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🚨 BUCKLE UP, FOLKS! 🚨 It's your girl, Charlotte Dobre, and today we're diving headfirst into a relationship rollercoaster that's so wild, it made its way to the sacred halls of AITA - "Am I The A**hole?" You thought your love life was crazy? Think again! 💑🎢
😱 Join me as we unravel the jaw-dropping saga of a love affair gone haywire, featuring plot twists that even Hollywood scriptwriters couldn't make up. We're talking cheating scandals, secret rendezvous, and drama that'll have you clutching your pearls! 💔🍿
🕵️♀️ We'll break down the details, from the questionable text messages to the surprise visits that turned this relationship into a full-blown daytime soap opera. Because who needs a reality TV show when you've got Reddit's AITA? 🕵️♂️📱
👀 Spoiler alert: Not all is fair in love and war, and our brave Redditor is here to spill the tea on whether they're the villain or the victim in this real-life telenovela. Get ready for a plot twist that'll leave you questioning everything you thought you knew about relationships! ☕😲
💅 But fear not, my darlings! In the midst of the chaos, we'll uncover the silver linings - the epic comebacks, the ultimate revenge plans, and the newfound freedom that rises from the ashes of a love gone awry. Because who needs a toxic relationship when you can have a drama-free life? 💁♀️🌈
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I feel like a wife calling her husband a narcissist simply because he wants to protect his children -- is an extreme form of gaslighting 💁🏻♀️
Yeah, that and a massive amount of projection.
Absolutely. The gaslighting and mental gymnastics are on a WHOLE other level. (My ex is a narc and his mom is too.)
Gaslighting, playing the victim as a defence mechanism, and complete denial... YES, all of the above.
It's the latest misused psychological term the internet loves to throw around
Yeah, his request to keep the kids out of it is completely understandable. Her attacking him like that is ridiculous.
Even if someone is treating you, NEVER EVER order what you can't pay for yourself
Exactly. What if the wallet or purse is stolen?what if they have a card issue or aren't good with their money and can't pay?
It is always a good idea to keep an emergency 20 or like me, hundred in your purse or shoe. Or bra. Just in case.
If my wallet is taken, I lose everything. So I have a copy of my license and I keep that and my my SS card, birth cert at home in the safe. Cause I have had these issues before. Lol
It took forever to do anything cause my mom didn't have my birth cert. So I had to get a new one cause the hospital had lost who I was!!. Then ss had issues with me getting a new one even though you are supposed to be able to replace it twice in your life!
Learned that lesson worst way possible.
You are right. DO NOT ORDER SOMETHING EXPENSIVE IF IT IS A TREAT
Exactly! I took a. Friend out to eat and made it so I could cover both of us even in case her payday was covering rent and food or activities (I myself didn't have these things to pay for)
Yes. I was on the guy's side at first since she is on the nutty side of vegetarian but ordering an expensive item that he can't even afford is a dick move. I would say they are both the a-holes.
The last husband's suggestion of desert first & dinner after was so sweet & thoughtful. That was so messed up.
I agree, the woman's assistance on "a more accommodating menu" only works if its more than one person and/or the kids didn't like anything on the menu at his chosen place! Instead, because he didn't fall in line, she humiliated him in front of all the people he loves inc his parents!
My partner and I have different tastes in some foods, with him loving shellfish and me being allergic to it, us both loving steak but me preferring chicken and him lamb. Therefore we chose restaurants with a variety of food. However, on his bday he gets to pick what we eat! On Valentines I cooked him tempura shrimp for his starter!
On my bday we had hunters chicken!
As Queen Charlotte states "It's not about you" lol
Yes, he really tried to compromise. I don't understand why she couldn't just eat beforehand. I've done that in the past. She's really just selfish.
As a picky eater, I would like to say that the wife who didn't want to go to her husband's celebration was absolutely TA. You order sides or apps for your meal or figure out something. Never let YOUR food issues be a problem for the people you love
My SIL used to be a picky eater. She would order a plain broiled chicken breast and a simple green salad when we went out to dinner. I never ever heard a restaurant refuse to prepare this simple meal. Mrs. Party Pooper Picky Eater could have done the same and not ruined an important celebration.
We used to go out to lunch for each person's birthday in our work group. They got to pick the restaurant and our supervisor paid for their lunch, then we all pitched in to buy his lunch on his birthday. As a picky eater with certain digestive issues, there were a couple of restaurants where I couldn't eat off the menu. But I still went along and ordered a soft drink, and either took a protein bar or got a plain salad if available. The point was to celebrate the co-worker's birthday at their favorite place and enjoy our time together away from work - not whether I could eat there or not.
I’m also super picky and I often eat at home beforehand or after and just go for social reasons like it’s my issue, not everyone else’s (unless it’s an all you can eat kinda thing, then I wouldn’t go)
fr as a veeeeery picky eater i would just deal with it or eat sides..
This depends on the environment. If you're gonna get shat on or called out for your "food issues" then why would you want to go? But otherwise just get a side or something there you'll be OK with eating
Kids in content: until you’ve sat on a FedeRaL jury and had to view ThOusAndS of child images stolen from people who “don’t mind” having their kids on social media (and converted to p0rN images)…you don’t know how horrible people can turn YOUR CHILD into a commodity for horrible people. I cried myself to sleep every night of that jury service and still do sometimes. You can’t UNSEE that stuff. Please, I’m begging you…keep your kids off social media!
I never even knew that was a thing 😢 that’s so scary!
that is nothing. one can see gruesome accidents, murders and acts of torture easily with one google search. fake porn is just fake porn. even on youtube you can find terrible stuff like animals suffering.
I’m sure that was difficult. Thank you for your service in the legal system, and for warning others.
@@jesclifford88,
A Canadian woman was hired to do some "new mother breast feeding videos"... she stipulated she will agree to do that so long as those videos were never released on the internet. She failed to read the contract she signed, as she presumed the conditions she stipulated were included. Years later she decides to google her kid's name... and she finds herself and her child in one of "those" videos.
She was distraught and sues the company for breach of contract. When they show the contract she signed didn't have any of her provisions in it... but she did have a lot of correspondence with said company mentioning how she'll refuse if the videos would be placed online... she won the case with undisclosed monetary award... but she just can't _unsee_ the videos of her and her daughter... She can only report them... but there is nothing she can do about it. Her daughter is probably, going to find one of those videos in the future, if she already hasn't...
It's also why it's "evidence of child abuse" if a person modifies images of a child in a way to make them... "appealing". Even photoshopping the face of a child on an adult model's head is "evidence of child abuse" in many, many jurisdictions.
This type of perspective is my thought exactly. People are crazy and disgusting; parents need to be more careful
The first husband was totally in the right. He was not an A-hole, he was being a responsible father and man. I’m all for going into the CZcams business but I agree with the husband on keeping their children out of it. First of all, kids cannot give consent. And most of all, their safety would be put in jeopardy because the internet is a scary place. There’s been so many kids who’ve gotten kidnapped because of their faces being on the internet. The husband told the wife not to include their kids in her content and she did it anyway. I would probably urge the husband to reconsider being married to her because if she doesn’t care about the safety of her kids, she’s not the kind of person that I would want to be with.
Well said, totally agree. I hate children being used for likes and the father was definitely doing what was in their best interest 💜
So hy did
He is being the adult
All. Of. This!
It's so sick but ai can and is being used to lift images/voices etc of people from social media and creating p0rn. Including with innocent little children. It's vile.
The not liking the food at the restaurant one: I had gastroparesis and pancreatitis and couldn’t eat solid food for over a year - I made sure all my friends knew I still wanted to be invited to all the food-related things and I’d be content with juice and ice cream. There’s so much more than FOOD that goes on at meals with friends and family - who would want to miss out on that?!
Right I have gp too and I always at least try to eat something soft during my flares even if it isn’t going to stay down just to make an attempt and to get out with the homies 🦥🥳 Like sometimes I even bring those fruit purée pouches with me to enjoy with my friends lol
I have gastroparesis too! And I did the same. Some times I couldn't make a thing, some times I could only eat a little, and some times I could eat. But that was something I worried about not them
Being a mom I NEVER post my kids online, I'll privately send pictures to family. I 100% agree with the dad in the first story.
Same here.
How does your family go about it? I am not pregnant yet, if i do have the luck to have a baby, i am scared even of sending photos because my mothers posts EVERYTHING on her Facebook and accepts everyone as friends on fb... I talked with her many times about privacy and consent but she just waves it away and calls me paranoid
@matematicarka they know I don't want the kids posted and they are really good about it!
@matematicarka I think you have to respectfully explain that not posting to any social media is a hard line, and that you will absolutely not allow any photos of your children online. Gently, respectfully, but she has to understand that is your line as the PARENT and that she has to respect your wishes as the mom. Also work it out with your husband to make sure you’re on the same page.
@matematicarka maybe also make it a relationship-breaker. No respect, no photos.
I really expected backlash from my social media obsessed family members. But, to my knowledge, they've been surprisingly reapectful.
1st story: Divorce her and go for full custody of kids where she only has access under supervision to ensure they arent filmed.
And luckily she has handed him all the evidence he needs in the court proceedings on a silver platter. He just needs to go through her social media and collect all her videos of their kids before she can delete them so he can use them later! He better hurry or he'll have no evidence.
Filming a young girl without clothing is absolutely disgusting. There are pedophiles on the internet. Those people might find out where your children live. Family content is disgusting.
@@janejones7638 Even worse than knowing where you live, they can learn where your kids go to school as well as enough personal info to convince the kids that they are a friend who was last minute asked to pick them up
I totally completely get what you're saying but sadly it's not that easy...
That will never be allowed over making video content be realistic
2nd story: I'm vegetarian but I have no problem paying for other's people's meals even if they're non-veg but everyone has different morals regarding this. The point is that she made her stance clear and he failed to check to see if she'd make an exception to her rule for his birthday, got the most expensive thing on the menu knowing he couldn't pay for it and then stole from the restaurant and refused to pay. NTA but it does sound like they 're not meant to be together if their values are that different.
I would say both are just young and dumb, as we all were before we realized we don’t know everything. It is easy to be idealistic when there is 0 obligations, which is why her boundary is fine. This is not necessarily a boundary she will be able to maintain in a long term relationship with a meat eater, speaking from adult experience with comingled funds and joint bills.
I think they both at A-holes. He shouldn't have expected an expensive free meal and she shouldn't refuse to pay for a meal just because it has meat. I find behavior like that selfish and gross. It's like somebody who is Christian saying they refuse to associate with anybody other than Christian or somebody white dating they won't be friends with other races. You don't have to agree with something to believe everybody has their individual rights. And clearly he didn't mind paying for her meals even if he wasn't vegetarian. So yeah, both are a-holes. But as they are young, hopefully they'll mature as they get older.
@@kaylapounds1359I don't agree with your analogy. When you refuse to pay for meat, its your concern only (except when your BF try to force your hand). Refusing friendship because of prejudices hurts people.
No meat was hurt in the process.
@@kaylapounds1359 It is a stupid comparison. I am against the killing of animals for anyone's tastebuds so i would be a hypocrite if i would pay for meat for someone else. They can choose any other option, there are 80.000 edible plants but people only want to choose 5 different animals on their plate? then pay for it yourself. It is like saying i am against drugs use but i would pay for someone else to use drugs. Her mistake was dating someone who eats meat because they can be whining babys if they go one meal without it.
@kaylapounds1359
Except it's not like that at all. She happily hanging around with people that eat meat (her boyfriend), she's just refusing to buy them the meat.
Him doing what he did is like a muslim boyfriend trying to force their hindu girlfriend to give money to his mosque (muslim church) because 'it's his birthday', storming off when she wouldn't and then tried to claim 'she made him look bad' afterwards.
He chose the meal knowing her stance on the matter, he tried to manipulate her into paying for something she is morally against (the slaughter of animals), left her there to try and manipulate her into paying (again) then threw a hissy fit when she didn't.
That's not even mentioning him purposefully choosing the most expensive thing on the menu thinking she would pay for it. He's a complete asshole, she's did nothing wrong and she deserves better.
The last story made me feel so bad for the husband, my dad did the same thing for my master's degree celebration and it sucked so bad, I couldn't even feel good about accomplishing something because he was annoyed about the place I chose, we ended up not going and I still haven't celebrated my degree 🤷🏻♀️
Forget him, pick some people you love who want to celebrate and do it now, even if it's been years. Reclaim that experience. And don't invite him. If he finds out later and asks why, tell him straight that this was to replace the celebration he ruined. It's not easy with parents, but while we don't have to say it in the harshest way possible we do need to be able to tell them when their behaviour hurts us and what the consequences are before we can have a healthy adult relationship with them. And in the meantime, reclaim the experiences and make new memories, I don't think you'll regret it!
Here's a digital cake for your accomplishments! 🎂congrats on your degree and i hope you find a way to celebrate it somehow.
Congratulations on your degree!
The wife sucks and your dad sucks. Congratulations on your degree.
Congrats, boo!! let’s celebrate with cake and champagne!! 🎂🍰🥂🥂🥂🥂
My dad use to plan a party for my mom for her birthday even though she didn’t want one, because she knew he would just invite his friends and none of hers. They’d also all get drunk and my mom was stuck doing all the cooking and taking care of us 4 kids with a bunch of drunk adults on her birthday. All she wanted was a birthday with her family with a night off with my dad actually being a parent and a well thought out gift.
Your poor mom.
The fact she doesn’t even blur or cover their faces… SHE sounds like the narcissist. Take the kids and RUN because she WILL exploit them for all the Pennie’s she can grasp
Yes! And these parents will do anything for clicks.
My mom had a blog when I was a kid, and recently a picture of me in high school was used in a reel made by someone I don't know. The reel went viral and was seen by millions of people. The picture was from over a decade ago, and I didn't even know it existed. It was very disconcerting to learn it was being used in that way and shows up easy on Google and Pinterest.
I don't have kids yet, but I won't show them on my social media without their consent. I don't even post pictures of my husband without his consent because he is more private than I am.
Wow! That is so *narcissistic* of you for being considerate of other people's feelings and desire to remain private citizens and being aware of all the bad people on the Internet.
/sarcasm
I am sorry you had to go through something like that. It's such a big invasion of your privacy. I do NOT post about my daughter. My mom posts a lot on her Facebook and even just that really frustrates me. But at least hers is all private for only her family and close friends. Even then it makes me uncomfortable. I don't need to put a bunch of pictures and posts online to feel like I'm a good mother. I know I am. I have truly NEVER understood society's intense need for affirmations from complete strangers the way they do now days. It's extremely unhealthy for sure. I wish you and yours the absolute best! 💖😊
That’s what I’d be worried about too. Someone using a photo or video of your kids for their own purposes and the kids seeing it years later. Or someone using photos/videos of kids to make a deepfake. It’s creepy and dangerous. I feel bad for all these kids used by their parents on those stupid “family” channels - I just think it’s wrong.
While it’s some of our dream to become a meme, it’s often a plain nightmare. So sorry for you friend ❤
This is like the building blocks of memes. 😭 Sadly
"Stuff that you put on social media never, ever, ever goes away."
This is exactly why my brother refuses to share photos of my nephew online. He says that if my nephew gets to 21 and doesn't want his baby photos online, that even if he deletes them they'll still be out there online somewhere.
There's something really wholesome and restores my faith in humanity when an OP admits they are in fact the AH and apologizes for their mistake. We love to see the growth ❤
My mother is allergic to peanuts, corn, soy, and sesame but she still went to the American style Chinese buffet that was my sister's pick for her graduation party. Mom literally couldn't eat anything but a green salad with no dressing, but she still showed up and supported my sister. Eating something at home before going to a place with limited options is something most people with food allergies get used to doing, the fact that this lady with NO allergies wouldn't even consider it says something about her.
EDIT: I'm glad in the end she saw the error of her ways, but she seriously owes her in-laws an apology since it was *their* treat to *their* son that she ruined with her stubbornness. Imagine expecting to have a nice dinner with your son and his family to celebrate his promotion at work, just to get there to find your son distraught because his wife didn't bother to come. Imagine having to get all your food to go and spending time in the parking lot visiting your grandkids because they keep asking where their mom is and why she's not with them. If I was them I'd be livid at her.
Different allergies, but same. The point is spending time with people, not the food itself. You can spend an hour or two putting someone else first, good grief.
Totally! I'm so incredibly allergic to shellfish that I jokingly say that if I ever get real depressed, "I'll just lick a shrimp." Still go wherever the one who is being celebrated wants because I don't have to eat hot/cooked food at every meal. Salads/drinks/visiting for the meal time are all perfect for some occasions. 🍸😊
I don't have allergies but I am a picky eater. Granted, I could have had the steak in this case but when I go somewhere that I don't know what food is being served(like a party) I eat enough in advanced that I'm not starving but still have room in case there's something I will eat. Most people in my life know this about me and appreciate the fact that I don't try to make shit all about me.
YES. I have sat around watching other people eat bc of pickiness and allergies but I still went to spend time with the people I care about.
This woman is developmentally stuck at 5. I feel bad for her husband and children.
The person in the last story was absolutely the AH, and I LOVE when people can come to AITA seeking genuine advice. She listened to the comments and now is not only apologizing but trying to change course! That's what's necessary! Hooray!!!
Growth is a beautiful thing. I surely have been told that I was indeed the ah a few times and it changed my life for the better. I even had a girl tell me that calling her the ah made her realize she was. And I felt so bad that I had said it aloud. Truth saves 😅❤
Still to little to late but it’s a start
It is when people actually listen to others advice that's where reddit thing is a good outlet to help others get perspective on what's going on and can't see they're right or wrong
That heifer only pulled her horns in because of outside pressure, small wonder she dislikes steak; being so closely related! Yes I know I am being harsh but she deserves it. Who ruins their hard working partners celebration because the reward for him didn't suit her taste.( if we believe that's the real reason.) She wants all the glory and attention and can't cope when it's not all about her. 1000$ says the whole making up for being a diva is b.s.! I hope that poor guy clues in and RUNS FAR AND FAST.
@@bevmaxwell3016BIG time agree with this! If a grown woman “suddenly” realizes she’s an AH only because Reddit told her so - RUN. GTFO. She’ll NEVER change. The entire marriage MUST be a strain.
I can’t imagine how many times the picky eating wife made her kids go to a place where they didn’t like the food just because they were children and didn’t have a choice and she couldn’t even do it for her husband.
If my husband refused to go out and celebrate a huge achievement of mine, because he “didn’t want to”- I would cry. That’s so sad for the husband
I love how the guy who racks up the bill, orders the most expensive steak (which, after a year of dating, I'm sure he knows her thoughts on paying for meat), and then to get his way storms off and LEAVES the restaurant, tells HER to stop being selfish and grow up. And now it's her fault he can't go back to his favorite restaurant. I hope she runs very far away from this guy. He also just assumed she would pay.
I think they both suck but he sucks more. They’re very young and I hope they’re not together anymore
He didn’t even know if she could afford it beforehand. I would never order the most expensive item just because it’s my birthday. He’s the selfish a-hole.
Apparently he doesn't know that it's not selfish to do what you want to do. But it IS selfish to make someone do what you want them to do. He's the AH. Run gurl run!
The first husband was ABSOLUTELY IN THE RIGHT for requesting that his wife not put their children in her "LOOK AT ME" CZcams videos. The fact that she told her husband that SHE WOULD NOT show their children's faces and then put them in every single one of her videos behind his back, tells me that she cares about HER OWN wants and needs only, and couldn't care less about her husband's opinion or her children's safety.
Even not factoring the long-term issues that raising your kids publicly online can bring, they are HIS kids too, and he should have a say in major decisions that involve them. He said he didn't want that for his kids, she said 'no problem' and then did it anyway behind his back and played the victim when she got caught. That's a HUGE breach of trust and I hope he gets the kids in the inevitable divorce.
This woman - and many more - gives off a “The Devil Went down to Georgia (Charlie Daniels) about YouTubing.
The channel becomes the master. The creator cares only about subs and followers. It’s as evil as a drug for some.
Bottom line is, the relationship(s) become entirely secondary to the glam.
100% this is a huge breach of trust. And the fact that she's fine with her enabling "friends" trashing one of the people she supposedly loves most in life - sheesh, who's the narcissist here? Hope he divorced and got full custody, there's no coming back from that sort of behavior
I'm neurodivergent so I have a big thing about food textures and have some food intolerances/allergies which adds to the difficulty of food for me and that last story made me uncomfy. Even with texture sensitivities and the food intolerances/allergies I have always found something at a restaurant that I can eat if its important to someone I care about.
Similar here, i don't know if i'm ND, but i do have problems with textures ever since i was little, and now i also have some dietary restrictions due to IBS and insulin issues - and i was always able to find something on the menu, at least something more than a side salad
Same for me.
If we’re going out to eat and it’s, like, a big deal celebration, either I find a way to make it work (eat before, or after, or ask to try bites from everyone else’s dishes- my family, we do have that kind of relationship where sharing food at restaurants is totally normal) or, worst case scenario, I’ll say I have a migraine (which I do get frequently, so wouldn’t necessarily be lying), tell everyone else to have fun, and either treat the person to something at a later date, or send a special card.
Like, there’s ways to make it work, especially when you put their feelings first
The 2nd story : he could always return to the restaurant and pay the remainder of the bill.
The last story, so she ends up taking him to the restaurant? Perhaps she was making a big deal and drama to avoid the in laws …..
Not wanting to go to husband's celebration because she didn't like the food is BS! I'm allergic to shellfish, but sometimes I go to Red Lobster for my husband with him because he loves shellfish. We just grab me something to eat on the way home. The world is a compromise. Not everything has to revolve around you!
Yeah I am too any my family decided to not eat shellfish. Although, I have chosen a restaurant that all we can eat even if it's my favorite place was not on the table. As a picky eater it's a huge compromise. It's about everyone even if it's a birthday. Also I can not sit there and have people eat and not eat myself. I'll literally get sick.
Same. I have dietary requirements, and I happily go to places where I can't eat so I can spend time with people. I eat before if I need to, seeing people is more important to me
Yeah I don't eat meat and I'll go anywhere and just eat my own snacks I brought or eat whatever side can have just to not be rude.
The smell of seafood literally makes me want to throw up but I'll gladly go to a nice seafood restaurant with my husband for our anniversary or his birthday and order the ONE chicken dish on the menu and suffer through the smell because I know he absolutely LOVES seafood and won't eat it at home because he knows I hate the smell of seafood cooking and it makes me gag. It's all about compromise.
I have many food intolerances and am a "picky eater" (not in love with that term, but it's our social standard). It does kind of feel weird to ask the kitchen for a specific thing if there's nothing exact on the menu for you, but good grief lady, suck it up! Also, her use of "could" is what really gets to me. She 100% "could" figure out something to eat there! Stop at Burger King on the way home if what you did eat wasn't enough.
So... the boyfriend assumes his gf is going to pay his bill without asking for it, does the most childish trick to not pay the bill and throws a tantrum on her because he tried to scam you into paying for his meal???
And the girlfriend told him she will not pay for meat. He tried to make her give up her boundaries. Huge red flag.
@@loewinand in all fairness, wine isn’t vegetarian so she could’ve not paid for that as well.
The fact alone, that he chose the most expensive item on the menu, when he thought it was on her, is a deal breaker for me. At least in this context. If you're dating someone who makes big bucks and really wants to treat you...sure. Go ahead and order that fancy steak or whatever. But at that age and with her being even younger then him? I mean, they're both obviously not struggling financially, but it's still taking advantage. If someone kindly invites you for your birthday and unless it's specifically stated, that 'money is no issue', you order something in the same price range as them and that includes beverages.
I would *never* order wine (never mind a whole bottle just for myself), if the other person pays, but doesn't partake in drinking alcohol.
Being invited does not mean, you can now rob the other person blind!
how fucking childish is it to refuse to spend your money on meat for someone else.....specifically your SO; how the fuck does she think thats going to work in the long term?
I think she's kind of an asshole. When it's someone's birthday dinner I always take the bill. In my family it's just common courtesy. The person gets to pick where they go and they get to order whatever they want. My dude has more money than me, but I still took him to a very expensive steakhouse for his birthday and of course paid.
Wow, I gotta admit I wasn’t expecting the last update. Good for her for being able to take what the AITAH verdict was and being able to try to change or address the wrong. I give her props for that. It seems rare 😅
I think if she changed her stance on buying meat for his birthday would make him try and push boundaries and see how much more he can get you do purchase it. I’m proud of her for standing up for her values.
Yeah this exactly! I was thinking the same thing
Story #1 The father is doing what he's supposed to do as a father, protect his children. Not an A hole or narcissist.
Charlotte: "HI mamas!"
My 10 month old who's learning the whole talking and walking thing:
*stands up* "HIIIII!"
😂😂😂😂
We love some Charlotte lol agree. Family channels are a no. Too many creepers online. Protect the babies.
Aww! That's adorable!
@@1987MartinT confirmed at almost a year. He's a big fan of Charlotte. Not a clue in the world what she's actually talking about. But when he hears her greeting, you'd think she was talking directly to him. He's so excited lol
Dang, coming from a picky eater myself, I can always find something to eat at most restaurants ... that wife is a piece of work! Good for her for realizing it and hopefully she will really change her tune going forward.
@3:30
You know what narcissists also love to do? Call others who criticise them narcissists!
It’s possible the husband behind the scenes is a hypercritical asshole, but that still does not justify or negate how the mom acted and how she weaponized her friends against him.
The older I get the more tired I get of fellow women’s BS.
It be your own sometimes😭
All rise for our morning prayer, God Save the Potato Queen 🥔👑 This session will be followed by Book of Common Potato, verses, "Next Petty," to, "How Are You Not Embarassed."
I read this in British 😂
Ohhh God I read it in British too. 😂🤣😬🥴
Amen!
Best comment I've ever seen! 😂
I have too ask, where is that "Potato Queen" coming from? Is it the image of potato with her feature, that occasionally pops out, or is something else?
The woman in the last story, that ate the humble pie, and turned it around, is pretty cool. It’s a good sign that someone is willing to admit their mistake and make up for it. Kudos🤙🏼
Character growth!
@@omgtatercat exactly
Exactly! I came to the comments looking for this. That was awesome!
@@vsm5787 Well some people may not have as much empathy as others and need more empathic people as a moral compass. Or on the opposite she may have a very strong emotional response that makes it hard to think logically on the spot. The fact that she was willing to listen and take responsibility for it, and apologize, I think speaks louder that the mistake.
No I don’t agree. An adult woman should realize she’s an AH. Everything she wrote was written in entitlement. For her to make the decision to miss a big event her hubby’s been waiting TWO years for, AND leaving Dad - who the celebration is for - to explain to THEIR children why mom is an AH, and COULDN’T because he STILL loves her enough to NOT tell their children, get food to go, just so he could STILL be with her speaks VOLUMES. Yea, throw that happy party for her! You know she’s ruined that poor guy’s life! But yay! She told Reddit she changed! People are sheep.
My hubby did this to me, he decided to take the whole family out for Father’s Day not my idea I didn’t want to go, I was broke. He convinced me to go saying don’t worry he and our daughter were splitting the bill. but while there everyone pressured me to pay for everyone because it was Father’s Day and he shouldn’t have to pay. I wasn’t told I was paying I didn’t even buy food. I didn’t say anything anymore that day to anyone
For the AITA wife of the celebration: In the future, contact the restaurant about your food restrictions. If they have the ability, they'll be happy to accommodate for your meal as long as you do it in advance.
We've had people who could not have almost anything off the menu, but could from the previous menu. We had ingredients specially shipped for them since the chefs already knew how to prep the old menu items. A proper chef can even think on the fly to prep something but it's always more preferred to let them know in advance.
The moment Charlotte said : "mommy content" I knew the husband was not the AH. Most of the time those channels use their children for profit and make them feel attacked without a reason or people don't remember what happened to that channel with 5 children?
There was also the Canadian girl named Tay... She was egged on by her brother and mother as she went around pretending to be a "influencer" flexing on how much money she had... She was 9 or 10 years old... very cute, very well done... and highly unethical... which is why the mother was fired from her job as a realtor (yes, she illegally used her client's homes as sets).
Daddy of 5 and right now 8 passengers is in court, a little boy managed to escape to a neighbor's house, the 911 call is heartbreaking
@@aralornwolf3140ya. But it wasn’t well done and it wasn’t cute. She was. But what she was doing wasn’t. Her mom and brother are gross. Then they faked her and her brother’s death so people would talk about them because she had a (bad) music video out.
@@jessbeingme8155I’ve heard that 911 call several times. Again yesterday and thought I wasn’t going to cry. It got me again. That man 💔 😢.
@@Mama_Bear524,
Well... I did call her an "influencer" and we all know how they act. lol. She was being used... I wonder if the authorities sent her parents to remedial parenting classes...
Ok A+ dad for not wanting his babies online. It's far too easy for the wrong people to do the wrong research...
I used to vlog my family but my hubby asked me to stop filming our kids and laying out the safety risks. SO I QUIT FILMING THEM. And we're still together.
There was body cam footage of a man cops caught looking for a 12-13 year old content creator ON HER STREET. This man drove across the country and was walking up and down her street knocking on doors looking for her. He had been watching her CZcams channel since she was SIX and began stalking her. The family shut her channel down and moved because he found their last address. He somehow found her again and (pretty sure he was mentally unstable and/or on drugs) said he wasn’t leaving until she said herself she didn’t want TO DATE HIM. Worst part was he wasn’t looking for her as a 12 year old, he was expecting to find a 6-7 year old. He hadn’t actually seen her since they shut down the channel and was looking for a 6 year old.
The family vlogg one where Charlotte says you can share things without showing the kids made me think of a mom on TikTok that recreate funny things her kids do by playing her kids as characters, and when she rarely show the actual video of her kid she blurs there face....she is still funny as heck
As an extremely picky eater myself, that woman was a piece of work. I go out every single day surrounded by food I don't like. If there's nothing there I like, I don't eat. I eat later. It's called being a considerate adult. Usually the food is there just for the sake of being there. It's the people that you are actually there for, not the food.
For the 1st story, the husband is 100% right. For the 2nd story, I think they're both so young and immature, I won't be shocked if they broke up already. I'm glad in the final one, the woman actually listened to all the criticism and apologized!! That's too rare in these, good for her!
I agree
They’re both immature douches. Imagine them getting married. Her refusing to buy meat and him refusing to buy vegetables to Retaliate. None of these two idiots would eat anything 🤣🤣
I dont think they are both immature.
The girl had
1. set clear boundaries and even offered to pay for everything else and stood by it.
2. Told him to get his tab after sneaking out and waited for him
While he
1. assumed she would pay (i would assume too, but i would not see it as set in stone).
1.1 he choose to eat out and the venue becuse he could take advantage of it
2. He ordered outside his budget. It was his choice of venue and food. (Also his priorities are off if one meal sets his economy off)
3. He dined and dashed and assumed that it would make her pay and did not communicate
4. He was mad that he couldnt go back, even though she once again said she would not pay and he did not pay afterwards
They were together for months so they have probably have gone to restaurants/ grocery shopping/ ordered ubereats where the boundary was respected. Birthdays does not necesserily (depending on situation) give you leverage, last say or right to do whatever, without possibly disrespecting yada yada other emotions towards people around you
@@stinaph When I was 18, I had ONE RULE, never date a smoker. I fell in love with the Love of My Life while she was smoking! LOL! There's nothing wrong with standards, but when they're both so young, being inflexible or making huge assumptions is going to make relationships difficult. Why were they probably together? Looks and sex. They were struggling already in less than a year. Let them break up, grow up, and learn the gives and takes of relationships.
@@scottboswell6406 for sure, relationships come and go. And people get into them for different reasons. I just dont see what she did wrong or immaturely. I think this was a definite sign it is not going in the right direction but whatever her age was (that doesnt necesserily is come with age but usually does) her being inflexible is exactly right in this situation becuase it was a boundary and she stood by it. It was clearly set from beginning and if a partner doesnt like it or they cant compromise get out
When my daughter was about 10 or so, she wanted to be a youtube creator. I didn’t feel comfortable with her doing that at such a young age, so told her she needed to wait a few years. By the time she was old enough to where i would be more comfortable with the idea, she’d outgrown the whole idea
My daughter is 6 and has asked if she can make videos. She even practices her own cooking shows for me but I’m not comfortable with her face being online until she is old enough to actually comprehend what that means. I told her if she wants to do slime content, we can look into that but she can only film her hands. She asked why and I said there are some weird people online and we want to keep her safe. So far she hasn’t brought it up again 🤷♀️
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows the slime content may actually be worse since it's a little girl's hands, wet noises and a little girl's voice, so...
1:09 I'm dead. Lmfao your editor is awesome.
I’m sorry but the birthday is irrelevant entirely. You can’t use that as an excuse to bully people out of their boundaries. Whether you think a persons boundary is reasonable or silly, it’s their boundary and it was expressed many times throughout the relationship. This boy was obviously doing this just to bulldoze her boundary and no other reason at all. She needs to run.
Hell yeah, girl. Say that!
There are a few children of family vlogs who, as they have gotten older, have made videos about what it’s like growing up on camera, and it’s never been good. The first wife needs to watch those.
I'm reminded of a gal making spicy live content and you could hear her toddler calling for her. She finally went to him, in hot lingerie, and told him to be quiet. This happened a while ago, don't know what came of it, but it was messed up.
People, even if it isn’t advertised a “ family channel” it could be still be exploiting kids. If the parents name are on the page doesn’t mean that the children aren’t being exploited. Even well intentioned parents that just show their children but protect bits of their privacy like a mom who showed a child didn’t like her school photos and did a retake for her could still be exploiting them. I just had to check myself and a do a clean of subscriptions because I was following accounts with the mom’s name as the channel name . Children deserve privacy. Children do not belong to us.
I hope these kids all sue the sh*t out of their parents once they are old enough to do so
"All rise for the honorable judge Charlotte. You may be seated or stand up , I don't give a s**t" - Charlotte 😂 .
That had me rolling 🤣 This intro was extra chaotic today and I love it 😂
I need that on a t-shirt. 😂
she's the only one that makes me feel comfortable when I want to stand on my head watching youtube videos 🥰. Everybody else makes it awkward and uncomfortable for me 😭. 😂😂😂
Hahaha 🫂 ❤️
@@anastasiarivera3063 I knew this was gonna be a good 'un! However, when I saw those two babies with Mr. Bean faces, I died instantly but at least I died from laughing!
I love her editor who comes up with these images!
I can relate to the eating thing a lot. I'm lactose intolerant and my sister is fond of Pizzas and for her special occasions we go to PizzaHut. Since I don't prefer Pizza (the stomach pains are so terrible after eating cheese) I get barbecue chicken and a lava cake. As said, it's not about you when it's someone else's special day. There are always options, when we order Pizza my father also order a fried rice, a noodle from another place for me which I always share with siblings with no problem.
That last lady reminds me of the Ace Ventura quote -"How selfish of me, let's do everything YOU want to do".
Birthday boy was the AH. He was WELL aware of her stance on paying for meat…..this was NOT something. So, basically, his actions was a form of manipulation. He was trying to PROVE that he could “break” her values. If he could break her on something that she felt strongly about, remember this is HER feeling not ours, then he would have proven to himself that HE could control her, given the RIGHT conditions. This is a CLASSIC move.
This 💯
BOOM!!?
Ridiculous, she needs to grow up and face the fact she can’t go her whole life not paying for meat. Imagine every time she goes out and is in a position to treat others. Will she just refuse. 18 year old stupidity
I’m practically a carnivore but I 100% think the gf is nta for not buying her bf his birthday meal and what he did is a total red flag. So he invited her out to pay for his meal, she set a moral boundary and not only did he expect her to go against her morals but he was going to get her to do so by buying the most expensive thing on the menu? Nah mate.. and then to top it off he bullies her and guilt trips her for not going against her morals… seriously take the meat issue out of it - I would tread carefully with this guy and honestly. First one, husband is totally right.
I would respect it too if I had a partner who is a vegetarian or vegan. That said, I don’t think I can ever be with someone who doesn’t eat meat. I traveled with a vegan once and it was NOT enjoyable because I felt like she was judging me every time I ordered a dish with meat in it. During one of the dinners, she even equated eating animals with the Holocaust 😐
@@IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor It really seems like his plan from the beginning was to force her into paying for him when he knew she wouldn't want to. I mean he suggested dinner, got the most expensive thing, mentioned he didn't have the money when she asked, then ran off and left her. He is mad that she didn't go along with his plan for a free meal
@@gracelovely3838RIGHT?! Disgraceful behavior. He knew exactly what he did, then blamed her for his tantrum! Girl, run! That's not a flag, it's a friggin flare gun.
There are plenty of decent vegans. You don't want to spend time with the PETA brainwashed "meat is murder!"crowd. Is meat murder? That's an ethical debate, but for most of the world it's also a food source and that's a fact. It's a choice and you can choose to eat meat, or not eat meat, unless you have some crazy allergies or something.
Oh fwiw, I'm Buddhist and I still eat some meat and use leather. I'll push for more ethical treatment of farm animals, but I'm not going to shame anybody for their choices of what to do with their own body.
The walking away twice, too, on top of the guilt tripping about his birthday and his budget, after the audacity to ask her out and assume she would go against a clearly articulated boundary like that. Dump the whole boyfriend, that's future abuser behavior.
So sad I’ll never see your babies Charlotte. But at the same time I’m so proud of you for protecting your family.
The first husband is right. In my marriage, we agree that if one of us is uncomfortable with something regarding our children, we don’t do it. If he wants our kids to have sleepovers at a friends house but I’m uncomfortable with sleepovers for safety reasons, we don’t do it. This respect goes both ways.
This father is uncomfortable with his kids being on social media so she should not be putting them on social media. It’s not a control thing, it’s a safety and respect thing👏🏼
The OP in the birthday story had a clear boundary of never paying for *meat*, morally, ethically, and personally. She made this very clear to her partner. It wasn’t about not treating him on his birthday. If he had ordered a vegetarian meal, she probably would’ve gone ahead and paid for it.
Yeah she needs to grow up 🤣.
@@Rin22730 yeah, totally. Standards are so juvenile.
@@stacey5440if that’s a standard, then she needs to only date people who are also vegetarian. This will never work if they share bank accounts and expenses in the future, grocery store trips, kids, etc. I think that’s what they mean by “grow up.” It’s not the standard/boundary that’s the issue - it’s wasting time dating people who clearly don’t meet that standard and then OP sits back and scratches her head as to why it’s not working..
@@cc1526 Or, theoretically, she could tell the person she's dating that she's a vegetarian and would never eat or pay for meat.
@@stacey5440 eating meat is not the problem. You really can’t “theoretically” see how her not wanting to pay for meat could get dicey if they were to get married and have a joint bank account or have children? Like honestly? Not emotionally charged - thinking critically?
Story 1: It’s not even telling her she can’t live her dream. I’ve seen mommy vloggers that do not show their kids at all. It’s so much better. I know there is a need for mom content online to help others etc. so do that… but don’t put your kids in danger/exploit them for it. Not that difficult.
She must edit the videos, she can EASILY add filters or blur them out.
Some parent channels are really smart about how they include their kids in content. My personal favorite is reenacting moments with their kids themselves. There are few things more hilarious than seeing an adult impersonate a young child.
4:40 am I mad or did spiderman just walk behind you 😂😂
The boyfriend knows she’s not going to pay for meat and he’s totally testing her. I can’t for the life of me think of a reason to stay with someone who tests me on a hard and fast rule in such a way.
They do not belong together. If she is that dead set against meat eating, she should seek out someone like minded.
@LB-gz3ke not true. I'm vegan I have been for 12 years. My boyfriend is not. I set my boundaries and he respects them. Doesnt test them or try to get his way with my preference to not eat animals. He actually admires my attitude towards it. I dont force him to eat vegan, he doesnt try to convince me to eat meat. We respect each others decisions. Simple as that.
@@meowindeYou and your partner may belong together but they sure don’t. I don’t believe he was testing her I think he assumed she would make an exception because the night was about him. She did not. He got upset. She wouldn’t budge and neither would he. They don’t need to be together.
@@DelovelyD I agree with you
@@DelovelyD classic selfish manipulative behavior
Charlotte is an amazing role model. She’s real.. not superficial like most that get the spotlight. We love you Charlotte 🫶🏻
Thank you sweet pea
As a mom the first thing I told everyone before my son was born, no one posts him without permission. Now, I do let my family post photos when they’re having fun with him and holiday photos. But they still ask, to this day (he turned 6 yesterday), if they can post him. I rarely even post my son on social media. And when I do, I usually “ruin” it with a watermark bc it makes me feel better about it being out there on the internet.
The kid dressed as Spider-Man across the screen. You guys are gold!
Story 1: It gets even worse because the content of toddlers eating is a major thing among.... Those "interested" in children if you get the drift. The mom is accidentally making her children a target.
As someone who eats a Veg diet (not saying anyone else has to do this, but this is what I do) when it is my loved ones birthdays or celebrations I go wherever THEY WANT!!!! It is their time to be center of attention and be spoiled. I help pay in the group too for their big day. And! If we know there is nothing there for me, I eat A LOT before I go, and just have drinks or that one thing or two they can accommodate. If asked by the restaurants if something is wrong or is there an issue (yes sometimes they notice) I explain quietly, they totally get it, we all move on and celebrate. That is all
But, it's not about you. Some people have religious boundaries, some moral and they are their boundaries.
@@queenkashmirif your boundaries are to the point where you'll never treat your partner to their favorite meal then you should rethink who you should be dating
@@empath9814 She bought him a gift (that she took money out her savings for) and also paid for everything else apart from the steak. If you don't have enough money to pay for your own meal, don't invite people out to dinner. This is an 18 year old that was expected to pay for the most expensive thing on the menu. It's too much to expect out of an 18 year old, especially when they have clearly stated a boundary. No matter the age, no one has the right to cross another person's boundaries just because they feel entitled to do so.
Can I just say that the editinv today was extra chef's kiss?
The spiderman in the background startled me 🤣
My thing is, it doesn't matter if it's your birthday. If you are the one that suggests going out then you can't automatically assume you'll get treated. That's not how it works. If they invite you out sure, but it still requires a discussion! You cannot assume you will be treated. Always discuss it before hand. Hell, whenever my dad takes me for food he always treats me, but I still bring enough money to cover myself cause it's not a guaranteed thing all of the time. Birthdays are not free meal tickets.
Story 2: NTA. I feel that her have very clear rules and boundaries about not spending on meat was a clear indication that she would NOT spend her money on his birthday and he bought the most expensive meal. She did pay for him though she said she paid for his wine and side salad so in all honesty I feel that he was totally in the wrong and the way he handled it was childish and ignorant.
I was hoping someone said this! He clearly knows that this is a hard boundary for her and unfortunately personal boundaries don’t go away on your partners birthday. Its like asking a vegan to eat a hotdog. Or asking a Catholic to eat hot wings on Good Friday. Its her personal credo and if he needed someone to pay for his meal on his birthday, he should have gone out to dinner with someone else.
@@taliarose4546 exactly! I just feel if he talked to her and discussed that he didn’t have the money for a expensive meal and intended on her to pay they both could have gone to a lower cost restaurant and she’d pay for his sides, drink, etc. and leave the meat out and if he didn’t want that he could have gone to dinner with another family member or friend, instead of causing such a issue for her and making them both part way although I think it might have been needed
I love that you are making more AITA videos!
I am an OG charlotte subscriber. I’ve been here since you started! I also live in Toronto!!! 😂🎉 anyways I’m one of the few people who never got on the tik tok train, tried it many times and it’s not my thing. Your original reaction videos and these AITA videos are and always have been my fave. I love all your content but especially these videos! Just so happy to see them again❤️
TOTALLY agree on not sharing children on social media. They don’t need that exposure/invasion of privacy/performance pressure. 🧡
The husband in the third story sounds like a great husband and came up with some great compromises. When I go out for dinner and everyone is ordering, often I dislike a lot of the food; I'm a picky eater. But I will go if it's a family event because it's not about me, it's about them
Expecting your SO to pay for a meal where they would have to pay for something that goes against their ethics? Sounds like a terrible person! If the boyfriend wanted her to pay, he could order vegetarian or pay for himself. It's a question of respecting boundaries - of course she shouldn't pay for his steak!
I'm surprised that many here in the comments are 100% on his side! She did not stutter I assume, when she told him in no uncertain terms that she will never spend her money on meat, period. There was no "unless it's your birthday" clause. He ignored that, and ordered the most expensive steak, then threw a toddler tantrum when she would only pay for his wine and sides. HE chose to commit larceny by dining and dashing.
@@LazyIRanch she also kinda dined and dashed though. Many places won't even split the check anymore if you're seated together. It was just as much her responsibility to make sure the bill gets paid at the restaurant as it is his.
@@roll3886she asked for separate bills though
Personally I think it’s silly to be with someone if your ethics are so far apart. If she can’t get over it to pay for a meal that HE ate and enjoyed…on his birthday…then how is that gonna work long term?? She said that he pays for her meals and his. He is just going to be expected to pay for both his and her food every time? Splitting the bill is the simple solution. And what will happen when it comes to groceries?
Besides you do have to admit though, it’s nice being treated on your bday- with the things that you enjoy! I agree that he was childish in running the tab up but she was equally as childish.
@@roll3886 But many do. We split a check last night.
I love the honorable judge Charlotte 😂
13:06 hit me hard. With my mother she always has a headache, always doesn't feel good, but only at events. Complains but follows up with, "I don't want to be an inconvenience...", "I'm not trying to be difficult...",
Uh... then don't? 😂
The husband with the dessert idea, i like it. An adult beverage and dessert, absolutely fabulous!! 🙂
I liked how the last one ended; nice to see someone take accountability for their actions
For the birthday story, i'd like to mention that the woman made a very clear boundary and the man decided to ignore that. Not sure if this is enough to tip over a relationship into ending, but I know that when it comes to setting boundaries, breaking a boundary is a no-no for a lot of people.
Problem is not every boundary is justifiable. What happens when they are married and have comingled funds? Is she still not buying meats?
@TheBaumcm should the relationship continue, I imagine both of them will be contributing to the household. Therefore they can both shop for groceries, and the wife can then buy what she chooses, as can the husband.
Birthday steak boy had a very specific goal in mind. Force OP to spend money on meat, and that is a very big glaring red flag he’s waving around.
@@christinelindberg-gilhus1590 that’s actually not true. It’s clear from the post that she got her bf an actual bday present so the meal is kind of irrelevant to the festivities and if you think showing love and affection is about violating boundaries then that’s a huge problem dude. These people need to not be together because even for their young age the bf literally behaves like a spoiled 9 year old.
Let’s say hypothetically she was wrong to refuse to pay. Why didn’t he pay for his steak and then address how he felt about the situation at home? He fully behaved like a kid in full grocery store tantrum mode. She needs to run not walk.
Oh hell no. The first one: divorce her and go for full custody and use the videos and posts as evidence for custody battle. That social media post about you being controlling and a narcissist absolutely was the last straw for me. She smashed through the boundary you set knowingly and when confronted, she decides to publicly lie and bash you? Hell no. Divorced immediately. She sees your kids as a cash cow. Thats all this is. Its disgusting
1st story: the mom calling the dad a narcissist is classic DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender).
Comment to boost DARVO awareness! Once you know the pattern, it is so easy to spot
About the picky eater one.
Hi, I’m a “picky eater” always have been and probably always will be. Some people are picky because they genuinely just can’t stomach or are afraid of trying new foods, there’s an entire eating disorder named ARFID like this, and some just use it as an excuse because they don’t want to eat certain foods. As a picky eater, I can 100% percent say that OP was entirely in the wrong. I mean come on, if you don’t like the food then just 1) Bring your own 2) don’t eat anything or 3) do the other two options OP’s SO offered in the story. Being picky with your eating does not give you the right to be an AH.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
The spiderman at the back scare the fawk out of me 😂😂. For the 1sr story, fo real, Divorce and take the kids.
When she got eviscerated in the comments she realized she WAS the A-hole. I am glad she woke up finally and is doing the right thing. If you love someone you occasionally need to adjust things, at least it was just a dinner not like a 2-week vacation to a place you didn't want to go! THAT would be far worse!
I mean, I'm a picky eater myself and there's a reason if I don't want to eat certain foods. If I eat something I don't like it makes me really nauseous, i instantly get the reflex to puke. For example I'm not vegetarian but I really can't eat meat (expect like some specific types) and the same goes with salads, fish and many other things. I know this is an inconvenience when i go out to eat with someone else but i can't really do much about it, I don't want to make myself sick just to please others so I kinda understand that woman BUT op could have handled that situation better, her husband gave her some reasonable suggestions so that she could still go to that restaurant. The fact that she didn't want to compromise even a bit for the sake of her partner is what made her the AH.
I just hate that it took multiple strangers to tell her she was out of line instead of her being an adult to begin with.
@@rococcoschicchi5594I have gastroparesis so I know what you mean but I see it as that’s my problem, no one else’s. If the Op had an issue like that she’d have said so and that’d be different. The wife is just very self centered and needs to grow up
@@Catherine.Dorian. That's pretty much what I said👍I wouldn't go as far as calling her "self centered and needs to grow up" because when she realized she was being AH to her husband she apologized and remedied the situation.
@@rococcoschicchi5594 Yeah I was going with those up until that part, in the story here she is. But I do give credit that she recognized it and I hope she works on it. Embarrassingly I was like this as a kid, I was 8 but still, I’m embarrassed to this day that I couldn’t understand that just cause I didn’t like the restaurant didn’t mean I got to tell everyone else what to do (in my only defense is it was authentic Mexican cuisine, everything was heavily spiced and I can’t handle even pepper)
There is a CZcamsr I like that says "Two yeses or one no." Both parents need to agree to exploit their children for content but it only takes one to say no that makes it a finality. If you can't agree on it, it shouldn't even be a topic anymore.
This CZcamsr wouldn't happen to be Rslash would it?
@@chasetheace8278 Haha when you know you know. Yes love Dabney, at least when he takes the time to think about his judgments 😆
There is a mom I love to watch. She shares ideas, meals, experience. However she doesn't show her kids and said she doesn't because they are to young to understand what the internet is and that's why. I love her so much.
editor, i love the goofy goober clip. that just brightened my day. thank you.
For the 3rd story, it really makes me sad when people can’t compromise for the people they love. My bf is vegetarian and honestly there’s generally always something for him. Even when it’s more in my favor and he knows it’s what I really want he does it to make me happy. And vice versa, lol I’ll literally eat anywhere 🙃🤣
The thing that scared me on mommy content. It may start off innocent but too many see that the tantrums or whatever get a lot of views, and they start purposely upsetting or hurting their kids to get the views
I’m just reminded of that woman who forced her already crying son to cry more for the thumbnail if a video about their dog dying. Family content is exploitative and shouldn’t be a thing.
Omg I got so scared by that spiderman edit at 4:40, I thought someone was behind you 😂
“Try the prime rib im sure it’s great” is about to become my life motto ✨😮💨
The 20 yo bf expecting his 18 yo gf to pay for his expensive bday dinner when he invited her out, aside from her morals, sits weird to me, as from the culture I'm from the one who's celebrating is the one paying everyone's tab, as it's seen as a pleasure to be able to spend time on your bday with your loved ones. It's also common sense for those invited to not order the most expensive stuff just because they aren't paying, and they always show up with a little present.
Who automatically expects their 18 y/o girlfriend to pay for a very expensive meal just because it's their birthday without her even offering? Never mind after you've told him you won't pay for any meat products and he still just assumed that you would pay for it anyways... that is so stupid and he is old enough to know better.
The mommy accounts that I'm the most comfortable with are the mom's who do skits of the crazy things their kids do, but with mom playing the kids. Super entertaining, and no actual kid content.
Around 4:44 wait is that spiderman dancing through your video? I love spidey 😹😹🖤❤🖤❤
Whenever I’m watching these, my daughter comes to sit next to me cheering, “It’s Rapunzel!!!”
At the last restaurant I was a chef at, Prime Rib was a friday night special. We were booked 2 months in advance for friday and saturday nights. Saturdays was vegan/vegetarian night. The rest of the week was full menu. That is where I retired from. Before I retired the head chef offered to buy some of my recipes. For a little extra in my "retirement envelope" I gave him everything, and showed him my techniques to get it right. The Prime Rib was my job for 5 years to prep and cook it. I rarely worked saturdays because they were slow and boring with 90% of the cooking gone. I was in charge of all meat, fish and chickens being cooked as my main station. I miss it but I am now physically disabled and put off work by my doctor. And a kitchen is no place for a slow old man with a cane.
I'm sure I know the answer, but as a chef, how did you react if a customer wanted to change the fish or chicken to not have sauces or seasonings? Say they ordered plain chicken breast.
@@InteriorDesignStudent It was the same as when someone ordered a well done steak. If you want to eat bland tasteless food you should have stayed home and eat what you feed toddlers. Not everyone has taste buds I guess
@@alira9990 this is a bad take. I used to order well done steak because I'm oddly susceptible to food poisoning. I wanted to make sure it reached a safe temperature.
@InteriorDesignStudent a medium steak will cook every germ or parasite or anything else that can harm you. Pork, chicken and fish should be cooked well done unless it is sushi
@@InteriorDesignStudentOh man, that SUCKS! I’m lactose intolerant but I will risk the dairy for some delicious food. Having had food poisoning on a few occasions, I’d rather deal with too much dairy.
Just please tell me you didn’t put ketchup on your steak…
The celebration story - my hubs has a favourite food joint that I'm not really too fond of. But you know what, I suck it in and go enjoy. He appreciates this and takes me out to newer places he's discovered whenever possible. We even take turns choosing a restaurant or what food we cook.
Food brings together people. And it can also bring out the worst!
Also, even if it's a star restaurant, what really makes a difference is WHO you're there with, the conversation, the excitement etc.
The last story makes me think of this grown-ass man, so basically in my friends group there is this woman who has a scheduled c-section next week and wanted us to "say goodbye" to her belly (she's clearly kind of nervous and wants to spend time with her friends before the big event). He didn't come, apparently because he doesn't like ramen (and the place she chose is like her favourite restaurant + they also serve sushi and poke + HE OFTEN MAKES RAMEN AT HOME).
“ALLRISEFORTHEHONORABLEJUDGECHARLOTTE……YOUMAYBESEATED” 🤣🤣 don’t ask me why that’s my favorite part of AITA videos
I've been a vegetarian for a little over 15 years now, and the last story made me really mad.
There was countless times where all I could eat was french fries or simple salads (just lettuce and maybe tomatoes), and that never stopped me from going anywhere.
15 years ago there wasn't a lot of options for me, but I managed.
There's a burger place that my family always went and I asked them to make me a salad burger without the burger, so they offered to put more veggie stuff, and months after they actually put it on the menu as their vegetarian option.
The wife didn't have any restrictions or allergies, she chose to be the AH because she didn't feel like eating whatever was on the menu. Her husband is a saint and she's lucky he's not divorcing her.
The way she told him he had to go, it's like she was expecting him to say "oh, dear, I won't go without you" or "you're right, let's go to a different place", so childish.
Yup!! I've been a vegetarian for 20 years, I've had countless french fries and side salad meals for other peoples' sake - once even on Christmas day. That lady is so childish and selfish.
I was going to type out something very similar, but I'll take the easy route and hop on your comment. I was raised pretty carnivorous, but slowly stopped tolerating meat entirely. I became fully vegetarian in '94, and living in beef country northern Alberta did not make things easy 😂
This reminds me of how some people behave after they join AA. They become convinced that they can't go anywhere that alcohol is served, and they will not go to family events unless there's no alcohol. Lord help the guest who tries to enjoy a beer or glass of wine! The AA person will confront them and make themselves the main character who has been disrespected because everyone didn't bow to his demands!🙄
@@LazyIRanch honestly, for newly sober alcoholics, it may be the difference between sobriety and relapse. Some are able to be around alcohol, others cannot.
Haha, yes! Totally remember those days when all that was available was a “salad burger” or a dry potato or a chef’s salads with nothing in it but lettuce, tomato and shaved carrots, lol. So glad to have way more options these days at most places 🎉 I agree that dining out with people is more about the experience of being together than it is about the food.
the Mamacusses channel, Gwenna Laithland, is one that I love because she is straight up "I'm not putting my littles here because they don't understand!" vs her teenager who does. She is one of the few parenting channels that I actually enjoy watching. She's not making her way of parenting sound perfect and is just "Yeah, this works for us but it took us awhile to get there. Try if you want and if not, cool"
The mum throwing a tantrum is wild