@@cescosa4404 i dont know. I feel like he was trying to poke fun at the way people in the 50s thought they were so progressive, whereas today, these should be considered the bare minimum.
As a man, feeling proud of myself for achieving the bare minimum (and not just the bare minimum) is a guilty pleasure that comes from a good, if not wildly privileged, place.
the point is that he is like bare minimum an okay partner and the bar was so low back then because women couldn't open bank accounts or get decent jobs that this was like....top tier husband material...like good for him but also...SAD for all of the women and daughters.
I do and you would be surprised, no man I know fits into those standards. They either hit their wifes or girlfriends, or/and kids, or they have a problem with them not being virgins, or they want to be with a virgin and act offended they wont consider to have them as parters because they are not virgins themselves, or they are far worse that the depicted in the video. Also pedophilia is so normalized in my country, so a lot of pedos are free because the family punishes the victims either male or female if they ever decide to call them out. So… yes, the bare minimum for me to even consider to get married is: a guy that is not an addict, does not hit me or our kids, is not a pedophile, and does not get angry for me having a job and does not expect to have control of my money. Honestly with the history of my family and all the others I know, no one is touching my money, we can have a share account but if the guy has your money then you lost you freedom, and then they change because they know you cant run away no matter what.
I'd say be default the 50's and their beliefs were confused, like there really wasn't an excuse for this behavior as some people believe. Time affects people's views, yes, but like. They SHOULD have known this by now.@AdolfHitler-pk1iv
I’m gonna be honest, I was on his side the moment he said “My daughters fat and I’ve never told her how much it bothers me.” That’s actually pretty good for a dad. You want your kids to excel, and it sucks when you watch them harm themselves. Be it cutting, drugs, alcohol, or eating themselves into an early grave. But to be there for her and not put her down when she’s struggling with one of those issues is great. As for the other stuff, I mean he was pretty far ahead of his time… the medical doctor comment was a pretty good example. He’d have been mocked by his friends for that but he still said it anyway. I think a huge problem with many people nowadays (and always) is we expect perfection. This guy isn’t perfect, but he’s better than most, and that’s great. I have some gen Z family members who bitch to their therapist every single day about how mean our dad was to them, then they turn around and say the exact same things our father said to us, to me. Because they know I won’t be mean back. This dude is honestly better than most of our peers, even though we would never admit it.
Uh, NO, cutting and doing drugs is nowhere NEAR the same level as being fat?? Some people are just fat?? If the obesity affects their every day life, yes, it is important to regain a healthy weight, absolutely, but sometimes, bodies are bigger than others.@@mr.doctorcaptain1124
Feminism wasn't associated with communism because they were harder on it than we were, somehow we were actually a bastion of democracy in the 40s and 50s
Don't want to sound cliche but... A therapist who clicks with you can help assess good and general feelings, bad AND good. If you're expectations are low, hope you can figure out the points of yourself that you love the most and build strong on those points most so no one can take you away from you.
My grandfather actually was a real feminist when it comes to his children and grandchildren. But with his wife, my grandmother, he had a huge argument because she has been married before she met him and divorced her first husband. When he did find out he was greatly offended.
@@giuliaf1558 I am. To the point where his daughter is actually called after his favorite female athlete. He also addressed his daughers and me as "My friend" when speaking to us. I have never seen a man more invested in his daughter's education. He also did not want my mother to re-marry because he was afraid that her husband will then have to much power over her property (he wanted them to just stay partners, but no marrige so that all of the property would be just hers) and he did not allow me to learn how to cook food. He used to say "you should study as much as you can, do not waste your time cooking food, I'll cook for you". And he did cook for me. He was a feminist alright. But his relationship with his wife was really so so. P.S. I do honestly suspect that feminist men of his generation would be more like my grandfather, than like the guy shown in the video. I don't think feminism was something they did for attention. I do strongly suspect that my grandfather actually hated discrimination in general and he was traumatized by seing some women being mistreated by men in his own family of origin. That being said he probably was not 100 per self aware when it comes to his relationship with his wife. Perhaps not uncommon for the men of his generation either. These men did not have very good role models.
@@lizvtaz6If she didn't tell him before maryint him then there's absolutely no issue with getting offended. Imagine leaving such an important detail out. I guess maybe if she was upfront and he was offended it could be a bad look on him though.
@lizvtaz6 that’s really beating to read, he’s really a great men. I’m happy you had a present father who was supporting you 💖. He is really doing something, so yeah he’s not faking for attention, he’s real. I can understand a bit now why at first he felt offended by not knowing his wife had a ex husband (maybe she wasn’t trusting him enough because she was scared since divorced women were considered ‘to throw away’ both for sexist and ultra catholic reasons) but yeah the part of property is really something ❤️
Be glad he still care for you. Sometimes it hurts but better that the people who love us the most tell to us that out helth is in denger. Il we keep bad food habits. Dont get me wrong some fat is not bad. But when obesity is showing better start to change for the best of our health.
@@squishy8758But a man can go around fuck 20 women and than get mad at a girl for not being a virgin. If you ain't a virgin, you have no right to belittle someone else for no being a virgin.
@@squishy8758 While being concious of our partners health is totally fine & smart to be aware of, i think in the skit its just showing how "progressive" back then was "the bare minimum" now. Still sexist, but not a monster lol
Please anyone who is not dispicable on dating apps just ends up with no matches. Anyone looking to just hookup is not gonna see the value in the other except as a object for self gratification.
@@ahhh4117basically what he’s said is that only douchebags use dating apps and those who use it and aren’t douchebags end up without any real matches. I tried tinder and it doesn’t really work unless you have a big nice house to bring them back to and a Lamborghini to pick their broke asses up in.
Because the women of today aren’t as good as those of yesterday. The men today have the right to despise women, not so much in the past. Almost every woman is merely a device used to charge a phone that collects data on spending habits. Thank god my wife doesn’t use social media or take pictures of herself/gloat post every time she leaves the damn house. I’d rather die alone than deal with the bs my friends have to.
So true 💀 In my home they see me as a radical feminist because I figued out is not my duty to serve every man on my family, and drop everything I am doing to please them by making them a meal or change a lightbulb that is bothering them. To dare to ask everyone to serve themselves once the meal is done and set into the table, instead of having to stand up with every woman in the family to serve the males. I am seen as a radical for calling out the assholes that are supposed to be family but when they come to my home and are served by my mother they rate their meal every time and put her to the edges and then offend her and crush her dreams and disect everything she does and moke her, I am seen as ungrateful for insulting those assholes and kick them out of my home and tell them to apologize or f of. I am seen as radical for telling the guys in my family they cant get away with hurting me because I will go to the police if they ever touch me againe now that I am legally able to defend myself. I am seen as a radical for getting stonger, so when they hit me I hit harder. But that is life, people are always going to point fingers, all we can do is step up for ourselves, get out of the victim mentality and be worse than them, so when they try to hurt us we give them a lesson they never forget and then we earn our peace.
@@S_N1. Sure, one has to respect both parents, but that is not the matter in my comment. I respect my parents, I dont respect a random cousin or friend of my parents coming over and trying to touch me or insulting me for going to college instead of having kids by now, or calling my mom names because she is not “fast enough” to attend them. I am polite, but if they make an effort to be monsters towards me I am worse than them because that is the only language they understand. I used to politely ask them to stop touching me or insulting my mother, but they only got more violent, so now If they touch me I kick them in the ⚾️⚾️. It was wrong when I was a little kid and is wrong now that I am a legal adult. And honestly even if my parents where bothered for me deffending myself when a creep is literally trying to SA me in my own home, is not my problem. I respect my parents but I also respect myself. If I dont fight for myself no one is fighting to deffend me. And that is pretty much why I am seen as a radical feminist. It turns out that if you say the creep that SA you when you where a kid that you are going to let him roth in prission if he ever comes close to you againe you are a radical feminist. I dont have to be tolerant to a creep like that, one that keeps going to my house and taking pictures of me, I just dont have to tolerate that anymore because now I am legally able to stand up for myself. And if a cousin feels like slaping my face because I did not wanted to do his job for him when he demanded so right in the middle of the night after arriving exhausted from collage, I just slap him back. That was pretty much my point. Self deffence is seen as wrong and radical by abusers because they cant keep getting away with hurting others.
@@Cagethefantasydork The worst men in this regard overrepresent themselves through their obnoxious nature. I truly hope and think we aren't that bad on average.
@@arthurschildgen5522 I think my comment came off worse than it was meant to, I don't see guys as a whole like this. I know plenty of guys who are absolutely delightful, I'm more saying that I've met more who behave shitty than who don't.
Its not really that bad of a sentiment. It is genuinely dangeeous going out as a women. You get modern tik tokers always making videos on it. Yet when a solution is offered, that you stay with a trusted man for protection, suddenly the guy is a sexist.
Yet hes absolutely wrong.. Who tf decides banning all alcohol is a good idea? At least your drunk husband could miss sometimes, now he beats you double the amount
This hits hard because sometimes I wonder if that's what I sound like, as a feminist man. And I wonder: Is that how I'd sound like to someone many decades in the future?
with most creatures that have functioning eyeballs, eye contact is threatening and over challenging. However with humans it can be something far more deeper-although it can carry more than just that meaning. It can carry a variety if you know what you're doing, it is a valuable communication tool that should be done properly. It's not something for an irresponsible child to be doing.
I had to rewatch this twice because I'm like half asleep and this popped on my timeline. I didn't understand what you were saying at first because I just woke up all of the stuff you're saying you're saying it in such a nice voice that I was like wait what is he saying wrong and then I was like wait a minute.😂
@@DRCx_ Nah, between Tate the Pimp on one side and the modern Male-Feminists “proud” of how “liberated” their OnlyFans crush is on the other, this guy’s pretty much a voice of reason.
@@senorsiro3748 so if not beating your wife is GOOD and not the base... then beating your wife is normal? Same with saying women occasionally have good ideas, that should be the bare minimum.
@@hunterhall1575It would have been better than doing nothing, since back then nothing a woman said mattered, so a man would basically need to agree if anyone else were to actually think about something.
@@honey-hunterslimefanno.3257 Yall my comment was a dig at modern male feminists being cringe white knights, not a dig at classical feminism. Please mind the context.
@@hunterhall1575You replied to the wrong comment if that is what you meant. "Some men aren't this respectful" and your comment doesn't mean what you have said it meant.
This reminds me why my grandma and great aunts have the self images they do. All of them, even in their 70s, compete for thinness, dieting, and generally appealing to the male gaze. It’s really sad and I feel cruel correcting such engrained “rules” bc it’s all they grew up with
history is an eternal foreward march what was seen as progressive fifty years ago is now seen as deeply conservative. and similarly the beliefs that are progressive today will likely be seen as similarly conservative fifty years from now
@@miau5878literally! there’s no sculptures of super thin people in the pantheon, painted, etc. the ideal body at the time was well off. edit: yes, the guys had muscles. they were usually gods and such. i understand what you mean by ripped, but they weren’t sticks. they weren’t whatever the standards are today.
@@beesare_cool Except this is set in the '50s not 800 BC. Also if you have seen any Hellenistic statues they aren't exactly plus-sized, the men are muscled and toned with basically no body fat and the women are just kind of normal weight.
Bro why tf do people believe that. Men run behind women and shout at them for them to get in the kitchen as a joke whilst not knowing THEY are the joke because women were not even allowed in the kitchen back then, women weren't allowed to do shit really back then. If a woman wanted to be a chef or cook she had to be trained by a man.
My grandpa would probably never consider himself a feminist, but his wife, my grandma, worked full time as a nurse in the 50s with 3 little girls and then my dad born in ‘57. Two of my aunts got phds and my grandpa was always proud of his smart, strong daughters and granddaughters
That's great! Just wanted to add that it's kind of a misconception that women all stayed at home before the 60s. Maybe wealthy women, but working class women have always worked!
I saw someone get offended from a comment that said people (here referring to women). They were asking the op why they didn't say women and call them people. Some people are just....🚩
"My daughter is fat snd I never told her how much it bothers me". UnIronically, that still makes him better than alot of people nowadays EDIT: I love how so many people reply with "well actually if she is overweight you should tell her because it's not healthy". As if most fat people dont know that they are fat and need other peoples inginious insight in order to realise the shape of their own damn bodies. Also, got to love how some even imply that being fat is always a result of bad mental health. Even when that is the case the solution is not to constantly remind/shame someone for being fat and force them to eat healthy and go to the gym (no, being a passive agressive prick about it by giving them gym membership cards is not good either) . It's to help them seek PROFESSIONAL help to sort out their mental state and THEN do anything about their bodies IF they themselves want to.
Correct. I would never say it to my daughter. I would give her a membership card for a gym as christmas present. But generally I think, it is no good policy, not to say to your children, what they are doing wrong. Inverse, the children will do the same with their parents in their adult years. It shows, that you care for somebody.
@@lolasdm6959 though I agree 100% w/ what you just said, I'd respectfully submit these are 2 different things. In fact, nobody knows whether he's said anything to her abt potential health ramiications; like the poster at top said, him being bothered by her fatness is very much "a him-problem," rather than something tangibly affecting her future.
@@NotAStanAccount It always effects her future. Most people care a lot about apperences, being as conventionally good looking as you can be is always an advantage. Also there are established thresholds for unhealthy fat, as in over 200-300 calories your maintenance caloric intake. Generally for women, it's over 89 cm for waist measure. Outlayers always exist, so just go ask a doctor.
"Last night I came home and dinner wasn't ready yet...I didn't say a word!"
😮
I had to wait a whole 15 minutes before I could eat, and she doesn't have _any_ bruises on her face! I'm a hero.
Profile picture checks out smh ...
"I never hit my wife, EVEN when I'm drunk!" that smug look of superiority 💀💀💀
But he is superior.
@@judithitse7026Superior to men who best their wives though that's a pretty low bar.
better than my dad
SORRY???@@abbythings
@@nitroagent6494he is better than like 70% of men in the 1900
"My wife wasn't even a virgin when i married her- and i'm ALMOST fine with that"
peak comedy.
🗣🦅🔥🔥
No self respecting man is ever fine with that
The word peak comedy is over used
@@nodiggity8746 peak is the new epic my guy
@@nodiggity8746peak comedy is actually 2 words
Honestly, that's pretty impressive for '50s
That’s the point
@@cescosa4404 i dont know. I feel like he was trying to poke fun at the way people in the 50s thought they were so progressive, whereas today, these should be considered the bare minimum.
@@bachagain1685 👍
Its impressive for the 2020s
I'd give my extremities for a society in which that's the bare minimum every man thinks
holy shit the "looking around for approval" at the last bit killed me.
Dude really expecting Obama to come from the back and wrap an award around his neck.
@@jesustyronechrist2330
Why Obama Specifically?
@@virtualcynical8515 i don't think they thought too hard about it lol. prolly just said the first president that came to mind.
@@dasi_is_dasi You guys don't know the "obama giving an award" meme?
@@virtualcynical8515probably because Obama would 100% give an award for something as cretinous as this?
It’s the fact that he’s so proud of himself for it that makes it so much more accurate 😂
As a man, feeling proud of myself for achieving the bare minimum (and not just the bare minimum) is a guilty pleasure that comes from a good, if not wildly privileged, place.
@@npg-owen4500what
For the time, these were considered WILDLY progressive ideas
@royaldragon758fr, then they say "not all men because I'm not like that and I speak for all men! “
The bar was ground level, buried under a foot of dirt.
He doesn't seem that bad... There's room for improvement, of course, a lot of it, but he seems good spirited, and nice for his times' standards.
real "he a little confused, but he got the spirit" energy
the point is that he is like bare minimum an okay partner and the bar was so low back then because women couldn't open bank accounts or get decent jobs that this was like....top tier husband material...like good for him but also...SAD for all of the women and daughters.
That's the joke.
The fact that some people still consider this to be the bare minimum for how a person should act
I do and you would be surprised, no man I know fits into those standards.
They either hit their wifes or girlfriends, or/and kids, or they have a problem with them not being virgins, or they want to be with a virgin and act offended they wont consider to have them as parters because they are not virgins themselves, or they are far worse that the depicted in the video.
Also pedophilia is so normalized in my country, so a lot of pedos are free because the family punishes the victims either male or female if they ever decide to call them out.
So… yes, the bare minimum for me to even consider to get married is: a guy that is not an addict, does not hit me or our kids, is not a pedophile, and does not get angry for me having a job and does not expect to have control of my money.
Honestly with the history of my family and all the others I know, no one is touching my money, we can have a share account but if the guy has your money then you lost you freedom, and then they change because they know you cant run away no matter what.
Wait isn't it?
Pretty sure this is carefully defining the bare minimum.
Did you mean as in the bare minimum should be more then this or less?
@@nemanjastanimirovic155 more
“ I’m not sexist. Being sexist is wrong, and being wrong is for Women.”
Studio c?
i don't have feelings, because feelings are gay
Women have two sides to their brain, on one half she can only be right, and on the other there's nothing left 🫠
A Studio C reference in the wild
@@narwhalocean791 you know you're good at being satire when I would've punched my laptop exactly where your comment is if my laptop wasn't $2000
not even while drunk?! this dude is a saint
He’s just the happy drunk who just tells dad jokes xD
@@Flame-rp6yqoh those are fun.
He ain't like me frfr
I was waiting for the '...even when she deserves it!' But of course, Male Feminist of the 50s is so based! I'd marry him
no he’s a PRUDE ‼️‼️ i hit my wife all the time ‼️‼️
Funnily, that still puts him in a better place than many today.
That's so true
"I never hit my wife, EVEN when I'm drunk!" some people TODAY need that lesson
whys this better than 99% of my relatives
Because we’ve had 70 years to recognize the mistakes of the past.
cope
@@bigkaris912blackah
Me in the kitchen every thanksgiving since I was 5: 😓 The men in the family sitting on their asses including the man who wanted to host:🍻 🏈 😂 🍗
mine too…
He's confused but he's got the spirit
Came here to say this
The definition of this video:
I'd say be default the 50's and their beliefs were confused, like there really wasn't an excuse for this behavior as some people believe. Time affects people's views, yes, but like. They SHOULD have known this by now.@AdolfHitler-pk1iv
I’m gonna be honest, I was on his side the moment he said “My daughters fat and I’ve never told her how much it bothers me.”
That’s actually pretty good for a dad. You want your kids to excel, and it sucks when you watch them harm themselves. Be it cutting, drugs, alcohol, or eating themselves into an early grave. But to be there for her and not put her down when she’s struggling with one of those issues is great.
As for the other stuff, I mean he was pretty far ahead of his time… the medical doctor comment was a pretty good example. He’d have been mocked by his friends for that but he still said it anyway.
I think a huge problem with many people nowadays (and always) is we expect perfection. This guy isn’t perfect, but he’s better than most, and that’s great. I have some gen Z family members who bitch to their therapist every single day about how mean our dad was to them, then they turn around and say the exact same things our father said to us, to me. Because they know I won’t be mean back.
This dude is honestly better than most of our peers, even though we would never admit it.
Uh, NO, cutting and doing drugs is nowhere NEAR the same level as being fat?? Some people are just fat?? If the obesity affects their every day life, yes, it is important to regain a healthy weight, absolutely, but sometimes, bodies are bigger than others.@@mr.doctorcaptain1124
The embodiment of "He's a little confused but he's got the spirit"
“If a lady’s got moxie..” I believe her name may be Millie!
YES YES YES!!! I WERE SEARCHING FOR THIS COMMENT!
@@user-se4wj2zg2p Me too :D
@@user-se4wj2zg2p EYYYY!!! :DDDD
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same 😂
The men around him: ”Whoah. Easy there, ya pinko commie.”
Communists still don’t have women’s rights.
💀💀💀
Look at Vietnam
Feminism wasn't associated with communism because they were harder on it than we were, somehow we were actually a bastion of democracy in the 40s and 50s
@@Bibbo8844hdbkswhat do you mean?
@@Bibbo8844hdbks I feel like this has always been the case. In fact, I think it's actually gotten less due to the availability of information online
@@Bibbo8844hdbksThe video is... satire
"... and I'm ALMOST fine with that"
This was the one that hit the hardest lol😂
Only because I wanted my wife to also be a virgin.
Even when I'm drunk!
Still it's better to have a woman that lots of guys want, than one almost no one wants.
@@Seven_LeafDo you prefer watching your girl lay with other men opposed to a girl no man would want to lay?
We found him.. After all these years.. *the sex defender*
Mother of god…now one more left to find and the trinity shall be complete; *The Sex Bystander*
As a female I agree that we sometimes do infact have good ideas
(tips fedora) if one could prove she has some, she could be even allowed to vote!
why are my expectations so low that this almost sounds ok
Don't want to sound cliche but... A therapist who clicks with you can help assess good and general feelings, bad AND good. If you're expectations are low, hope you can figure out the points of yourself that you love the most and build strong on those points most so no one can take you away from you.
Just realize that he doesn’t actually care about women and only says this to look good in front of others and feel like he’s better than other men
Tbh I tried to see a difference from then and now… if this is one man w all these thoughts, he’s actually more progressive than men now
No. Please raise them babe. My love.
Sadly the bar is that damn low
"My wife wasn't even a virgin when we met, and I'm almost fine with that."
Took me TF out 😭😂😂😂😂💀
My grandfather actually was a real feminist when it comes to his children and grandchildren. But with his wife, my grandmother, he had a huge argument because she has been married before she met him and divorced her first husband. When he did find out he was greatly offended.
@@lizvtaz6you sure he was actually a real femminist?
@@giuliaf1558 I am. To the point where his daughter is actually called after his favorite female athlete. He also addressed his daughers and me as "My friend" when speaking to us. I have never seen a man more invested in his daughter's education. He also did not want my mother to re-marry because he was afraid that her husband will then have to much power over her property (he wanted them to just stay partners, but no marrige so that all of the property would be just hers) and he did not allow me to learn how to cook food. He used to say "you should study as much as you can, do not waste your time cooking food, I'll cook for you". And he did cook for me. He was a feminist alright. But his relationship with his wife was really so so. P.S. I do honestly suspect that feminist men of his generation would be more like my grandfather, than like the guy shown in the video. I don't think feminism was something they did for attention. I do strongly suspect that my grandfather actually hated discrimination in general and he was traumatized by seing some women being mistreated by men in his own family of origin. That being said he probably was not 100 per self aware when it comes to his relationship with his wife. Perhaps not uncommon for the men of his generation either. These men did not have very good role models.
@@lizvtaz6If she didn't tell him before maryint him then there's absolutely no issue with getting offended. Imagine leaving such an important detail out. I guess maybe if she was upfront and he was offended it could be a bad look on him though.
@lizvtaz6 that’s really beating to read, he’s really a great men. I’m happy you had a present father who was supporting you 💖. He is really doing something, so yeah he’s not faking for attention, he’s real. I can understand a bit now why at first he felt offended by not knowing his wife had a ex husband (maybe she wasn’t trusting him enough because she was scared since divorced women were considered ‘to throw away’ both for sexist and ultra catholic reasons) but yeah the part of property is really something ❤️
Most progressive man in Saudi Arabia
I'm familiar with that culture and this is soo true 😢😂
Most progessive man in Azerbaijan:
Nah progressive Saudis love to party and mingle in a mixed crowd, they are identical to your typical West European men.
This is still better then the average Andrew Tate fan
“My daughters fat. And I never told her how much it bothers me”
My dad failed in that department
my older sister basically just gaslight herself into believing she's fat... my mom and I say "dude you're only 110 pounds"!
SAME
Be glad he still care for you.
Sometimes it hurts but better that the people who love us the most tell to us that out helth is in denger. Il we keep bad food habits.
Dont get me wrong some fat is not bad. But when obesity is showing better start to change for the best of our health.
My family tries to make me believe I'm skinny and try to overfeed me. It's mostly my mom/sister tho.
did you lose the weight?
This dude is miles better than anyone I ever met in a CoD lobby.
Well that's an incredibly low bar to clear though
@@josephwernecke3464LOL
But he probably discriminates against homosexuals. COD player attack everyone
@@josephwernecke3464Seriously. Through a stone in a room full of CoD players, and you'll probably hit a few nazis. And a LOT of small children.
Ouch!
HOLD ON IS MY EXPECTATIONS TOO LOW OR IT'S ACTUALLY KINDA FINE
The ammount of sexism in this comments by both men and women is honestly delirous.
Hilarious?
@@esther8262 no, delirous.
"in an acutely disturbed state of mind characterized by restlessness, illusions, and incoherence; affected by delirium."
@@ekaitzjuradoenciso2055 incredibly subjective thing to call delirious. Many many things that just aren't sexist are considering by modern standards
Fr, people are making this video way more controversial than it needs to be
Example?
Bro said “I’m almost fine with that”😂🤣
Maybe bc of her health??
@@squishy8758But a man can go around fuck 20 women and than get mad at a girl for not being a virgin.
If you ain't a virgin, you have no right to belittle someone else for no being a virgin.
@@squishy8758 While being concious of our partners health is totally fine & smart to be aware of, i think in the skit its just showing how "progressive" back then was "the bare minimum" now. Still sexist, but not a monster lol
@@squishy8758 don't you realise that that's the joke
Honestly, I appreciate the self awareness
lmfao the way his eyes lit up when he said she could be a doctor. I choked on my drink.
Give him the Emmy
Give him the Emmy
Give him the Emmy
Give him the Emmy
I don't know what that is
The fact there are some men today who would argue against such a low bar vehemently
I mean he’s doing better than a LOT of modern men. He might even understand the bear argument
Dang you got delicates names to arguments now? 😂
@@mrnoname5183 …what?
Somehow this is better than 99% of men on tinder
Please anyone who is not dispicable on dating apps just ends up with no matches. Anyone looking to just hookup is not gonna see the value in the other except as a object for self gratification.
You mean the app that people download to fuck a bunch of random strangers? Yeah, I really wonder why there's so many terrible people on there 💀
@@BlueGoblin1 bro I've read ur comment like 6 times and I'm still not sure what ur trying to say?
@@ahhh4117basically what he’s said is that only douchebags use dating apps and those who use it and aren’t douchebags end up without any real matches.
I tried tinder and it doesn’t really work unless you have a big nice house to bring them back to and a Lamborghini to pick their broke asses up in.
@@ahhh4117they are saying they are an incel
These men sound better than todays podcast listener mans
On god, their taking us back to the 1850s 💀💀💀
I'm saying
You mean alpha man podcast lmao and your right
@mynamesnotshanekid813 yeah little over correction but honestly one needs to be made
@@johnblackburn9574 True, that's the step they take after we're back to the 1950s.
Hate how these men are more progressive than most people I know today... 💀
THE DISNEY SMILE AT THE END IS SENDING ME 😭😭
European Male Feminists in the 90s: "Women are my favorite guy"
wow this blew up go play Super Lesbian Animal RPG
sex, i'm wanting more
"Seggs, I'm wanting more."
"everybody mooooove man"
Tonight I will never die
" I love you and feel groove."
and somehow he’s better than plenty of men today 💀
Probably better than a lot of women too
@@manniefresh3425yeah, its not just one or the other, everyone sucks nowadays
Because the women of today aren’t as good as those of yesterday. The men today have the right to despise women, not so much in the past.
Almost every woman is merely a device used to charge a phone that collects data on spending habits. Thank god my wife doesn’t use social media or take pictures of herself/gloat post every time she leaves the damn house. I’d rather die alone than deal with the bs my friends have to.
Maybe woman should choose their men better?
@@Carlston9723 But men should also choose their women better
Everyone sucks 🔥🔥🔥
The sad thing is he's still better than some men today
Thanks, good reminder of “I guess it could be worse” 😂
Let’s be real, in some circles of so-called “alpha males” today, this guy would still be considered a radical feminist…
So true 💀
In my home they see me as a radical feminist because I figued out is not my duty to serve every man on my family, and drop everything I am doing to please them by making them a meal or change a lightbulb that is bothering them.
To dare to ask everyone to serve themselves once the meal is done and set into the table, instead of having to stand up with every woman in the family to serve the males.
I am seen as a radical for calling out the assholes that are supposed to be family but when they come to my home and are served by my mother they rate their meal every time and put her to the edges and then offend her and crush her dreams and disect everything she does and moke her, I am seen as ungrateful for insulting those assholes and kick them out of my home and tell them to apologize or f of.
I am seen as radical for telling the guys in my family they cant get away with hurting me because I will go to the police if they ever touch me againe now that I am legally able to defend myself.
I am seen as a radical for getting stonger, so when they hit me I hit harder.
But that is life, people are always going to point fingers, all we can do is step up for ourselves, get out of the victim mentality and be worse than them, so when they try to hurt us we give them a lesson they never forget and then we earn our peace.
Least hyperbolic internet claim
@@S_N1. Sure, one has to respect both parents, but that is not the matter in my comment.
I respect my parents, I dont respect a random cousin or friend of my parents coming over and trying to touch me or insulting me for going to college instead of having kids by now, or calling my mom names because she is not “fast enough” to attend them.
I am polite, but if they make an effort to be monsters towards me I am worse than them because that is the only language they understand.
I used to politely ask them to stop touching me or insulting my mother, but they only got more violent, so now If they touch me I kick them in the ⚾️⚾️.
It was wrong when I was a little kid and is wrong now that I am a legal adult.
And honestly even if my parents where bothered for me deffending myself when a creep is literally trying to SA me in my own home, is not my problem.
I respect my parents but I also respect myself.
If I dont fight for myself no one is fighting to deffend me.
And that is pretty much why I am seen as a radical feminist.
It turns out that if you say the creep that SA you when you where a kid that you are going to let him roth in prission if he ever comes close to you againe you are a radical feminist.
I dont have to be tolerant to a creep like that, one that keeps going to my house and taking pictures of me, I just dont have to tolerate that anymore because now I am legally able to stand up for myself.
And if a cousin feels like slaping my face because I did not wanted to do his job for him when he demanded so right in the middle of the night after arriving exhausted from collage, I just slap him back.
That was pretty much my point.
Self deffence is seen as wrong and radical by abusers because they cant keep getting away with hurting others.
@@Saltasaurmfs in my class would beg to differ
@@Adeisorcuqb1887 mf we ain't reading your essays
Why is this still better than so many guys now 😭
It’s literally not 😂
@@Jamesw587 It genuinely is
@@Cagethefantasydork The worst men in this regard overrepresent themselves through their obnoxious nature. I truly hope and think we aren't that bad on average.
@@arthurschildgen5522 I think my comment came off worse than it was meant to, I don't see guys as a whole like this. I know plenty of guys who are absolutely delightful, I'm more saying that I've met more who behave shitty than who don't.
@@Cagethefantasydork no, not at all
Considering this in the 1950s, it's still better than what we got today in the 2020s
If we're talking 1880s: this is Archer from the Age of Innocence.
Still better than most men who call themselves “nice guys”
False. cope
@@bigkaris912 ok nice guy
The video is satire, so your American woman delusional tendencies are rearing up again.
I’m confused what this comment means. What do “nice guys” do??
@@darryllaaser-webb5764Roll over.
He’s got the spirit. He passes the vibe check
This is a little too progressive but close ro where things should be tbh.
he *almost* passes the vibe check
@@rrai-stfu and give your mom her phone back.
@rrai- TOO progressive?! what?! “i never hit my wife even when im drunk” is TOO progressive?! what time are you living in?!
@@rrai-LMFAO
Moderate 50's guy is still better than contemporary extreme wokeness.
"My wife wasn't even a virgin when we first met, and I'm almost fine with that" 😂
Turns out simps existed in the 1950s
@@OutsiderLabswhat the hell do you mean.
@@sp1d3rmuffin He means that a woman with a high body count (1+) is very low in value. I guess since you got low IQ, you cannot understand that.
@@OutsiderLabsYes, Simpleton has been around for a long time.
Well, to be with a virgin has a purpose though...
Its called telegony
“if a lady’s got moxie, i believe she can even become a medical doctor!” genuinely made me happy
Can we bring back using the phrase “moxie”?
Meanwhile almost 50 years before that Marie curie had a PhD and was the first person to win two nobel prizes in two separate fields of sciences
@@blairdurward4324 whats moxie?
@@EclypticManiacstrong ambition/determination.
@@Michael-bc3esyet she wasn't a medical doctor.
“I let my daughter breathe, even if she’s ugly. Also, I let my wife blink!!”
The fun part is that a lot of people have a grandpa that was exactly like a 1950s husband and they don't realise
Well, I'd expect so, presuming he married your grandmother, and begat your mom or dad...
@@ObsydianShade 🤦♂️
"I dont even mind her leaving the house on her own if she's definitely back in ten minutes"
Really, I am always happy If she is absent for a longer period.
@@schurlbirkenbach1995💀💀😭
People are laughing at stuff that is unbelievable in my culture, jealous of you guys.
@@schurlbirkenbach1995 more time to build cool shit in the garage 😂😂😂
Its not really that bad of a sentiment. It is genuinely dangeeous going out as a women. You get modern tik tokers always making videos on it. Yet when a solution is offered, that you stay with a trusted man for protection, suddenly the guy is a sexist.
"And i'm almost fine with that" 😂😂😂
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That's all you can do
Low key this dude was progressive AF for being from the 50’s
So just every conservative dude nowadays😂
That superior, proud smirk at the end 😭
That’s how modern male liberals act today. They say outrageous things and with a smirk at the end
It gets me every single time, like he’s waiting for a cookie lol
Male feminists like that today. "A real man respects his wife's boyfriend"
@@mayahinshaw5478or nookie.
Yet hes absolutely wrong..
Who tf decides banning all alcohol is a good idea? At least your drunk husband could miss sometimes, now he beats you double the amount
“Why, maybe some of them even DO deserve to vote!”
In 1950, American women had had the right to vote for 30 years.
@@Cyberspine I know….its a joke
@@pneumonoultramicroscopicsiIico Wrong time period tho
@@Cyberspine big whoop
Ah would be french feminists in the 40's though
Most of his comments still hold true today.
Lowercase w, but still a W😂
"Dames are my favourite pal"
Eyy i'm respecting boundaries here
Life, it never die
“Tell the world, Stop the war”
Movement
we do say dames in america
I literally know men today who refuse to do any better 😭
It's called being based *sunglasses emoji*
@stenchemitter2407
🤡💀
Well, stop browsing incel forums then.
@@anarchostatist191incel rhetoric has invaded most online spaces
@@anarchostatist191I I assume you meant based gigachad smima gale?
Honestly, this has to be the most wholesome thing on this channel
This hits hard because sometimes I wonder if that's what I sound like, as a feminist man.
And I wonder: Is that how I'd sound like to someone many decades in the future?
The "I allow my daughter to make eye contact with boys and men " got me 😭💀
with most creatures that have functioning eyeballs, eye contact is threatening and over challenging. However with humans it can be something far more deeper-although it can carry more than just that meaning. It can carry a variety if you know what you're doing, it is a valuable communication tool that should be done properly. It's not something for an irresponsible child to be doing.
Sameee😂😂😂😂
This guy is actually more feminist than my dad=)))
"My dad was a feminist." "Not your mom?" "Mom? No. Dad would never allow it."
Other people’s daughters can make eye contact with girls and women too!
He's a bit confused, but he's got the spirit... I guess.😂
Better than now in that sense
That is indeed pure gin in his glass.
@@rentisme you’re the person this video is making fun of
@@someone7554would you date a trans person ?
@@dacgbuiltritecalm down the trannīes aren’t out to get you
I wanna bring back the word moxy.
I had to rewatch this twice because I'm like half asleep and this popped on my timeline. I didn't understand what you were saying at first because I just woke up all of the stuff you're saying you're saying it in such a nice voice that I was like wait what is he saying wrong and then I was like wait a minute.😂
Some men today aren't even at this stage yet 😩
Keep telling yourself that.
@@Laissez-faire402
Why would one want to believe this? She’s saying this because it’s true. Some men aren’t at this stage and it’s horrible.
@@Laissez-faire402 have you heard about incels, or alpha males?
braindead comment
@@Alexandraadftxr7052”nice guys” as well
Honestly, for the 50’s, this is a good man.
A lying leech that is only doing this for the validation of a group of women
Honestly, this is a good man now.
@@senorsiro3748 weird way to spell bare minimum, must be a different language
@@DRCx_ Nah, between Tate the Pimp on one side and the modern Male-Feminists “proud” of how “liberated” their OnlyFans crush is on the other, this guy’s pretty much a voice of reason.
@@senorsiro3748 so if not beating your wife is GOOD and not the base... then beating your wife is normal? Same with saying women occasionally have good ideas, that should be the bare minimum.
You know it's bad when there is still lots of men who would see this "unmanly"
The bar used to be in Hell even back then, apparently lol
“My daughters fat! And I’ve never told her how much it bothers me!” Did it for me 😂
It's incredibly true to life even now.
Hey he’s doin better than my dad wit this one 😂
He's sorta like my dad but I know how bad my dad is at hiding it.
Well he can at least help her stay healthy
Better than my own dad when I *gasp* grew bigger in puberty
The way he captures the smug “I only have this opinion to feel superior to other men” vibe makes him one of the best actors of our time I believe
The fact that this is radical thinking for some people today...
My next recommended short was a guy singing a opera song about a mysoginistic guy and his masochistic wife, life is awesome
Still better than a shocking amount of people currently
yeah like the ones that let men compete with their daughters in sports
@@paulbarclay4114Be quiet, NeoNazi
@@paulbarclay4114guy who definitely isn't obsessed with trans people:
@@paulbarclay4114what are you yabbering on about
Go outside
Some men now aren’t even this respectful 🤦♀️😑
Some women don't deserve to be respected.
You find condescending honey-potting to be respectful?
@@hunterhall1575It would have been better than doing nothing, since back then nothing a woman said mattered, so a man would basically need to agree if anyone else were to actually think about something.
@@honey-hunterslimefanno.3257 Yall my comment was a dig at modern male feminists being cringe white knights, not a dig at classical feminism.
Please mind the context.
@@hunterhall1575You replied to the wrong comment if that is what you meant. "Some men aren't this respectful" and your comment doesn't mean what you have said it meant.
He looked so proud of it in the end 😂
This reminds me why my grandma and great aunts have the self images they do. All of them, even in their 70s, compete for thinness, dieting, and generally appealing to the male gaze. It’s really sad and I feel cruel correcting such engrained “rules” bc it’s all they grew up with
The way he’s so proud of himself 💀
Yup just goes to show that we know nothing about the 50s other than what Hollywood tells us 😂
He is actually quite above good . The not virgin one is disgusting iam from baghdad. The dude is quite noraml decent dude with a brain
@@xcept7355 Let's not take the caricature seriously.
I mean he should he is better than all of the men he is talking to and he is saying these things knowing damn well thry wont like that
Same as "feminists" nowadays
The fact that these were genuine improvements at the time should show how bad it was.
history is an eternal foreward march
what was seen as progressive fifty years ago is now seen as deeply conservative. and similarly the beliefs that are progressive today will likely be seen as similarly conservative fifty years from now
Some of them yeah. But being fat wasnt a thing back then really, i believe that one was added as a joke
@@tempejklDo you not have any relatives with old pictures? Being fat was a thing for some, also the standards for being called fat were different.
congratulations, you've discovered:
the point of the video!
@@SuperRONDALE yeah that's a sign of how far we've fallen lmao. HFCS 4 Lyfe!
I'm from 1950 then.
He actually seems like a pretty reasonable and decent person
“My daughter’s fat! And I’ve NEVER told her how much it bothers me!” LMFAOO
If your daughter is fat you failed as a parent. Your kids being unhealthy should bother you, and you should tell them
I was surprised hearing that considering being fat used to be a sign that u were well off
@@miau5878literally! there’s no sculptures of super thin people in the pantheon, painted, etc. the ideal body at the time was well off.
edit: yes, the guys had muscles. they were usually gods and such. i understand what you mean by ripped, but they weren’t sticks. they weren’t whatever the standards are today.
@@miau5878 that was in ancient times tho. People in the 50-80s were obsessed with weight
@@beesare_cool Except this is set in the '50s not 800 BC. Also if you have seen any Hellenistic statues they aren't exactly plus-sized, the men are muscled and toned with basically no body fat and the women are just kind of normal weight.
Literally me
Not even the bare minimum lmao
we love a supportive king👑
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@@_Hanako_132 why?
Eww
"I try my hardest to keep my wife OUT of the kitchen."
that was my grandma and grandpa....my grandmother has many many talents that leave me in awe but cooking is not one of them
That’s me with my wife, she’s lit the oven on fire twice. We are all safer because of this.
“Sometimes I cook dinner!”
My maternal grandfather once told me, and I quote "You know kid? Your Grandma cooked dinner only one time. We call it . . . the Hindenburg."
Bro why tf do people believe that. Men run behind women and shout at them for them to get in the kitchen as a joke whilst not knowing THEY are the joke because women were not even allowed in the kitchen back then, women weren't allowed to do shit really back then. If a woman wanted to be a chef or cook she had to be trained by a man.
Tbf, that's way better than a lot of people I know.
You‘re amazing 😊
What's sad is that even in 2023, some men haven't got to the level of 1950s. THE BAR IS AT THE GROUND!
And some men grabbed a shovel
Literally just found one of those "women are low quality" youtube channels, some dudes have drills and excavators.
Askeladd
literally me
@@dont-worry-about-it-A couple dudes took a Catapillar digger.
My grandpa would probably never consider himself a feminist, but his wife, my grandma, worked full time as a nurse in the 50s with 3 little girls and then my dad born in ‘57. Two of my aunts got phds and my grandpa was always proud of his smart, strong daughters and granddaughters
Who gives a shit?
@@decembersveryown5935stfu hater
That's so cool they all achieved that in those days!
That's great! Just wanted to add that it's kind of a misconception that women all stayed at home before the 60s. Maybe wealthy women, but working class women have always worked!
@@decembersveryown5935 you, apparently, who was so appalled by this comment you just had to respond.
Honestly better then a lot of men nowadays
He’s trying guys🥹
That last one looked like he paused to rethink that one “on second thought-“
I think he was posing haha
Nahh he looked so proud of himself
unironically better than Andrew Tate fans view of women
For many men today it would be an upgrade :(
Fr tho it’s crazy the amount of meat riding men do on other men
Dude's better than a lot of men today.
Mfers be like:
I almost consider women human like me. But not quite yet.
"wdym they are human? i thought they were women?"
I saw someone get offended from a comment that said people (here referring to women). They were asking the op why they didn't say women and call them people. Some people are just....🚩
Just reverse the genders and this is modern day America 🇺🇸
@@koboldwizardI thought you were amewican
@@DetectiveCam i thought i was australian, you learn something new everyday
"My daughter is fat snd I never told her how much it bothers me".
UnIronically, that still makes him better than alot of people nowadays
EDIT: I love how so many people reply with "well actually if she is overweight you should tell her because it's not healthy". As if most fat people dont know that they are fat and need other peoples inginious insight in order to realise the shape of their own damn bodies.
Also, got to love how some even imply that being fat is always a result of bad mental health.
Even when that is the case the solution is not to constantly remind/shame someone for being fat and force them to eat healthy and go to the gym (no, being a passive agressive prick about it by giving them gym membership cards is not good either) . It's to help them seek PROFESSIONAL help to sort out their mental state and THEN do anything about their bodies IF they themselves want to.
it bothers him, but he recognizes that its a him problem and that he doesnt need to make a big deal about things that dont actually concern him,
@@thesatelliteslickers907 depends on how fat she is, if she is unhealthy he does need to tell her.
Correct. I would never say it to my daughter. I would give her a membership card for a gym as christmas present. But generally I think, it is no good policy, not to say to your children, what they are doing wrong. Inverse, the children will do the same with their parents in their adult years. It shows, that you care for somebody.
@@lolasdm6959 though I agree 100% w/ what you just said, I'd respectfully submit these are 2 different things. In fact, nobody knows whether he's said anything to her abt potential health ramiications; like the poster at top said, him being bothered by her fatness is very much "a him-problem," rather than something tangibly affecting her future.
@@NotAStanAccount It always effects her future. Most people care a lot about apperences, being as conventionally good looking as you can be is always an advantage.
Also there are established thresholds for unhealthy fat, as in over 200-300 calories your maintenance caloric intake. Generally for women, it's over 89 cm for waist measure. Outlayers always exist, so just go ask a doctor.