8 Signs Your Crush Is An Introvert
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- What are the signs your crush is an introvert? Are you confused about whether your crush’s uninterested, or are they just shy and introverted? Are you looking for dating advice on how to identify the signs an introvert likes you? Private and reserved, introverts can be difficult to read and tend to keep to themselves. So, here are 8 subtle signs that can help you figure out whether or not your crush is an introvert.
#introvert #crush #psych2go
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Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Isadara Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Maxine Gando
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Are you an introvert and in love with an introvert? There’s always a common ground and a way to connect with them! What do you think makes an introvert special? Comment below
i am an ambivert !!
😘😘
They are the most caring in most times
@@etherealchantm1891 same
I'm an introvert.
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”
― Aristotle
Agreed
that's such a good quote.
𝘏𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘥.
*Eleanor Shellstrop voice* Hah. 'Knowing' yourself.
@Olivia Stout Ah I know that feeling all too well, reason I keep my thoughts to myself lol.
Don’t be fooled by a quiet exterior. It hides a wild mind and passionate heart 🖖
I agree!!!!
This and loud introverts would make for interesting videos!
The quietest people are the kinkiest ones.
Olivia Stout
I totally feel you. One thing I’ve learned tho? There’s no such thing. You’ll see one day that that’s a one-dimensional thought
And I don’t say that to be rude-I hope you don’t take that personally. Quite the opposite in fact. I say it because I’ve been there
Very true ^_^
Summary
"The story of my life"
Thanks chief
thank you !!!
👉👈
I do those so I'm an introvert
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
― Stephen R. Covey
Well said
I'm an introvert and I do this too much 😫
@Olivia Stout omg same. Ppl misunderstand me so much. Even those who are supposed to be close to me.
In simple words. People listen to reply not to understand. but yeah it's the same bwhahaha
“Why does everyone force introverts to be talkative and leave their comfort zone, but no one forces extroverts to shut up and make the zone more comfortable?”
I DID NOT MAKE THIS UP THIS WAS FOUND ON TWITTER :)
Because the majority sets the standard. Extroverts are the majority.
LemonZeppelin XD ikr, I’m not left-handed, but I hate it when my friend can’t find left-handed scissors
@@AutomaticDuck300 Who says that is true? we have two ears and One mouth, means we needs more listening.
@@AutomaticDuck300 How do you know that it's the majority?
Reims Arlett
Probably because it’s the majority where they live so they implicitly assume it’s like that everywhere. There are places where more ppl are introverts too
Me and my crush being introverts 👁👄👁
I cant date them tho😔
Not with that kind of mindset you won't. You've already admitted defeat before you've attempted trying.
@@dominusbalial835 no shes straight that's why
But your right
Sameee I pushed him to take a Myers Briggs test during History (we both don't do shit during History but we get good grades) and we both are introverts. He's less Introverted than me though
You are so cute. I love introverts. I think I'm dealing with one now. She's opposite of all my extroverted exes and not trying to get so much attention. I am so ready for a change
Same, i don't think we have ever had a conversation. I might have said like 1 word to him 😔 Once we accidentally sat on the same table. It was only the two of us... It was... Very awkward and we talked to our friends like that was on the other table.. It was... Awful
Welp we are not going in the same class next year so ye :(
i have a crush on myself 💁🏻♀️
same :/
That's good then
I'm so proud of you😍😍😍😂😂😂😂
Yay!
xD
I am the one whos an introvert lol
I'm an introvert too🙂
Yes. Introverts can be together, believe it or not
Saaaaaame
Im an ambivert, but I have a bit more introverted characteristics than extroverted ones... I can relate to some of the points that were mentioned in this video :P
Same
Who is an introvert but nobody's crush?me!
That you know of :P
Mehh too
Me (｡•́︿•̀｡)
Me!
You could be, there’s this girl at college but I cant think of a way to properly initiate conversation even though we share the same bus
My crush is definitely an introvert. She displays almost all these signs. Plus, she doesn't usually talk unless I'm the one to start the conversation
Im more relating to these signs then my crush lol
Sometimes they're just dry af over text. 😔
Olivia Stout no one cares
@@crazywolf8019 shut up let them talk
yeah true ...
I’m an introvert- And my crush knows, because I’m basically all of the things in the video...😅
My crush still doesn’t know I like him, should I tell him? :o
Edit #1: Thanks for the advice and support!✨ Because of quarantine though, I can’t really talk to him in person... So I’m gonna text him for now and try to get to know him better🤞🏼
Try it
Uh he’ll yes you should you can do it girl/boy😁💖💖
Just DO IT
Yes! Be brave😊
And best of luck if you do 🤗
Make sure he is an introvert too...for a good relationship
“Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and that which cannot remain silent”
― Victor hugo
As an introvert myself, I can tell you, it’s 1000% true out of 100.
I love to socialize but because I suck at it it’s tiring. And I’m a great listener (besides in school) and I remember the little things about my crush.
And it may seem like we don’t like our crush, but we absolutely do.
It’s twice as hard to talk to them then a normal person, which is saying a lot.
But if we could just break that shell, and come out of our bubble, and be our true selves, we (at least me) would be so good at flirting and hopefully, my crush would like me back. But I know why my crush doesn’t like me, it’s cuz I’m quiet, shy, and can’t look at him in the eyes for more than 1 and a half seconds or I think I might die of emotions. Good emotions. And stupid shyness. And do I need to explain how outgoing we can be on text? Just look at how large this comment is🤭sorry, but I hope it was helpful.
And give yourself some brownie points if you read it all. Also feel free to tell me if you agree fellow introverts 😉
I totally agree 😸
I full heartedly agree
Tbh, I always tell this to my online friends and to myself that it always feels like that your personality online where you’re so confident and stuff feels like its trapped inside your phone and in reality I’m just that shy person in school.
But honestly its a little refreshing that there are people in my classes who remember my name ^^
Feel belonged even tho I’m lonely asf lmao
0:27 1. They dont initiate conversations
0:50 2. They prefer to listen more than talk
1:14 3. They're more talkative online or in text
1:40 4. They remember the little things
2:06 5. They are very self-aware
2:33 6. They are fiercely independent
3:01 7. They don't make small talk
3:32 8. They have a small group of friends
1. Yes quite true
2. Yes
3. How did you know?
4. Well not all
5. Yes
6. Yes and no at the same time
7. Yes
8. Yesn't
1-5 was so true about my crush omg
Number 8 is so relatable to me i bet my crush knows about this 🤪🤪🤪
I’m THAT introvert but too bad no one has a crush on me 🥰🧚♀️✨
I mean, you were watching this video to figure out if someone else is an introvert, right? Cause if nobody has a crush on you and you dont have a crush on anyone, why watch?
Who knows there is probably some one out there who likes you
Same
They are hide in somewhere.
How do u know that no one has had a crush on you?
*Dont mind me, just secretly checking if it obvious to others that im an introvert.*
We all do.
Relatable 😅
Don’t worry I’m a introvert too
This is literally describing us, huh? XD
100% like me
i don’t why i’m watching this even tho i don’t have any crush
same!
Same lol
Same
To boost my introvert ego ?
@@supermassiveblackhole6315 haha lol same.
summary of the video:
1. They don’t initiate conversations 0:25
2. They prefer to listen more than talk 0:50
3. They’re more talkative online or in text 1:14
4. They remember the little things 1:39
5. They’re very self aware 2:05
6. They’re fiercely independent 2:33
7. They don’t make small talk 3:00
8. They have a small group of friends 3:30
Recommend watching to learn more🤍
Bless you
3 is sooo true!
UrMom •-• It probably is for everyone here
Alright, today is the day im gonna talk about my secret depression
I built up the courage guys wish me luck.
Good luck- I hope it goes well!
Good luck boy
Good luck and we're here for u
🙂
I'm sorry for your condition, good luck, I hope you get rid of it and live a happy, healthy and wholesome life. : )
Psych2Go: Introverts remember the little things
Me: Struggling to remember when my own mother's birthday*
Ouch... but I have the same issue sadly
and my dad's birthday...
luckily, due to agendas on phones, I can now pin the day where my father or mom has their birthday and remind me 1 week before
We missed my dads birthday and celebrated the day after. 😁
Sign 1: They quietly play Minecraft on their own
Mood-
@@Cheetahwarrior-wu2kg mood? Yeah sure, you cant play video games on your own, THATS EDGY
Rainbow Six 👌
I never played a game with a friend.
I am an introvert but I tend to always fall for the most extroverted people and it never leads to anything. I feel so exhausted now that I have lost belief in love. 😟
Dont give up your going to find the one
Everyone: idk why I'm watching this I dont have a crush
Me: idk why I'm watching this I have an introverted boyfriend
Same lmao
Introverts are as awesome as extroverts 🤩💪🏼❤️
Of course we are!
You needed to tell me this why? Obviously i dont have lower worth simply because i like my own company
Saying one is better than the other would be kind of hypocritical of you
@@vancetheseas3471 are *AS* awesome as extroverts
Introverts are cuties ♡
Yeah I agree 🤗
Hy do u feel lonely and wanna share ur feelings or talk🙄
@@praveentummalacharla5165 waah bete moj krdy😂
No
I have the worst thinking 💀
AGHHHH i miss having a crush!!! I miss having those butterflies in your stomach. It's been so long since I've met someone to crush on and it's a feeling I want again :(
I have a crush and it feels warm but i feel like they just see me a s a friend.
@@BenjaminForest OoOo I've been in that position before. What indications are there?
Really? At this point I kind of hate having a crush cause I feel nauseous every time I see my crush just because of all the butterflies in my stomach
my assumption is that I can never get someone i like or even have a crush on. i have a crush and she is hella introverted, but it's gonna fail so bad as well and I rlly hate everything because why the hell is life like this bruh
Wait so ur telling me im basically an introvert
You probably are!
Blame covid🦇
Hah, I know my crush isn’t an introvert already at least!..
*_Because I don’t have a crush, except for food, food is my lover_*
And sleep don't forget about sleep.
I love food too. Wait, does that mean we have to fight over food?
I have a crush on my bed because it’s comfortable
Brainless just be careful on how much you eat and your good
Because of Corona virus I can't meet my crush :(
x3
She dumped me cause of quarantine
@Williams Jack Lopez Castro not that she told me she ignored me for a month the called and dumped me
Nice job
same here. I can't even chat him because I never want to annoy him.
I'm the introverted one, lol
_same.._
Same my crush isn’t :(
This is why i love being ambivert, because i can relate to introverts and extorvert stuff all the time
we're dope
@@douaelgchiri5654 yep
i'm an introverted hopeless romantic and these days all i want to do is banish any and all human emotion
My crush is not an introvert I guess I'm the introvert in this situation bcoz all these conditions apply for me and not on him....😊
I don't have a crush at the moment (which is rare for me!), but I have to say I really enjoyed this video. The animation is so smooth, the drawing style is adorable, and I love how you developed those two little characters! You make it look so real and heartwarming.
❤❤
Finally the video I've been waiting for a long time. Thanks a lot. This is me getting along with my introvert crush.
I’ll be suprised if someone has a crush on me.but when I was in...let’s say 4th grade one kid who I consider a good pal now (even tho we don’t talk much) always frogot I was even there.and that’s just a problem in my school in general.everyone knows eachother
I thought the same and somehow two girls got in love with me (I found out later) on the same grade so you can't know
It’s nice that you added references, makes it more legitimate and professional.
It's amaazing how you guys just described her... I'm impressed, but not surprised. Love it
This literally described me, great video!
I always watch your helpful vids at night your voice is so calming 🥰
you have such a soft and warm sound..., love it 😊
Wow this explained alot! Thanks for the awesome video! ♡♡♡
Press F for people whose crush is an extrovert.
F.
F
HOW?? DID YOU MAKE THIS COMMENT 3 WEEKS AGO IF THE VIDEO WAS UPLOADED 13 SECONDS AGO??
F
i Don't Have a crush but
F
Omg! This is me. This video is perfect!!! Thank you. 😊
Im the introvert and they just named all my traits... my crush is the extrovert
same here :D Idk why, but my crushes are always extroverts.. ^-^"
SchafiliSchaf I would assume because your not used to people actually talking to you, and you end up falling for someone easily because of it, since they make all the conversation easier
I feel you xD
But i dont have a crush
My crush meets so many of these points!!! He once confessed to a common friend of ours that he finds me so pretty but he can't talk to me at all. I found it so sweet, and since I felt the same way, I talked to him and became sorta friends. However, for a couple of months, he has been sometimes distant sometimes gentle, and I was confused... On the other side, that same common friend let me know how he's never had a girlfriend, plus he only hangs around with boys, so it's terribly difficult for him to interact. Then he sent me a heart warming text for my birthday, and that's when I confirmed I have a crush on him. So, I'm having a late bday party next Tuesday and I plan to sort of... Confess?! I hope it goes well cuz I'm so shy myself - I would have never guessed there's someone shier than me. But I'll pluck up the courage and give it a try!!!!!!! *fingers crossed! *
All the best! :)
Being an introvert I think it’s funny having someone explain the things that I actually do.
I love these videos! they are very informative
This helped me aloth thanks so much this channel is basically a lifesaver
I love the variety of styles in the drawing in all the videos 🤭
i rlly love ur voice
Something they did not include..
As introverts we take a bit to show our true colors and emotions to others we don't know. If you basically screw up during the start of building trust with them, they will cut to off quickly and completely. Once you have broken trust, or hurt them you'll probably never regain their friendship, unless you get a chance to meet them later... Like years, and character building later.
I didn't had a crush since I was born but still I love your videos. It helped me alot through my depressed days.
Love your voice Amanda, it is so relaxing
i'm in love with the style of this animation 😍
Most of these are me for sure. I don't usually make the first move, but a few times I did when it was my now girlfriend before the pandemic. Withdrawn from most, quiet, soft spoken, reserved, I've heard it all. I always listen to one of my closest friends and remain in deep thought over each detail. Wish I could text or face time/facebook my girlfriend. All we can do is straight up call. But I feel relaxed talking to her. It's easy for me to be lost in thought. Not into small talk with most. But we both get a few laughs in every time. And yes, she knows I'm not the most talkative.
Maybe you can determine who made the first move. In February, she asks me if I'm seeing anyone and wants to go steady. I panicked while trying to gently rest my hand on her knee, but still ended up exchanging numbers. A few weeks later, I feel like it's the right move and want to ask her. Then the worst happened, no one was going anywhere. I remembered I still had her number saved. So after finally working up the courage to do it, one day I finally get in touch with her and ask her. She said yes, but you probably knew that.
One last thing, good choice on the girl's hair style. It reminds me of hers.
What’s your age?
I'm 31, she turned 35 last month
I'm usually an introvert girl but I will describe myself better as an ambivert (even though some psychologist don't accetp that term). Whenever its means to out myself out, my introvert side just comes with me.
I've had struggled to talk to people I have a crush on but during this quarantine I tried to do it. I've just been talking with a guy that seemed interested in what I thought and that surprised me, but now that moment I tried to do things I don't normally do (initiate conversation or talk a little bit more) he just stopped and seems distant. Whatever path this goes into, I know that if he just disappeares, God has something better for me.
But man, it's so uncomfortable doing things that my natural introverted self is not used to.😅😅
These videos really help me mentally😭😭😭
beautiful animation & video!
I tend to be quiet and shy when you first meet me but if I like you I do tend to have more of a bad habit shutting up. But only with people I know are sticking around not turning and running
I used to be a BIG shy introvert ! Relatable AF- I was so outgoing through texts haha and I remember so much which probably helped me excel in school.. also had a journal where I often reflected and wanted to grow. Outgoing guys used to attract me haha but now I prefer someone whose partial of both!
Now I'm way more outgoing and I'm not afraid to reach out first. But i am learning to do more journaling to be more self-aware, listen more, and be more detail-oriented ❤
Thats nice
Same!
Aah yes, finally a video that explains almost everything i wished to know
Introverts are quiet in smalltalk
Me, an intellecutual: * changes smalltalk into a conversation *
That’s kinda the endgame of small talk anyway. The conversation isn’t supposed to stay small talk forever. Some ppl would rather just skip it tho
Me and my crush are both introverts I would talk to him more if I weren’t an introvert and like that truly sucks fidbcjsjsj
It’s ok I felt that before. Just try to talk no matter what even if it’s awkward because it’s better than nothing at least 😊 (I’m an introvert like you, by the way)
And if you’re a girl, boys mostly find clumsy or awkward girls are the cutest so don’t worry about it. Be brave inside yourself
- aBooDFrost - thank you for some advice and trying to help
when you and your crush are both introverts so you just stare at each other from time to time and do little nice things for each other but never speak to each other
Wish i had any crush but love the way you speak so am here to hear you
I really needed this, i wanna grow closer to my crush.. although if he’s an introvert like i am, it could be sort of difficult to talk to him more
(the only time we spoke to one another was today with me replying was today, it was very short cause he just asked for my social media-)
positives of being an mbivert or hsp
pls discuss one of these topics too !!!
Every time I get a notification from your channel I know I’m on the right path
My crush is an introvert I think, they used to be so shy around me when we first liked each other back a year ago, but now they have opened up a lot
I'm an introvert and this is ALL correct....couldn't have explained it better myself.
Good animation:)
I saw the comments coming from at least 3 weeks ago even when the video was released few minutes ago...
Having Patreon might be great :)
Nice video btw
If you go on the Dating playlist you can find unlisted videos, no matter if you have patreon or not
I've been friends with my crush for 2 years this year I figured out I like him.
But the bad thing is that we're both introverts lol.
They are very serious and very hard working, I am one of them. We are never fed up of being lonely. Sometimes even in my country when I was walking in the market, I feel I am a forefinger. The places are not different for me When I was In London, Madrid, Beirut, Erbil, Tahran.
What if my crush is not well known and I just know them by what they do out of my life?
also why am I so dilly darn lonely? ik I have a crush on someone but... WHY AM I SO LONELY? am I not attractive..? im questioning my sanity now
what have I done?
btw this whole channel helped me learn more about my depression and how I need to deal with it
I know thats off topic but I really want to say thank you for helping me start recovering just a lil more
I'm a total introvert and this does point out a lot on us Introverts. They basically nail me on the head if anyone has a crush on me.
The animator and voice actress did such a good job 👏
Yeah, I always seem to crush on introverted girls. Problem is, while I need to be extroverted for work, aside from that I really can be quite introverted myself. Can make starting conversations, and initially maintaining them a challenge.
I can relate to the more talkative online because I like to talk/ help people on Team Fortress 2
please make a video about people mis (self) diagnosing or faking depression? All to fit in or attract attention? I feel like its a problem that isnt addressed and takes away the attention needed for people who truly are in this state
Wauw, apparently while my crush is normally an extravert, she does show atleast half the signs of an introvert in front of me (seperatly) most of the time so most of the time shedoes nr 1, she does nr 3, die does nr 4 because she does remember from (& mention last september) that my grandma last july told i was a lot into dora the explorer back when i was a kid, about nr.5 in class i did see her drawing her own fanart & OC's & stuff related to her OC's whenever she could, i think she did nr.6 only when i'm around because she did seem more social when i'm not around, she does nr. 8 because last thursday she told she only has a few friends that she can really call friends, so it's clear to me that despite her saying die is an extravert, she behave like an introvert when i'm around
Both me and my crush are introverted extrovert so...I mean I guess im an highly sensitive extrovert but my crush is an introverted extrovert. She do have alot of friends but she is really shy in quite alot of situations, tbh I really like this video because atleast I can learn how to kinda communicate with my crush because sometimes we just feel like being alone but we wanna talk to each other and we dont really know what to say so Thank You:) Also recently, our relationship is getting closer so this video is gonna go handy :))))
Can you do a series on eating disorders? I love your videos 💙
I have a crush on an introvert guy. It’s so hard for me, but I’m getting the hang of it and he is opening up to me ❤️
I just need this to understand my crush more
This explains ALOT
More talkative online or text, speaking is fun but I feel more opened to share
Via typing or writing
I haven’t had a crush in years but the guy in my profile made that change 😌
Lmfaoooo
Lowkey wanna send this to someone since I'm a damn introvert.
Amo tu voz,, es muy tranquila y suave--
Me encantó el video
(◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。
this animation is super cute
My crush and I are introverts but I'm more ambivert so It's really hard to talk in person with our anxiety. We only ever text each other but we text a lot to the point where I have to scroll 10 minutes for texts from February 1st
My crush have all signs, I know she's surely introvert. Will you make a video about sign that introverts are ready to meet you in the flesh? After knowing each other via online text. Once she said "If we keep talking like this, someday we could meet irl"
Anddd, Are reaction in a chat really mean what she feel? I mean, when I said my comment to something or sharing her some knowledge, she always react "heart" or "wow" emoji to my messages. I really glad everytime she do that. It means she show interest in my word.
I know my crush is a extrovert and I'm the introvert so why am I watching this
This video helped me understand the girl of my dreams , my “crush” .. who now is lying on my right arm sleeping and my arm is falling asleep too and I am writing with my left hand and maybe I’m gonna drop my phone on my face cus of this . She is still my crush . Only been three month .
i suggest watching this,then watch "5 signs an introvert likes you" ;)
"they're more talkative online or in text"
Hold up isn't that me-
I have a friend who is an introvert, she doesn't talk much in RL or thru texts. I always find it hard to continue conversations with her. She also has a low voice which unfortunately for me makes it even harder to hold a convo with her. She doesn't have many friends but sometimes it seems as if she can understand everything we have to say and not explain in detail.