Intro to the Enneagram || What are the 9 Personality Types?

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  Pƙed 4 lety +439

    👉 What is your type?
    ⚡Get a free 30 day free trial of Audible with a free audiobook at www.audibletrial.com/FJ 🙌
    Maybe get one of those Enneagram books! 📕
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    Stay cool and attractive 😎

  • @taurusdragon4763
    @taurusdragon4763 Pƙed 4 lety +5212

    Type 5: Delusional, cynical and unsociable
    Me : *Never before have I been so offended by something I one hundred percent agree with*

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 Pƙed 4 lety +36

      SAME

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 Pƙed 4 lety +99

      5 is clearly INTJ

    • @rini9325
      @rini9325 Pƙed 4 lety +119

      @@mariobros7834 no,not always technically any mbti can be 5,intjs,intps,entps are more commonly fives. I'm an infp 549(my tritype) . You haven't done your research on enneagram. 5s are more than just nerds,frank made this video to make people aware of the most obvious traits of each enneagram. He didn't even cover 2% of what a five actually is. This is just a starting point for people who don't know what enneagram is.

    • @taurusdragon4763
      @taurusdragon4763 Pƙed 4 lety +63

      @@mariobros7834 I'm INTP

    • @lesliemoo
      @lesliemoo Pƙed 4 lety +22

      "Eccentric nerd"; I felt that.

  • @arneholmstad4709
    @arneholmstad4709 Pƙed 4 lety +3370

    Broke: Enneagram is a tool to understand yourself better and how you could develop onwards in life.
    Woke: Enneagram is for when you've seen all the mbti memes and posts.

    • @essem4979
      @essem4979 Pƙed 4 lety +274

      Bespoke: Enneagram is just another excuse for my actions

    • @ihateyouall7026
      @ihateyouall7026 Pƙed 4 lety +51

      Samuelx01 no it’s a conclusion to all of your actions.

    • @neoculturetakoyaki4612
      @neoculturetakoyaki4612 Pƙed 4 lety +28

      DONT CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT

    • @jessiejang6512
      @jessiejang6512 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Who are you xNTx mate? 😂😂😂

    • @mashedpotatoes5957
      @mashedpotatoes5957 Pƙed 3 lety +22

      @@jessiejang6512 most likely just any xNxP, those are the best at spectacularly wasting their time (as said by one)

  • @BigFanOfCocks
    @BigFanOfCocks Pƙed 3 lety +2637

    “Huh it looks like I don’t have a typ-“
    *”They have no opinion”*
    “There it is”

    • @bedheadead
      @bedheadead Pƙed 3 lety +44

      you've read my mind °^°

    • @sillyme7395
      @sillyme7395 Pƙed 3 lety +59

      It's quite the opposite for me, i felt that i have a touch from each type, especially four and one, but it's because we're central, it looks like we're the weakest â˜čïžđŸ’”is it bad or am just overthinking about it!

    • @BigFanOfCocks
      @BigFanOfCocks Pƙed 3 lety +48

      Silly me well yeah that’s what i said: when you have a 9, you try to relate to all the enneagrams. But because of that, most of the time you ignore your own opinion. (Like for me i’m a 9w8)

    • @j.i.n.e.d.m.a4777
      @j.i.n.e.d.m.a4777 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      @@sillyme7395 omg same! I'm really confused between being an 1 or 4... Both have so much from my personality and I'm really stressed out trying to know who i really am lol... Overthinking about it in other words

    • @themiddleones11
      @themiddleones11 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      It's like I'm a 9 without the fear which is weird

  • @noeditbookreviews
    @noeditbookreviews Pƙed 3 lety +1512

    "75% of statistics are made up off the top of people's heads." Lol that was good.

    • @Phialla
      @Phialla Pƙed 2 lety +6

      Lol. I wanted to leave the same comment.

    • @thesparks00
      @thesparks00 Pƙed 2 lety +15

      It's 78%
      Loljk

    • @fpsproductions6073
      @fpsproductions6073 Pƙed 2 lety +23

      The funny thing is, by saying that, your saying another statistic. So it must be made up, but maybe the first one was made up... its an endless cycle

    • @lucasdavies8268
      @lucasdavies8268 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      42% of people know that.

    • @rcmm8625
      @rcmm8625 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      Disagree, I'm 99% right 75% of the time. Numbers can be skewed

  • @hannahdivic28
    @hannahdivic28 Pƙed 4 lety +790

    OMG I JUST REALIZED: YOU’RE AN INFJ, AND YOUR INITIALS ARE FJ đŸ‘đŸŒđŸ‘đŸŒ

    • @emmazhang2418
      @emmazhang2418 Pƙed 3 lety +70

      HeyHannah omg what if his initials were IN in his past life ahahaha

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel Pƙed 3 lety +28

      @@emmazhang2418 The probability is very high

    • @Corp0ratehippie
      @Corp0ratehippie Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Hey I’m an INFJ too đŸ§šđŸ»

    • @Partycitybaex
      @Partycitybaex Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Yup!

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 Pƙed 3 lety

      đŸ€Šâ€â™‚ïž

  • @weirdqueenbee9116
    @weirdqueenbee9116 Pƙed 4 lety +1097

    Im type 3 (the performer), an ESFP (the entertainer), and on top of that a Leo. I feel like a walking bad joke of a stereotype
    Edit: look mom im a leo-type 3-ESFP who got 1k likes. I feel famous đŸ’…đŸ»

    • @alastair2375
      @alastair2375 Pƙed 3 lety +35

      weird queen bee wait omg my friend is type 3 and esfp and a leo ?/!?/!-?:/!?-/

    • @monalletinie143
      @monalletinie143 Pƙed 3 lety +28

      I'm an ESFJ 6 virgo so i understand you at the walking stereotype 😭

    • @emmario1232
      @emmario1232 Pƙed 3 lety +11

      infp leo here. Somehow they both fit really well which I do not understand.

    • @kristalmelendez5100
      @kristalmelendez5100 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@Dwelleronthethreshold89 haaa, wait that’s sad

    • @Sam-wb2qi
      @Sam-wb2qi Pƙed 3 lety +4

      i'm type 5, istp and a leo so... guess I'm incapable of understanding relashionships

  • @minibuffon1
    @minibuffon1 Pƙed 3 lety +1547

    The 9 types...
    1. Perfectionist. Want to be good people.
    Positive traits: orderly, steadfast, ethical.
    Negative traits: perfectionist, judgemental, intolerant
    Fear: being a bad person
    2. Giver. Wants to take care of people.
    Positive traits: compassionate, caring
    Negative traits: manipulative, selfish, needy
    Fear: not mattering
    3. Performer/Achiever. Wants validation
    Positive traits: Confident, ambitious, charming
    Negative traits: Self centred, boastful
    Fear: Being worthless
    4. Artist. Want to demonstrate that they’re unique
    Positive traits: Perceptive, imaginative, passionate
    Negative traits: Dramatic, narcissistic
    Fear: Having no identity
    5. Thinker. Want to understand the world
    Positive traits: Analytic, inventive, independent
    Negative traits: Delusional, cynical, unsociable
    Fear: Being useless
    6. Loyalist, skeptic. Want security
    Positive traits: Likeable, loyal, responsible
    Negative traits: Fearful, self-doubting, aggressive
    Fear: Being abandoned
    7. Enthusiast. Want to get the most out of everything
    Positive traits: Quick learners, curious, bold
    Negative traits: Overindulgent, impulsive
    Fear: Being deprived
    8. Challenger. Want control
    Positive traits: Energetic, strong-willed, bold
    Negative traits: Domineering, argumentative, unfeeling
    Fear: Being controlled
    9. Peacemaker. Want to avoid conflict
    Positive traits: Easy-going, reassuring, unselfish
    Negative traits: Apathetic, irresponsible, indecisive
    Fear: Loss of connection with others

    • @freezeisforever257
      @freezeisforever257 Pƙed 3 lety +22

      Thank you. ^^

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh Pƙed 3 lety +35

      God I hope I'm not narcissistic... That would kill me...

    • @SourPotato
      @SourPotato Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I think this solidifies my claim of being a 7w6

    • @ammuammuz9393
      @ammuammuz9393 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      Why do I feel like I'm all of themđŸ„ŽđŸ˜­

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      @@RosheenQuynh It isn't the same as being diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder or anything. Don't worry about it.

  • @deniroswife
    @deniroswife Pƙed 2 lety +184

    as a four and an infp i think I'm just destined to be a depressed guitarist

    • @katiieguinn
      @katiieguinn Pƙed 2 lety +13

      đŸ–€ I am the same as you kaya , I’m not sure why our types are usually so depressed

    • @humanransom
      @humanransom Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@katiieguinn facts

    • @oknothing9291
      @oknothing9291 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Same

    • @EarthenCavy
      @EarthenCavy Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I’m an INFP 4w5, so a disaster. đŸ€Ł I’m an artist for a living, too. Lawd, chile


    • @aryaraut6811
      @aryaraut6811 Pƙed 2 lety

      Hey cuz same

  • @Lileiny
    @Lileiny Pƙed 4 lety +678

    "They may be comfortable with talking about Physics, but with normal stuff like holding up a job or having a relationship they might feel useless"
    Laughing nervously while being single and unemployed with a Master of Science degree and a history of dramatic relationship fails

    • @sandybeach8596
      @sandybeach8596 Pƙed 4 lety

      I'm single

    • @andyramirez6721
      @andyramirez6721 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      I've been studying about old roman history, I'm also unemployed and single since forever, yeah I'm indeed a 5. 😑

    • @PauliEvansBlack617
      @PauliEvansBlack617 Pƙed 4 lety +23

      You are my people. Single since forever, studying chemistry. Passed three calculus classes but trying to do my budget is a nightmare.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow Pƙed 4 lety +6

      I’m single. I gave up. Oh well. More time to learn new things I say.

    • @raihankameel320
      @raihankameel320 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      lol. Being a 5 with wing 6 (or having Te) massively helps in dealing with "practical" boring stuffs in life.

  • @felipefreire2182
    @felipefreire2182 Pƙed 4 lety +921

    2:50 1. The perfectionist, reformer
    3:36 2. The helper, giver
    4:11 3. The performer, achiever
    4:51 4. The Artist, romantic
    5:44 5. The thinker, investigator
    6:40 6. The loyalist, skeptic
    7:40 7. The enthusiast, optimist
    8:14 8. The challenger, leader
    8:55 9. The peacemaker, mediator

  • @hnnhplmr95
    @hnnhplmr95 Pƙed 3 lety +338

    Me: I relate to four and six
    Fj: 6 is very common
    Me: no im unique
    Oh

    • @antheia__
      @antheia__ Pƙed 3 lety +14

      Lmao dw I'm a 4 but I relate to 6 because of ✹anxiety disorder✹

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@antheia__ Well im a 4w3 and i can say that you just worried about yourself. I usually i had seen this comment like this and have a talk with them usualy they will worried about themself first. So i can really sure that you are a 4.

    • @nikharrith9625
      @nikharrith9625 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      You had a desire and a belief that you are unique,So you basicly just a 4

    • @Baseiscc
      @Baseiscc Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I LITERALLY HAD THIS EXACT CONVERSATION WITH MYSELF RIP

  • @snowstormsunscarface
    @snowstormsunscarface Pƙed rokem +133

    I'm an INTJ and a type five (both originally mistyped). I like how MBTI has more types and is more comprehensive, but I also like how the Enneagram doesn't include introversion and extraversion.

    • @Bobo-gb9wz
      @Bobo-gb9wz Pƙed rokem +4

      if you get to know enneagram deeper you'd be surprised how deep and personal they are

    • @illgnorance
      @illgnorance Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      it does has a certain level including introversion and extroversion actually, as how e8 can only be Se base, and e5 can only be Ti base and Ni base.

    • @hidum5779
      @hidum5779 Pƙed 9 dny

      type 5 is known to be the most introverted of all types. I'm an INTJ and 5w6

  • @laurene111
    @laurene111 Pƙed 4 lety +792

    Just wanted to say that the musician Sleeping at Last wrote 9 songs for each enneagram type, so once you found your type, go listen to the song related to it, it might hit your feelings but you definitely won't regret it

    • @nataliefades
      @nataliefades Pƙed 4 lety +38

      Wow, I hadn’t heard that. I was just listening to one of my favorites, “Saturn” about an hour ago. I’m going to check this out. So curious.

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      Yes, my favorite artist. Beautiful songs.

    • @justdecaffeinated
      @justdecaffeinated Pƙed 4 lety +12

      Oh my friend showed it to me before and linked 9 to me to explain this character he had lol i told him after that I was a 9 myself

    • @tianas.6813
      @tianas.6813 Pƙed 4 lety +34

      sleeping at last is actually how i was introduced to enneagram!

    • @laurene111
      @laurene111 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      @@tianas.6813 yeah me too !!!

  • @JuliaPoprocks
    @JuliaPoprocks Pƙed 4 lety +379

    Totally got distracted by the kids playing outside the window. 😂

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 Pƙed 4 lety +23

      Lol, The last frame in the bloopers...

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  Pƙed 4 lety +105

      😂 me too when I edited

    • @LaurenAdrienne0486
      @LaurenAdrienne0486 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Same!

    • @michaelaturzo
      @michaelaturzo Pƙed 4 lety +3

      It ‘‘twas a great surprise :’)

    • @jessicapandapaw178
      @jessicapandapaw178 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      If I said I didn't notice them until you pointed it out.... what does that say about me? haha

  • @toasega
    @toasega Pƙed 3 lety +70

    Him: Don't take a test.
    Me: imma do it

  • @SeanNg__n
    @SeanNg__n Pƙed 3 lety +64

    When your an INFJ and dunno which one you are cuz you change depending on the person

    • @whateverbonbon9214
      @whateverbonbon9214 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      True

    • @kaboomgaming4255
      @kaboomgaming4255 Pƙed 2 lety

      But why do you change depending on the person? Find the reason behind that, and you can probably tell your type from that.

    • @shraddhagalwade7252
      @shraddhagalwade7252 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@kaboomgaming4255 Infj s keep changing in order to maintain interpersonal harmony

  • @thanatos2288
    @thanatos2288 Pƙed 4 lety +624

    "Delusional, cynical, unsociable, fears of being useless"
    Type 5, _cries_ in *INTJ*

    • @MsHetha
      @MsHetha Pƙed 4 lety +41

      I thought I would be the only one.
      Almost said let's unite but...people...

    • @LooneyTiksCrap
      @LooneyTiksCrap Pƙed 4 lety +21

      Same except with wing 6, like I just got stabbed in the Fi ...twice.
      I'm not useless, I can do a great many things. I just... people. I'm not crying. You can't prove anything.

    • @Qar-bp1yr
      @Qar-bp1yr Pƙed 4 lety +27

      Wait you cry?

    • @kailiak4271
      @kailiak4271 Pƙed 4 lety +27

      @@Qar-bp1yr We never cry. LIES

    • @wynstansmom829
      @wynstansmom829 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      5W4, and I am an oldish INTJ, INtj or intraverted intuitive.
      Trust me, you will be useful.
      and you will always worry you won't be. But you will find a way.
      We persist and just like life, we find a way.

  • @abhadas
    @abhadas Pƙed 4 lety +436

    "different in a dis-advantaged way" as an INFJ and type 4, i felt that.

  • @nebulasofia
    @nebulasofia Pƙed 2 lety +39

    INFJ + 9w1 = me begin a people pleaser, having no clue what my identity or my feelings are and no expressing emotions because I don't want to bother anyone but worrying about how they feel.
    Lol

    • @fey6956
      @fey6956 Pƙed 2 lety

      Bro r we twins?

    • @daud1269
      @daud1269 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Are you me? Yeah, sometimes I can't understand how some people can have a strong opinion over anything.

    • @Oushiro17
      @Oushiro17 Pƙed 2 lety

      I feel ya. I’ve known about my typing for both systems for 11 years but still am learning new things about myself, or fall back into the people pleasing in order to keep things calm. But we gotta lean into that 3 energy, even though it is uncomfortable if we want to grow. Thankfully my brother-in-law is a type 3 so I consider myself very fortunate.

  • @rogerhuggettjr.7675
    @rogerhuggettjr.7675 Pƙed 2 lety +46

    That was helpful. I took the test 3 times with 3 different results. The first was ridiculous, the second was 6w5 and the third was 9w1. From your description I am definitely a 6 which fits an INTP pretty good.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 Pƙed rokem

      9w1 also fits INTP

    • @soccerchamp0511
      @soccerchamp0511 Pƙed rokem +3

      I'm sorry, but INTP definitely = 5. They are both the "Analyst"/"Investigator" type.

    • @last3122
      @last3122 Pƙed rokem +21

      @@soccerchamp0511 every mbti and enneagram combo is possible, it’s just rare

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Pƙed rokem

      Hey Roger, if you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: czcams.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/video.html

  • @lh2354
    @lh2354 Pƙed 4 lety +584

    when you’re an INFP and type 4. well... the stars are aligning

    • @tessemo
      @tessemo Pƙed 3 lety +9

      And infp and type 2w1

    • @ronelia.creative
      @ronelia.creative Pƙed 3 lety +15

      I'm a type 4w3 but I'm an ENFP.. after some more research I realised that 4w3 are often ENFP.. so interesting

    • @coreywatts5143
      @coreywatts5143 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      same

    • @mandotory6728
      @mandotory6728 Pƙed 3 lety +32

      Well, I’m INFP and 4w5

    • @luisarico857
      @luisarico857 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Do you know your zodiac sign, maybe a piscis? 👀👀👀

  • @PikachuDenki
    @PikachuDenki Pƙed 4 lety +851

    Me: wow i think im a little bit of all of these but none of them are really me yet.
    Fj: talks abt 9
    Me: ... Okay
    Fj: 9 in a sense tries to be like all the others
    Me: oh shit

    • @moodymoods9261
      @moodymoods9261 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      Saaame

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat Pƙed 3 lety +9

      Me fokin same! Except
      Each of 1,2,3,4 and probably 5 (don’t remember what each of them is and so I don’t remember at which of them the following thing I’ll say stops) I felt like haha, is thAt me?, wait, is this?, mabe that??,
      And I felt very close to almost all of the numbers (with maybe 1-2.5 exceptions for 6,7,8. 100% 8 ismn’tme), but then he started talking about the nine...... and in the very beginning when he showed the picture, in which I never noticed before (maybe because I didn’t pay that close attention), but did notice now, I noticed that, Hmm, why 9 is on the top and not 1?, must mean something then. .. and yap.. it does.. but about not having own opinion and personality¿, eemm, I don’t think so :/
      (Also the second name calls back to one of the INFP names). The last sentence he said about 9 hurt, much, though right now as I write this I don’t even remember what that was, mostly don’t

    • @randyschroeder2210
      @randyschroeder2210 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      I’ve been told everyone has a little of each type, but the goal is to find the closest match. It might make sense to dig into a book with details. When I did, I read one number until it didn’t feel like me anymore. Then move on to the next type, until you find the closest to you. Also, we’re all basically one number, with a “leaning” to the numbers on each side. For example, I’m a 7, but have a leaning to 6, and sometimes an 8, depending on the situation. I hope this heals?

    • @Space_Potat
      @Space_Potat Pƙed 3 lety

      Randy Schroeder OH! Tanks, Randy, FJ said in the beginning of the video that everyone has a bit of each number, but everyone (INCLUDING ME) seems to forget it 😅

    • @user-xb4mh6jz3g
      @user-xb4mh6jz3g Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Jesus loves you so much he even died to save you from your sins. He’s coming back soon, repent and turn away from your sins.

  • @jaebellamy7636
    @jaebellamy7636 Pƙed 2 lety +49

    Great presentation! New to Enneagram but fluent in Meyers Briggs, so far I think they both are helpful. I'm a 5.

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Pƙed rokem

      Hey Jae, If you'd like to learn more about Type 5 Investigators, check out this in depth video here: czcams.com/video/tSrcN4mmzU0/video.html

  • @seaurchinayano6140
    @seaurchinayano6140 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    Frank: the enneagram is a tool to learn about yourself and overcome your weaknesses.
    Me: if I find out about my enneagram type, I will be able to find and save the most relatable enneagram memes.

  • @rheadel17
    @rheadel17 Pƙed 4 lety +294

    "In some ways, they honestly don't have an opinion."
    I'm type 9 and this is so true. 😅

  • @samjamwiches
    @samjamwiches Pƙed 3 lety +472

    "Type 4 feels like they have no identity, and so they try to create something that people can interact with as a stand in for their identity."
    *cries in INFP*

    • @ritaruggerone4434
      @ritaruggerone4434 Pƙed 3 lety +22

      Don’t worry I’m crying with you😭😭😭

    • @-_NurSyifaFaraWahidaPurba
      @-_NurSyifaFaraWahidaPurba Pƙed 3 lety +5

      Same 😭

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      I'm an ENFP with a tendency to INFP and also a 4. Feel that😂😂😂

    • @sillyme7395
      @sillyme7395 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Exactly!💔 it's so close to nine, but nine is even worst..am so Frustrated:(

    • @studiopersonalericadipalma704
      @studiopersonalericadipalma704 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@mariellarusso2268 I feel you.. sooooo me !! LOL still try to figure all the time if I'm E or I .. LOL ..

  • @noauxa9711
    @noauxa9711 Pƙed 3 lety +22

    INFP type 9 here. Wow I see myself as knowing who I am as a person, and having a good sense of self, but you’re absolutely right, I always try to do what the other person wants first and if things go wrong I completely hide, both online and in person, I don’t want to further complicate things, if that makes sense hee.
    Wait did I just do what 9s do by saying you’re right? :0 Idk aaa I know close to nothing about the enneagram so reeee..? O-o

  • @Arniqua
    @Arniqua Pƙed rokem +1

    I'm 4w5 and tbh, that's accurate. I'm the absent minded professor by the day and brooding melancholic artist by the night.

  • @waterbottle9603
    @waterbottle9603 Pƙed 4 lety +337

    As a 9, i don't know what my type is

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 Pƙed 4 lety +37

      Hi my dear...you must be an INFP! 😊

    • @Emi-bg2pq
      @Emi-bg2pq Pƙed 4 lety +6

      I rly felt that

    • @waterbottle9603
      @waterbottle9603 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      gordon glad to know people can relate đŸ€ŸđŸ˜”

    • @radicalfan8743
      @radicalfan8743 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      I'm a 9 and why do I feel the same??

    • @yolosangels
      @yolosangels Pƙed 4 lety +26

      @@schoolwork232 This thread is scary because 1) I didn't know which mine was until FJ talked about the 9 and 2) then i saw the original comment basically saying exactly what i was thinking and finally 3) i'm a goddamn INFP.

  • @TheDancingBell
    @TheDancingBell Pƙed 3 lety +379

    Me, an 8: "I am not that aggressive", husband: "yes you are"

  • @douglascampbell6482
    @douglascampbell6482 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    Frank - you have the best type! We are both so terminally unique and special that i may write a poem about our uniqueness and specialtude. Really enjoyed this vid, bro. Got yourself a subscriber

  • @ellathe231
    @ellathe231 Pƙed rokem +6

    If I’m being entirely honest, the four and three really, really hit close to home. Almost too close really, he described it perfectly how I need to be different, and how I need to have something original that people can remember me by
    It’s kinda funny to me cause I’m really introverted and hate being the center of attention, but at the same time that’s exactly where I need myself to be in order to feel good about myself lol

  • @toesaremyfetish5882
    @toesaremyfetish5882 Pƙed 4 lety +333

    Me a type 9: Watches this video instead of doing their homework and sees irresponsible
    Me: Nods head sadly and screaming with anxiety inside

    • @aliaa4534
      @aliaa4534 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Me skipping class rn:

    • @Pram_qqq
      @Pram_qqq Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Me watching the video and taking the enneagram test
      instead of reviewing for midterm next week
      and doing my undone task for online submission

  • @EllidaWangel
    @EllidaWangel Pƙed 4 lety +62

    6:32 "but the normal stuff, like holding down a job or having a relationship, they feel like they're useless" OUCH that was unnecessarily accurate

    • @riube28
      @riube28 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      I feel you :/ lowkey followed the description with a whispered- 'useless at doing chores, remembering to pay bills in time, f*in having a normal day to day routine... does everyone need to know that?' o.O

    • @leggi_bois4eva
      @leggi_bois4eva Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Same lol being INTJ dont help

    • @peachyprotist
      @peachyprotist Pƙed 4 lety

      SAME I UGH AAAAA
      ._.

  • @sarahfara1539
    @sarahfara1539 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    I'm INFP but I think in the enneagramm I'm 8w9, although I wouldn't see myself as a "leader". But overall it fits well. "Defend themselves by building emotional walls and denying vulnerability"; "fear being hurt by others", "fear being controlled by others" sounds about right. Also 8s are said to turn into 2s when happy (when I'm happy I'm more of an ENFP style but also like gifting others and doting on them) and into 5s when stressed (massive overthinking and analyzing).

  • @fredboykin7817
    @fredboykin7817 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Thank you Frank. I enjoyed your videos so much. I am both a Myers Briggs and Enneagram coach but I find the Enneagram much more helpful. As a type 7 my therapy practice has changed because I now see how I got in my own way during sessions. I love the Enneagram and graduated from the Narrative Tradition almost 20 years ago. It's great seeing you carrying the information and teaching of the Enneagram onto the next generations.

  • @phoenix5054
    @phoenix5054 Pƙed 4 lety +121

    The Enneagram legit sounds like MBTI functions created into each type, with an added type to make it less obvious.
    Perfectionist - Si
    Helper - Fe
    Performer - Se
    Artist - Fi
    Thinker - Ti
    Skeptic - Ni
    Enthusiast - Ne
    Challenger - Te
    Peacemaker - also Fe

    • @Dienamich
      @Dienamich Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Pretty dead on there. Great job!

    • @francesivy6194
      @francesivy6194 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      I think that makes sense for most people but I'm a fi with a 6 enneagram

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  Pƙed 4 lety +17

      Yeah the 2 and the 5 line up especially clearly !

    • @ampa4989
      @ampa4989 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      @@FrankJames Isn't Thinker also Te (as well as Ti)? I think INTJs more naturally fit 5w6 than 3 or 8, though I understand 3 to some extent.

    • @savagestudio9666
      @savagestudio9666 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Edge
      DSP language:
      1. Oi more Si more masculine
      2. De more Fe
      3. De more Te and Se, Play
      4. NF more Fi, feelers
      5. NT more Ti, thinkers and Oe
      6. Oi more Si, De
      7. Oe more Se, consume Play
      8. Masculine De, more Te
      9. Feelers, double feminine
      Mbti language quick archetypes:
      1. IXXJ
      2. EXFJ
      3. EXTJ maybe ESXX
      4. INXX and IXFP
      5. INXX and IXTP
      6. ISXJ maybe ESXJ
      7. EXXP
      8. EXTJ maybe EXTP
      9. XXFX most likely IXFX

  • @samfrancis8520
    @samfrancis8520 Pƙed 4 lety +300

    I was watching this and towards the end I was like “I don’t know... none of these *really* sound like me” ... and then you did Type 9

    • @shaunrussell4558
      @shaunrussell4558 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      Sam Francis hahađŸ€ŁđŸ€Łyeah, I’m a pretty classic type 9! And I still don’t like it when he calls us out for trying to adapt to all the other personality types instead of exerting our own! I think I’m getting better at this but it’s a slow progress thing, as I feel comfortable which is too slow! Haha 😆

    • @randomchaos69
      @randomchaos69 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      I felt the same, the description hit me like a ton of bricks

    • @moneymaks24
      @moneymaks24 Pƙed 3 lety

      This is more fake than Horoscopes. Buy audible btw haha

    • @kaitlyntaylor7977
      @kaitlyntaylor7977 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Me too!!! I got real emotional. 100 percent type 9... Was avoiding accepting it at the beginning or listening to others influences. Now everything makes sense.

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol Pƙed rokem +39

    Glad to know both me and FJ are INFJ and 4w5 :)
    I don't really trust the Enneagram that much because I don't understand the logic behind it, and its origins seem a bit esoteric, but it's fun to learn about other ways of typing than the Myers-Briggs test.

    • @juuliaarajarvi6412
      @juuliaarajarvi6412 Pƙed rokem +1

      what does 4w5 mean?

    • @nilsastrup8907
      @nilsastrup8907 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@juuliaarajarvi6412 Type 4 with wing 5

    • @jelmerskalleberg6987
      @jelmerskalleberg6987 Pƙed rokem +3

      Enneagram is based on the ego , and the thing you build around it to protect it. It shows the most vulnerable and broken place what makes us humans.
      Subtypes gives more insights if you are interested, author is Beatrice chestnut.

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Pƙed rokem

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 4 Individualists, check out this in depth video here: czcams.com/video/V8H22OLdWwQ/video.html

  • @qwandary
    @qwandary Pƙed rokem

    Lmao I like the blooper, gotta admit I was beginning to watch the kids/adult playing outside more than you at one point. It was rather wholesome seeing it tbh.

  • @ejvega
    @ejvega Pƙed 4 lety +179

    I'm a type 8. For the longest time, I used to argue with people about all the reasons why I wasn't a type 8 because I didn't like how bossy the personality type sounded, and I wanted to convince people I wasn't domineering... It took me far too long to realize the irony of my intentions.
    PS. I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI. I like how it mainly focuses on fear and desire, two of life's biggest motivators. I think it to be a better guide for life in this way. If you understand that which motivates you, you'll know how to rule your own life. (At least, that's my opinion on the matter.)

  • @julay629
    @julay629 Pƙed 4 lety +300

    Me, a 4w5, being like: so that makes me a melancholic, dramatic, narcissistic (...) unsociable nerd with the fear of having no identity and being useless, yay! 😄

  • @TylenOneal239
    @TylenOneal239 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

    I’m a ISFP 9w1 and everything said about type 9’s was 100% true. Even down to the “I don’t know what do you wanna do?”

  • @aeliseyang9812
    @aeliseyang9812 Pƙed 3 lety +30

    FJ: "type 9s are apathetic, indecisive and irresponsible"
    The INFP-T, Type 9 Me: (hides under the blanket)😣😭

    • @buggiebaby
      @buggiebaby Pƙed 3 lety +1

      me too! also infp and 9
      blanket time!

    • @talienatte5557
      @talienatte5557 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      you’re probably not an INFP. I’m guessing you took the 16personalities test that types everyone as INFP and INFJs. I can extrapolate this by the “T” you put at the end. You decipher someone’s type by cognitive functions. We have 8 cognitive functions, Te, Ti, Fe, Fi, Se, Si, Ne, Ni. One person uses 4 cognitive function, the cognitive function they use the most is called the dominant function, and the one they use the least is called the inferior function. The 2 in between support the dominant function. To decipher your personality type, you can take the keys2cognition test or sakinorva test, they’ll give a general idea of your usage of the functions, but tests are usually not the best way to type someone. the most cogent way would be to learn about the functions and type yourself.

    • @depressedguineapig8139
      @depressedguineapig8139 Pƙed 2 lety

      I'm an INFP-T , type 9 tooo

    • @eren2709
      @eren2709 Pƙed 2 lety

      Oh no, not the “-T”

  • @Granorla
    @Granorla Pƙed 4 lety +116

    I’d say mbti is good for understanding yourself and others and how you interact with the world, whereas enneagram is better for growth and self-actualisation. 5w4 infj here :)

  • @Corrupted
    @Corrupted Pƙed 4 lety +718

    INTP type 4 here, I love the combination of analyzing art and having discussions about it lol

  • @fafaworld1753
    @fafaworld1753 Pƙed 2 lety

    Wow i love the lights on the desk behind 😍

  • @ladyariadne
    @ladyariadne Pƙed rokem

    I am a four.. and dude. you quite literally described me. In the most accurate way possible. How is this even a thing.

  • @kitdav2631
    @kitdav2631 Pƙed 3 lety +706

    “Eccentric nerd” “wanna understand how EVERYTHING works” “useless at normal stuff, like relationships”
    Me, a 5 and INTJ: I feel exposed :/

    • @adithibhat7277
      @adithibhat7277 Pƙed 3 lety +26

      I am with you, buddy

    • @gamma4524
      @gamma4524 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      bruh dw ,im an entp and i can relate as well. You are not alone bud lol

    • @hennaali3075
      @hennaali3075 Pƙed 3 lety +25

      Oh my god, I’m exactly the same. Type 5 and INTJ toođŸ€Ł

    • @jferragamo1154
      @jferragamo1154 Pƙed 3 lety +15

      Im with you man 5 and INTJ

    • @sadiellama8307
      @sadiellama8307 Pƙed 3 lety +11

      i’m also a 5 and an INTJ

  • @jojoh1948
    @jojoh1948 Pƙed 3 lety +253

    Me throughout the video: idk I'm like all of them and none of them at the same time
    Fj: explains type 9
    Me: oh

    • @leander8840
      @leander8840 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      same xp

    • @andyjeon8789
      @andyjeon8789 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Same😅

    • @lavanya1654
      @lavanya1654 Pƙed 2 lety

      ;-;

    • @danicaignjatovic3956
      @danicaignjatovic3956 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Sameee, I was like I relate to 2,3,6,7 aaand... *9 comes next* "Oh shit"

    • @rikkousa
      @rikkousa Pƙed 2 lety

      @Jojo H that could be me too. I am a little skeptical. :I have always enjoyed these type of personality tests but now work for a company that everyone is deeply into it. Moreover, I have become a huge advocate for the Herman Brain Dominance tool (plus My Motivators). I felt that it was far more relevant in understanding myself and others--and was a very useful tool for onboarding , leveraging skills talents, with really actionable things I can do to minimize my blind spots while leveraging other areas. It will be interesting to see how they judge me once they hear my #. Maybe I will sell them I am an 11 (9 plus 2) or is it 3 plus 6 plus 2?

  • @EmyN
    @EmyN Pƙed rokem

    Great video FJ, will check these books!

  • @chaoschannel3428
    @chaoschannel3428 Pƙed 3 lety +32

    Me: **an ENFJ, Type 7, Sagittarius**
    Also me: *"Oh yeah, it's all coming together."*

    • @mirror_raccoon
      @mirror_raccoon Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Collecting them personalities like the chaos emeralds huh

    • @wewo9872
      @wewo9872 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      LMAO

  • @djhallmighty
    @djhallmighty Pƙed 4 lety +445

    "75% of statistics are made off the top of people's heads."
    There's a 75% chance you made that off the top of your head... hmm...

    • @andstermcxd679
      @andstermcxd679 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      75 likes too đŸ€”

    • @alyderuby2480
      @alyderuby2480 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      I reckon FJ was joking here.

    • @5gonza541
      @5gonza541 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Evan Hall actually, your conclusion relies upon the fact the his statistic is correct sooo XD

    • @stefanmirica6485
      @stefanmirica6485 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      @@laraohmaye875 25% chance he is wrong.

  • @amethyst_myst
    @amethyst_myst Pƙed 4 lety +366

    “Argumentative” -Im a Type 8 and an ENTP; this is the perfect description 🙃😂😭

    • @suriyanikkaran
      @suriyanikkaran Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Me too! It sounds similar to numerology đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @juliamarlin5612
      @juliamarlin5612 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      same

    • @ladyvengence8581
      @ladyvengence8581 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Fellow ENTP! I'm a type 4 though want to debate about something artistic? 😂😂😂😖

    • @kirstenrxse
      @kirstenrxse Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Same 😂

    • @gaby1717
      @gaby1717 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      so am i lol

  • @Grusharaburas
    @Grusharaburas Pƙed 3 lety

    INTJ, Type 1. Raised under strong Catholic beliefs. No longer religious but still obsessed with being a "good" person. Perfectionist.

  • @ivyom4392
    @ivyom4392 Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you frank! I'm new to the enneagram stuff too!

  • @bojanab.9424
    @bojanab.9424 Pƙed 4 lety +96

    7w8 and ENFP My mind is like a browser: 19 tabs, 5 applications opened and nobody knows where the music comes from. đŸ€Ł

    • @millbranch2
      @millbranch2 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      ENTP 7 here!! I feel you!! Except mine is that I answer all questions by shaking the Magic 8 Ball in my head. Whatever pops up must be right and generally is. But when I am wrong, I am spectacularly wrong.

    • @taniaguimaraes4496
      @taniaguimaraes4496 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      I'm also an ENFP type 7! Usually the music comes from all sides of my head (seriously, my mind is like a radio 😂)

    • @milofinnliot1617
      @milofinnliot1617 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      yooo same I got like too many tabs haha

    • @Hansolonosolo
      @Hansolonosolo Pƙed 4 lety +2

      im also 7w8 and enfp this is such a struggle i have the attention span of a toddler

    • @castiel9601
      @castiel9601 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      7w8 ENTP here, all I have to say is same😂

  • @luluanthem
    @luluanthem Pƙed 4 lety +151

    I personally prefer Enneagram to MBTI, partly because it's more straightforward and clearer to observe. There's just so much more to functions I learn something new everytime I get back into MBTI.
    Enneagram is also perfect for character building and development since it is centered around concepts that are akin to how character motivators work.

    • @miguelpasamano4995
      @miguelpasamano4995 Pƙed rokem +3

      I use both. I'm an INFJ (borderline INFP) and a type 2 (borderline type 4)

  • @ashlyrichmond3322
    @ashlyrichmond3322 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love wot series!!! Cant wait for the amazon series to come out! Great on audio too!

  • @ririgloom
    @ririgloom Pƙed rokem

    4 and 6 hit hard. Loyal, romantic, artist.

  • @penfriend469
    @penfriend469 Pƙed 4 lety +274

    i knew this was a bad idea when i realised that i got offended by half of them already halfway through the video

  • @e.taylor2609
    @e.taylor2609 Pƙed 4 lety +139

    “They feel like they don’t have an identity and so they need to create something else that people can interact with as a stand-in for their identity”
    I feel so attacked. I'm not a super creative person, but so much of my identity is tied into my aesthetic and the media I consume... like fandom, music taste, etc.

    • @twodirections7913
      @twodirections7913 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      oh my God i’ve never read something that i associated with more to the T

  • @jenniferparker6048
    @jenniferparker6048 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Good concise rundown of the types - thank you for this! It’s great for sharing with the uninitiated. Incidentally, I am also a 4.

  • @hoosierdeddy92
    @hoosierdeddy92 Pƙed 2 lety

    I'm type 5. It's obvious by how excited I got when you gave book suggestions.

  • @catstrawford
    @catstrawford Pƙed 4 lety +91

    2:49 Type 1, the perfectionist
    3:36 Type 2, the helper
    4:12 Type 3, the performer/achiever
    4:50 Type 4, the artist/romantic
    5:44 Type 5, the thinker/investigator
    6:39 Type 6, the loyalist/skeptic
    7:41 Type 7, the enthusiast/optimist
    8:15 Type 8, the challenger/leader
    8:57 Type 9, the peacemaker/mediator

  • @Raev222
    @Raev222 Pƙed 4 lety +87

    Yeah the 5 hit hard. I laughed out loud when the roast came.
    INTP

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      Christa O. 5 and INTP as well ,i was checking comments section to find if am i the only INTP and 5 or it's normal for INTPs

    • @Raev222
      @Raev222 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      @@youssef8368 I think it's very common for INTP. I think 5w6 is too.

    • @youssef8368
      @youssef8368 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Christa O. Yup i'm 98% 5 and 77% 6

    • @MagikForTheMAsses
      @MagikForTheMAsses Pƙed 4 lety +3

      So far I count 5 of us, The INTP 5s.... we could use this opportunity to take over the world.. but who cares about the world lol back to our studies

    • @barb7124
      @barb7124 Pƙed 4 lety

      INFP type 4 here. I would bet that most INTPs would type as fives. It fits.

  • @ner113
    @ner113 Pƙed rokem

    I love the concepts of the ennegram because i immediatly realised i was type 4 and it helped me so much understand myself better as a human being :)

  • @reginaphalangi3797
    @reginaphalangi3797 Pƙed rokem

    "You're gonna get embarrassed about one of them, that's probably your type"
    That man knows his stuffđŸ˜‚đŸ€Œ

  • @LarissaFord
    @LarissaFord Pƙed 3 lety +141

    An interesting point about type 6's being so common: I'm a 6 and can say from experience that 6's often can see themselves in others because 6's have a strong tendency for projection. My point is I wonder if it was a 6 who reported that half the world is other 6's 😅

    • @Butters030
      @Butters030 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      LA RISS AH

    • @YouveGotaType
      @YouveGotaType Pƙed rokem

      If you'd like to learn more about Type 6 Loyalists, check out this in depth video here: czcams.com/video/jcjSX4qHb9Y/video.html

  • @wbrain00
    @wbrain00 Pƙed 4 lety +35

    When Frank said "LetÂŽs have a commercial break", I told myself "Okay, letÂŽs watch the whole ad for you Frank, for you." AND GUESS WHAT. THE AD WAS ALMOST 7 MINUTES LONG....
    DAMMIT.
    (meanwhile, i serached about the enneagram, because iÂŽve never heard of it before)

  • @santinamarie4699
    @santinamarie4699 Pƙed 2 lety

    I like your videos because you're also funny.. And a little bit of comedy goes a long way thank you.

  • @SkiiDreamr420
    @SkiiDreamr420 Pƙed rokem +2

    Thank you so much for this⁶ information!
    I subscribed to your fantastic channel.

  • @rydiaom
    @rydiaom Pƙed 4 lety +113

    4w5 and INFP here. Sometimes I wonder why do I have to be like this, always suffering. :v Then I remember that's a typical way to think when you're a 4 and I'm like "Well, nevermind".

    • @justloutea4027
      @justloutea4027 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Me too ,infp type 4 😂

    • @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen
      @ThisIsNotAhnJieRen Pƙed 4 lety +3

      INFP, 9w1 My head is basically in the clouds and I SUCK at arguments.

    • @alexo.o3729
      @alexo.o3729 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      4 wing 5 and INFP as well 😀

    • @EmmaAppleBerry
      @EmmaAppleBerry Pƙed 4 lety +1

      SAME!!! INFP 4w5 twin 💖💖💖😙😙😙🕊🕊🕊

    • @miriamschmitz394
      @miriamschmitz394 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      4w5 INFJ here

  • @Jenna_Joseph
    @Jenna_Joseph Pƙed 4 lety +81

    I’m a 4w5 who is wildly embarrassed about how well I fit the stereotype. I literally wear all black, sit in coffee shop corners, and write in a leather journal..... apparently like every other 4. Kill me now. 🙃

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Why don't I fit the stereotype :( I wear all pastel, don't stay in coffee shops, and write in a pastel journal...

    • @wakerobin9215
      @wakerobin9215 Pƙed 4 lety +20

      @@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa so I'm imagining to the two of you becoming friends, and for some reason it sounds like an anime to me 😅

    • @YunaMoon_93
      @YunaMoon_93 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Hey hey, I'm a type 4 too and I dont wear just black! Sometimes I wear some grey too! So we dont be all this kind of stereotype!

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 Pƙed 4 lety +10

      I’m an ENFP 4... so I’m this weird combination of a happy personality with a sad soul. I wear bright colors and accessories, but I will drag you into a deep and brooding conversation the moment you ask. Or maybe even if you don’t ask... I’m still working on not oversharing my existential crises with unsuspecting people 😂

    • @Jenna_Joseph
      @Jenna_Joseph Pƙed 4 lety

      GaymerGirl because you’ve succeeded in being different while I haven’t đŸ˜©đŸ˜‚

  • @triplezee7589
    @triplezee7589 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

    Man i really wish you dug more into the fact that the Enneagram focuses more on motivation and desires. You don't recognize different types by their personality and how they interact with the world but with what they want for themselves and what they believe. A 1 and a 6 might both be perfectionistic orderly types, but 1s will want to do so out of a fear of being anything less than their ideal, while 6s do so out of a fear of losing security or control over their life.

  • @geekygrl10
    @geekygrl10 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I was kind of zoning out through the sponsorship, until I heard Wheel of Time! I LOVE that series! Also, the video was great, very informative!

  • @Glamisback
    @Glamisback Pƙed 4 lety +53

    INFJ and 9w1. I think i always try to be a good person for everyone. So I became a bad person for myself i guess.

    • @lbjcb5
      @lbjcb5 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Yay! Me too 😁 Hang in there. Learning about Enneagram has helped understand how to deal with people and life better

    • @alejandragil2480
      @alejandragil2480 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      That is so deep

    • @brittnymeeks6838
      @brittnymeeks6838 Pƙed 4 lety

      As a fellow INFJ and possibly 9w2 I relate to this statement so much. I am always the last on my list of priorities!

    • @ellan1664
      @ellan1664 Pƙed 4 lety

      Damn... I related hard to that as an infj.

    • @kaany.9120
      @kaany.9120 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Brittny Meeks There‘s no such thing as a 9w2. It‘s either 9w1 or 9w8.

  • @daisyai3221
    @daisyai3221 Pƙed 3 lety +224

    Type 5: drive to understand the word intimately
    meas INTJ:sounds like me
    Type 5: fear of being useless
    me: yh. it's me.
    (I did cry due to the fear of being a useless person when i was young...

    • @gamma4524
      @gamma4524 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      I relate to being a five ,but i dont really care about being useless tho. I dont got no fear of that I rlly just wanna have fun lol. I am an ENTP

    • @iwheretheshoes
      @iwheretheshoes Pƙed 3 lety

      Same Entj

    • @Bongi344
      @Bongi344 Pƙed 3 lety

      Same, INTP

    • @jirielrantayo7609
      @jirielrantayo7609 Pƙed 3 lety

      Same ISTJ 😔

    • @sxsosp1361
      @sxsosp1361 Pƙed 2 lety

      Same but I'm an INFP. Is there any INFP who relate at 5?

  • @ambujapandey1083
    @ambujapandey1083 Pƙed 2 lety

    INTP, Type 9
    9:04 when you said that question, the answer in my head was exactly that! I just actually don't have an opinion/answer all the time... When you can comprehend each aspect and perspective of people, your own sanity gets problematic, whether to agree more to A or B.. Its not even that I'm fearing to offend someone, I genuinely am heavily indecisive...
    I would say, I like staying away from drama, gossip or anything against somebody... I will rather get existential crisis than stir the pot with someone, it seems like a crime when my friends try doing that...makes me anxious

  • @scottthomas6354
    @scottthomas6354 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    Thank you for your video and your links. Have watched Richard Rohr. Very interesting!

  • @oboroshirakumo650
    @oboroshirakumo650 Pƙed 4 lety +55

    Bruh me being called out at 9... *crawls away*
    btw INFP, so I kind of have my own mindset & opinions. When around others though I tend to become like others around me. I lose myself around certain people.
    *Loving online friends because, I start to see myself & not become others*

    • @OretteZ
      @OretteZ Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Are you sure that you aren't an INFJ with a low J preference? Because that's definitely an INFJ Chameleon thing. I'm not certain if INFPs with low P preference also do it, though.

    • @hannahmary6023
      @hannahmary6023 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I'm an INFP and I have the exact same problem, losing myself

    • @sirCharon
      @sirCharon Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I am kind of the same I just don't speak my thoughts out when I am with other people I am just going with the flow although I really hate it

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@OretteZ well I'm an INFP according to the MBTI quiz
      My mum is an INFJ though
      We're very similar but not the same
      Just I've read both & personally I am more INFP but I might be INFJ who knows

    • @oboroshirakumo650
      @oboroshirakumo650 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@sirCharon bruh that's a mood

  • @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888
    @thifalmaidawilhelmina1888 Pƙed 4 lety +27

    Mediator, INFP. I always wonder why am i so quiet, really. And almost everytime i don't have an opinion and always be very very afraid of conflict. I see. That's why. Thanks:)))

  • @setayeshmoradi9734
    @setayeshmoradi9734 Pƙed 2 lety

    I really needed this thank youuuuuu

  • @sainandhebbar5694
    @sainandhebbar5694 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    INFJ-A
    Enneagram type 4
    He had me in
    *If you are wearing black and sitting around the corner thinking colourful abstracts*

  • @katcyer26
    @katcyer26 Pƙed 3 lety +114

    When your so screwed up your not even sure how much of your personality is your personality and how much is your acting

    • @mariellarusso2268
      @mariellarusso2268 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      You are a 4

    • @katcyer26
      @katcyer26 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@avinatine No, you really do make sense, and your describing it better than I ever could 😅
      I understand 😖

    • @wolszczaw
      @wolszczaw Pƙed 3 lety +4

      I think I have a similar problem to you guys. I often just act like I think it would be best for the particular situation or I try to figure out what kind of person people around me need in that moment and then I become this person.

    • @Ren-hd8jd
      @Ren-hd8jd Pƙed 2 lety

      I'm an INTJ and a 5 but this is so true. I went from extremely weird changes in my childhood, my MBTI kept changing and eventually ended up as ENFJ (until I was 7) > INFJ (until I was 10) > INTJ. Where I live social status is incredibly important so even after I stopped Fe I had to build up a different personality so that I wouldn't get scolded by the teachers. Now I can't tell how much of what I feel in my head is true or me just creating the emotions I'm meant to feel in my mind.

  • @crystischloenvoigt7588
    @crystischloenvoigt7588 Pƙed 4 lety +67

    I’m the perfectionist. I’m also a full-blown ESTJ on the MB. My daughter is INFJ and your videos and info have helped us so much in our relationship!! Thank you for doing what you do!

    • @ladyemeraldfyre3829
      @ladyemeraldfyre3829 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      What are your Enneagrams ? Just curious if you could end up with same but different MBTI. Because if you were both 9 and peacemakers could work great. But cool though both trying to understand each other :)

    • @imtooqueerforthis
      @imtooqueerforthis Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Hey, I’m a 1 and an ISTJ!

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Wow the exact same situation personality-wise like my mother and I, we don't understand each other much at all, at times it's very difficult to live together and to communicate because of these differences in how we see things. She believes she's so right in her conventional, rather narrow view of things, while I'm also convinced I am right in my own view ofc :). It's a battle truly.

  • @botaslaal8354
    @botaslaal8354 Pƙed 2 lety

    I have had this idea a of a great trilogy fanfiction themed around The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings in my head for years because I grew up reading the books and watch them come to life at the same time. But I always got stuck in the plot or - more often - had unrelatable characters. So I tried to figure out why this happens and dug a little in how writing really works. So first I stumbled over the 16 MBTI personality types. I got so fast so frustrated because I was just overwhelmed by the sheer mass of information that I dumped the idea of ever writing a good fanfiction. But now I found the Enneagram and to me it was mindblowing. It really opened my eyes on how to make my characters act relatable and reasonable on internal and external conflict. So I'll use the Enneagram to build the base of the characters and hopefully use the MBTI personalities to sharpen them a little more. Thank you so much❀

  • @ivycantthinkofaname4303
    @ivycantthinkofaname4303 Pƙed 2 lety

    wow
    When the commercial break started, I got an ad for enneagram four types
    I've literally never heard of the enneagram before I started this video
    -INFP

  • @brigiish
    @brigiish Pƙed 4 lety +83

    YES I've been waiting for this. I'm a type 9 and an INFJ and I feel I'm kinda fucked up tbh.

  • @expired_rosin
    @expired_rosin Pƙed 4 lety +150

    "Scared to be useless"
    🙃 why u gotta expose me like that
    -five

    • @Arygua
      @Arygua Pƙed 4 lety

      Don't worry, it was a double kill.

    • @theajane6444
      @theajane6444 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Don't worry, lovely 5s...where would we be without your thirst for knowledge and unique perspective?!
      -an admiring 9

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Pƙed 4 lety

      Thea Jane aww that’s sweet of you. I think I might be a 5 but I can’t tell

  • @oriana_fortunato
    @oriana_fortunato Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you Frank!

  • @dantesmith3664
    @dantesmith3664 Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you Sir. Great video

  • @hannahl8
    @hannahl8 Pƙed 4 lety +25

    Type 9 here. Enneagram is newer to me than mbti so this was very helpful! Thanks FJ!

  • @Redorgreenful
    @Redorgreenful Pƙed 4 lety +44

    Type 9: We’re trying to keep peace between the conflicting parts within us. We’re the karmic dumptruck of the other issues and drives of the other types. We get so overwhelmed by the needs and fears of each type pulling at us that we can be passive, apathetic and indecisive.

    • @LivyRivy
      @LivyRivy Pƙed 4 lety +3

      I feel seen.

    • @Redorgreenful
      @Redorgreenful Pƙed 3 lety

      Olivia Rivera ❀ 💕

    • @lilacrolf9656
      @lilacrolf9656 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      is it like...when you're with your friends otw to a pizza house, you're thinking of getting a pepperoni one but when you come there all you're friends wants hawaiian? so you just say yes although you've been craving pepperoni because you worry that they're craving hawaiian too? someone answer me+_+

  • @nherielumba5659
    @nherielumba5659 Pƙed 2 lety

    ENTP 7w8... never have my negative traits been described with such conciseness.

  • @bessierobinson2872
    @bessierobinson2872 Pƙed 2 lety

    Took this course many year's ago...happy to reconnect...:)

  • @ddude1212
    @ddude1212 Pƙed 3 lety +261

    BRUH AM I 2, 4, 5, 6, 7, OR 9 BC I VIBE WITH ALL OF THEM
    P.S. I’m an INFP :’)

    • @SuperTank121212
      @SuperTank121212 Pƙed 3 lety +34

      YES! Oh my god same here. He said usually you relate to two or three, by the end it was hard to keep track of what numbers I related to.
      Also an INFP 😇

    • @ddude1212
      @ddude1212 Pƙed 3 lety +25

      Skippy Peanut I guess it depends on what side of the bed I wake up on on any given day 😭😭 but hey we’re versatile, and a bundle of surprises

    • @spiritualsnail1584
      @spiritualsnail1584 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      SAME omg lmfao

    • @laetisg8972
      @laetisg8972 Pƙed 3 lety

      Exactly. The. Same. Reaction. Ahah

    • @senroillust4114
      @senroillust4114 Pƙed 3 lety +23

      Most likely INFP to be 4 and 9, that's from what i heard

  • @kyliehargreeves5250
    @kyliehargreeves5250 Pƙed 4 lety +67

    TYPE 7 ENFP AYEEEEEEEEEE
    *this quarantine sucks*

  • @Daesma999
    @Daesma999 Pƙed 2 lety

    I just saw 5 and I spiritually aligned with that