Emotional Exhaustion | Ajahn Brahm | 4 June 2021

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  • čas přidán 5. 06. 2021
  • Ajahn Brahm gives advice on how to deal with emotional exhaustion and weariness which may be experienced from our work. Ajahn shares a relevant story about seven monks and thieves to help illustrate his point.
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    Recorded at Dhammaloka Buddhist Centre, Perth, Western Australia.
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Komentáře • 135

  • @digashi1
    @digashi1 Před 2 lety +77

    Thank you ajahn brahm. Never thought i will put a comment in youtube. But i had to. I’m 26 year old flight attendant. We are based away from home, hectic flying shedule. There were times i could not get up from bed. But got in to a habit of listening to ur talk while m getting ready for flights. It strengthen me everyday. Keep me away from getting depressed and fighting with my bf. Why!! Cz everytime i keep high expectations, ur talks keep me on ground. Thank you million times. Hope i would get to see you one day!, sadhu! Sadhu!

  • @Skyelement84K
    @Skyelement84K Před 2 lety +25

    My daughter is an investigative social worker, child protection service in Asheville, NC. She is emotionally exhausted too. Sending to her.

    • @Skyelement84K
      @Skyelement84K Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you. She is wiped out. She must continue for being single homeowner, medical benefits. She has 2 horses, 3 dogs and a pot belly pig and makes equestrian photography. For love, compassion and family.

    • @isurusampath8756
      @isurusampath8756 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Skyelement84K i expect happy life and nice future for you and your daughter🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @eugeneafrakoff6343
    @eugeneafrakoff6343 Před 2 lety +63

    One of the wisest people on the planet! Haven’t listened to him for years but forgot how valuable he is in helping people in their personal traumas. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @anjalitanda5386
    @anjalitanda5386 Před 3 lety +66

    I love Ajanh Brahm' s funny, kind heart...great sense of humor 🙏❤

    • @jarredhischemellor6489
      @jarredhischemellor6489 Před 2 lety +3

      His Australian sense of humor in concert with his level of humility hooked me right away. I know that we work AWAY from attachment but i had to say that. It's accurate, what a great teacher !!!........Ralph Mellor,pgh pa

    • @taghiabiri3489
      @taghiabiri3489 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jarredhischemellor6489 the man‘s english 😊

    • @rosiepestel7836
      @rosiepestel7836 Před 2 lety +2

      English sense of humour!! Sardonically dry but lovable!!

  • @grahamtrave1709
    @grahamtrave1709 Před 2 lety +6

    Truly a man of wisdom and compassion… it’s your job to care not cure ….. he is very special and Ajahn Cha would have been pleased with him.

  • @twinklebahaduri2075
    @twinklebahaduri2075 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you Ajahn Brahm, you have been a pillar of strength for me and your teachings have been so profound with a massive impact im my life and the life of others around me. I am absolutely grateful that you have conveyed Buddha's teaching in the most valuable ways and easiest way to understand. I AM GRATEFUL 🙏

  • @saraliyanage303
    @saraliyanage303 Před rokem +3

    Thank you Ajan Braham. You completely changed the way I was thinking. May you achieve the noble merits you seek for. Sadhu!

  • @sheetalpawar9514
    @sheetalpawar9514 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks Ajhan Brahm Sir, Love from India

  • @omaroba1490
    @omaroba1490 Před 3 lety +31

    Peace and love blessings everybody. From America. Washington dc.

  • @jfo3770
    @jfo3770 Před 2 lety +16

    I love to listens to these speeches they throw me into a different dimensions and everything starts to make sense again! Thank you Ajahn Brahm!!🙂

  • @Queenie-the-genie
    @Queenie-the-genie Před 2 lety +6

    I am becoming more and more fond of Ahjan Brahm’s Darma talks. So helpful and humble 🙏🏼

  • @youarewhatyourelookingfor4496

    I simply love you Ajahn! Brahm!

  • @Kerome33
    @Kerome33 Před 2 lety +7

    30:00 Great to hear Ajahn Brahm talking about the challenges of mental health vulnerabilities

  • @karenmininni4962
    @karenmininni4962 Před 2 lety +16

    Thank you for telling the story of the bandits and the monks. In a world where selfishness and narcissism seems to run rampant. Somehow where we are ALL Equal and together/US/where we love each other as ourselves. Just like that powerful teaching we dont have to burn out on those who only want to take take take from us.

  • @AnnaQuirogaHarp
    @AnnaQuirogaHarp Před 3 lety +11

    Got to love the lil burp after the gongs 😂 very human and relaxed!

  • @solh253
    @solh253 Před 2 lety +6

    What an amazing human being you are. I feel so lucky that you have come across my path.
    You have helped me in so many things in life. I still fall in the trap of stress, of sadness and other challenges in life, but whenever I listen to your talks Ajahn Brahm, it really provides me with peace and happiness.
    I will travel again one day to Australia but to personally thank you for the amazing service you do to me and to the world ♥️

  • @rtfgx
    @rtfgx Před 3 lety +30

    How wonderful it is to know the world has such a... Friend. A real friend to all beings that's who Ajahn Brahm seems to be.
    It is awesome awesome awesome!!! ♥

    • @researchmethodologiesandst2005
      @researchmethodologiesandst2005 Před 3 lety

      I couldn't agree with you more! Ajahn Brahm speaks with such integrity in that he is not teaching one thing and 20 minutes saying something that contradicts what he just taught. I feel like a number of the western teachers in America do that.

  • @westleycharringate9526
    @westleycharringate9526 Před 2 lety +4

    I’m glad I found your CZcams channel. Ten years ago I had way too many things go wrong in my life that led to a nightmare, that left me with breathing problems and other physical problems.
    My doctor said it was stress. I’ve never found a cure. And that’s the mistake, thinking I need a cure. I realise it doesn’t work like that. Taking time out to look after myself is the key. Listening to your meditation has helped to move my mind into the right direction. Thank you.

  • @warmheart5525
    @warmheart5525 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you for caring for us and what a wonderfull talked Ajahn Bram

  • @YellowPineappleHoyas
    @YellowPineappleHoyas Před 3 lety +32

    This is exactly the talk I needed. I am emotionally exhausted from being terrible sick for over a year , made 100 times worse by severe side effects to medication. I basically had to become my own doctor. I’m now trying to get off the medication, but the withdrawal is just awful. Thank you again for your wisdom and compassion!

  • @trongtran-ru3ou
    @trongtran-ru3ou Před rokem +1

    Happy 71th birthday Ajahm Brahm. Raymond Tran and Kyle Exley from Karnet.

  • @SiouxsieVenning
    @SiouxsieVenning Před 6 dny

    Thank you Ajahm Brahm. Just the perfect talk and inspiration for me and others. Loved it and so very helpful.

  • @rogergr5019
    @rogergr5019 Před 2 lety +3

    I am heartbroken after 6 years relationship. It came to an end for good, i realize this now although its hard. I made mistakes but I will move on with more knowledge. I learned from the relationship and I am gratefull for the things we shared. I still love her for that...

  • @lisang3738
    @lisang3738 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for your wisdom and humour. You are always a joy to listen to 🥰

  • @trandaliyo7684
    @trandaliyo7684 Před 2 lety +4

    Buddha always be with us. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tinabeaver
    @tinabeaver Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you once again. You help me in so many ways. May you have peace and good health always.

  • @charliecastillo2011
    @charliecastillo2011 Před 2 lety +3

    Caring for the tiredness…very profound! I get up early every morning so I can get to work on time. I tend to beat myself up for not getting enough sleep. But even when I’m “well-rested” I need to learn to care for myself instead of curing myself.
    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🏽

  • @shell88ish
    @shell88ish Před 2 lety +1

    What a great question! Thanks everyone.

  • @ShantiTrish
    @ShantiTrish Před 2 lety +2

    Thankyou for your insight and sharing to us. Meta & 😘to everyone may you be free from suffering , 😘🙏👋😀

  • @Maciejkam
    @Maciejkam Před rokem +1

    Thank you for telling story❤️

  • @Boyanadee
    @Boyanadee Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you Ajahn! You’re such a blessing, who also helps us see our other blessings and be grateful for them. May you be well and happy! Sadhu sadhu sadhu!!!

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 Před 3 lety +11

    Awesome talk😍 I actually feel better when helpinh others and helping myself

  • @BurksArribaRunningAwareness

    Thank you Ajahn Brahm and the BSWA!

  • @HappyYogaLife
    @HappyYogaLife Před 3 lety +16

    I never get sick of the 7 monks story :-) Every word is so profound! I enjoy every moment of this. Thank you Ajan Bhram 💖☮️

    • @jarredhischemellor6489
      @jarredhischemellor6489 Před 2 lety +2

      The Seven Monks Sutta is an exceptional teaching for sure. I've copied it into my favorite teachings, suttas, sutras journal. Large hardback journal that my family will get when i pass on to what's next.......Ralph H, pgh pa

    • @HappyYogaLife
      @HappyYogaLife Před 2 lety

      @@jarredhischemellor6489 you inspire me, thank you for sharing.

  • @Soltuts
    @Soltuts Před 2 měsíci

    May all beings be free from suffering ♥

  • @DebbieRodgers
    @DebbieRodgers Před 3 lety +5

    Beautiful! Thankyou!

  • @vanessapetrea2490
    @vanessapetrea2490 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you! I just found you this evening by chance and this was so helpful. I also shared with a friend in a very challenging time with a dementia parent.

  • @gosiayanosh9503
    @gosiayanosh9503 Před 2 lety +5

    thank you for this topic.I work as a doctor and feel like I have enough of people, getting sick myself, loosing interest in life.Ajahn, we need more on dementia,burning out etc.Thank U🥰😍❤

    • @xx-rc1ni
      @xx-rc1ni Před 2 lety +2

      Take carevof yourself and every day do a little thing for urself.... sit down have a warm drink afterwards close ur eyes for a few minutes and just blank out any thoughts and your brain can rewire.
      Sending best wishes

  • @dmor6696
    @dmor6696 Před rokem +1

    my friend, you are one of the beacons of the world
    you like mistakes, because they better us

  • @thanaang1455
    @thanaang1455 Před 2 lety +4

    Very true, story telling make us better understand and remember, thank you Ajahn Brahm.

  • @HugoFlores-ok3nt
    @HugoFlores-ok3nt Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you Ajhan Brahm for the beautiful teaching about virtue, peace and compassion

  • @ilikewoodwork
    @ilikewoodwork Před 2 lety +4

    I am so grateful for this video

  • @Mtnshell56
    @Mtnshell56 Před 2 lety +1

    Love your talks! Thank you! So helpful...💜 Blessings to you and all the monks and nuns! 😊

  • @maureenkinnear3421
    @maureenkinnear3421 Před 3 lety +6

    Always here to inspire and steady me thanku so very much.

  • @handitan8375
    @handitan8375 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Ajahn Brahm for everything that you are, all your wisdom and talks.

  • @ruthharley795
    @ruthharley795 Před 2 lety +3

    What a beautiful sharing happy monk you are - thank you!! :)

  • @ShantiTrish
    @ShantiTrish Před 2 lety +1

    Lovely a monk in the garden & walkies in the morning & a bowl of food a day. Fantastic. Years ago some of the northern lay people visited London uk & were invited to a millionaires residence. My friend was invited into the residence, however myself was shown to the small garden shed type meditation room. I was told this was made for the monks to stay overnight when they visited and that l could wait here while my friend was taken on a guided house tour. Upon returning she explained that the house had some lovely expensive items, which she enjoyed seeing and then l smiled as she said “oh wouldn’t it be nice to have a place to house visiting monks to allow a stay overnight”. I remember thinking all that luxury lots of empty rooms, yet the monks were left in a rather meagre, not very comfortable overnight shed, with a nonediscript Buddha stupa. Just like a dog, been given scraps. “No l thought my wish would be to give him the best room in the house & feel privileged to have the oppportunity of caring, sharing, loving approach. As we left we were called back & l did get to accompany my friend to the inside of the porch entrance. All very grand, but sadly it didn’t strike me as opulence. It frankly struck me as rather tardy decor. My sons girlfriend is a architect and she designs London lofts for clients. Costing large amounts. All the soft furnishings have to be coordinate matching, yet often she is obliged to visit late at night to discuss their designs formats. No real consideration given to her late evening returning home throughout London city alone. Basically no real caring to other peoples lifestyles, before their own, which one suspects is filled with making more money to finance their recent desire Rez London abodes. Like the past visit, one wondered if it was a kind of fashion statement, a monk shed in the garden, akin to a top style pedigree dog, one focal point to show friends. A far cry from our small northern monastery, which we lovingly modernised for the monks daily needs. One person joked “you know l love visiting monastery, because it’s better than my old tumble down home” . After we installed a real flushing toilet. Life teases leave it there woof woof , or l may wish l was a monk, sadly can’t wag my tale, so hope this past memory of a London tale helps. Meta & love to everyone . The present food increases suspect that the professor will have to redo his cost, it very cheap, a monks a smile is free, if all you give is a bowl of food. 😘😘😘🤭🙏👋🙂

  • @twojzdrowykregoslup_online

    ❤ Thank You ❤

  • @elizabethhjenkins6172
    @elizabethhjenkins6172 Před 3 lety +20

    Ajahn Brahm this is one of the best I have heard from you. So on target for me. Love all of your stories. So meaningful. Thank you. Sadhu. Sadhu. Sadhu. 🙏🙏🙏 the medical person your disciple needs to see is a Gastroenterologist..

  • @clarke4552
    @clarke4552 Před 2 lety +1

    Wonderful question from a compassionate soul.

  • @kennethtan6403
    @kennethtan6403 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @riteshshaw8582
    @riteshshaw8582 Před 3 lety +6

    Sadhu Sadhu SADHUUUUUUUUUU ❤️

  • @yuvimap
    @yuvimap Před 2 lety

    Something i really needed to hear...

  • @islewait6107
    @islewait6107 Před 2 lety

    Sound advice for so many. 🛐

  • @janeyd5280
    @janeyd5280 Před 2 lety +2

    Before he said about everyone being a social worker I said it seconds before Ajahn.!

  • @rbmh
    @rbmh Před rokem

    Fantastic Video.

  • @frederickstewart6217
    @frederickstewart6217 Před 3 lety +1

    Just chill. Zen way of peace

  • @MagdaleneDivine
    @MagdaleneDivine Před 2 lety +1

    Duh. Emotional exhaustion is like every day my whole life. I didn't know thee was anything else.

  • @tuananhphanngo9625
    @tuananhphanngo9625 Před 2 lety

    Thanks

  • @rangimarieaotearoa6306
    @rangimarieaotearoa6306 Před 2 lety +1

    ur videos are so helpful ❤️😊

  • @savitabagde01
    @savitabagde01 Před 2 lety

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏

  • @anandikamudannayakem4893
    @anandikamudannayakem4893 Před 3 lety +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ngaduongm
    @ngaduongm Před 2 lety +1

    🙏🏻🌻

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 Před 2 lety +1

    🙏🏼

  • @valerierobertson7056
    @valerierobertson7056 Před 2 lety +1

    🙏

  • @ayyabrahmavara
    @ayyabrahmavara Před 3 lety +2

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @youarewhatyourelookingfor4496

    So part of the many reasons I can’t stand most people is because I hate myself, even tho the self that I hate is illusion and or delusion.
    I love caring for people and being loving and kind but after that I’ll be running the opposite direction.
    I don’t want your friendship or thanks or appreciation.
    Just accept the love or kindness I’m offering and then move away quickly.
    And please don’t try of love me or care for me. You will be rebuked and or disappointed.
    This incarnation is baffling to the nonexistent “me” I imagine myself to be.

  • @MemoryGray
    @MemoryGray Před rokem

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @khaimookie
    @khaimookie Před 2 lety

    🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @SaritWorld
    @SaritWorld Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you teacher. The Palestinian holocaust is breaking my heart.

  • @deltasalz8138
    @deltasalz8138 Před 2 lety

    Saaaadu!

  • @tikudada
    @tikudada Před 2 lety

    How can we send questions?

  • @ryanng754
    @ryanng754 Před 2 lety

    Remind anyone about aunty for nephew in australia.

  • @Skyelement84K
    @Skyelement84K Před rokem

    When you make me belly laugh Ajhan Brahm I want to say I love you I loved your ACDC giggle. I always tell people I have the ABCD EFG disease just Assign me a letter

  • @rogermarnoch767
    @rogermarnoch767 Před 2 lety +1

    Monks deserve a fashion upgrade

  • @tonpawarisa5469
    @tonpawarisa5469 Před 2 lety

    สาธุ​ /\

  • @ryanng754
    @ryanng754 Před 2 lety

    People in australia know 7 goddess aunty.

  • @janeyd5280
    @janeyd5280 Před 2 lety

    SIZE r not always good.

  • @yongsuanlin6255
    @yongsuanlin6255 Před 2 lety

    🧸

  • @aprillsloof8542
    @aprillsloof8542 Před 2 lety +2

    Idk how he sits crosslegged that long.

    • @wootwootwoot32
      @wootwootwoot32 Před 2 lety +1

      Decades of doing so. Their stories about Thailand were insightful

  • @hamidahmed7799
    @hamidahmed7799 Před rokem

    I'm sorry sar

  • @danielboyce3103
    @danielboyce3103 Před 10 měsíci

    Punti(pun tee)

  • @danielboyce3103
    @danielboyce3103 Před 10 měsíci

    Ajhan Brahm nice to meet you thank you 4 fixing my bottom Brick; 1 Love ❤

  • @lapassion24
    @lapassion24 Před 2 lety

    Ahahha ^ ^

    • @lapassion24
      @lapassion24 Před 2 lety

      On the immigration visa ^ ^

    • @lapassion24
      @lapassion24 Před 2 lety

      If i was t living in this if some where else it would be different.. but if im living this life.. this life is winding everyday, everyday is something and something is worth having everyday .. when you have nothing is darkness..

  • @emmatyler4375
    @emmatyler4375 Před 2 lety

    AC/DC 😀 Just reinforces how ridiculous labels are

  • @jimmyw3670
    @jimmyw3670 Před 2 lety +1

    The Buddha says when listening to monks teaching in later times, to compare what is taught with sutta n Vinaya. After 500 years, there will be fake n wrong teachings even by famous monks. Beware, check against sutta n Vinaya in 5 nikayas as instructed by the Buddha in the nikayas. Don't simply accept and believe without checking. Much wrong teachings arise, fake Dhamma.. beware

    • @chavinpaulchaichana3717
      @chavinpaulchaichana3717 Před rokem +1

      i listen to him for years, it help me greatly for my metal health

    • @maylingooi2045
      @maylingooi2045 Před 2 měsíci

      Many people who knows the sutta well r arrogant & behave poorly. Liberation is not through theory but through action & practice on the Path

  • @bydefault7795
    @bydefault7795 Před rokem

    I would sacrifice the attacker.

    • @maylingooi2045
      @maylingooi2045 Před 2 měsíci

      If you do then the attacker would sacrifice you first😂

  • @akuntes7584
    @akuntes7584 Před 2 lety

    From you family family Asia fasipic uniErofa Darling Darling peroarticion god internasional tube one family World Citty Exfreess you

  • @Alehamod
    @Alehamod Před 2 lety +2

    There is no god but Allah ..

  • @David-py9wr
    @David-py9wr Před 3 lety +5

    First

  • @raoulduke8720
    @raoulduke8720 Před 2 lety +1

    Is he the useless monk?

  • @creativeentrepreneur5865

    in the sake own shit vanity..peaple pretend to be some one else

  • @7freedomfighter
    @7freedomfighter Před 2 lety +1

    Data science please. I dont practice buddhism. I believe in a heaven or hell, soul, cosequence in this life for actions if this life etc...not at all interested. Its the religious choice of those that desire to look spiritual without any accountability or personal holiness. The 'religion' of the stars. Was Epstein a fan too?

    • @meco4068
      @meco4068 Před 2 lety +8

      LOL Awww, you're cute! You wanna make sure everyone is miserable with you. A truly giving soul. May you be well rewarded for spreading your misery when you reach your heaven or hell. Not sure if this is data science but if you're not at all interested in something move on and don't disturb those who are interested. Wishing you sunshine, lollipops & rainbows everywhere!

  • @pearlk5036
    @pearlk5036 Před 2 lety

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ryanng754
    @ryanng754 Před 2 lety

    People in australia know 7 goddess aunty.