KEKE PALMER... IT'S WORSE THAN WE THOUGHT
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- čas přidán 9. 11. 2023
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I hope younger women resist the urge to have a baby and focus on their peace. Babies never save a relationship or make a man be a man 😢
Thank you! I am not victim blaming her, but he was abusing her for the last two years then why get pregnant for him?!?!
Right? I’m convinced a lot of them enjoy being in the “struggle” & having kids that are also rooted to their struggles. It’s repulsive
It’s not that simple. These standards and values are instilled by parents, esp a father.
@@alluringbliss4165 I work in the social welfare system and the fathers are absent. Having babies recklessly is instilled by the degenerate grandmothers, aunts and the mother. This is Black culture.
It's really upsetting she decided to have a baby with him when he was hurting her physically. What made her think he wouldn't hurt the baby too?
“I love you son, see u soon” that sounds like he’s about to make her life even harder
That was absolutely a threat to her
This was MOST DEFINITELY a threat. My ex said the same thing after he beat the sh*t outta me, “see you soon”. Smh.
No for real and that fact that he posted it on twitter shows! He’s about to make her life a living hell I feel for her! 😭
Go after her sanity and her money
Exactly. I always find it shady when people post shit like that knowing that the person being addressed can read it.
She did everything you’re supposed to do in a DV situation. Get full custody and file a restraining order. She’s not going to social media to air her business, she’s taking care of her business. Unlike mr Perkins…
Yep and noticed she also produced evidence of his attacked from camera in her house. Unlike the other who claim to have camera all over but did not show one instance of her attack him
@@ToniaAlex13 exactly
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Based on appearances, we suspected nothing.
She was doing albums, red carpets, movies - all while breastfeeding- and he was stomping her out.
He was putting hands and feet on her for nearly 2 years straight, and none of us were hip.
We need to talk about emotional intelligence and abuse.
That part! We need to talk about the abuse we don't see. The emotional abuse, the psychological abuse, and the manipulation.
I was waiting for her to tell the truth. I go with my intuition 100% when I have no proof. I’m just happy she was honest this early on.
Who suspected nothing? A lot of us peeped that it was or was going to get. It's the progression of @buse.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth Let me rephrase. I suspected emotional abuse, because he was obviously triggered by her success. I did NOT expect that she was getting stomped out for 2 years.
Emphasis on emotional intelligence
Keke has been a actor/performer for most of her life. Im not surprised by her ability to put on a persona of "its all good!"..still the usher situation was such a blaring red flag and most people were just caught up in the details NOT the control/manipulation/public shaming. Those are such characteristic traits of abuse/DV
A lot of people did voice their opinions on that matter. They were called "haters" though. Some people are more intuitive then others.
@@Lynneparks7627right. We were told to stop assuming and hating. It's not assumption or hate to point out that his usher nonsense was a glaring red flag showing how he's controlling and abusive.
@@Lynneparks7627 Yes, that's why I said MOST people
@censaim Keyword: "MOST" people, please take your own advice and not quickly assume Im saying no one did
She needs to relocate as well. Restraining orders can only do so much. If he entered her house without permission before, he will do it again.
I agree. With abusive men, after you leave, you may have to move/relocate & change contact information. It's complicated that Keke has a child with him, but in these DV relationships it's unsafe for the baby too. Darius is the type that may use the baby as a pawn to hurt Keke. Her filing for custody was the best thing for her
She has enough money to get 24/7 security also. Men like these are most dangerous when the woman leaves. He has nothing to lose which makes him even more dangerous.
Why do people get mad at black women for wanting sole custody. I wouldn’t want my child alone with that type of person. That man is abusive and you never what he could do to hurt her. He didn’t care enough about his son when he was beating on his sons mother in front of him. He can see him during his SUPERVISED visitations. That man is clearly unhinged and I wouldn’t allow my child to be alone with a parent that threatens to ☠️ themselves either. Keke did everything right.
And we all heard of cases where fathers are so mad at the mothers that they kill their own kids for revenge. The babies safety is paramount above everything.
A damn shame. I hate when people make assumptions & have strong opinions about shit we have no knowledge about. She will come out of this on top. Thank god she’s alive.
She clearly said mind your business yet people still talking and giving their opinion 🙄. Why can't they leave it alone?
Welcome to the Internet. Welcome to the World.
@@missluna2338as many domestic violence victims do, especially when the business minders are inadvertently prompting more abuse.
Sad thing is women who are famous do these things and still get unalived or not taken serious by the court. Her celebrity worked in her favor and she moved with grace. Truly disgusted by what he did to her.
You don’t have to be famous at all for this to happen to you. This happens to regular women daily.
i am so disappointed in BW reaction to her filing for sole custody. People dont understand that when you make such a drastic move, its not for shits and giggles, she was protecting her child. People were literally dragged and now look, she was dealing with an abuser. And his bitch ass brother giving support, like how are u supporting abuser? I really think if the footage didnt leak, people would have still been dragging keke and not believed her. I wish her nothing but peace and healing.
Black women, please please please be careful who you share your body with. Know your intentions before dating someone and set expectations and standards. If they refuse to meet, move on to the next! That person is NOT FOR YOU. Protect yourself and your womb, it is ultimately protecting your life and your future
Absolutely 💯
The only thing I’m slightly upset with Keke about is the fact that his ex gf talked openly about his abuse and forcing her to get an abortion, yet keke ignored it and continued to date him.. Now we have to have sympathy for her going through the same thing.
I’m just really tired of the same scenario. Yall don’t listen to the women that warn yall bc yall are obsessed with men and relationships. ugh.
She chose terribly, plain and simple
I agree! It is a shame she had to go through this but it could have been prevented before she got pregnant.
Sadly they always believe they will be different. They never learn from the countless stories of other women.
Amen. I just take solace in knowing there are BW like yourself and under your comment. At least I get to witness a few of us be better...
I love Keke but I agree with this statement. She thought she was different and would get better treatment whilst dating the same abusive man. She ignored the red flags. Sad situation.
The girls are sheltered, but the boys are coddled and allowed to do whatever resulting in the issues we have in our community now. Many parents also fail to talk to their children about relationships and the realities of them and the world.
Well said and I highly agree!
My mom never told me about the truth of marriage or how men are or can be. I had to learn on my own. I will not fail my daughters. I tell them what’s what all the time and the are only 10/11.
I think some girls are sheltered and some are left without discipline and proper home training. In this situation Keke had no experience and heard a lot of horror stories about rich men and how they treated women. She also has low self esteem being in the entertainment industry for how long and no relationship that we know of. Getting older and wanting to settle down and have love in her life with no experience and low self esteem and she accepted a loser of a man
We need to talk about the indoctrination of black women and relationships !
This is why you are ALWAYS taking a risk when you date a man who makes less than you. When they’re insecure about their money they will either embarrass you, abuse you, or both. I hope Keke and her baby are somewhere safe and around love and support.
Yes, and many high earners are angelic and are neverrrr abusive 😒
Money ain’t got nothing to do with it you can be rich and still be abusive what are you talkin about everyone in this world is capable of doing something harmful we all human so your point makes no sense
@@larodandrews9410u took the words directly from my mouth money has zero to do with it zilch
Exactly this comment was not it.*😂@@oa6666
Some women love to talk about what they will or won’t do until it’s them in that same situation! That’s why I never pass judgement on the next person. Everyone deserves some level of grace because making mistakes come with the human experience. I truly hope that Keke doesn’t let this situation tear her down .
Absolutely happened to my friend. When I was getting abused she told me it was my fault. When she got beat down by her bd she finally understood and still didn’t apologize to me just kept saying I didn’t know it was like that, like girl I tried to tell youuuuu. And she went back to her bd that she didn't live with. I had to live with abuse bc mine wouldn’t leave my place and the cops didn’t have enough proof to help me. So she ended up in a situation worse than mine by goin back to a dude she didn’t ever have to see again bc although he was bd he was not in his child’s life for twelve years.
@@mercedesharrison5550 I’m so sorry you had to experience that. Hopefully things have turned around for you!
I'm judging because she was warned multiple times an BW in general have been doing this for generations judging needs to happen
@@girlonfire2.076 that’s your opinion. You can warn people all day and shit still happens. What’s done is done! Only thing we can do is make better decisions moving forward. This situation doesn’t have to define Keke. She’s going to overcome it
@@itzkaydayz5408 yes he's long gone and I dumped her last year after 10 years of toxicity progressively getting worse in our friendship. I don't miss either one of them and feel so much lighter and happier without them. Theyboth tried to come back and I said no thank you
Steve Harvey tried to tell her and she shut him down and the audience cheered her on in her delulu. I hate this is happening to her but it was inevitable with what she was saying and the man she chose
Steve was telling her to date in her tax bracket,but different financial stages doesn't stop a man from abusing you.
In that interview Steve said he introduced her to good men with money.
As a DV survivor I always got the vibe from Darius that he was controlling and manipulative. I’m so sorry for Keke, I understand the need to mask what you’re going through because the world is so harsh and non compassionate
Comment sections are so vicious
Thats laughable, most dv victims dont poke the bear. If he was so abusive and controlling her best action is to to go to a concert half naked, drooling over another man and humping him, write a song about not needing a man because you got a bigger butt, dog this man and allow the world to dog him. But she is the victim. 🤔
Just goes to show that you can't always believe what you see. People put on facades to give the image of a happy family. Keke was on the red carpet smiling, glowing, and looking beautiful, and all that time she was being abused behind closed doors. I wish her and the baby the best.
I duno how people do this. My face is always showing my emotions. Then again she an actress!
Keke was sexually abused as a child. This is the root of her insecurity that opened the door to accepting a dude like Darius. Keke told her parents about the abuse as an adult. Meaning, I seriously doubt she got the therapy needed to overcome her innocence being stolen from her. Being sheltered is less of the issue with Keke, she doesn’t know her worth as it pertains to the love a woman deserves.
It might be a mixture of both
You should have specified that it's only CERTAIN victims who reproduce the pattern. I was abused very young at the age of eight and I'm now 20. I'm someone who has very good intuition (those close to me often tell me so), I pay attention to the people I surround myself with and before letting them into my life, I observe them, I let time pass because time will tell me if these people are good or bad. I'd also like to point out that I also grew up in a relatively mysogynistic and sexist environment.
I'm sorry, but KEKE knew before she got involved with this idiot that she simply chose to ignore the red flags, as they say. Nobody deserves to be abused in any way, but certain situations make it possible to avoid such abuse. I'm saying this because I've been following her for a long time and she seems to know a lot about it.why didn't she break it off the moment he laid a hand on her or the moment he psychologically abused her?I don't know.she continued the relationship and even had a child with...
@@romyoliax6624ok but that already happened why do you want to keeep stepping on a woman who's already down? you don't know her!
@@chichiiiiix You don't know her either.I find it hard to accept that she simply stayed in the relashionship.The idea I have is that she stayed to get more evidence against the father of her child, because I think she reacted quite quickly for someone in such a situation.Good for her.
@@romyoliax6624 so instead of just having empathy you really believe she stayed and endured abuse for evidence??? girlll be blessed
I was unmarried until I was 34 and childless until I was 35. During my 20s, I woke up early when I wanted to. Slept in late when I wanted to. I relaxed, read, exercised, traveled, played videos games, hung out with friends, etc when I wanted to. Nothing held me back which was exactly what I want at that point in my life. I couldn't image having to live my life for anyone else. When I got into my 30s, I had done it all by then. I wanted to settle down. So I did. I wanted a baby, suffered 2 losses and finally had my rainbow baby last year. There is not a day that either I wake up or (more often than not 😂) she wakes me up that I am not grateful to see her beautiful face. I am blessed to be her mother but I know that had I had her in a different point in my life, I definitely would not have the same level of appreciation. It is all of my experiences that got me to this level of gratitude and patience. Moral of the story is, if you want a family, do it at YOUR OWN PACE. Don't let anyone or anything make you feel otherwise. People pressured me to have a kid during my 20s and even looked at me as being weird for being unmarried and childless, but I did it my way and we are all better for those decisions.
I just really really hope bw will look at this situation as a lesson to STOP dating down! These broke men be unhappy and they take it out on you every time! I don’t know one relationship where the man was living off his woman and he wasn’t beating on her behind the scenes! Ladies please stop dating down!
Its clear that people think you have to be on the brink or completely unalived for people to consider it abuse...then they still ask "what'd she do?" People don't understand abuse is a spectrum and it keeps a lot of people from missing signs early
This dude is TRASH! I hope he goes to jail! It's a shame, she was willing to be with him even if he didn't match her and he used it against her to abuse her.🤢
You’re tripping with the shelter thing because it’s teen age girls that’s in domestic violence situations as we speak … this has nothing to do with lack of experience and more to do with these males .. they need to be educated on how to deal with the female
Facts
That is a good point. That’s like on that murdaugh documentary on Netflix that girl was getting full on abused by her bf and they were both in high school.
I've seen wives of DV quietly gather everything they needed months in advance of their potential departure: video and photo evidence, life insurance and other documentation, new residence secured, new bank accounts, new job, etc.
This just crazy…. I get so tired of people abusing black women because they know no one cares no one will actually do something even if it is reported. Most of the time when people report (BW) especially nothing is done this how man are able to come back and delete women and then child are motherless and fatherless due to someone else unhinged behaviors. It’s so triggering watching and seeing the photos of Keke being harmed by her child’s father. It’s beyond sad just to know that even when she tried to protect him he still wanted to harm her because his been doing this before she was pregnant. Ladies abuse is abuse it will not stop ever, there is no getting better it just gets worst.
They will try you and if you don't stand up for yourself they will continue to
Honestly I find it nightmarish that she still got pregnant for him when he was putting hands and feet on her? How long before that abuse would have been transferred onto the child?
@@tessy28 that too I agree because you're stuck with looking at your abusive face now that you share a kid with him
@@tessy28maybe he set her up or she didn’t expect to get pregnant?
@@tessy28Abusive men will trap you with a baby to make you stuck with them. He probably did it on the low and she wasn’t aware until she conceived. Some women don’t believe in abortions so she probably didn’t want to abort. Y’all really underestimate these abusers ability to make a person stuck with them.
as a child free woman myself … there is no day when i wish i could wake up to a kid 😂😂
Some of these women are birds. Why would a woman who is being abused want the father to have access to her child? The ignorance is astounding.
You know, Halle and Ariel do have in common. They're both sheltered girls that want to experience life out there. I did all my best to give grace to her relationship with Ddg. But now, I honestly don't know what's really going on in back doors. 🙃
The different between the darrius mess and ddg is ddg is actually known and has a lot of fans/supporters. Hes actually a very good rapper. I dont think he would ever physically hurt her. He graduated #1 in his class, grew up with a single mom and poor so moved to la started a vlog channel and became a millionaire. THEN met halle.
He learned early that the ig thots was not it.
Now. . . Even though hes a good guy, I still dont know if that was a good pick for her bc he represents different things. . . The rap life, he just did a movie where he was a dead thug having s3x with sukianna 😩 this was last week!
But halle be calling him all sorts of niggas and cursing him out. Some of it is even online. So they seem to fit 🤷🏾♀️
@@geminienergyHalle is about to be a single mom too & we all know it!! 🙄 y’all tried to act like Keke wasn’t gonna be a single mom too but look what happened🙄 y’all really need to give this babymama lifestyle a rest!!
@@geminienergy there are many well educated men with large social circles and traumatic history who still are abusers. that has nothing to do with anything.
@@Jade-om5lzThat’s not true. Everyone knew what it was once we found out he was living off her. DDG and Halle are both financially stable.
@@Jade-om5lz a lot of BW have selective memory when it comes to their single motherhood statistics.
They know those struggle luv situationships were never going to last but they still romanticize them out of desperation
One of the most unproblematic child stars to this day . I’m so sorry she is going through this . I hope she finds peace moving forward .
6 months pregnant and just got choked , muffed, pushed, verbally abused the other night, I’ve filed a police report and am done. but from social media , I don’t put my business out there so you’d literally never know 😢
I'm proud of you for taking that step. I hope you have a good support system and stay safe. I'll pray for you. good luck!
Take care of yourself and be careful. You deserve better than that. Hugs. 🤗
You can do it!! You will survive. It will be hard but you can do it.
@CCCC-fp5gw well, yall usually feel played when arguing, because most of you can't articulate feelings, then here come the hands and feet smh 🤦 yall can dish it, but you can't take it!
@@milliontimesover2180Exactly.
Lovebomb
Isolate
Abuse
Repeat.
My heart breaks for keke.. when I was in a DV relationship no one knew until I finally talked about it after one year of us breaking up. Sometimes I wouldn’t talk about it because I was in denial and embarrassed
I was ashamed and embarrassed too. So I didn’t tell much details and still haven’t but I told the necessary people the important things and they didn’t care. I feel for you and us for being ashamed about something the abuser should be ashamed about and for us being blamed for the abuse done to us.
Thank God you ladies got out.
Some men will do the unthinkable and harm their own child just to hurt the mother for trying to leave. If he's made threats to harm himself and her um sure Lauren also is protecting her child from him because she knows what he is capable of doing . Ppl so quick to assume she's just keeping the baby from him but what if she's protecting the baby by keeping the baby from him ..... he's short tempered and she said he was shouting at the baby obscenities about Lauren aka Keke. He's mental....he obviously has mental problems and anger issues and is controlling... abusive and manipulative
YUP
Yes I am saddened that she decided to bring a child into this?
@@tessy28 🤦🏾♀️ he made indirect threats to the child by stating he understood why male animals kill their young because he was jealous of the amount of attention the new baby got. He also hit Keke while she was holding her child before. All that’s in the court filings. The news shows us every day that threats made about the kids can and do come to fruition. She had every right to seek sole custody. Now if she didn’t and something happened you would be saying why would she let him visit the child.
It is called Parental Alienation Syndrome and is often used against mothers protecting their children. Abusers like to this theory although it is widely rejected in the scientfic field and the man who coined this term had very alarming views on children and women ab*se. Richard Gardner was indeed an interesting person
@@bzzzz...8383 Oh so she should let the man who alluded to killing their child have visitation. We have a video of him making an uninvited entry into her home and going upside her head. I don't think it is too far-fetched to think he is abusive in other ways and made questionable comments. Per the court testimony, she has the security camera video of the other incidents of DV.
You are 100% correct about sheltered women finding themselves in abusive relationships. I was one of them. My Father never let me experience anything. I could hardly ever even hang out with my friends. I basically never could leave the house. The first relationship I ever had wasn't until I was 19 years old and he was physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive. My second long term serious relationship, he was mentally and emotionally abusive, a master manipulator, a gaslighter, never hit me but would punch holes in walls, etc... I am now 32 years old and finally able to see things for what they are. It took me longer than most because I was never given the opportunity to get the practice a lot of my friends were able to experience.
If you get with a BM you are 3 times as likely to be abused BW have the highest DV rates an unalive rates y'all are dealing with conquered males who don't like you
Keke was trying to take him with her. Hes not it. Men are fickle even if the man wasnt abusive their ego goes against us when were doing IT for ourselves..
He’s a covert narcissist and i’ve been in the exact same situation. Seeing her say she felt unsafe on the drive home with home literally gave me me PTSD. Rooting for Keke and her healing, and the new child she has to consider.
Ladies the minute a man makes you feel he’s so uncontrolled he would HURT you, leavey
Respectfully I think y'all throw the word " narcissist" way to losely and use it for anything and everyone. 🤷♀️Just my observation
@@thatimokoena8357 the man threatened his own child and physically assaulted his former gf and baby mama on multiple occasions demonstrate ymptoms include an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement. And for clarification he told Keke he understood how male animals kill their own kids because he was jealous. That fits the first trait of a narcissist.
@@thatimokoena8357 Maybe people who haven’t studied the topic, but I’ve read books on the topic. So respectfully,
that’s my opinion.
First of all, prayers to keke, very proud of her for leaving that abusive man, and having custody and a restraining order. Also, to add to what you were saying, I agree being sheltered as a teen is so damaging to women. It can make you think you know it all because you are used to observing others experiences rather than living it, it can also cause you to be very naive and prone to predators and abusers. To any sheltered girl reading this, LIVE, LEARN and create NEW EXPERIENCES. Don’t let a man trap you, date around and find yourself! And what you like so when you are ready to settle down you have knowledge and options.
The dating around is what lori is doing and she is being demonised for it,I know 1st hand lori will not make such mistakes
@@venda1008 Facts. They shame women who date around because they know that makes us more knowledgeable and harder to manipulate.
What does date around mean?
@@ampmri2434 Go on dates, meet different people, have relationships, learn from them and learn more about yourself to know your boundaries and what you will/won’t accept.
@@user-ci2sy5jb2j exactly u are absolutely right
You are 100% right. I wasn’t allowed to have a boyfriend until I was a senior in high school. When I was 18 about to turn 19 I ended up with my abusive ex boyfriend. Worst experience of my life. I’m still working through some of that trauma at 34. My future daughter will not be sheltered the same way I was in that department.
She’s like robin williams. Some people are so good at being happy u don’t know until they kill themseleves etc it’s scary as hell yeah my family tells me they can tell on my face when I’m mad angry sad etc not shocked about keke she’s known for being a happy azz girl it’s her neutral I don’t know her as anything but happy 💔
People think sheltering their kids prevents them experiencing heartbreak and struggles but really it just prolongs it.
My mother sheltered me but she meant well. She didn't want me to get into trouble or get my heart broken. But it was a disservice to me. After yannie speaking on it, I just realized that
this very true. hurts them more in the future when developing relationships
For those who were talking about her like a dog, is very telling and is why victims will continue to stay silent but even then, they are still bashed for being silent. People swear they know it all when they dont. How would Keke feel comfortable with their son being with his father after she's been ABUSED by him!?
How do you not know if he'll lash out on their son if he can't get to Keke. THAT HAPPENS. Through all types of abuse. I suggest yall do your RESEARCH. Because if she was to allow this man to continue to see their son without supervision and something terrible happen, yall will be QUICK to blame KEKE and shame her for leaving him alone with Darius and telling her she's a disgrace of a mother, etc.
Bruhhhh like who even leaves their child with their abuser??? That's absurd
According to court documents he has already been rough with the baby.
@@sundiva7642you really don’t think women leave their children with the abuser? When a woman is in a desperate situation things like this do and can happen.
A woman who is trying to escape with her child(ren) at night gets stoped by her abuser who threatens her that she’s not leaving with the children. She can go but not the child(ren). That woman in that situation will leave her child then try and come back for them when it’s safer for her to do so.
A woman who is not financially stable but her abuser is financially stable can/will leave her child with the abuser put her life/finances together then come back for her child(ren). All the while she’s out there her heart is aching for her child(ren). You can’t say what someone else won’t do when you have not lived their experience. I work healthcare and women do what they feel is the best choice for themselves and their children at that moment and it’s not always cookie cutter choices.
This was such a good convo. Prayers for all the black women/ladies and especially the sheltered black women/ladies
Yup I was kind of sheltered and then sent out to the wolves. I had no clue I would end up in abusive relationship. And when I tried to get help from my dad (original abuser) he basically said that’s what you get and did not help. My sister watched as well while she beat up my cousin’s bf that was hitting my cousin. My sister only sent help for me once it got out to other family members. My heart goes out to Ms. Keke.
I didn’t have my first relationship until I was 21 it was five years long! I didn’t even realize it was emotionally abusive until this summer! I broke up with him 3 months ago and I wish I hadn’t been so sheltered. I wish I was able to learn younger.
Yannie, you are so right . When you are sheltered you I'm more likely to get into a abusive relationship. When you said that I got goosebumps and realized some situations. But parents mean well .. they try to protect their like my mother did. But they're doing a disservice to their female children
I’m so sad for her! I hope she and her son are ok. Somehow I feel people (bitter men) even with photo/ video evidence will say it’s her fault somehow. She should choose better BS. That is so scary. I’m glad she’s out of it and gets the therapy she needs. Don’t ever date broke men or men beneath your bracket!!!
Oh they’re saying she should have left and saying she was texting other men…like that gives that b*tch the right to put his damn hands on her…granted she should have left, but when you’re in a DV situation it’s way harder to leave…and since men do not experience DV at a rate that women do, they do not relate and cannot relate..
It’s just sad because I kind of saw this coming when she became a baby mother in the first place. There was a feeling of insecurity around this guy and then the way he acted at the Usher clip was just so…😣 the fact that this jobless man felt so compelled to publicly shame her was very telling. Keke has always been a private and positive vibes type of person. It wasn’t until Darius came into the picture that mess followed. I wish she wasn’t goin through this publicly but I’m glad that we know the truth so her real fans can stand up and protect her!
And stood ten toes down with it too!
I believe Sarunas ruined his D list career with one tweet... should've stayed out of it .
I missed part of the live. I wanted to say that when a parent is overprotective and shields their child, they are making it difficult for the child to become resilient. It’s hard to bounce back from adversity.
If Keke was x abused as a child she wasn't sheltered or protected
33:53 I grew as a sheltered church girl and I most definitely learned game/manipulation through trial and error. I will definitely be allowing my daughter to date while I can help guide her as opposed to just tossing her into the world.
I dealt with the exact same things Keke went through before I left my BD. It’s hard to understand unless you have been through that situation. Public opinion and scrutiny of single mothers plays a big part into why a lot of women stay. As well as the fear of your safety if you do leave. I am in the process of getting full custody now. I knew my BD for over 10 years and the lows he stoped to surprised me every-time.There were def red flags but it is a cycle of abuse that you need therapy to break. Hopefully this situation and these discussions can help free more women from toxic/abusive relationships.
Yes to ALL of this. I didn’t let anyone know about the verbal, emotional and financial abuse I suffered at the hands of my older brother at the time. I didn’t really understand what was happening for a long time. Then I was embarrassed and ashamed. I’ve gone no contact with him. It’s been a little over a year.
She didn’t suffer in silence, her family knew.
25:52 the black community GLOBALLY worships men. They can do no wrong it’s always women or little girls fault.
I am from West Africa, I lived in America and saw it, and now I live in East Africa and I’ve seen this everywhere!
Was definitely sheltered myself. I didn’t date at all when I was in middle school or high school. I did dabble in online dating but it was awful. Last time I tried it was last year and I don’t wanna go back. I definitely wished I was encouraged to date when I was younger. My self esteem and communication skills would’ve probably been way better than it is now.
People like seeing how red the flag get ... I'll say it again, that corny tweet he did and tried to downplay it ..that was my ick...he shoulda been done and dusted tf outta her life. I knew sth was wrong when I seen that isn't. Stop trynna repaint that clown🤡 partner you got. I'm not blaming women like Keke, but I also don't absolve them of their part in it. We need to trust ourselves enough to recognize that we're being dogged tf out. Trust yourself before you trust another enough to give a second chance. Anyway, they may get together in the future, so Imma mind my business about matters regarding individuals who've seen each other naked and slept on the same bed.
16:48 maaaaaaan, you know ‘joint custody’ is going to mean that useless male is going to be demanding the MOST child support and then some 🙄
Just 🙏🙏🙏🙏for KeKe Palmer & baby my heart goes out to her💔💔💔
I saw the red flags immediately after he went online with the Usher thing. I was commenting on social media at the time that this was one sign and yall don't know what is going on behind closed doors. I got ate the hell up. Everyone one was Keke minding her business and she trying to keep her family together. Turns out her business was she was getting her a$$ whooped. I advocate for those who feel small and choose not to be heard. Women need to understand it could happen to you too. Read the room.
As a mother dating in high school for my daughter was not a priority!!! To me should not have been and I agree with my choice. I feel it bettered her because the same great work ethic she submitted to in high school she now displays in college. Winning!!! Also I told her to show me a girlfriend who has a boyfriend in a relationship she wanted and couldn’t find one! Why? The kids that age don’t know how to treat themselves or others in a relationship. It’s just to young. She opted out when she noticed her friends always crying and hurt over some boy. Life lessons of the example of others and her relationship with her father and watching women in love relationships including mines showed her and she prioritized love for herself
I’m 👌🏾 this close to getting in the car about KeKe Palmer
Take your cape off for Pickmeishas.
@@queensade1325 Girl what?
@@muelinn5190 Just what I said, KeKe is a full grown woman. No one deserves to be abused, but she literally set herself up for this situation. Y’all sound like the same mammies that was marching for Black Lives Matter for the very men who wouldn’t even defend Black women.
Darius told on himself with that initial act of public humiliation. I said it then he was likely doing far worse behind closed doors. It's one of the warning signs of domestic violence.
Getting full custody doesn’t stop the other parent from helping to raise or see their child. It’s hard to stop another parent from being in their child’s life if they really want to.
Yes, supervised visitation is all that he needs
I bet he does have proof that Keke mama threatened them! His brother choked her and threw her over some furniture!!! I would be cussing and threatening everyone connected to that boy because WHOOO taught you it was OK to put your hands on somebody?!?! 🗣️ Whatever was said, Keke Mama was standing on business and I support her 🤷🏽♀️
Question: Do you think men take their anger out on their homeboys??? Funny how cowardly it looks to only get physical with women. Whenever a coward is insecure, miserable, hungry, cold, his fingerwaves or nails aren't dry, the local stores are out of Pamprin, etc, he takes it out on the woman who he knows won't "empty the cl!p" on him.
I always feared for that baby. I still do, especially if he thinks its the biggest way he can hurt her. Hoping for the best.
All the comments blaming keke BEFORE the video came out, PROVES that the black community only wants to blame black women for everything. Not once did any of those men(and some women) ask WHY she got full custody. Not once did any of them try and sympathize with her situation. They had to have proof that he was abusive, before they could care or shut up.
It's so sad. The community hates God and BW
Im just glad she came out of this alive. There are a lot of women who don't come out of DV situations alive once the rose colored glasses finally fell all the way off and they see who they were really with, but she now seems to be fully awake. He probably got abusive with her because she, like other women in the same situation, was at the point where she had enough and no amount of sweet talking, gaslighting or reasoning was working. She was done covering, lying and putting up with his sh*t and we know when a woman has finally decided that it's over, it's one of the most dangerous times in her life, rich, upper class, middle class, lower class or poor. But I said this on another channel about this topic and I will say it again, there are a LOT of high society, rich, well to do women in abusive relationships worldwide. Let's not also forget that make up is a hell of a thing. Women are taught to put up with abuse, "endure" the mis-treatment, especially if the man is well known or liked. Hell, if he is considered good-looking he will get a pass too, he doesn't even have to be famous and if she tries to leave she can be shamed for it by family, friends, community and society or worse blamed for the man treating her how he does, because apparently a man choosing to be abusive is always a "woman's fault"🙄. I am never shocked to hear of any woman in these types of situations, it can happen to anyone.
Reading some of the comments I am glad I stopped being upset (merely) over ppls life choices, especially rich celebs.
34:35 i say all the time that emotional abuse should be punishable in the courts as well. It’s just unfortunately harder to prove.
Yanie I totally agree with you about not envying either side of life and be grateful for the “lot” given us. This is achieved by self examination and comprehension of self. I do believe our modern day society is to outwardly focused missing the opportunity to self examine by internally focusing on our own behaviors.
I hope we don't see a similar store circulating about Halle Baileys man either because he got all type of red flags and insecurities.
He definitely created flying monkeys….I am going to send KeKe some love and healing energy…
I agree with everything that Yanie said. Shelter children is not good for them. They need to see and know how the world function. Protect but do not shelter
Great live. I was one of the sheltered girls and I was definitely naive af.
Same. I had to learn my struggles as an adult, and it literally stunted me. Being sheltered is not the best thing for a child.
@@Blaquebarbgamer it's definitely not
I’m praying for KeKe! I’m glad she had the cameras installed because it would totally be a different conversation. I hope anyone else in this situation can get away it never gets better 🙏🏾. That’s why when the PTSD relationship conversation came up yesterday I said it was with heterosexual relationships and not GF relationships
Ladies, read: “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men” by Lundy Bancroft. She’s a counselor who explains the nature of abusive thinking, the early warning signs of abuse, and the steps women can take to free themselves from an abusive relationship. Stay safe ❤️
I have that book. It was recommended to me and I need to finish it.
Thank you for the recommendation❤
Dang 😞 Now I wonder, when he got mad at her for wearing that dress at the Usher concert: was he only mad at how “risqué” it was or did he not want us to notice something 🤔🤔🤔 Either way I pray for her healing.
Also, I’ll never fully understand why a man is driven to hit a woman when he could just walk away from her if she is undesirable to him. There is never an excuse even cheating just leave if you believe she’s a whore! But, the deeper issue is they hate themselves. Men can you please tell me why do you date confident, successful women when you know they trigger you?
That is a virgo thing like Beyoncé... Most of us, Virgo's, will seem perfect to the public.. But go through hell behind closed doors.
Every time I try to leave social media streets there is always something to pull me back in...smh poor keke
I can definitely say..I was sheltered and lived in the suburbs...got into a relationship with someone from the hood when I was 19 and at age 37, I now understand the manipulative situation I was in 😢
Thank you Yanie, that was a great commentary ❤🙏🏽❤️
You really make me think when you said “so many women are abused and we have no idea”
This was a 💡moment for me.
Yo Yanie showed up ready to fight! And I'm with her the court papers are horrible
Leo Palmer is so young. I hope she protects him because he deserves a happy and healthy childhood that he'll remember
Thanks for another great point of view Yanie. I’m a person who just honestly appreciates different perspectives and sh%* that just makes sense. You capture that classically. 💯
When the other chick spoke out I KEPT that in the back of my mind. Plus, I was thinking about the fact that maybe he looking for a come up. Hence why I felt like everything was rushed. But I was like ‘Okay only time will tell.’ I think since things weren’t working out for him…he started to wild out. Tbh I was already sus because I was like after scrolling his Instagram that ‘Okay he cute, but what does he do exactly???’. Now I don’t agree how he handled the Usher situation though he should have handled it in a proper manner. Nevertheless, he was looking for a come up.
Exactly that was I was just saying!!?? Like come on! Seriously 😢
How they do thier ex theyll do you EVENTUALLY. Old habbits die hard and considering how most men lack self awareness they barely change that much in thier lifetimes. Still we all always assume itll be different for us
When did people stop having logic sometimes birth control fails and sometimes relationships don't work out
Let us all pray for Keke and women in similar situations. I hope Rihanna will swoop in and help her knowing what surviving abuse is like. However Rihanna also is with a questionable man currently. Let us all just pray for women around the world
I love the part where you said focus on your side and what’s in front of you. It’s so hard to do with social media and seeing all the glam in people lives but you have to water your own grass!
Thank you for making this! ❤
❤❤❤Yanie, thank you for the commentary on the sensitive issues Keke Palmer, and women like her are going through. I pray everyone finds support and resources to be safe from DV.
You look amazing Ms. Yani
I am so glad you are saying this. You have no idea how profound this is.
Thank you for the message! I subscribed and am focused on being grateful! Life is hard, but also beautiful. hearing you talk about this helps me along my path. I'm a single woman in my 30s, no kids, yet. But at times the path gets lonely. But I got this :)
You not lying…. Some of the girls in my family were allowed to date later and not that I’m a great picker but I haven’t had some of the experiences the younger girls have had because I wasn’t sheltered and raised to be blind. The adults that raised then thought sheltering them was a great idea but they are oblivious to signs of abuse and end up in crazy situations I have never 🥺
Yanie we be on the same wave 🌊. I have been saying this for awhile that dating is a skill you need to learn how to date and it needs to start as a teen where the parents can monitor and help actively teach boundaries, expectations, patience, etc
I agree with about 90% of what you said on this. There's some gems. The only thing was we have to stop saying "sheltered" & say "coddling".... the mentality that girls are "...sugar & spice & everything nice.." syndrome. Dude better pray that KeKe doesn't have security footage of the abuse because then he may never have a life again (i.e Ray Rice). Praying for Keke's healing.
She has money so it's easier for her than a single mother who does not have the resources. Anyone can be in this situation anyone.