Opening up... 2020, Marriage & Children, Moving Out, Negativity, Goals... ~ Freddy My Love

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  • My annual round up of 2020... and 2019! Be kind đŸ€ Clothes/products linked below! *affiliate links used, and some items were either gifted or bought with a press discount/gift card! * Hope you enjoy, don't forget to subscribe đŸ€
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    Freds x

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  • @kikimarcelino360
    @kikimarcelino360 Pƙed 3 lety +295

    I love how Freddy's this girly girl that wears pink dresses but at the same time she's an independent, mature, posed young woman

  • @niashamahase3057
    @niashamahase3057 Pƙed 3 lety +232

    Making a marriage last is more important than a wedding. I've seen people break up and still in debt over their wedding. Marriage is way more than a fancy dress and a dream wedding. It really is a blessing to have a companion.

    • @maliamalis6389
      @maliamalis6389 Pƙed 3 lety +14

      Some people see their boyfriend as their companion and don’t feel like they have to change their name to do that. As she said “getting married does it make it less likely for your partner tot leave”. You can be happy independently but I agree marriage is more important than wedding

  • @MariSantarem
    @MariSantarem Pƙed 3 lety +1067

    Freddy, I dont even know if you realize it, but you appear wise beyond your years. I surely understand the pressure your job must put on you, but I must say that the fact that you put your whole heart and focus on putting up only what you truly believe is amazing and so appreciated.. Your videos make my day happier and, as someone struggling with mental and sometimes physical ilness, Im so GRATEFUL for all you do. You make me company while I work out, talk to me while I wash my dishes, inspired my outfits and just yesterday I was online shopping and choose between two sandals by asking myself "what would freddy choose?" (it was the nicer, more delicate, blush pink one, btw hahaha)
    I am beggining my 30's and for 5 years you have been an inspiration and a ray of sunshine. I know you may not feel good all day, everyday, but I truly hope that the gratefullness in my heart reaches you and may join all the other lights that we can see shining in you, around you, for you.

    • @CynthiaRothschild
      @CynthiaRothschild Pƙed 3 lety +6

      DEAREST FREDDY MY LOVE , WELL SAID . WITH LOVE , PRAYERS , HUGS , AND SWEET KISSES , FROM ME AND MY FAMILY , " THE ROTHSCHILD'S . " FAREWELL MY LOVE . 😊😍😘

    • @aly5664
      @aly5664 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Thats exactly what I was thinking ! Im glad she is very mature and doesn't feel the need to act immature to get attention.

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast Pƙed 3 lety

      Yeah

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast Pƙed 3 lety

      @@aly5664 yup

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast Pƙed 3 lety

      @@mariuxicadena982 yup

  • @JosieIrons
    @JosieIrons Pƙed 3 lety +1219

    CRYING 😭😭😭 So many memories - I can’t wait until we can travel together again!!

    • @Ada-jp6fh
      @Ada-jp6fh Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Heyy x 🌾

    • @sashaladygray
      @sashaladygray Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Same! Ready to travel back to Europe!

    • @melissa.fashionistaintheknow
      @melissa.fashionistaintheknow Pƙed 3 lety +19

      So happy that my two favorite fashionistas are friends!💕

    • @jesicag
      @jesicag Pƙed 3 lety +12

      Thanks to Freddy I met you and your channel! So very grateful for you two! 💖

    • @cluelesscrispy
      @cluelesscrispy Pƙed 3 lety +5

      You’re so sweet Josie! How do you and Freddie got to know each other?

  • @nourasummer12
    @nourasummer12 Pƙed 3 lety +172

    "im the girliest girl ever, i need a man like JJ, in touch with his feminine side" OMG FREDDY, you cracked me up!

  • @Tarah_Davis
    @Tarah_Davis Pƙed 3 lety +443

    Freddy is a Queen teaching that opening up and not bottling all your feeling up is a good thing

    • @avaisabella138
      @avaisabella138 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Yes I agree! I love Freddy and she inspired my pink fancy style! I have a small channel and I would appreciate supportđŸ„°đŸ’•

  • @RiSa-qm7uz
    @RiSa-qm7uz Pƙed 3 lety +23

    Freddy looks so delicate but she has strong personality. I love listening to her even if she’s just talking for an hour. She’s always on point even she seems to be dramatic and girly. She’s the best contrast of soft and tough.

  • @martinanilsson9268
    @martinanilsson9268 Pƙed 3 lety +86

    There is nothing wrong dating a guy who is more feminine.. My boyfriend is more feminine and slender and I feel like if you're spending time with someone you really love with all your heart, why would you pick on other people's relationship 😣
    Haters leave Freddy and JJ alone! Their relationship is beautiful and so is all love regardless who you decide to date. Love is love!!

  • @DK-qp9os
    @DK-qp9os Pƙed 3 lety +67

    Freddy talking about not getting married gives me lifeeee. I was a bit unsure if she's like traditional and all that considering her style and likes and dislikes, but this really made me so happy and empowered that she's showing that you can be an absolutely classical woman, without conforming to patriarchal ideas of changing your surname and having kids asap after 25 or whatever people tell women they should do ❀❀❀ I agree with everything except my choice is not to have kids at all, but to each their own. This was so refreshing thank you Freddy ❀

  • @KateMurnane
    @KateMurnane Pƙed 3 lety +168

    I remember saying to you years ago when we first met that you were going to be an absolute star. It was just so obvious and you should be so proud of what you've achieved! xx

    • @lolsxbb7564
      @lolsxbb7564 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Ikr :)

    • @sharonhughes1538
      @sharonhughes1538 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Well said Kate Murnane

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      @laurabrown7837 Pƙed 3 lety

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  • @kateforsyth1133
    @kateforsyth1133 Pƙed 3 lety +188

    I was so similar to you. I dated my husband for 7 years before we got married and I was 37 before I had the most perfect child ever. Only then was I ready. Take your time.

  • @mattmc90
    @mattmc90 Pƙed 3 lety +242

    This was so interesting Freddy. Thank you for taking the time to tell us about your concerns and worries. I'm sure I'm not the only one who appreciates your candid approach to saying it like it is, because even a perfect Sleeping Beauty is faced with a dragon from time to time and that's the reality of life! Also, I don't think opening up like you did in this video takes anything at all away from your professionalism or public image. It doesn't even intrude on or blur that line you wish to maintain between your personal and work life balance. If anything, it strengthens your credibility and lets us, your subscribers, get to know you more and thereby concretes your viewership. Good for you babes xx
    Love from Northern Ireland xx

  • @melissacallia4230
    @melissacallia4230 Pƙed 3 lety +74

    If I ever had a daughter, I’d sit her down and have her watch this to know that she can take her time, don’t be rushed, allow growth, define her own path, and that even perfect people have adversity and challenges.

  • @iremecemhalac9251
    @iremecemhalac9251 Pƙed 3 lety +31

    Your Paris vlog is LITERALLY my favorite travel vlog. Like, it lives in my brain rent free

  • @esinbastug535
    @esinbastug535 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    I really respect that you do keep that line between work and personal life, I’ve been watching since your first CZcams video Freddy and it’s genuinely amazing to see you grow!

  • @MultiLoser97
    @MultiLoser97 Pƙed 3 lety +21

    I love how real your expectations are. Truly an attitude to look up to.

  • @sarakjeldsen769
    @sarakjeldsen769 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    The fact that you can look at the past years and say that they weren't what you hoped for, but you're content with how things worked out shows a lot of stability and maturity. Love your vibe. I was so excited when I saw this come up in my CZcams feed! 💖

  • @leticiakreile3682
    @leticiakreile3682 Pƙed 3 lety +99

    I always get obsessed with a youtuber and get bored of them after some time.. Freddy is the only one that I never get bored of.❀❀

    • @alinaadelle6527
      @alinaadelle6527 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Same! I’ve been watching her videos for the last four years and she’s the one that I don’t get bored of as well!

    • @zamzamkayani9408
      @zamzamkayani9408 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Yass, same.

  • @simplysim4085
    @simplysim4085 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    I keep returning to watch this lovely lady. This video puts me in the best state of mind and calms me down when I get anxious regarding life and when the thought of failiure pushes me towards that ugly path riddled with insecurity and fear. Freddy is so put together and she inspires me to be a warmer and a brighter, better person. Your radiant energy, drive and sensational inner-world shines through your divine exterior. You are a gorgeous human being, Freddy!

  • @toribellmar7623
    @toribellmar7623 Pƙed 3 lety +32

    dear Freddy, I hope you know how amazing and inspirational you are! you’re so grown up and mature and it’s something that was a little surprise back 3 years ago, when I started watching you, but the more time passed the more understanding that you’re not only mature but you also don’t restrict yourself to this: you laugh and giggle like a little kid, you openly declare your love for Disney princesses and plushies and marie from aristocats. you’re the definition of pretty nice and everything spice out in a jar and with glitter sprinkled in and it’s absolutely wonderful. you’re a perfect girly girl: not the version that was scrutinized by films in the past with the ‘she’s mean and horrible’ narrative. and it’s so refreshing every time! thank you so much for being such a breath of fresh, pink air and giving many - I’m sure of it - more confidence in embarrassing their girly side and be proud of being able to rock a link fluffy coat in a sea of grey and black!
    looking forward to another amazing year with many great videos! much love! 💕

  • @lemonplanning
    @lemonplanning Pƙed 3 lety +15

    I loved hearing your thoughts on marriage, children, living arrangements. People tend to categorize all girls into one group or stereotypical "types." It's so refreshing to hear your honest opinion on these topics. Just because some girls love pink doesn't mean they all have to have the same aspirations and perspectives. So thank you for sharing!

  • @viankachetty1100
    @viankachetty1100 Pƙed 3 lety +95

    You’ve hit the ceiling darling, but you have the whole sky ♄ grow at your own rate and allow yourself to be loved for you not someone else! You are gold among all the stainless steel 😘

  • @vaalbikers
    @vaalbikers Pƙed 3 lety +6

    I absolutely love and admire the way you answered all of the questions towards the end of the video. I feel so greatful because of you feeling confident to share those inntimate thoughts and emotions with us, it's very refreshing to look up to someone who I can relate with, specially when it came down to you discussing the wedding, children, relationship topic. Thank you for being so open and true to yourself. Much love ♄ xx

  • @Casper-jx1zd
    @Casper-jx1zd Pƙed 3 lety +16

    I would hate to have the job as an “influencer”. When one puts themselves in the public eye, you are set yourself up for anything that the public wishes to give, adoration, acceptance, ridicule, complaints, disrespect, etc. Stay strong and good luck to you!

  • @avatait2184
    @avatait2184 Pƙed 3 lety +53

    Freddy is a literal queen. She is so honest and open. We don’t deserve her!!!

  • @tallulahdarling687
    @tallulahdarling687 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    I’ve been here for years and years now and she really is the same personality she was at the beginning 💖

  • @lisaaa4678
    @lisaaa4678 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    You are honestly such an amazing person!!! I literally cried throughout the video .. I don’t even know exactly whyđŸ„ș..it was just such an amazing experience hearing you talk about your life and your goals. I believe there are so many great things for you to come! And I’m honestly so honored that we can all be part of that.
    I’ve been watching your videos for such a long time now and I truly believe that I will be watching your videos 20 years from now✹
    And even if you decide that that’s not something you want to do in the future, I really think that you’ve changed all our lives in one way or another. You literally put a piece of your heart and soul into every single thing that you do and I just wanted to say ✹thank you✹

  • @kelseysmith8355
    @kelseysmith8355 Pƙed 3 lety +19

    I noticed back in 2019 the change in your videos. And I'd watch your videos before but that change was breathtaking. Often your videos on the surface are "silly little fashion videos" but in reality how you have decided to be yourself in them makes them wonderful pieces of art. And the one with JJ in was everything- I'd never ask for more because I understand and appreciate that whole personal vs professional boundary. But when you both did that it was delightful, and such a treat. Thank you for helping me discover my own sense of style and what I like. Which is ironically pink and white and neutrals because genuinely we are the hat we put on for the day. And when I wear all black, I'm a mean cat without even trying. When I'm dressed sweetly, I am sunshine personified. And I like being the sunshine. So thank you.

  • @goodmorninglili
    @goodmorninglili Pƙed 3 lety +8

    I look up to you so so much. I’m in a long distant relationship right now with my boyfriend of seven years. I wanted to rush marriage because I thought of it as security- but the way you talked about it really made me think. We are still pretty young but I know it’s still a love that will last forever. And like you said- what’s so and so years compared to a lifetime? It really gave me a new perspective about our relationship because being apart makes me so depressed. But there truly is a romance in missing each other, and there’s also something relieving about just having the space to focus on myself and then getting to be excited every few months when we do get to see each other. I also look up to you so much, so thank you for the new perspective :)

  • @chicloveliness295
    @chicloveliness295 Pƙed 3 lety +135

    I love this content it’s great to get to know you better Freddy, I love your content!

  • @pauline7744
    @pauline7744 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Omg the vibes in this Video inspired me so much , Freddy , you probably one of the people in my life that I can look up too , I am watching you since start of 2020 and the year was hard but you’re Videos helped us through this and I am so thankful , don’t ever stop being yourself and stay as you are , you are so worth it 🎀💖

  • @kaitlynnmintz
    @kaitlynnmintz Pƙed 3 lety +2

    FREDDY! this video was everything. it truly showed me a different side of you and made me respect you even more than I already had. you are amazing in every way. a perfect combination of sweetness, kindness, goofiness, and poise. I aspire to be like you in every way.

  • @ilonalamberg3611
    @ilonalamberg3611 Pƙed 3 lety +17

    this video was therapeutic in a way i just love your mind and the way you see life and your values in it. you’re one of the realest people in the internet and a huge inspiration to me in fashion đŸ€

  • @kuramacabre
    @kuramacabre Pƙed 3 lety +18

    I actually found you when lockdown in my country started and I am so glad I did. Your channel is one of my favorites now. 😍

  • @jillian6787
    @jillian6787 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    You are an absolute sweetheart, Freddy ❀ thank you for your honesty. Seeing you be candid is so refreshing. Happy to always support you 💖

  • @gabrielaquintanilla9859
    @gabrielaquintanilla9859 Pƙed 3 lety

    Freddy, listening to you speak and open up about your own personal journeys in various aspects of your life was so relieving. Hearing someone echo similar thoughts to mine allowed me to remember that we come to things at our time. That it is possible to make our big ideas and dreams come true with time. Thank you for opening up to us and being a true inspiration.❀

  • @charlottequatrine9940
    @charlottequatrine9940 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    This was honestly such a beautiful video and was the exact content I needed to watch tonight. Thank you Freddy 💕

  • @hannahmcdaniel7896
    @hannahmcdaniel7896 Pƙed 3 lety +16

    I literally feel like you are a friend to me now. You opened up so much in this video and were so vulnerable in a good way! Thank you for posting so much wonderful content. If I ever feel alone or if I need inspiration, I always turn to your videos. Your videos are so comforting and almost like a safe space. Thank you for being our CZcams older sister. Before discovering your channel, I never used to branch out with my fashion choices. I used to wear the most basic clothing probably on the face of the Earth! Now whenever I but clothing, I go with the things I wouldn't usually go for. I also love to experiment with beautiful, more high quality makeup now. (I've even started to branch out with perfumes. My new go to/signature scent is Daisy eau so fresh by Marc Jacobs!) Thank you so much Freddy for being my inspiration. I also love that you like to have a divide between work and your personal life. But I also love how you were comfortable with opening up in this video and sharing some of the things in your life. This video was almost like having a sleepover or lunch with a good friend. Thank you again for being our CZcams older sister, and I hope your new year is filled with many wonderful blessings and opportunities. đŸ„°đŸ€đŸ’–

  • @effemme19
    @effemme19 Pƙed 3 lety

    I have never heard of someone that think about life EXACTLY the way I do. Thank you Freddy, I resonate with everything you stated.. family, relationships, moving out, being independent 💖 wishing you a fabulous 2021!

  • @MariahTahmisian
    @MariahTahmisian Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Love you Freddy! Here's to 2021 being the absolute best!!! I really relate to a lot of this. I'm mature in a lot of ways, but I don't like change and I'm not in a hurry to change things or move on but being happy where I am. I really loved this video. Thank you.

  • @kateluongo974
    @kateluongo974 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    The mentality you have about your body and food is so refreshing and very inspiring! Thank you for sharing, I hope you can talk more about this in the future, I think it would help a lot of your fans ; )

  • @kardsanch
    @kardsanch Pƙed 3 lety +7

    I love that you didn't go ham with the ads knowing it's a 50-minute video. Keep it up, Freddy. We love yor videos. :)

  • @maudfeijt2097
    @maudfeijt2097 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are an absolute inspiration. Not only do you give THE best fashion advice, you work incredibly hard towards your goals and you bring a little sunshine into everyone who watches your videos’ life. Thanks for all the amazing content. I can’t wait to see what you have in store for us in 2021!

  • @nataliek2995
    @nataliek2995 Pƙed 3 lety

    I appreciate the honesty you have with yourself about growing your channel. I first subscribed to your channel when it was only about 2 yrs old and so much of what drew me to it was your genuineness and the quality of your videos. Your passion really shows in every video and it’s extremely refreshing to see someone who loves what they do and is grateful for it. I look forward to see what you create in 2021 ❀

  • @user-uw9zg5gg5d
    @user-uw9zg5gg5d Pƙed 3 lety +5

    I am 10 minutes in and I have to stop for a little to write this: Thank you for your honesty! This might be the first video of this style I have ever seen where someone admits that a trip was not that great. And you admit it but don't down talk it!
    You're an inspiring person, and I hope that one day I might be at least a little bit like you.

  • @emx876
    @emx876 Pƙed 3 lety +9

    It’s so lovely that you have this almost ‘series of your life’ to look back on in years to come and show your children. On a side note, I’m watching this thinking about how I’m going to film videos for the children in my class that are home learning... such a challenge! It’s so lovely that Influencers such as Amy, Josie and Elle are getting engaged, moving out and having children but it does make me feel like I’m behind in my life!! You’re someone who I can relate to in that sense, thank you for brightening up my Monday’s 💓

  • @isabelamartins6909
    @isabelamartins6909 Pƙed 3 lety

    I’ve been following you, Freddy, since your first year on youtube and you have always been my favorite youtuber. At the same time you don’t share everything about your private life, every time I see your videos, I feel like we’re best friends. And I love how you’re honest and kind at the same time. It’s like you’re a princess and at the same time a normal person (comparing to other bloggers who are so fake but flawless that don’t even look or behave like a real person).
    Your videos make me feel like pink and happy life is achievable. Thank you for all the content in 2020. It was a tough year and you helped me feel better 💕
    Keep going with the good work! I wish a very good year and good luck on your goals 💕

  • @eviemayvlog342
    @eviemayvlog342 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    I absolutely LOVE how independent you are it is SO refreshing ! I try and tell myself not to rush my life so much but it is so easy to get caught up in the life of you tubers who have everything sorted by 23. Including living with partners, kids house it’s just not realistic for most people

  • @veronicasvideodiaries
    @veronicasvideodiaries Pƙed 3 lety +31

    I actually started watching your channel again after your video reviewing brands owned by people of color. It was one of my favorite videos you made this year and the comments were full of so much love. Then I watched your travel vlogs as a well-needed escape from this year and I've been a consistent viewer ever since. Also, I hope you get your Instagram verified because there are way too many people screenshotting and copying your feed ):

  • @mayala6386
    @mayala6386 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    It’s sad that you cannot even feel sad without people trying to come for you. Don’t ever apologize for how you feel. You don’t owe anyone that!

  • @itszoeblossom7685
    @itszoeblossom7685 Pƙed 3 lety

    Freddy I really appreciate you opening up to us all, and honestly this video has shown just how inspiring you are! You have always remained true to your values and I'm so happy to hear that you are smashing all of your goals. You deserve it❀

  • @kikizebra101
    @kikizebra101 Pƙed 3 lety

    Gosh you are so refreshing, it’s a pleasure to watch you and hear your views. You are your own person and stay true to yourself and your feelings and I just love that 💕 don’t ever change!

  • @KaitlynRiccio
    @KaitlynRiccio Pƙed 3 lety +170

    2020 was a hard year but your videos brought me so much joy through it đŸ€đŸŽ€

  • @Annabelx2000
    @Annabelx2000 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    Don't worry about having kids anytime soon. My mum had me at 37 and my older sister at 34 and I've never felt that my mum is a lot older than other mums. You have got all the time to think about it and you'll know when the time is right ❀

  • @livingonearthxxx
    @livingonearthxxx Pƙed 3 lety +1

    It's so fresh to listen to you talking! Your voice is calming and pretty. Thanks for opening up to us again and updating us. You're a light in the world

  • @rainbowscupcakesunicornsan2627

    ”I really really feel like I’m exactly where I need to be in order to spread my wings” it’s like you read my mind💕💕

  • @sail253
    @sail253 Pƙed 3 lety +273

    OMG everyone needs a Josie!!!!!

    • @JosieIrons
      @JosieIrons Pƙed 3 lety +42

      Awwww!

    • @Xsxlma
      @Xsxlma Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@JosieIrons omg I love u sooo muchhhđŸ€đŸ€đŸ€

    • @veramesquita6294
      @veramesquita6294 Pƙed 3 lety

      So true 🌾🌾🌾

    • @carlabarrick8538
      @carlabarrick8538 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      I agree! Josie is such a great human being and it would be so fun to travel and be friends with someone like her! Goals seriously.

  • @sunshinexoxo4984
    @sunshinexoxo4984 Pƙed 3 lety +36

    2020 was just a year. I had an injury, then my mom passed, and then my business shut down, and that was just the beginning... so much heartbreak.

    • @mokanyra
      @mokanyra Pƙed 3 lety +9

      Same, my mother passed two days before the New Year. Family members dying from COVID. It was rough. But we will get through this...my condolences....I really hope 2021 becomes better but we can't say for sure. I'm a new subscriber to Freddy and she makes me feel so at ease.

    • @sunshinexoxo4984
      @sunshinexoxo4984 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Condolences to you, too! Hugs. It’s not easy to lose mom.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Pƙed 3 lety

      Sorry honey

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Moknyra- sorry to you too sweetie

    • @JustLivingLifeHH
      @JustLivingLifeHH Pƙed 3 lety

      I'm so sorry for your loss. 2020 was such a hard year for me also. Praying for a better 2021 for everyone

  • @XLilBee
    @XLilBee Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Freddy you are so powerful! Such a strong independent woman! I don’t watch your videos for your fashion etc (although it really looks good on you) I watch you purely because you are a BOSS! You just have women empowerment radiating off of you!đŸ€đŸ€đŸ€ Thankyou for being exactly you.

  • @kerynp
    @kerynp Pƙed 3 lety +1

    You sitting down chatting with us is just so enjoyable to watch I enjoyed every minute of it. The part when you talked about body positivity made me tear up abit. Happy New Year Freddy wishing you the best year ahead ❀

  • @cluelesscrispy
    @cluelesscrispy Pƙed 3 lety +26

    I love the pictures you took in lockdown. Especially the one with the phone and Gucci stockings.
    But I’ve always wondered the what are the jobs or brands that you turn down because a million subscribers is a lot. I’m actually surprised you don’t work with bigger names brands .

  • @islagrace9179
    @islagrace9179 Pƙed 3 lety +16

    It’s really nice that you’re being so open with us. And your hair looks AMAZING đŸ€© and I’m just saying that I would love to see your wedding if you would have one. But take your time and do you girl.
    Love your channel Freddy ❀❀❀
    I also barely ever watch such long videos with people talking because I find them boring but this was sooo nice to watch.

  • @lowanros
    @lowanros Pƙed 3 lety

    Freddy, this video made me so happy. I have watched you for like 2 or 3 years now and this video might be the best one I've seen so far, I loved to see the recap of your past years and just to re-live the moments with you. 💖💖

  • @marsimoon5381
    @marsimoon5381 Pƙed 3 lety

    Freddy, you have blown me away. I have watched this excited with my finger between lips, swallowed every word and at 36:15 I had to pause as I was so thrilled I had to catch my breath and then go on thinking you are a wonder. Literally somebody very organized, intelligent, stylish and so appropriate and accurate and comfortable to listen or watch. Thank you.

  • @raralovely13
    @raralovely13 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    Really thank you for being here for me too throughout not just this last year but honestly since I found your channel in 2017 you were/ still are a big help and safe place that I love to come to every week and escape my world. I feel like I have a big sister

  • @jessicamalfa9538
    @jessicamalfa9538 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Freddy, You are such a clever girl and I admire your independence of thought. I wish you the best and look forward to seeing how your creative work evolves as you grow. :)

    • @eileenchang2173
      @eileenchang2173 Pƙed 3 lety

      Freddy I love the way that you don’t put yourself as a cookie cutter as so many others. I also think without knowing you that you are very sensitive to energy around you and you already know what you want and what is the best for you , as you’ve already expressed. Your passion for acting and singing explains your glam style! â€ïžđŸ‡šđŸ‡Š

  • @alexacranford6876
    @alexacranford6876 Pƙed 3 lety

    this was beautiful Freddy 💕 we appreciate everything you do on this channel and I love you being so open with us! Makes us feel like true friends! Praying blessings for 2021 !!💕💕 love you

  • @trishyyyyy2685
    @trishyyyyy2685 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are my favorite CZcamsr, Freddy. You’ve been my favorite since I’ve discovered you. I love your witty and funny commentaries, your sassy criticism, your style and your videos are not boring at all! Keep doing what you’re doing.

  • @husnapardis836
    @husnapardis836 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    OMG Freddy your literally the most inspirational person I literally aspire LOVE to be like you when I am older.
    đŸ€

  • @nevewilliams8263
    @nevewilliams8263 Pƙed 3 lety +59

    I’m guessing that Freddy has designed her own clothing đŸ„łđŸ„ł

  • @baileerose3296
    @baileerose3296 Pƙed 3 lety

    You are truly an inspiration Freddy. You are so strong and beautiful, inside and out. I love watching your videos, they inspire me to be who I want to be and to have fun. I have never been on a plane but I have always wanted to go to places like New York, Paris, London etc, but I obviously haven’t gone before, but watching your travel diaries makes me feel like I’m actually there and I’m on a real holiday. You are an amazing person and don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Your channel has grown so much and you have gained so many more followers and you truly deserve any success that comes your way 💗

  • @gisselcarol
    @gisselcarol Pƙed 3 lety

    Worth every second of watching. I really hope you have a great year, Fredddy. Your videos are truly so unique and it just hit me that I have been subscribed for like four years now. And I am just a bit older than you so I entirely understand not feeling ready for some of those things, a couple of years ago it all seemed so far away and now I am in a place in life where I'm wanting everything. So it's understood. Also you just have such an amazing outlook, and such poise it is unmatched and I absolutely love it. You are most definitely one of my all time favorite people on CZcams, my fiance knows it, he always knows on Mondays when I'm like "sh busy" it's Freddy time and he will watch with me sometimes, or even outfits that you inspire he can call them out very quickly. So you are very inspiring, and I for one love the way you approach your content and yourself. Please take care of yourself, I can't wait to see what this year has in store for you. I wish you all the best!
    ~Gissel

  • @ramensauce7487
    @ramensauce7487 Pƙed 3 lety +9

    Freddy your so independent and beautiful in your own way u truly stand out from all the other influencers on such a positive note.

  • @windyellard2380
    @windyellard2380 Pƙed 3 lety +43

    I wish you had not been so nervous about filming this because you did an amazing job and a said everything so well. I think you are so positive and that is why I enjoy following you. You always make me smile! Happy New Year and may 2021 be the best!

    • @annas7892
      @annas7892 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I think it was all about the trolls, and God knows how many she has blocked since the video went up :)

  • @xmaleeha
    @xmaleeha Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for being so honest Freddy about your struggles with 2020. I could relate to so much of it

  • @kianakrystle1221
    @kianakrystle1221 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Freddy I love you so much, you have constantly inspired me for years. Thank you for being a role model for women everywhere!!

  • @elleyoung6667
    @elleyoung6667 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    This is such a lovely, refreshing, beautiful and honest video, thank you for sharing it with us!

    • @elleyoung6667
      @elleyoung6667 Pƙed 3 lety

      also I am really hoping that a fashion line is in your secret 2021 goals

  • @themermaidjade
    @themermaidjade Pƙed 3 lety +11

    I have been through the struggle of having an agent who’s not getting you work đŸ˜© Makes you feel like there is something wrong with you when that’s really not the case at all. Glad to see you’re doing well going at it alone 💖

  • @ayahalakkad5183
    @ayahalakkad5183 Pƙed 3 lety

    I love this video. I love your videos. you don’t beg for views, you just do your thing and it makes your channel great and comforting. Idk what mean things people could say about/to you, you’re literally so kind and humble, even your body language conveys it.

  • @AilurosDia
    @AilurosDia Pƙed 3 lety

    So excited for whatever you have in the pipeline and wishing you the best 2021!
    Your videos have been my little escape whenever I needed a break so thank you!

  • @lilymaythomas4182
    @lilymaythomas4182 Pƙed 3 lety +32

    I’m so happy this is long so I can watch part of it before Boris’s announcement at 8pm and the other part after to distract myself from the news 💕

    • @BeckiBlack26
      @BeckiBlack26 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Agreed, enjoyed watching this to escape from life after the announcement by Boris

  • @emilykemp5498
    @emilykemp5498 Pƙed 3 lety +13

    been so looking forward to this!!! love you Freddy for all the hard work and effort you put into your channel. we appreciate it and love you so much

  • @annakruza3638
    @annakruza3638 Pƙed 3 lety

    This was so nice to watch! I've been following you for years now, and with all the respect for your personal life, it feels wonderful to hear a little bit about it. 💕 If you let me tell you my opinion, i believe that it's so special and important to have our own life fulfilled before marriage and babies! Not like that would take anything away from it, in fact it adds to it, but both are equally important. You seem like a lady who's thriving in her twenties, and that brings me so much joy! I'm a little younger than you, and you inspire me to work hard, and don't let anyone push down my personal style and dreams. Thank you, Freddy đŸ„°

  • @fayelaura5033
    @fayelaura5033 Pƙed 3 lety

    Your Palm Springs video is my happy place, whenever I feel really anxious or down I watch that video and it comforts me, I’ve probably watched it a hundred times now! 💕

  • @yardenlevy9867
    @yardenlevy9867 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    Freddy, I often feel like we're in sync since being in the same age and "status" . I have moved together with my boyfriend this October and it's true that we don't get to miss each other as much as we did. But I also feel like this was very important for our independence and growth.
    Traditional marriage in Israel include a religious ceremony, which I just don't feel comfortable with, since me and my boyfriend don't carry a religious lifestyle at all. I don't know what my boyfriend thinks about it. To sum up I hope you and I keep doing the things that are good for us and not necessarily written by society. Love 💓😘

  • @celinespina1619
    @celinespina1619 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    The more that I know, the more I love the person you are 💕 Honestly, you got me through so much last year, you could never imagine. I was at my worst time, had so much anxiety, and sleepless nights, and your travel vlogs were the only thing that could get me some hope and give me some sleep. I started watching your hauls with my mom (she loves you btw) and that was when I decided I had to do something for myself. I started with my style (you inspired me a lot on that too) and then I started being more confident, and could finally break free from everything that was weighing me down. I just wanted to say THANK YOU for helping me through my toughest times, being light when I could only see darkness and giving me hope when I the world seemed so chaotic. You inspire me everyday and I look forward to following your next steps 💕✹ love you

  • @ameldalaw
    @ameldalaw Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Freddy, I always re-watch your travel vlogs because they never fail to put a smile to my face :) It's crazy to think that I've watched you since I was 13 and now I'm almost 15. wishing you an abundance of happiness & success! You will always be iconic!

  • @avachappell2561
    @avachappell2561 Pƙed 3 lety

    Loved watching this! You are so eloquent with your words, and this felt like you were talking right to me đŸ„° I’ve loved watching your channel grow over the past two years đŸ€đŸ€

  • @margaretsolomon5053
    @margaretsolomon5053 Pƙed 3 lety +397

    I read the title as Negativity GoalsđŸ€Ł

  • @Wendy-xx4me
    @Wendy-xx4me Pƙed 3 lety +14

    A wonderful, honest review of your life and career in recent times. Thank you for sharing. I understand privacy concerns and separation of parts of your life, but may I encourage you to film this sort of content more often (and this is coming from someone old enough to be your mother!). I often think you have such mature and interesting perspectives which could be of value to many of your younger subscribers (and us oldies can always learn something new as well!).

  • @kylinae
    @kylinae Pƙed 3 lety

    You're such a down-to-earth and positive person and I appreciate you being on this platform, and wish that wonderful people like you were more popular on CZcams. Watching your videos helps me calm down from my anxiety and get perspective on life. Our fashion styles could not be more different but all the same I love your videos and will continue to watch them! Thank you Freddy!

  • @BaileyGeorgiades
    @BaileyGeorgiades Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I’ve never watched any CZcams video that’s been 50 mins long (granted I watched in stages), but I was captivated! I love your positivity, honesty and being open! Here’s to a wonderful 2021 x

  • @Xsxlma
    @Xsxlma Pƙed 3 lety +11

    Is it just me or what cuz her videos made me live through 2020? It’s crazy! I love ur videos and I hope all ur dreams come true this yearđŸ€đŸŒžđŸŽ€

    • @Cessiemoi
      @Cessiemoi Pƙed 3 lety

      Selma Meri she is â™ĄïžŽ

  • @user15hundred69
    @user15hundred69 Pƙed 3 lety +51

    im in love with your bed frame omg

  • @stephaniescheno3373
    @stephaniescheno3373 Pƙed 3 lety

    I usually put your videos on in the background while I am painting or multitasking in the house because I love your voice and accent..but this one made me come walk over and really listen! I absolutely loved this video and how you opened up- you seem like a genuinely amazing person! I LOVED hearing your years in review and your answers to follower questions especially. I so admire you as a person now! I am 32 years old, and I wish 25 year old me could have heard you talk about being mature professionally but a late bloomer with other things. I chose to live alone before moving in with my now husband too, and feel that was such an important time in my life and development as a person. Thank you for sharing a bit about you, I feel you are a kindred spirit now â˜ș

  • @jennifercate8996
    @jennifercate8996 Pƙed 3 lety

    I could listen to you speak non stop. Your voice is angelic and so calming! I’m so glad that you have such a positive look on life. Good luck to you in all your endeavors. Congrats on the new home!

  • @emilieandbunnies1650
    @emilieandbunnies1650 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    What I love about you Freddy is that through the years, you didn’t changed, but you’ve evolved! Your style changed, your content grew, but you stayed this amazing person who I’ve always thought seems so true, nice and gentle. Your channel really deserves the love it’s getting, I hope it keeps going this way and that all your dreams and goals will come true ❀

  • @jndb19
    @jndb19 Pƙed 3 lety +13

    Omg like 45 mins in I kept looking round my bedroom for a little clanking noise. Then I realised its your zip banging back and forth đŸ€Ł

  • @madlenyoung2472
    @madlenyoung2472 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Thank You for your candidness. This has been very inspirational and I feel that I have seen a very mature side of Freddy in this video. I Love your channel, been a fan for a few years, and I wish you All the Best! Keep up the wonderdul positive journey, which you take us on with each video. xoxo

  • @rubydeborja9152
    @rubydeborja9152 Pƙed 3 lety

    It so nice to be able catch on life's journey. You've had so many great memories and a loving support. Thank you much for sharing it with us. Can't wait to see what's in stored for 2021. Love you Freddie 😘💗