Life After Korea: Regrets, Lessons, & what's next

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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
  • Hello Friends and Family ❤️😌
    In today’s video, I discuss the adjustment process of moving back to South Africa after teaching in Korea. From cultural shifts to reestablishing routines, it’s been quite an experience navigating this transition! I have also acknowledged some of my regrets, and I invite anyone thinking of teaching abroad to really plan their exit strategy well and not to leave or return impulsively.
    Thank you all for tuning in and being part of this journey. Your support truly means a lot to me! 🙏❤️ I’d love to hear your thoughts or similar experiences-feel free to comment below and share how you’ve handled big moves or cultural changes.
    If you enjoyed this video, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more content. Your feedback and engagement help me keep creating and improving!
    #SouthAfrica #TeachingInKorea #CulturalAdjustment #ThankYou #ShareYourStory

Komentáře • 61

  • @makgabomahopo
    @makgabomahopo Před měsícem +4

    🫠not me hearing my name here🙏🏾. I’m so happy to see you back 🕺🕺🎊🎊some really good points indeed. I never had a permanent job in 🇿🇦 so I don’t know what decisions I would’ve made if I had that opportunity. I think having a permanent job really provides stability. Maybe one can save for vacations abroad?Going abroad should also be a long term goal when you’re older 😭and indeed sometimes we go out there and things don’t work out as we wished they would. Also about coming back home 💯💯💯I’m definitely not trying to settle in anywhere BUT my home, despite the drama we face in 🇿🇦😂I cannot imagine SETTLING anywhere else, but for now, I won’t be around. I love how you’re approaching things as a process, nothing is rushed, just taking it one day at a time! You’re more responsible than me 😂paying your own everything and surviving in this economy, it’s not something to take for granted. Keep healthy and well in every aspect ❤️❤️❤️you look amazing too! 🎉

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +1

      Hey sis! Lol you dropped some pearls of wisdom in your recent uploads (as you always do), so I had to mention them here 😂 Thanks so much for your constantly encouraging words, and the lovely compliment ❤

  • @bluesky1685
    @bluesky1685 Před měsícem +3

    it not trauma dumping, i think sharing your experiences, good or bad is an amazing thing... it helps a lot of people.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +2

      Awww, thank you for holding space for me. Ningadinwa 🙏🥺

  • @palesasera5621
    @palesasera5621 Před 6 dny +2

    Its good to see you back. Im really appreciating the point on a safety need and how working abroad doesnt guarantee you employment when you go bacn home as the job market is extremely hard to infiltrate.
    Are you only looking into working in public schools in SA or you would also work in private schools?

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před 5 dny

      Hey Ms P! Congratulations on your move to Korea, been seeing you adjusting ❤️ Yes I think creating a solid exit strategy and having savings as a safety net is really important when teaching abroad. I am applying for positions in both private and public schools 🥹

    • @palesasera5621
      @palesasera5621 Před 5 dny

      It's really something else hey. But I'm definitely seeing and learning things I do not like and will not hang around for. But I told myself that for as long as I'm here I'm going to take it a day at a time and I always need to check in with myself. I'm glad you applying for both and hope you get something soon. And have you ever considered teaching at international schools elsewhere where you will be subject focused or you wanting to be at home for now?

    • @palesasera5621
      @palesasera5621 Před 5 dny

      ​@zizojikizinto we finally made it after so long. And adjusting is definitely a process.

  • @rewindthelesson
    @rewindthelesson Před měsícem +2

    Thanks for sharing.
    Very insightful

  • @leratoshikwambana582
    @leratoshikwambana582 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for the video, it’s very insightful. Glad to have you back Sesi ❤️

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      I believe in transparency with everything in me 🥹 Thanks for watching sis ❤️

  • @KgothatsoMokitle
    @KgothatsoMokitle Před měsícem

    Loving the quality of the content Ruthie. We'll always be supporting you. Life still has a lot of reat things in store for you.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      Amen and amen Friend! Thanks so much ❤🙏
      I sent you an email, hope you got it :)

  • @TJonathan391
    @TJonathan391 Před měsícem

    Another insightful piece. 🙂Thank you so much, Ruth. Things will continue to improve with time and I look forward to when you look back and reflect on the journey. Love and light! ♥

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +1

      Absolutely 💯 Dilo di tlo fetoga 🥹♥️

  • @entervalhalla8484
    @entervalhalla8484 Před měsícem

    You've been through a lot it seems but on the other side of that you've learnt a lot more then most of us ever will. Thank you for the upload, great as always, good to have you back. 😁

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +1

      It feels good to be back! Thank you watching 🥰

  • @thandekandlovu5555
    @thandekandlovu5555 Před měsícem +1

    loving your content

  • @zamazikode678
    @zamazikode678 Před měsícem

    So very proud of you Mtase. That time in Korea was meant to happen, and we grow. You’re courageous and that’s always a recipe for success.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      Well said mntase! There is no wasted experience, only lessons and growth. Phambili! 🙌🙏

  • @XolisaNomtshibe
    @XolisaNomtshibe Před měsícem

    Very insightful Sisi. This is a true definition of zizojikizinto. Exercising grace, patience and planning is the way to go. I know you can do it.
    Welcome back!

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      Enkosi kakhulu bhuti. I think 2021 - 2023 were character development years for me. Everything that happens from now on will be divinely guided and intentional. Makwande ❤🙏🥹

  • @amandamabena8503
    @amandamabena8503 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this.❤

  • @mojabengmofolo5883
    @mojabengmofolo5883 Před měsícem

    Welcome back Sis sending hugs❤

  • @mokhadibuthane2615
    @mokhadibuthane2615 Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your true experiences. People as not as open

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před 4 dny

      Very true. We need to be open and transparent about the experience, show all sides to the story

  • @thapelokhambule7806
    @thapelokhambule7806 Před měsícem

    Glad to have you back Zanele 😝
    We missed your content 😇

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      Thanks Thaps! It feels good to be back ❤❤

  • @k_hearthstones
    @k_hearthstones Před měsícem

    I'm so proud of you in everything you have did for yourself🙌

  • @SheronMacanza
    @SheronMacanza Před měsícem

    Navigating adulthood is challenging,you want to go out there and live life but we also want to have some form of stability.
    Give yourself some grace💗.
    You got this Sis.
    Phillipians 4:7 "The peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and mental powers".
    God is going to go through this journey with you.
    A lovely video Sis Ruth
    Much appreciated💗

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      I couldn't agree more! There is a desire for adventure and exploration, while stability and progress is also super important. I guess adulting is constantly trying to balance all these elements 🥹 Thank you so much for the scripture as well, it's one of my faves ❤️ 🙏

  • @connyconstance6157
    @connyconstance6157 Před měsícem

    Welcome back sis❤❤❤

    • @connyconstance6157
      @connyconstance6157 Před měsícem

      You mentioned that you are currently working, which platform are you on? I also majored in economics and business studies and just started teaching online because of unemployment.

  • @bthescientist
    @bthescientist Před měsícem

    We’ve missed you so much😊❤

  • @nomangwanemokhothu4017
    @nomangwanemokhothu4017 Před měsícem

    I really love how you articulate yourself it is honestly enjoyable to watch❤...I remember we use to take the Same bus to campus from Molapo😂I'm really rooting for you sis🎉

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem

      Awww the bus trips bathong 🤣 Siphuma kude and sisaya kude. Thanks for watching, I appreciate the best wishes 🥰

  • @khayounwind1601
    @khayounwind1601 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this, i returned from korea in may 2023 i can really relate

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much for affirming the experience 🥹🥺 Love and light to you, it gets worse before it gets better ❤❤

  • @gugumabona_
    @gugumabona_ Před měsícem

    Cute! ❤

  • @sesethusofute1728
    @sesethusofute1728 Před měsícem

    You're me I resigned and now I'm going through the most😭😭 I'm thinking of coming back that time I'm so broke

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před měsícem +1

      I am so sorry 🤣😅 We will be okay sis. It's time to go back to the drawing board

  • @zizipomtyobile3657
    @zizipomtyobile3657 Před měsícem

    Ziizoooojiiiiiik’iiiiziiintoooo, thulaaaa mntanaaaam ❤️

  • @eulendaramoshaba8005
    @eulendaramoshaba8005 Před měsícem +2

    you are so beautiful ❤

  • @Nokuphila214
    @Nokuphila214 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

  • @DjNjabz_SA
    @DjNjabz_SA Před měsícem

    CZcams connoisseur 😌

  • @tumelomkwayi
    @tumelomkwayi Před 5 dny

    Zanele😊

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Před 5 dny

      Tumelo 🥰

    • @tumelomkwayi
      @tumelomkwayi Před 5 dny

      @@zizojikizinto How much is Lobola😁♥️? Please get the quotation from aboMalume

  • @user-ci6xs4by9c
    @user-ci6xs4by9c Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤