I Divorced My Husband, This is How God is Helping Me Heal... (Testimony)
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@@patriciadevis7130WOW 😢 so grateful you all didn't quit
My wife told me she is divorcing me this morning. I have taken her back time after time throughout three years of her having drinking problems. I am so tempted to slip back into sin. I feel so weak. Just yesterday I felt closer to God than I have in months. And then I was hit with this situation this morning. I am a pastors son and I feel so confused. Thank you for your testimony sister.
Praying for you , please keep going in the right path 🙏
Dear brother, your strength is the joy of the LORD, give Him praise, honor and glory! He will lift you up!! He will MAKE YOU FREE!!! He's got this, now trust HIM!
Yes hang in there brother, Jesus loves you! , don’t go back to your vomit its not going to be worth it . 🙏❤️
Praying for you brother, being a pastor’s son doesn’t make you immune to sin, you can’t do it by yourself, but you can do it thru Christ Jesus, you are strong thru Him, God is with you, holding your right hand, ask Hims to help you, just shout Help! God will be there so fast, because you are His son🙏 you are loved so much! Praying for you right now
Lucas - I want top encourage you to stay in the Word of God daily and have an ongoing healthy prayer life. Remember that the Bible says "Draw near to God and God will draw near to you". Also, seek Godly counsel - don't walk through this alone. You were prayed for today.
Never jeopardise your relationship with GOD over a relationship with a person.
Amen
Amen brother
Yes I have always paid the price heavily for that. Being yoked with an unbeliever has caused much spiritual, emotional and mental suffering.
That's why I left my husband. I will choose God over man any day.. 🙏🙌
There is some real wisdom in that statement
That’s easier said than done, as you may not recognize that is being done. When your upbringing is loveless and abusive, you meet that person who is the contrary of what you’ve known is easy to fall in the trap. Only, when you surrender to Jesus will he open your eyes to see and no longer be blinded.
I needed this. I had 2 divorces from infidelity. I was told by my husband of 20 years that he didn’t ever love me. I am still so broken but God is working on me.
My husband of 11 years told me he never loved me. But there is a relief on knowing this since it means you no longer have to wait. We can be free of trying to fight for someone who needs to go and we never need to look back
That doesn’t matter. I know it hurts but what matters is that God had always and will always loved you and Jesus literally died for us because he loves us. That’s what matters. When someone can’t see your worth just pray for them. Because the Father sees your worth and Jesus sees it. You are who HE says you are.
@beckygleason2002
I’m very sorry you’ve endured such pain. Men who aren’t lead by God can’t overcome sin - they don’t see the damage their selfishness causes.
@@BmoreBetterNOWamen
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All through my life I was a habitual womanizer and I ended up getting married after my son was born. God called me to the faith during that first 6 months of marriage and it was a drastic change. Through that calling I knew I would never compromise my marriage or my family over another women. I love my family but I love and fear God first and foremost.....
Amen
What causes a man to become a womanizer?
@@ARighteousLife Lusting over attractive women....
It is in the spiritual bloodline, generational iniquity or what we call generational curse it has to be broken you have to accept Jesus Christ forgive your forefathers who open the door to this sin you have to renounce it and reject it and cast a strong man out and start walking and wholeness only Holy Spirit In Jesus can help you
@@sharonchenier8206 Can't argue with that AMEN!
After 6 years of marriage and a beautiful daughter, forgiving my unfaithful, unbeliever husband, who never gave me anything but took from me my all, living each day just trying so hard to look better for him trying not to gain weight even after my baby working a 14 hour job each day, taking care of the baby, doing all the chores & fulfilling every responsibility, just thinking that by showing him Christ like love he'll change. It just got worse! Until he made it all about treating me and the baby this way coz of my Faith. I finally said enough! I asked him to leave and he was only too happy to, but in the past year God has Blessed me with my own property & a great school for my daughter & church for me... M actually helping other people & it's so rewarding & helping me heal! Life's not that bad after all! Only wish my parents were alive to witness this transformation in me....Nonetheless! God is here & he's not going anywhere, so I count it all joy! 😊
I'm trying to decide if I should finally get a divorce as well. I feel trapped because I'm a Christian just like you did...
@@ashleyriosrizo If she has explicitly mentioned that she doesn’t want to restore the relationship and has been explicit in mentioning she wants to move on, then according to scripture it’s recommended that you get out of this marriage. (1 Corinthians 7:15 - But if the husband or wife who isn't a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.
The purpose of waiting these many years was to see if she will have a change of heart. Since it’s abundantly clear that she is not looking for restoration, i think it’s ok to move on.
In all of this protect your heart from any vindictive or vengeful desires. Forgive her and release her from your heart before you start any official procedure. You are doing this to protect yourself & to move on rather than to get back at her. Every time you feel the hurt or pain of the old come back, continue to surrender your heart to Jesus and receive healing immediately. Don’t carry any hurts into the next day otherwise it becomes bitterness of any sorts.
You are not alone in this season. We are your family. We are fighting with you to make sure you come out of this with a testimony.
God Bless!
@@faithpereira4858 It has been 5 years of every form of abuse possible. Literally. My children have seen so much they never should have. He stands firm in that he is a Christian but he's just not doing what's right. He put a knife to my throat just a week ago and that is not the most recent abuse I have endured. I honestly believe my mental health is suffering because of the lasting impact of trauma I have lived with him. I used to be so strong and resilient. I'm becoming a shell of my self.
@@ashleyriosrizo I'm so sorry to hear about this... you know we as biological parents, if we see our children suffering our heart cringes..how much more the loving heart of daddy Jesus! We are called to be Victors through Christ Jesus. We're seated with him in heavenly places. Take a step of Faith who your heavenly Father is & what is your identity. If not for anything else you gotta find a community that supports you & give your children a safe & peaceful home.
God hates divorce..... but do you think according to the biblical definition of how the husband is supposed to treat the family especially the wife treating her with kindness not being harsh with her as she is the weaker vessel, that it justifies you tolerating abuse. That too life-threatening in-humane behaviour. This is not what God meant for marriage to be. Maybe staying away would give him time to think & change for the better at the best.. but if not please prioritize your kids 🙏
@@faithpereira4858 Your right girl. Every word. Thank you for taking the time to minister to me. 🙏❤
I shared your interview with my 13 year old daughter . Thank you for sharing ~ My own story, my wife was cheating on me. One day I was driving and I broke down in tears. I pulled over on the side of the road and prayed to God for help. I felt the words “give it to me” at the time I thought God would right my marriage… but it ended in divorce. After time I realized what His promise was. I gave Him my trauma and He healed me. The Creator of the universe longs to be with His children. He waits for our call. God is so good.
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How are you doing?
@@sandiebeach0926 Hmm.. Had a breakthrough this year. Ex's house flooded. Three feet under water. Her boyfriend didn't show up. I cut a trip short with the kids to sand bag her house and dig her out. I did this because my kids have to live at her house. Her boyfriend # 3 (could be more I have no idea) did not show up to help her. I ended up taking the kids for 4 months. Helping her long the way. This was a huge step for us to have a functional relationship. After 6 years of raising our kids over texts, we actually talk pleasantly and do what's right for the kids. Gos tears us down at the right moments so we seek Him. Ex wife is still N "Agnostic" whatever that means. But this crisis opened up an opportunity for us to work together. Recently the ex lost her job, She actually attended our sons baptism! So who knows what will come from this crisis. Fun fact - the day she got a bonus from her job for 160K I promise you was the moment she decided to cheat and ditch her marriage. So.. I think God is working to reach her.
Rejection is God’s protection brother.
I hope you walk in the victory of His plan of abundant life in Him first you now.
The book Trust by Dr Henry Cloud might help you rebuild your understanding of trust and restore you in truths.
May our Lord bless you, thank you for your testimony.
My father has shown me my heart is only safe with him. Jesus is my knight in shining armor. He is my beloved and I am his.
Amen❣️🙌
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that is a beautiful way of expressing your love for Him
Amen
"my heart is only safe with him"
This is a beautiful testimony, I can relate. But people should know, divorce is not the end of your story. I gave my life to God, after I divorce the father of my three children due to abuse, infidelity and much more. And surrendering my all to God, was the best thing that ever happened to me. It’s not the end it’s the beginning of something wonderful 🙌🏼
Love this comment!!
Amen! Romans 6: In the eyes or God He saw every person in the entire world die in Jesus, old sin nature be buried with Christ and Christ's resurrection was our Resurrection in Christ. Our part is: "For God so loved the World that WHOSOEVER WOULD BELIEVE IN HIM (HIS WORK ON THE CROSS) WOULD NOT DIE BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE." We must have FAITH in what God did for us through His Son Jesus Christ when He gave His Life that Whosoever would Believe shall not perish but have Everlasting Life! What a SAVIOR What a LORD!...
Thankyou for that comment sincerely. ❤️
That's great news.
However, let's be absolutely clear here, nobody has ever been saved by giving their life to Christ.
That is bartering your life for salvation and is a Satanic counterfeit gospel message.
We are saved because He gave His life for us and we trust Him alone for salvation.
By all means go ahead and give your life to Christ daily for service, not salvation!
@@hogansheroes2793 Oh you mean like Jesus' disciples gave up everything and gave their life to him? That's satanic somehow? no church is hardly teach this anymore so I'll let you know: you are not the Lord of your life. You either belong to the Lord Jesus Christ or you belong to save and it's obvious from your message who you have chosen. Being truly saved means Jesus is the first and most important thing in your life over friends over family over jobs over money over anything. Only He knows your future and every thought you will ever have and every decision you'll ever make. You don't. I was my own God for 53 years and I'll tell you I never had a moments peace. When it finally got so bad and I had no hope no one and nothing, I called on Jesus for his help and he was right there immediately. I knew who he was I didn't even have to ask even though I had blasting his name and made fun of Him my whole life. I was instantly filled with peace like I've never known, a love I have never felt more intensely but also his gentlel but authoritative nature. He immediately started turning everything around in my life because He and only He has that power. I actually feel very sorry for you because you have a spirit of antichrist, and you're eaten up with demons. When you get tired enough of this world beating you down, call on the Lord Jesus Christ. If and only if your heart is sincere in turning your life over to Him, He will be right there you will know when you have received His Holy Spirit. all these pathetic churches these days is predicted in the Bible teaching easy believism, sinner's prayer, just believe and confess with your mouth and you'll be saved, blah blah blah. None of that saves you. You have to really want it and dedicate yourself to Him. He took your punishment so that you have a choice because you belong in hell just like everybody else. Thinking you're good works will save you will definitely send you to hell no one's good, not one. Everything in your thought life counts as an action to God. I pray that this is a wake-up call for you either now or before you die because then it's too late you don't get to plead your case. It's a judgement, not a trial.
When she said she feels rich…. Not with goods but rich in Joy and God… that touched me …
Amen!
I recently got a divorce from a man that was verbally and emotionally abusive. My self esteem was shot. I didn't realize how much trauma had happened to me afterwards. But through my faith I'm recovering and becoming stronger everyday.
Thank you for sharing your testimony dear sister. God bless you!
I think the only divorce that counts in God's eyes is adultury.
Otherwise u r still legally married before God. Did your husband cheat on u?
If he did u r not bound anymore.
Your husband has heavy demons in him.
He needs deliverance. Look up Derek Prince on deliverance.
Chances are if you had stayed the verbal and emotional abuse would have gone to physical abuse next. The last person who can help someone leave that kind of behavior behind is the wife or husband to them. Behavior like being clear about their right to take a person for granted while offering subtle manipulations to control others. Or when committing adultery for real in their outward behavior too next.
you made a covenant to God though "till death do you part" not till you fight and get bored do you part!
@@Garandmasthumb well it's not an unforgivable sin to divorce someone who's abusive to you and your children. I remarried him a few times he got worse because he didn't want to take his bipolar medicine. It's all in my pass and will be in my next book
@@Garandmasthumb No! U can only be divorced in God's eyes when your spouse cheats on u.
It is so ironically beautiful when you can look back on your lowest times and moments and SEE God’s grace and mercy and love for you!!! The devastation of divorce is not fully appreciated. It’s not a club you wish anyone to join. But, I can appreciate the growth God is able to encourage as we are laid low. Glory to God!
Amen 🙏🏽 love that
Wow! Thanks for your testimony. I remember writing a essay on the disease of divorce when I was in college. It was heartbreaking and freeing at the same time. I do remember the days when I couldn't see Jehovah God's Great Favor and Mercy while I was going through my divorce and even afterwards. It wasn't pleasant but I can look back now and see His awesome Mercy and how even in the mist of losing everything He yet sustained Me and My Children. Again thank you for your testimony.
YES
Say that sis! Amen 🙏🙌🥰
I say this I’m thankful for his grace through out the harder times in my life I actually thought god had abandoned me and became so hateful of god myself life everyone and everything but looking back I was blessed in so many small ways that I didn’t even understand and now I look back and I’m so thankful for how much god has protected me thank you Jesus
Thank you for sharing your story sister ❤️ I understand. My Ex husband came out as being gay and I found out he was having an affair with a man who looks like a woman. Very traumatizing time in my life. The only thing that got me through was The Holy Spirit! God’s love and peace are far greater than what any human can offer us.
That's tough, but thank goodness for God.
We're there any red flags looking back?
females dont understand the covenant they made with God ,remember the "till death do us part"? that means good and bad.
I'm sorry this happened to you 😔
@Jojo Moa I might be wrong, but sometimes I feel I could be in the same boat.
Thank you for your testimony. I'm going through a divorce right now. she abandoned me and cheated on me. But she said she just need to find her self but she told me she checked out of the relationship a long time ago. She told me she was not in love with me but she care about me as a friend and 8 years together are done. I been holding on to Jesus Christ and I been healing and been feeling better
Thank you for sharing Joseph! Jesus will always be the answer! Praying for God's love to increase in your life in this season and for His healing power to completely restore you as you continue to build your relationship with Him.
John Ramerez Spiritual Warfare.
Same thing happened to me but keep your eyes on God. It took time, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. Keep going 💜🙏🏾🙏🏾
Move on and forget her coz she ain't worth it.
@@delafetestimonies Amen thank you
I am going Through something very similar to your story. Two years ago my wife started cheating on me. I was fighting one year for the marriage, but it ended that she cheated second time. The thing is, that i made my family "my God". My wife brought me far from my faith. she always told me that i have to rely on myself and not on God. and now she is far away from God in esoteric things and i found my Saviour! You can be sure that God will give you something twice as good, as you already had. Because He promised this. I for myself know that i will receive a marriage twice as good as the marriage i had!
This is like divorce court, listen to Apostle Gino Jennings teaching on divorce, I personally learn a lot from Apostle Gino Jennings teaching, it's very good to get knowledge of scripture, because many of us is ignorant of scripture and many many can't break down scripture, the scriptures said how can they hear without a preacher and how can he preach except he be sent, a nother thing God speak through his holy words, and God can't go against his words, we just have to obey, for the scriptures also said obedience is better than sacrifice.
@@jackyarrindel8375 Mr gino took the covid vaccine and now on his way to hell.
@Daphne of course is it possible. WE are no longer under the law. We are under Grace. Read verse 6. Verse 3 is only a explanation how it was before under law. Dont bring bible Verses out of its context.
@Daphne First, my wife ended the marriage, but even If i was someone who believed in the law, i could end marriage because of adultery of my wife. Jesus himself allowed that! But, i am No one who believes in the law beacause the law is no more for us. WE are under Grace. I didnt say i dont have Sin, but God never more Sees our sin, because of the blood of Jesus Christ our saviour. God is a Agape Loving God. He wants us Happy, because His Love is selfless. I will never "JUMP" into a new marriage. But when its right it will BE right!
@Daphne then i strongly recommend you to proof how you was leaded to this Point. Because its not right! Pray for wisdom over the word of God. Our God is our Abba Father, and He is always only good, because his almighty nature ist Love! Have a blessed day too. I will pray for you.
God restored me after after 8 years of suffering in marriage and the divorce that came afterwards. Depression for two years... many looses... suicidal pressures... God is good.
What next. See this CZcams: MIRACLES JOHNSON SEQUEIRA
I speak life and life more abundantly in your life in jesus mighty name, amen.
@@kikiqld1547
Great. This is what disciples must do. But what next. By doing this you have kept her beggar all her life. You must also make her disciple
That’s so good to hear , I’m going through similar . It’s hard
How did you get over that? I'm still struggling. I've failed so many times, couldn't even save my marriage. Fearing I might be an obstruction to my kids. I'm trying but what if I fail God too
It feels so good to hear other people's testimonials. It is as though GOD is saying, look at what they went through. You are not alone; I brought them through it too. The more I listen to the testimonies of others, the stronger I am and the closer I am to giving my own testimonials.
You're gonna get through this.
I filed for divorce from my first wife, no kids, because she refused to stop practicing witchcraft. Something she started shortly after we married.
I divorced my second wife, no kids, after she told me she had been cheating on me our entire 12 years of marriage.
Now, 6 years single, I've NEVER been happier and don't plan to ever have another woman in my dept free, home owned, passive income, vacation lifestyle world. 😃👍👍
Was your 1st wife married before u and her got married?
What does that have to do ?
I'm so happy you found what works for you 😊 Marriage is not for everyone, God has a different plan for everyone.
@@stophatin1354 That question is invalid because he is now happily single.
I got married at 22 years to an abusive man got married again a few later to a cheater. Happily single for almost 5 years . No longer need a man to Love me because God change me and He loves me more than any human can love or will love me. I no longer looking for love in the wrong place.
For days I have been seeing your face in you tube, I didn't want to listen to you but I kept on stopping at your video then I realised God is saying something to me. I listened and God reminded me that I have been abusive to my wife and need to ask for forgiveness.
Peter Kubeka
South Africa. Thank you
I’m so proud of you, Abuti. Make a change and love her as much as God loves the church.
Pray for my daughter, who is in the midst of her husband's infidelity, who has become verbally abusive, about her looks, cooking, laundry, etc, she's hanging in there. It hurts me when she's hurting. He's passing himself off as single. She's said it has been going on for several years.
John Ramerez Spiritual Warfare.
Does she have a church family that she can reach out to. It’s serious warfare, please reach out to your pastor and his wife
So when she getting that divorce? Its time to send him on his way.
@@junkmail7780 The Lord rebuke you Satan. You sound just like the world so that means you don’t KNOW Him.
Tell her to start praying and read the Bible.
It will be ok God will help her
Glory be to the Most High🌻
Amen!
YES
@@delafetestimonies have you been faithfull to your husband as to the lord ?
Ephesians 5:22 ESV
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord."
divorcing isn't submitting, but the exact opposite.
@@mekavio8231amen!!!
This definitely helped me, I've not been in a relationship yet, but ik I have issues with perfection and having negative thought patterns sometimes. God is helping me deal with these things and I know that He is helping me let go. YAY GOD
I love this woman. Her testimony is so honest and sincere. Thank you!
I have suffered a lot of physical and verbal abuse from my father. It damaged me as a child and I shut down as a result. I'm no longer half the girl I used to be happy and carefree. The world is dark but I keep the faith.
Keep the faith❤️
Blessed are you❤️
Barbara, Please dont let others be a stumbling block in your life. Stay close to JESUS. 🍃🌷🍃
You will come back to life soon ☀️
This powerful testimony reminds me of what Spurgeon said: anything that drives us to prayer is a blessing. This insight has been a great encouragement to me. It makes Romans 8:28 a reality in my life. Yes, anything that deepens our relationship with Jesus is a blessing. God bless you sister and God bless the ministry of this channel.
That’s a good outlook
I can relate to her life story. I too was 17 at the time when I became pregnant. He was very sweet when we were in Junior High School and started dating in the 9th grade. Then we continued dating through the 10th grade but once I became pregnant. He made a 160 degree turn and he started hitting me when our daughter was just a baby. Then I would leave him and I would go back to my parents house. He would always convince me to come to him and I would but was becoming very weary from all the verbal and physical abuse that was a none stop. He would verbally and physically abuse me all the time. He didn't like to hear my opinions. He would always yell and scream at me all the time. He would punch me on the face and slap me. He sat on my chest, grabbed both my wrist and began to punch me on the face. He would hit me on the head all the time. He would punch me on my arms all the time. He would threatened me with..."If you fall asleep I will punch on the head while sleeping, so don't fall asleep (B)" He would preach to me about God and he would use it to continue to verbally and physically abusing me. He always pretended to be nice to me and that he loved me but none of that was ever true. Because he is a lier, theaf, greedy, mean, cruel, and violent man. This is who he really is for the rest of his life.
He was so mean, so cruel, and so violent. I wanted to restore my marriage too buy he made me realize that he would never change. My ex-abuser husband, would ask me ..."What would you say if I told you that I had a son with another woman."? He asked me this question 3 times. Then in another occasion that I had to take him to the airport. He started telling me..."You always accuse me of having a son with another woman?" I would be like. ..what? I am not asking you anything and I am accusing you of anything. You are the one who asked me these questions in 3 different occasions? This is when I told him that he was crazy and I began to accept that he was never going to change. My ex-abuser never made me feel protected at all due to his abusive behavior. He would say.. "You are a typical Latina because Latinas love a man who abuses them." I do feel free from having to be an abusive relationship. I Love God and he is my first Love and for ever more from now on. My God Almighty my creator God who loves me.
I am going through a divorce and I know that this needs to happen in my life in order for me to be free.
My ex-abuser husband is the one who always wanted to hurt me. I do believe that wanted to continue to hurt me and I also know that God's Love is better than any man's love. Because men do not know how to love at all. I also know that God has a purpose for me in this life and I follow my God, my King, my Lord and Savior Jesus.
You are strong God bless !
Thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing Erika, I am so sorry you had to go through that. No woman deserves that kind of treatment. I will say that it is a lie from the devil to say that "men do not know how to love at all." Both Men and Women struggle with how to give and receive love, but it comes from not knowing the source of Love, which is God. I pray that God protects and guides you in this season, I pray that His love will increase in your life, and I pray that he surrounds you with man and women who can accurately represent His love. In Jesus name!
You have endured so much evil. You are safe now💜 the Holy Spirit will heal your heart. Keep your beautiful child far away from him!!
evil men and women do not know how to love.
you are a strong women
you stayed because you believed he was good or that he would change
i dont understand God's plan
but i too have learned from my experiences
let us now love ourselves to protect ourselves and let us love all, but do not be around those who are unhealthy/toxic/evil
we may not know who are evil inside
so be vigilant
watch their actions
a honest good person will be honest and good
put God first in the center of your life and everything will come together according to his Will! once you give God your body expect the un expected. another thing sweetie is that men and women would know to Love if they put God first and have God take over their life 🙏 because just like their is abusive men their is also abusive women that don't know how to love, just like this women's testimony she said she was a verbally abusive to her husband as well, so that tell you that women need God too. but praise the Lord that he got u out of that darkness, you just gotta pray for the man that hurt u and forgive him, because if u do not forgive him God won't forgive u either
I pray and cried my heart out to Jesus to let me divorce my husband. My Pastors are helping me pray for restoration in my marriage but sometimes the pressure of having to be with a man that keeps on cheating, drinking, giving our childs a bad example and has anger problems takes a toll on me. Yes he is a hard working man because he is and good provider but he doesn’t want change he wants to be free and wild to got and come back when ever he wants. Please help me with prayer 🙏
1Peter3:1
Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,
I suggest to no longer talk to him about the things you do not want but praise him about the things he does best. Less talking but having a Godly character, doing all the good things for him without a word of complaining, nagging and so forth. Whenever he comes home appreciate him that atleast he does come home by also letting him know. Let your actions do the preaching. Welcoming him with warmth.
Isnt cheating a way out for u? Like u can ACTUALLY divorce him for cheating. It’s the last resort but allowed Matthew 19:9 ?
@@yolisamrso9827You’re leading her to an abusive relationship which will be on the grounds for divorce with that advice. Pure heresy. Praying for you ❤
For those of you are are being judgmental: God is loving and merciful. Each is a case by case scenario and this is why we mustn’t put God in a box and must be led by the Holy Spirit because you don’t know what the Lord may be leading an individual to do if the marriage cannot be reconciled. He sees the end before we do. There is a difference between what He ordains, vs what people get themselves into. May you experience true freedom, love, and grace because the Bible clearly states that true believers are no longer under condemnation💯
Yeah, I’m sure the 50% divorce rate in first world countries (which by the way, are certainly not the norm) is something to be exalted and praised. Women are certainly over-divorcing their husbands. That doesn’t mean there can’t be some exceptions, but 50% isn’t “some exceptions”, it’s become a common cultural phenomenon.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. My ex husband molested our children (yes police were told), confessed at least some of what he did to me but denied it to everyone else. He also cheated many many times and we had a major court battle over custody with him and his family trying to take full custody of them. GOD is GOOD and spared us, my children are now with me full time and we have forgiven him and his family but for now the children want no contact with them while they continue to support him over them. God can heal any wound, but even if He doesn't, He is still worthy!
This is so touching and it’s touching that everything I’m going through right now I am not going through this season alone. My husband of 15 years left while pregnant with our third child. I didn’t think I would ever make it through. Sitting in the hospital with our newborn who was born with defects alone while he was living with the women he abandoned our family for was torture. Just alone with the attacks of the enemy and the sound of baby monitors there were times I felt like I wasn’t there and would die from the pain. But the Lord saw me through and I’m going through the divorce now trying to make it on one income with three kids and no help from him but I know God will keep me and he is still a way maker. I try and stay encouraged.
I pray for you that he shows you his love you need to understand that this that you went thru wasn't God. This was the enemy the enemy is there to destroy. God is going to give you strength and joy. But remember you have to put our lord and savior first he has to be your number 1 before anyone. Repent, forgive, accept our lord as your savior, get deliverance of all spirits and demons. Build your relationship with Jesus honor him worship him love him. When the enemy attacks let the enemy know who is your God tell the enemy to go back to the pit because you serve our lord Jesus his the truth the way and life. We all have to go thru tribulations. Remember how Jesus died for us and remember how he died for us was way worst then what we go thru. I pray God blesses you with so many good things and gives you his love so that you can see his the best and his all you need. ❤️ I'm going thru things myself I got injured at work horrible pain I been suffering but he gets me thru it my relationship for him is growing and I'm proud to say his my number 1 the relationship I'm building with him has brought me so much love and happiness that I have never had until this year. Go to the comments read my testimony I wrote it just know in life we will suffer its part of walking with our God. But his with you no matter what sending hugs and know your not alone ok ❤️ Jesus loves you sooooooooo much more then anyone in this world
@@lifewithlizzV Thank you so much for your inspiration and words of encouragement, I am working on my relationship with God and fasting. I have been asking God for his peace and strength everyday and he hasn't failed me yet. I have gotten a second job so I can pay my rent and even though it has taken away some of my free time I am happy that I am providing security for my children and I. I am starting to serve at my church and next week I will start attending a divorce small group which I am eager to start. And both my children have been attending smallgroups as well and love them. God is working and moving through my life I am so grateful.
When God speaks to your heart and makes it clear that you are in a committed relationship with him, you will always be reassured of your heavenly position when doubt arises. Walking in the spirit is like Like walking on water "you will always be guided with a great sense of peace and stability".
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Watching from Nairobi, Kenya. This channel builds my faith so much. Be blessed for the work you do for the church of Jesus Christ.
Ohoro,...kumbe kuna Mkenya mwingine hapa? 😂♥️
Tupo wengi....
Tuko wengi 💃🏿
I felt that when she said "God I'm sorry for putting my ex husband and his family before you." Wow! For her to admit that puts her closer to God than ever before. I know because I, myself was in a similar situation. Thank God for His revelation and allowing me to surrender. I know that she is feeling that same way. May God bless hou my Sister. Yes, you are worthy of happiness. Continue to put God first by allowing the Holy Spirit to lead you..stay in your Word which is your armor.
I can relate to what you said about stability. Growing up my parents and I didn't have much of that. But just like how God came into your life he did it for me. He's been faithful, loving and caring. He's great and greatly to be praised. God has healed me and my family. He's still in the process. What I learnt today is that the greatest gift and love I can give anyone is to show them and tell them about Jesus instead of good gifts. (Also thank you for your wisdom on boys.)
Thank you, sister, for your testimony! I am praying God will help me start a ministry for women leaving abusive “Christian” marriages. I believe there are thousands of women out there compromising their relationships with the Lord by living a lie out of fear of leaving! It hurts my heart and I long to help them get free and healed! God bless you for sharing your story! I’m praying for you! ❤️🙏🤗
I can relate to so much of your story- the abusive childhood, the toxic relationships and the victory in Jesus! Thank you for sharing. AMEN🙌🏽💚👏🏽
I'm going through a divorce with my husband right now and I've been dealing with depression, anxiety and PTSD since 3 months ago when he told me and my family so suddenly that he want to divorce me because it was his mother decision.
His mother still practicing witchcraft, an ancient God or some God that they said are more powerful and guessed what? His mother were angry with me because i bring his son baptised to church and start to learn about Jesus. When my Husband started to learn more and have faith in Jesus, his mother started to bring him again to an ancient ritual for a week until she make her son to hate his own wife and dare to ask for divorced. And with God grace its been 3 months and i haven't received any document from the court. I still have faiths that God will restore my marriage like before. I feel it even though i don't see that God is working. i keep on praying that Jesus will open my husband heart and his mind, protect him from any evil power that surround him, so that he will comeback to the right path and his faith to Jesus will restored 🙏
I am so thankful of how God communicates and gives us confirmation of our very own prayers when we need it most. 18:51 in your video, that hit me hard because I had a cycle of dating narcissistic men and I found God and this last relationship was even led more to God through that man and his family and I did put this man on a pedestal. I let his words effect my emotions, daily. Even when he would tell me if I could hear clearly or not from God. I was so emotionally drained and controlled and I was not even aware of it. (When you said God placed you in places where you are actually seen without expectations.) Hallelujah!! God showed me as my fiancé was sent to prison 3 years ago and I remained loyal, emotionally tied to him and his family- however I was fasting and praying and growing my relationship with God during the separation. God opened my eyes to a lot of areas I chose to always label as I deserved or second guess because I did not have a perfect past of my own. During the 3 years physically alone I prayed that God would prepare me to be a better wife and mother and I saw a dramatic change in my confidence, my dependence of another man’s approval fall away. I no longer felt the need to ask a man for assistance, ask family for anything but keep boundaries in place for myself. As I prayed God most definitely provided in every area of my life and I believe God uses the ones whom wholeheartedly trust in Him. Abruptly 2 months ago God closed the doors of that relationship and that toxic family tied to him. He uprooted me within 2 days and moved me to another state and I haven’t spoken to my fiancé since. We were together over 6 years and I can honestly say God heals every person differently; I was placed in isolation and as a single mother I call God my Abba father and husband. I am truly thankful we do not have to know the entire plans of our future but that God continues to turn everything that the enemy intended to use to harm us; around for our good and His glory! I pray to our Heavenly Father on every person whom may be going through a similar situation that all soul ties be renounced in the mighty name of Jesus and that you are able to place your burdens in His loving arms and simply trust IT IS SETTLED by his son’s blood being shed on the cross. May each person finding their true self worth see their value from our Lord’s perspective and never settle from another area of unsettled roots. May God continue to mend your hearts and place Godly friends and a genuine Kingdom spouse into your life for His glory in Jesus name Amen!!!
Thank you so so much for your testimony. I grew up in a abusive completely unstable house and I repeated the cycle throughout my life. Never belonging, never wanted (even by my mother, always rejected…..I stuffed my emotions my whole life to the point that now just recently I shattered. I do believe God is real and that He is my Creator-Redeemer and Savior. I don’t know what tomorrow holds but He does hold tomorrow so I will keep holding on. I am in the process of separating from a spouse who was unfaithful the entire 26 years. Your story does have purpose. Thank you for courageously and transparently testifying, sharing your story. Life is real. Be encouraged sister. You have encouraged me today to keep moving.
Thank you for your transparency I went through a divorce 4 years ago I spent time getting to know the Father He’s healed me of so much I love myself now too I am happier than I’ve ever been God is now at the center and He is my everything 💃🏿♥️
Wow what a beautiful person !
God really used this to show me
How I’m verbally abusive to my spouse
Because I was abused verbally my entire
Life that it became normal to me 😢
Yay Gisselle! I really appreciate your transparency and courage to share your story. While we have many similarities in our stories we also have differences, however, I really connected with the essence of where you and God are right now. I find my self saying, "It's hard to articulate what I want to say except for 'I am living my best life and it's because it's what God is doing it me.'" And for those who don't know they won't know but for those who do know, they get it!! Again, thank you for sharing and God Bless You!
These testimony fellowship sessions are wonderful. We all have our testimony we share to help reveal our relationship with Jesus with others He leads us to. The Lord is loving beyond our understanding. That grace is the unmerited favor of Jesus toward us and He shows His love for us. This girls experience reminds me of some of my trials. We never know how deeply someone can hurt us until it happens. It is sometimes hard to believe how deeply He loves until we experience the reality. I went through a terror of a divorce. Life is a journey to our relationship with The Holy Spirit, Jesus and God The Father.
Ohh I've experienced it all verbal abuse, domestic violence, cheating, lust, heartbreak, fornication..and it goes both ways.. I've learned to not ever pay evil for evil. All with same man. Many times of course divorce came to mind on both sides, and one thing we learned through out this journey is we would have never made it if Jesus wasn't the center of our marriage...It really takes two to tango. One thing I learned before you get married when you find someone is, make sure you meet their family to see what your getting yourself into.. we all have some type of dysfunction in our families... And don't ever blame yourself for your ex-spouse being unfaithful. Its something he struggle with not "you". For someone to go out of their marriage to find comfort elsewhere is plain oh "Selfish".. You are beautiful and wonderfully made, watch God bless you with someone who will respect you and love you through your flaws... Blessings ❤️🙏
Thank you for sharing your story…it reminds me of the verse that’s says he first loves you …and how we need to fall in love with him first! God bless 🙏🏽
Amen!
I started getting closer to God and now my husband is drifting from me . God know what he is doing if we just trust in him. God knows i don't deserve the verbal abuse to me and my children. Please pray for me and my children I would appreciate it.
Powerful testimony! Glory to God for getting you through your trials and is still with you. I married my high school sweet heart and our relationship went downhill and on and off. I thought separation would help us but that’s when God started revealing to me what was going on that I was blinded by for so long. I would pray for his salvation and pray that what ever was in the dark would come to light and it did. I had to start over to with our son and it was a process cause I was with him since I was 13 and he was 15 and i officially had enough the year of 2019 our daughter was born. Glory to God that me and my children have been so free since then and blessed. We’ve been divorced 3/4 yrs now and we still praying for him. Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purpose. Amen!
I loved your testimony Sis!!
your testimony reminded me of my own. I hated my self and I also was verbally abusive to my ex husband. God healed me from old trauma just like you. you were looking for a word to describe how u feel, I would say peace✌️
God bless you and may your testimony touch many like it did to me.
Being separated from my husband; I seek GOD even more. I am at a place where GOD not only showed me me. No I didn’t deserve any of what I went through. But in the brilliance of GOD, it was for my good. It may hurt, it may not feel good, but it is for my good.
Wow! Your testimony mirrors my own testimony! I know that was hard sharing, but am so grateful you shared it . Praise God Our Father is such a good good Father 🥰✝️
PraiseGod !
Her testimony is just like minds & I accept lord Jesus as my salvation & savior because I got out of a bad relationship where I was used & manipulated but blinded by lust & love. God saved me from a broken heart & I want to share my testimony as well 🙏 glory to his name
I’m going thru a lot right now on my marriage I prayed God to helped both of us. I’m trying my best praying 🙏 and asking God for his mercy , but he knows the best if my marriage won’t work for good then I would have to move on , but if he wants to change or recognize the only one who can help us is God then we can continue without God we are nothing and our marriage would destroy anytime…😢😢😢 God is good and I know he would do what is best for us …
Sharing this.
Know it’s reaching who it needs to reach.
Thank you.
For living through all this. And sharing what you earned to learn through it. Sharing the hope of stability God provides.
So much wisdom in one short video! Grateful so grateful - not that you had to go through this but that you aren’t afraid to share the experience to inspire hope and change for others still struggling.
Keep up the great work. May God keep helping you accomplish for His Kingdom. May your reward be as great in Heaven.
😭🤍 I feel you in your testimony it’s like your telling my exact story. God is definitely working on pruning our vineyards because the devil is also working on killing and destroying what was meant to be good. Psalms 37:23-24
Your story really resígnated with me. God has blocked men in my life because I used to use them to feel whole. But I’m whole know, I know he’s with me and working on me after an abusive relationship then being abandoned with 3 kids, I had to live with my kids in family member home in a bedroom. I been single healing for over 10 years. God always provided for me and kept me going and even after deep depression has healed me and blessed my.
Firstly, I just want to say God bless you and thank you so much for sharing your testimony.
I’m currently going through a divorce and have 3 children, 2 as a result of the marriage.
I can relate to your testimony from start to finish with a couple of differences.
Going through abuse as a child, having different family members and strangers entering in and out of my home from childhood into adulthood, and having an absentee dad, really shaped my perception of what love was.
I’ve always felt different growing up, and stood out even in school whether I was talked about or admired for my talents.
Church was in the picture, but it was casual.
We didn’t wholeheartedly practice what we heard consistently.
I’ve had many disappointments in relationships, and all the while, I had no idea how to tap into healing the trauma that I was carrying.
I just kept going and living life.
My marriage was a like a dream come true. We courted for 3 years, no sex, had premarital counseling, and he seemed to be on board with accepting my daughter who also had an absentee dad.
It was bliss for the first year until one day I picked up his phone. It was a message that indicated a hidden drug habit. I felt so betrayed because I wondered how he could have kept this hidden for so long. We courted long distance so that’s probably why I didn’t notice it. We casually smoked marijuana together which I no longer do now, but that was all I knew of.
Long story short, other issues arose, constant lies, stealing, money issues and the fear of not having enough of it, and being left alone to raise the kids while he went off to rehab or was put out the home.
I was suffering in silence. I had this idea that you don’t tell folks your business when you’re married.
I didn’t want to shame him. I never told his parents either. Well, what is hidden always comes to the light eventually. We tried counseling, prayer, coming up with our own plans to fix our marriage, but it was never consistent. I was depressed, and buried myself in raising the kids, school, and starting a business.
My mom resented him and his mother rejected me because she blindly took his side without considering what I had been going through.
Through it all though, the breakdown of my marriage has strengthened my relationship with the Lord like never before. I’m totally having to depend on Him and His guidance to take care of me and the children.
The love He has surrounded us with is beyond words! He has replaced beauty for ashes! Joy for mourning even in the low moments! I have so much to be grateful for.
Even through the rejection, hurt, and confusion, if we cling to the Lord, He will strengthen you in such a way that you can get through whatever you need to!
May the Lord continue to show Himself mighty in your lives and may you grow closer and stronger in your walk with Him.
God bless this channel as well💯🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️🌎
Wish I can chat to you I really relate
Thank u sister for sharing your story ,u r more than a conqueror, keep the faith ,Jesus will never abandon or mistreat u n your kids ,u can trust Him ,
Giselle, what an amazing woman of God you are. Your testimony is powerful. Glory to God. It strengthened me in my spirit to continue being encouraged in this very difficult season I'm in. Thank you, Sister for sharing. May the Lord restore to you double what the enemy has stolen and more.
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Thank you for sharing your testimony✝️
I have been through the same journey, in 2020 - to the point where I had to keep praying out loud, hearing that I am not enough or will never measure up, and He remind me of who I am, cause I need to know.
It has been 2 years and can agree with you, we are truly free once we admit that we have fault.
But I also know now that God had other plans for me as I wanted for myself and He has blessed me with so much more. But it took hard work and leaving the past, hurt, disappointment and rejection behind to become the woman He intended from the beginning.
I will pray for you and knowing that YOU are His Beloved,
Strongs beautiful lady❤️
What a brave brave brave soul. Please, God - Jesus, Messiah, bless this woman at least tenfold for her courageous testimony. For encouraging us em despite all she has been through to follow You, Lord, and to gain light of wisdom from the understanding she has gained. Thank you! Bless you all who contributed to this report. I hope it leads to 7 generations of successes for this lady’s lineage and all involved in making this artful inspiration. Thank you.
This made me feel less alone. I still want to get back with my kids' dad even it is clearly unsafe and unwise, and so I prayed for and hoped for signs that he would change so I could get back with him.... Hearing you talk about how you tried to reconcile without God involved really impacted me. I now have a relief that I can let go and release my wants and needs to God's plan. I feel so sad that I can't fix it but just like you said I can know he is right there with me. Also sidenote your voice is AMAZING to listen to! You are a beautiful woman of God!
Kallie your everywhere. I seen u on Lisa Beveres too lol
Put God 1 make him your number one and teach your kids about loving God with all there hearts, souls, mind and strength thats all you need. And when God decides to give you true love he will but honestly God is the true love you don't need more you have your children as well
Powerful testimony Giselle our Lives once crossed paths in the past. You tried to bring God into my Life but I wasn’t ready. It’s remarkable how today I’m a different man and God is my foundation. I pray this message finds you some how and I want to say sorry and Thank you for how things were left. I will keep you in my prayers and God Bless you. 🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽
It sound as though that she had codependent issues due to the trauma that she encountered in childhood, and the bullying that she endured in childhood. I didn't even know she was going to mention codependency. I had to learn these things myself. Channels like these helped with my healing, delivering, renewing, and transformation process. And I choose to praise, honor, magnify, glorify, and adore GOD because of it. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. AMEN.
Praise GOD, so she is half way there, her testimony is not complete, there is hope for repentance and restoration in her marriage. i too had to go through something similar where GOD used that to draw me close to HIM, i too had to learn to be content with GOD and Christ and put HIM first, as well as learn ways i needed to change. now that we are growing in the LORD we keep growing as HE prepares us to be better wives when our marriages are restored. GOD showed me in a dream HE would restore. All Things Are Possible With GOD, keep going and have Faith!!! GOD Bless
I am going through a spiritual separation and I can only rely God to heal me. Your testimony hits home ❤ thank you and God bless
You’re a beautiful woman and I’m not just saying that to be nice , in two years you will meet the love of your life. The true love of your life. And he will love you with your big bossy mouth and everything and you will stop your verbal abuse because in the deep ness of your heart you will know that is not necessary with him. Gods plan is perfect. Be nice , be kind to everyone and smile, you have a beautiful smile.
great...
are u a prophet
Amen, God bless you Sister🙏💖My first husband broke my jaw and ribs, 2 very young children, then had a child a few years after with a man who promised we were getting married and going to have a life together then found out he was married and he disappeared, now years later my current husband just left 3 months ago out of nowhere and completely crushed me, 2 more very young children (2 years, and 9 month old)…I think he is definitely cheating, I have to keep reminding myself I have made it through worse, even when I feel like I can’t go on. My current husband and both ex’s are diagnosed sociopaths/psychopaths (ASPD)…I’m realizing through research the reasons I fall for the “love bombing” phase, and this has been a pattern throughout my life because of zero emotional connection with my mother. You really said it correctly when you said God has shown you that you can’t put your trust in man. I thought I was sent a new husband by God, but it was just deception and they were literally frauds. I had been completely single for many years so I thought I was being rewarded for not dating around and having hookups like everyone else I know, but rather being celibate. His ways are not our ways. Now I am focusing on my ministry, that my current estranged husband made me delete because he was very jealous, yes he was very emotionally abusive and accused me of cheating almost daily for 4 years. He was such a perfect gentleman at first, now that he’s gone everything has come to light, I got in touch with two of his exes and mothers of his children and they both told me he was physically abusive, used to choke and push them, drag them around the house by their arm, and extremely psychologically/emotionally abusive and unfaithful multiple times. I already knew he was in federal prison for five years for bank robbery, and went awol from the marine corp after less than a year. I should’ve known he had no concept of fidelity. Maybe TMI but just wanted to let you know your testimony has helped me, you are sooooo beautiful inside and out😍I will pray for you Sister, please pray for me and my children🙏💖ps I believe because I have seen, I died (NDE) and saw God and Jesus, I was not a believer when I died, you are so much more blessed for believing without seeing, it is ALL TRUE! Everything written in His Holy Word is True🥰🙏💖
Wow thank you so much for sharing this, I’m on the the beginning of a divorce I feel lost hopeless and I feel alone No knowing what to do, I been caring so much anger pain and insecurity I felt so broken through some many years , my only hope is God I don’t have nowhere to go just him, thank you for sharing this , I know why I’m watching this at the right moment of my life I know God put this testimony now for me , God bless you!!
I was just thinking yesterday that i wish people wouldve been burning to get love and a relationship from God like they do for wanting a husband or boyfriend badly.
Thank you for encouraging us with your testimony. Thank you Delafe team for doing God's work. Praise God for all His goodness and grace!
I am not sure this comment will ever get to you, but I wanted to relate to you the feeling you were having trouble describing. I always referred to it as relief, major relief. But I am not sure that is the right way to define it either. Maybe there is not a word that can describe that supernatural power appropriately? I so enjoyed your humbleness and openness. Your trials and God’s love have made you into an amazing human. There are several paths we can take when faced with these trials, and you are a beautiful example of what we can become and continue to grow towards. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Amen I feel u speaking to me cos our situations are almost alike and you and my name is Jenelle even our names are similar and I was feeling abit down today cos I also need to make the same decision and it's hard but God is using u and your testimony to help so many out there and if he's helped u and I know he will do the same for me cos I'm a living testimony if it hadn't been for him I would be out along time ago so yeah praise Jesus for what he's done for u and may he keep on doing it for u cos u know sharing his gospel for the world and I know my testimony will touch many out there to.. GOD BLESS
Im 31 and single thankyou for the testemonies of people who have share their stories about their marriages. It saves me from pains ,Glory to God ! Everything will be beautiful in his time.
I was married 27 years n he had an affair. She would call me n cuss me out, acted like she was the wife n I was the mistress. He would tell me he wanted to get back together but every x we tried God would show me that he was not going to leave her. He’d never been abusive with me until at this point. I had God in my life and He’s the one who told me he was cheating. He showed her to me n when I followed him to her apartment to see where he was going ( I had to see for myself) she looked exactly like God showed me, and sounded exactly like her.
God is good. How exactly did God showed you her? In a dream? A vision?
I got into a relationship with a man who had so many red flags. I even asked God if this was the man 4 me to show me. Instead he showed me red flags from the start. I continued the relationships ignoring the signs. After 2 yrs now with his child , God has told me again 2 leave him.. I'm in the process of letting go & it's so hard ACCEPTING the truth. God has been helping me see things as they are. Glory 2 God. Been sad, depressed, gained weight, got insecure & my confidence is crushed right now
@Elisa Hernandez I ignored all the red flags too. I didn’t ask God if he was the man for me. We had an unhealthy relationship from the beginning. Creating a soul tie with someone really makes you feel like you can’t live without a person. It’s awful. My husband was in a full blown meth addiction 3 months into our marriage. We went through years of ups and downs. I had my daughter in 2020 and left my husband in 2021. It got to the point where it was dangerous. God never intended for me to be married to him. Leaving was the healthiest decision for me and for my daughter. I’ve been going through the divorce for over a year but God has provided absolutely everything I need. Jesus is the only one I can trust with my heart!! He’s our healer!! Don’t give up!! ❤️
good interview, alot of youth or kids from broken family must take this as a fact, real truth and real lesson, you grew up in a broken and dysfunctional family, when you get to a new circle of life new family you have to leave the broken pattern of your family where it was, and adapt to the new life you going into, if not the toxic pattern that you bring from your broken and dysfunctional home will create chaos and problem in the new environment. so becareful out there
God has been working on me like He has been working through you.. I'm also going through a divorce and the way you explain how God has been in your life..I feel that is the way he has been in mine!!! You can't see him, maybe you can't hear him but he is there!!! I had the same moments with music.. can't explain it lol but God has brought me mini miracles through out my entire life!!! Thank you and God Bless you 🙏😇💛 we are soooo loved!!! I Pray that you have a happy and wonderful life you deserve that!!! Thank you again💛
GOD WILL GIVE YOU BEAUTY FOR YOUR ASHES. TRUST HIM. TRUST HIM. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.
I'm so happy for you beautiful woman for staying strong and keep going for so long,and still here to tell you'd story,I feel you and was in the same path,God's timing is the best still here living the best life that he blessed me with the best husband in the world and the Amazing children to put the smile back into my face,from all the heart breaking and all the bad decisions that I've been through all my life,God has purpose for everyone if you believe in him Stay blessed and stay strong keep going God bless you ❤ 🙏 ❤
I came across this, I am divorced now we both got saved while married . What I can say is we got to a place where we asked each other for forgiveness, it wasn’t all his fault I had not been the wife to him according to the word of God, but now after 6 years I found out he has stage 3 colon cancer and I pray God heals him but yet Gods will be done. What the woman said there was a lot of me in her story, but God was always there no matter what and I’m so thankful and grateful for that, and we have 2 beautiful daughters but 1 didn’t take the divorce well, and so much to get into to long but now I have to lay everything that has to do with our daughters in Gods hand and stop trying to fix it myself….
Wow!! I'm so grateful to hear that testimony. And also to hear what prayer can do!
I also been through hard times in my childhood until the age of 28. But I'm so grateful, that God is here to heal our hearts and make us new.
I really understand that people now could imagine your past cause of your smiling and encouragement. I also hear that people saying over me now! But we can encourage people now, cause we've been there and know how they feel and what they maybe needing and looking for. But I am so grateful, that we can have a relationship with God. Thank you so much for your Testimony!! God bless you so much!
Beautiful Testimony, so powerful! Thank you for sharing. God Bless🙏🙏
Amen, thank you for watching!
I absolutely love these testimonies. I love her testimony. She's blossoming into the Woman of The Most High that He made her to be. This is beautiful.A transformation like a caterpillar turning into a 🦋 butterfly. There's turning back.❤️
Thank you for sharing. My wife was verbally and physically abusive and I acted out with porn use and one time landed in jail bc I snapped back physically. Six months later we’ve been separated. We have a one year old. She’s now saying she will leave me if I slip up one more time with porn use. I have slipped up but haven’t told her. I’m trusting Gods mercy and grace and compassion. I have to figure out the way forward, it’s with God.
My heart goes to you, a lot of abusive ex husbands target women who have been through trauma so they can inflict more trauma on them. Glad you got out of a toxic relationship. Shame on the bullies who picked on you.
Very true! Out of all my sister I was targeted by my father he was always cruel to me but not them. He went as far as throwing my things and getting my mail!!!
nah
Husbands are a reflection of you..
toxic people = toxic people
(how many toxic boyfriends are there)
(women stop blaming the past for your problems)
(women stop bringing problems to the new relationship)
(stop the blaming game, you are a grown up with free will)
@@tommycityz6543It happened and it did a lot of emotional damage. There were some days I feared for my life. Never reported to the police because he was "family" tried to suicide more than twice because the abuse was so bad!!!
@@barbaraa9949 women choose bad men..
(there are studies to back it up)
(there are public interviews from women)
(so please take look deep inside your self)
fact- criminals are have more baby mothers.. than the average guy..
@@tommycityz6543 Men also blame their past for their abusive behavior as well. you need to go to Christ more my guy
I wish I'd had her wisdom at her age. I'm 63 now and this testimony would have helped me realize where my own hurt came from. I didn't know till I was 50. God bless.
God is my everything! He is my healer, my provider my friend. Just follow Him.❤🙏
I wish the host had thanked Giselle! Thank you Giselle for sharing your story and heart with us 🙏🏻. God is faithful. May you continue to be encouraged and surrounded by loving friends and family!
This one hit close to home!
I didn’t realize how much freedom one can get hearing the testimony of someone else. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. I was so blessed by this.
This hot home so much....I'm no longer sad because I grieved so much while still in the relationship..... I learned I am enough, I am loved and I am worth it and more!
this completely resonated with me thank you for sharing your story - through every step of surviving losing my home as a child and then my home again due to being cheated on as an adult, God has never let me fall. In the divorce I have been able to feel his arms around me through it all and I can feel that he has taken some of the pain or lessened it just to allow me to be able to survive. I love spending time with Him and will never put a person above Him ever again.
I had to keep rewinding this video because so many parts spoke to my spirit but I Love how mark @15:00 she went from sitting Indian style like a little kid on a mat to crossed legs like a woman. It was like knowing this next part changed the trajectory of the story! One of my favorite videos by far
Thank you for sharing this testimony ❣️
She is very articulate, and she actually saw herself and realized the Truth that God must be first even before family. I LOVE this 👍🏽🤗❤️
Praise God!!!!
Any prayer for my family and I would be greatly appreciated, my grandfather is going through health issues at the moment and the enemy is really trying to test my faith right now with a lot of things.
My dad taught me when I was only in second grade saying, Eula... grow to be a gentle woman of character. There are two things daddy hates. I asked...what is it Poppy? He said I hate a woman who smokes and a woman with a foul mouth. I listened. And it blessed my life.
Thankyou for sharing sister what an amazing story, God has to be first and everything else will come in place honestly ive been the unfaithful hisband like ive been the awful dreaded husband/father and i know it but i truly just needed Jesus and thats where i am at the moment im back with him and im putting him before my wife and family. Honestly my wife has been trying for 18months to get me back until she let me go and just serve Jesus, and put him first, I tell when she did that, thats when i realized that needed God more than anything else. Im serving Him now, he's my All. Praise God.
Wow, your story and testimony will bring light and set many captives free, I know talking about this must’ve not been easy at all, but I honor your bravery, strength and ultimate faith and trust in God who helped u to deliver this to us, thank you for this testimony, may the Lord bless you and keep you, may He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you, love u - your family in Christ
Amen
Amen 🙏 I tried to watch this video a while back but was interupted and didn't finish it. For some reason I took it as I wasn't supposed to watch it...but then today I came across the channel again and I remembered this video and for some reason I didn't feel that strongly about not watching it so I did and I just started crying when He said what can you tell women who may be going through the divorce it was as if God spoke thru hear to reach me because my story is similar I forced and thought I was the only one who had control of my life and never gave God 1000% control and because of that I'm reaping what I sowed but so happy to know he reassured me speaking thru this woman for me to hear that he is with me thru the storms and has never left my side🤗
Sisters and brothers this not only applies to divorce this applies in everyday life.
Yep
I feel EDIFIED by this testimony. Hearing this woman speak in complete sincerity and owning up to the things that she has done wrong and being vulnerable about her past. And also glorifying God because he is the one who heals her and has made her rich in love and grace. It really made me feel something good inside
I can’t wait until I get to the point where I love myself….
The sad truth is trama. Living sinful hits harder due to experience of trama. It's the TRUTH. The devil is a LIAR. I went through it. I used to not love myself I felt I didn't matter, I was always struggling withy weight skinny, chubby, drugs, drinking, smoking etc but after The Lord changed me He started showing me His unconditional love and taught me that I'm me, there's noone like me, and He taught me to Love myself for who He sees me not others. Praise Jesus ❤️just remember your special and perfect in God's image and your beautiful in His creation and that there's NOONE LIKE YOU. Once you accept that and understand this, and don't go get validation from others on who you should be, you will love yourself like He loves you and that's what matters the most, JESUS and how He sees you. God is our Father He is all we need❤️🌻
Your a Daughter of God If u could only see the way God sees you you would have a revelation of God's love. I just receieve Jesus ever day. He is the bread of life that WE must eat every day. And drink his blood.. bless up ur loved
You are strong because of Christ who lives in you. He will renew your strength and never forsake you. I understand the mind you are in right now, it hurts. But I promise when you give it to God…he will turn the bad for good.
Repent and believe the Gospel and be converted
Truth is no one has the SPIRIT of GOD in them unless they are born again.
Give your live totally to JESUS and ask God to baptize you with the Holy Ghost in JESUS NAME .
Then you can have a real true intimate relationship with Him🙏♥️and you'll have POWER, love, joy peace and more!!!
it's all in the Bible
LL amen!
This was a recent realization for me too coming from a verbally abusive home that people don’t yell at each other everyday or argue about something everyday. I’m going through proverbs learning all the wisdom I didn’t see. I feel so loved and realize I always had a loving father I just had to turn to him! ❤️
WOW. Learning not to argue just to argue because it's all we know. Lord thank you.