Jay & His Wife Radhi ON: The BIGGEST LIE About Love & 3 Things To Look For In A Partner

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  • čas přidán 20. 05. 2024
  • You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.
    Today, we welcome back a very special guest, one who’s very dear to my heart, my other half, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty. Radhi and I sit down for our yearly check-in as we answer questions about relationships and marriage. Come join us and let’s discover the beauty of open communication, supportive partnership, and setting new goals together this year.
    This episode was recorded at The Grove in Hertfordshire, U.K.
    What We Discuss:
    00:00:00 Intro
    00:04:18 What do you love most about each other?
    00:08:38 What have you learned along the way?
    00:13:25 Are you a parent, child, or partner?
    00:20:05 When does your partner become annoying?
    00:29:29 Your happiness is your perfection
    00:38:05 Be a guru in your relationship
    00:47:35 The things you no longer prioritize
    00:53:55 Top 3 things you’re looking for in a partner
    01:02:05 Going deeper into the relationship in less time
    01:05:06 What are your goals this year?

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  • @channel_3973
    @channel_3973 Před rokem +2750

    My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.

  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul Před rokem +2087

    I love how in tune Jay is to his wife's emotions. Before she started crying, he picked up that she was getting emotional and immediately put a hand on her leg to bring comfort. I think a lot of men don't know what to do when a woman cries. For me, a simple hug means everything in that moment. It says, "I'm here for you and I've got you!" There is tremendous feeling of safety inside of a husband's arms next to his chest because, of course, that's where his heart is. Women also need to allow their husband to comfort them and be okay with being vulnerable. ❤ Good job, Jay!

    • @yofitjamie22
      @yofitjamie22 Před rokem +38

      I agree men need to gain more emotional intelligence.

    • @aranciamohi
      @aranciamohi Před rokem +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @abundance9429
      @abundance9429 Před rokem +8

      ​​@Danielle M we all are blessed, you just have to patiently wait for the one from God.

    • @Jackattackkkkk
      @Jackattackkkkk Před rokem +2

      Period

    • @Lisalove9122
      @Lisalove9122 Před rokem +14

      You could sense her emotions surfacing. I totally cried when she did! I understood her path and loved how he took care of her. ❤

  • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
    @user-mv2tg8hc8c Před 8 měsíci +367

    How refreshing to hear a couple where each other give each other credit rather than blame each other. “You’ve always been supportive” “It’s because you’ve always been consistent”. So sweet!!

    • @drwellbeing2023
      @drwellbeing2023 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Er they have plenty of dirty laundry like everyone else and remember it’s a podcast to make them lots of money so they are good actors at play!!

    • @lisagrimes4801
      @lisagrimes4801 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@drwellbeing2023She’s so gorgeous. Many times, not always, men will put up with more when their wife is extremely beautiful. I had a boyfriend once, who put up with everything from me. It was kind of unfair of me. He has died since then, and I still feel guilty.

    • @c05.63
      @c05.63 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@lisagrimes4801he was blind or ugly probably

    • @jeanmesseih3963
      @jeanmesseih3963 Před 3 měsíci

      Condolences on the loss of your boyfriend, and on the guilt that you are carrying. I wonder if he "knew" in his heart of hearts that behind your "unfair" behaviours, you are really a good person? Otherwise, why would he have put up with it? And why would you be so aware of it yourself now? What are you doing to forgive yourself? Have you tried "talking" to him in your mind, or writing him a letter to express your regret at how you behaved? Perhaps the letter can be symbolically burned in a private little ceremony out in nature where you can send healing love to him, asking him to forgive you. I do hope you can forgive yourself, so that you can heal and live a full and happy life @@lisagrimes4801

    • @user-sy1bn3by7m
      @user-sy1bn3by7m Před 2 měsíci +1

      Everyone is perfect on social media to make millions.

  • @elisabetta4478
    @elisabetta4478 Před 9 měsíci +90

    I liked when he said: you shouldn't make your partner dependent on you. Rather, you should guide him/her to love themselves.
    Indeed, making a person dependent on you showcases our insecurities and alter ego nature.

  • @mohithjagalmohan
    @mohithjagalmohan Před 8 měsíci +61

    "I am not telling you to stop crying" - that is actually very powerful. He clearly understands these aspects of the mind :)

  • @emprendereneventos
    @emprendereneventos Před rokem +1035

    Omg she is so vibrant... I find her so invigorating and wise. Don´t even know how Jay knew she was about to cry. Must be so hard to be put under the spotlight and accept to be part of the whole teaching and sharing wisdom that Jay does. Radhi is by far the most genuine person on social media right now. So vulnerable, so honest, so imperfectly perfect, and full of energy... Just inspiring to see and hear.

  • @sofiamendez1010
    @sofiamendez1010 Před rokem +140

    “I’m not telling you to stop crying” 25:26 the way he created a safe space for her to feel out her emotions is so godly

  • @KarinaRodriguez-dd2eq
    @KarinaRodriguez-dd2eq Před rokem +364

    I definitely cried when Radhi started crying, I felt that. I have a husband who is everything I am not (which is good) but can be intimidating as his wife. I feel the pressure to have to keep up and just be "perfect" all the time. I appreciated your vulnerability and the rawness of this conversation; you are both so inspiring and amazing.

  • @lindat1078
    @lindat1078 Před rokem +749

    I’m 72 years old now. I spent 34 years in 3 different marriages and I’ve been reflecting my part in those relationships as I’m listening to you both share. Interestingly I wonder if my last 10 years alone haven’t been so good because I’m in a relationship with myself. I’m experiencing many of the same things I would with a partner but with just myself. I grew up in the 1950s and 60s when the ideas you talk about were very rare in our society and especially in my family.
    Thank you for giving me more love and depth and understanding in my own relationship with myself.

    • @dorothylyles9068
      @dorothylyles9068 Před rokem +28

      I feel women should not even consider getting married until they have had some time on their own. Thats when you learn how to survive on your own and can appreciate when that special one comes along.

    • @alya6751
      @alya6751 Před rokem +10

      I understand you so well as I am doing the same and I'm so happy to be alone and build my own reality and realize what I want, its so satisfying! a big hug

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Před rokem +19

      We bring ourselves and our "stuff" into any relationship...so, if we haven't worked that out, it'll be reflected back and create more ongoing issues, until we compassionately heal.
      We contain all of it inside...so relationship with others or self, it'll be there.
      We most often blame others for hurting us....when the truth is, they are merely triggering the pain we already contain within.
      Be mindful to how your internal dialogue is. If you are self critical, saying a lot of "shoulds" to yourself, and so on, you will continue to have problems in relation to yourself and others.
      When we deeply heal our core wounds, question our narratives, challenge our cognitive distortions and biases...we open up the possibility to show up for ourselves fully, having our own back, self efficacy. We then attract others who will reflect that back.
      May you be well 💫

    • @crystalfairylightworker8433
      @crystalfairylightworker8433 Před rokem

      ❤❤❤

    • @mmogomofokeng9098
      @mmogomofokeng9098 Před rokem +7

      I really wish I could hear you say what you wrote hear over a cup of tea. I feel there's so much I'd like to hear from you from all the experiences you have gathered over the years sorely in your marriages. you sound wise.❤

  • @hebasiddiqui2862
    @hebasiddiqui2862 Před rokem +63

    Jay really loves Radhi, i have never seen any man in this much love in relationship, he notices her single thing and the way he appreciates her and looks at her.

    • @fifse1972
      @fifse1972 Před rokem +1

      I agree

    • @Eva-Fig
      @Eva-Fig Před 3 měsíci +1

      Radhi is such a beautiful soul inside & out... glad she found someone to cherish her in this lifetime, who is equally as beautiful inside & out. Both are genuine loving people and I can only wish everyone else is as fortunate as them in their lifetime.

  • @aasiyahhasan7664
    @aasiyahhasan7664 Před rokem +397

    That expression of raw emotion was so beautiful...no shame or ridicule. Jay even made sure to reiterate that she doesn't need to stop crying. Very refreshing to see especially since it's often looked down upon being highly sensitive 🥺 💞

    • @grannyronna
      @grannyronna Před 9 měsíci +6

      Being vulnerable is valid. I love Jay and how he encourages people to be genuine.

    • @kathydougherty779
      @kathydougherty779 Před 9 měsíci

      Wha to do if you have caffeine right before bed

  • @mdjackson5657
    @mdjackson5657 Před rokem +112

    I got married to my husband a couple of months after I turned 18. He was 24. We literally knew each other 3 months before saying I do. It felt so natural and as though we were meant for each other. Almost 22 years and 2 kids later he is still my best friend. This is not to say our relationship is perfect but to us it’s right..like we were literally created for one another…to learn and grow with. We are definitely soul mates. After all this time we are still learning things about each other and our relationship. It’s a beautiful thing. Never stop learning about each other and taking interest in each other. That’s such a key part. Committing yourself to a life partner is a journey. Sometimes that journey seems smooth and easy and sometimes the journey is bumpy and difficult. And it is lifelong. You have to embrace all the seasons. Partners teach us a lot about ourselves also. It can be messy and beautiful all at the same time. We get this one life..make the most of it no matter who or where you are. Love and be loved ❤

  • @healingvale
    @healingvale Před rokem +246

    When Radhi started crying🥹🥹 how Jay jumped into action awwww🫶🏼 Same girl! I cry about everything ✨✨

  • @naumanbinjawad6214
    @naumanbinjawad6214 Před rokem +682

    Please do more of these episodes with Radhika ❤️❤️

  • @Unavailableuser111
    @Unavailableuser111 Před 8 měsíci +38

    The way they understand eachother ❤️ the way he comforted his wife when she started crying . DIVINE LOVE

  • @lilianab7967
    @lilianab7967 Před 8 měsíci +27

    I ve never seen someone more beautiful and grateful for being loved and accepted. You are both beautiful soul’s and that is wonderful. That’s takes a huge amount of wisdom ❤ Her tears are gold.

  • @DellaKay
    @DellaKay Před rokem +438

    When she started to cry, I did too. She is beautiful and I loved that you two are willing to share your relationship with us. It gives such a real and relatable image of what love could be. Thank you for this.

  • @arabella8478
    @arabella8478 Před rokem +262

    O Jay...I don't think you could have a partner more perfect than Radhi, you are so wonderful together❤️

  • @shailydilse
    @shailydilse Před rokem +230

    Watching Radhi getting emotional and teary and then owning it and not apologising - so appreciate that. Also, appreciate Jay supporting Radhi in that moment and helping her calm down.
    I personally struggle a lot with expressing when I’m emotional infront of even closest of people. If at all I do tear up, I find myself apologising again and again.. as I feel that I’m embarrassing people around me. Watching Radhi made me realise that it’s so ok to cry and not feel bad about it. I’m encouraged to be more vulnerable around loved ones.

    • @yofitjamie22
      @yofitjamie22 Před rokem +9

      Yes Radha has no idea the impact she just made by crying on camera. I’m a crier too when it comes to feeling many emotions and I always try to hide it for the fear of embarrassing others. Crying in public should be more normalized.

    • @wendylbranchfield7959
      @wendylbranchfield7959 Před rokem +3

      It’s so interesting, I have been a coach for 32 years. I have had, basically strangers, tell me in their first session their deepest and darkest. I play my cards so close to my vest, personally. I mean, I share with my family, friends and clients antidotally, when appropriate, in order to help them. But I don’t really show vulnerability much. I am extremely successful in helping others. I could be even more so probably if I allowed myself to be more vulnerable… not “in control “…
      Lots to ponder 😊

    • @shailydilse
      @shailydilse Před rokem +3

      @@wendylbranchfield7959 I so agree with you! I ain’t a coach and yet I find myself wanting to put up a strong front all the time! And even when I do end shedding tears - I immediately try to hide it as I think I’m being weak and that’s not how I want the people to view me. Being vulnerable takes courage and more than that a really safe environment - ain’t that easy to find.

    • @wendylbranchfield7959
      @wendylbranchfield7959 Před rokem +4

      @@shailydilse , indeed. To show vulnerability shows trust. And that is scary sometimes. Sending good energy your way.🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @nataliejmeador2468
      @nataliejmeador2468 Před rokem +2

      Give her space to feel what she is feeling without trying to fix it right off

  • @Sophia00077
    @Sophia00077 Před 9 měsíci +12

    His realization she loved him for who he is, not for how he’s doing, hit deep. It’s the difference between unconditional vs conditional love. One of them is evergreen, whereas the other floats like a leave in the wind. Keep on lovin 💚

  • @healingvale
    @healingvale Před rokem +61

    I was just telling my boyfriend how Radhi makes me feel so normal with my emotions 🥺👉🏼👈🏼 normalizing people who feel deeply about every experience ❤️✨

  • @julkaasmr1768
    @julkaasmr1768 Před rokem +228

    Episodes with Radhika are amazing 💖 please more

  • @soniacastillo3475
    @soniacastillo3475 Před rokem +57

    Love the part where he said if you love someone try to make them fall in love with themselves. Yup, you're absolutely right, its extremely hard to do that in so many ways. I love how in tune you guys are and the admiration for one another is so beautiful to see. Cheers!

  • @AmbrosiaK
    @AmbrosiaK Před rokem +134

    Thank you for not editing out when Radhi got tearful. There's so much video content where people DO want to appear perfect. Perfect house, perfectly in shape, perfect relationship. There's a difference when someone offers something from the heart vs a facade. I felt the ❤ in this podcast. Thank you. :)

  • @panjabipandit
    @panjabipandit Před rokem +32

    24:32 he saw the lip twitch and knew right away she was going to cry. I love that he's that perceptive of his partner and wish more people, including myself, were that in tune with the people in their lives to pick up on these things and respond in a healthy way.

  • @angelapursley2811
    @angelapursley2811 Před 7 měsíci +19

    How wonderful it must be to have such honest, open and KIND communication.
    I have not ever experienced this level of love/respect/honesty with any of my relationships. This is beautiful to witness.

  • @DrAnnaOsullivan
    @DrAnnaOsullivan Před 11 měsíci +72

    This is one of the most refreshing podcast that I’ve watched in a long time! Considering that Jay and Rahdi have been together 10 years, the love and respect they show freely in front of each other is amazing!
    So great to hear each of them explain how the other has impacted their lives clearly.
    It’s obvious that to have this type of conversation we need to know ourselves extremely well…

  • @courtneypuryear4217
    @courtneypuryear4217 Před rokem +129

    Being with someone who brings the best out of you while loving the core of who you are is goals. I can tell even though you guys aren’t “perfect” you are perfect for each other.
    Love what Jay said about not hindering people by doing things for them, instead showing them how to be better.
    Also I love his wife’s personality. We are all on a growth path but confidently owning who you are and where you are in life without distortions is gold. ❤

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD Před rokem +5

      I completely agree with you! When you're with someone who brings out the best in you and accepts you for who you are at your core, that's truly the ultimate goal in a relationship. Nobody is perfect, but finding someone who is perfect for you makes all the difference.

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever Před 11 měsíci +1

      The kind of Love I want to spend the rest of my days.

  • @niveditajha9848
    @niveditajha9848 Před 7 měsíci +58

    Summary
    00:00 Loving someone means making them fall more in love with themselves
    05:30 Relationship survived major life changes
    15:41 Helping someone find their own voice takes patience and is more valuable than fixing them.
    20:30 Sharing ups and downs of a relationship to show imperfection
    29:46 Perfection doesn't equal happiness, focus on what makes you happy
    34:46 Investing time and energy in relationships is crucial for meaningful connections.
    44:29 Celebrating others' success is important
    49:17 Building connection through shared experiences
    58:36 Regular check-ins and quality time are crucial for a strong relationship.
    1:03:11 Investing time in relationships is crucial

  • @aglayapiano
    @aglayapiano Před rokem +73

    They are the biggest fans of each other. Loved this interview. Thank you for setting bar high and for setting an example of a healthy relationship between two people that truly care about each other ❤

  • @kelliegoss4255
    @kelliegoss4255 Před rokem +4

    Jay I just finished your book a few days ago and it was life changing honestly I’m so grateful I’m not even sure how to put into words how thankful I am for all your wisdom then to see you and your wife together and see the love and teaching and Guru in action is so inspiring! I truly hope to be part of your Genius group soon in the meantime I am watching every video I can to gain knowledge and insight in all areas of your teachings!
    Thank you for your teachings and inspiration truly a blessing 🙏

  • @taracmonroe
    @taracmonroe Před rokem +106

    I love Radhika’s words on perfection. It is SO true that things that are considered “perfect” don’t make us happy. What makes me happy right now is my self-exploration and schedule I made of things that I love to do and some new things that I’m trying. This isn’t something anyone would probably view as perfect or even valuable yet has made me happier than I’ve been in a long time.

  • @Lulu-xz9xz
    @Lulu-xz9xz Před rokem +15

    Radhi has changed my life through being herself. Her wisdom always comes when I need to hear it the most! She is so awesome! I miss her presence on youtube, but I too am a private person so I understand. Thank you Radhi for sharing, it’s truly so so helpful and touching!

  • @evelise___
    @evelise___ Před rokem +4

    Wow I felt this episode so much. I learned so much. I feel the same when it comes to what she was saying about striving for being perfect and the reality is we will never be. Jay sharing his experiences and her not liking to over share because of what others may perceive is so true. I feel she had a paradigm shift. I did. There’s so many things I will change. When she said sometimes your not ready for what your hearing it so spot on. Until your aware of the information being giving to you, you will not understand it, you have to be ready for it. Amazing episode. I will rewatch again!

  • @ActivateYourSoulMagic
    @ActivateYourSoulMagic Před rokem +1

    Magically navigated to this out of the blue to learn lots of golden nuggets about relationships. Thank you for being vulnerable, honest and open. Rock the world!

  • @zanetaskiba4373
    @zanetaskiba4373 Před rokem +111

    I’m just half way in and I could not feel more relaxed about the way I am. The messy part is being always pushed away and try to hide it from everyone instead of just let it be and embrace it.
    The energy that comes from both of you in so pure/clear/deep that you can not but relax and enjoy this beautiful conversation.
    I don’t think the two of you are perfect and I that makes me happy 😊because I can stop looking for perfection and still be able to grow and be happy ❤
    Lots of love you two Xx

    • @zee3448
      @zee3448 Před rokem +2

      THIS!!!

    • @azurenylas1992
      @azurenylas1992 Před 11 měsíci

      Agreed and to add being abused and never being treated as a human but more like a slave. Made to feel bad for wanting affection or a date night.
      I don’t see perfect because perfection takes time. When you love someone you love with them all their faults. Changing someone for your ego isn’t a good gesture because it leads to hatred. I got more love than hatred for anyone but I will never love again or trust anyone with my heart.
      Assuming I had the perfect life, and assuming it could only get better with the ups and downs. Only to realize it’s been a lie and scam all while being abused and made to feel like trash. Broke me and building from scratch wasn’t easy. I got my life back on track and praying daily God made everything that harmed me take its rightful place. Won my lawsuit and living like I never have not knowing what happiness was.
      Very interesting though .

    • @zanetaskiba4373
      @zanetaskiba4373 Před 11 měsíci

      @@azurenylas1992 I’m so sorry to hear about all of this. Its sad that we get to experience so much hurt sometimes in a relationship, but that’s not Love, not the kind, sweet and forever patient, and you deserve this love! God will take care of you, you are his perfect creation, he’s helping you grow. I know sometimes it’s too hard, just from you saying to needed to go to the court, but don’t give up, take a break, grow in Gods and all well be just fine ❤️ God bless you and keep you safe ❤️

  • @mariag.9833
    @mariag.9833 Před rokem +20

    ❤❤❤ this chat. One day, I’ll have an amazing relationship like that. Transparency, love, communication, a reflection of how much one invested we both will be. ❤

  • @kiana3929
    @kiana3929 Před rokem +32

    You guys are literally role models to me in terms of relationships, you are both so in tuned with each other’s emotions ❤️

  • @colbysandholzer6110
    @colbysandholzer6110 Před rokem +3

    I believe more of us know and understand how much effort it takes to show up as our best self. I appreciate when people show up happy and cheerful and set things aside. It brings energy and hope and sends love out. We are in a marathon so we are already our best self in that day!

  • @TrustingYourProcess
    @TrustingYourProcess Před rokem +22

    I am in a relationship with myself, and this still was so beneficial for me. I love seeing this example of just being yourself....always.

  • @experiencewonder
    @experiencewonder Před rokem +4

    Thank you for being so authentic. I honestly hate when people are expected to be happy and perfect all the time. I think there is nothing wrong with knowing your strengths and weaknesses and being ok with that!

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ Před rokem +9

    I absolutely LOVED this episode! Felt like I was right in the room with you too and feel inspired by your beautiful connection! Wishing both of you eternal happiness.. & grateful for all the work that you both do!

  • @kimberly3837
    @kimberly3837 Před rokem +11

    Married 31 years. Had to learn this with very few tools. Your conversation resonated with us and will help so many relationships.

  • @deepikashihn5705
    @deepikashihn5705 Před rokem +9

    Beautiful…simply amazing. I love the fact that even though a partner can be critical of you because they want the best for you and yet there is no element of judging from the other person. That positive mindset and confidence on your partner’s critical remarks is so relaxing.

  • @dariadobrynina3674
    @dariadobrynina3674 Před 10 měsíci +15

    I can’t stop thanking you guys for your honesty transparency and cuteness & love. I have tears in my eyes couple of times during this interview. Thank you ❤️

  • @susanfusuma6472
    @susanfusuma6472 Před rokem +8

    Omg, what an excellent podcast! I’ve learned so much both of you on how to be a more supportive partner and I love that you encourage partners to do things together outside of the typical “date night”! Yes, please do more relationship videos together ❤️

  • @Officiallytommytime
    @Officiallytommytime Před rokem +15

    I love hearing the authenticity, vulnerability, and honesty around their relationship.

  • @fatboyannie
    @fatboyannie Před rokem +39

    I have been waiting for this podcast for 2 years. I enjoyed your honest and meaningful conversation. Can't wait to see what you two bring in the future. Thank you for sharing your personal relationship bits with the world to help people learn or at least see a different side.

  • @almahealingnyc444
    @almahealingnyc444 Před rokem +74

    It is so cool watching the past podcast compared to this one. I feel how much more grounded and confident you both are individually, which is ultimately strengthening the relationship. What a beautiful couple!

  • @tmayo1126
    @tmayo1126 Před 11 měsíci +5

    ❤❤❤!!! All the Feels! This chat between you two was so helpful and enlightening for all, but especially for those of us who are in newer relationships & trying to do our absolute best to finally get this 'relationship thing' right. Thanks so much to you both! Life can be wonderful single, but it's so much more amazing when taking the journey with the right partner, who's 'perfectly imperfect' for you 💞

  • @karissaniedzwiecki3690
    @karissaniedzwiecki3690 Před rokem +7

    An hour flew by listening to Jay and his wife speak about love 🥰 I love their connection and their relationship, it's so inspiring!

  • @lucretiaweyden7405
    @lucretiaweyden7405 Před rokem +23

    If you guys are not perfection together I don’t know WHO ever will be ❤ I do know what you mean about perfect…
    No perfection is tooo much pressure! Leaving everybody room to be and believe what they choose freedom and happiness is in the end what everyone wants 🙏🏼 thank you. You both live the example of LOVE it’s VERY INSPIRING ❤

  • @violettapanina9233
    @violettapanina9233 Před rokem +21

    You’re the best couple I’ve ever seen! Thank you for sharing your stories, feelings and REAL emotions with us !

  • @---BAM---
    @---BAM--- Před rokem +9

    I really relate to her strong emotions. I am definitely a crier too and there's nothing wrong with that. I really admire her continuing the discussion and showing that raw emotion. This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @user-wt1dv1nx1c
    @user-wt1dv1nx1c Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have learned so much about myself in this podcast, this was so GOOD!!!! Not many people talk about the downs in relationships in the ups and downs. I loved both authentic perspectives.

  • @vanomadcyclist3474
    @vanomadcyclist3474 Před rokem +38

    I love the authentic feeling she shows. I am also a crier, mad or sad or happy or frustrated will bring out tears. Thank you for this genuine podcast ❤❤

  • @YaR1-9909
    @YaR1-9909 Před rokem +7

    Love seeing the both of you on the podcast. So open and honest with your emotions and love for each other it's just very admirable. 🥰

  • @muneebshamsi929
    @muneebshamsi929 Před rokem +8

    Two flames kindled in sync each radiating in support for the other, they both shine together so brilliantly, this was marvelous to watch and truly listen to! 🥰

  • @vanessarosedabon5824
    @vanessarosedabon5824 Před rokem +5

    I love that you both emphasized how quality should be spent. Thank you so much! You are inspiring in many ways. 💕

  • @blackkat_06
    @blackkat_06 Před rokem +12

    I cried with Radhi.. ❤ she is a beautiful person ❤

  • @BlueSkyWellnessAntigua
    @BlueSkyWellnessAntigua Před rokem +11

    This episode was intense and very inspiring. Relationships are difficult and too familiar however with awareness and respect it can work. Your wife is so amazing, wow. Thank you for being fully authentic and to share your relationship and your growth wisdom. I love how connected you both are and the care you both reflect. I’m so emotional about this episode and I am improving in myself and relationships as well. This came to me at the right time. Again thank you

  • @erinwalsh6803
    @erinwalsh6803 Před rokem

    This was such a blessing and great example to see! Thank you for being transparently human and real and allowing people to see what honest, intentional relating with another can look like!

  • @yuvashreeharidoss7496
    @yuvashreeharidoss7496 Před rokem +31

    I'M A CRIER AND LOVE HOW SHE ANNOUCED THAT ! Thank you for keeping this vulnerable moment in the video and sharing it with us. We appreciate your vulnerability ❤️

  • @apothekey
    @apothekey Před rokem +3

    your love is healing to see 🧡 the space you held for her emotions was so beautiful.

  • @mika_selflove6724
    @mika_selflove6724 Před rokem +5

    I was waiting for this episode for 2 years!!! I'm so grateful with both of you❤️🙏

  • @sbusisomaduna8748
    @sbusisomaduna8748 Před 10 měsíci +15

    The chemistry is so real, so deep & so strong what you guys have is so special 💯💖

  • @zuzanakyselova1561
    @zuzanakyselova1561 Před rokem +4

    Oh, how much I love listening to you guys!! Please do this more often. The love and the chemistry between you too is so beautiful and makes me hopeful that one day I'll be able to experience that too.

  • @juanyfuentes1178
    @juanyfuentes1178 Před rokem +116

    Love episodes like this. You two really bring out the best version of each other. You can tell how much deep and pure love there is. Not perfect but so wonderful to see. Wish you guys a lifetime of growth together, success, love. ❤

    • @JosymarThomas
      @JosymarThomas Před rokem +1

      Yes you can see in their eyes that they love each other so much

  • @celestedasilva4109
    @celestedasilva4109 Před rokem +11

    Radhi, thank you for showing your emotions. I’ve cried with you. I’ve laughed with you. May you keep choosing what feels true to yourself and may you let go of everything that doesn’t. 🌱💛

  • @TinaPosiulai
    @TinaPosiulai Před rokem +13

    What a loving and amazing couple! Truly authentic and honest with their relationship. The world needs this couple and this episode so please keep doing it. Thank you Jay & Radhi!!

  • @atinukeladipo2164
    @atinukeladipo2164 Před rokem +3

    I love how their both great listeners and give each other the space to express their views.

  • @hungsky1720
    @hungsky1720 Před 11 měsíci +55

    I have attempted to meditate many times in my life and prior to this CD the only success I've experienced is with live guided meditation. czcams.com/users/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq This is the first CD I've used that cuts through my unmedicated ADHD and enables me to truly relax and experience a quiet and energizing interval. The instructors voice is very soothing and pleasant to listen to. I am easily able to sit successfully through the entire CD, and for quite some time after. I cannot adequately express how tremendously helpful this CD has been on my spiritual journey!! Two thumbs up and 10 stars!

  • @charmsearing5043
    @charmsearing5043 Před rokem +4

    I love the honesty and vulnerability of this...and that they came in as is. I think it takes a lot of bravery on her part to admit her insecurities. Many of us feel the same at times. I understand exactly where she's coming from on perfectionism. Something I've struggled with...also correlates with the fear of disappointing others for not living up to what "you believe they think you are." Or who we believe we should be. But I think she's on the right path and would love to see what the future brings for her self-love journey. She has a beautiful spirit ❤️ and she has a great partner to support her on that journey, which makes a huge difference 🫂

  • @Camila-im9ws
    @Camila-im9ws Před rokem +15

    Thanks you guys! This was very helpful to hear. So many of my shadows and wounds are rearing their head in my relationships and I feel shame, guilt, and self judgement about it. Many of them were mentioned here, but I feel better about them now that I know I'm not alone in what I feel at times. I feel better also knowing it's all a journey and we get to just roll with it. Wishing you many more quality years of love together

  • @AngieDCreates
    @AngieDCreates Před 9 měsíci +7

    So beautiful to see the love, respect, sensitivity, and admiration they have for one another. I loved hearing how they seem to have a shared desire to work through issues, support each other, and embrace their own personal growth journey! Continued blessings! ❤

  • @MissSiobhanMarie
    @MissSiobhanMarie Před rokem +1

    Love the transparency and the true beauty between you two. It's so real and if I could speak for the community, we can all feel it.

  • @steffihamacher3108
    @steffihamacher3108 Před rokem +11

    What stood out to me in this video is when Radhi got emotional, she started to explain that people don't have to be worried. It shows that she grew up, but her marriage to Jay is a safe place for her to show her emotions and where people truly care about her.

  • @aman_9699
    @aman_9699 Před rokem +40

    The most important thing is you both understand your cultural roots. It's so-so romantic to see you both talking together please bring Radhinka once every six months at least, there is so much to learn from you both as a couple and also as a person, it feels much more romantic than any typical scene of any movie or anything. For me, it's always a treat to watch you both together.

    • @montyniranjan5344
      @montyniranjan5344 Před rokem

      what makes it so difficult to understand from what they said initially ?
      she doesnt like to come on too often which is why after much prodding she finally came.
      aap indians ko kuch kam sunaai padta hai ?

  • @rosietaylor7287
    @rosietaylor7287 Před rokem +6

    What a beautiful conversation. My favorite podcasts of Jay’s is when Radhi is on!! This podcast always provides me so much wisdom❤Love you both.

  • @rickafleurissafidelairaduk2537

    I just love the energy, the Love and the friendship you have and how engaging you are to your audience. Your eyes' color, just beautiful!

  • @saisupriyabhatt8674
    @saisupriyabhatt8674 Před rokem +17

    OMG.. This podcast is my favourite ❤️ Every bit of it was so relatable to all the relationships that we have these days... So so relatable.. thank you so much for this lovely podcast. You two are sooo good.... You are awesome Jay and also Radhi is so so so awesome... God bless you too... I feel like I have a river of words to say for you guys, this podcast, for Radhi but.. in short please have more such wonderful podcasts with Radhi. We love to watch and hear you guys. Lots of love and power to you both. ❤️

  • @setareh.picasso3524
    @setareh.picasso3524 Před rokem +3

    The things that this couple just shared is so important. Those qs should everything asks when they are in a relationship.
    Thank you so much guys for sharing your experiences. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @momof4littleladies
    @momof4littleladies Před rokem +5

    This was amazing to watch. You two have such a deep loving connection for all the right reasons. What an inspiration. You both have wonderful genuine personalities, love it!

  • @valentinapoenaru1716
    @valentinapoenaru1716 Před rokem +4

    so nice to listen to you two. Such a good podcast on relationships and how to make it work especially if you want a genuine and uplifting relationship. Sometimes is hard to see the toxic traits we have ourselves from previous relationship or from our relationship with the parents and we end up judging our other half. A lot of work take place through difficult time and no relationship is perfect and you two are so genuine and sweet 🙏❤️

  • @lulubajema8671
    @lulubajema8671 Před rokem +14

    Watching this on Valentines Day, my husband is away for work. When Rhad started 😢 I started crying too (more actually) my husband is so amazing and I appreciate him more every single day. You guys are amazing!

  • @Yaamilshakur
    @Yaamilshakur Před rokem +30

    I had to send this episode to my partner. It’s almost surreal to watch as I reflect on my relationship. A very therapeutic video. Thank you!

  • @hedislove
    @hedislove Před rokem +7

    Thanks for this beautiful share. You both are so precious💖. I just want Radhi to know one thing: You ARE perfect with ALL the emotions and ups and downs that you have. Us women especially, we are made to experience life in cycles (every month especially due to our hormonal changes), and to gain wisdom from that we NEED to go through moments of doubt, solitude and grief. This world currently is built for a linear life, and I guess I just want you to know: I see you and I honor you in your full expression with ALL that that includes💖. Bless you, love🙏🏼.

  • @sgscorpio
    @sgscorpio Před 9 měsíci +5

    Watching Jay sense/feeling what was going on with his partner brought tears to my eyes because I literally felt it. I never had a guy be able to do that or be/feel that. It just beautiful. Men...take notes.

  • @adrienneswavey
    @adrienneswavey Před rokem +9

    When I see the Name "Radhi" it's an instant click for me! Loved this episode like I love the others but also felt her so much on perfection! Jay was so sweet with her! 💜 The best part for me was how to make your partner love themselves more and not make it about you!

  • @thelightofattraction7237

    love to see you twin flames at union finally serving the higher purpose. Thank you for existing

  • @priyachhina
    @priyachhina Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing this. It is so good to see two genuine humans sharing their life experiences. I cry all the time too. I am glad to know that there are others like me in the world. I used to feel bad about it because it was seen as weakness by people around me at the time. But now i cry whenever I feel emotional (Happy, Sad, excited, or upset).

  • @rcz2023
    @rcz2023 Před rokem +2

    I always learn so much from both of you, the way you interact and support each other, it’s truly amazing.

  • @stephanierivera2230
    @stephanierivera2230 Před rokem +15

    Thanks Radhika, you always bring a true light out. Can't wait to watch and learn more about your own journey. I love your authenticity. ♥️

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola Před rokem +23

    This conversation is so intelligent and genuine. You guys showed that you're so deeply in touch with your vulnerabilities.
    Radhi, thank you so much for your honesty and humour. I appreciate you a lot!

  • @alejandracontreras446
    @alejandracontreras446 Před rokem +13

    Love this episode, and I see a reflection of my marriage. I am also the one to shot down. I absolutely love you guys Radhi is sooooooo ridiculously adorable 😍 and you both love each other so much. 💕 no one said marriage is easy I married at 40, waiting for the "perfect one" and I love him with all his imperfections. Love ❤️ this podcast and want to see so much more of Radhi

  • @BeckerBen22
    @BeckerBen22 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you for making me cry and realize that true and deep love still exist.

  • @sharonpetty2305
    @sharonpetty2305 Před rokem +7

    I just LOVE these two .. I love witnessing the tenderness between the two of them

  • @leregarddeMasarang
    @leregarddeMasarang Před rokem +8

    Love JAY & RADHI ❤ Radhi is so intelligent, beautiful and authentic ! I will definitely rewatch this episode. Thank you for your work because it made the beautiful humans you are now.

  • @Shadeedprivate
    @Shadeedprivate Před rokem +4

    This is called True relationship. Healthy one where there is no drama cheating betrayal lies & emotional set backs. Clear communication & fair intentions inspire me.

  • @julesdakota
    @julesdakota Před 10 měsíci

    I'm a Cryer too! I also cry when I'm happy, when I'm mad, sad, and many others. Comforting for some reason to hear others say that. Thank you for your open heart and sharing. It is beautiful. ❤