What I Do to Heal During a Chronic Illness Flare Up: 7 Tips

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • Follow my new vlog channel for more: ‪@ElectraDashwood‬ ❤️ Chronic Illness flare ups are awful, unpredictable and just no fun. In this video, I share seven tips I personal use to help my mind and body heal when my (many) conditions decide to act up.
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Komentáře • 142

  • @EllieDashwood
    @EllieDashwood  Před 2 měsíci +3

    Hi there! ☺Thanks so much for watching! If you want to see more, I share about my life with chronic illnesses on my new vlog channel: www.youtube.com/@ElectraDashwood 💕

  • @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
    @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 Před 6 měsíci +36

    The problem is when I’m in a flare with lupus. My brain tends to feel just as tired as my body. And it takes mental energy for me to do things like computer work. I do like the idea of coloring, painting, or drawing. Sometimes I justclose my eyes and listen to stories. nothing makes me more discouraged than wasting time. But when we’re sick resting is the best time spent.

    • @khills
      @khills Před 4 měsíci

      Yep. I get in a lot of CZcams time where I just listen to what I’m watching.

    • @rutos7
      @rutos7 Před 2 měsíci

      I started doing Jessica Valant pilates every day even when I have flare ups and it helps. I have endometriosis. I feel a lot of better now 😊. I learn ukranian language on my free time and I have espom salt bath 3 times a week😊

    • @silversandwich
      @silversandwich Před měsícem +1

      I totally understand this feeling, I get like that too. What I have to remind myself is that when you're sick, resting is NOT wasting time. Doing what is best for your health is a very productive use of your time. Take care of yourself! :)

  • @lmeadows8276
    @lmeadows8276 Před 20 dny +2

    Hi Ellie, today i discovered your youtube channel. Im a 57 yr old woman. I've had chronic illnes and surgeries through my life. However, God has given me extra help. When i feel no faith , i just ask for faith, hope and love. God is LOVE and this is all passsing. I look forward to Heaven and trust that God will use all the difficulties for good.
    You have a beautiful spirit. Sending ❤and peace.

  • @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
    @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 Před 6 měsíci +18

    My treatment for Lupus revolves around rest, nutrition, prayer and lots of positive self talk. Our value doesn’t come from our abilities!

  • @jamesk370
    @jamesk370 Před 8 měsíci +14

    When I am in a depressive episode or boarding on one, I watch CZcams videos on car detailing, restorations (of old tools, old toys, etc.), carpet cleaning,, etc. They are both relaxing, and serve as a reminder that as far gone as something is, it can be repaired, it can be brought back to life.

  • @VoidWatchers
    @VoidWatchers Před rokem +18

    there comes time for some people where it might not be possible to do anything when our illnesses flare up, and that makes it really important to know that just living is enough. Something my girlfriend told me once was that the world is better just with me in it, regardless of whether im capable of doing anything. You deserve to rest and you're not lesser for needing it, and you should try to surround yourself with people who are accepting of your condition and ability, even when its completely unpredictable and unreliable. I've accepted a while ago that my illness is never going away and honestly I wouldn't have it any other way. There's nothing wrong with me and I shouldn't have to cure it just to be a valid human being.

  • @faithful2thecall
    @faithful2thecall Před rokem +86

    Glad you're doing better now! 1995 Pride & Prejudice is a good watch when you're not feeling well, as long as you don't let Mrs. Bennet's poor nerves get on your nerves. Faith is a wonderful thing to have to help you through the rough times. The apostle Paul had a chronic condition (the "thorn in my flesh" in 2 Corinthians 12:7) that he had to accept and live with, so you are far from alone in dealing with chronic conditions. Keep being awesome Ellie and keep blessing us with great content whenever you're feeling well enough.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +10

      Aw, thank you so much! 😃😊 Maybe Mrs Bennet just needed to know what to do when her nerves were flaring up and needed to watch this video. 🤔😄 Faith is so important. And that’s a great scripture too! 😃 Thank you!

    • @Tinyteacher1111
      @Tinyteacher1111 Před 8 dny

      Love that movie!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +29

    Me: (waits for a Jane Austen reference)
    Ellie: “WATCH 6 HOURS OF 1995 PRIDE AND PREJUDICE!”

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +9

      This was not a video of subtle Austen references. We went big. 😎

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 Před rokem

      ​@@EllieDashwood ❤

  • @jexae
    @jexae Před 3 měsíci +6

    I needed this thanks. With my stomach issues I always ask what I ate but I’m so good at avoiding known trigger foods and remember it’s not my fault is important.

  • @flowermeerkat6827
    @flowermeerkat6827 Před rokem +8

    I agree about TikTok, I stay away. I don't even like CZcams shorts. I enjoy watching your content. I really appreciate your religious faith and I appreciate that you are open about your faith. Hope you feel better soon!

  • @beverlyj.grevious783
    @beverlyj.grevious783 Před rokem +33

    ❤ Blessings Ellie 😊
    My chronic diseases originated from stress.
    So I've found visualizing myself in excellent health and thanking God for the relief really helps. I put myself emotionally in the grateful to God for God and, in my mind's eye pain-free. Initially, God would put me to sleep for 20 minutes. A deep deep sleep. It felt like hours. I would be pain-free for almost 1 hour and 15 minutes. Talking to God always helps. He does give guidance. We are all different.. Be well.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +6

      Aw, I’m so glad you found something that makes you feel better!

    • @spinstercatlady
      @spinstercatlady Před rokem +4

      Ugh, stress and anxiety are such a massive components of illness and healing. My autoimmune diseases (rheumatoid arthritis and cyclical fever syndrome) originally got triggered by a bad case of EBV/Mono and EVERYTIME I go through a very stressful situation, I end up in a bad flair up. It's so hard to not worry/stress over things outside our control - I have to "let go and let God" many times a day haha!

  • @intignia
    @intignia Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for your helpful and uplifting video. I've had a devastating chronic illness for 34 years. I was a slow learner always pushing myself and beating myself up for not being able to take care of myself, my family, our home, the yard, etc. When I have a flare-up I have to keep reminding myself that "this too shall pass." I'm just now getting over what I thought was another flare-up, but it was actually Covid. LOL
    I've told my grandson, "Don't be sad when I pass on. I won't be sick and in constant pain anymore. I shall be running around and skipping and jumping like a Spring lamb." : D

  • @pau1more1
    @pau1more1 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Thanks for this. I got a bad diagnosis today and this helped a bit.

  • @thehangmansdaughter1120
    @thehangmansdaughter1120 Před 8 měsíci +5

    How did you know this is exactly what I needed to hear today? I have Multiple Sclerosis, MS, a progressive, degenerative illness that attacks the brain and spine, that leads to disability and death. I'm having a relapse currently, that will likely leave me more disabled at the end of it, like a sucky parting gift. I feel like I'm being squeezed in a bear hug, my legs are stiff and painful and the soles of my feet are on fire. Don't get me started on my lack of balance or tendency to bang into every object in a room before finding a seat. Knowing I'm not the only one is about the only thing that gets me through. Thank-you for reminding me.

  • @AndrielleHillis
    @AndrielleHillis Před rokem +16

    This video is perfect timing for me! I don't have a chronic illness (unless mild Cerebral Palsy counts), but my son has Type 1 Diabetes. I recently had to quit a job because it was just too much stress, and I need to devote all my mental energy to my son.
    Two of my favorite Bible are Romans 8:12 ("All things work for the good of those who love Him") and Proverbs 3:5-6 ("Trust in the Lord with all thy heart and lean not into thy own understanding...")

  • @BarbaraClayArtisticsoulwithin
    @BarbaraClayArtisticsoulwithin Před 2 měsíci +1

    You're Awesome ❤ This was exactly what I needed today. I have this rare condition called Inappropriate sinus tachycardia it like POTS. In short my heart rate is always super high and I am always in pain. I get chest pain almost every day that feels like I am having a heart attack. Also I have crushing fatigue. My heart doctor had me go see a specialist and lol smh in the nicest way possible he said you have this condition that a lot of women live with. There is no real treatment and nothing can be done. He then said a lot of stuff that I knew was a lie. He then prescribed me meds for a condition that has no real treatment according to him. He blew me off in the nicest way possible. He didn't even notice that I was crying. After that I really wanted to give up. Because I am so sick I don't know how to act, but your video made me feel so much better. Stress really makes my symptoms worse. I have inspirational scriptures all on my wall but I was so sad that I couldn't even lift up my head to see them. This video helped me a lot. I am going to do what you suggested. Take a break and put on some cute clothes 😂❤ Thank you for this. It was extremely helpful ❤❤❤

  • @khills
    @khills Před 4 měsíci +1

    Watching this while I’m having a flare of both autoimmune and chronic pain, and it’s just… comforting. Thanks. ❤

  • @amandahart4891
    @amandahart4891 Před rokem +8

    I so needed this! I am in a flare up and am definitely struggling with worrying about what I did to cause it because it feels so random and worrying this is how it will be forevermore. But, I need to give myself grace to navigate this, remember it is temporary, do the things I know I need to do, and let myself rest and go slower. Thank you!

  • @mademoiselle_coco
    @mademoiselle_coco Před 11 měsíci +3

    I’m having a bad flare up from my arthritis and it has been making me feel awful. I’ve been feeling SO good for over a year and all of a sudden I can barely move because of the pain. I wasn’t able to travel abroad for a university course because the flare up came so unexpectedly, and I’ve been generally feeling really blue because it’s been triggering so many bad emotions from back when my health used to be like this for years. During this flare up I’ve just been on my phone which hasn’t really lifted my spirits either. It’s 1:30 at night right now and all of a sudden I thought… “there must exist a youtube video with tips on how to feel better now, right?”. so i found you and I must say, I needed the kind message + the wonderful tips that will help me find more rest and peace than mindlessly scrolling through social media. Also, I truly love your energy, you seem so sweet and compassionate and joyful. Thank you so much ❤

  • @trenae77
    @trenae77 Před rokem +3

    I feel like this whole platform (not just this channel in general) has become a space where people who have struggled in the past or are struggling now can safely express themselves. For that reason alone, I try to never judge. If I disagree with the content, I click to a different video - end of story. If it’s interesting, I hang out for the duration. And then there are the gems that find my subscription on the list.
    This video in particular is precious to me - I don’t suffer from an autoimmune condition, but my brother struggles with MS. So with thoughts of him, it is a blessing to hear someone who is comfortable sharing the intricacies of their struggle and the things that get them through.

  • @ladykatietx
    @ladykatietx Před rokem +29

    That second verse you quoted is a favorite for me too. I like how it continues in 2 Corinthians 5, verses 1-7. It reminds me that this isn't my forever body or condition. Thank you for sharing your heart, there's going to be people who really needed to hear this.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +7

      Aw, thank you! And that is such a beautiful scripture! Realizing it isn’t forever is *so* incredibly helpful.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +3

    Having a dream capsule wardrobe for when you feel better? Way ahead of you!

  • @stellaancimer8505
    @stellaancimer8505 Před 7 měsíci +5

    For me food change everything, healing the gut, balance blood sugar..🙏

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 Před 3 měsíci

      Me too. I went only-organic vegan, gluten free, and as long as I take a live probiotic at least twice a month, and drink the same clean green&protein fruit smoothie and a cooked dinner, with a salad for lunch if I am hungry. I tend not to deviate very much from that, and am pretty good. Food is my medicine. That and meditation, reiki, sound healing.

    • @stellaancimer8505
      @stellaancimer8505 Před 3 měsíci

      @@katherinewilson1853 i am happy it works for you 🙏 i went keto

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +4

    Elie: “TikTok is negative.”
    Twitter: “Whew! Dodged that bullet.”

  • @spinstercatlady
    @spinstercatlady Před rokem +8

    Excellent suggestions, Ellie! I've been dealing with illness and autoimmune disease for the past several years, and these types of vids are not only helpful but they make me feel so much less alone as well as more positive and hopeful ✨️ Stress/anxiety is a huge trigger for my flair ups, so staying calm and at peace are as powerful for me as any of the meds I take!

  • @MintyX734
    @MintyX734 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video. I'm having a flare up of a possibly-chronic thing now and listened to this while doing some light stretching. When I had a worse flare up and was basically in bed for a week, your videos were what I listened to; I was advised to reduce stress and your video style is very calm and soothing and learning more about the Regency period removed my mind from ruminating on the problems. Thank you as well for the Scriptures you shared; overall I really needed this video right now. I hope you're doing well!

  • @mimibuckles
    @mimibuckles Před 5 měsíci +1

    I have to keep commenting, dear Ellie, because you are so AWESOME! How I wish I had been able to see this video back when I was suffering from a chronic illness so many years ago! But that was long before internet so nothing to watch to while the time away. Anyway I was constantly dizzy as well as deeply immovable with fatigue so I just had to lie there with my thoughts of faith and hope alternating with impatience, despair, worry and despondence. So glad you have your faith to support you and thank you for being of service to all those suffering similarly. To those of you suffering now, I offer you a testimony of hope. I am 28 year past my last flare up on an illness that kept me bedridden on and off for 7 years. I can only speak for my own life experience but in retrospect I believe it was necessary part of my own personal and spiritual development. I had to I had to switch from a paradigm I grew up with of ignoring my physical body in favor of achievement and work. I learned the lesson so throughly that I now would not think of sacrificing basic self-care and wellness for some other type of gain, regardless of any outward societal, familial or peer pressure to do so.Also, through being forced, because traditional Western medicine had nothing to offer to resolve my case and actually no diagnosis beyond a guess from my blood work that I had one of the many, many unknown and unnamed viruses, to explore modalities of healing the encompass the mental and spiritual as well as the physical. Eventually I stumbled upon Jin Shin Jyutsu through a student of mine and that made ALL the difference. I now know I will never have to go back to that illness. I love the metaphor of the body as a temple for the soul. I am SO SO grateful for have this body to live life with. I treat her with utmost respect and kindness. So much love to all out there who are suffering. May you be fully restored to health. 💗🙏🙏🙏💗

  • @Heckyeahellothere
    @Heckyeahellothere Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this! Regarding the “crash course in empathy,” that came in the form of tons of grief and developing these chronic illnesses. And you’re right, hopefully these people don’t have to learn it the hard way!

  • @peregrinearc
    @peregrinearc Před rokem +4

    Amen to the scripture verses. I have a little sign of a scripture verse by my bed and prayer cards with verses on my desk at home. ❤ Love this video. Take care, girl! ❤🎉

  • @sarahc4004
    @sarahc4004 Před rokem +4

    You are kind, compassionate, and inspiring. Keep crushing life, Ellie.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +1

      Aw! You’re too kind! 😭💕 Keep crushing being awesome! 😃

  • @NizArt1
    @NizArt1 Před 2 měsíci

    Needed to hear this today. Thank you!

  • @karaneal7732
    @karaneal7732 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Wow Ms. Elle, this is exactly what I needed to hear as I am in "flare" mode and hate it. You really bring perspective to how we beat ourselves up and think that everything is our fault. I really needed a reality check to engage with myself and the world in a positive and loving way. It is amazing to me how deep-seated the go-to mental dialogue is to beat yourself up. Again, I thank you very, very much.

  • @ReelHugs
    @ReelHugs Před měsícem

    Thank you Ellie! You’re amazing! I pray you’re flare free & thriving🌻

  • @jackierowland1703
    @jackierowland1703 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for this talk! It was just what I needed!!

  • @ChronicallyBeautifILL
    @ChronicallyBeautifILL Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Ellie! I'm a new subscriber and I love this video idea! I'm always so focused on stopping a flare that once it hits I just give up! I see you are so close to that 100K...awesome job girl!!!

  • @ziegunerweiser
    @ziegunerweiser Před rokem +1

    It breaks my heart to know of your condition beautiful Ellie

  • @stephanieschafer7310
    @stephanieschafer7310 Před 3 měsíci

    I needed this today. Thank you so much!

  • @louiseadair9839
    @louiseadair9839 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for this Ellie. I needed this today.

  • @dakotatwilight
    @dakotatwilight Před rokem +1

    Thanks Ellie for posting this. It is just what I needed. Hugs.

  • @jennytr5056
    @jennytr5056 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Bless you, Ellie. I treasure your empathy and positivity, and wish you every good thing.

  • @laceymorris1062
    @laceymorris1062 Před rokem +1

    I'm glad you're feeling better💗 Hopefully you'll have a better week this week

  • @Sara-lk2yr
    @Sara-lk2yr Před 7 měsíci

    I have chronicle disease and I agree with you Ellie. Well done! 👏🏻♥️

  • @happyfashionista4931
    @happyfashionista4931 Před rokem +5

    Thanks for posting this Ellie! I'm going through an autoimmune flare up right now so this has been uplifting, especially the scriptures! 😊Thanks for reminding us to give ourselves grace Have a beautiful day, you're a blessing!

  • @lisasmedley608
    @lisasmedley608 Před rokem +3

    Praying for you Amazing Ellie! I just love your positive attitude. Reading scriptures has always helped me when I am in a low point in my health. Thank you for sharing your health journey!

  • @cmm5542
    @cmm5542 Před rokem +2

    Take good care of yourself, Ellie. I'm blessed to not have any serious health conditions (just a minor skin issue that only flares up occasionally), and to have had a mom who taught me about nutrition and general wellness when I was young. It still surprises me sometimes when I realize something I take for granted is not something everyone knows! So keep making these videos, Ellie: you're going to help a lot of people. ❤🙂❤

  • @christinaj.2867
    @christinaj.2867 Před rokem +4

    Have you looked into getting a sauna blanket? It used infrared heat to promote healing. It's supposed to be very good for chronic illnesses. I've been using one for years.

  • @debbiesivertson817
    @debbiesivertson817 Před 7 měsíci

    Love you ❤❤❤ God bless you! Thanks for sharing this!

  • @sarahvholder
    @sarahvholder Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for posting this! This was unbelievably encouraging for me. ❤️ It's been 5 and a half years for me dealing with my chronic illness and I'm going through a major flare right now. It breaks my heart to think anyone else deals with this but it's so comforting to know I'm not the only one experiencing this. Thank you!

  • @elizabethdarley8646
    @elizabethdarley8646 Před 28 dny

    Hi! Yes! God keeps His promises. 😊

  • @ritumanjunathan5590
    @ritumanjunathan5590 Před 3 měsíci

    Ellie, Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your thoughts and experience. Really appreciate it ❤ Hope you feel better soon 🤗

  • @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
    @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I totally have learned the importance of listening to my body. I am still trying to perfect the intricate dance of balance. I can easily become a workaholic when I’m feeling well. But too much of that can provoke a flareup, but I too have found benefits in pushing myself.like you, I am still trying to find the perfect balance in all of it. Thank you so much for sharing your ideas. They resonate deeply with me and I don’t feel so alone.

  • @supynorr
    @supynorr Před měsícem

    Very encouraging- thank you

  • @wildpeace
    @wildpeace Před 3 měsíci

    I needed to find you today… thankful to God that I did. I love that he uses our weaknesses to lift and encourage one another. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @roadrunnercrazy
    @roadrunnercrazy Před 11 měsíci +2

    Love this. I recently heard that patience is enduring with a purpose. That focusing on that purpose instead of on the end of the dificulty is what allows us to be patient with joy.
    I needed to hear that because I also struggle with chronic illness and, while I share your hope in Rev.21:4, it gets hard sometimes to wait.
    Very encouraging video. 😊

  • @veronicaleighauthor
    @veronicaleighauthor Před rokem +1

    Great tips/advice. And wonderful verse suggestions. When I was a teen going through hard times, my grandmother reminded me of Proverbs 3:5-6. And It's something I've clung to over the years. Hope your flare up ends soon!

  • @HaileyC201
    @HaileyC201 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you much for this video. I too share your hope for the future and I loved how you emphasised the need to keep our hope, wherever that might be derived from, plain in our minds eye each day. 💕❤️‍🩹

  • @KarevaDarya
    @KarevaDarya Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @lunevid4074
    @lunevid4074 Před rokem +3

    Thank you so much for this Ellie, the timing of this video was immaculate for me! Have a lovely day

  • @vonkatheviking
    @vonkatheviking Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this wonderful video. ✌️ 💛 🕯️

  • @ambarrose
    @ambarrose Před 8 dny

    I mostly watch CZcams. I like random stuff mixed with History related videos. I do crochet, I read.

  • @orionspero560
    @orionspero560 Před 6 měsíci

    I find that the bee positive can very much be counter productive. There are 2 factors here. The first is that forcing yourself to be positive and forcing yourself to be active, have the same risks. It also tends to cut out the people sucking and people defying people's sucking, which is definitely a useful morale booster for me. Recently, in that category has been cults to consciousness, amanda ray, growing up in scientology, and exmo lex, all here on youtube.

  • @musicteacher5757
    @musicteacher5757 Před 8 měsíci +1

    God bless and heal you all.

  • @isawa6649
    @isawa6649 Před rokem +2

    Thank you

  • @SprocketsandLupins
    @SprocketsandLupins Před 7 měsíci +3

    I have lupus and endometriosis (I had to have a hysterectomy last year and still coming to terms with not having children). Now they're pretty sure I have MS too. I'm struggling so much with it. I keep having falls, I'm having what they think are seizures, and I'm so tired. I lost my job. don't know what to because I'm so foggy all the time now, I can't do my writing or anything. Just laying down all the time feeling useless. It's really lonely.

    • @NikkiaSings
      @NikkiaSings Před 5 měsíci +2

      Sending you much love ❤️🙏🏽💯

    • @s2ncurai
      @s2ncurai Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤️🙏🏿

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I know it's no consolation, but I have seizures too. We're out here. 🥰💝. Sending you love. There's no getting over or through. You're a new person. Every day. 💖. The medications for all illnesses, and treatments for all of these things do affect energy, and how one feels. You have us. We're a community, and you have us. It's not a huge consolation, but I know how lonely it can be. 💗Sending you massive love and hugs.

  • @callisastapp7160
    @callisastapp7160 Před rokem +18

    THANKS SO MUCH ELLIE! I came for the regency culture videos, and I stayed for your sweet heart ❤ Recently I've been struggling with recurring colds, and wondering what I did wrong, and why I have to live like a grandma at the age of 19 😂 sharing your experiences really encouraged me!!
    “Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12 💕

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 Před 3 měsíci

      I hope more people like you find her. I pushed myself too hard and broke at 22 because of some deaths and other circumstances. Remember the unironic line, "health is wealth!" Always have assets, do not move forward in poverty.

  • @stephanieakre2824
    @stephanieakre2824 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much! :))

  • @DaisyNinjaGirl
    @DaisyNinjaGirl Před rokem +2

    Big hugs!

  • @angelcollina
    @angelcollina Před 5 měsíci

    I never had to deal with a chronic illness before, but now I have Long Covid. And who knows with this! Sometimes out of the blue, I just drop, too fatigued to do anything at all. Even walking to the bathroom is exhausting. Usually getting sick (with anything) causes it, but sometimes extreme stress can do it too. And basically my immune system flips out and thinks it’s fighting covid all over again, but it’s not actually covid, it’s just a cold, or some stress, or some dust that caused a bit of an allergic reaction. 😖

  • @Megduarte
    @Megduarte Před rokem +3

    I believe in Revelations 21:3, 4 too ❤ Also John 5:28, 29. That hope is what keeps us going, what keeps us strong.

  • @SkeletonBone666
    @SkeletonBone666 Před 9 měsíci

    I had a chronic health condition that didn't get better no matter what I did. I started praying to a spirit called BUER, and slowly I was led to more and more subtle changes that improved my symptoms dramatically over the following weeks. I also experienced powerful direct healing every time I prayed to him. I used to be bedridden most of the time, now I can enjoy life again. I give thanks to BUER, the Ancient God of Healing!!

  • @viktoriiadavydova6807
    @viktoriiadavydova6807 Před 2 měsíci

    You are awesome 😌🙏

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +10

    Ableism is so entrenched in our lives that the myth of ‘overcoming’ is preferred to a more realistic solution which accommodates people and not make them feel bad about themselves.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +5

      That’s such a good point! I definitely think there are people out there who think not being able to overcome, or basically impossibly power through at your health’s expense, is a moral failing. 😣

    • @subtlefire7256
      @subtlefire7256 Před rokem +1

      This!

  • @natalieschelling7545
    @natalieschelling7545 Před rokem +3

    Your cat is so cute 😍

  • @Nan-59
    @Nan-59 Před 11 měsíci

    Hello everyone! I just found this channel. The video about chronic illness popped up . I have osteoarthritis and fibromyalgia. Fibromyalgia comes with a slew of things besides all over body body pain. It affects your mood, the ability you’re to find words to speak, your memory. Ohh, and the fatigue. I’m pretty sure I must have chronic fatigue syndrome, although it is also why symptom of fibromyalgia so who knows. There’s not much to be done about fatigue as far as I know. No dr ever gave me any help with it for me.
    I go to pain management and I’m on pain meds, which, of course help a lot with the pain. It doesn’t help fatigue.
    I stayed in a mentally abusive marriage, which I should not have obviously, and when it all started was when I was 29 yo which is also when my head pain started.
    Who knew I’d be 100% better off leaving right then. It definitely sucks. I think it’s easier to see abuse for what it is when it’s physical. At least that’s what I tell myself. I’m thankful to have a diagnosis. I was diagnosed 2008.
    Of course I had it many years before that. My pain started when I was 29 the SAME YEAR our marriage began to disintegrate. Who knew stress could be fatal.
    Anyway, y’all have a good one !❤❤❤✌🏻

  • @Morna777
    @Morna777 Před 8 měsíci

    I wish I still had the hope that comes from faith, but it's nice to be reminded there's other sources.

  • @qienna6677
    @qienna6677 Před rokem +2

    I needed this video

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem

      ❤️ Aw, I’m so glad it could help! Each of us has such a unique journey that no one should judge another’s progress. 😭 And I’m so sorry about the kidney stones! That sounds so painful!

    • @valeriewalker954
      @valeriewalker954 Před 11 měsíci

      Dr. Eric Berg on CZcams has videos on what caused kidney stones & how to desolve them by food & nutrition.

    • @qienna6677
      @qienna6677 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@valeriewalker954 Thank you for trying to help, but I'd rather listen to my Urologist over a Chiropractor Scientologist. My stones are produced regardless of what I eat/drink, it's why it's a genetic disease.

    • @valeriewalker954
      @valeriewalker954 Před 11 měsíci

      @qienna6677 he is a medical physician who works with patients

    • @qienna6677
      @qienna6677 Před 11 měsíci

      @@valeriewalker954 No, he is a Chiropractor, not a physician. He has no medical qualifications.

  • @N_0968
    @N_0968 Před rokem +4

    I have Addison’s disease and that has occasional flare ups. It’s very annoying and I usually need to go to the hospital.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +1

      😭 Oh no, I’m so sorry! That sounds awful! 😭

    • @N_0968
      @N_0968 Před rokem

      @@EllieDashwood I’m used to it by now.

  • @qienna6677
    @qienna6677 Před rokem +1

    Also, Ellie, I had to go out of town last weekend and I got to have gluten free battered fish. OOOOOOMLLLLLLL! I want more so bad now and I am telling myself it's just as well I can't get it locally because I'd be wanting it all the time!

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +1

      It’s both the worst and best when you get a new gluten free food on vacation that you can’t normally find! Cause it’s delicious, but then you can’t have it again! 😍😭

  • @user-xh4os4sx1v
    @user-xh4os4sx1v Před rokem +1

    I'm trying to suppress my inner Mary Musgrove. When you live by yourself you cannot cave. Overtime us chronicles have strategies especially when there is no access to the theraputic kind word. My cats help but they are demanding too. Elizabeth I at end of life survived until her courtiers insisted she go to bed; as soon as she did she died. 'Do not go gentle into that good night.' (Dylan Thomas)

  • @suzanneantippas8420
    @suzanneantippas8420 Před rokem +1

    How inspirational and interesting!! Your advice is close to the advice that President Biden told us about today in his speech addressing all our school shootings and the pain that the victims' parents confront. He said when he was young and just elected to the Senate, his wife and their two children were hit by a truck in a car accident. His wife was killed and his two boys were hospitalized and not expected to survive but they both did, one with severe head injuries. Biden was sinking into despair when a much old advisor told him he had to go on for the sake of those that needed him and that he could do that focusing on only three things: 1- something to do (he focused on his new job as a Senator), 2-someone to love (he did find what appears to be the perfect wife for him and mother for his children) and 3 - hope (he has hope for solutions for our many serious problems in the US, including for gun control and and more alertness to possible shooters who likely need therapy and need to be completely unable to get guns.) He said that this advice continues to sustain him so many years later. I will be keeping his advice and your advice always in mind. ❤x

  • @Morna777
    @Morna777 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm making a PDF of these tips.

  • @SailorYuki
    @SailorYuki Před rokem +1

    I have multiple chronic illnesses and have been crashing fro the past 6 months now. I just can't get a break. I'm trying to get a job so I can have an income so I can move to my own place. Living with my ex-husband is only making my physical and mental health worse.

  • @Ericat257
    @Ericat257 Před 8 měsíci

    My happy movies actually include the 1995 P&P tho 😅 lol. My Neighbor Totoro is top of my list tho.

  • @Pokeplayer10
    @Pokeplayer10 Před 11 měsíci

    I have been having fainting episodes and I struggle with chronic nausea. It takes away my feeling of hunger and my want to eat. My family says that it’s just a panic attack but I will feel light headed and dizzy BEFORE I GET ANXIOUS

  • @musicteacher5757
    @musicteacher5757 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I have four minor chronic illnesses.... minor until they gang up on me.
    I wrote a humorous essay where I compared this to a three ring circus where the ringmaster was having flashbacks to the Vietnam War but he was born in 1990!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +1

    Ellie being the Productivity Propaganda Antidote >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  • @daydreamer7076
    @daydreamer7076 Před rokem +1

    Wow, you are really very brave, respect! if you need a recipe for a delicious gluten free pizza i should help you!

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +2

      Aw, thank you! 💕 I have had some good GF pizza! I think what I miss the most is being able to eat it at parties, dinners etc. The social aspect of being GF is the worst. 😭

  • @amandayouksee1724
    @amandayouksee1724 Před 2 měsíci

    I have no family too help me to get through my gerd and excessive peeing , and i cant sleep

  • @brooksmusic
    @brooksmusic Před 5 měsíci

    I know what Bible translation those verses were quoted from🥰

  • @victoriawhite3662
    @victoriawhite3662 Před 7 měsíci

    You can speak to people and sit upright to eat during a flare?
    Can't relate 😢...

  • @ameliecarre4783
    @ameliecarre4783 Před 11 měsíci

    Imagine if one of your chronic illness was an allergy to animals ! You couldn't even cuddle with your cat to feel better. That's Polyanna's for you : you must be really glad that you're not allergic to cats.

  • @pamulawallace4330
    @pamulawallace4330 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😅😮😂

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +1

    If you’re watching people be negative on TikTok, you’re watching the wrong TikTok. There’s mermaidcore and people chopping wood because that’s considered hot now.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před rokem +3

      Okay, I spent days trying to find positive TikTok and could not for the life of me
      !!! 😂 I’d find one positive video or creator and then the rest of my feed would be negative again. And just on the randomest negative things across a wide variety of topics. I legit don’t understand TikTok. Meanwhile, all I have to do on IG is watch two Taylor Swift concert videos and now my feed is nothing but her concert videos and cats. 😂

    • @faithful2thecall
      @faithful2thecall Před rokem

      @@EllieDashwood CZcams Shorts could be something for you to explore as an alternate to TikTok. There's a couple of couples that primarily do shorts that can be fun to watch. One of them is Hannah & Regal, the other is Hunna & Lib. As a bonus both channels touch on their faith sometimes.

  • @valeriewalker954
    @valeriewalker954 Před 11 měsíci

    What is your blood type? Dr. Berry can help. He is on Monday night at 8 pm. Questions he answers on CZcams.

  • @joshbeyer9757
    @joshbeyer9757 Před 4 měsíci

    You need vitamin b1 the active and in active. It is usually from
    A b1 deficiency
    I inject b complex . And vitamin c . You need a doctor to give it to you

  • @johnwilson3321
    @johnwilson3321 Před 10 měsíci

    Ellie, your video here is my rare find of another person experiencing what I have
    endured for so so many years with
    Chronic Illness. It’s been an off and on
    nightmare to deal with. I love your video because I’ve felt so isolated in my struggles as no doctor or therapist can
    truly relate. I’m on your side step by step. I know Closely what you’ve experienced and struggle to cope with.
    I want us to stay in touch!

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 Před 11 měsíci +1

    After a one second Google search, I found 15 [ fifteen ] different websites with gluten free pizza recipes listed. I even found two CZcams videos on how to make gluten free pizza from scratch at home listed in the search results.

    • @EllieDashwood
      @EllieDashwood  Před 10 měsíci +3

      I've made many a gluten-free pizza in my life! I miss eating what I still think of as *real* pizza. Especially at restaurants and parties. 😭

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@EllieDashwood Gluten free pizzas are becoming more and more popular. The menu is becoming more diverse.
      According to my Google search of July 27, 2023 Domino's, Pizza Hut, and California Pizza Kitchen are supposed to have gluten free pizza.
      There are even restaurants now in 2023 that serve gluten free pizza exclusively.

  • @johnwilson3321
    @johnwilson3321 Před 10 měsíci

    Ellie, your video here is