years doing it as a job???

    • @francischimenti1374
      @francischimenti1374 Před 5 lety +9

      @@OffGridInvestor LOL Mate, Francis is a bloke's name too you know 🤣🤣 "Frances" is the feminine spelling and that is a hoodie NOT hair on my avatar.
      I never studied psychology BUT I've been exposed to it's practices for over a decade in the form of it's therapies and methodologies(crazy angry MAN, thank you very much). I've learned sooo much from the myriad of psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, not to mention my own research and valuable intuition(learning from direct experience is empirical data, I hope you realise) and one of the most profound truths to take from all of it, even without it stated over and over again, is to DO AWAY with categorical thinking and the temptations to assigning labels especially on complex matters like the human psyche. These things are NOT black and white. Peterson should know better, I suspect he does, but he needs to be controversial and upholding that these things are NOT so simple is not provocative enough and won't gain him any fame which he is obviously ravenous for.

    • @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
      @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Před 5 lety +2

      But she's NOT a rational woman - she's a wannabe man.

  • @ianhinrichsendrummer2113
    @ianhinrichsendrummer2113 Před 5 lety +70

    I was married to, probably the most aggressive person I've ever met. Even my clients were scared of her. WAS married.
    I abhor aggressive womem.

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 Před 4 lety

      sounds like my female boss smh

    • @onthearth1
      @onthearth1 Před 4 lety +4

      @@TopFlightSecurity415 Why would you do such thing? Doesnt make sense unless you have a Dom-Sub fetish..

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 Před 4 lety +3

      @AllOverTheWorld wtf are you talking about?

    • @onthearth1
      @onthearth1 Před 4 lety +10

      @@TopFlightSecurity415 Why would someone who abhor agressivity marry an agressive woman? I know that people usually don't make sense but this is next level to me...

    • @lsks319
      @lsks319 Před 4 lety

      @@onthearth1 She wasn't aggressive when we were going out, her true colors came out only afterwards.

  • @youcantbesyrian
    @youcantbesyrian Před 4 lety +20

    how to deal with insane people, regardless of gender: don’t. disengage. distance yourself.

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 Před rokem +62

    I've dealt with crazy women and the best thing you can do is abandon them.
    It's also the most justifiably cruel thing you can do to them because it's worse than hitting them. Just go a.w.o.l.on them without giving them any closure.
    Sometimes abandonment is what a crazy woman deserves more than anything. It gives them the message that they are beyond hope and not worth anyone's time. That's all they need to know.

    • @cupofserenity7692
      @cupofserenity7692 Před rokem +6

      I agree with this. It’s a turn on when a guy leaves rather than stays and goes nuts on a woman trying to make her reason with you. The affection I give to my man when he does this is 10x more him and he gets more respect and I love ittt

    • @cupofserenity7692
      @cupofserenity7692 Před rokem +1

      Give her money and leave and watch her be 10x more respectful towards you and if that doesn’t work, don’t come back for 3 weeks and boom she’ll understand she did something wrong unless she’s a low iq narcissist

    • @louiseb6551
      @louiseb6551 Před rokem +2

      wtf no you don’t want to make her love n respect you more. you aught to just leave. don’t play mind games. nothings going to change in the long run your just going to go in circles. if your super attached to a guy who keeps abandoning you , you got some major abandonment issues, that is not a reliable partner, you have a problem. you should not be getting back together with someone like that. someone like that won’t be with you through the hard times. This sounds like the typical love bonding style of a child of narcissistic parents or parents who were unavailable… your attracted to people being unavailable, it’s all you’ve known. :/ maybe have a think on that incase i’m right. please don’t chase a guy who keeps leaving.

    • @sisigs4820
      @sisigs4820 Před rokem

      Women like that crave and live off of attention. When you deny that for them, you are also denying their sense of power.

    • @themeadowlarkminutewithpau8184
      @themeadowlarkminutewithpau8184 Před rokem +4

      Ghosting is for cowards.

  • @kenworthspy545
    @kenworthspy545 Před 5 lety +165

    I stand up to a man, we sort it out. I stand up to a wyman, they complain to HR, supervisors, colleagues, etc.

    • @doppies2001
      @doppies2001 Před 5 lety +2

      @@endthefed1448 the end is a already here...

    • @edgarsi
      @edgarsi Před 4 lety +13

      I stood up to a man.. he reported me to supervisor... nowadays you don't know who are you dealing with.. lol

    • @streameant
      @streameant Před 4 lety +4

      Tape them and complain with evidence to the supervisor

    • @muneebi8273
      @muneebi8273 Před 4 lety +1

      If you’re going to do it, do it in front of an audience. Works wonders. They don’t have ammo to hurt you if everyone already saw it unfold. Just don’t lose your temper when standing up to them; stay steady and to the point. Best of luck.

    • @yesplease6399
      @yesplease6399 Před 3 lety +1

      LMAO I got snitched on by a sad grumpy man

  • @joshuascreations7526
    @joshuascreations7526 Před 5 lety +123

    The only power we have as men,is to walk away,and go our own way.
    It's time to Abandon Ship.

    • @aliray1165
      @aliray1165 Před 5 lety +9

      Lebeman no chance. Too many of us have daughters wives sisters and mothers. If I caught you hitting one of those you’d be in trouble. However if you walked away I couldn’t argue with that. You gotta be the better man no matter how shitty she’s been to you. Sad but true.

    • @aliray1165
      @aliray1165 Před 5 lety +7

      Lebeman it depends on how you look at it. Some might say you’re a dirty stinking piss warrior in need of a good punch yourself but I wouldn’t stoop that low.

    • @manmanman4825
      @manmanman4825 Před 5 lety +3

      Aye captain!

    • @numnums3660
      @numnums3660 Před 5 lety +2

      MGTOW

    • @TristanHayes
      @TristanHayes Před 5 lety +3

      @@aliray1165 Really sounds like a good option- stop seeing women, stop having kids, have no one to raise on your values, your values die out with you, let them win... *clap clap clap*

  • @jenlovesthisstuff
    @jenlovesthisstuff Před 6 lety +212

    Women need to accept the concept of self responsibility

    • @strategicthinker8899
      @strategicthinker8899 Před 6 lety +30

      Why would they? They never have before...

    • @birdtopaz5627
      @birdtopaz5627 Před 5 lety +3

      @@strategicthinker8899 BULLSHIT.

    • @birdtopaz5627
      @birdtopaz5627 Před 5 lety +7

      I agree, jenlovesthisstuff. But ***so do men.***

    • @birdtopaz5627
      @birdtopaz5627 Před 5 lety +27

      And don't kid yourself...if you think men are so much more self-responsible than women are, you've bought into a big lie. ***Humans in general must grow up.***

    • @strategicthinker8899
      @strategicthinker8899 Před 5 lety +7

      Not an argument.

  • @theshrimp1657
    @theshrimp1657 Před 3 lety +20

    This is why we have “Karen” most cultures treat women as someone that men need to protect and care for. Which is why women feel more entitled in service industry work.

    • @kaivogel253
      @kaivogel253 Před 2 lety

      your idiotic general claim is wrong and I think you learned that from Petersons example. But sure. All women are the same and they all should be protected from themselves, right? You absolute moron.

  • @dennyhutsell4975
    @dennyhutsell4975 Před 5 lety +378

    I am divorced as a result of dealing with a crazy woman. I walked out👍🏻

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez Před 5 lety +6

      Denny Hutsell good job!

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez Před 5 lety +2

      Leila Universe soo your assuming that this guy beat his woman ? Come on man.

    • @dennyhutsell4975
      @dennyhutsell4975 Před 5 lety +1

      Save your buddy comment for some “body” else. Not your buddy.

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez Před 5 lety +4

      Denny Hutsell people here just say things without thinking. Or they are just irrational.

    • @paulcolburn3855
      @paulcolburn3855 Před 5 lety +1

      My sympathies Denny. I was able to "vet" and "bless out" my first couple fiancé's for their insanity before I said "I do." That saved me a whole lot of money.
      The infrastructure in place in Western Society essentially DENIES the existence of men having to deal with insane women. But in reality, that happens all the time. And for me (in my married life) that was a non-starter.

  • @sydneymoore1153
    @sydneymoore1153 Před 5 lety +28

    “Their crazy harpy sisters” 🤣😂😅

  • @fujoshipeanut5074
    @fujoshipeanut5074 Před 6 lety +124

    Gotta deal with my crazy sisters

    • @AkiRa22084
      @AkiRa22084 Před 6 lety +1

      Help! Or we'll have an Elliot Rodgers epidemic!

    • @jermainerace4156
      @jermainerace4156 Před 6 lety +4

      Please do.

    • @idid138
      @idid138 Před 6 lety +4

      Crap, that's a scary thought isn't it?! We surely do need respectable rational women to speak out for truth though, so the next generation has a chance.

    • @idid138
      @idid138 Před 6 lety +6

      coscointernational I got bored a third of the way through your rant and stopped reading. Maybe find a therapist?

    • @birdtopaz5627
      @birdtopaz5627 Před 5 lety +1

      @@coscointernational You know what?
      You don't deserve highly intelligent, rational, creative women who are fascinating to talk to and merit respect.
      *You don't think they actually exist!*
      Therefore, you can't and won't find any...
      And you will continue to wind up with BORING FUCKING CUNTS who are only good for being the bottoms in meaningless one-night stands.
      It's YOUR WORLD, that you created with YOUR MINDLESS CENTRIST TRANCE, that you're absolutely convinced is reality. Ah, but it isn't.
      But I guarantee that you won't listen to me...because in YOUR DELUSION...I'm just a boring fucking cunt. Right?
      Enjoy your delusion now, while you still can...because your deathbed is ***not*** going to be a peaceful, happy one.

  • @MrShysterme
    @MrShysterme Před 6 lety +258

    I've reflected on something very similar. Men have something akin to mutually assured destruction. Even a larger man does not usually want to push a smaller man too far because he knows a fight can occur. When that happens, the smaller man is often still strong enough to win or inflict damage to the larger man despite losing (most men can shatter another man's nose). Or the smaller man's friends might jump in. At the very least, a scene will be made and the cops likely called and maybe an arrest.
    Partly due to this, men tend to be much nicer to each other in public. I've been treated poorly by women in public for no good reason MANY more times than I have been treated that way by a man. Women that feel safe and that the man will not react violently (as I don't seem like that type of man) sometimes feel like they have a suit of armor. I know someone will point to some statistic, but I've seen this over and over throughout my life. It is a thing. This is especially true when drinking. Women will just start screaming dumb rude stuff at men.
    I'd really respect any woman that could actually admit that this is part of the dynamic.

    • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284
      @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 Před 6 lety +34

      I absolutely admit it. As I'm not cruel, I don't behave this way. To anyone. Ever.
      But I've been the victim of it too many times to count. There's a large subset of women who do carry their privilege like armor. And abuse that privilege as often as they can.

    • @keonkla
      @keonkla Před 6 lety +3

      Just have to love the insanity and inherit madness to social dynamics and behaviors.

    • @Yotrymp
      @Yotrymp Před 6 lety +4

      To be fair with all these comments, and sort of say the already-known NOT ALL, I think there's just a higher variance with how women are allowed to act ("allowed" meaning that the behaviors socially acceptable at the current time). I've seen and experienced what people are talking about in these threads, but I've also never seen men be extra nice and polite as some women are. It's kind of creepy when a man is that way anyways, but very pleasant when a woman is that way. Also I think men forget women have wilder experiences with hormones that are probably a big root of psychological issues. Emotions can really warp your mind if you aren't aware of what's going on with yourself, whether male or female.

    • @MrShysterme
      @MrShysterme Před 6 lety +11

      Tymprasta, it's because women are even given a pass on being disingenuous (which is a form of manipulation, I suppose some men like being manipulated by women on some level). Both men and women have a well studied bias towards women. The woman to woman bias is huge (basically women would probably trust a random female felon over a random male with a blue collar job and no criminal record, women view other women like 6 times more favorably than men), but even men view women more kindly given the same behavior (I think men "only" view women twice as well as men given the same behavior, this is established in studies where they present identical scenarios and only switch the genders). I suppose it's simply because we are attracted to them and/or some male mother need. But an effective counter argument would be bayesian in that "women have had so many bad experiences in the past with men or heard of them that it would take an exceptional man to be rated higher than an average woman"...but I think that's only slight true and the real reason is just evolutionary biology and womb scarcity. So, yes, women are not judged as harshly by anyone and many men think their ass kissing manipulations cute simply because they have a vagina they might be able to enter at some future date.

    • @theexplorer7139
      @theexplorer7139 Před 6 lety +4

      MrShysterme Same. I had women push me in bars or disrespect me while the men were always polite. It's so much bullshit nowadays, that i just avoid women as they play head games.

  • @ipsosmaati1971
    @ipsosmaati1971 Před 5 lety +80

    Nobody should try to control another. If they crazy remove yourself.

    • @jofriedman4528
      @jofriedman4528 Před 5 lety +6

      IPSOS MAATI - YES!!! Or "they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience," as the saying goes. No need to engage. We all have that choice.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před 5 lety +2

      Run away like a pussy.... right.... question is, what happens if you "remove yourself" when you live with a crazy woman? Why should my azz live on the streets because she's a crazy bish???

    • @Teakai8
      @Teakai8 Před 5 lety +2

      @@OffGridInvestor was she crazy when you met her?

    • @ipsosmaati1971
      @ipsosmaati1971 Před 5 lety

      @Hot TubeNobody likes a helpless man..lol.

    • @doppies2001
      @doppies2001 Před 5 lety +1

      @@Teakai8 yes, but "Love" makes one blind !

  • @paulmoore7064
    @paulmoore7064 Před 5 lety +200

    A word about having a relationship with a crazy woman. Don't.

    • @EyeLean5280
      @EyeLean5280 Před 4 lety +6

      Same goes for a crazy man. Stay away.

    • @GWgamesful
      @GWgamesful Před 4 lety +5

      That's actually two words :)

    • @EyeLean5280
      @EyeLean5280 Před 4 lety

      @@GWgamesful I never said I was confining myself to one word; that was someone else. Also, I think your name suits you :)

    • @GWgamesful
      @GWgamesful Před 4 lety +5

      @@EyeLean5280 I wasnt talking to you :))

    • @EyeLean5280
      @EyeLean5280 Před 4 lety +2

      @@GWgamesful Okee dokee.

  • @ELECTROMA0230
    @ELECTROMA0230 Před 6 lety +103

    "If your talking to a man who wouldn't fight you under any circumstance whatsoever, then your talking to someone to whom you have absolutely no respect"

    • @janu2997
      @janu2997 Před 6 lety +10

      Fight club and that homework assignment immediately sprang to mind.

    • @AlbertRossvids
      @AlbertRossvids Před 6 lety +25

      So you don't respect pacifists? What a disgusting piece of shit you are.

    • @GanzBestimmt
      @GanzBestimmt Před 6 lety +13

      Albert Ross Of course not. Screw your pacifism.

    • @chuchuchimlumlumli20
      @chuchuchimlumlumli20 Před 6 lety +3

      And what is that supposed to even mean? Are your brains frozen?

    • @OmarGonzalez-tg9uv
      @OmarGonzalez-tg9uv Před 5 lety +19

      In the words of TFS (speaking to a pacifist):
      "You think you're better than everyone else, but there you stand, the good man doing nothing. And while evil triumphs, and your rigid pacifism crumbles into blood stained dust, the only victory afforded to you is that you stuck true to your guns; you were a coward, 'til your last whimper"

  • @sergey.yagodin
    @sergey.yagodin Před 5 lety +10

    I've been thinking the same thing for a long time. The reason I sometimes have conflicts with women is because they are not afraid to be punched and so feel free to say whatever obscenities pop up into their heads.
    On the other hand I do feel the need to become a better conversational master in order to keep up with women. They have been mastering the skill of conversational battles for centuries now.
    And men need to evolve now in their ways to handle conflicts. For us, men, dealing with conflicts have always been quick and easy. First you do have the threat of becoming physical so everyone tries to be civil and do the necessary work instead. Secondly, if things get out of hand they do get settled down pretty quickly in a fight. But when it comes to conversational battles, those can last forever. And when there is no threat of physicality, people tend to be more free in saying the most outrageous and crazy things.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety

      So what? Men use violence and women use manipulative strategies, why do you think women are better at this?

    • @davidbaigorria5847
      @davidbaigorria5847 Před 4 lety +1

      @@eliza1826 because females have been doing it for longer than most males, and are encouraged to do so, while we are pushed to be more ''macho'' and to fight instead of talk and reason, LIKE GOOD ADULTS SHOULD, NO MATTER THEIR SEX OR GENDER

    • @hyberkonawa272
      @hyberkonawa272 Před 2 lety

      @@davidbaigorria5847 Not gonna lie..... I used to be like that in video-games through fighting games.
      I used to be A warrior wielding a 2 handed greatsword (Zheihander) dealing massive damage until I got defeated and humiliated by a Little girl with a butter knife.
      The Little girl with the butter knife, taught me on how women manipulates men and how to deal with it, instead of using my massive greats-word as a brute force.
      Strength is not always the answer to win a fight.

  • @jhljhl6964
    @jhljhl6964 Před 5 lety +25

    My ex was that way. Everything her way, and always her double standards.

    • @francischimenti1374
      @francischimenti1374 Před 5 lety +1

      I onced militantly believed and adhered to the double standards for women, to the point of being a misandrist, for a long time and that us as men should stop bitching about it, submit to it and acknowledge that we only have our patriarchal oppressive douchebag predecessors to blame for it. I believed it was our duty to model ourselves around the personalities, whims and desires of our goddesses(partners) crazy or not. Now, though there's still that instinct that women deserve better just to balance the millenniums of male dominating bullshit BUT, in the end, one realises that women are just human and in an egalitarian OR even a hypothetical matriarchal society, women will most likely make the same mistakes. Do they deserve a chance to overtake dominance, regardless? In the past, I would've hands down agreed that they do.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety +1

      Well, in the relationship there always be a leader and you werent the leader so she had to step up

    • @francischimenti1374
      @francischimenti1374 Před 5 lety

      @@eliza1826 A good relationship is about compromise not leadership. It's just my opinion that to an extent the level of compromise should shift more in favor of the woman. That's just me though.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety

      @@francischimenti1374 I understand but there will be always that one person that will the dominant one in the relationship whether its man or a woman or whether you want it or not.

    • @francischimenti1374
      @francischimenti1374 Před 5 lety

      ​@@eliza1826 I assure you not ALL relationships and especially NOT after being together in the double digit range of time. A good, long-lasting relationship is not that simple. You have to SHARE leadership and be willing to submit when appropriate. It's too broad to just say "Take leadership" because there's so many avenues where one member excels over the other. Compromise, self-awareness, openness and humility are the key to making ANY relationship flourish EVEN when there doesn't seem to be any compatibility.

  • @KoalemosTheAtomizer
    @KoalemosTheAtomizer Před 3 lety +4

    I dunno about you guys but I've literally never thought about fighting people I'm talking to. Someone might want to look into why he thinks this is always the case..

  • @Razear
    @Razear Před 6 lety +217

    Meanwhile in Saudi Arabia....

    • @lukepowers9472
      @lukepowers9472 Před 6 lety +11

      well now they can drive there...before ya know it theyll want to vote too

    • @strategicthinker8899
      @strategicthinker8899 Před 6 lety +3

      They can in local elections. Only a matter of time when they are a full-on gynocracy as well. Men are the problem not women. Giving in to be considered "a good man" in the eyes of some slut is all it takes.

    • @taskforcecomputer
      @taskforcecomputer Před 6 lety +29

      Meanwhile in almost all the places in the world outside of Canada, America and Western Europe men just hit women when they act out and they face no repercussions. But ya, lets pretend that our first world problem of upper middle class educated men not being able to beat women when they talk back is a really important issue.

    • @TK-iu8nj
      @TK-iu8nj Před 6 lety +21

      Islam generates a different civilization, with different values than the Western Civilization based on Christianity.
      That's why Islamic man are allowed to behave differently towards women and no one gives a f.
      The irony is thou that Islam is actually winning in the fight between those to civilizations.
      Why? Because woman there are having lots of babies, are taking care of the hearth and home, are supporting their husbands.
      We on the other hands have feminism propaganda and woman that are out of tune of their femininity.
      People who intend to destroy the Western Civilization really knew where to hit.

    • @bogo_wanderlust3692
      @bogo_wanderlust3692 Před 6 lety +1

      +T K ISLAM will be destroyed...al thiese thigs ISLAM,FRMINISM RADICAL LEFT ARE INTENDED TO BRING BACK FAR RIGHT...ITS A DIVIDE/CONQUER TOOL AND IT WILL DESTROY WESTERN CIVILISATIONS

  • @robertgarvey4069
    @robertgarvey4069 Před 6 lety +11

    I love how some people find this shocking. I love what's going on with this timeline. It's like people are waking upfrom a dream.

  • @padmanabham.suresham
    @padmanabham.suresham Před 2 lety +3

    Actually one can deal with bullies by creating an aura of fear in their minds. Fear of getting hurt, fear of consequences, fear of law.

  • @darrall2877
    @darrall2877 Před 4 lety +8

    Leaving a crazy woman is how you win the argument.

  • @Xbalanque84
    @Xbalanque84 Před 6 lety +59

    Well said. Growing up, I got bullied a lot. The worst ones, however, were always girls, employing manipulation, passive-aggression, and mind games. Back then, I couldn't really process a lot of what was happening, only (during my more lucid moments) that they were hurting me and I had no idea how to defend myself or fight back. Over time, I've come to realize that whether due to some inborn sociopathy or some other pathology of mind or character, some women are prone to continue this kind of adolescent nastiness well after their teens.
    Unfortunately, these kinds of women tend to be very good at gaming whatever system they're operating in to get ahead and once in positions of influence are likely to maintain or exacerbate the loopholes that got them ahead. We have now reached a point where such toxic individuals, working in unison, have apparently jury-rigged our society to such that girls and women are no longer obligated or expected to adhere to any form of social decorum or quid pro quo, while men and boys are expected to pick up the slack and are still treated as innately evil, less than human, and/or existentially disposable whether they comply with this order or not. They prey on our inborn, socially and evolutionarily-imposed biases to deflect criticism, manipulate/propagandize the masses with self-serving falsehoods, and utterly destroy anyone who crosses them. And given how pervasive these insidious people are in the administration of pretty much any institutional setting (while nepotistically helping other get ahead/looking out for each other), avoiding them is pretty much impossible. Hell, our institutions of learning seem deliberately engineered to cultivate these loathsome traits in women and girls.
    Every aspect of this crisis chafes my sense of honor to the bone. They have gamed the system to the point that women can employ the dirtiest tactics imaginable at any time for any reason against men and boys without consequence, but men risk everything by so much as defending themselves or others that draw feminist ire. Give me a fair fight, an even-handed debate, a chance to properly lock horns and wrestle it out. I am sick to death of the constant backstabbing, the surreptitious poisonings, the incitement of mobs by smarmy narcissists who cry fowl with shit-eating grins on their faces, masturbating as the innocents they slandered are burned at the stake, and then just walking away unharmed even when their lies are exposed.
    But how does one strike down the untouchable? While the thought of large-scale ostracism and the establishment of new sets of taboos sounds ideal (and thoroughly satisfying/cathartic), something tells me Dr. Peterson's call for sane/conscientious women to push back against against their wicked stepsisters won't catch on well, if only because these people are very adept at lying. By and large, I've noticed most women seem oblivious to these issues and highly susceptible to manipulation by the pathological ones, who project and slander as their primary defense mechanism. Moreover, they will usually employ Kafka-traps to give their bullshit an air of legitimacy, a tactic which both men and women seem highly vulnerable to. While putting the onus on women to police their own does have merit (and may be the only somewhat-viable option at present), little can be done unless large numbers of women are sufficiently aware and motivated to do anything. (No wonder feminists are so fond of no-platforming naysayers.) Which begs the question, how do we "red pill" large numbers of rational women when the crazy ones have the deck stacked so grossly in their favor?

    • @DolphusRaymond
      @DolphusRaymond Před 6 lety +3

      This is a very interesting analogy. I had feelings about this subject and wondered how we ever got to a point where our system is jerry rigged. You've seem to put alot of those feelings into words quite well.

    • @mrh5504
      @mrh5504 Před 2 lety +8

      Underestimated comment

    • @publius5128
      @publius5128 Před 2 lety +4

      Very underrated comment.

    • @user-hi2nd
      @user-hi2nd Před rokem +3

      We get more people like you.

    • @trogglepope9792
      @trogglepope9792 Před 10 měsíci

      Excellent comment.

  • @jwtrain
    @jwtrain Před 6 lety +138

    This clip really resonated with my personal experience.

    • @Warpig9
      @Warpig9 Před 6 lety +3

      I had an ex who cheated on me and then told me to go fuck myself when confronted. I left shaking my head, thinking, “how fcked up is this word.”

    • @gtoddun
      @gtoddun Před 6 lety +2

      So if you can beat the shit out of someone, or at least get have the opportunity to try, then you have a level playing field. Is that your deep burning desire? Or is it that the ability of people to speak without threat of violence is somehow unfair the people who rely on it?

    • @rcmunro22
      @rcmunro22 Před 6 lety

      This is why Men punch holes in Sheetrock.

  • @roblemaer4834
    @roblemaer4834 Před 5 lety +10

    I disagree with Professor Jordan on this: there are many people whom I expect they will never fight me and for whom I have respect. Respect isn’t born of fear of physical violence; it’s a quality cultivated in the person e.g. respecting your teacher when he/she is talking to you about grades awarded or misbehaviour on your part. Example abound.

    • @vkap1215
      @vkap1215 Před 5 lety +2

      Roe Maer Youre assuming a RATIONAL person making a RATIONAL response. He’s defining Crazy women who don’t behave rationally. Peterson is 100% correct. There is no recourse for men.

    • @starsof6th822
      @starsof6th822 Před 5 lety

      Well you are a student and he is the professor. See the difference?

    • @bellautopia818
      @bellautopia818 Před 3 lety

      I agree because he said he doesn't respect ANY man that won't fight back... So what about Jesus then? He taught us to turn the other cheek... I respect Jesus. (🎶🎵"R-E-S-P-E-C-T.._______...((I forgot some of the words))..."R-E-S-P-E-C-T.._______...HEY YA...OOOH!.... JUST A LITTLE BIT, JUST A LITTLE BIT,.....O-OYEAH...🎶🎵)...
      Sorry thinking out loud LOL.... That really is a good song though.... Okay well I guess this is all just another example of something I suppose.... Stay safe and happy healthy and whole and crazy or sane out there you guys..... muwah 💋💋💋💋😂🎶🎵💃🕺🏻🎶🎵👍🤔😹😋😉☺️🤗💋💜💚❤️🎶🎵🦙🦙🦙🦙🦙

  • @MGgmdd
    @MGgmdd Před 6 lety +62

    Bill Burr would REALLY like that brilliant man.

    • @hazardousjazzgasm129
      @hazardousjazzgasm129 Před 6 lety +6

      And the late Patrice oNeal. He talked about why men and women should not work together. He and Peterson share some insightful points...

    • @eugkra33
      @eugkra33 Před 6 lety +4

      Peterson watches both Bill and C.K. as well as some other standup. Probably got this idea from them.

    • @marcobolla8465
      @marcobolla8465 Před 6 lety

      Peterson actually referenced a bit of Bill Burr's Show "You People Are All The Same" on an interview. So your statement works both ways.

  • @jaredsparr8536
    @jaredsparr8536 Před 6 lety +8

    Two brilliant minds as always.. hitting another homerun. 👏🏼🙌🏼💯

  • @fllyz
    @fllyz Před 3 lety +5

    This is an issue that needs to be address much, much more today! Not only do men need to know what this is, also need to understand the issue. Also, women know this, almost instinctively and use this as a leverage against men, in a very twisted way. Not all of course, but a large enough percentage that reasons it!

  • @chucklos391
    @chucklos391 Před 2 lety +5

    You fu***** kidding me?? I wish I understood this just this year. Never in my life have I dealt with a crazy woman. Never until this year. My ex gf loved drinking. Towards the end she became verbally abusive. It was sudden and it was like a switch. We would be having a wonderful time and then suddenly crazy woman. Wow. Refused to calmly discuss things. She would become sober and refused to talk about her behavior. I was shocked. I didn’t know how to handle all that. She broke it off on another one of her sudden tirades. I was always a gentleman. She made feel as if she wanted me to get super ugly with her. I could not. This video definitively made it clear I dodged a bullet. I was prepared to seek her out again. I will not. Thank you Peterson.

    • @dannysullivan3951
      @dannysullivan3951 Před rokem

      That's fine. Plenty of people agree with you and no one is forcing you to hookup. But that doesn't mean you're somehow superior to someone who does want that. Then you're just curtailing someone else's freedom.

  • @BitesizedPhilosophy
    @BitesizedPhilosophy  Před 6 lety +463

    This small segment blew me away. In hindsight it sounds like basic common sense, but I could never describe the basic underlying dynamics in such basic and psychological correct terms. He always identifies what's at the very bottom of a problem and he demystifies it in such brutal manner that he makes it easy to just dismiss everything by saying "Everyone already knows that! Boring!"
    Make sure to check out the full interview (link in the description). Camille Paglia is amazing!

    • @BitesizedPhilosophy
      @BitesizedPhilosophy  Před 6 lety +20

      +eve khan Like the title says, men don't have control over mentally unstable women and he is not implying they should or that they even can. Ever heard the argument "Men should stand up for themselves?" He is making the argument that they can't. What he is saying is the exact opposite of advocating for violence, he is saying that we cannot even engage properly with a crazy woman and that our best bet might be women keeping each other in check. The Bill Burr clip you linked has nothing to do with the point Dr. Peterson is making here and that might be the reason for the misunderstanding.

    • @BitesizedPhilosophy
      @BitesizedPhilosophy  Před 6 lety +8

      +Morgan Allen I am just speculating here, but my understanding of his point in the video regarding suing for slander, this would be the equivalent of the underlying threat violence. There was this (male) journalist several weeks ago who called him right-wing (even though JBP is classic liberal) and Dr. Peterson basically fought him over Twitter and made him retract it and shamed his lack of journalistic integrity. In my personal understanding this exchange could be described as a rough male-male interaction with a underlying threat of violence (in this case suing).

    • @northernbright7602
      @northernbright7602 Před 6 lety +9

      Eve You ramble too much and nonsensically. What Jordan stated was completely rational and legitimizes why decent men are powerless against crazy women’s aggressions. Period. (And I didn’t have to write a forty page essay.)

    • @GeminEyeArt
      @GeminEyeArt Před 6 lety +8

      eve khan you've interpreted this to the worst extreme. He's not advocating violence. He's acknowledging how the potential threat of unwanted aggression keeps men in check whereas a man, as Bill Burr stated, can face punishment for defending himself against crazy women. Note that in domestic conflicts women attack their husbands more frequently but it's men who do more serious damage per altercation, because we're men. Keep in mind how innate this is as we were physical, visual creatures long before we were verbal.

    • @parrotshootist3004
      @parrotshootist3004 Před 6 lety

      They could, but it would mean becoming the patrtiarchal controllers they have been accused of being but have never been in the west, at least not since 900 ad.

  • @Logan-py8we
    @Logan-py8we Před 4 lety +33

    This man is a genius
    Tells it like it is
    Sums up all the things wrong today that others are to cowardly to talk about

    • @nonenone5413
      @nonenone5413 Před rokem

      I know right? If only bitches would calm down and submit to men's control! (sarcasm)

    • @ToxicCexCell
      @ToxicCexCell Před rokem

      💯

  • @whitewarrior4777
    @whitewarrior4777 Před 5 lety +8

    I figured this out in my first relationship ever unfortunately.

  • @BryanReeves
    @BryanReeves Před 3 lety +2

    Only way to argue with crazy is to get crazy ... whomever you’re arguing with.

    • @darrellmcnair9858
      @darrellmcnair9858 Před 3 lety

      With a women that becomes threatening. That’s his point you can get crazy with a crazy woman, because men crazy = a physical altercation and that’s forbidden with women.

  • @pape37
    @pape37 Před 6 lety +30

    This segment stood out to me as highly significant when I watched the full Paglia conversation. Although I have to say that any man saying this idea has never occurred to him has to be blind. Virtually every guy I've known, college boy or working class, has noticed this dynamic. In the late 90's when they were first trying to get the WNBA off the ground(haha), I remember one of those chicks, Cheryl Swoops or something, was crowing on SportsCenter about how she was challenging Michael Jordan to a game of one on one, as if he was ducking her. Ha. My dad turned to me and summed it up directly: "It's a no-win situation because if he wins, he's a bully and an asshole, and if he loses, it would be a total disgrace." The trump card of challenging a man's ego while knowing he can't respond is the trademark of the selfish, insane, aggressive woman. Fast forward 20 years to Ronda Rousey "challenging" Mayweather. Women's biggest social fear is being hurt in any way. Most men's biggest social fear aside from embarrassment is hurting a woman in any way. All adult women know they have this power. The good ones choose not to use it but always have it as a potential bargaining chip. The fact that even publicly discussing and admitting this is so unacceptable shows the extent of the denial involved.

    • @bettyhappschatt3467
      @bettyhappschatt3467 Před 5 lety +1

      Please show me some scientific evidence about who is afraid of what socially.

    • @llewellynkinnaird2481
      @llewellynkinnaird2481 Před 5 lety +1

      Sir this is a brilliant post . Ignore the comment above. As you stated this is based on real life experience which most of us have . In today's world in struggling to find a way to deal with this issue of a contentious woman . My cousin was displaying very disrespectful behaviour to her mother and home , one day i decided enough was enough . I told her i wouldnt tolerate such behavour i told her if she behaves like this i will stand up to her nonsense . I pointed out how She is disrespecting her mom and family nicely and clearly. She absolutely started screaming at me , saying the most nonsensical things infront of the whole family. You point out facts she responds "oh look how dumb he is and how stupid he sounds ." But at the top of her voice. Never in my life have i ever felt so disrespected for doing my job as a man .
      It's almost like you wish their dad could show up with a cane and provide much needed discipline .
      I simply cut ties with her. It's a situation you want to avoid fellas. Pray hard and marry right.

    • @pablobruise1388
      @pablobruise1388 Před 5 lety

      But that Rhonda woman turned out to be overblown. She got beat barely a couple of times and quit the sport.

    • @okwudilichukwunwawuzie6880
      @okwudilichukwunwawuzie6880 Před 5 lety

      @@bettyhappschatt3467 keep looking for it . Am sure you are living your life based on Statistics.

    • @llewellynkinnaird2481
      @llewellynkinnaird2481 Před 5 lety

      Lebeman I agree with you bro , but in today's world they will twist it in such a way youll end up in jail.
      If a grown woman cannot bring herself to subjection to the rules of her own household cut ties with her and tell her to get out .
      Never go physical with a woman.

  • @adamjozefo4772
    @adamjozefo4772 Před 5 lety +3

    When I was 18, a woman not quite a year younger than me was able to induce a panic attack in me when we were alone even though I was clearly physically stronger than she was, I knew she posed no physical threat to me, and all she was doing was pleading, begging, and pouting for me to spend the night at her place. By panic attack, I mean violent thoughts amid relative mental fog, muscle tensing, accelerated heart-rate and breathing, instinctive fist clenching, adrenaline rush, and a general fight or flight response.
    I didn't snap totally, but had I done so (and I did snap partially and came close to doing so totally), I would have assaulted her and maybe ended up in prison.
    Now to give it some context. My babysitter had molested me when I was 7 and 8 years old for around a year before we moved. My dad was emotionally abusive and had raised me under military discipline so I feared him and feared that he might blame me if he found out what was happening. That probably explained how that woman's mere begging, pleading, and pouting could have triggered such an intense physical response when she refused to take a polite 'no' for an answer.
    From her persspective, the most she probably noticed was muscles tensing in my face and a gentle verbal refusal on my part, so she probably had no idea of the gravity of the situation.
    I could see 4 options.
    1. Put my foot down and leave. For whatever reason though, something within me prevented me from raising my voice or giving her a stern warning. While my childhood probably played the biggest role, her female sex played at least a small role in this.
    2. Snap totally and assault her. It might seem to contradict the above, but doesn't Though I couln't even bring myself to give her a stern warning under normal conditions, she was continuing to apply pressure and my fight or flight response was intensifying. Had I snapped in that direction, I would not have acted in any rational manner. Given my nature, I probably would have just slapped her cheek, but that alone could have gotten me in jail.
    3. Make an unwanted sexual advance. I knew she didn't want sex so thought I could scare her by making an unwanted advance. I did so, she resisted, but then went right back to begging and pouting and pleading for me to stay when I tried to leave again. That was my first mental snap and by this time, I truly feared that I could potentially snap beyond just slapping her.
    4. Acquiesce. Seeing no other way out of my panic attack beside either totally snapping (and possibly raping her in rage so angry that I was at that stage) or acquiescing, I acquiesced and slepped on my side of her bed in my day clothes feeling angry and violated and she sleeping like a baby next to me unaware of how close she came to harm and how much her behaviour actually traumatized me.
    Again, my childhood no doubt played in my irrational thoughts, emotions, and response. The most logical response would have been for me to just give her a stern warning and then leave, yet I somehow couldn't bring myself to do it for reasons I still can't understand. That incident taught me a few lessons:
    1. I seriously needed therapy.
    2. Perhaps the best way to protect women from violence is to teach women to respect men's boundaries. Just as men do not have a right to women, women have no right to men.
    3. Most importantly, boys need to learn how to defend their boundaries in a healthy manner.

  • @KNByam
    @KNByam Před 2 lety +1

    I had one woman that I was talking to, she would leave voicemails cursing at me. Last year I finally said that was enough and just ignored her. Best thing to do.

  • @UltimateBargains
    @UltimateBargains Před 5 lety +6

    "The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas." -- Malcolm McDowell as "H.G.Wells" in the movie "Time after time".

    • @starsof6th822
      @starsof6th822 Před 5 lety +4

      Not always. Some men and women deserve it.

    • @AnonymousC-lm6tc
      @AnonymousC-lm6tc Před rokem

      It is not your place to decide what someone “deserves”. Physical violence against anyone is never okay.

  • @anwyn9846
    @anwyn9846 Před 5 lety +16

    I have always despised women who take advantage of how good men are limited in dealing with them. There are some men who would have no problem threatening or physically harming a woman, and aggressive, mouthy women don't go after men like that. I do speak up when I am witness to misandry.

    • @missnukkinfutz
      @missnukkinfutz Před 5 lety

      Agreed. I grew up with all boys and it was always understood. If you want to fight like a man, expect to be hit like a man.

    • @lindsaygraham5687
      @lindsaygraham5687 Před 5 lety +2

      Bless you Abundantly! Very, very hard to believe that reasonable fair minded women like you exist.

    • @AAMM101
      @AAMM101 Před 3 lety

      Respect.

  • @macklyon7476
    @macklyon7476 Před 4 lety +4

    Men get physical with each other and five minutes later they're hanging out together. Women fight and five years later they might hang out together.

    • @ST-yc7uj
      @ST-yc7uj Před 4 lety +1

      Maybe it gets better between women who get physical with each other as well xD

  • @markp4967
    @markp4967 Před 5 lety +1

    I have said this for years. Thank you for knowledging this.

  • @tmt8268
    @tmt8268 Před 2 lety +6

    So is he saying men can't control themselves? I don't think women are the crazy ones. 🤘

    • @meowmix1569
      @meowmix1569 Před 2 lety +1

      So you're saying you have zero listening comprehension? Maybe he was talking about you lol

  • @Inkling777
    @Inkling777 Před 6 lety +13

    Marvelous good sense, as always, and highly relevant to my life at present. For over a decade, a crazy woman his been terrorizing the homeowners association to which I recently (and sadly) joined. An retiring professor has been her chief opponent but at almost ninety, he is burned out. It looks like the task has fallen to me.
    There is one approach that the professor has been using that I'll be taking up. You might call it the verbal equivalent of "giving them enough rope to hang themselves." She's mean and nastily authoritarian, and the key to defeating her is to cause her to expose that to other homeowners. Then people wake up and turn away from her.
    One more comment. Crazy women talk constantly about "toxic masculinity," often using the term to mean any man who stands up to them. Sensible women have the opposite point of view. They see masculine aggression and willingness to resort to physical action as a major plus. They like having a man who'll stand up for them and are delighted to find one. You saw that after the LV mass shooting when women expressed their pride that their man, husband or boy-friend, lay top of them willing to die protecting them.
    Crazy women, we shouldn't forget, are typically women no man would inconvenience himself for, much less die for.

  • @NaysCapdepon
    @NaysCapdepon Před 6 lety +13

    I'm in France. I've seen Jordan B Peterson for the first time on Egalité et Réconciliation which is a web site which conveys ideas such as Jordan's. Thank you for the translation.

  • @peterscott225
    @peterscott225 Před 4 lety +1

    This guy makes a bloody good point here ...love your work Jordan Peterson.

  • @sci3456
    @sci3456 Před 5 lety +1

    I love professor Peterson. he's got the most unique angle to right and accurate thought.

  • @NCX-mt5sy
    @NCX-mt5sy Před 4 lety +13

    This is so true. At work I am in charge of around 150 men of all sorts and only two women, the women gives me more headaches then the 150 men put together for the simple reason that this genius is talking about.

  • @thewizebanana
    @thewizebanana Před 5 lety +8

    Did he just say he's not going to respect anybody who won't fight him?

    • @nabilcambiaso
      @nabilcambiaso Před 5 lety

      He said the opposite. That if he don't fight u . (maybe meant physical. Of just arguing) it's because he doesn't respect u . he doesn't give u any value . so it a waste of time to fight someone u don't even consider. (excuse my english )

    • @elarion2341
      @elarion2341 Před 5 lety +5

      What he meant was that in any conversation between two men there is always a threat of physical violence if one party decides to take things too far or step out of line, when both parties are aware of that the conversation is kept civil by that threat even if the threat is simply recognized as a possibility. If one of the men is simply too weak or unwilling to project that threat in any way shape or form then the other man has free reign to do and say whatever he wants as their is literally no consequence to his actions at that point, He can abuse and push the other man around because he is sure that the other man will never escalate things to a physical level. Thats why he said that if your talking to someone like that your talking to someone you dont respect, a wolf cannot respect a sheep and a man cannot respect another man who lacks the basic functions of defending himself.
      Hope that made sense and I didnt miss the point haha.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety +1

      @@nabilcambiaso or maybe it's because he doesnt want to argue with others who will expose him

    • @nabilcambiaso
      @nabilcambiaso Před 5 lety

      @@eliza1826 maybe and maybe not , there's no shame in being exposed if u have nothing to be ashamed of or to hide , but he always talks in mysterious way , i don't know why ?

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety +2

      @@nabilcambiaso he trying to come as philosophic edgey guy.

  • @robertomessina1254
    @robertomessina1254 Před 4 lety +2

    Excellent description of what we are suffering in today's culture.

  • @THELONGHOSEcom
    @THELONGHOSEcom Před 2 lety

    Man,thank God for Jordan!! A real issue.. especially at the workplace

  • @siobhanhokin5221
    @siobhanhokin5221 Před 6 lety +6

    Presumably there are additional dynamics at play, but it's interesting to note that women equally - usually - can't control crazy men in the same way, because effective physical violence is usually not an option. The difference being, I suppose, that women have a great deal of social support on their (our) side when this becomes an issue. Often feminists contend this of course, eg women's rape accusations not being taken seriously.

  • @imdiseased_imfreaky9418
    @imdiseased_imfreaky9418 Před 6 lety +76

    "No matter how friendly and obliging a woman's Eros may be, no logic on earth can shake her if she is ridden by the animus. Often the man has the feeling - and he is not altogether wrong - that only seduction or rape would have the necessary power of persuasion. He is unaware that this highly dramatic situation would instantly come to a banal and unexciting end if he were to quit the field and let a second woman carry on the battle. This sound idea seldom or never occurs to him, because no man can converse with an animus for five minutes without becoming the victim of his own anima." - Dr. C.G. Jung

    • @sabrinamozartkugl7794
      @sabrinamozartkugl7794 Před 6 lety +15

      Well, men with an unhealthy relationship to their Anima will meet and/or have relationship with women, who have an unhealthy relationship to their Animus. As sad as it sounds: The unconscious of women, who have a violent partner, searched for one and vice versa.

    • @keithgiven4317
      @keithgiven4317 Před 6 lety

      Jacob Boehme's Anima Which book is this from?

    • @imdiseased_imfreaky9418
      @imdiseased_imfreaky9418 Před 6 lety +8

      Hello Keith! This quote is from a copy of a collection of Dr. Jung's writings as found in "The Essential Jung" (introduced by Anthony Storr). The specific work of Jung's this quote is found in is his "Aion", section entitled: "The Syzygy: Anima and Animus". I hope you set out upon reading these things in full. Peace.

    • @dawkot6955
      @dawkot6955 Před 6 lety +6

      *only seduction or rape would have the necessary power of persuasion*
      I'm having a hard time imagining rape as a tool of presuasion.

    • @imdiseased_imfreaky9418
      @imdiseased_imfreaky9418 Před 6 lety +1

      I'm almost certain Dr. Jung is using exaggeration as a tool to get your attention and to amplify the reality of the situation.

  • @indym375
    @indym375 Před 5 lety +2

    When a person calls you crazy that's the most disrespectful thing you can say smh just because u don't understand a women doesn't make her crazy

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 Před 5 lety

      Amen, he is calling women crazy as if there arent any crazy men out there.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před 5 lety

      @@eliza1826 well you're a crazy woman who didn't understand Jordan saying that MOST men deal with conflict in a SET way, and only gays deal with conflict like crazy women.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před 5 lety

      So you're trying to say that double standards, selfishness, narcissism and backstabbing does not make a woman crazy??? It has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with not understanding a woman. It has to do with toxic women being crazy.

  • @fasteddy9789
    @fasteddy9789 Před 4 lety

    Nice nugget. Will subscribe

  • @0oohnegative
    @0oohnegative Před 6 lety +2

    very insightful.

  • @elisabethwawersik1450
    @elisabethwawersik1450 Před 5 lety +13

    Exactly!!!! Thank you for saying what needs to be said of women.

  • @xx3astmanxx928
    @xx3astmanxx928 Před 4 lety

    "crazy harpy sisters" is one of the funniest lines I've ever heard lol

  • @saraa7117
    @saraa7117 Před 4 lety

    Never thought of it this way which is so true

  • @TheActiveAssault
    @TheActiveAssault Před 5 lety +6

    I trained a kid in the Marines named “KickingWomen” was his legit last name.

  • @learn_defense4887
    @learn_defense4887 Před 5 lety +3

    I dont agree with him most of the time but he hit this shit, spot on. Well played, sir.

  • @ElijahPerrin80
    @ElijahPerrin80 Před 2 lety +1

    They know they are untouchable and act like they are untouchable.

  • @TheFortressMaximus
    @TheFortressMaximus Před 5 lety

    Here I thought me not giving a shit that people have different opinions than me is what kept it civil.

  • @candiceblack86
    @candiceblack86 Před 6 lety +5

    Interesting point about sane women needing to sort out the insane ones. I regularly in the youtube comment section do this. And that's made me wonder why. Could it be because I have a 14-year-old son? When I see generalized man-hating comments it makes me really angry and I have to say something. I'm then told I'm a victim of the patriarch -.- I just want my son to have a fair chance in this world.

    • @ScarletDearest
      @ScarletDearest Před 6 lety +2

      i don't think women saying things online is actually going to inhibit your son's chances in life

    • @ScarletDearest
      @ScarletDearest Před 6 lety +2

      because if that were true then you'd have to give credence to the idea of women's oppression and something tells me you don't wanna do that. P.S. i just read a comment on this video by a man explaining how you should beat and rape a woman to push her into submission and that she will learn to love it and people agreed. can't have it both ways sis

    • @candiceblack86
      @candiceblack86 Před 6 lety

      ScarletDearest I think you missed the point

  • @ayesh4646
    @ayesh4646 Před 6 lety +6

    Bill Burr is a genius. He figured this out way back.

  • @NenadKralj
    @NenadKralj Před 5 lety

    ABSOLUTELY 1000% ON POINT

  • @MrWatts2323
    @MrWatts2323 Před 3 lety +2

    I've resorted to dumping buckets of soap water on women and telling them clean up their act.

  • @storytime6263
    @storytime6263 Před 3 lety +3

    My ex was so crazy I got physically sick to my stomach around her. You could tell her to stop talk so much or stop yelling or tell her anything. So I just got anxiety.

  • @JoJaDaRu
    @JoJaDaRu Před 6 lety +6

    I've been in this situation and I wondered if my hesitation at engaging in serious debate with women who were challenging me had something to do with some sort of sexist attitudes I was harboring.. this explains it much better.

  • @maicolx7776
    @maicolx7776 Před 4 lety

    So true. Good point.

  • @JefftheGeek
    @JefftheGeek Před 4 lety

    Everything is possible Jordan Peterson, everything. And I can

  • @ProtsiR
    @ProtsiR Před 5 lety +20

    This is very accurate. I even got into situations where I got assaulted by men annoyed by the behaviour of my female companions. They former were blocked to channel their aggression towards the boobed cause of their insecurity, so they projected all of that on me. I also did some bouncer management as a welcoming party official. Dealing with aggresive men was easy - you would just gang up on them, use "body volume" intimidation or verbal de-escalating. If this didn't work, you would just pack the troublemaker and throw him out (avoiding being hurt and hurting him in the process). Against aggresive women... we had zilch. The only thing that seemed to partly work was exposing their ridiculous behavior to their peers ("Would You like everybody to know tomorrow how You are behaving today? Look at the smartphone - it's all gonna be on CZcams!"). But other than pointing out the risk of shaming... We were jist castrated muscle packs (and me, not being a piece of beef :)) looking at each other...

    • @ameliaketzle3262
      @ameliaketzle3262 Před 3 lety +3

      Really sorry some women behave like this. Most of us women can't stand this kind of behavior, either.

    • @kallepikku4991
      @kallepikku4991 Před 2 lety +2

      So b*tch shaming actually works. Good to know.

  • @shinej11
    @shinej11 Před 4 lety +4

    Just imagine someone who Googled 'how to control crazy women', saw this and turned in disappointment, just to notice that his wife is watching him watch this video. RIP poor guy

  • @fuxuro764
    @fuxuro764 Před 4 lety

    I have this theory of self reflection where a person with a negative psychological attribute is told the negative effects of that attribute without it being associated to them then told to behave like they have that negative attribute and when they do, they might realise their normal behavior is impulsive

  • @SJ-ds8lp
    @SJ-ds8lp Před rokem

    This is such a profound statement.

  • @etiblmca9267
    @etiblmca9267 Před 6 lety +4

    I disagree with the part where he says having a conversation with someone who can't fight back means you don't respect them. There are a lot of WWII veterans who can't fight any more but I hold the highest respect to them.

  • @sniper6081
    @sniper6081 Před 6 lety +8

    Patrice O'Neal talked about this issue a lot, just not with the same level of elegance.

    • @hectorcastaneda4488
      @hectorcastaneda4488 Před 6 lety +1

      Buff Awesome I remember Patrice O'Neal talking about it too. Not allowing a woman to punk you is purely on an egotistical/intangible level and never physical because the outlet is forbidden.

  • @Bread996
    @Bread996 Před 5 lety +2

    What you can do is turn and walk away in the middle of them yelling at you. Women like that hate to be brushed off. Pisses them off to no end.

  • @vie2210
    @vie2210 Před 5 lety

    Billy Elish’s Bury A Friend sounds relatable

  • @themindofxx9678
    @themindofxx9678 Před rokem +8

    I tried to tell a crazy woman that I'm not interested because I'm depressed and I need to figure myself out first. She insisted that she won't quit pursuing me and that we need each other, I told her that this was not healthy at all. Yet she inserted herself into my life by texting every morning, I felt this added variable in my life was just too much so I had blocked her from my phone. This is on going and will update any further crazy actions from her.

  • @c4nucksens8tion
    @c4nucksens8tion Před 6 lety +2

    The most informative 2 minutes I've spent today. Thank you sir!

  • @adammwalch
    @adammwalch Před rokem

    This is an important and pertinent video. God bless Dr. Jordan

  • @deesabird6799
    @deesabird6799 Před 5 lety +1

    Where can I find the whole interview.?
    Thank you

  • @NexusCapital
    @NexusCapital Před 6 lety +142

    a basic Gestalt... You cannot argue with women because they know that you cannot beat the shit out of them at the end of the argument that is what he is saying

    • @saeforli
      @saeforli Před 6 lety +18

      I know if I argue with certain men I could be assaulted. Which it would be, even between men. ASSAULT.
      Therefore if I argue with these men I'm already thinking how I would be able to level the playing field and defend myself.
      I've been referred to as crazy because I refuse to be victimised anymore than I already have.
      Why would you want to beat the shit out of someone at the end of an argument anyway? That is not level headed regardless of gender.
      I've wanted to and I've realised that it would not be good. Don't men have this mechanism of thought also?

    • @MadFrenzy582
      @MadFrenzy582 Před 6 lety

      who says we can't, lol.

    • @senzatieee
      @senzatieee Před 6 lety +32

      Cyril Figgis That's a dumb translation.
      A more accurate one is: you can't do anything against a shrieking, screaming, crazy woman(see hugh mungus video) insulting you and calling you a nazi. She knows you won't hit her so she has no reason to hold back from her frenzy and be civilized.
      You're welcome.

    • @bernlin2000
      @bernlin2000 Před 6 lety +4

      It's funny...this is a concept that many comedians play around with, but they never take it to that final conclusion, which is pretty dark. And it's true for most of humanity, but we give exception to women. It's, yet again, another one of those moments where you have to conclude "men and women are not the same". Different social standards, different criminal standards, different biological standards...we were made differently. Doesn't mean we can't have equality under the law, but the idea of any other kind of equality in physicality, socializing etc is just hallucinations.

    • @chibblywubbly
      @chibblywubbly Před 6 lety +1

      Saeforli Is it safe to assume these men who you believe would assault you are Black? Because that changes this discussion. The psychologically castrated men of Western society are generally White. Black men are more aggressive across the board.

  • @SocialAlchemyProject
    @SocialAlchemyProject Před 6 lety +5

    Finally an expert comes forward and tell women they are abusers to men. Thank you, Dr. Jordan Peterson. Dr. Tyler Lord Hamilton, Ph.D. (forth-coming)

  • @guyfawkes9252
    @guyfawkes9252 Před 2 lety +2

    Dr. Peterson is an eminent scholar and the public intellectual this society desperately needs to rectify some of the distorted perspectives of men as well as the moral decay that aids in societal collapse. I read some of his research papers and I like the one on the topic of alcoholism and it’s genetic susceptibility from fathers to sons, well thought out and proves he’s beyond qualified to give solutions on social problems. He published a book a few years back on how to navigate through life and I still got it on my reading list after I finish the Iron Heel.

    • @ethansevilla1395
      @ethansevilla1395 Před rokem

      holy crap, this got a lot of attention during the past two years...the janitor was pretty badass, Viktor was his name and despite his short stature, he was pretty badass. From what I've heard he was born somewhere in the USSR/Eurasia (I think maybe (Kazakhstan/Siberia)cause of his somewhat Asian phenotype. And apparently was in their military and did boxing, and after the soviet union dissolved he moved to the US, I still don't know how and why he became a janitor. But rumor has it(from one of my teachers saying )that he is loaded cause he always does large donations of money and school supplies to the school/district(ghetto school district). A whole movie can be about this guy, miss him cause he always helps us around by escorting us to our classrooms. to cleaning up the crappy restrooms and fixing projectors, and greeting rowdy kids in the morning.
      Don't know what really happened to him after I graduated cause this all happened in the mid-2000s but his presence made me realize that any man can have any respect if he has proper behavior, attitude, and the will to do. Miss you Viktor, thank you for being the guardian of the school.

  • @RiqochetRoseTarot
    @RiqochetRoseTarot Před 5 lety

    Interesting points!

  • @dblessed8783
    @dblessed8783 Před 5 lety +8

    HI think this man is so right! Us women have to put a stop to the crazy ones out there making all the noise and trying to speak for others and make decisions for us.