The Struggle Of Being Mixed Race In Africa!

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2020
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  • @ebbaffour3269
    @ebbaffour3269 Před 3 lety +3079

    I'm a Ghanaian but sometimes we Africans in America don't understand what African Americans have been through in terms of slavery, Jim Crow, segregation, etc. We have to read their history on our own to appreciate their struggles because the USA school systems don't teach you indepth history of African Americans. Their struggles are the reason why we are enjoying our success in America as Africans.

    • @WODEMAYA
      @WODEMAYA  Před 3 lety +327

      This is Deep!

    • @solentricxinc.9944
      @solentricxinc.9944 Před 3 lety +512

      Finally, someone says it! They paved the way for all other immigrants of color. I say they because I'm a black immigrant from the dominican republic, they paved the way for me.

    • @frankbekoe3109
      @frankbekoe3109 Před 3 lety +232

      I have said these exact words to my African friends and family in the States. The same words. Wow!

    • @blessedhf
      @blessedhf Před 3 lety +172

      And this is why God is going to allow them to thrive and be so successful on the continent of Africa because the lost and stolen have returned home. They will thrive even the more of those who are “native” born. It will come so easy and with favor.

    • @Tate.TopG.
      @Tate.TopG. Před 3 lety +57

      They dont know accountability, it was long time ago
      Even the people who went through it (50 and over) dont complain that much and most of them dont use it everyday to justify their situation in life. Also most of them are not hateful like the young generation.

  • @DumiGaule
    @DumiGaule Před 3 lety +1157

    The fact that some of us still view marrying white as an achievement says a lot about how effective neocolonialism is.

    • @DumiGaule
      @DumiGaule Před 3 lety +23

      @Hungarian Cuman I'm not worried😁

    • @gnsoh
      @gnsoh Před 3 lety +27

      @Hungarian Cuman The fact that you are under this video even taking time to comment says it all😅😅😅😅. Keep throwing shades 😅😅😅🤣🤣

    • @melri4392
      @melri4392 Před 3 lety +25

      Thank you so much for saying that could not have said it better

    • @ritaafricanchillmusiclarbi989
      @ritaafricanchillmusiclarbi989 Před 3 lety +2

      You have done well. Brother achiwadi four and people think they are important. All who slept with them will loose their souls in reincarnation.

    • @ExistNNature
      @ExistNNature Před 3 lety +10

      Absolutely!

  • @chuksrichard3598
    @chuksrichard3598 Před 3 lety +74

    As a Nigerian living in the United States, I’d say i do get along with African Americans pretty well. Although I’ve heard of the enmity between Africans and African Americans, I’ve never experienced it. Alot of African Americans I’ve met really wants to visit Africa but their problem is they do not know how to start the process. Last year, an African American followed i and my family to Nigeria for a month and she really enjoyed it at Nigeria. She said she wants to buy a house at Nigeria so she can come back with her own family whenever she wants.

    • @konpeitosama
      @konpeitosama Před 2 lety +1

      Stop calling us African Americans...we're not from Africa and a lot of us hate being called that.

    • @chuksrichard3598
      @chuksrichard3598 Před 2 lety +10

      @@konpeitosama i wasn’t referring to you, i was referring to African Americans.

    • @cool_cat007smoove3
      @cool_cat007smoove3 Před 2 lety

      You would she the division more in Europe.

    • @anodeycare6748
      @anodeycare6748 Před 2 lety

      @@konpeitosama And some of us don’t even want to hear your name 🤦‍♂️

    • @wuggggggaaaa6830
      @wuggggggaaaa6830 Před rokem +1

      @@konpeitosama so where we from?

  • @lazarocedeno5270
    @lazarocedeno5270 Před 3 lety +6

    I am also a black Cuban living in Long Island, NY. I have never felt at home. Not in Cuba , my country of birth, never in the Americas. Thanks for sharing your beautiful experiences. I am definitely going to make it to Africa. Mother Africa.❤️🙏🌺💥🎶

  • @nasibongpinky5380
    @nasibongpinky5380 Před 3 lety +937

    Africa is the last place for mix people to be discriminated. They are treated wayy better than pure black

    • @veronicajohn2522
      @veronicajohn2522 Před 3 lety +67

      Albinos are saught for bad reasons in Africa. Africa is a melting pot of tribes why are we hurting our own I love dark skin I'm medium Brown but color depends on the level of melanin in our bodies we live in a world that glorifies lack of melanin .Melanin give us protection from the sun .people need to get educated.

    • @notestingme
      @notestingme Před 3 lety +28

      @@veronicajohn2522 medium brown you are dark skin be proud

    • @abixo2256
      @abixo2256 Před 3 lety +13

      Nasibong Pinky this is not true from what I’ve experienced especially as a child 😭😂

    • @kingoscar5884
      @kingoscar5884 Před 3 lety +21

      I think that sort of thing happens in almost all black nations for some odd reason, It also happens in the Caribbean.

    • @AprilN
      @AprilN Před 3 lety +9

      Lol thats not true though...

  • @bijoujewel8979
    @bijoujewel8979 Před 3 lety +156

    Not all react the same.
    I am black woman born in USA. Love Africa. Married to a Nigerian for 40 years!!!

    • @abbassaquee286
      @abbassaquee286 Před 3 lety +9

      To all this I say we have to look beyond our prejudices and ignorance of one other and learn about our differences we will be surprise to find that we are similar many aspects than that divide us, it all begins in the mindset. Our brothers and sisters in the Americas went through a horrible system that robbed them of their humanity and their dignity all aspects of their culture we on the continent of Africa need be sensitive to their pains and we can learn a lot from them and they from us we all from mother Africa the cradle of humanity and civilisation whether you choose to believe or not.

    • @EagleEyeReporters
      @EagleEyeReporters Před 3 lety

      Bijou Jewel good deal !!

    • @bijoujewel8979
      @bijoujewel8979 Před 3 lety +1

      Black Minoan of course, you are correct

    • @alvinsquezz
      @alvinsquezz Před 3 lety +8

      40 years of marriage?? Dayyyuuuuuummm that’s a blessing.

    • @alvinsquezz
      @alvinsquezz Před 3 lety

      Black Minoan Awww I feel you buddy

  • @kwade9298
    @kwade9298 Před 3 lety +62

    Hi Wode Maya, I love this interview so much. It's great to hear about the experiences these women are having being "mixed race" in Ghana.
    I am from California, USA, and recently started identifying as an African born in the diaspora.
    African Americans have never been shown anything good about Africa. Growing up, it was imbedded into our psyche that Africa was a poor dusty place where people are starving. Black people are not treated well here in the states, and somehow we've made to feel that being African is even "worse". America is a racist country. Divide and conquer has been it's main method of oppression and control since our ancestors were first brought here as slaves.

    • @toggledhat864
      @toggledhat864 Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, Zakari from Ghana
      Do you have WhatsApp?

    • @brendaandrade6753
      @brendaandrade6753 Před 2 lety +1

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @toggledhat864
      @toggledhat864 Před 2 lety +1

      @@brendaandrade6753 hi

    • @ebentee
      @ebentee Před 2 lety +3

      @@toggledhat864 eeii

    • @jzk2020
      @jzk2020 Před 2 lety

      At least some people are starting to get WOKE.

  • @salome6230
    @salome6230 Před 3 lety +207

    Just because someone doesn’t have the same problems as you, doesn’t mean they don’t have any problems. It is important to have empathy and compassion for others 🤗

    • @amiwho3464
      @amiwho3464 Před 3 lety +2

      Couldn´t have said better myself!

    • @farceadentus
      @farceadentus Před 2 lety +3

      Amen

    • @alexjc5362
      @alexjc5362 Před rokem

      Just be honest and say : i don't give a *uck for those " white people" or somethink i don't care i know you treated us like a " white" anyway who thinking for other people they don't have a problems????? WTF? This video is for that the *ucking specific things in the mix race lifes. Thats all.

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Před rokem

      This message needs to get through the heads of people

  • @Jayarrin1
    @Jayarrin1 Před 3 lety +158

    I am a black man born and raised in America, and I love my African brothers and sisters with all my heart. I love my people wherever you are on the planet with all my heart!

    • @cheikhdiaw8846
      @cheikhdiaw8846 Před 3 lety +5

      We love you more and appreciate you

    • @jeswazwadi7049
      @jeswazwadi7049 Před 3 lety +3

      we love you too

    • @fifimpia7372
      @fifimpia7372 Před 3 lety +1

      God bless you my brother, we love you too! 🙏🏾❤️

    • @Jayarrin1
      @Jayarrin1 Před 3 lety +2

      ​@@fifimpia7372 And may God bless you as well tenfold! ❤️❤️

    • @Jayarrin1
      @Jayarrin1 Před 3 lety +2

      @Malcom X Jajah One love my brother!

  • @MarintiaEiko
    @MarintiaEiko Před 3 lety +50

    Thank you so much for having me!🤎🤎 you have such a positive energy I had so much fun🥳

    • @abby-a
      @abby-a Před 3 lety +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @swanzyyard
      @swanzyyard Před 3 lety +1

      We love your positive energy too @Marintia Goto-Williams This conversation just touched on a the funny tension between Africans and African Americans, Thanks to you. A conversation that will trend on here for quite some time.
      I just think every race struggling with Identity should just associate as Ghanaian because Ghanaians are very accepting. 😊😊
      We had this Afro Asian girl in our government High school, this girl knew how to tease. So whenever we had the upper hand, we will give her the popular Small eyes joke 😂😂
      Hope you never had such in school....
      Thanks for reading

    • @spinkoyakinde4460
      @spinkoyakinde4460 Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks

    • @mikea.6911
      @mikea.6911 Před 3 lety +1

      You did great Marintia

    • @daphnee646
      @daphnee646 Před měsícem

      Mari Tia I would for you to show me Ghana. I would like to visit one day.

  • @ndwigaroothaert7345
    @ndwigaroothaert7345 Před 3 lety +44

    As a mixed race person living in Africa (Kenya) I really appreciate this video. I also like that you chose some people who grew up in Europe and one that grew up in Africa. Being mixed race is complicated and I’m glad this video shed some light on it.

  • @Robertkingz
    @Robertkingz Před 3 lety +316

    Mixed people struggle in Africa? You're joking, right? They're almost like royalties in Angola 🤣

    • @lancemt5074
      @lancemt5074 Před 3 lety +51

      @ShutterDe DON definitely not in South Africa. We don’t reject them but we don’t treat them like royals either. We just treat them as one of us.

    • @lancemt5074
      @lancemt5074 Před 3 lety +29

      @ShutterDe DON No haha. About 5 million South Africans consider themselves as mixed race or “colored” people. They are common place here. So they are treated like everyone else.

    • @henriqueduda6636
      @henriqueduda6636 Před 3 lety +18

      Light skinned people in Angola way back in the days they use to be our royals untouchable riches owners of all the banks, but now something is changing.

    • @lancemt5074
      @lancemt5074 Před 3 lety +13

      @ShutterDe DON I’ve lived in other African countries. You’ve never lived in SA. I know what I’m talking about when I say SA is far more diverse than other African countries. And that doesn’t make us any better or lesser than any African countries. It’s just the way it is. Go argue with your mixed-race-worshiping county men 😂

    • @fouadibrahim9508
      @fouadibrahim9508 Před 3 lety +5

      @@lancemt5074 you're right. Got that from reading Trevor Noah's born a crime

  • @philipadjapong6095
    @philipadjapong6095 Před 3 lety +415

    After living in America for a decade I will say the confusion between AAs and As stems from the fact that we don’t know each other’s history and struggles. The education system in Africa don’t teach anything about AAs and their struggles and their history. We don’t know much about each other. Similarly, AAs treat As based on what they’ve seen on TV (which I will blame it on the media). Not until quite recently, everything about Africa was negative, hence the dissociation. I think this generation is doing a great job learning about each other’s culture in other to relate to each other. We were all brainwashed through slavery and colonialism and should be united for a better life if anything. Irrespective of one’s race or culture, we are all humans and should love one another!

    • @stephenholmes2281
      @stephenholmes2281 Před 3 lety +25

      I am grateful for your comments. It speaks volumes.

    • @MosDefSteph510
      @MosDefSteph510 Před 3 lety +18

      Well said brotha!

    • @andrewkusi7072
      @andrewkusi7072 Před 3 lety +27

      That's what they have been doing since colonisation, divide and conquer. Keeping us spererate weakness but United we are stronger

    • @Theblackhippieh
      @Theblackhippieh Před 3 lety +23

      Bro this is so true. My dream is for AAs and As to get past our misunderstandings of each other and unite.

    • @waheedadegbite9170
      @waheedadegbite9170 Před 3 lety +14

      I definitely agree 👍 ... this generation is getting better. I am a Nigerian American and remember in my younger years some of the most ignorant things said to me personally and also just about Africa in general. Use to hurt at first but then realized it was just plain ignorance due to what the media portrays (and this can be seen in multiple races/ethnicities). Then by the time late middle school/early high school that all went away. Its really sad how a lot of folks don't get along or have misunderstandings because of stereotypes perpetuated by the media.

  • @phyllisruff7115
    @phyllisruff7115 Před 3 lety +193

    I am a mother of two African American boys and I remember when I sent one to college and his roommate was African, and because my son had locs, the African's mother said that he was no good, even though she had not met him. Also, my youngest son's roommate, who is now in college, is a Nigerian boy, who is one of his best friends, and his mother and I are friends because of our children. I will say that there is a belief by the Africans that the African Americans have NOT taken advantage of the school system, and the opportunities afforded them. What they fail to acknowledge is the many ways slavery was reframed throughout the years to keep us behind and still fighting for rights that should have been ours. Anyway, we should be together because if not for us, there would be no them. We are all from the same continent. By the way Wode Maya, you are doing a great job and me and my husband will be visiting Ghana in 2022, look forward to seeing you.

    • @leticiaperry8510
      @leticiaperry8510 Před 3 lety +27

      About the locks it's really the older generation.....we the younger Africans don't see locks as something bad...like u said most of these things are attached to slavery....I know locks came from somewhere in Africa so we actually embrace locs and natural hair. Glad that u r visiting Ghana.... please I also invite you to visit Uganda the pearl of Africa...#onelove

    • @phyllisruff7115
      @phyllisruff7115 Před 3 lety +7

      Leticia Perry thank you and we will definitely think about the different places to visit. #onelove

    • @povelvieregg165
      @povelvieregg165 Před 3 lety +36

      Yes I think one needs to learn about how toxic slavery was. I noticed as a Norwegian visiting the US, I could make friends with Africans. The experience with African Americans can be more mixed, but I don't blame people. I saw many things in the US which made me deeply uncomfortable about how African Americans are treated.
      It still burned into my memory being in a New York restaurant and having a grown African American man turn on the tap water and give me towels in the bathroom while wearing a fancy uniform. I was just 17 years old, and it felt so wrong to me. I know he may not have thought about it that way. But to me it felt really wrong that all these African Americans should have poorly paid jobs serving white people.
      I am 42 years old now, and this is on of my strongest memories from visiting New York. I hated that moment so much. I didn't not want to be the spoiled white kid. It was a total shit job IMHO. Nobody needed to do it. But this guy had to do it to put food on the table.
      I know sometimes African Americans don't like me for being white, but I don't take it personal. I still try to do my best to educate people about racism. I have tried to explain to other whites the consequence of slavery with examples from Europe such as how Germans born to East German parents are worse off in Germany, get discriminated and labeled Ossi. They do worse in all walk of live compared to other Germans. That is the legacy of 40 years of communism. So I ask people, what do you think 400 years of slavery, and later segregation has done to people?
      We are all products of our ancestors and their experiences. In fact it goes both ways. Racism is also taught. Racists are almost alway a product of their family, and environment they grew up in. One has to believe in change, to make change.

    • @jahvoice5097
      @jahvoice5097 Před 3 lety +1

      Better make that 2021.jah bless.

    • @Alayne504
      @Alayne504 Před 3 lety +8

      I’ve heard the same from black people Non AA and even other races from outside the US about African Americans not taking advantage of the many opportunities in this country. Or that immigrant blacks go further in life than African Americans all the while failing to mention that if they’ve been able to succeed as an immigrant black person; it has been because of the struggle of the AA.

  • @chukwukas7811
    @chukwukas7811 Před 3 lety +48

    Hi Wada
    I definitely relate to their experience, I have a mixed daughter and she went through all these to a point I relocated her to Nigeria for 5yrs, there ,she was much more accepted, respected, now she's back in Asia, but that journey was like a discovery of herself, now she can't wait to settle in Africa. Thanks Maya for this video.

    • @jzk2020
      @jzk2020 Před 2 lety +2

      Most races will NOT accept mixed people into their community, even if they are half X. Black people are the only ones that will accept a half Asian/Half black person, but go to Japan or China or India or Netherlands or Denmark or UK and see if the locals there will accept you. They will NOT, they will treat you as an outsider.

  • @bobbyejohnson3408
    @bobbyejohnson3408 Před 3 lety +108

    I’m an African American who is learning about Africa and African people. We in America do not know Africans.
    Thank you for opening our eyes to Africa. We are only taught negative things about Africa.
    My bucket list is to visit Africa since I’ve been watching you.
    They show us only the worst of Africa. But thank God for media

    • @l.e.c9620
      @l.e.c9620 Před 3 lety +7

      Speak for yourself. I know Many Africans!

    • @bobbyejohnson3408
      @bobbyejohnson3408 Před 3 lety +6

      I’m learning more and more about the motherland.
      It is hard for me to think about how much I did not know until Wode Maya on CZcams

    • @hammykadala9511
      @hammykadala9511 Před 3 lety +1

      @@l.e.c9620 hahahaahahahha hello

    • @andrewsiyomunji8260
      @andrewsiyomunji8260 Před 3 lety +4

      @@l.e.c9620 One thing you have to know is that Africans are not monolithic

    • @millybilly8210
      @millybilly8210 Před 3 lety +2

      Welcome to Mama Africa......❤️
      They'll never show the positive about Africa they only show the worst

  • @naturally4us
    @naturally4us Před 3 lety +299

    I am an African born in America and I have never had a problem with Africans We Are One.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 3 lety +3

      Carmen, ihola !

    • @unpopularegyptianvoice3689
      @unpopularegyptianvoice3689 Před 3 lety +30

      Carmen burns Same here sister, I haven't had any problems with African Americans. African Americans are the only one who showed me love in America

    • @abidavid5021
      @abidavid5021 Před 3 lety +3

      Because u are a African by parents that we talk about African American

    • @unpopularegyptianvoice3689
      @unpopularegyptianvoice3689 Před 3 lety +30

      @Strive For greatness I am African with African parents born and raised on the continent of Africa...African Americans have not messed me up. Why are you generalizing? Maybe some of them dislike Africans but not all of them. Also many Africans dislike them but not all!

    • @unpopularegyptianvoice3689
      @unpopularegyptianvoice3689 Před 3 lety +4

      @Strive For greatness Exactly! I have the same color as these women but it is not about color at all. This is about a spirit and a behavior. These women who are of recent mixture are not treated like those of us with ancient mixture who grew up in Africa. They are treated like they are gods in Africa and we are treated like we cannot do anything right, which is false. they come to Africa wearing thong bikinis, drinking alcohol, hiring house help (which is a form of slavery and an intense caste system in Africa). They are preying on African Americans because many of them are AWAKE and call them out on their spirits. This video is 1000% ugly. Also some African Americans call me Greek, which I'm not, although I might be mixed with that, but that's unknown to me; but because of the history of Egypt and how they understand the damage that has caused us till this day and I don't blame them.

  • @sandylove7713
    @sandylove7713 Před 3 lety +390

    From my experience mixed race people in Ghana enjoy a greater amount of privilege. One of the reasons is the colonial legacy of colourism. They are often referred to as ‘obroni’ or ‘half-cast; however half-cast is a derogatory word which should never be used. Colourism is a serious issue which we should not take lightly, or else we will be creating another class of people who we will defer to and be uplifting them on the social totem. There is already classism in Ghana and if we want to add colourism to it we will create a very unequal society. If your guests are being really honest they enjoy privilege in Ghana, Ghanaians are really welcoming to a fault that they start to uplift people who look different especially fair-skin people better than dark skinned people.
    We need to be careful not to feed into anti-black racism in our continent. If our brothers are mixed let us treat them as we treat those who are not mixed so as to have a fair society.
    With all the anti black racism going on in this world black peoples need a safe place to exist and thrive without looking at our back. We need to respect each and our differences rather than hating or giving too much differential treatment due to the person being mixed race.

    • @Life_Simplified11
      @Life_Simplified11 Před 3 lety +25

      This is very deep

    • @sirc625
      @sirc625 Před 3 lety +5

      How would a darker skinned African be treated in Ghana? Say, someone from Sudan.

    • @kwameyeboah3026
      @kwameyeboah3026 Před 3 lety +13

      @@sirc625 Not to generalize but you would be treated calmly and with respect...However, the language barrier or your religion can be a problem for a hand full of people

    • @kwameyeboah3026
      @kwameyeboah3026 Před 3 lety +16

      We must address this prejudice before it bites us in the a** some decades to come

    • @Life_Simplified11
      @Life_Simplified11 Před 3 lety +14

      Eugene Ansah Yeah. The inferiority complex also plays a role

  • @kambamazig02024
    @kambamazig02024 Před 2 lety +9

    Wode Maya, I watch your show, as a Tanzanian in the diaspora and married to a white woman with two beautiful kids, I can tell you that there is a problem with humans, especially when we do not know the others. I think what you four are doing here is great! Thanks a lot.

  • @anthonyburton7941
    @anthonyburton7941 Před 3 lety +116

    I’m African American in the United States. There’s a couple reasons why some black people have an issue with African identity. Our Euro-centric (white) school systems don’t allow us to connect with the motherland as much as we wish we could. Also, being Black has been the source of so much pain that many people try to run from it. It’s an identity complex that some of us are trying to cope with. I will be visiting Ghana soon 💪🏾 🇬🇭

    • @DJcyberslash
      @DJcyberslash Před 3 lety +9

      So well said thanks for saying this, I am African American and agree 10 fold.

    • @frankie7529
      @frankie7529 Před 3 lety +1

      Enjoy your visit to Ghana. And remember, you're not African and you're not Ghanaian. You're American. Remember that and you will have a great time.

    • @HobbsBhipp
      @HobbsBhipp Před 3 lety +2

      Africans sold us away, many can never be Africans again.

    • @jessicamarie6448
      @jessicamarie6448 Před 3 lety +2

      @@HobbsBhipp Africans were tricked thinking they were taking Africans to do paid work, and then america came back and stole more Africans from their villages

    • @HobbsBhipp
      @HobbsBhipp Před 3 lety

      @Andrew Trought That was not my intention.

  • @sherrifaowusu6743
    @sherrifaowusu6743 Před 3 lety +432

    The mind set that bringing a white person or a non black person home is a blessing is a big sign of our low self value. The mind set that “light, bright and white is right” is Insidious and sadly slows Africans down, it also encourages beautiful women to bleach their skin in order to achieve a higher value in the African society which needs to be addressed. The long and short of it is that you will be favoured for being mixed race - the down side is the fetishisation... you will be instantly loved for being exotic but you’ll have to be mindful of whether they love who you are or just the brightness of your skin. This goes for friendship and especially dating. ❤️

    • @sleekchic1111
      @sleekchic1111 Před 3 lety +14

      Well put

    • @emmabarnes9835
      @emmabarnes9835 Před 3 lety +10

      Absolutely sis!

    • @Kassiusday
      @Kassiusday Před 3 lety +5

      Njumanvùi Mùnmom ....” has the most arable land “ as you say : is hugely relevant ,, how deep white supremacist brainwash propaganda has impacted our brains !!!!!

    • @thiossaneafrika
      @thiossaneafrika Před 3 lety +17

      Sherrifa Owusu yeah, is SO freaking ridiculous! Like Malcolm X said hating the oppressed and loving the opressor.... not only lack of value just being nuts really!!!

    • @vereisaac4558
      @vereisaac4558 Před 3 lety +2

      true

  • @humeeayisha3199
    @humeeayisha3199 Před 3 lety +61

    Who else commented before watching the video
    Wode Maya is. Getting me addicted to this channel ❤️

  • @frimpsoa9429
    @frimpsoa9429 Před 3 lety +6

    I am Ghanaian but immigrated to the US around 10 years old. I remember 3 African Americans in my class. Of which only one would always make fun of me and ask me ignorant questions about if we walked around naked or lived in huts. I was ALWAYS mad. My dad would always tell me not to get mad and mention that they were ignorant and all we need to do was educate them-which I did. Again and again. After a few years from elementary into high school, I got along with him and a lot of the other African Americans. Media plays a huge role in what we perceive. I also believe that education is needed on both sides and obviously compassion for one another.

  • @samiatris6237
    @samiatris6237 Před 3 lety +7

    I am half lebanese half german and i can totaly relate to these women experiences. Being "mixed" has its own challenges and its unique priveleges :)

  • @KillShot-ln6mn
    @KillShot-ln6mn Před 3 lety +319

    Blacks are blacks, whites are whites, biracials are biracials.

    • @lotusflower2517
      @lotusflower2517 Před 3 lety +30

      THAT PART!!!

    • @KillShot-ln6mn
      @KillShot-ln6mn Před 3 lety +67

      @Glock hands87 If both ur parents are black, you black, if both ur parents are white, you white, if your parents are 2 different races then you're biracial. Having a lil bit of other DNA means almost nothing if supposedly everyone has it, time to look at dominants then, reminds me of white girls with like 2 percent native DNA then claiming they're mixed.

    • @KillShot-ln6mn
      @KillShot-ln6mn Před 3 lety +3

      @Glock hands87 No problem brother, stay blessed & safe 👍

    • @rylordrylord7347
      @rylordrylord7347 Před 3 lety +1

      Biracials can be any race as long as they the same

    • @bennilyn4372
      @bennilyn4372 Před 3 lety +4

      Exactly! I don't know why that is so hard to understand.

  • @PRINCESSGEMINI1987
    @PRINCESSGEMINI1987 Před 3 lety +177

    Mixed race people born and raised in Africa have a different experience to mixed race people born and raised aboard when they are in Africa.

    • @zoem9686
      @zoem9686 Před 3 lety +5

      Yep

    • @LB_die_Kaapie
      @LB_die_Kaapie Před 3 lety +8

      @Jay Blood It's a different experience here in Africa for us mixed race people.

    • @carolbazunu2274
      @carolbazunu2274 Před 3 lety

      Very truevl

    • @carolbazunu2274
      @carolbazunu2274 Před 3 lety

      Very true

    • @muhammadyazeed6411
      @muhammadyazeed6411 Před 3 lety +15

      Very true! A childhood friend of mine gets all the fine girls when we were growing up. He gets special treatment from people and mostly think his dad must be rich enough to marry and bring a white woman to Africa.

  • @blususpect
    @blususpect Před 3 lety +10

    As a light skin Somali whos been to Somalia 🇸🇴 and Kenya 🇰🇪 all I half to say is the African continent has some of the kindest people in the world! And they don’t care what your skin color is! 🙌🏽

  • @electricbutterfly65
    @electricbutterfly65 Před 3 lety +4

    She is right! We as African Americans have been brainwashed about other Africans and I personally remember growing up with negative impressions of Africans. It's sad, and some African Americans WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING AFRICAN! It's horrible. It wasn't until I joined the Black Student Union and really learned about the unity of black people around the world and an appreciation for being African.

  • @ahakwahbot
    @ahakwahbot Před 3 lety +200

    Can we stop making blanket disparaging comments. Instead of: ‘AAs, this and that. Or Africans, this and that’.
    Let’s instead say: ‘In my experience, SOME AAs...or SOME Africans...’
    This is how intelligent, rational adults speak. We don’t make blanket generalizations when speaking about important topics. We ALL need to do better!

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 Před 3 lety +10

      I agree but of course we don’t need to say SOME all the time ...as I’m pretty sure that we know they mean but some ppl don’t take it that way

    • @smileyaz385
      @smileyaz385 Před 3 lety +6

      @@sumeya1923 Butb the thing is not all of us know what they mean. Or at least it shouldn't be up to us to try and figure out exactly what they mean.
      When someone in the USA says "black people do.....", we can all reasonably assume that they are talking about black people in their own country.
      The problem however rises when a video like this says "Africans believe/think/say/do.....". In this video alone there are only 4 people who are supposed to represent a continent of over 50 countries. I don't think I have to point out that people living in Egypt, Mali and Botswana will have vastly different experiences for example.
      And of course this isn't the only video to do this but like the original commenter said, we must be careful in just labeling a big group of people under one giant umbrella.

    • @ahakwahbot
      @ahakwahbot Před 3 lety +3

      @@sumeya1923 We use words to communicate thoughts/ideas. The more accurate the word choice, the more accurate the communication. A lot of the comments on this thread would be moot points if the subjects in this video hadn't spoken disparagingly about other peoples of African descent, while promoting negative generalizations.
      We must speak more highly about each other, and at the very least, be specific when addressing a negative situation/experience.

    • @makizee6.023
      @makizee6.023 Před 3 lety +1

      Wode Maya really needs to really learn that.

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sumeya1923 nah it has to be said. Not saying it is what creates more ignorant people that just believe this kind of thing when they hear it

  • @yaboit3ngu763
    @yaboit3ngu763 Před 3 lety +47

    I’m from California and biracial and have only ever had positive interactions with Africans and they’re extremely polite.

    • @caramelqueen0518
      @caramelqueen0518 Před 3 lety

      There are only 3 categories....white , non white and white supremacist. Everyone in the west has Europeans blood so to lessen confusion you are obviously a non white

    • @ckbv1767
      @ckbv1767 Před 3 lety +1

      @Kofi Sam "I can love any race and still maintain my self-steem" Exactly!!💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @africasfinest52
    @africasfinest52 Před 3 lety +99

    I love Vanessa’s explanation of being mixed race. Call a spade a spade, they are mixed race!!!

    • @deedeelaveen6872
      @deedeelaveen6872 Před 3 lety +6

      African Americans are mixed race.

    • @raphrobe-9896
      @raphrobe-9896 Před 3 lety +9

      @@deedeelaveen6872 Not all of them.

    • @raphrobe-9896
      @raphrobe-9896 Před 3 lety +10

      @@villageboydee For you to say African Americans are mixed race, and amongst 46 million people, NOT EVEN one is 100% African is completely innacurate😅 there're some if not many who are 100% African, Lmao not even most Africans are 100% African💀(WELP!!) but yeah, you right, the reason African Americans blend in with Africa and Africans is because it was meant to be so, it's their land too!

    • @villageboydee
      @villageboydee Před 3 lety +3

      If you do your research you’ll see that the average AA is 65-75% African. Louis Gates from Harvard completed a study on it. Are there some of us who have more? Sure. But that’s not the case most of the time.

    • @sharoncox4288
      @sharoncox4288 Před 3 lety +3

      @@villageboydee not true , according to scriptures Romans 11: 1-7 TMH YAH preserved his seed 1st TMH YAH PRESERVED 7000 MEN who have never mixed and there is also an remnant according to the election of grace . We must know who we are and speak facts other wise we are like a tree that has no roots.. it was and still is sin for the chosen to.mix their seed with other nations. Tobit 4: 12-13 mixing is sin , numbers 36: 6-9 we all are from nations and tribes of people and our nation are blessed for marrying within their own tribes . Joshua 23: 12-13 If you marry these strange people TMH YAH will destroy you. Israel the chosen !

  • @nubiandiary-ubele2015
    @nubiandiary-ubele2015 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank You Wode Maya for this particular video. The interview with the 3 beautiful Ladies. Vanessa was very fortunate to have had the opportunity to travel every 2 years to Ghana as a child. Marinta is the most Blessed because she had the opportunity to grow up in Ghana. Anna has had the most racial experience and it is exactly the same for a Black people living in Europe where it is severe as she explained by the Christmas season - Santa Clas in the Netherlands. Wode there is also a struggle with being mixed black where one of you parents is from the following:- Caribbean/America/Canada/Britain/ the rest of Europe and the other parent is from Africa. It would be good to interview them too. In England there are a lot of Ghanaians who have married Caribbean's which is beautiful too. Your channel is inspirational and continue with Your Great Works - Ghana Baby!!!

  • @Life_Simplified11
    @Life_Simplified11 Před 3 lety +99

    Wode Maya you need to do a video and ask the people of mixed race if they are enjoying Ghana because of the priviledges they get due to them being light skin

    • @veinsofafricanblood7519
      @veinsofafricanblood7519 Před 3 lety +16

      I second that👍🏾👍🏾

    • @MissFlorenceBeauty
      @MissFlorenceBeauty Před 3 lety +19

      Cyril Simpson OMG how ignorant this comment is... so light skinned people supposedly having privileges (can’t speak on that, never been there) is a reason to be upset at the mixed people or the people who create those privileges for them??? So I am suppose to forever live in a racist white person society, so you don’t feel like other people are giving me privileges based upon my skin tone?! Makes absolutely no sense my friend

    • @cmben
      @cmben Před 3 lety +27

      @@MissFlorenceBeauty just because you cant speak on it doesn't mean it don't happen.

    • @MissFlorenceBeauty
      @MissFlorenceBeauty Před 3 lety +17

      cmben I know it’s a thing... but it’s a thing WORLDWIDE!! In South America for example people with my skin tone, especially women, are being looked down on, white women are the goddesses. I was a young girl, ashamed of me skin tone, hair texture, wishing I was white, blond with straight hair because I grew up in Europe and that’s what I saw growing up. So don’t @me for privilege. I am well aware it happens. What I’m saying is, me wanting to connect with my roots has absolutely nothing to do with me thinking: yeah let’s move to Africa so I can take advantage of my privileges there. Stop making it seem like everyone cares about that. I literally couldn’t care less. I want to connect to my Ghanaian side and that shouldn’t be a problem just because I am not 100% Ghanaian...

    • @boxgaming281
      @boxgaming281 Před 3 lety +16

      SOME BIRACIALS MAKE IT HARD FOR THE AUTHENTIC ONES!
      IN AMERICA MOST OF THEM CRINGE @ BEING CALLED BLACK!!
      THEY RIDE TGE FENCE OF BOTH RACES

  • @kwakuasap102
    @kwakuasap102 Před 3 lety +148

    The title should be “struggle as a mixed race in the western world” bcuz in Africa, being mixed gets you some extra special treatment. I think it depends on where they are at a time. In Ghana they will feel more home than the west

    • @adrianojoaquimnovelanovela7615
      @adrianojoaquimnovelanovela7615 Před 3 lety +4

      I agree with you.

    • @Ada-zg2qb
      @Ada-zg2qb Před 3 lety +1

      Agreed

    • @peachbutler9566
      @peachbutler9566 Před 3 lety

      "Extra special treatments"???? Wow!

    • @kwakuasap102
      @kwakuasap102 Před 3 lety +12

      Peach Butler yup. This isn’t different from all those light skin dark skin jokes that used to be so popular amongst our people before social media (Instagram to be exact) Remember this conversation had always existed and I believe its root sterns from Slavery. Remember the masters will rape the women and their offsprings will he kept in the house mostly than the field. It trickles town till today. If a light skin and darker skin walks into a space of men, they will give more attention to the lighter one. Have you forgotten how America hip hop videos used to be? Same thing

    • @hourexodus5204
      @hourexodus5204 Před 3 lety +8

      @Diane M. not true in America. Mixed (light skinned) people are elevated over fully black people in the US.

  • @chooseempathy108
    @chooseempathy108 Před 2 lety +4

    I'm actually an African from South Sudan born and raised in Canada. My parents were born in South Sudan and spent much of their early adult years there but were forced to leave South Sudan and relocate to Canada due to the Civil War. With that being said, my parents made sure my siblings and I never lost our culture, our language, our identity. Yes, I am a Canadian citizen but I consider myself African. I fluently speak my mother tongue along with English, I still keep my South Sudanese culture (i.e. I prepare cultural dishes, I own cultural clothing and understand the signifance behind specific pieces, I know my cultural dances, and I respect the obligations that I have to my family back in South Sudan -- sending them money, checking in, etc). So, although it saddens me to hear and see that many Africans who were born outside of Africa are "lost" and don't keep up with their culture, it's important to consider and note the various factors (systemic racism, segregation, the Atlantic slave trade, etc) that cause some African Americans to react a certain way. We're all African at the end of the day and it's okay to be with any race, just make sure to keep your culture and teach your children your culture as well because it is their culture too :). The whole "race" notion is a social construct anyway, we're all human at the end of the day.

  • @Che1980s
    @Che1980s Před rokem +1

    Thank you Maya for bringing up topics such as this. Much love my brother 🙏🏾

  • @Ferrist1
    @Ferrist1 Před 3 lety +425

    No what's lost is thinking that bringing home a non black person is an achievement. That's fetishization and self hate imo.

    • @shayscott7498
      @shayscott7498 Před 3 lety +40

      All over the world -- caribbean no different.

    • @arifullahabba8682
      @arifullahabba8682 Před 3 lety +32

      Very true it’s sad though 🤦‍♂️

    • @mariasingh3424
      @mariasingh3424 Před 3 lety +43

      If a Indian person brings home a white person it's seen as an achievement as well😂

    • @audreymay9378
      @audreymay9378 Před 3 lety +49

      It’s due to colonialism and white supremacy

    • @jeromewilliams5101
      @jeromewilliams5101 Před 3 lety +6

      @@mariasingh3424 are you an Indian if I may ask???

  • @bertaseyeview9422
    @bertaseyeview9422 Před 3 lety +162

    For real as Ghanaians we must stop calling Asian people or people with a monolid Chinese.

    • @kkv6124
      @kkv6124 Před 3 lety +57

      And they must stop disrespecting you in your own house. They are guest on the land they eat.

    • @bertaseyeview9422
      @bertaseyeview9422 Před 3 lety +7

      @@kkv6124I agree with that.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 Před 3 lety +4

      A lot of people in the US and Latin America do the same.

    • @saeon4427
      @saeon4427 Před 3 lety +5

      Who cares tell them.to stop being racist

    • @bertaseyeview9422
      @bertaseyeview9422 Před 3 lety +7

      @@saeon4427 A lot of Asians are racist, yes, but that's not what I was talking about.

  • @allenlloyd5875
    @allenlloyd5875 Před 3 lety +12

    I’m a light skin African-American and I like to be called an African. When I went to Kenya in 1997 it was no problems like there is now with Africans concerning race. Things change.

    • @AlphaOmega888
      @AlphaOmega888 Před 3 lety +4

      tha'ts because yall hatred spread over to them

    • @nairobinyeusi5811
      @nairobinyeusi5811 Před 3 lety +1

      Once you decide to be an enemy of the Black Race then Africans will surely make you know you aren't wanted in their land. The light skinned people/mixed have had a reputation of degrading darker blacks that's why In South Africa thry are completely cut off the African family tree, they are a completely different race altogether. Same is slowly applying to the rest of Africa.

    • @lilyo.9802
      @lilyo.9802 Před 2 lety

      The “degree of blackness” really doesn’t matter that much in west Africa.. I think it’s a Southern Africa thing because of the whole “colored” race they have in SA. In Ghana, being called “Obroni” is not derogatory. It’s just a description of your light skin. Even full Ghanaians who are light skinned may be called Obroni.

  • @dogapart4701
    @dogapart4701 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the video Wode Maya. It was a great conversation with three beautiful ladies. Subscribed the channel.👍️

  • @blessednowandforever2300
    @blessednowandforever2300 Před 3 lety +25

    I really like your videos! Florida born and raised. I’m seeing Africa in a whole new light! Great job you are doing.

    • @frankbekoe3109
      @frankbekoe3109 Před 3 lety

      You have space to yourself in Africa to breath in

    • @tazawarahyashyasharahla6748
      @tazawarahyashyasharahla6748 Před 3 lety +1

      Remember tho African Americans and Africans are different the bible calls african Americans, hebrew Israelites from the tribe of judah and Africans hamites we all dont identify ourselves with what God calls us that's the root of confusion. You are who your father is at the end of the day.

  • @vikingv2000
    @vikingv2000 Před 3 lety +67

    To my Americans from African decent. I apologise for my ignorance and finally understand your struggles and stand with you in this fight for equality💪🏿💪🏿

  • @carlacurado4089
    @carlacurado4089 Před 3 lety

    Great you raised this topic for discuss. Congratulations for what you are doing.

  • @stacieellis
    @stacieellis Před 3 lety +12

    A lot of people say African Americans and Africans don’t get along but that has never been my experience. I live in Texas where there are quite a few Africans and I never witnessed that hate. Sometimes we don’t even know they are African until they tell us.

    • @nappykite7132
      @nappykite7132 Před 3 lety

      Mixed girl she turn black with that white where are y'all they on us over and out,
      We don't have sex is such minimum so many girls don't know that, I have green eyes, does that mean we can turn black ?
      If you are american or western bred, we want to leave you with a great impression,
      Shalum, no sex?

    • @lorialabriel6165
      @lorialabriel6165 Před 3 lety +2

      Nappy Kiate the fuck you talking about are you high

    • @nappykite7132
      @nappykite7132 Před 3 lety

      The mixed one, the young one

  • @sirc625
    @sirc625 Před 3 lety +269

    To say that African Americans don't like Africans is false. We all don't think alike. I will say that because of our cultural differences we don't necessarily go out of our way to mingle with African immigrants. It's not on purpose, it's just how the United States is. People tend to gravitate towards people more like themselves.

    • @lovmcpherson2188
      @lovmcpherson2188 Před 3 lety +29

      Not true, black people really don't like their own, they prefer other races more. Lucifer (the gods of this world) program such?

    • @RLModerndayJoseph
      @RLModerndayJoseph Před 3 lety +4

      exactly.

    • @jmmmenelik4784
      @jmmmenelik4784 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree

    • @NanaKNOwusu
      @NanaKNOwusu Před 3 lety +22

      The media created the wedge. The walls are coming down.

    • @zanguiza
      @zanguiza Před 3 lety +9

      Lov McPherson, that is not true!

  • @whysoserious918
    @whysoserious918 Před 3 lety +67

    The thing is that Africa is so diverse it has countries with mixed looking people, the first girl from the left could blend in Ethiopia, the blasian girl could blend in Madagascar and Vanessa would easily blend in Cape Verde. If people want to blend in, there are various places.

    • @sammyr6911
      @sammyr6911 Před 3 lety

      Yeah they look Polynesian

    • @arkmanevr2073
      @arkmanevr2073 Před 3 lety +3

      @Adrian Bradey no they can t pass in north africa at all ;maybe south of mauritania ;

    • @ilovelife3328
      @ilovelife3328 Před 3 lety +4

      In America, no one would bat an eye at any of them. They wouldn't feel out of place at all because America is so mixed up as is. Vanessa looks like some of my family members.

    • @arkmanevr2073
      @arkmanevr2073 Před 3 lety +4

      @Adrian Bradey even north africans morrocans who are mixed with westafricans(harratins) don t look like that mixed race girls ;focus on the features not the skin color ; they can t pass as north africans ; maybe west africans inmigrants living there or mixed race morrocans plus west africans(harratins)

    • @arkmanevr2073
      @arkmanevr2073 Před 3 lety +6

      @Adrian Bradey are you american right ?you guys focus a lot on skin color not features ;race is not about skin color;

  • @thelucien3351
    @thelucien3351 Před 3 lety +11

    Marintia was mostly right when she talked about the relationship between Africans and African-Americans. Being Liberian-American my experience was very unique because my parents were very accepting of African-Americans and never spoke negatively about them. In Liberia we have a close relationship with them and even celebrate MLK Day! It was when I got to school I realized they didn’t accept Africans as their own. This angered me for a long time. When I got older my Nigerian and Congolese friends told me how they were pretty much raised to look down on African-Americans and I started to see the true miscommunication between our communities. Propaganda has done a number on us from both sides. All that said it’s amazing content creators like you that have started to change the narrative and here in the states it’s becoming very apparent that both sides are realizing the beauty of the other. Keep up the fantastic work Wode Maya!!!

    • @jasonMB999
      @jasonMB999 Před 2 lety

      I would actually rather be African than African american. I feel that there's too much negatives associated with African americans. First of all i don't think im a ganster from the hood, second, I am not impressed by how white people speak and don't think they speak more "proper". Thirdly, I think jewelry should be left to women. 4th, i don't gind it cool to show off how much money you csn spend, flaunting is not only an African american thing but fir them it is a priority. I mean... I'd rather just be African.

    • @thelucien3351
      @thelucien3351 Před 2 lety

      @@jasonMB999 🤔 I understand your preferences but I wouldn’t say all those things are exclusive to African-Americans. Plenty of African men (and men from many other cultures) wear jewelry for instance…

  • @lcousart2
    @lcousart2 Před 2 lety +3

    Wondering maya I'm a African American in America and I'm really a man living in America. Brother I swear you have opened my eyes on Africa so much in America they only put out bad things about the motherland I mean its bad places everywhere in any country but brother you making a difference I started watching your videos one day ago and I can't stop I took off work today just to get more enlighten on the motherland you breaking barriers my neighbor is from Ghana and I went to him today and I had questions for him and when I showed him your channel he hugged me and said your great man he watches you too and we never really talked because he always work and we just say hey and bye but he just left my home today and we talked for 3 hours man I'm coming home to Africa I got to go before I leave this earth your pure inspiration and keep doing what you do now let me get back to your videos my wife jealous but your amazing love you brother

  • @royaldiadem8660
    @royaldiadem8660 Před 3 lety +314

    Guys let's be honest though,mixed people don't have real problems in Africa,walk into an interview with the same credentials as a mixed race person and be sure to not get the position,they are always favoured which is sad cos it's a subtle sign of how inferior we see ourselves

    • @D13vest
      @D13vest Před 3 lety +97

      They never talk about this but instead they want to make it seem like black people are just as racist as the white people they came from because they dont want to tell the truth about their racist parent

    • @gigibigh5057
      @gigibigh5057 Před 3 lety +44

      True at the mixed priviledge they do enjoy in Africa.
      Growing up the only times that I have observed mixed kids having a hard time are :
      1. If they have a black mum and there is no white father in the picture..they are called bastards quite often.
      2. If their parents are poor and lower income earners and they live in the " hood"- the kids are given a real hard time becos unfortunately Africans used to think all whites were rich.

    • @TheOptimalWay
      @TheOptimalWay Před 3 lety +4

      That's just as stupid as me saying non "mixed" people in Africa don't have real problems.

    • @watchingthehawks355
      @watchingthehawks355 Před 3 lety +40

      Yes indoctrination and colonisation did a bad job on our people many still thinks White is a savior because of what churches had preached and indoctrinate our people with.

    • @miahl4814
      @miahl4814 Před 3 lety +53

      Facts.
      Their proximity to whiteness mixed with our anti-Black mentality is fatal. We are suicidal when we uplift the products of interracial unions rather than put our own on a pedestal. Our competitors have done an amazing job at twisting our psychology to their benefit and to our detriment. Certainly the mixed race/biracial offspring will be and is used as a buffer class.

  • @tifai3093
    @tifai3093 Před 3 lety +123

    Not all African Americans are like that. For all my 18 years in the US I have only experienced it once. I feel comfortable more around African Americans. They are strong, motivated, and they endure alot.

    • @newsnowpan-afrika2875
      @newsnowpan-afrika2875 Před 3 lety +1

      I don't think any of them have lived in America for an extended period of time. My take czcams.com/video/RjQYxOf5oAo/video.html

    • @lammuri
      @lammuri Před 3 lety

      True. Obviously with 40 million population over different generations not all will have the same view. Similarly out the 1.3 billion Africans a million of who are in America not all think the same way. Here is very positive article on AAs by a Ghanaian lady in America: www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/features/The-blindspot-Owning-my-African-privilege-in-a-racialized-America-1055512

  • @augustodesouza2914
    @augustodesouza2914 Před 3 lety +5

    Very interesting interview. You girls are beautiful and articulate. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us.

  • @andreslinares302
    @andreslinares302 Před 3 lety +1

    Maaan I just loved your video! I really enjoyed the topics touched and the personal histories of the girls. Personally, I'm Afrobolivian, which means, I descend from Africans who were took from Africa to Bolivia(South America) in the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade as slaves and mixed with Europeans and locals, and throughout the years, we developed our own culture and customs mixing African, Aymara, Quechua and Spanish culture. You know, for us Afrodescendants in the Diaspora it has been a long and complicated journey to freedom, to understand our true identity, where we came from, and what all these things means, countries like the U.S. who holds the second place at the countries with the most highest Afrodescendant population in the world, struggled for so many years that sometimes it seems like the structural racism affected them really hard because they, like Marintia said, think that only black is beautiful and the best, but just their blackness and not other types of blackness, too. But affirming that, this only happens in the U.S. is wrong because it happens in all the Diaspora, even in my country. When somebody of our communities mix with somebody from another racial identity, there's always a kind of stigma or hate, you know. I think that is because of all the historical social, structural, and institutionalized racism in our societies, and that's why I love this type of content, real content, we should start this discussion in every place, from Africa to all the Diaspora. Identity is complicated, but very needed and beautiful.

  • @gretagassaway8925
    @gretagassaway8925 Před 3 lety +35

    Omg! I am called an African American woman. Mixed race.
    I interact with some Africans and I love them.
    It is my desire to live in Ghana. Wish I could live there. Tv producer writer.
    Bachelor in communication. If I had a job. I would leave tomorrow. Love your show! WODE MAYA!
    Much success to u.

    • @theben10futureyamin70
      @theben10futureyamin70 Před 3 lety

      So nice to hear that sis. All the best 👍👍👍 all the way from Dr Congo

    • @kaybee3757
      @kaybee3757 Před 3 lety +6

      I suggest you rather work on setting up your own movie production house .

    • @tvs9978
      @tvs9978 Před 3 lety

      @@kaybee3757 that would take a lot of money

    • @tvs9978
      @tvs9978 Před 3 lety +2

      @Greta Gassaway start making connections with the local film community. Following their instagram or Facebook pages. Institutions like NAFTI, Ghana Broadcasting Corporation or private media houses. That way you can start networking for work opportunities

    • @gretagassaway8925
      @gretagassaway8925 Před 3 lety

      TVS Ltd thank you so much. I certainly will. Praying and answering the call of God on my life. My aim is to go home Africa, learn from the Queen’s there and bless them in return. God’s best to you.

  • @evemason3456
    @evemason3456 Před 3 lety +61

    I think mixed race people should be free to claim both heritages. They shouldn't have to choose one because they are a mixture!

    • @jondoe6976
      @jondoe6976 Před 3 lety +17

      and those of the heritage they claim should be free to reject them

    • @ladyg163
      @ladyg163 Před 3 lety +2

      If you mix white paint with blk , it’s not white no more

    • @JF-jh9nj
      @JF-jh9nj Před 3 lety +15

      Lady G it doesn't make black either

    • @JF-jh9nj
      @JF-jh9nj Před 3 lety +12

      Jacqueline Grant no, that just means white people make the choice ”one drop rule” and black people accept it. Black people need to think for themselves. Mixed people are black and white (Other) not one or the other. They are usually proud of both their mother and fathers lineage. The confusion comes when they deny one side in favor of the other. If you let other people's labels determine your identity you will have a lot of internal conflict. Personally why I will only marry black and keep it simple. Plus I love being black-black.

    • @MedusasSnakePit
      @MedusasSnakePit Před 3 lety +2

      Jacqueline Grant it’s the same in Australia too

  • @kingslj
    @kingslj Před 3 lety +2

    Very interesting! I will share it with a family member with kids that have some Japanese blood. Thanks.

  • @jerryfay5746
    @jerryfay5746 Před 3 lety +4

    I as a black American have nothing against Africans , what my experiences have been is that we are culturally different so we do not connect without making an purposed effort , I also find this true with blacks from other countries like south America and the Caribbean ,as American blacks we don't always connect easily but it's not because we don't want to it's the culture difference.
    This has been my personal experience.

    • @ncheedxx0109
      @ncheedxx0109 Před 3 lety

      Well said. I agree. Black Africans & African Americans are just culturally different from each other. We should accept that & move on. Skinfolk ain't kinfolk.

  • @ipat4556
    @ipat4556 Před 3 lety +9

    I am half Ghanaian and half Dutch. Born & raised in the Netherlands and have visited Ghana regularly. In my experience both in Ghana and the Netherlands I personally have not come across too many racism. It is true that in both countries they will let you know that you are not white or black, as a mixed race sometimes it is therefor difficult to know where you belong and have the feeling that you need to make a choice between one or the other. In the Netherlands they will let me know I’m different but most often ignore my skin colour, I only receive curious questions about my ethnicity. Btw I was also raised in a white environment, luckily without the bad experiences that Anna has had to welcome in her life but I do sometimes have the feeling I’m not included since I’m not fully Dutch and have a different cultural background.. In Ghana im most often welcomed as their own and often told that I am Ghanaian/African :) Only people (especially children) who don’t know me and come from a distance will call me obroni, I’m fine with it since I am foreign and also feel comfortable with my Dutch cultural background and also expect a response like this however still would like to blend in more sometimes to avoid too many eyes on me plus higher taxi rates lol but I think every foreign person would experience this no matter black or white and for the people saying that mixed-race receive more privileges, I wouldn’t know which. I talk about Ghana everyday, to me Ghana is love, a place I call home.. Call me obroni, half-caste, White, black, Dutch, I am proud to tell you I am a Ghanaian

  • @onetwothree1201
    @onetwothree1201 Před 3 lety +35

    "Don't care where you come from as long as you're a black man you're an African
    No mind your complexion there is no rejection" -Peter Tosh

    • @AlphaOmega888
      @AlphaOmega888 Před 3 lety

      "Peter M. Tosh, OM (born Winston Hubert McIntosh; 19 October 1944 - 11 September 1987) was a Jamaican reggae musician."

  • @aromaofzanzibar
    @aromaofzanzibar Před 3 lety +60

    Am an African married to African American, my children always had issues in School coz their mother is an immigrant . Personally I have never had issue with other African Americans when I tell them am African, they find it weird coz am more light skinned than other Africans, I usually have to explain that I come from the Island ( Zanzibar ) and we have all sorts of skin tones.

    • @WODEMAYA
      @WODEMAYA  Před 3 lety +4

      I love your Channel!

    • @aromaofzanzibar
      @aromaofzanzibar Před 3 lety +2

      @@WODEMAYA Thank you!

    • @sibonisovilakazi3413
      @sibonisovilakazi3413 Před 3 lety +16

      Don’t Afrikans in general have all sorts of skin tones? Here in South Afrika and in fact anywhere in Afrika, there are all kinds of skin tones because the black mother is God and can give birth to all colours.

    • @mgasathedon1579
      @mgasathedon1579 Před 3 lety +1

      @@aromaofzanzibar dada mambo vp nijibu kama wew ni mzanzibar

    • @aromaofzanzibar
      @aromaofzanzibar Před 3 lety

      @@mgasathedon1579 sawa

  • @muvirimig
    @muvirimig Před 2 lety +2

    I really enjoyed this, informative as well, Here in Africa we are 'welcoming' people

  • @justiceerimjunior3949
    @justiceerimjunior3949 Před 3 lety +217

    To be honest this wasn't about African Americans the discussion was about mixed race, I don't get the comments am seeing everyone talking about African Americans

    • @yutheflerlim5224
      @yutheflerlim5224 Před 3 lety +14

      Bc the person in the video said, "write in the comments below if you think African Americans treat Africans differently"

    • @abixo2256
      @abixo2256 Před 3 lety +35

      @Fay Con you cannot look "african american", they look mixed race... we have mixed race people here in Africa too

    • @abixo2256
      @abixo2256 Před 3 lety +19

      Fay Con not mostly , only some there are a lot of black Americans . Some are mixed with white because maybe an ancestor was raped but that doesn’t mean they are mixed race if they have a small percentage of white

    • @abixo2256
      @abixo2256 Před 3 lety +9

      @Fay Con Mixed kids dont look mexican they look mixed. Some mixed people look more black whereas some are white passing. Some have freckles some dont. Stop generalizing a group of people . There are "darker" ones, all over the US and Africa too

    • @ronaldomazzatini3129
      @ronaldomazzatini3129 Před 3 lety +18

      African Americans think they have the monopoly on being black. They seem to think that everything is based off of their history.

  • @saidysmith8496
    @saidysmith8496 Před 3 lety +22

    Thank you for having this discussion you guys! It’s so needed. I identify with both my cultures Liberian 🇱🇷 & Swedish 🇸🇪 but I grew up in Liberia, that’s where I’m rooted, so I’m Liberian but I am also very Swedish too and I’ve lived in Sweden the longest. I’m just 100% ME 🤎

    • @PositiveContinentNews
      @PositiveContinentNews Před 3 lety +2

      Half Liberian here, myself. Except, I'm Gambian on my other side.

    • @MrFasho123
      @MrFasho123 Před 2 lety

      Roligt att man ser en annan svensk kommentera här. :P

  • @NatsGreaterReset
    @NatsGreaterReset Před 3 lety +5

    Woohoo nice to see some representation for the mixed races! Filipino Uganda here

  • @ladiangewmula9669
    @ladiangewmula9669 Před 3 lety +3

    My lovely sisters 💕 welcome back home we all love you guys so much, i appreciate your messages to all Africans, i will like to say once more you guys are part of us sister ❤

  • @GCarnell
    @GCarnell Před 3 lety +31

    Wode, thank you for this episode. It’s so very unfortunate that each of them have received the backlash and poor treatment that they’ve gotten. Growing up (in the U.S.), my family had someone of nearly every hue. As an example, my sister and Vanessa are the same color, while I am a couple of shades darker than she is... As far as African Americans not getting along with Africans in the U.S., that has NOT been my experience. America is a very large place. It would be very unfair to paint such a broad brush on limited experiences.

    • @beaujac311
      @beaujac311 Před 3 lety +1

      G. Carnell:. This is the best comment yet.

    • @jaeesmichelle
      @jaeesmichelle Před 3 lety +1

      i agree!
      growing up in the SOUTH as a black person is a completely different experience than growing up in the Northern states. both will experience racism, but it's not the same type.
      i would assume this person was raised up North from this comment, where are you from?

    • @bibiayisi4191
      @bibiayisi4191 Před 3 lety +3

      It's my prayer that every African-American would get the chance to visit Africa, I mean not to stay if they don't want to, in order to familiarise themselves with the culture on the continent and tell their own stories about Africa instead of what the media in America has given them. In so doing they would get to that there are people who are living good in Africa and are more comfortable there than they would have been in America. This will help them in appreciating their roots better than they 'some' of them do now.

    • @GCarnell
      @GCarnell Před 3 lety +1

      @jaees michelle-Yes, that’s correct, I was born and raised in NYC; however, I also have deep roots in NC. Those experiences have given me a much broader perspective than those who’ve limited their time to the N.E.

  • @kelvinquartey8887
    @kelvinquartey8887 Před 3 lety +16

    what the Japanese Ghanaian lady said about Africans and African Americans not liking each other in the USA is very true! It's so wierd like we're all black🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @pinkglow15
      @pinkglow15 Před 3 lety

      not true

    • @discerninggroup6181
      @discerninggroup6181 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes it's due to the aggressive brainwashing policy maintained by the oppressor to forever keep the two branches of west Africans apart so they'll never communicate with each other

    • @discerninggroup6181
      @discerninggroup6181 Před 3 lety

      @Afro arkhitekton Not so.
      Other than in the event of war

  • @evelynnewburger3593
    @evelynnewburger3593 Před 3 lety +11

    To understand a “mix” race is to be one or a parent to one is definitely not as easy as we think. Very informative thx

  • @annitawillis1176
    @annitawillis1176 Před 3 lety +20

    TRUE, from the young lady in the middle. I'm a Jamaican living in the states. African American and African really don't associate like that. Unless its work, school or church related.

  • @alexrooney957
    @alexrooney957 Před 3 lety +115

    Half Accra half takoradi🤣🤣🤣

  • @AnnaLynn994
    @AnnaLynn994 Před 3 lety +125

    As a black American who went to a predominantly black school in the U.S., including a few African students, black Americans and Africans did not separate themselves. We got along just fine.

    • @nateShabazz
      @nateShabazz Před 3 lety +6

      We all do get along more than any other group, that's a fact but in depth when it's just us, alotta times differences are pointed out coz some of our family from the diaspora don't rock with the term "African American" they preffer black and a topic like that will open up more about how we create alot of separation amongst ourselves at the end of the day in times we shouldn't coz the system don't care if u was born in America with your family generations being American too, they gon' see u and I as the same person and we all gon' "fit eachother's description" to them!

    • @nateShabazz
      @nateShabazz Před 3 lety +4

      @Afro arkhitekton I feel u, fam. But just one thing I wanted to add is that, I been in Africa too and people out there love y'all so much. I'm only saying this coz alot of brothaz and sistaz think otherwise so they'll emphasize the "not African" part big time. But at the end of the day, u right u ain't African no more, but it don't hurt for all of us to kind of connect all the dots and re-build a bigger and better Family. As Black people from any part of the world, and this is best done by loving,learning and preserving an African culture in whatever way hence embracing our kind instead of any other ways that we adopt "with/without a choice". And I ain't even talkin bout u coz I know what u about by just reading your name, this message for all of us, African or not! We still got African in our blood💯.. Respeck🙏🏾

    • @nateShabazz
      @nateShabazz Před 3 lety +1

      @Afro arkhitekton Respect that,💯

    • @sumimaind
      @sumimaind Před 3 lety +6

      One thing I really don't like about Americans is the one drop rule thing. That's so racist! A mixed race person is obliged to identify as black because if they say they are mixed race people will say it's racist. It doesn't make any sense...

    • @AnnaLynn994
      @AnnaLynn994 Před 3 lety +3

      @@sumimaind That's not really a thing anymore as it was in the past to the extent you're thinking. Someone who's half black half white can put both white and black on some, if not most now, legal documents.

  •  Před 3 lety

    My album is based on t his topic. Being a Liberian born, raised in Brooklyn New York - I can relate to this!

  • @michaeliver8798
    @michaeliver8798 Před 3 lety +2

    Wode Maya, I am deeply humbled by all of your work. Thank you so much.
    Also, I want to thank you so much for this particular video. All of the comments that this has generated has been an amazing eye opening experience for this over 40 colored American. Aka mixed. The South African comedian, “Trevor Noah,” and I share a very scary similar life situation in both his experience here in the U.S. and in reading his book. Strange also in that was south Africa during apartheid in his childhood and mine was here in U.S. and both of our mothers had the same thing happen.

    • @bumbom-mongtv9417
      @bumbom-mongtv9417 Před 2 lety

      Hi wode Maya I buy some of the jacket your sister customer number

  • @burundishallsmile1day109
    @burundishallsmile1day109 Před 3 lety +99

    African peaple are naturally humen, warm and hospitable;we don't just hate unless there is a reason!

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal Před 3 lety +172

    Maya: These guys are missing the point. The biggest difference is the West differentiation is rooted in hate unlike the African.
    ***The African embrace their kids, mixed or not. The Euro does not embrace biracial kids. This is why the feel at home in Ghana.

    • @zman9315
      @zman9315 Před 3 lety +43

      Africans shouldnt be mixing in the first place tbh.

    • @sherrisolomon8673
      @sherrisolomon8673 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MedusasSnakePit Wth? They spit on you? Then if you retaliate by opening a can of whoop ass on them then they will say aboriginal is wrong. My heart goes out the your people because we have to deal with so many similar things. I watch Australian news as well.

    • @redeemablesoul
      @redeemablesoul Před 3 lety +2

      @@MedusasSnakePit dont accept that term its racist

    • @MedusasSnakePit
      @MedusasSnakePit Před 3 lety +7

      Sherri Solomon yes and thank you for your understanding. I had truly awful experiences with racism in Australia but I grew up in the 90s. I had a few African friends too when I was a teenager and they also had absolute horror stories to tell. Myself and one Ethiopian boy were actually chased by a carfull of young white men wielding axes once. I have children of my own now and although they do experience racism, here and there, thankfully they don’t have to deal with the same extent with regard to violence and assault. And also if you have a conversation with aboriginal people here you will truly appalled at the things they have survived in this country.

    • @horizonafrica3258
      @horizonafrica3258 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes AA came after Vanessa kambi on her own CZcams channel for marrying a white man. It’s so sad why they came after that beautiful woman as if she chooses to be mixed. AA hate mixed couples , they hate mixed people , they even hate their light skin children and will always come up with the slavery bullshit. Rubbish. There just so much hate in them , that they can’t think straight.

  • @ArcadeEraBeats
    @ArcadeEraBeats Před 3 lety +40

    I got bullied all through middle school by African Americans for “looking African”. They would do tribal dances and call me spear chucker and laugh. They also said your dark af almost everyday, which made me want to bleach my skin

    • @euniceeshun9942
      @euniceeshun9942 Před 3 lety +9

      I’m sorry you had to go through all that

    • @DJcyberslash
      @DJcyberslash Před 3 lety +28

      I'm African American. I am sorry to hear that, some of our people are lost and think that making fun of their own will get them butter biscuits from others. We love you no bleaching needed :) .

    • @jonathansivahera3886
      @jonathansivahera3886 Před 3 lety +3

      That was just ignorance and identity complex. Whether Americans of Afrodescent like it or not they will always be related to Africa and its history just as everybody is with the place they're from in one way or another.

    • @NNW97
      @NNW97 Před 3 lety +4

      @Inbred Andy african Americans that know their history are proud of their west African, Central African roots. The only AA that deny their roots are ones that have adopted the WHITE MANS teachings and ideologies. WHY ARE YOU even here. YOU ARE WHITE CLEARLY OBLIVIOUS TO THE BLACK EXPERIENCE. You have not right to speak on us. The same way we have not right to speak on white/Arab culture.

    • @omaroon2679
      @omaroon2679 Před 3 lety +1

      @Inbred Andy Stop generalizing.

  • @enochcheung9432
    @enochcheung9432 Před 3 lety +4

    Half Ghanian and Half Chinese, I grew up in Kano Nigeria. Left Ghana when I was very little. 1978. Need to come back soon

    • @homoeconomicus5711
      @homoeconomicus5711 Před 3 lety

      This is so interesting. How did you end up in Nigeria? Did you spend your childhood in Nigeria? Do you have a Nigerian accent?

  • @bvdo386
    @bvdo386 Před 3 lety +113

    Be careful of using 1 or two isolated cases and generalize about a whole group of people.

  • @davidas6291
    @davidas6291 Před 3 lety +136

    My Africa American friend cried when someone said she looked African. I just laughed and confused. I cut ties with her because she used to look down on me, said really really mean things to me and made fun of my bad days. But I have other great African Americans friends who want to visit and learn from me.
    P.S my comment is not to bash African Americans, most of my closest friends are A.A I love them and wouldn’t trade my friendship with them. If you African coming to the United State you have to be patient and don’t let bad experiences stop you from meeting amazing A.A.

    • @newsnowpan-afrika2875
      @newsnowpan-afrika2875 Před 3 lety +24

      You'll notice all the diaspora youtubers take pride if they are mistaken for a local, it's a self-hatred issue created by white supremacist american media.

    • @chigeh
      @chigeh Před 3 lety +11

      @@newsnowpan-afrika2875 this is true. I am mixed race but only once has someone thought I was black. Most times people call me Arab and I feel offended. On the few times that people asked me if I was Spanish or Italian, I felt complimented. It's internalized racism.

    • @quintinr.6760
      @quintinr.6760 Před 3 lety +4

      She is brain washed. See in America the imagery is push of Whites doing well, just based on their skin color (has nothing to do with race or ethnicity) only skin color. That type of “day in” and “day out” push to depict and glorify White America, is going to have 2 distinct effects on African Americans!!!
      You will:
      Want to or not want to be viewed as White, with all the underlining rights that come with it (

    • @davidas6291
      @davidas6291 Před 3 lety +1

      chigeh when I was young people used to call me Barbie doll because of how tiny I was and I would get offended. In my country if someone calls you a Barbie doll it means you built like a whit woman. I guess it really in the mind.

    • @Kalagenesis
      @Kalagenesis Před 3 lety +3

      Damn that’s messed up

  • @cspel002
    @cspel002 Před 3 lety +4

    What Anna said about the diaspora is true. There is so much that goes into this. I think it has to do with so much pain, bullying, abuse that we have as a people. I am full African American but have lighter skin. A girl in Kindergarden told me she couldn't play with me because i was black and bullied in 3rd grade because my hair was kinky. Some people may see interracial couples as a hurtful thing depending on their mindset. I hear most rejections of white women with black men because black women are seen as not being worthy in our society. We are often seen in a "less than" in many situations. So, some people think they are not worthy to be loved by our own.
    As far as blacks being angry about being called African, I believe one reason is because in America, Africa is mostly shown in a negative way. Many of us are also dealing with identity crisis. Not understanding who we are and where we come from. This is why after meeting people in University from Ghana and various different African nations, I was able to understand where i came from and developed great strong friendships with African people. Knowing Ghanians connected me to my ancestors and i was also able to visit Ghana. Knowing African people and visiting Ghana was a healing process for me. Now i am more confident in who i am and am no longer ignorant. I encourage other African Americans to see Africa and its people as a good positive thing to embrace. I see it as a person who has gone through trauma and abuse and you now see the affects of that coming from the African diaspora. I think we are evolving and developing as a people more and more these past few years. I think it's excellent to have these conversations and understanding of one another so that we can better develop as a people.

  • @coachcones24
    @coachcones24 Před 3 lety +12

    What she said is very true. growing up many African Americans made fun of me for being african and often gave me ignorant comments. I think things are improving though

    • @secretlifeofrobbie
      @secretlifeofrobbie Před rokem +1

      And as an AA I just want to say that is the ignorance within our own community I’m a lighter skinned AA and my sister is a darker skinned AA and the jokes and dark comments and black comments I’ve heard people say to her are sickening and those comments came from other AA’s in our community AA’s will knock down their own people so I’m so sorry u had to experience that I hope one day my community will open their eyes and realize we’re all 1 and stop letting the colonizers divide us

    • @coachcones24
      @coachcones24 Před rokem +1

      @@secretlifeofrobbie the AA community is improving.. plus sometimes the roasting would be out of love and teasing and other times it would be hateful.. definitely taught me some good lessons

  • @jey524
    @jey524 Před 3 lety +354

    There’s no struggle for mixed race girls in Africa stopppp this

    • @illrizzocgg1009
      @illrizzocgg1009 Před 3 lety +33

      Exactly

    • @colouredgal
      @colouredgal Před 3 lety +38

      I don’t agree I got hated on in South Africa for being Coloured/mixed.

    • @gangsniper8555
      @gangsniper8555 Před 3 lety +22

      Stop lying we do

    • @asanteakan70
      @asanteakan70 Před 3 lety +65

      Historically the privileged class in Africa especially Ghana. The children of colonist were given higher status over the blacks. In Ghana they are also over represented in media.

    • @estherx5859
      @estherx5859 Před 3 lety +17

      Shut up you can’t speak on things that you haven’t experienced

  • @libbyrosewellnesschannel3398

    The world is so much more than black & white, Wode Maya I'm so glad you made this video ❤️

    • @MG-mj6zi
      @MG-mj6zi Před 3 lety +1

      Wada Maya is all love. That is why I subscribed to him!

    • @numpsey6750
      @numpsey6750 Před 3 lety

      @Zion Roots yep, thats how the enemy sees it.

    • @arushanioshaka5600
      @arushanioshaka5600 Před 3 lety

      @Kuro Zee fact brother

  • @franciscoquimuanga9317
    @franciscoquimuanga9317 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this mix race issue I really like 👍🏽

  • @momentswithadwoa5264
    @momentswithadwoa5264 Před 2 lety +1

    Good job Maya, love the motive behind this video.

  • @lenonxay2011
    @lenonxay2011 Před 3 lety +109

    It's not possible to be treated bad in Africa while being white, mixed or fair because we treat them better than ourselves even. It's the darker people in school or society that really have more struggles which is really surprising because we are Africans.

    • @frankie7529
      @frankie7529 Před 3 lety +5

      Albinos in Tanzania get treated the worst

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything Před 3 lety

      @@frankie7529 Yeah but they are sub saharan with white skin.

    • @rahavasolutions
      @rahavasolutions Před 3 lety +2

      Very very very true submission

    • @Jeremy-sj3pr
      @Jeremy-sj3pr Před 2 lety +8

      @@batavica4135 South Africa is different than west Africa in that regards. They’re generally more xenophobic than other Africans. In the west mixed race people and white people are definitely treated way better than other African people on average.

    • @toliagee
      @toliagee Před 2 lety +3

      @@Jeremy-sj3pr that's because in West Africa white people left a loooong time ago and noe they are viewed like mini gods. Southern Africa still have whites and more mixed race and nobody gives them better treatment than anyone else. They are just people.

  • @bishoptatum8737
    @bishoptatum8737 Před 3 lety +135

    As an African “American” (Americanized African) Man, I can tell you it’s some truth to what the Half Japanese/Half African sista was saying about AA’s and African relationships. But I feel like the topic is much more complex and complicated than that. Even when they spoke on interracial relationships and how African Americans only want to date Black ppl deserves a lot more context and detail. Race in America is a lot more hostile than the Netherlands, Japan or the UK. And interracial relationships in this country generally isn’t the most genuine of relationships in this country. Racism is deeply embedded in American culture. A white person can get in a relationship with a Black lesson and still have a disdain for Black people. So I think you really need some African Americans to fully speak on that topic brotha Wode Maya. But I respect they perspective and like always I appreciate you Wode. Btw I grew up in a Pan African household so I’ve always identify as an African. There are a significant amount of us that embrace our African identity and interact with Continental African Brothas and sistas. I have Nigerian/ Kenyan/ Ghanaian and Ugandan friends. But I understand the majority of my AA ppl do have anti- African feelings or just ignorance towards Africans. It’s complicated.

    • @africanglobalnomad
      @africanglobalnomad Před 3 lety +2

      True!

    • @123terricam
      @123terricam Před 3 lety +1

      barely in the uk . the uk is racist just beneath the usa. usa is ten uk is 9 on the list of most racist countries austrailia is 8. so i can't say there is much a difference just the usa has guns. japan is 5 on most racist list so i'd think twice before assuming any of them aren't racist.

    • @jariusisaac8616
      @jariusisaac8616 Před 3 lety +3

      terrica m the USA is currently promoting racism right now to try to became re-elected

    • @markrichardson1657
      @markrichardson1657 Před 3 lety +1

      you're right as well, but i feel people are overlooking the cultural differences between the two groups. meaning, though their all black people, peoples of africa have a different culture than those from the us, and ignorance on both sides contributes as well, but once the language barrier is hurdled, we find we have more in common than previously thought.

    • @burundishallsmile1day109
      @burundishallsmile1day109 Před 3 lety

      @Jade Star ✊🏾🇧🇮

  • @devs2kwik588
    @devs2kwik588 Před 3 lety +44

    Side note, in my community all of these women would be seen as “black”. I’m in the USA.

    • @cspel002
      @cspel002 Před 3 lety +10

      Yea that is a true point lol. In USA 1% of African blood you are considered black

    • @nalao4542
      @nalao4542 Před 3 lety +9

      Right, in US this is normal for us here to see. We don't really wonder is someone mixed or just light skin. We don't even care. Once your ethnic your ethnic. Done! 😂

    • @rushellrousseau9197
      @rushellrousseau9197 Před 3 lety +9

      Yea that comes out of the racist 1 drop system.

    • @swright4twenty
      @swright4twenty Před 3 lety +4

      However...many of us in the USA only accept them as black when it's convenient. Look at how we are dragging Kamala Harris. Now all of a sudden she is Indian instead of Black because many of us don't like her and did not want her to get that job.

    • @cspel002
      @cspel002 Před 3 lety

      @@swright4twenty thats facts.

  • @Mikestonebone
    @Mikestonebone Před 2 lety

    Great interview/conversation

  • @marquisejackson5697
    @marquisejackson5697 Před 3 lety +35

    Us African-Americans(not me) but us as a whole were conditioned to get away from anything dealing with Africa & we were stripped from our African identity.We want to be everything else except African.

    • @jojofresh1019
      @jojofresh1019 Před 3 lety +3

      True that’s why they treat other races better than Africans

    • @MissFlorenceBeauty
      @MissFlorenceBeauty Před 3 lety

      I am married to an African-American and he says exactly the same. They have brainwashed them so much that they can’t embrace anything related to Africa. Everything they are being thaught, if anything, is nothing they would be proud of. He now can embrace it, because he is married to me (half Ghanaian) and because he learned about the „real“ Africa. But to be fair, he has been not living in the US for almost 30 years, so he doesn’t really have their mindset anymore... it truly is sad

    • @reezak78
      @reezak78 Před 3 lety +1

      You right. as an African I can tell you it goes both ways though. Some Africans are really clueless about African-Americans history so that’s why there’s so much tensions between us. It is nothing but a results of Slavery and Colonization.

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 Před 3 lety

      really?

    • @reezak78
      @reezak78 Před 3 lety +2

      Deshone Robinson here we go again we that indigenous American. So question, where did you think your so called black indigenous Americans came from?

  • @Alexsh2010
    @Alexsh2010 Před 3 lety +39

    I love the girl who unapologetically mixed race. Vanessa I believe her name is. She seems very self aware and mature when it comes to this topic. I personally feel one should never make a person feel bad for loving BOTH sides of your culture! Despite some of the ignorance you may experience on each side.

    • @riverwilhelm-robertson2108
      @riverwilhelm-robertson2108 Před 3 lety +1

      Sean Tottenham Black Americans are a hybrid people. We are forced to accept mixed people, we simply make up a people group called African American. I don’t judge how other mixed people identify in other countries, so why does it matter how we mixed people identify in the U.S?

  • @okorno22
    @okorno22 Před 2 lety

    This one of your greatest and most important videos. Fantastic product

  • @topboxing4764
    @topboxing4764 Před 3 lety +7

    Issue solved: Where do you feel at home? "100%, I feel at home here in Ghana, Africa".

  • @awisemanoncesaidawisemanon6705

    This is why I do not date non black women, the confusion is real😔😔😯🙄

    • @jay_owusu3543
      @jay_owusu3543 Před 3 lety +8

      Agreed, brother.

    • @aaronaiysen7534
      @aaronaiysen7534 Před 3 lety +7

      Facts

    • @aaronaiysen7534
      @aaronaiysen7534 Před 3 lety +16

      I’ll never marry or have a kid with one. It’s not natural regardless what people say

    • @redeemablesoul
      @redeemablesoul Před 3 lety +12

      @@aaronaiysen7534 if it was not natural did God allow Moses to marry a wife that was not his race or Josef marry a woman not his race...you sound ignorant

    • @naaguebarry
      @naaguebarry Před 3 lety +23

      @@redeemablesoul my friend we don't mind about Moses, Joseph and that God. We Africans we gonna get married to those who look like to our mothers.

  • @andrewkusi7072
    @andrewkusi7072 Před 3 lety +67

    Regarding A & AA's That's what they have been doing since colonisation, divide and conquer. Keeping us spererate weakness us but united we are stronger, we are one people!

    • @carsonc29
      @carsonc29 Před 3 lety +2

      lets be honest, we didnt need colonization to be separate..even today we have clashes between tribes..that was around long before we knew that a white man was

    • @Jessica-ib8ri
      @Jessica-ib8ri Před 3 lety

      carsonc29 well there was nothing like colourism

  • @pdwyche
    @pdwyche Před 3 lety +1

    I can relate in so many ways with all 3 of these beautiful ladies .

  • @chantalmarieee
    @chantalmarieee Před 3 lety +4

    I feel the same as the last girl. I’m biracial (French and Jamaican) and growing up in the States, I identify as black, even though I grew up in an interracial household. Even though I’m equally black and white, I would never be able to call myself white or pass as white, like how I could call myself black and no one would bat an eye. Some applications/forms don’t even have a “two or more races /other /select all that apply”option, so I end up just putting black. My (white) teacher in high school legitimately told that I can’t be both, so I need to just pick one race. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @JusdoinstuF
      @JusdoinstuF Před 3 lety +5

      you are both regardless of what you look like on the outside. I wish there weren't so many ignorant racist people but here we are.

  • @ndivhumulondi3407
    @ndivhumulondi3407 Před 3 lety +8

    It’s amazing to see all four of you. I love your work.

  • @lavell888
    @lavell888 Před 3 lety +113

    It’s not true for all. I’ve gotten along with Africans very well. They are my people!

    • @ukicheryl
      @ukicheryl Před 3 lety +1

      I have too. My African/Alkubulan brothers and sisters. I use Alkubulan, key Swahali as Africa means the conquored one and l wish the continent will be renamed. My experienced is that Alkubalanians do not really understand slavery and what the diasparo went thru. But my sisters and brothers in Alkubulan had their own slavery in the continent. After reading of Water and Fire, l know colonization also existed in Alkubulan. Rape by Jesuit priest of Alkubulan men, flogging to beat theur Alkubalan name changed to Jack or John. Alkubulan was also colonized within their own country, not only us by the midde passage. We have more in common than our beautiful dark skin

    • @3lissa945
      @3lissa945 Před 3 lety +7

      Their not talking about your experiences their talking about their own

    • @affordablewebdesign3163
      @affordablewebdesign3163 Před 3 lety +1

      She probably interacted with a few AA and now she labeling all of us. I judge ppl by them not a country.

  • @kclark91197
    @kclark91197 Před 2 lety +5

    Brothers and sisters around the globe, I don’t care if you are mixed with Scottish, french, Swedish or Russian you are “African” first and there is power in that. I love you all 💪🏾

  • @tierax8992
    @tierax8992 Před 3 měsíci

    Awww I’ve been wondering this thank you