NELLY & ASHANTI ARE BACK TOGETHER BUT WILL HE MARRY HER THIS TIME AROUND+ NELLY'S EX WANTS HIM BACK!

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Komentáře • 581

  • @s.ensationa.l
    @s.ensationa.l Před 7 měsíci +53

    What if he does? Then what?

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  Před 7 měsíci +172

      I'm happy for them and he did right by her because she wants marriage and kids 😊

    • @Murdermagictricks
      @Murdermagictricks Před 7 měsíci +18

      He's going to cheat on her

    • @kaylove4507
      @kaylove4507 Před 7 měsíci +29

      It'll be a low quality marriage. He's not marriage material..he's not committal. Now that doesn't mean he's a bad guy like as long as he knows he's not the marriage type. He shouldn't string women along though. That's where my issue come in but if he's making it clear to her hey marriage is not for me. You know I can dump you tomorrow and get a new thing on the side then if she's okay with that I say let them be happy

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Murdermagictricks EXACTLY. Like I said he’s not the commitment type or the marrying type he’s going to F her over just like he did with Shantel…

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@kaylove4507 And so is Cam Newton he’s non committal as well we’ve seen how he did his other BM Kia who wanted marriage and he told her he “wasn’t ready to be a husband” but he had no problem pumping children in her out of wedlock… he clearly lacks d!*k discipline and control because now his current GF Jas is pregnant with no ring or commitment in sight and she comes from a strict Christian household…. What a disappointment.

  • @michilafox2106
    @michilafox2106 Před 7 měsíci +418

    From personal experience, never compete for a man with another woman because he's laughing at both of you. He enjoys the cattiness of both women as he feels that he is the prize. He will leave you feeling embarrassed and foolish.

    • @yougotgamesonyourphone6947
      @yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Před 7 měsíci +43

      Whew chile..And don’t let you be the woman decides to walk away from the involuntary throuple or he’ll resent you for it 🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Amen! Exactly!

    • @jozzz222
      @jozzz222 Před 7 měsíci +13

      Ashanti should know she made a song about this called “foolish” 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @skindippedingold
      @skindippedingold Před 7 měsíci

      Facts!! Usually the guy is a loser and both women end up looking like regretful fools in the end.

    • @busridingchick1063
      @busridingchick1063 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yep, me in 2021, somebody always get hurts. Ask me how I know?!?

  • @char6201
    @char6201 Před 7 měsíci +183

    It’s nothing sadder than a woman who allows a man to rob her of her child bearing years with the HOPES that he will commit 😢

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci +7

      She's been single for years now , right? So why wasn't she dating someone else?

    • @justiceforMohbad430
      @justiceforMohbad430 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Waste of time again . He is making a fool of her tbh

    • @justiceforMohbad430
      @justiceforMohbad430 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@Kuhle980 Its embarrassing to watch their antics 😀 they say he is broke oh well 😀

  • @shawnflossy
    @shawnflossy Před 7 měsíci +151

    Ashanti is giving the main character energy to Nelly and I hate that for her. It’s no way I would walk out in public with a purse of a man’s face and he referring to me as “we cool” in an interview. That’s a strong NO

  • @zeethequietstorm
    @zeethequietstorm Před 7 měsíci +151

    Another example of black love. The struggle is real.

    • @peacejoylove8542
      @peacejoylove8542 Před 7 měsíci +23

      The sad part is, there never had to be a struggle, ever.

  • @IAmCrystleMarie
    @IAmCrystleMarie Před 7 měsíci +230

    I feel like she wasting her pretty time.

  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 Před 7 měsíci +144

    "...Yeah... we're cool again"
    Is this how men announce their relationship to the world??? It's sounds like he reconciled with a friend more than anything, but what can I say? He's not attractive to me

  • @breebree5510
    @breebree5510 Před 7 měsíci +396

    Hopefully not. Its nothing about Nelly that screams he'll make a good husband....I mean NOTHING 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nickoletcampbell4657
      @nickoletcampbell4657 Před 7 měsíci +48

      Then there's that video of him serenading a child on stage knowing damn well that's a child. He got issues. Drug issues, IRS issue, commitment issues...

    • @yujuy.1329
      @yujuy.1329 Před 7 měsíci

      THE SAME IS TRUE FOR ALL OF THE MEN THAT CELEB BW CHOOSE. they are all trash.

    • @BeautyNBrains86
      @BeautyNBrains86 Před 7 měsíci +40

      I thought it was just me. Lmao. I just see him as an entertainer. He's a goofy to me.

    • @healingunicornstarotminist4329
      @healingunicornstarotminist4329 Před 7 měsíci +14

      Nelly has sexual assault allegations attached to his name too.

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@nickoletcampbell4657😢 wow, forgot about that vid 😬

  • @Jay10-rf3uh
    @Jay10-rf3uh Před 7 měsíci +260

    Ashanti needs to pull an Eve or Ciara, she is way too unproblematic for this drama. And this triangulation is not worth her destroying her image.

    • @annholl1603
      @annholl1603 Před 7 měsíci +18

      She is drop dead gorgeous and exude the best energy. She trully is a sweetheart. She deserves the best and Nelly is not it.

    • @tiaraw872
      @tiaraw872 Před 7 měsíci +9

      “This drama” ..no drama has even happened. 🤣It’s literally y’all in y’all feelings about their relationship

    • @jamesjackson4264
      @jamesjackson4264 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@annholl1603she feels like it is tho. Isn’t it her choice. She a grown woman. Let her live her love life the way she wants.

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Exactly!!! Ashanti does NOT need to involve herself with Nelly or the games he has played with women in his past relationship with his ex who still wants him Ashanti needs a man with no drama or baggage.

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci +9

      Pull an Eve or a Ciara 😂😂😂😂 no lies told. Wish i could pull an eve or a ciara 😅She must really really love him. Idk what spell he cast on her 😂😂😂😂

  • @tmichelle9669
    @tmichelle9669 Před 7 měsíci +86

    I said Ashanti shouldn’t laugh too hard and tread lightly when dealing with Nelly. I honestly think Nelly would spin the block on Chantel too 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @kaylove4507
      @kaylove4507 Před 7 měsíci +16

      I can see that happening. And because Chantel seems like the type of woman to not play the games, he would have to come back to her correctly cuz I don't think she would come back without a commitment. Unfortunately, Ashanti is willing to deal with it and to see where it goes, but I don't think Chanel is going to see where it goes

    • @chartarotscope6230
      @chartarotscope6230 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I wholeheartedly agree.

  • @justme9514
    @justme9514 Před 7 měsíci +567

    Nope, he won't marry her. I honestly think she's a fool for back tracking for him. She's so beautiful, successful, and deserves what she wants. She'll never open her options and that's why she's back there. This will go nowhere 😗

    • @sexyalleycat
      @sexyalleycat Před 7 měsíci +13

      👏👏👏

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Před 7 měsíci +12

      This !!!

    • @nickoletcampbell4657
      @nickoletcampbell4657 Před 7 měsíci +57

      I also noticed that after him both women have never been in a public relationship with anyone else. It's like they're *put on pause* until he comes back. Smh.

    • @justme9514
      @justme9514 Před 7 měsíci +52

      ​@@nickoletcampbell4657 that's true and a fair observation about both women. Both these women seem to see him as the prize, but to me there's always been something about Nelly that screams that he is lazy, he comes across as he uses his charm and swag as an asset and women fall for it. His energy seems like he is a good talker and that's about it 😂
      I think Nelly knows he is not husband material and that adds to his non committal ways.

    • @donnamcintosh2109
      @donnamcintosh2109 Před 7 měsíci +33

      It’s just mind-boggling how Ashanti allowed Nelly to waste all of her years. Even though there are women having babies in their 40’s, it’s risky for a woman at that age trying to have several kids. And, Ashanti has wasted too many years on a lousy man who refused to marry her and have children with her.

  • @sonyasees1022
    @sonyasees1022 Před 7 měsíci +127

    Don't waste your childbearing years chasing dust!

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Period

    • @dancer2cry4
      @dancer2cry4 Před 7 měsíci +1

      lol

    • @stellakamau6994
      @stellakamau6994 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Case in point: Jidenna

    • @peral341
      @peral341 Před 7 měsíci +1

      She already has. If Ashanti got pregnant today, she would be considered a high-risk case. You can't have kids in your 40s thinking it's going to be a piece of cake and the baby will be healthy. You're taking a HUGE chance.

    • @bettyhoward643
      @bettyhoward643 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@peral341oh ye of little faith

  • @Sid_218
    @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci +151

    He definitely will not marry her because Nelly is a commitment phobe Ashanti is basically doing WIFE duties without the ring and he probably is content with Ashanti being a LONG TERM GF … Nelly will NOT give her what she wants which is marriage because he’s not the type to settle down at all. Ashanti’s first mistake was doubling back when she could’ve moved on to a man that has the same mindset as her if she wanted kids she should’ve moved on to a man that had the same morals & values. Nelly is not THE MARRYING TYPE. Ashanti needs to look for a man that is on the same level as her and is ready to commit and Nelly clearly will NEVER be READY.

  • @LaiLai..
    @LaiLai.. Před 7 měsíci +74

    If she want marriage and kids, she’s definitely wasting her time.

  • @Byebandit50
    @Byebandit50 Před 7 měsíci +184

    I haven’t yet watched the video I’m about to, but the answer is absolutely not. In fact, he has even less incentive because a woman that is waiting in the wings after you’ve been dating other women for a decade is not gonna require marriage.
    Ashanti is simply opening up old wounds and giving a man access that he shouldn’t have

  • @childofYah4life
    @childofYah4life Před 7 měsíci +72

    LADIES!!! NEVER spin the block with a man who fumbled you.

  • @Maya-xm5jx
    @Maya-xm5jx Před 7 měsíci +36

    If that boy don’t love you by now, he will never ever never ever love you….He will never ever never ever love you.

  • @mam9475
    @mam9475 Před 7 měsíci +19

    Nelly is 50 talking about “ we cool again” 🙄🙄🙄

  • @justme9514
    @justme9514 Před 7 měsíci +23

    Exactly Yani, he is 'non - committal '

  • @tashibalampkin8555
    @tashibalampkin8555 Před 7 měsíci +98

    No, I don't think they will marry. It seems like they're just having fun.

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold Před 7 měsíci +26

    Ladies, a few red flags you can take from this : 1. when they are only focused on building a “friendship” for years but you’re in a relationship. 2. When he says he will marry you and always says “soon… or in a few years.” And never sets a date or the time comes and passes. 3. Ends a good relationship after YEARS of not committing to beautiful women. 4. Having multiple children and never marrying their mothers.

  • @msnikkiwunderful
    @msnikkiwunderful Před 7 měsíci +269

    Honestly I feel like he is wasting her time. Even the way he announced it was weird..."yeah we cool again". Is this 2004 all over again?

    • @Blaquebarbgamer
      @Blaquebarbgamer Před 7 měsíci +51

      Right? Like wtf was that? Chiile

    • @Rieka.Chanel
      @Rieka.Chanel Před 7 měsíci +47

      Exactly! He speaks as if he’s still super young just having fun. If that’s all he wants I hope he tells her that.

    • @MeresankhJ
      @MeresankhJ Před 7 měsíci +42

      People get mad at me when I mention that he still
      Hasn’t claimed her. It’s so embarrassing watching this.

    • @Chya838
      @Chya838 Před 7 měsíci +8

      What he said was fine. He was being coy and what he said after that, implies that they’re together. They don’t owe the public sht. But when you look for negativity, you will find it, I guess.

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci

      He too old to be talking like that. Embarrassing- souding ditsy 🫣

  • @afrobutterfly
    @afrobutterfly Před 7 měsíci +174

    Does she even WANT to marry him at this point? Whats the point at this point?

    • @DuchessofKuvuki
      @DuchessofKuvuki Před 7 měsíci +15

      Exactly 😅

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit Před 7 měsíci +21

      The point is having fun and enjoying him for now.

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 Před 7 měsíci +26

      She wants marriage he doesn’t he’s more comfortable with Ashanti being a LONG TERM LIVE IN GF than A WIFE… Nelly is giving Ashanti wife benefits without a full commitment to her he is basically stringing her along and I believe honestly she deserves so much better than NELLY he is suffering from commitment phobia and that’s why he won’t put a ring on Ashanti’s finger he’s an F boy in my personal opinion who enjoys stringing women along for his own benefit.

    • @kjsfhjk
      @kjsfhjk Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@Sid_218 If he's giving her wife benefits then what's the issue here? Why exactly do they need to be married?

    • @Thestrongone844
      @Thestrongone844 Před 7 měsíci

      @@kjsfhjkTypical n*gga mindset

  • @Anonymous_JK_Lover
    @Anonymous_JK_Lover Před 7 měsíci +224

    One thing I've learned from a young age from looking at other people's situation and going through 1 situation of my own is to NOT. NEVER. EVER. laugh at another woman thinking you have the upper hand. Tables can turn, and I feel like when you laugh at another woman like Ashanti did those tables turn quicker. I hope for her sake that her laughing at Shantel was worth it.
    I agree with you I want to be happy for them, but it just feels off. Him saying "I'm on it" in reply to someone saying get her pregnant is telling. He could have said "there are some steps before that" wink wink or anything but that. It just seems like he's still not thinking about marriage with comments like that. Unless she's changed her stance on marriage when it comes to him and we just don't know 🤷‍♀ Ultimately I wish them the best and hopefully he proves us wrong.

    • @NikNik0123
      @NikNik0123 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Who is Shantel?

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Před 7 měsíci +7

      ​@@NikNik0123fr. Ashanti can laugh because she was there first

    • @Anonymous_JK_Lover
      @Anonymous_JK_Lover Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@NikNik0123 the woman he dated after Ashanti

    • @islandsun8235
      @islandsun8235 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Shan was minding her business when Shantel started throwing jabs at her. Shan has never been a troublemaker. Ask anyone close to her, and they will tell U. She is not like most of Y'all are; problematic. It is a very long story concerning Shan and Shantel. I am not going to air their dirty laundry here, but one thing I will say is; Shantel is getting her karma. Never take another woman's man when U know they are going through stuff. Shantel lost Nelly, the same way she got him. Ain't karma a bitch?

    • @Anonymous_JK_Lover
      @Anonymous_JK_Lover Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@islandsun8235 I get that Ashanti isn't problematic, and that's why I would hope that she remains that way. Easier said than done if someone keeps coming for you 🤷🏾‍♀️ you might crack at some point, but sometimes you have to make your anger expensive and not say anything at all. Let people spiral in your silence. Especially in this case with Nelly who hasn't stepped up to plate before, and had a long term relationship with the other girl as well. You never know what a guy says to the next girl behind your back while he tells you she's just crazy and still wants me but I don't want her. That's the only reason why I said I hope the laughs are worth it. She's unproblematic like you said and I would hope that she stays that way and doesn't end up with egg on her face (God Forbid). It hasn't been that long since they've reconciled so he can still switch up. I hope not but he can.
      Nothing against Ashanti she's human so she will have reactions especially if there's that history that you mentioned, but sometimes you'll be loyal and ride for your relationship and turns out there was a reason why the other one felt comfortable coming for you. Again I hope he proves us wrong, and he is handling Shantel's disrespect behind the scenes but we'll have to see.

  • @jacquelinef7174
    @jacquelinef7174 Před 7 měsíci +28

    Hes not marrying anyone. Ashanti is wasting her time. Got Nelly thinking he's the prize. SMH .She could've been married by now to a man that wants marriage/kids.

    • @jamesjackson4264
      @jamesjackson4264 Před 7 měsíci +1

      To who a bus driver. If she could have been married she would be.

  • @Tamfel_85
    @Tamfel_85 Před 7 měsíci +236

    Just allow ppl to be happy until they're not anymore. Plain and simple. Either way it goes Ashanti will be fine. No matter what anyone thinks its her life. Win, lose or draw!

    • @andreaspencer6035
      @andreaspencer6035 Před 7 měsíci +25

      Period they act like they life perfect and he going to marry her watch for all you haters!

    • @joyce9857
      @joyce9857 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Exactly 💯 ❤

    • @andreaspencer6035
      @andreaspencer6035 Před 7 měsíci +18

      All in people business when they life ain’t even perfect and worry about these celebrities

    • @Chya838
      @Chya838 Před 7 měsíci +14

      Exactly ! these ppl act so self righteous…and be going through much worse💯 Ashanti will be ok either way ❤❤

    • @Rieka.Chanel
      @Rieka.Chanel Před 7 měsíci +41

      @@andreaspencer6035 They’re just case studies to dissect human behavior, which people can learn from. It’s not that deep for you to be acting like you’re their pit bull or something.

  • @rachelsinclair731
    @rachelsinclair731 Před 7 měsíci +40

    Nelly is definitely not marrying Ashanti. He's in lust with her and they have a good time.

    • @DarnishaNolan
      @DarnishaNolan Před 7 měsíci +6

      Exactly

    • @jamesjackson4264
      @jamesjackson4264 Před 7 měsíci +6

      They both in lust for each other if you ask me.

    • @iceprincess825
      @iceprincess825 Před 7 měsíci +1

      If Nelly marries her, will she be partially responsible for the unpaid taxes???? May not be ether getting married to him.

  • @MurphyGurls
    @MurphyGurls Před 7 měsíci +74

    I think Ashanti is smart and will be prepared for whatever comes her way.

    • @jessicasblessed8310
      @jessicasblessed8310 Před 7 měsíci +28

      If she was smart she wouldn’t put herself in such an unsure situation to begin with

    • @MurphyGurls
      @MurphyGurls Před 7 měsíci +12

      @@jessicasblessed8310 how do you know she is unsure or the dynamics of their relationship? My view is based on what I see on the surface and how she has moved her entire life in the public eye. She is a grown a** Woman. She got this.

    • @jessicasblessed8310
      @jessicasblessed8310 Před 7 měsíci +11

      @@MurphyGurls The “unsure situation” I’m referring to is her relationship w/ Nelly, he refuses to give her title & strung her along for 10+ yrs before, sounds like a pretty “unsure” situation to me 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @tgssgt
      @tgssgt Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@jessicasblessed8310yes!! This comment. You beat me to it 🎉

    • @Luminousone_624
      @Luminousone_624 Před 7 měsíci +1

      You have to be at that point

  • @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt
    @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt Před 7 měsíci +14

    She should give him 6 months then keep it pushing

  • @sexyalleycat
    @sexyalleycat Před 7 měsíci +60

    This dude is playing with her again. At his big age, he should not be talking like this. At her big age, she should not be accepting this bull ish. Just why? This is ridiculous at this point. There is no way a woman would spend the block to get the same result. He already knows what he needs to know about her, trust. He don't stand on nothing but games. He should have proposed after two months. He is really wasting her time, and that's on period 💅🏽

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci +1

      Propose in two months - I agree 👏🏾 ...maybe thats the delusional part of me 🫣

  • @sherrita8582
    @sherrita8582 Před 7 měsíci +53

    Sadly,he won't, she bought him a car for his bday smdh..if a man wants to marry a woman he will no matter whats happening ..but let me mind my business 😂

  • @annenew8220
    @annenew8220 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Bless Ashanti heart. She put her heart back into the same place where her heart was broken.

  • @HaughtyHedonist
    @HaughtyHedonist Před 7 měsíci +22

    I Personally Couldn't Go Back To An Ex, Let Alone An Ex That Was Serenading A Teenager Onstage In An Inappropriate Manner 🤧😬

  • @patrice6139
    @patrice6139 Před 7 měsíci +36

    Nelly looks like the type of man when asked if he loves the woman he's with, he'd respond by saying he's "got love for her" and that seems to be enough to have Ashanti run right back to Nelly. I hate to see it. But at this point, I can't feel sorry for her. She could have opened her options years ago and found love.

    • @patricareynolds5617
      @patricareynolds5617 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes I would not lived with him and went deep for him seem like he play games and look for valued in woman

  • @CacheSnow
    @CacheSnow Před 7 měsíci +38

    Nelly will never marry her. Hopefully she doesn’t realize it to late. You can have any guy you want Ashanti. Please don’t settle because of history!

  • @jadauwadia
    @jadauwadia Před 7 měsíci +34

    He looked so unhappy in that relationship compared to Ashanti. He looks so happy with Ashanti. I’m not into celebrity relationships because it’s not my business, but it would be nice to see them be married and create a happy foundation.

    • @jadauwadia
      @jadauwadia Před 7 měsíci +8

      Well I commentated before watching the video, idk if Ashanti should. He’s a good time, not a long time.

  • @ladystarfish531
    @ladystarfish531 Před 7 měsíci +14

    He was also accused of SA not too long ago..but escaped charges again just like Trey Songz

  • @peacejoylove8542
    @peacejoylove8542 Před 7 měsíci +75

    An amazing mentor of mine says something along the lines of "save yourself the time and minimize suffering, by learning your lessons the first time around. But learning the lesson by observing others is even better!" I wish more women were privy to this sentiment because they would save themselves so much in wasted energy and suffering. I hope things work out for Ashanti's sake. Men know what they want. He knows what he wants and its not marriage. He just likes to say a whole bunch of gobbledygook instead simply, I don't want marriage.

  • @alluringbliss4165
    @alluringbliss4165 Před 7 měsíci +20

    Again and again being single is a blessing.

  • @noam2859
    @noam2859 Před 7 měsíci +10

    I think they’re both doing things differently. For one, they’re public about it which may have been one of their insecurities years ago. They’re both older and more experienced. Let’s wait and see

  • @PrettyPreciousG
    @PrettyPreciousG Před 7 měsíci +19

    Ms Jackson was a place holder.
    Simple as that.
    Nelly realized that Ashanti is his 80, and YES, I think they will get married.
    Ashanti stated her intention...
    To focus on marriage and children.
    I'm certain my good sis had a good conversation with Nelly before deciding to spin the block with him.

  • @FtWkCn
    @FtWkCn Před 7 měsíci +10

    He is an "eternal bachelor" so to speak, nothing wrong with it, he just needs to be honest about it! This guy is almost 50 talking about being friends first, smh!

  • @talishak100
    @talishak100 Před 7 měsíci +19

    Nelly is one of those dudes who will waste many years of your life, if you let him. All of these people are to old to be playing this game.

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn Před 7 měsíci +26

    He’s about to waste more of her time. It’s giving, I’m gonna need a nurse in a few years and you’re desperate so I’ll take you

  • @mairahmanzini2928
    @mairahmanzini2928 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Normalise not being exclusive with boyfriends.

  • @tangy_t33
    @tangy_t33 Před 7 měsíci +56

    take a shot every time Nelly says “friendship” 🤣🤣🤣 this dude just wasting that girls time and she’s just oblivious to it.
    i would hope he proves us wrong.
    either way, good luck to them i guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Před 7 měsíci +5

      If they withheld sex from him, it would end so soon!

  • @Sparklenshineco
    @Sparklenshineco Před 7 měsíci +17

    I believe he will on both their terms.I don’t think Ashanti would have went back. This go around seems different.

  • @Chya838
    @Chya838 Před 7 měsíci +32

    I wish ppl would stop trying to pressure this couple to marry. If anything encourage them to get counseling and fix what broke them up in the first place. Marriage don’t fix problems and needs a solid foundation to work. But it’s bunch of single women trying to tell somebody else what to do. Y’all don’t go this hard on them single baby mamas like Rihanna. 😏

    • @LaiLai..
      @LaiLai.. Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@lauraxo1117did you even watch the video ? The first clip is Ashanti saying she want marriage and kids .

    • @Chya838
      @Chya838 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@LaiLai.. And? My statement was not based on if she wanted marriage or not. Im saying ppl need to stop forcing it. Furthermore, It’s HER choice if she’s willing to compromise on what she wants if Nelly isn’t on the same page. He may very well be planning to marry her. We don’t know what them folks have going on in REAL life.

    • @LaiLai..
      @LaiLai.. Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@Chya838did I MENTION you in my comment? No I didn’t so I don’t know why you responded to me. The person i mentioned must have deleted her comment. Next time read before responding .

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci

      Thought asap and riri secretly eloped

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci

      Rihanna and asap rocky are younger than nelly and ashanti. No point in the comparison. And people said the same thing about Rihanna. They actually gave asap rocky the hardest time

  • @Babydoll-gf6cm
    @Babydoll-gf6cm Před 7 měsíci +17

    If she gets her heart broken, maybe it will be the wake up call she needs to make better choices in men. We have to let people live their lives and go through the lessons needed for their growth

  • @salutemimi81
    @salutemimi81 Před 7 měsíci +69

    I will gladly admit to being a hypocrite
    I will gladly admit I don't date
    I can take being called old and bitter
    I'm ok with all of that
    But also anyone that asked me for advice or my opinion
    I wasn't wrong
    I could be wrong
    But I know a place filler when I see it
    Especially when there is familiarity
    But at this age...over 40 and 50
    Outside noise should be controlled
    And intentions should be clear
    Now if they have an understanding...great
    But never hope you can change someone without them showing that desire on their own
    Never hope for change because you will end up hurting and full of resentment
    We don't know the details
    But I see place filler and someone who enjoys her and companionship
    But that's all he wants

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae Před 7 měsíci +1

      I hope that isn't the case 😢

  • @nessamunik2044
    @nessamunik2044 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Wise people learn from the mistakes of others...

  • @mllwstrm
    @mllwstrm Před 7 měsíci +8

    This might not end well for Ashanti and I will hate that very much for her...

  • @gee.kay.4787
    @gee.kay.4787 Před 7 měsíci +14

    we all know this spin the block aint going anywhere -- if anything, the lesson is: NEVER SPIN THE BLOCK!

  • @NeciKnowBetta
    @NeciKnowBetta Před 7 měsíci +62

    One thing a man gone do..is embarrass all women involved and then be on to the next…

  • @Naturallyauthentic87
    @Naturallyauthentic87 Před 7 měsíci +4

    He doesn’t want either one of them playing games like he’s in high school

  • @Rieka.Chanel
    @Rieka.Chanel Před 7 měsíci +9

    Nelly appears to have Peter pan syndrome. If Ashanti just wants to have fun then cool. But she has made it clear that she wants marriage & kids, so I hope they’re on the same page.

  • @audreydawkins6965
    @audreydawkins6965 Před 7 měsíci +19

    They must have had that conversation before they gave the world a glimpse of their love the second time around.....let us be happy for them and watch as they continue to allow us to share their journey...they are allowed to do them without the pressure of the world

  • @Ivy_Jane
    @Ivy_Jane Před 7 měsíci +11

    To be honest. I think he will marry her, because she is easy in his eyes...not just sexually, but overall, she is easy for him to be with cause as he said....there is "no pressure".

  • @SusieSue242
    @SusieSue242 Před 7 měsíci +20

    lol he takes marriage seriously but children aren't a bigger commitment? naw gtfoh make it make sense.

    • @kjsfhjk
      @kjsfhjk Před 7 měsíci +3

      Tbf, they're both major commitments but they're also very different in regards to the legal matters. I completely understand wanting to do one but not the other. Some people don't think marriage is worth it and some people don't think having kids is worth it

  • @sage-luxe1198
    @sage-luxe1198 Před 7 měsíci +12

    Now that I know about his tax issues, I’m rethinking Ashanti’s “gift” to him. He probably gave her the money to buy and gift him the car publicly so that the IRS doesn’t seize it in the future. That’s why when he gave her a bracelet for her birthday the scale of things didn’t make sense 😂. I think he’s partially using the relationship to clean up his financial mess. Being with Ashanti is an asset, they stay booked and can make money together. Meanwhile, with his ex, she’s a liability.

  • @patriciacollins4651
    @patriciacollins4651 Před 7 měsíci +20

    Ashanti better be careful. He obviously sees what Shantel is doing and took the time to sing Karaoke basically calling out what Shantel is doing. We now see Nelly does not have a problem with spinning the block. The moment he comes down from his lover’s high with Ashanti, he’ll be sniffing around Ms. Jackson again. I wish happiness and lots of love for both women with somebody else. Also, Yanie, mentioned the type of men Ashanti is attracted to. Look no further than her father. It has been said that Ashanti’s father is a bit of a Casanova.

  • @kissedbythesun545
    @kissedbythesun545 Před 7 měsíci +24

    Its her life is she happy or just having fun it up to her. Dose she want to marry him at all? We shouldn't pressed her, seeing her happy is all that matter.

  • @kayserasera6460
    @kayserasera6460 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Ashanti needs to not comment about Chantel’s shenanigans. Take the high road sis.

    • @pumas6189
      @pumas6189 Před 7 měsíci

      SJ should take the so called high road. She is showing no self respect, no self pride, no self esteem, no dignity for herself. Maybe if she was quite and tending to her life, Nelly might wonder about her. She has no. Class

  • @barbietheemuslimah
    @barbietheemuslimah Před 7 měsíci +7

    He ain’t gone marry her notice he used “cool again”

  • @catflon2388
    @catflon2388 Před 7 měsíci +39

    At this point in history, I like whatever a BW wants for herself. There is enough historical and empirical data about these schmennzzz and their mess to guide our decisions. So good for her 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️, I guess...

  • @sussanekandjo909
    @sussanekandjo909 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I think Nelly could be using Ashanti since he has all those financial problems and needs someone to help him out and get his brand back. I’m not saying there is no genuine emotions but I feel there are some anterior motives, man are smart and know what they can monetize off. But I hope Ashanti realizes her worth, she’s beautiful and can marry a man that can take better care of her because she deserve to be treated like a queen!✨

    • @pumas6189
      @pumas6189 Před 7 měsíci +2

      He no longer has financial problems. Which is why SJ is showing herself now

  • @afrodite1634
    @afrodite1634 Před 7 měsíci +20

    HOORAY ANOTHER POST 🥳 Every time I watch your videos it make so happy and I walk away with more wisdom and insight💛

  • @mosizephyr1080
    @mosizephyr1080 Před 7 měsíci +14

    That man is toying around with her and she’s so naive for going back to him , like move on girl . Hopefully she wakes up soon ✨👀🤞🏾🥲 cuz that brain dormant. He’s never going to marry her and just keep stringing her along to a false reality

  • @MurphyGurls
    @MurphyGurls Před 7 měsíci +19

    Ashanti was petty petty with the karaoke post 🤣

  • @oliviafarrahfowler
    @oliviafarrahfowler Před 7 měsíci +4

    With that video of him and her doing Karaoke, Ashanti know what she signing up for. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kia.203
      @kia.203 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Exactly. Guess time will tell the outcome of this relationship. I wish both parties the best

  • @imjussayn7936
    @imjussayn7936 Před 7 měsíci +7

    He's a commitment phobe that doesn't won't marry & doesn't want to be alone. He just want a safe place secured for himself when it comes to a woman. This isn't new or unusual.

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I never knew they dated maybe I’m too young born in 2000. But what I will say is what I learned out of my 23 years never ever go back to an ex especially if y’all been separated for years……….. if you go back make sure it’s because he on one knee with the ring it’s a waste of time

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 Před 7 měsíci

      You must be too young they were the idea couple like Rihanna and Chris brown

    • @sweetgirrljames
      @sweetgirrljames Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@Esmeb89547lmaooo chris and riri were no ideal couple , couple of teenagers that got into trouble too early on. That's your ideal couple? Embarrassing 😂

  • @justiceforMohbad430
    @justiceforMohbad430 Před 7 měsíci +4

    He already has children and doesn't care no more . She is a fool wasting her time n money on him . He won't marry her to go lose it on a divorce

  • @EsteeCoako28
    @EsteeCoako28 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Why all these years later when they asked if he with her he always be like we cool or we friends and she always saying yes. Lol

  • @jozzz222
    @jozzz222 Před 7 měsíci +9

    I think they’re gonna get married this time around….watch

  • @jamesjackson4264
    @jamesjackson4264 Před 7 měsíci +4

    She look happy no matter what happens. Aint it her life to live?

  • @TheMentalLevelUpPodcast
    @TheMentalLevelUpPodcast Před 7 měsíci +10

    Is it me or did she look a little like Sanaa Lathan in that first interview footage?
    Is it me or does it sound delusional to think you might get a good marriage and kids out of a typical rapper? Almost like going to a hardware store, expecting them to have sewing machines, soft silk fabric and gemstone buttons in stock.

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 Před 7 měsíci +36

    The inner child in me was so happy seeing them back together 💕 That’s all i ever remember seeing growing up. I feel like they’re just enjoying each other’s company. It does seem like Nelly probably still wanna keep his options open. He just give non-committal vibes and he has so much access to many other women.

    • @its_just_me8476
      @its_just_me8476 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Just enjoying each other's company? Not the way she said, "B**ch!!!!" She think she got this on lock down.

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow Před 7 měsíci +20

    I'm not happy about this reunion. Never go back and pick up trash. It's the same trash! Look at the way he treated her vs Miss Jackson. We gotta stop letting these men play in our faces.

  • @tempestatiseye
    @tempestatiseye Před 7 měsíci +2

    She looks so amazing now. Keep note of how she ages in the next few years. Stress will age you.

  • @andreaspencer6035
    @andreaspencer6035 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Yall don’t know these people and don’t know what Nelly going to do I bet he marry her

  • @acapricornworld1683
    @acapricornworld1683 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Nelly just dont want nothing serious.

  • @tamekaallen7023
    @tamekaallen7023 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The “oh hell no” in the into always sound like “oh hell no ion wanna holla at no mf trick daddy” 😂

  • @rayshipooki
    @rayshipooki Před 7 měsíci +2

    Ashanti better not clap back at nothing till she can call herself his wife, cause he can switch up at any moment

  • @DeLaTr0ll
    @DeLaTr0ll Před 7 měsíci +25

    Minding my own uterus but …
    Cant help but say I hope she doesn’t become a baby mother. Run Ashanti … I love her though.❤

    • @alexandragasitu8402
      @alexandragasitu8402 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Too late 😂

    • @DeLaTr0ll
      @DeLaTr0ll Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@alexandragasitu8402 aged like an avocado

    • @Squidlark
      @Squidlark Před 6 měsíci

      She's one now. Whoops!

    • @Squidlark
      @Squidlark Před 6 měsíci +1

      I feel like this relationship was orchestrated by the black manosphere to ruin Ashanti and the image of a flourishing bw not attached to a dusty. Not too long ago Ashanti was doing rounds on social media for being in her 40s, single, childfree and thriving. Blk men were heated as usual at the idea of a bw dwelling in her peace unattached from them and the ideas Ashanti might give other bw that we can have better without bm and Nelly was sent in as a career-assassin to put this happy, blk woman back in her place as a struggling single mother. I don't think this will end well for Ashanti but hopefully it serves as a lesson to other bw.

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees24 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I like Ashanti but there no need for her to shade his ex while singing karaoke.

  • @YaffaKedarZion
    @YaffaKedarZion Před 7 měsíci +3

    Ashanti tripping on the karaoke 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she sounded evil and her laugh 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 OMG

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 Před 7 měsíci +1

    13:30 That laugh after… 😭

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ Před 7 měsíci +8

    I know one thing. Nelly is toooooo damn old to be spinning the block on a relationship that ended 2 decades ago without 0 intentions. Like what’s his plan and end goal. Wishing Ashanti the most and best.

    • @pumas6189
      @pumas6189 Před 7 měsíci

      Being older and more mature is the best time to “spin the block”

  • @MsHillaryBankks
    @MsHillaryBankks Před 7 měsíci +8

    Was just hoping you dropped another video.

  • @BayouDon30
    @BayouDon30 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Everything explained Ashanti already knew! She was helping with the money issues! She was about to say it on a radio interview but her mom was like nah let it go..

  • @ibuymyownroses
    @ibuymyownroses Před 7 měsíci +4

    Can’t believe she wants HIM back atp with all things considered.

  • @SageJack87
    @SageJack87 Před 7 měsíci +6

    It worked for Ben and JLO 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @EvolvementEras
    @EvolvementEras Před 7 měsíci +14

    I think he tells women what they want to hear until it becomes to much pressure and then he leaves.

  • @CourtneyMcMillan-re6ld
    @CourtneyMcMillan-re6ld Před 7 měsíci +6

    I think he's just bouncing back and forth between the both of them 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @tgssgt
    @tgssgt Před 7 měsíci +2

    If Ashanti wants to get married AND have children she best leave this man alone / shouldn't have got back with him now, come on sis. We were rooting for you!

  • @K_reshawn
    @K_reshawn Před 7 měsíci

    Welll yanie you were right!

  • @monalysamakeup849
    @monalysamakeup849 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow Yanie did an amazing job with this video, comparing the past and present interviews etc.👏👏

  • @PoeticJustic3
    @PoeticJustic3 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Maybe Nelly is ego tripping and just wanted to prove he could get ashanti back if he wanted to.

  • @katechipata9934
    @katechipata9934 Před 7 měsíci

    "There's no time limit on this" 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀