Healing from Divorce | Devotional by Tony Evans

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    Despite the pain you may be facing, God desires to bring healing to help you move forward. If you will lean in to Him, He can fully restore what has been damaged in your life through the hurt of divorce.
    Dr. Tony Evans is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, founder and president of The Urban Alternative, chaplain of the NBA’s Dallas Mavericks, and author of over 100 books, booklets & Bible studies. His radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on more than 1,300 US outlets daily and in more than 130 countries.
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Komentáře • 435

  • @frankgleon
    @frankgleon Před 3 lety +203

    The pain of divorce runs so deep, deeper than I ever imagined. It hurts, it really hurts. May 6th will mark 3 years since my divorce yet I’m still going through the healing journey. Thank you, LORD for Your strength and grace.

  • @noeleen743
    @noeleen743 Před 2 lety +23

    32 years of struggle n finally the cage is open. Ive been set free from a trial that cannot be described. I prayed myself out. One day God will send me a real Godly man. Till then Im happy on my own. God is reviving and restoring me.

  • @user-ui8sg4fl5k
    @user-ui8sg4fl5k Před měsícem +3

    I can't go through this without God.

  • @antoniorodriguez6362
    @antoniorodriguez6362 Před rokem +63

    The worst pain is trying to fight for something that the other person doesn’t value. God hear my cry, quickly come to my call. I need you to be real like this pain.

    • @Christinaejohnson
      @Christinaejohnson Před rokem +1

      Get on your knees
      He listens. ❤

    • @ohmilah6723
      @ohmilah6723 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Ooo that’s hurts I totally understand. In my marriage I have become the scapegoat for everything. I have been emotionally abused and was told to hold myself accountable for everything. I tried to fix things but later I regret to see just me trying.

    • @janm9610
      @janm9610 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Sounds like you were dealing w personality disordered person

    • @user-mh1fr1md4n
      @user-mh1fr1md4n Před 5 měsíci

      Building a whole new foundation without something we love actually gets frustrated dealing with a lot of unnecessary foolishness and confusion and unnecessary jealousy people problems. God never actually sleeps

  • @tdeniseechols7434
    @tdeniseechols7434 Před 3 lety +68

    I’m here to say it definitely gets better. Practice self care, find a good therapist, work on yourself and start enjoying your life again.

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell Před 3 lety +3

      This put a smile on my face. I love seeing someone who is on the up and up and you are giving message of hope. Being intentional is key. God bless you. The best is yet to come!

    • @gamernation5127
      @gamernation5127 Před 3 lety +1

      Hope

    • @PSALMSOFSONGS
      @PSALMSOFSONGS Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for this. I know it gets better.

    • @dreya.k_
      @dreya.k_ Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly it may hurt but no longer than it needs to, life goes on. New love is always possible. Gods plan and his timing.

    • @markdownunder9428
      @markdownunder9428 Před rokem +1

      @@debbiebramwell “The best is yet to come” is one of my core beliefs.

  • @libnijacob7901
    @libnijacob7901 Před rokem +14

    It's the toughest battle out there. I know there are brothers and sisters out there who like me are going through this mental, emotional and physical war. Sincerely pray and believe GOD will help us emerge stronger. Amen.

  • @mae2306
    @mae2306 Před 6 lety +231

    I'm so heartbroken. I fought and I've stood on God's word. I'm praying constantly.... I can't describe this feeling

    • @sukenahacrump847
      @sukenahacrump847 Před 6 lety +9

      be encouraged my sister ..it get's greater later

    • @Ramona1033
      @Ramona1033 Před 5 lety +10

      You aren't alone sister, be encouraged that God can take Ashes and turn it into beauty!

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 5 lety +1

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 Před 4 lety +4

      Keep praying for eachother's salvation and for your loved ones salvation. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, "Be born again in Jesus' name.", and he's been believing in God ever since ( he didn't believe in God before I did this). He is a lot more respectful now.
      And pray for your enemies salvation cuz if he was unfaithful I think its good to pray it.

    • @heatherjoy6950
      @heatherjoy6950 Před 4 lety +4

      Your not alone

  • @monarchmontgomery9831
    @monarchmontgomery9831 Před 5 lety +67

    I am going thru a divorce. I know, one day, I will get past the hurt. I will focus more on God word than the pain itself.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Monarch Montgomery Do you need helped?

    • @shallonkansiime5868
      @shallonkansiime5868 Před rokem

      Just hold on my friend even me I went through that darkness and heartbroken but now am some how getting fine

  • @suzeldiegoguerra2943
    @suzeldiegoguerra2943 Před 3 lety +15

    In Jesus' powerful, glorious name, we will all get through this tough time. I'm going through the pain as well, it is indescribable right now, but we won't be the first or last. God has the right one for me. (I married young) and he will lead me to someone who will help me glorify the Lord.

  • @tamariabrown4628
    @tamariabrown4628 Před rokem +37

    I am currently going thru a Divorce and I feel like so many of you. One moment I'm talking myself into getting up moving on with my life the next I'm to weak to stand asking God why he has forgotten me. I pray for everyone as I asked to be prayed for. It's terrifying the Divorce Rate out weighs the staying married Rate. I may never do this again.

    • @romeelapaul3110
      @romeelapaul3110 Před rokem

      I m going through the same thing 😢

    • @EastCoastFishnHunt
      @EastCoastFishnHunt Před rokem +4

      Girl I'm going through the same thing... Wife just left me, 17 years married, 8 year old; a 15 year old with special needs.. quite a bit of stress in our life but God doesn't give us challenges we can't face Together.. She's 43 and like it's a midlife crisis and I'm stuck for the ride to see where it ends.. I pray God will sustain you each day during this time.. It's tough to say the least and in my situation it doesn't need to be happening.. She doesn't have to work but she feels unfulfilled and I can't fill that hole.. she's been a wonderful mother, wife to me! God Bless all of you on here.. I love my wife dearly and pray the Lord will work through us to be who HE wants us to be!!

    • @lula1908
      @lula1908 Před 11 měsíci

      Here as well

    • @anthonypanela3015
      @anthonypanela3015 Před 7 měsíci

      My wife is divorcing me. She has three kids from 3 different relationships. We got together when her kids were little. They didn't like me coming into the picture. Now, as adults, they blame me for taking their mother away, so they disowned us as they were growing up. They had to live with her parents because we couldn't afford a bigger house. So many years gone by, now as adults they told the mom that they see her pain of not being there for them and gave her an chance to regain a relationship with them but only if she divorce me. I never held my wife back from her kids. She chose to spend most of her time with me and my kids. I do understand that we both needed to step up and work on accommodating these kids with a family environment and a bigger house but my wife couldn't agree with me in better her income to make this work. I felt all alone in this relationship and doing everything. I cooked, cleaned, and paid the majority of the bills and expenses all by myself.. When the kids told her to make that decision to choose them over me, she jumped at the opportunity to regain the relationship with them, which led us in the process of getting a divorce.. I couldn't do or say anything to save our marriage because her kids were more important to her than anything else.. please pray for me for clarity, comfort, and strength, for my heart is really hurting...

    • @lochucks
      @lochucks Před 2 měsíci

      Me too. Completely blindsided. Husband had an affair and the woman is pregnant. I relate to everyone here. We were going to Church, praying and reading our Bible. How is this happen to me? I thought I was doing everything right.

  • @TheDavidcora
    @TheDavidcora Před 7 měsíci +2

    All things are possible with Jesus. He is the the only one that is keeping me through this painful place. I pray for all of you to hang on to Jesus the great comforter!❤

  • @ubettapreachsir8
    @ubettapreachsir8 Před 2 lety +12

    I am watching this video and I’m trying to hold back the tears because of my present reality and the ongoing hurt that I feel because of it. My divorce is final at first I was relieved, I was excited but then two days later the reality of finality hit me that my marriage was officially over and it brought me to a very low place. The loneliness, the embarrassment etc. I hope that one day these wounds will heal.

  • @marcoogletree2670
    @marcoogletree2670 Před 5 lety +73

    I just went through a divorce and yes it sucks and hurts however folks it will get better with time if you allow it to. I actually see a therapist now which has helped me tremendously. God bless you all keep on keeping on!

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 5 lety

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 Před 4 lety +2

      Keep praying for eachothers salvation and for your loved ones salvation. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, " Be born again in Jesus' name.", and he's been believing in God ever since. He didn't believe in God before I did this. He is much more respectful now. So keep praying for his or her spiritual maturity.
      Pray for your enemies salvation also cuz if he or she was unfaithful I think this is good to pray.

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell Před 3 lety +1

      Love reading this. It was awhile back. I'm sure now you are in an even better place. God bless you!

  • @youngsavagefury7138
    @youngsavagefury7138 Před 3 lety +31

    Being a divorced Christian is painful and hurts really bad. I miss my ex wife. She was like my best friend and wife

  • @luckyduck1985
    @luckyduck1985 Před 5 lety +39

    Thank you for this video. As a Christian going through divorce, I really needed to hear these words. God bless you.

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @ChrisCole-ok9ls
    @ChrisCole-ok9ls Před rokem +5

    I needed to hear this because my wife and I are going through a divorce and it's kinda taking it's toll on my heart and my mind

  • @alisha8833
    @alisha8833 Před 4 lety +52

    It's so hard, never felt so alone I'm really trying to get through it

  • @thecozycryptid
    @thecozycryptid Před rokem +40

    My husband cheated on me and left me within 4 days of the action. He had obviously already been emotionally (and physically) invested elsewhere, but I had no idea. I thought everything was great. I feel stupid and foolish. He hasn't even served me divorce papers yet, but I know he's going to. Right now, he's trying to make me suffer as much as possible. I didn't know I was married to this kind of person. I really need God's guidance and his peace about this. If you see this message, please pray for me.

    • @Angel-vx7xk
      @Angel-vx7xk Před rokem +10

      Praying for you. I was cheated on too. Know it was not you. What a person is in his heart that is who he is. Like you, I felt like a fool too but how are you to know? Many people are deceptive and manipulative and this is who they are. The enemy uses those closest to us to destroy us. Refuse to allow them to do that to you. Continue to pray and trust in God. The Word says many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivers them out of them All! Get counseling and join divorce support groups. Do not do this by yourself. Look at a movie about the Prophet Hosea. Walk in forgiveness and pray for your ex. The Lord will bring you through this difficult journey. Keep positive thoughts and constantly listen to videos on faith, forgiveness, and trusting in Jesus. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and He mends our wounds. Stay encouraged!

    • @Littlebabyjakie
      @Littlebabyjakie Před rokem

      Praying for you

    • @nikkyisrael260
      @nikkyisrael260 Před rokem +1

      It is well with you. The Lord shall send you help

    • @itanimathoma3834
      @itanimathoma3834 Před rokem

      How are you feeling now? Same thing is happening to me at the moment

    • @Christinaejohnson
      @Christinaejohnson Před rokem

      Praying for you.

  • @Chupie77777
    @Chupie77777 Před 3 lety +49

    I mess up my marriage really bad. I had such a good wife and I ruined it. I'm hurting so bad right now. I need Him

    • @georgina4874
      @georgina4874 Před 3 lety +13

      Repent. Apologize to her.

    • @patiencemunhenzva7254
      @patiencemunhenzva7254 Před 2 lety +3

      Go and tell her the truth,it Changes everything!

    • @Chupie77777
      @Chupie77777 Před 2 lety +4

      @@patiencemunhenzva7254 I did. She is no longer a believer and the divorce is going through

    • @mikkey246
      @mikkey246 Před 2 lety

      Updates.

    • @Chupie77777
      @Chupie77777 Před 2 lety

      @@mikkey246 same thing. I had to block her from everything because she was being semi-hostile and threatening and wouldn't stop angrily calling me. She is refusing to cooperate or reconcile, so now its up to me to divorce her, because she's refused to sign anything

  • @lidiapacheco5998
    @lidiapacheco5998 Před rokem +17

    My husband and I separated today. I spent the last 10 years by his side. I know it’s the right choice because for so long I believed I deserved all the emotional abuse but now I know I don’t. It hurts more than I thought it would but I know somehow God will use this to bring me a hope and a future.

    • @MyAccount-zp5fk
      @MyAccount-zp5fk Před 9 měsíci +2

      Wow, you posted what I would have. You are 6 months ahead of me. I pray for you. I thank you for posting this. It has brought me comfort because I am not alone. Hope all goes well for you.

    • @nicoles4257
      @nicoles4257 Před 4 měsíci

      This happened to me today; we've separated and we're getting divorced.

  • @noeleen743
    @noeleen743 Před rokem +5

    I lost my dad after my divorce. I could not come to terms with both my losses. Its 3 years since the divorce. Of all the dark things ive been through. Its the most heart wrenching experience.

  • @nathanhiggins1438
    @nathanhiggins1438 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you sir

  • @noemirichardson3413
    @noemirichardson3413 Před 6 lety +26

    Mr Evens. If you only knew the type of impact you have on my husband. Your sermons on the radio helps him get through his day. He said when he comes home he wishes to meet you. But feels it might be impossible, because of your busy schedule. Your famous to him Mr Evens. So I listened to a couple of your sermons and now understand why he admires you. He went in a worldly lost man. But God has changed him. Along with your beautiful words I thank you.

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell Před 3 lety

      So beautiful. God bless you both. 2 years later. Lol

  • @jamespierce1988
    @jamespierce1988 Před 2 lety +12

    I went through a divorce the pain is real and emotions fluctuate but God heals 🙏🏾

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

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    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @Worldwidetricky
    @Worldwidetricky Před 4 lety +11

    One step at a time,I’ll get thru this in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      chike nwosisi Do you need helped?

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @johnnymorales6682
    @johnnymorales6682 Před rokem +1

    Please keep my marriage in prayer for restoration and for my wife Noreen to be saved and set Free from bondages and that she will come back to church let her have a Holy Spirit encounter in Jesus Mighty name Amen

  • @healthylifewithchristie9620

    Divorce is so painful, the worst pain is when fellow believers judge you and stigmatize you . Listen no woman in her right sense will leave a marriage where she valued and appreciated. It's been four long yrs, still healing. Absolutely better now . Thank you Jesus

    • @philworshipcenter4395
      @philworshipcenter4395 Před rokem +3

      It is not true that no woman will leave a relationship where she is valued. That is too generic a statement. People take decisions based on different reasons. Some leave because of abuse, others leave for financial reasons. Some leave because their partner is too nice....sounds strange right? Some leave for immigration status purposes....There are a million and one reasons women and men leave their marriages.....We need to be clear on this.

    • @slaucInDaHouse
      @slaucInDaHouse Před rokem +1

      Mine left for no reason or she is unwilling to communicate that to me. She said im nice guy and good husband but not for her. After 15 years she wants an divorce. Now she hangs out with friends and drink alcohol like she is in her teens. Other day had to drive 60km (one way) just to feed our daughter. In fridge were almost empty bottles of alcohol we never kept in the house. I hope this behaviour will not peraist. So your statement is offensive in every way possible...

  • @sherryxiong275
    @sherryxiong275 Před rokem +3

    From the bottom of my heart, thank you 🥺❤️ I needed this ❤

  • @cincomorales
    @cincomorales Před 4 lety +5

    I need to orbit around GOD

  • @selamawitbekele773
    @selamawitbekele773 Před 4 lety +9

    A whole lot of great message in just 2 minutes 24 seconds!

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      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

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  • @littleteethkeith
    @littleteethkeith Před 2 lety +30

    I’m going through a divorce that I did not want. I am in so much pain inside. My heart is shattered into a million pieces. I really hope God will meet me in this place and rescue me. I keep begging for him to come but so far he hasn’t. Divorce is so wrong. it is the worst feeling I have ever felt in my entire 45 years on this planet. Brothers and sisters please pray for me and anyone you know of that is going through a divorce. We need prayer. Please pray for the children involved.

    • @johnbaugh2437
      @johnbaugh2437 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I’ll pray for you. Pray for me too. I don’t want my divorce either. It was unexpected for me. I thought things were good. 18 years and 3 children.

    • @freamonmcnair3743
      @freamonmcnair3743 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Im getting ready to go through the same, it hurts.

    • @newaveride3396
      @newaveride3396 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@johnbaugh2437I’m in the same boat. I filed for divorce but felt forced into it due to husbands behavior. 21 1/2 years gone. I’m devastated😢

    • @pastrami00
      @pastrami00 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@johnbaugh2437 Same here. 18 years and two kids. It's been 6 months and it's only getting worse...

    • @johnbaugh2437
      @johnbaugh2437 Před 6 měsíci

      @@pastrami00it’s okay for me. I still feel sad some days but realize a lot I put up with hasn’t been occurring anymore. More peaceful days now when I come home, even if it’s to an empty place. I just put my faith in God and this helps during the low moments which are much less frequent and much more mild . My buddy said “in six months you will feel a lot better and have more money saved while married, even with child support.” He was right. Still miss my old house and have to let that go, but life has been more peaceful. Also, when I say “no” and she loses her mind, I only have to hang up and go back to whatever I was doing. I don’t have to worry about the endless conflict she will create in the same home. And then worry whether I should just give in.

  • @rut8851
    @rut8851 Před 2 lety +15

    Thank you for this. I left a 35 year marriage when the Holy Spirit quicken me to leave. I thought I was about to lose my mind. I felt my soul was dying. I was spiritually sinking and after 2 months post leaving found out I was physically dying or could have after doctors found I was born with a brain malformation and seizure disorder. I found out the Holy Spirit was also protecting me physically as the doctors advised me to not be in a stressed environment as no medicine can prevent seizures if you are stressed out. It has not been easy and the last thing I do not want is to not be in God’s will. It’s now been 15 months since I left and now filed for divorce. I am at peace with it. Instead of condemning divorce based on traditional teachings, you are giving us hope and encouragement. This is so precious to me. Thank you again and many continued blessings to your ministry and family.

    • @noeleen743
      @noeleen743 Před 2 lety

      I pray for yr healing. I left a 32 year marriage. Only God can pull you out of that kind of agony. Besides its dangerous for yr health n very survival to live in any union that has the potential to kill you.

  • @tierrawilson5910
    @tierrawilson5910 Před 5 měsíci +1

    😭😭😭 LORD help me and him to I’m broken GOD I’m sorry I made mistakes I’m sorry I was operating out of hurt 😞

  • @queenalwilliams
    @queenalwilliams Před rokem +10

    It’s been 8 years since my divorce and I realized yesterday that I wasn’t healed.

    • @ephraimmartinez6275
      @ephraimmartinez6275 Před rokem

      Why do you feel, like you haven't healed?

    • @Msterri4u
      @Msterri4u Před 11 měsíci

      It’s been 14 years since I divorced my ex husband and I’m just now grieving.

    • @beedabee1221
      @beedabee1221 Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you for sharing 🩷

  • @jacciadams8792
    @jacciadams8792 Před 6 lety +7

    This message from God thru Pastor Evans ... right on time🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾😅

  • @stephaniecannon410
    @stephaniecannon410 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm trusting GOD wholeheartedly to keep my future marriage in the palm of HIS HAND'S.🙏

  • @glory7726
    @glory7726 Před 10 měsíci

    We are never alone ❤❤❤ God sees and knows the thoughts of everyone 🙏 I pray for recovery, healing from every pain and hurts 🙏

  • @benitoramirez9514
    @benitoramirez9514 Před rokem +3

    GOD help me!

    • @Msterri4u
      @Msterri4u Před 11 měsíci +1

      I say the same thing multiple times throughout the day and He will. Hold on to Jesus 🙏🏽

  • @405boy4
    @405boy4 Před 5 lety +26

    This is a great topic. Me and my wife have been separated for over 3 years and we're just now going forward with a divorce. This has been a very painful issue because we have 3 kids together. I also have two kids from a previous relationship so this has divided us tremendously. She even moved out of state and is now dating someone else. I tried dating myself hoping it would heal my heart, but I also seemed to end up meeting women who were so ungodly it's a shame. In fact every time I met a nice young Lady I felt like I was attracted too, I felt like God was showing me that dating nonbelievers will only bring more hardship on my life. So I feel like now I need to listen more closely to what God is showing me, and finish this divorce so I can better myself with him. A minister I talked to who's gone through a divorce and remarried told me that I should continue to grow spiritually because he experienced that same hurt and loneliness that I seem to deal with off and on. He also told me that God can use this hardship in my life and turn it into a blessing, as it happened for him..So as I finalize this I will continue to better myself with God, because as the minister told me, while he's building me up for that next blessing of a soulmate in my life, he's also guiding her spiritually.
    So for those who are dealing with this or have already finalized theirs; Both men and women, God bless you. Also don't worry about those who talk down on you for not making it work, because Satan will use whoever he can to bring you down and get you to feel like God has left you out to dry. It's still not easy to deal with but I know God has my back..But anyways God Bless everyone on here..

    • @aohwife
      @aohwife Před 5 lety

      405 BOY At 50, I am also only finding ungodly men and it is so very discouraging. Living the rest of my life with a good man seems so hopeless in today’s world.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      405 BOY Do you need helped?

    • @405boy4
      @405boy4 Před 4 lety

      @@queendenia8067 What kind of help are you referring too? And from who?

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

    • @MarronCeleste
      @MarronCeleste Před 3 lety +1

      I'm 22 and theirs only 2 real reasons mentioned in the bible for remarrying, other than abuse and abandonment, infidelity and spouses death. God sees you married forever as so you know the word of God. Part of repentance is undoing the wrong , it's better to go back and marry your first spouse than burn in hell for carnal reasons. God loves you and this message is for good.

  • @LivingWordCDs
    @LivingWordCDs Před 3 měsíci

    Amen 🙏🏼
    And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinth 12:9

  • @anthonyclark3391
    @anthonyclark3391 Před 4 lety +20

    This hurts so bad man...I'm lieng to myself like I'm not still in love with my wife...I don't want this and now I hear she's talking to someone else....I just wish my feelings for her just go away... she was my world... she changed me so much and we got along just fine...I just gotta find a way to cope.... the reason we divorcing im getting major blessings financially now smh

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Anthony Clark I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back within 48 hours?

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Anthony Clark
      contact him on WhatsApp....

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Anthony Clark
      +2 3 4 8 11 8 6 5 4 5 2 5

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Anthony Clark his name is coach Dan and he is a very nice man

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @AlainTabangin
    @AlainTabangin Před 4 lety +11

    My wife left me and my daughter. Its hard... its only been a few days but I will succeed for my daughters sake and myself. It hurts so much like getting stabed every minute. God has a reason for everything and I'm going to move forward even with all the hurt.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Alain Valena caoch Dan
      helped me bring my husband
      back within two days?

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Alain Valena
      +234 811 865 4525

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Alain Valena
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  • @blessedmatsita242
    @blessedmatsita242 Před 2 lety +2

    This is helpful. God help me to go through this pain. I need healing

  • @dakotahmote2659
    @dakotahmote2659 Před 3 lety +2

    I’m currently sitting in my dorm, by myself, crying, broken, tired, and in pain. I have to wake up everyday and not let it affect me because it will effect other people. Yet, I’m the middle man between my parents and the anchor at the same time. I have so many relationships on my plate that I don’t have time to deal with the relationship with myself. I don’t understand why God is putting me through pain. It’s been pain after pain and I’m only 20. I’m a broken young man and a heart after God own heart. The two don’t go together and yet they do. Divorce is consuming me because of how we got here. As a man, I can’t openly express my feelings and when I do, I get canned for doing so. So this is the best I got. God, I pray for understanding and healing. Put people in my life that will fill my cup, and may your spirit lead my future wife, for she has to endure this heart of mine, amen.

    • @bigboss92
      @bigboss92 Před 3 lety

      God knows what you are going through. Be strong

  • @mrcoollu9662
    @mrcoollu9662 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen

  • @darrelhumphrey6175
    @darrelhumphrey6175 Před 6 lety +6

    I needed to hear this.

  • @user-wi8oe5nr7e
    @user-wi8oe5nr7e Před rokem

    Gratitude for the time I had 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Susan-yq8pf
    @Susan-yq8pf Před 4 lety +8

    I've believed, trusted God and sought him for clarity and prayed against divorce but it happened after 23 years of marriage. I have to hold on to Gods promise that All things, even this is working for my good. Be encouraged if ur in this season like me. God bless u , remember something good has got to come out of this .

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

    • @stacywallace9393
      @stacywallace9393 Před 3 lety +1

      I pray so, in the middle of divorce after 26 years. I don't want it, I have no choice.

    • @bellab320
      @bellab320 Před 3 lety +2

      @@stacywallace9393 praying for you sister. I'm in the middle of if I want to file for one myself. This is NOT A GREAT FEELING , but I HAVE FAITH, that God is going to do something grand here soon. Keep praying amd asking God for strength

    • @stacywallace9393
      @stacywallace9393 Před 3 lety +1

      @@bellab320 I pray God intervene and turn it around for His Glory!

    • @bellab320
      @bellab320 Před 3 lety

      @@stacywallace9393 thank u for the fast response. Hope everything is going great 4 u

  • @jourdanlemons9665
    @jourdanlemons9665 Před 2 lety +1

    Trying to get over the pain now, GOD please help me.

  • @camorton2345
    @camorton2345 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm recently going through this I'm in tears right now watching

  • @chiyoungbankston4834
    @chiyoungbankston4834 Před 10 měsíci

    I filed Friday ! I’m happy and sad all at once. God don’t want us hurt. We was unequally yoke. I pray he don’t like me fasting the devil was mad but he allowed the devil to do the things he did. But I’m not blaming him or me I need to move forward no man hits a woman or abuse y’all children you guys stay lifted and I’m praying for healing for you all God is able !!!!!!! He is always there use him talk to him seek first the kingdom !

  • @Aaron-hl1nj
    @Aaron-hl1nj Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you for sharing this! I have recently gone through a divorce. It has been the most painful thing imaginable.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Aaron Kastein do you need helped

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @keishiapowell4693
    @keishiapowell4693 Před 6 lety +4

    Thank you pastor Evans need to hear this

  • @stephaniedavis4986
    @stephaniedavis4986 Před 5 lety

    Thank you

  • @reginaanim8287
    @reginaanim8287 Před 6 lety

    Bless you Sir

  • @Mehwishshaw
    @Mehwishshaw Před 9 měsíci

    This is the worst pain one can ever have in this life. And it hurts. More than hurts.

  • @moni1929
    @moni1929 Před 6 lety +4

    This is needed💗

  • @milottic1
    @milottic1 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you for your video.

  • @vroomvroom6066
    @vroomvroom6066 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm 41 years old, never married, no children. No drama, no alimony, no debt, able to accomplish all of my lifetime goals, have total freedom.

    • @lanettakilgore2757
      @lanettakilgore2757 Před 2 lety +1

      God bless you! But there’s real people in the real world that hurting 🙏🏽

    • @luiscid1900
      @luiscid1900 Před rokem

      And there people who don't want to be alone and have a family as well

    • @kayclayton8887
      @kayclayton8887 Před 2 měsíci

      Why are you even commenting. Thus is not a space for you

  • @amazedbysuchgrace5369
    @amazedbysuchgrace5369 Před 5 lety +1

    Thankyou Dr Evan's, I really needed that. Blessings.

  • @His_creation
    @His_creation Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for doing this video. By God's grace I will move forward and I will not give up God because of someone who claimed to represent God.

  • @LimpingforJesus
    @LimpingforJesus Před 2 lety +2

    I’m a pastor and my divorce caused me so much. I lost my ministry and Marriage at the same time. God used Christian friends to keep my focused on Jesus. Don’t give up everyone. Pastor Evans is right. God will meet us here.

    • @angeladay1534
      @angeladay1534 Před 2 lety +2

      Only GOD knows what really happened. Repent and do your first works over again.
      Never give up! Stand tall for JESUS!
      Praying for you and your family, in Jesus
      name, Amen !💔⛪🙏🏽🥰🛐🛐📖📖📖
      In Jesus name, Amen!!!! ✊🏽😄🙏🏽💯

  • @himabindu7844
    @himabindu7844 Před 5 lety

    well said.it's so encouraging,relieving stress.

  • @conartist267
    @conartist267 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you 💜

  • @derrickjarvis9516
    @derrickjarvis9516 Před 10 měsíci

    Father I come into agreement with this prayer

  • @hadzrayarchitecture
    @hadzrayarchitecture Před 4 lety +1

    thanks man, this is exactly what i need right now. you are a brilliant man, and i will always wish you the very best.

  • @manuelsantos3779
    @manuelsantos3779 Před 2 lety +1

    I am currently going through a divorce and yes it sucks but life must go on

  • @kllmsftly
    @kllmsftly Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for this! I needed this.

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @amandadeal2534
    @amandadeal2534 Před 2 lety

    That's the first time I've heard Tony Evans be soft spoken. 😄

  • @a.mstuurman2601
    @a.mstuurman2601 Před 4 lety

    Awesome word of encouragement Pastor Evans. Nobody wants to go down this road but theres a reason for everything and we must simply press on in Him knowing that better day lie ahead.

  • @rheabelltower84
    @rheabelltower84 Před rokem

    The absolute hardest pain I ever had to make it through. For us both.

  • @helenaoki5079
    @helenaoki5079 Před 4 lety +1

    This video is needed! Thank God.

  • @Detroitswagg28
    @Detroitswagg28 Před 3 měsíci

    Divorce is hard. I'm going through it. 14 years and five kids ages 13, 11, 9 7 and 4. I don't want the divorce but my wife does. I even stayed through rap patches and infidelity. Divorce and emotional decision that's why it's initiated mostly by women. Lord I don't wish this grief on anyone. Prayers for all that's divorced or going through it. It often blows my mind how Divorce happens in the body of Christ I don't understand it. God bless everyone

  • @lesterwaldeck393
    @lesterwaldeck393 Před 2 lety

    Needed this now

  • @nothere603
    @nothere603 Před 2 lety +1

    i find his voice and encouragement very soothing to the pain i am feeling. thank you.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      Hi, get help from Dr Steve to bring your ex back and attract your (SP) someone you love to you, you might have try others Spellcasters and they disappoint you, but I can assure you 100% and also staking my life on it that Dr Steve can help you and make your ex beg you for a second chance because he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. I will advise you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @dreya.k_
    @dreya.k_ Před 2 lety

    This was well needed

  • @homevideos274
    @homevideos274 Před 2 lety +5

    I am going through the same situation and I tell you this pain is something I have never felt before...
    My wife got a divorce and left our kids with me..
    Seeing the kids everyday has torn me apart everyday...

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 Před 2 lety +2

      I pray Jesus will cover your family, and give you comfort and Grace to go on stronger.

    • @angeladay1534
      @angeladay1534 Před 2 lety +1

      Praying for you and your family. GOD is in control, and he will give you the strength and the courage to make it through.
      In Jesus' name, Amen! 💔🙏🏽📖🥰🛐⛪

  • @beeHappy977
    @beeHappy977 Před rokem +2

    I don’t want this. It is hard. I stood for our marriage. But if they have enough it is out of your control. I have moved forward for my own peace.

  • @MelGetmanova
    @MelGetmanova Před 2 lety +2

    😭💔 it’s sooooo hard . Feel alone, in so much pain

    • @johnanita563
      @johnanita563 Před 2 lety

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      @johnanita563 Před 2 lety

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  • @frankieclayton9303
    @frankieclayton9303 Před 8 měsíci +1

    It effects the kids mothers fathers Jesus christ because he created the family to be whole in the almighty God and allow his word spirit healing power love faith word to lead guide

  • @michellegriffis9137
    @michellegriffis9137 Před 6 lety

    yes please type it out for me thanks terri

  • @sammyfudge7908
    @sammyfudge7908 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Pastor Tony,
    Needed to hear this powerful word. Was thinking prior hearing this message that all hope was gone.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Sammy Fudge I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back within two days?

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Sammy Fudge
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  • @lilibethvilella
    @lilibethvilella Před měsícem

    So good ❤ 2nd marriages end 74%. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH”

  • @wassha09
    @wassha09 Před 4 lety +7

    I’ve been married for about one year and 4 months to my wife. We have a newborn and she wants a divorce. I truly believe that she has a lot of mental and emotional health problems that she refuses to deal with from her past, and has dumped all of her hurt, pain, and trauma on me. She also has been showing signs of being depressed and of a narcissist. She’s made statements of not wanting to be alive anymore and hearing voices in her head.
    I’m very concerned for her and our son.
    I know that marriage isn’t perfect and takes lots of practice and patience. I’m here and have never wavered in my faith that God can turn this thing around.
    I have never said that I wanted to leave my marriage every time something didn’t go my way or if my wife did something that I didn’t like.
    I know that God has put us together for a reason, and I’m praying that He continues to do a work on the both of us. Whatever issues my wife is going through, I pray that He can help her because she has shut me totally out of her life and is trying to do the same when it comes to our son.
    I also believe that she is at the point, that she will not listen to anyone. She has blocked my entire family and church family off of Facebook. She’s running from something but refuses to communicate with me or anyone who gives her Godly advice and wisdom.
    If she is one of those individuals that has to go back into the world for Satan to completely beat her up so that she can learn how to totally surrender and depend on God and not on her own self will, I will always be here to be her husband.
    Unfortunately, I did have to leave our home to stay with my parents. She became physically violent towards me and has locked me out of our home.
    For any believers in Christ who know the power of prayer, please keep us in prayer. All I want is my wife back. Any words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated.
    Is there anyway that I could try to get her some help even if she refuses it?

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 Před 4 lety +3

      It sounds like post partum depression
      😢

    • @lygiaAmato7888
      @lygiaAmato7888 Před 4 lety +1

      God bless, Strenghten yourself in the lord. 1 Sam 30:6. Confess sins for both of you. Start fasting and prayer, she is your wife. Be bold and take the responsibity to fight for her in spiritual battle. There are a lot of prayer video's on CZcams how to pray for restoration of your marriage. Pray a lot from 00.00 a.m till 6 a.m. Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you how to pray To do this you will receive power to pray and your Love for her will grow more and more

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 Před 4 lety +2

      I suggest you place this concern at the feet of your Pastor and Elders.
      There is no shame in gathering a team of prayer warriors.
      In addition to prayer I suggest you fast (read and study how to fast and DO IT)
      The Bible is loaded with verses on fasting before a battle

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Wassha 09
      i can recommend
      you to a man who
      helped me

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 Před 4 lety

      Wassha 09
      bring my husband
      back within 48 hours?

  • @deedeewerner2588
    @deedeewerner2588 Před 5 lety +21

    I needed to hear this! My husband walked out on me last month after 36 years of marriage. I am consumed with hurt and grief! My mind tells me that I need to trust that God is in control but my flesh is telling me it's hopeless. How am I supposed to go forward?????

    • @TheSangs123
      @TheSangs123 Před 5 lety +8

      Diane Werner Jesus loves you just rest upon that. I am in a situation where I didn't expect to face divorce.. And I've cried asking God to take me home but I do know He loves me... I keep saying it to myself.. The God of this Universe loves me and I rest upon that love..ill be praying for you daily I promise diane

    • @stacywallace9393
      @stacywallace9393 Před 3 lety +1

      Pray and then pray some more 🙏

    • @LindaKLee
      @LindaKLee Před rokem +1

      It’s been three years since your post I pray that you are doing better.
      I too am going through divorce after 36 years of marriage but I am leaning on God so strong and he is strengthening me every single day.🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @cindyhines9166
      @cindyhines9166 Před rokem +1

      Your comment caught my heart. My husband of 27 years walked out on me 2 years ago. Divorced last year. I'm such a lost and broken soul trying to heal. So I feel your pain and I'm very very sorry. Thank you for taking the time to read this

    • @Littlebabyjakie
      @Littlebabyjakie Před rokem

      💗💗

  • @annamabunda3188
    @annamabunda3188 Před 3 lety +2

    Amen , today was my final day for divorce . I filed for divorce because my husband cheated on me , and not once but many times . When I find out , he come and apologize . Last year , on the 18 of May , I was at work during the night , my daughter decided to come home that night , she found him with the young girl in my house . He is 57 years and I am 56 years , and we were married for 31 years , but he was busy with young girls , and other men 's wives .I am born again and I was tired for that . After the daughter found him , he apologized , came with his friends to ask for my apology , but I heard enough .I thank God for always being there with me during this journey of divorce because it took only 7 months , God was at work .

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

  • @lalavargo
    @lalavargo Před 2 lety

    That's was very kind. Thank you

    • @johnanita563
      @johnanita563 Před 2 lety

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    • @johnanita563
      @johnanita563 Před 2 lety

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  • @user-bh3rg1kh4i
    @user-bh3rg1kh4i Před 25 dny

    I'm currently going thru it now I'm crying alot it seems like I'm a emotional reck divorced after 24 yrs

  • @applegestates
    @applegestates Před rokem

    My husband and I just separated 1week 4 days ago. And the last time we spoke he informed me that he will be filing divorce. I am hurting and get anger because I stayed with everything he put me through the lying, cheating, stealing from me because he was on drugs not being a stable and consistent father or husband. I stayed kept him in prayer I believe that God will save him and deliver him. And he did. He got his life in order he’s been drug free for five years , . Now he’s not happy with me he doesn’t love me he feels I never loved him the way he deserves to be love . I cry all the time

  • @jacksonrine1
    @jacksonrine1 Před 4 lety

    Even through everything I am going through I know God is with me pulling through this. Stay strong Psalms 23.

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello everyone my name is Pastor Green Vest and I am here to help you if You Passing Through Hardship In Life, Need Your Ex Back, Or you want prayers and counseling and deliverance you can contact me on whatsapp with (+1 (587) 200‑3872) With God all things are possible all you need is just to have faith in God and all your problems and anguish and tribulations will be gone the way Our lord Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood so shall God heal you of all your problems bring your problems to God

    • @lucabellini3817
      @lucabellini3817 Před 3 lety

      Jackson Rine you can add me up on WhatsApp and we can talk better there

    • @jacksonrine1
      @jacksonrine1 Před 3 lety

      @@lucabellini3817 Thank you my wife and I are back together. Jesus took me and made a new man. Thank your prayers.

  • @MariaASanchezRosado
    @MariaASanchezRosado Před 3 lety

    That was very motivational, but I was expecting some kind of ministering in prayer. Without it it left me floating.

  • @tammykfoury1982
    @tammykfoury1982 Před 4 lety +3

    I believe everything said here. I have been going to God over and over, but I am losing this battle. I am so riddled with rejection, i feel worthless.
    The pain doesn't let up....
    I still love my ex.....
    My ex has totally disregarded me...
    He dismisses my pain, stating it's just manipulation; shows no humilty, no compassion.
    My adult children and immediate family also show no compassion.
    I know God will never forsake me.....
    I am alone here on Earth....
    Most of my life I've been a devoted wife and mother, daughter etc. I am sensitive and compassion to others.
    Not having anyone that cares is heartbreaking.
    I've been dealing with this for a long time, and I am tired..
    So tired. 😞

  • @fatubility1144
    @fatubility1144 Před 5 dny

    I am going through divorce with 2 kids 2 and 7 it hurts my heart so bad😢😭😭😭😭😭🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605

    Keep praying for eachother's salvation and for your loved one's salvation. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, "Be born again in Jesus' name.", and he's been believing in God ever since ( he didn't believe in God before I did this). He is so much more respectful now.
    Pray for your enemies salvation cuz if your spouse or ex has been unfaithful then its a good idea to pray it.
    The right one for you is out there if its your ex or not, they may be in need of prayer also so pray for their salvation also. Keep praying for people's spiritual maturity cuz everyone can change and God is the one that does it, He is at work in them!
    You can try giving monthly gifts to CBN's 700 Club. Its a christian ministry and there is power and blessings in giving to it. People's own testimonies speak of how it healed their life and the blessings and miracles they started seeing in their lives when they started their monthly giving to this ministry to help it meet it's financial needs. God bless!
    www.CBN.com

    • @alexrusson8618
      @alexrusson8618 Před 3 lety +1

      SierraSiennaSavahnaDesertNightSky 1985 shame on you for using this forum to tell people to send you cash

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 Před 3 lety +1

      @@alexrusson8618 I ain't asking for cash. If you read it carefully it says CBN's 700 Club is asking for help with their Christian ministry. CBN helps the poor and impoverished and preaches to them. What is wrong with helping a ministry that does such a good work for the Lord? The bible says 'fervent giving covers a multitude of sins.' And ' Do not withhold blessings from those who deserve it when it is in your power to do so.' No , we are not to be selfish , we are to obey God and act in love. Do unto others as you would want done unto you. That sounds very evil to preach that you shouldn't help the poor.

  • @alberts2331
    @alberts2331 Před rokem

    Thank you. The pain is intense. The worst I have ever felt. I miss my wife so much and she hates me. Oh God help me please.

  • @camorton2345
    @camorton2345 Před 2 lety

    I love her so much and want to fight with honor to win her back 😔 but I cant and our kids hurt from it which makes me feel so weak because I feel like I've failed them 😔. I dont know what to do besides keeping reading the word, praying but the tears come out. I feel like I'm failing at the chance of hope to fight and earn her back

  • @esthersahu9916
    @esthersahu9916 Před rokem

    Pls pray for me 🙏

  • @user-vg1nm6gx3n
    @user-vg1nm6gx3n Před 8 měsíci

    Im in pain right now. My husband was verbally abusive to me and my kids . I took him back twice . Now i can't stand him. Im cussing him struggling everyday needing prayer.

  • @melissamcpherson5408
    @melissamcpherson5408 Před 10 měsíci

    My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married just 5 months and since then everything falling apart, i also got saved 4 months ago. He just stop talking to me for no reason without an explanation and all I feel is wrath and bitterness because I feel so unfairly treated. I know satan is trying to test me but I know God is in control. I will not be a fool and I strongly feel I deserve better because I have been a good partner to him. Whatever the outcome, I know everything happen in my life has its reasons. I am asking the Lord for his will to be done, not mine.

  • @mommaof6
    @mommaof6 Před 3 lety +5

    Going on 3 months of separation from my husband. I left him after 23 years together, 6 kids together, been together since I was 17 yrs old and I just turned 40.. He is all i know in regards to relationship. I never cheated.. He was abusive, lied, manipulated and cheated. I was depressed and had alot of anxiety. Yet there's a part of me that doesn't let go. There's a sadness in my heart. Why?

    • @MarronCeleste
      @MarronCeleste Před 3 lety

      It gets better!!!

    • @PSALMSOFSONGS
      @PSALMSOFSONGS Před 3 lety

      You might’ve already figured it out. you may be afraid to let go because he’s all you know. You feel to afraid to detach yourself and go through the motions of being without.

    • @ih561
      @ih561 Před 2 lety +1

      @Momma of 6, I Am in the same situation as you. Been together for 22yrs since highschool. We have seven kids together. Will cheat, manipulate, embarrassed me in any which way that makes himself feel good. He is all I know and I will be 40yrs this year. I finally got the courage to file for divorce December 2021 hoping that would awaken him but no. He actually responded and I'm confused. Please how are you doing. It hurts so bad because part of me wants to let go and part of me feels I should stay and keep fighting.

    • @mommaof6
      @mommaof6 Před 2 lety +3

      @@ih561 I gave my life to Jesus in July 2021 and God has been so so good to me. He has poured on me such strength, courage, peace, joy that I cant explain. Bible says He is the husband to the widow and I cling to that fact. I have completely submerged myself in His word which is a balm to our heart & soul. I pray all the time & I just converse with Him. His our Father in heaven who sees everything. Bible says we can approach with confidence His throne of grace for help. Im in awe for what He has done in my life. There is so much I could share but it would be a book. Surrender your life & heart to Him and let Him take over every area in your life. Trust His way. His ways and plans for your life are better then what you believe for yourself. God showed me what I thought was impossible is possible..im blown away by His grace & love. Its a journey of healing and everything that comes with it but He is by our side walking it through it with me. God is near the brokenhearted and binds up our wounds. Let Gods pour His love on you and give Him your life and see where He will lead you.
      I prayed for you my friend.🙏