Sometimes even offering a cup of tea in a certain manner can be offensive. Let us take a stand against sexual harassment to ensure a safe and enabling environment for all. #Rukhedarai
And that's why they make these ads to at least wake up the people so that they will now start to help every girl out there who needs help in such a situation
I have faced a situation where a guy who is nearly my father's age was harrassing me in public bus and taking pictures of me.. No one stood up until I start to beat him. Don't expect others.. We must stand up for ourselves
@@anonymouslymysterious9596 relations r given importance in our culture only brother😏😏 I hope u know some r soooo cheap that they even make sisters as wives and westerners aren't interested in relationships
@@gauravchaturvedi6080 right... Clearly a LOT of respect is given to the word sister in this video lol. .. Sexual harassment all in the name of culture
I have seen these scenes many times , but in bollywood films where hero is so much eager to talk to heroine , so that heroine will fall in love with him , Bollywood plays a major role to inspire such pervert men
Exactly. The quality of most of the Bollywood films, as well as Tollywood or Bangla movies are extremely low that it beggars description. But the sad part is that we're the one who watch these contents, thus encourage them to make more of these type of movies. Entertainment plays a huge role in our society in this century. Instead of watching these & giving them more money and encouragement, it's for the better if we give a bad response to making these type of contents.
@@priyam8261 Reminds me of 365 days. Sometimes Hollywood is no exception too. But thankfully alot of people ditched 365 days. We should ditch it too if we see any of these kind of contents on our entertainment industry.
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 And that's called Simping. Why are you so desperate? You're just making the women uncomfortable. Also, insutling your sanskaar
You're not wrong...shit like victim blaming is treated as normal as "boys will be boys" I like to wear crop top and skirt that show my beauty but just because men leer at me and try to harass me doesn't mean it's MY fault for wearing it in the first place, it's them who should learn to respect women smh
@@ateez81 ikr. I wear shit i want to wear and im called a slut. "Baro bhatari" They should feel ashamed for how they treat girls. My parents dont even let me go outside nowadays. Not because of covid,because of rape. We don't fear covid,we fear rape. And you should dress as you like girl
@@ateez81 My name is Mel, Im a girl in usa, but i have seen girls wearing short clothes to seduce hot guys, they even tell me they are planning to do this . Also, girls kinda stare at Men's beauty too, My Boyfriend is Tall, Muscular and attractive... He gets a lot of women leering at him and staring at him.
I raised my voice against sexual harrasment against my manager and I lost my job. My boss supported manager and my colleague didn't support me . But that's fine I won't tolerate any kind of harrasment.
There is nothing to amaze in this. OfCourse no any Boss wants to loose his Manager just for a Worker. And even if you are there in the place of your colleague then Even you didn't stand against your Boss for you Colleague.
Women get molested, groped, sexually harassed, raped, gangraped and murdered in online chatting too. Yet nobody is booked for such digital atrocities on decent women. Wonder when will women be truly empowered.
Its still good in a way instead of completely ignoring it. At least those who tease in this way will get little infamous and disregarded by whosoever has seen the video.
Which is not a problem. Young people can see it happen in real life. It's lucky for the idiot that the girl is kind enough to not report him to the police. Instead people watch him embarrass himself on the internet.
Being men, we should stand up for any kind of harassment we see happening around us in our daily life. Respect women. They are somebody's daughter, sister, or mother.
but most importantly we're our own people, with ambitions, opinions, feelings and emotions, we deserve to be respected for that! and not for being somebody else's daughter, sister, or wife.
@@minombre8294 Bollywood is the inspiration for real life. And often a reflection of real life itself. A male in bollywood will pull some shit like that then next day, some bozo will be like " Haan main bhi karega, bilkul *insert actor's name* style"
@@thisisrey8 is not, Bollywood is fiction do not compare fiction to real life, physical appearance has nothing to do with this, if someone is bothering I will tell them to leave me alone no matter how handsome the person is, haven't you heard the thousands of news about girls being kidnapped or attacked, I'm not running the risk.
Because by calling sister they provide comfort to you and then assaulting will be easy for those basta ... In indian culture we think if someone call us maa,bon we instantly assumed he/She is a good person..but she/he may be or may not
I know sister and brother term is different in India (and a big issue if a girl call you brother), while in my place, someone you call sis or bro can become a couple and even get marry.. Anyway, I think in this video... He use the term sister as thats the only way for him to get close to the girl. Pervert guy... with a hidden pervert motive)
@@bashirhabibnahid8402 ধর্ষণের জন্য কোনো পোশাক দায়ী না।দায়ী কুৎসিত মানসিকতা। কারণ মাদ্রাসার মেয়েরা বোরকা পরা সত্বেও তারা ধর্ষণের শিকার হয়।তাই পোশাক না মানসিকতা পরিবর্তন করতে হবে।
There was a time when I was passing through any Rickshaw pullar by praying to god that he must not tease me....Nowadays they are not changed... But I changed myself.... I will never pray to god to get reduce from their tease...I will raise my Voice against them....
Exactly girls need to raise up their voice, they have to stop accepting the role of a victim because they are able to fight for themselves. And actually what I have seen is whenever a girl starts to defend herself there always came someone to support her!
Every action has its same and opposite reaction not repulsion. Teasing & Flirting are different. Teasing means irritating someone with disgusting words but flirting means try to interact with opposite sex with a sense of humour. But nowadays both are assumed in negetive sence.
@major bat I have my own belief, you have yours. And I respect that. Well, I believe that everything happens with our God's permission. So, without His mercy, we can do nothing. (that's just my opinion. not imposing it on anyone)
Around a year back, I was passing by a small crowded bakery and there was this auto driver signalling me to come to him with his eyes, I just looked away as if I hadn't seen him and continued to walk, I just took 3-4 steps and noticed him pull me over all of a sudden, I was so confused of what he will be doing next 😨. He told me to look around, I did and then he continued "do you see that the men over there are staring at you?", I was like yeah.....he then told me to wear better tops next time ( he was trying to say that my tops were thin asf and he was able to see inside), he then asked me to note his number down, and asked me to call him if I had some trouble in that area. Not gonna lie my fight and flight hormone increased rapidly when he pulled me over, but it turned out that he was trying to help me, I thanked him and we both left that place peacefully 🙃
you can wear what ever you want that's what freedom means . and if they stare thats not you fault its his. That's what is called harassmant but we don't know that yet
@@alberttalex9815 well, you are right, ofc I know its not my fault if they stare at me, but that man( auto driver) wasn't trying to tell me not to wear modern outfits( usually people have problems with that here, maybe he is one of them, but nothing confirms it coz he didn't make any annoying comments regarding that ) , in fact I was wearing something similar to the lady in this video, but I wasn't aware that it was kinda translucent , it looked very different in the streetlights than in the store I bought it, so the person did help me by informing this to me. Btw I know I can wear whatever I want, I stopped wearing that top not because a stranger told me so, it was coz I didn't feel comfortable in it anymore. Anyways, have a great day ahead 🙃
This is not true in real life.i have faced a situation in which a boy commented on me while i was leaving a small restaurant/hotel ,i just come up and abused him for this act ..this itself inside the restaurant gate near reception,what he did ,he starting attacking on me ..he hit my helmet with his hand which i am wearing but i fought ..i fought. Everyone was standing and watching this shit happening ..i leave the restaurant because one of the boy of his friend came and said sorry sister ..please go . But next day i came with my mom in this hotel ,we said we will bring police .to show this happens inside his hotel ,we asked for cctv footage.you can't even believe what the managers said ,he said ' i thought they both know each other so they are fighting because of their personal matter' i can't do anything .. And the whole matters get diluted by saying girls shouldn't involve in police case matters ,this will just create a mess and a fuss about your own respect.. RIP to our society..
Wtf is wrong in this I kindly request u too re watch the video ....this is not even harassment ....that’s the most basic way too communicate or approach someone
When I was in Kota, an incident happened which I can't forget. A girl was slapped by a guy in some public place. On of the bystanders who had just given his neet-ug and was about to leave for home, and was even hopeful for selection, got in the middle, and tried to stop the aforementioned guy. They got into a scuffle, and the former stabbed the latter to death.
Lmao! How he calling her sister and then hitting on her too. But seriously sexual harassment as well as verbal assault needs to be stopped. It’s not fine for women to be afraid of someone when they go out in public. ❤️
brac university te emn story hoicilo...eta maybe oi real story theke neya...oi cha offer kora betake etto gulu cha bill payment korte ritimoto kanna vab chole ashcilo
When i was 11 years old...comparing muly age i actually has fuller body,curvy body...once during durga puja, on shashthii me and my mom were hopping pandals,eating street foods, but when we were in sealdah, we are as usual minding our business...we are walking in the crowd and somehow i felt someone was following me...i felt awkward, and then i felt someone is touching my butts sometimes squizing it too, i felt veey very awkward, embarassed, i turned BACK and saw an old man(sabzi wala), older than my grand father, was doing it...after seeing me turning BACK he somehow stopped for a moment (thought i was going to tell my mom) but keep going on again...its one of the most misarable moment in my life, i was walking with mom but actually feeling paralyzed inside...ofcourse at that age i was a naive, i couldn't figure out what the actual hell was happening with me...i told mom to walk faster... She was curious to knows why?...but i ignored that...i still saw that pervert was stalking us...but thanks to the crowd he lost our path...i felt so dirty, but at the same time I couldn't find out what happened...but now whenever I remember that incident I feel dirty always...I wish I told my mom...but!!! How can I..? Guys plz teach your kids about good touches and bad touches...it's very important...I don't want any other kid face embarrassment like me...these incident happened with me so many times... But alas! I wasn't able to figure out what was happening and what to do against it?...
Good touches and bad touches info is important for kids but which touch is good or bad , that too needs to be taught...some days ago , my brothers were playing and my mom just hugged the younger one(6yrs old ) out of affection and the same day he told his mom that my mom had done a 'BAD TOUCH' on him..coz my mom and his mom were sis so they talked out the thing..but that matter grew a lot...since then, all our family members are thinking was it right to tell them about such touches when they don't Even know how to differentiate between good and bad touches... nowadays, schools always tell students about things like these so there is a lot of fear in a child's mind about these things...they should be told but at a age where they can differentiate between such touches 😔
@@yashwanthbhat4299 bro I'm older now 😐 you'll surely assume something is not right, gutt feeling is thing...you'll know something isn't right at those kinda moments... especially if you're a girl/women in India...boys don't usually get this experiences...and an 11 year old girl who belongs from a good well educated,well mannered family will definitely not gonna know these this exist...until she get any of these horrible experiences😑😐and for what reason you used that smily???ya surely you're a guy...you'll never know how it feels....you'll never know what kinda bad impact it left on us...😐 and what did you mean by maturity ??? A girl can look physically mature after hitting puberty or getting periods...that doesn't mean she can be mature by mind...11 year girl is not even a teenager...she is still a kid... facing so many different experiences with body....😐
A very similar incident happened while I went out for tea with my female colleagues. There was a guy who was staring the girls pretty badly (Girls were unaware of the fact as they were not facing him) and I confronted him by shouting "Kya kar rhe ho bhaisahab, bahut der se dekh rha hu" and he suddenly stood and paid for his tea and left. One more- I went for buying groceries and milk in a mall with a female friend of mine. She was wearing short sand T-shirt. There were two guys whom I thought had not so right intentions were trying to be just behind her on escalator. While they were trying to approach her, I moved fast and stood behind her. I am very ashamed of another incident where a guy was actually trying to touch a woman inappropriately on a railway bridge full of people but as I was getting too late for my train I didn't do anything.
We say we want a support society like this but when we see this happening this in real life we try to ignore it without realizing that we are also a part of this society. Our one step can inspire thousands to step ahead it will make them want to fight for themselves too. *Don't stay quit, speak for yourself only then others can speak for you*
*and the fact that this happens to almost every girl/woman no matter the age but most of us just ignore or brush it off by saying no thank you. this is society people. stand up for yourself. sexual harassment can happen with anyone be a boy or a girl or a trans. speak up for yourself cause no one else will.*
This idiotic guy is calling that innocent girl "sister" , so apparently he should be her brother. But this shameless man is putting a bad name on the pure relationship of a brother n sister
Incest nahi suna hoga aapne! Jaise LGBTQ hai waise yeh incest. Zara online chatrooms mai jhaank kar toh dekho. Duniya aage nikalchuka hai. Extramarital affairs ko bhi legal banadiya India mai. Gangbang. Coupleswap.threesome. nahi suna? 😁
This taught me a lesson , I shouldn't trust & give attention to "unknown" people unnecessarily trying to start a relation even with the name of "brother- sister". That's suspicious
In the mean time others would be busy standing in their respective corners & observing the entire tamasha instead of doing what those ppl did in this vid.
The video was confusing too.. At first this isn't a case of sexual harassment . Second they are talking like they know each other from corner people' perspectives. Third ,no one reacts that much quick like those over dramatic guys. Very poor acting. These Bengali should have check other Sexual Harassment ads/experiment first..
@@gauravmalviyaalumni8315 are you stupid? It was clearly sexual harassment.. The guy was after her even after she clearly was not interested. Secondly, people around SHOULD react that way when a girl is being harassed.. Standing in the corner and doing nothing is futile.
@@gemini1404 Expecting people to always help u shows ur capability😂. Sitting at the corner,u telling about it feminazi characters? It's only men who save women and men.Just relax n do t cry especially when u expect from men so much.
@@gauravmalviyaalumni8315 except so much from men? What even.. It's absolutely normal to expect others (men and women both) to intervene when someone is literally being sexually harassed. Dumbass
Although I am a boy who is purely against sexual harassment and stuffs related to it....but I sometimes do these thing (not eye teasing, but calling strangers to have a seat irrespective of their gender) in order to make new friends..( I am an extrovert 😎😎 and lonely too) and ya I use the word sister in order that the other person could feel comfortable....I do not have any bad intentions # nopo*nchallenge # nofap # be a man (Well the story was not related to the Video context....lol)
Yeah, people can be mistaken due to enormous amounts of harassment cases. It is like you tell someone that their tire is punctured and they don't want to check because this is how thefts have happened in recent times.
Wtf is wrong in this I kindly request u too re watch the video ....this is not even harassment ....that’s the most basic way too communicate or approach someone
Sad reality of today's world.😔😔 Nobody stands beside you. You have to stand for yourself. It happens with me in the train. It's 2021 but these things never change.😔😔
thank you guys for making this video about social awareness with sexual harassment back in india. i think its great that in your country this is becoming more aware and people are starting to care how women are treated there. but the problem is if an average woman were to be in that scene in the video in real time, most average indian individuals dont normally care to help a stranger on the street from being harassed by a random man a woman doesnt know or ever met in her life. its great that you guys are making scenario about it but it would have been more realistic to show a scene where there werent so many civilians protecting the girl from the harasser because thats not really the reality in india still with its people. im sure they know what a harassment looks like but are too afraid to speak up and help someone that are not their own friends or family members. the average indian people like areas in that video especially seems rural and are too stuck in their outdated mindset to help strangers. i think it would be more beneficial to come up with a scene showing how that woman can defend or protect herself from a male stranger in the most sneaky or clever way without not making herself look likeba victim as well a public cry for help maybe for a change?
@Shreyaawashere I think its to be corrected... Unwelcomed sexual advances either ohysical or verbal... He just asked her to sit.. When she said no, it should have ended there...
@Shreyaawashere In a world where people find the slightest word offensive, It creates a whole new area for others to misuse. Do you even know how many people gets wrongly accused of sexual harrassment, why should you? Also how many true such harassments gets under consideration because some misuser. If you behind the slightest issue you are missing a whole another side. People should learn to take what is serious and what is not. I'm not supporting such activity, but sexual harrassment could have been which videos that are more precise.
@Shreyaawashere he said " sister , come seat with me and have tea. ". It's a Harassment for you ? Wow. I think you should learn about the word " Harassment " first. Then talk rubbish. Just to get attention , people like you are ready to do anything. Then at the end blame all men
Actually sometimes sexual harassments starts from such conversations which seems NOT as sexual harassment but it is the ultimate result ....If u felt a bit that the guy in the video was just getting way nice to stranger girl let me tell u he was not ....have u noticed he was trying to convince her even when she already denied ...He used the word ' start getting to know each other ' ...may be if u r not female u won't get what I said u may feel offended but a female is wise enough to recognise what the person means just because almost every female faces such types of unwanted incidences
@Shreyaawashere I don't support such activity and never will. I just want them to accurately show what sexual harrassment is. You were so keen on teaching me the meaning of sexual harrassment. You earlier said that it was "unwelcomed advances verbal or physical" this is what I'm trying to correct. Before teaching others further please check whether what you are saying is accurate or not. It is "unwelcomed sexual advances verbal or physical" please try to remember the word "sexual". Cause otherwise you will misjudge others just like the your statistics of men wrongly accused.
I do not understand the language. But. You have done a beautiful filming. If someone is treating a woman like that, then everyone should support her in the same way.
It was still bold tho. And pretty clever move too. Why that man wanna treat that one girl, one specific girl there? She's no one to him. If he's that desperate to treat unknown people like her then better go treat the others too
After everyone left, chaiwala would have asked this guy Married ho ya Single. Idiot ko flirt karna nahi aata. Seedha poochliya aati kya khandala. Ladki ko heroine banne ka chance mila. Aur log bane warriors. 😂
জোর করে কথা বললে টিজ হয় না, এটা অপরাধ হিসেবে গণ্যও হওয়া উচিত না বরং কথা শুনতে না চাওয়াটাই অপরাধ হিসেবে গণ্য হওয়া উচিত। ছেলেরা accused হবার ভয়ে মেয়েদের সাথে কাজ করতে ভয় পায়। আপনারা মেয়েরা always ছেলেদের বিরুদ্ধে মিথ্যা অভিযোগ করে ছেলেদের ফাসান। সমস্ত আইন মেয়েদের পক্ষে। একটা মেয়ে অভিযোগ করলেই হল, অভিযোগ সত্য না মিথ্যা সেটা যাচাই না করেই সমাজ ছেলেটাকে তিরস্কার করবে। ছেলেদের চড় মারা তো আপনাদের Birth right. জনসমক্ষে কোন মেয়ে কোন ছেলেকে চড় মারলে, সবাই মনে করে দোষ ছেলেরই ( বাস্তবে নিষ্পাপ হলেও )। কিন্তু যদি ছেলে মেয়েকে চড় মারে, গণধোলাই নিশ্চিত। নারীবাদ নিপাত যাক, মানবতা মুক্তি পাক।
@@adwitkantirouth2537 r8 bro.. Ai jonno amra saly. Rai dai.. Amra saly ra jasay na korei... May jeta bolbo oita niai matamati kori.. Mone amon onek may aj sudo sudo Saly der opor nijatton korse.. Ja kono saly bolteo parse na..
I wish it happens like this. But in reality people's mentality is just``` she is not my relative or anyone I know then why should I stand with her? ``` And simply gaze at the scene. Only our family member reacts to this.
I feel sorry for us, girls. Those things are happening to girls in Bangladesh maybe everyday even though they dress properly, they still get the blame at the end. I’m very thankful to Allah that I have a very secured life. Alhamdulillah
যারা বলেন ছোট মেয়েও ধর্ষিত হয়,তাদের বলবো আগে নিজেরা পর্দা করে চলুন। তাহলে এমন ছোটরা নির্যাতন ভুগ করবেনা। কারন আপনারা বেশ্যাদের মত বেপর্দা গুরেন আর মানুষ অইগুলা দেখে মাথাই কুমন্ত্রনা জাগে আর যখন আপনাদের কে না পায় তখনি অই মানুষ গুলা ছোটদের উপরে ঝাপিয়ে পরে।এবার বলুন দুষ কার???
@@ashrafulislam7751 bepar hoilo amar ja iccha ami porbo but sheita kauke right deynai harass korar...islam e kothae likha ase je porda na korle rape koro?
We seriously need this.. Everyone pls come and support our sisters it might be someday yours or mine sister too.. 🙏🙏 we need to change, stand up n take responsibility this is the way to make our India feel proud 🇮🇳..
Sad reality is if that guy would look good and attractive, the girl would sit beside him and talk with him. I have seen where even with good intentions a below average looking become bad, and with bad intentions good looking guy get the girl.
It is based on eve teasing. The man in the clip is telling the girl to come and take a sit a lets know each other until her boyfriemd comes. So the girl respnd why will i sit and talk with a stranger and have a cup of tea. So to support everyone started saying the man to offer them tea as well
@@sushmak1107 pleasure is all mine. Bcz it is imp fr u to know this. Bcz unless untill u wont raise ur voice for eve teasing nobody will come to help u. So b strong nd be fearless
সবাই যদি সব সময় সবার বিপদে এই ভাবে পাশে থাকতো তবে এই সময়ে গুলো বেশি দেখতে হতো না কিন্তু এ সব কিছু এখন চোখেই পড়ে না আমাদের সবার উচিত অন্যকে সাহায্য করে
It's still happening everywhere, such shame that women have to go through this and nobody talks about it. Hope to see the future with more safer environment for women.
people who make these videos should also make a video on how to approach a girl in the right way.. and the actors should be same..this is the same thing what henry cavill was talking about.. men are forced to go back to toxic females because even talking is seen as sexual harrasment.. thats why men avoid women nowadays..
I have watched many videos like this in hindi also & the difference is that over there people in the comment section took the videos positively as a motivational or inspiring video but here see people are criticizing for making such videos. These videos are to inspire people to fight against these. And you know they are coming forward but in their way ☺️
Yes there pronounciation is different from Indian Bangla like Indian Bangla :- Aami tomake "bhalobashi" Bangladesh Bangla :- Aami tomake "bhalobasi" Just look at both the words inside double quotation
Thank you both Brother and Sister . This 70 Year old Partition created in a Divide in Language too. Hmm Obviously it was to happen just like Lifestyle etc. May God Bless us all and Strengthen our Relations. ☪️❤️🕉️🇮🇳❤️🇵🇰❤️🇧🇩❤️🇳🇵❤️🇧🇹❤️🇱🇰❤️🇲🇲
this one is a good campaign ad. to be realistic a creeper wont have the guts to say those words alone in public unless he knows he can get away with it.
I'm sorry but asking someone for a drink is not automatically sexual harassment. Maybe in India where even talking to a woman is seen as a crime, not matter what intentions (which is honestly quite f***ed up as it only builds more division between men and women, which in turn leads to even more sexual harassment as men are literally clueless about women and don't see them as equal human beings....) But in the West, and much of the world outside of India and the Middle East, this is literally how people get to know each other (both men and woman)... although this was creepy after he kept on insisting when she clearly wasn't interested. (No means no.)... But no. Asking for a chat and offering a drink is NOT sexual harassment. I'm just concerned that content like this with "heroes" standing up to "sexual harassment" will lead to more incidents of moral policing as we saw on Kolkata metro where two people were consensually hugging and they beat up the guy. Or when police beat up legitimate couples for kissing. Or when an entire state passes a law preventing a certain community to love and legally marry members of another... In India it's definitely a slippery slope, and we have to be careful not to immediately react without taking in context and reach the wrong conclusion, but then again it's also the rape capital of the world so you can never be too cautious... I just wish normal healthy love and sexual freedom existed in the country - without creepy dudes, yes, but also without moral policing and vigilante justice where innocent people get lynched just for asking for directions to a group of students. In fact that shows more about your mentality than the victims - if you think talking to a woman automatically entails rape, and talking to children automatically entails kidnapping, it shows that YOU have a problem and are projecting your way of thinking onto others... I mean you can't immediately blame and attack a guy without knowing his intentions and without him actually sexually harassing a woman. You have no right to take law into your own hand. You are not a judge. There is yet another real life story of this when a man called Saravjeet Singh was wrongly accused by one Jasleen Kaur for harassment and lost his job and his whole life. He was acquitted and the women was found to have made up the story. Yet "heroes" like this happily paraded him as a rapists, demanded justice! (On the internet of course. No one dare does that in real life). Yes we have to stand up to legitimate sexual harassment, which ironically never happens in real life in India because individual judgment is always overruled by mob mentality trying to enforce religious conservative (and honestly blatantly sexists) morals & behaviour. In reality it's a lot more fu**ed up than shown in this whitewashed skit. In real life rapists walk free and violence towards women is never questioned (when a husband beats his wife she deserved it, when a husband rapes his wife it's not rape because they are married), yet sweet love and legitimate interests between attracted humans is instantly shut down and shamed in an effort to prevent some sort of crime, probably a "moral" crime (sex before marriage? God forbid!... (I never had that, never spoke to a woman before the age of 30, and am in a shitty arranged marriage with a person I dislike, so you must suffer the same faith.)) which might never happen -- again, mentally backwards people projecting their dirty minds onto the innocent and liberally minded. Be cautions when judging. And stand up when you actually have to. As India develops, becomes more integrated into the global culture, and as more people start urban lives -- it's values too will need to progress. Now is a good time to question where your social rules actually come from and whether they could be improved for everyone's benefit.
The fact that he kept insisting repeatedly is the important part here. When he asked her the first time no one said anything to him and when she clearly indicated that she's not interested he shouldn't have tried to coerce or coax her into it. Your long ass comment is irrelevant to this because this is clear case of harassment.
@@gemini1404 Irritating someone with chai is still not sexual harassment, but it is harassment. If you read my long ass comment you will see I clearly mention that.
@@MultiSciGeek oh really? Then why did he coerce only the woman to "sit with him"? If his harassment in this case would've been gender neutral it could've been directed at anyone but this guy purposely and repeatedly only targeted the woman to sit with him...when she was clearly not interested. I guess for guys like you unless and until a woman is physically touched you don't see it as sexual harassment.
In reality we should stand for urself....every women is a super women... Just a small defend towards the sexual harassment is enough to overcome from it...
He didn't do anything harassing. The woman is over reacting. The man seemed attracted to the woman. If the woman did not like him, she could politely decline his request. The man was polite enough. This concept is totally wrong.
@@anshikasrivastava8409 Society is such that its men who have to approach women. Women do not approach men. Here we can see that the man likes the girl. So politely, he asks the girl to sit down and talk. He doesn't do anything vulgar or offensive. The girl is so rude to him and over reactive inspite of him being nice! If she didn't want to talk to him, she could have refused politely. She could have been compassionate about it. But no, she just assumed he was a harasser. It takes guts and confidence for anyone to approach someone. Can you approach a guy you find attractive on the street so easily? No! So at least when she is rejecting him, she can be a bit more kind. Not everyone is a harasser.
@@anshikasrivastava8409 Oh, that behaviour is too damn creepy is it? So it would have been better if he would have whistled at her, called her sexy and asked for kiss?? The motive of the video is good, but the final result is not very practical.
@Tsukiyomi He was still polite about it. The girl was angry. All he tried to do was calm her down. And he was quite respectful about it. If she didn't like him, she could have directly say that no, sorry she was not interested in him. But she didn't and just raged about. That is wild.
But in reality, nobody comes to stand besides the victim. Everyone just watches remaining silent.
And that's why they make these ads to at least wake up the people so that they will now start to help every girl out there who needs help in such a situation
absolutely right
So true, they will pull out their mobiles and start recording it all. Don't know why it's hard to tell the person doing wrong to shut up and lay off
Lol thats why this is made, to encourage people to stand up for the one who is being harrassed
nazifa bashir not really some people do if I as there I would stand up and fight
I have faced a situation where a guy who is nearly my father's age was harrassing me in public bus and taking pictures of me.. No one stood up until I start to beat him. Don't expect others.. We must stand up for ourselves
I am so sorry it happened to you sister. You are strong, you are a whole QUEEN!
O my God😂 so brave sis 🙏 you are
That's really great and inspiring. many girls tolerate it and give these monsters permission to harass more...
It's your life... whole responsibility is urs.. nobody is going to save you
True people needs to realise that everyone is not nice they have to learn self defence and stand for them
Just brutally insulted the word "Sister".
Exactly I thought the same....I hate it when ppl insult those beautiful relationship (brother and sister)
@@anonymouslymysterious9596 relations r given importance in our culture only brother😏😏 I hope u know some r soooo cheap that they even make sisters as wives and westerners aren't interested in relationships
@@gauravchaturvedi6080 right... Clearly a LOT of respect is given to the word sister in this video lol. .. Sexual harassment all in the name of culture
Yes all these relationships were made for respecting but people are so shameless
@@gemini1404 Except this wasn't "sexual" harassment by any stretch of imagination.
Yeah, these predators call the girl a sister and do everything else to harass her.
Hello sister! Just kidding 😂
In bangladesh, you are allowed to marry your cousin sister.
@@Anandrules so what?
@@handle797 exactly
@@handle797 so this shows ur level of reliability in ur relationships😏😏👉
I have seen these scenes many times , but in bollywood films where hero is so much eager to talk to heroine , so that heroine will fall in love with him , Bollywood plays a major role to inspire such pervert men
Exactly. The quality of most of the Bollywood films, as well as Tollywood or Bangla movies are extremely low that it beggars description. But the sad part is that we're the one who watch these contents, thus encourage them to make more of these type of movies. Entertainment plays a huge role in our society in this century. Instead of watching these & giving them more money and encouragement, it's for the better if we give a bad response to making these type of contents.
I watch tamil movies where a useless guy can force a girl onto marrying him. Sickens me as every youth will think it cool to do that.
@@priyam8261 Reminds me of 365 days. Sometimes Hollywood is no exception too. But thankfully alot of people ditched 365 days. We should ditch it too if we see any of these kind of contents on our entertainment industry.
100% true
@@sadiajafrinn true
Did he just call her sister and than tried to mis behave with her
That's beyond creepy
He is insane. Imagine calling older women mother and try to harass her
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 Ew are you cannibal or smth?
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 Wth..?
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 wtf is wrong with you
he was saying step-sister
Don't expect anything from this so called "society" Stand up for yourself or it will be too late.. 😌
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 fuck off
@varun rathi Are you daft?
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 And that's called Simping. Why are you so desperate? You're just making the women uncomfortable. Also, insutling your sanskaar
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 No it's not ok. Anything without someone's else consent is "not OK"
@@advocatevarunrathi2831 be ready to face little bit of beating too, it is appreciating your work, great idea right ?
But in reality nothing like this will happen. They'll just whisper about the girl's clothing not the man's behaviour.
You're not wrong...shit like victim blaming is treated as normal as "boys will be boys"
I like to wear crop top and skirt that show my beauty but just because men leer at me and try to harass me doesn't mean it's MY fault for wearing it in the first place, it's them who should learn to respect women smh
@@ateez81 ikr. I wear shit i want to wear and im called a slut. "Baro bhatari"
They should feel ashamed for how they treat girls. My parents dont even let me go outside nowadays. Not because of covid,because of rape. We don't fear covid,we fear rape. And you should dress as you like girl
@@lalisa8916 you are free to wear whatever you want and no one gets to decide what you should do, fellow blink 💕
@@ateez81 My name is Mel, Im a girl in usa, but i have seen girls wearing short clothes to seduce hot guys, they even tell me they are planning to do this
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Also, girls kinda stare at Men's beauty too, My Boyfriend is Tall, Muscular and attractive... He gets a lot of women leering at him and staring at him.
@@brokenbrad6182 oh I see, it's totally different in India tho ://
I raised my voice against sexual harrasment against my manager and I lost my job. My boss supported manager and my colleague didn't support me . But that's fine I won't tolerate any kind of harrasment.
Godspeed sister. Hope you are soon rewarded for your strength.
Respect
There is nothing to amaze in this. OfCourse no any Boss wants to loose his Manager just for a Worker. And even if you are there in the place of your colleague then Even you didn't stand against your Boss for you Colleague.
@@soharshadhikari682 I stood for my colleague by the way for the same matter.
@@soharshadhikari682 and I m not here to amaze someone I was just sharing my experience that's it.
This is truly an important matter. And ladies here is your message:
If a creep attacks You, it is not your fault and you must speak uo
Better to give them some of the antics of so called "Lady power" 👊👋
Taking out the shit out of such bastards.
This could happen to any girl in reality people watch and. Didn't help. They would have taken selfie
Women get molested, groped, sexually harassed, raped, gangraped and murdered in online chatting too. Yet nobody is booked for such digital atrocities on decent women. Wonder when will women be truly empowered.
Nowadays instead of coming forward ppl are eager to make video and upload
Its still good in a way instead of completely ignoring it. At least those who tease in this way will get little infamous and disregarded by whosoever has seen the video.
🚩🚻🚺🚹
Which is not a problem. Young people can see it happen in real life. It's lucky for the idiot that the girl is kind enough to not report him to the police. Instead people watch him embarrass himself on the internet.
Painful truth 😥
No it's just a way to spread the things amongst uneducated peoples
Being men, we should stand up for any kind of harassment we see happening around us in our daily life. Respect women. They are somebody's daughter, sister, or mother.
Most important they are human beings not sex toy
but most importantly we're our own people, with ambitions, opinions, feelings and emotions, we deserve to be respected for that! and not for being somebody else's daughter, sister, or wife.
There are many few people who understands this💜😐
Bless you, and peace be with your journey, Brother...Namaste from a Wiccan in Alabama!
They are a human, yeh daughter, sister kya? Why can't we see them as humans first, and not someone else's blood relative?
Moral of the story - don't be silent ,always takes a stand against sexual harassment..👍
Isn’t that how every Male In Bollywood as hero talk to girl like that
Lisa 😁😄
That is Bollywood not real life
@@minombre8294 Bollywood is the inspiration for real life. And often a reflection of real life itself. A male in bollywood will pull some shit like that then next day, some bozo will be like " Haan main bhi karega, bilkul *insert actor's name* style"
@@thisisrey8 is not, Bollywood is fiction do not compare fiction to real life, physical appearance has nothing to do with this, if someone is bothering I will tell them to leave me alone no matter how handsome the person is, haven't you heard the thousands of news about girls being kidnapped or attacked, I'm not running the risk.
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I don't know Bengali language but trust me I understand every single word and meaning of video because of this video is powerful than words
Because of Subtitle okay
What do they mean by calling 'sister'... Do they know the meaning of that word...?
confused with that !
Perhaps,they don't mean what they are saying,its just another way of calling out to women
@@tuhinabhattacharya6358 yeah... But the meaning contradict with the action...
Because by calling sister they provide comfort to you and then assaulting will be easy for those basta ... In indian culture we think if someone call us maa,bon we instantly assumed he/She is a good person..but she/he may be or may not
I know sister and brother term is different in India (and a big issue if a girl call you brother), while in my place, someone you call sis or bro can become a couple and even get marry..
Anyway, I think in this video... He use the term sister as thats the only way for him to get close to the girl. Pervert guy... with a hidden pervert motive)
Based on a true story, It's happened a while ago with a BRAC Student
faltu story....
দেশের মানুষ এতই সচেতন হইলে ধর্ষণের হার শূন্যের কোঠায় নেমে আসতো। ভুয়া
@@bashirhabibnahid8402 কোনসব ড্রেস পরলে বললেন? বাংগালি মেয়ে কি এবার সালোয়ার কামিজ ও পরতে পারবেনা? এতো নিচু মানসিকতা?!
@@bashirhabibnahid8402 ধর্ষণের জন্য কোনো পোশাক দায়ী না।দায়ী কুৎসিত মানসিকতা। কারণ মাদ্রাসার মেয়েরা বোরকা পরা সত্বেও তারা ধর্ষণের শিকার হয়।তাই পোশাক না মানসিকতা পরিবর্তন করতে হবে।
এই রকম মানুষ রাস্তায় পাইলে।
ওর মায়রে বাপ
Manushikotai dayi vai, huzur der moddheo oneke dhorshon kore, so burkha porlei je dhorshon hobe na emn kono ktha nai,
There was a time when I was passing through any Rickshaw pullar by praying to god that he must not tease me....Nowadays they are not changed... But I changed myself.... I will never pray to god to get reduce from their tease...I will raise my Voice against them....
Pray to God that he give you enough strength to fight for urself..sometime we need to make right prayer.stay safe
Exactly girls need to raise up their voice, they have to stop accepting the role of a victim because they are able to fight for themselves. And actually what I have seen is whenever a girl starts to defend herself there always came someone to support her!
Every action has its same and opposite reaction not repulsion. Teasing & Flirting are different. Teasing means irritating someone with disgusting words but flirting means try to interact with opposite sex with a sense of humour. But nowadays both are assumed in negetive sence.
@major bat of course, we should raise our voice and we shall pray to God to give us strenth
@major bat I have my own belief, you have yours. And I respect that. Well, I believe that everything happens with our God's permission. So, without His mercy, we can do nothing. (that's just my opinion. not imposing it on anyone)
Around a year back, I was passing by a small crowded bakery and there was this auto driver signalling me to come to him with his eyes, I just looked away as if I hadn't seen him and continued to walk, I just took 3-4 steps and noticed him pull me over all of a sudden, I was so confused of what he will be doing next 😨. He told me to look around, I did and then he continued "do you see that the men over there are staring at you?", I was like yeah.....he then told me to wear better tops next time ( he was trying to say that my tops were thin asf and he was able to see inside), he then asked me to note his number down, and asked me to call him if I had some trouble in that area. Not gonna lie my fight and flight hormone increased rapidly when he pulled me over, but it turned out that he was trying to help me, I thanked him and we both left that place peacefully 🙃
you can wear what ever you want that's what freedom means . and if they stare thats not you fault its his. That's what is called harassmant but we don't know that yet
@@alberttalex9815 agreed
and remember its not caring
@@alberttalex9815 well, you are right, ofc I know its not my fault if they stare at me, but that man( auto driver) wasn't trying to tell me not to wear modern outfits( usually people have problems with that here, maybe he is one of them, but nothing confirms it coz he didn't make any annoying comments regarding that ) , in fact I was wearing something similar to the lady in this video, but I wasn't aware that it was kinda translucent , it looked very different in the streetlights than in the store I bought it, so the person did help me by informing this to me. Btw I know I can wear whatever I want, I stopped wearing that top not because a stranger told me so, it was coz I didn't feel comfortable in it anymore.
Anyways, have a great day ahead 🙃
@@swethapr4105 ya you too have a great day
This is not true in real life.i have faced a situation in which a boy commented on me while i was leaving a small restaurant/hotel ,i just come up and abused him for this act ..this itself inside the restaurant gate near reception,what he did ,he starting attacking on me ..he hit my helmet with his hand which i am wearing but i fought ..i fought. Everyone was standing and watching this shit happening ..i leave the restaurant because one of the boy of his friend came and said sorry sister ..please go .
But next day i came with my mom in this hotel ,we said we will bring police .to show this happens inside his hotel ,we asked for cctv footage.you can't even believe what the managers said ,he said ' i thought they both know each other so they are fighting because of their personal matter' i can't do anything ..
And the whole matters get diluted by saying girls shouldn't involve in police case matters ,this will just create a mess and a fuss about your own respect..
RIP to our society..
Our society is useless when it comes to supporting women. But the same society does an excellent job in blaming women if they get raped.
Wtf is wrong in this I kindly request u too re watch the video ....this is not even harassment ....that’s the most basic way too communicate or approach someone
@@beluga8956 For no reason? Why?
I am ashamed of our society which promoretes rape culture
@@beluga8956 actually what we face daily is 10x worser than this in basic case but you know just having someone's attention gives me goosebumps.
When I was in Kota, an incident happened which I can't forget. A girl was slapped by a guy in some public place. On of the bystanders who had just given his neet-ug and was about to leave for home, and was even hopeful for selection, got in the middle, and tried to stop the aforementioned guy. They got into a scuffle, and the former stabbed the latter to death.
not good
:(
Reality is just opposite..log aenge zarur..lekin "Tamasha" Dekhne..!💯
Lmao! How he calling her sister and then hitting on her too. But seriously sexual harassment as well as verbal assault needs to be stopped. It’s not fine for women to be afraid of someone when they go out in public. ❤️
বাস্তবে কেউ এভাবে এগিয়ে আছে নাহ..আসলে দেশে এত কিছু ঘটনা ঘটতো নাহ
Keu ase keu ase na...jara ase na tara nijerai ai sob kore barai..na hoi tara kaporos..☺
Right
Jodi bastobe egie astoi ei add ta banaitei hoto na
brac university te emn story hoicilo...eta maybe oi real story theke neya...oi cha offer kora betake etto gulu cha bill payment korte ritimoto kanna vab chole ashcilo
Sudu aid e ar kicu na
When i was 11 years old...comparing muly age i actually has fuller body,curvy body...once during durga puja, on shashthii me and my mom were hopping pandals,eating street foods, but when we were in sealdah, we are as usual minding our business...we are walking in the crowd and somehow i felt someone was following me...i felt awkward, and then i felt someone is touching my butts sometimes squizing it too, i felt veey very awkward, embarassed, i turned BACK and saw an old man(sabzi wala), older than my grand father, was doing it...after seeing me turning BACK he somehow stopped for a moment (thought i was going to tell my mom) but keep going on again...its one of the most misarable moment in my life, i was walking with mom but actually feeling paralyzed inside...ofcourse at that age i was a naive, i couldn't figure out what the actual hell was happening with me...i told mom to walk faster... She was curious to knows why?...but i ignored that...i still saw that pervert was stalking us...but thanks to the crowd he lost our path...i felt so dirty, but at the same time I couldn't find out what happened...but now whenever I remember that incident I feel dirty always...I wish I told my mom...but!!! How can I..? Guys plz teach your kids about good touches and bad touches...it's very important...I don't want any other kid face embarrassment like me...these incident happened with me so many times... But alas! I wasn't able to figure out what was happening and what to do against it?...
Good touches and bad touches info is important for kids but which touch is good or bad , that too needs to be taught...some days ago , my brothers were playing and my mom just hugged the younger one(6yrs old ) out of affection and the same day he told his mom that my mom had done a 'BAD TOUCH' on him..coz my mom and his mom were sis so they talked out the thing..but that matter grew a lot...since then, all our family members are thinking was it right to tell them about such touches when they don't Even know how to differentiate between good and bad touches... nowadays, schools always tell students about things like these so there is a lot of fear in a child's mind about these things...they should be told but at a age where they can differentiate between such touches 😔
You're mature when you're 11. Or else, how would you know that that old pervert's touch was bad touch? Such a naive girl. 😁
@@yashwanthbhat4299 bro I'm older now 😐 you'll surely assume something is not right, gutt feeling is thing...you'll know something isn't right at those kinda moments... especially if you're a girl/women in India...boys don't usually get this experiences...and an 11 year old girl who belongs from a good well educated,well mannered family will definitely not gonna know these this exist...until she get any of these horrible experiences😑😐and for what reason you used that smily???ya surely you're a guy...you'll never know how it feels....you'll never know what kinda bad impact it left on us...😐 and what did you mean by maturity ??? A girl can look physically mature after hitting puberty or getting periods...that doesn't mean she can be mature by mind...11 year girl is not even a teenager...she is still a kid... facing so many different experiences with body....😐
How is the age of the man relevant in this crime
Wonderful to know there are men who are enlightened, and believe in equal respect for everyone.
Thanks for the English subtitles :")
Nice!!
People around the victim should raise their voice...
Better victim should start doing that themselves but when it crosses border people can help her.
@@poonamprasad7031 lame comment.
A very similar incident happened while I went out for tea with my female colleagues. There was a guy who was staring the girls pretty badly (Girls were unaware of the fact as they were not facing him) and I confronted him by shouting "Kya kar rhe ho bhaisahab, bahut der se dekh rha hu" and he suddenly stood and paid for his tea and left.
One more- I went for buying groceries and milk in a mall with a female friend of mine. She was wearing short sand T-shirt. There were two guys whom I thought had not so right intentions were trying to be just behind her on escalator. While they were trying to approach her, I moved fast and stood behind her.
I am very ashamed of another incident where a guy was actually trying to touch a woman inappropriately on a railway bridge full of people but as I was getting too late for my train I didn't do anything.
Thank you for standing up against it. Please that really makes me happy.
You are best man. Your wife is lucky to have great man like you. May god bless you. 😊
You are a best person ❤️
We say we want a support society like this but when we see this happening this in real life we try to ignore it without realizing that we are also a part of this society. Our one step can inspire thousands to step ahead it will make them want to fight for themselves too. *Don't stay quit, speak for yourself only then others can speak for you*
Learn martial arts. Aatmanirbhar bano. 😁
I wish I can see this crowd in practical life against those type of assohles. #defending #crowd
*and the fact that this happens to almost every girl/woman no matter the age but most of us just ignore or brush it off by saying no thank you. this is society people. stand up for yourself. sexual harassment can happen with anyone be a boy or a girl or a trans. speak up for yourself cause no one else will.*
This idiotic guy is calling that innocent girl "sister" , so apparently he should be her brother. But this shameless man is putting a bad name on the pure relationship of a brother n sister
Incest nahi suna hoga aapne! Jaise LGBTQ hai waise yeh incest. Zara online chatrooms mai jhaank kar toh dekho. Duniya aage nikalchuka hai. Extramarital affairs ko bhi legal banadiya India mai. Gangbang. Coupleswap.threesome. nahi suna? 😁
@@yashwanthbhat4299 actually I m only 13 years old and i felt really bad after seeing this ☹️
This taught me a lesson , I shouldn't trust & give attention to "unknown" people unnecessarily trying to start a relation even with the name of "brother- sister". That's suspicious
@@yashwanthbhat4299 lgbtq ka incest se kya lena dena?
In the mean time others would be busy standing in their respective corners & observing the entire tamasha instead of doing what those ppl did in this vid.
The video was confusing too..
At first this isn't a case of sexual harassment . Second they are talking like they know each other from corner people' perspectives.
Third ,no one reacts that much quick like those over dramatic guys.
Very poor acting. These Bengali should have check other Sexual Harassment ads/experiment first..
@@gauravmalviyaalumni8315 are you stupid? It was clearly sexual harassment.. The guy was after her even after she clearly was not interested. Secondly, people around SHOULD react that way when a girl is being harassed.. Standing in the corner and doing nothing is futile.
@@gemini1404 Expecting people to always help u shows ur capability😂.
Sitting at the corner,u telling about it feminazi characters?
It's only men who save women and men.Just relax n do t cry especially when u expect from men so much.
@@gauravmalviyaalumni8315 except so much from men? What even.. It's absolutely normal to expect others (men and women both) to intervene when someone is literally being sexually harassed. Dumbass
@@gemini1404 yeah...but where does ur so called facts and moral get lost when men are victim,dumbass?
अफ़सोस असलियत यह नहींं । 🥺
Everybody would love to see it really happening.
Awesome
I wish if people stood up with others in reality
There are men who have an issue with standing. Women know how to make men impotent. 😁
I wish this was real
People pretend as if the happenings are invisible.😢
Keyaa, this is based on real incident 🙂
@@pakalopapitoh7461 We need more such communities
@@SingerKeyaa Of course we do, it's harsh reality that people just watch the ‘tamasha' and no one is ready to step forward...
Didn't understand a single word but can totally relate and feel#deep😢
Read the subtitles sister.
Wish everybody stood up like this, this world would be much better place🙏🏻
If only it was like that😔
I'm not understand bangoli but 😊😊 i think bad man offering 🍵 tea 😊😊 I'm very happy when they all Stand for girl 💪💪💪
Although I am a boy who is purely against sexual harassment and stuffs related to it....but I sometimes do these thing (not eye teasing, but calling strangers to have a seat irrespective of their gender) in order to make new friends..( I am an extrovert 😎😎 and lonely too) and ya I use the word sister in order that the other person could feel comfortable....I do not have any bad intentions
# nopo*nchallenge
# nofap
# be a man
(Well the story was not related to the Video context....lol)
I was an extrovert in online chatting with girls a decade ago. Introvert in real life meet. I was misunderstood for pervert. 😂
Yeah, people can be mistaken due to enormous amounts of harassment cases. It is like you tell someone that their tire is punctured and they don't want to check because this is how thefts have happened in recent times.
Excellent message.... Hope this turns to become true in the society too
Wtf is wrong in this I kindly request u too re watch the video ....this is not even harassment ....that’s the most basic way too communicate or approach someone
But reality is entirely different. India has only virtual emotion.
Look, it's not *India* 😅
In reality no one will help us ,they will just keep watching
Life is gone
"Girlfriend is nothing"
"parents is motivation"
"suport is everything which I need everyone 😒🙏😆
I want to know why ppl unlike these kind of revolutionary vedios
Bcz they felt insulted🤣🤣
Lovely message...thank you❤️
I wish everyone is like them .
wish ta wish e theke jabe go
Sad reality of today's world.😔😔
Nobody stands beside you. You have to stand for yourself. It happens with me in the train. It's 2021 but these things never change.😔😔
অসাধারণ ❤️ সবাই এভাবে প্রতিবাদ করলে আমাদের সমাজে আর কোন খারাপ মানুষ থাকবে না।
thank you guys for making this video about social awareness with sexual harassment back in india. i think its great that in your country this is becoming more aware and people are starting to care how women are treated there. but the problem is if an average woman were to be in that scene in the video in real time, most average indian individuals dont normally care to help a stranger on the street from being harassed by a random man a woman doesnt know or ever met in her life. its great that you guys are making scenario about it but it would have been more realistic to show a scene where there werent so many civilians protecting the girl from the harasser because thats not really the reality in india still with its people. im sure they know what a harassment looks like but are too afraid to speak up and help someone that are not their own friends or family members. the average indian people like areas in that video especially seems rural and are too stuck in their outdated mindset to help strangers. i think it would be more beneficial to come up with a scene showing how that woman can defend or protect herself from a male stranger in the most sneaky or clever way without not making herself look likeba victim as well a public cry for help maybe for a change?
Is this sexual harrasment, sure this shit needs to be dealt with. But sexual harrassment just made a whole new meaning for the itself
@Shreyaawashere I think its to be corrected... Unwelcomed sexual advances either ohysical or verbal... He just asked her to sit.. When she said no, it should have ended there...
@Shreyaawashere In a world where people find the slightest word offensive, It creates a whole new area for others to misuse. Do you even know how many people gets wrongly accused of sexual harrassment, why should you? Also how many true such harassments gets under consideration because some misuser. If you behind the slightest issue you are missing a whole another side. People should learn to take what is serious and what is not. I'm not supporting such activity, but sexual harrassment could have been which videos that are more precise.
@Shreyaawashere he said " sister , come seat with me and have tea. ". It's a Harassment for you ? Wow. I think you should learn about the word " Harassment " first. Then talk rubbish. Just to get attention , people like you are ready to do anything. Then at the end blame all men
Actually sometimes sexual harassments starts from such conversations which seems NOT as sexual harassment but it is the ultimate result ....If u felt a bit that the guy in the video was just getting way nice to stranger girl let me tell u he was not ....have u noticed he was trying to convince her even when she already denied ...He used the word ' start getting to know each other ' ...may be if u r not female u won't get what I said u may feel offended but a female is wise enough to recognise what the person means just because almost every female faces such types of unwanted incidences
@Shreyaawashere I don't support such activity and never will. I just want them to accurately show what sexual harrassment is. You were so keen on teaching me the meaning of sexual harrassment. You earlier said that it was "unwelcomed advances verbal or physical" this is what I'm trying to correct. Before teaching others further please check whether what you are saying is accurate or not. It is "unwelcomed sexual advances verbal or physical" please try to remember the word "sexual". Cause otherwise you will misjudge others just like the your statistics of men wrongly accused.
I'd rather the girl showed that guy who he was messing with herself.
খুব সুন্দর ভিডিও। সমাজে প্রত্যেকটি মানুষ যদি এভাবে এগিয়ে আসে তাহলে একদিন সমাজ ঠিকই অন্যায় থেকে রেহাই পাবে ।
Superb 👍 👍. I wish our society do the same thing and support girls and stop harassment.
Yeh kaam Valentine's Day ke din honi chahie. Khaafi bhai-behen milenge public mai. 😂
Wonderful message from Bangladesh.... These kind of social messages are non-existent from countries like Pakistan..... Joy Bangla...
Supper ad public this ad always all tv chennel
I do not understand the language. But. You have done a beautiful filming. If someone is treating a woman like that, then everyone should support her in the same way.
It has English subtitles.
খুবই গুরুত্বপূর্ণ একটা বিজ্ঞাপন।
THAT'S THE UNITY WE NEED 🤐🤐🙏🙏💯💯
If one day standing up for others comes to reality, our society would become much more peaceful.
In actual no one really even comes to help them feel the victim struggling but they won’t stand up for Them
If I were the girl I would have slapped him and then call the mahila helpline.
That'd be assualt and it's a crime
@@JubairIbnOmarHamza are you fr? He's harassing her and if he gets what he deserves is assault?
@@vaishalichauhan4616 You don't get assualt for using words. Verbals vs verbals and assualts vs assualts
I don't know Bengali language but I understand video about support to lady👏👏👏👏
Superb video
Superb.. everyone should stop like this by supporting her before something happens and blaming the girl only.
I'm honestly laughing at the fact they simply low-key made him pay for their chai.
It was still bold tho. And pretty clever move too. Why that man wanna treat that one girl, one specific girl there? She's no one to him. If he's that desperate to treat unknown people like her then better go treat the others too
@@kdjoshi726 okah. But what if he just want to help her. I mean why the heck Anyone am going to pay for someone, for whom even he don't want to pay .
@@kdjoshi726 as your argument. You are going to do sex forcefully to ladies. Coz they do sex with Men.
After everyone left, chaiwala would have asked this guy Married ho ya Single. Idiot ko flirt karna nahi aata. Seedha poochliya aati kya khandala. Ladki ko heroine banne ka chance mila. Aur log bane warriors. 😂
Be the man of today and speak against sexual harrasmen .
Girlfriend boyfriend ko bandh karo. All men and women should marry directly.
রিক্সা ওয়ালা দোকান দার বাস স্টোপেজের নিন্ম শ্রেণির লোক জন যে পরিমান টিজ করে সে দেশের কি অবস্থা আর ভবিষ্যৎ যে কি!!
Taderke jara sahos dise tara amrai
Koshai thappor lagai diben
Kono kotha nai.... Apnar boro hok ba choto ba apnar babar boyoshi hok
Eshob nongra kaj er jonno koshai thappor lagano ta joruri... Jodi mone koren Meye hoye purush gulor gaye haat tulle apnar attoshomman kome jabe...ekta kotha boli.. Oigulo purush na kukur
Shob dhoroner manush ra e kore..Shoby kore boltesi na..but shob dhoroner manush e kore..
জোর করে কথা বললে টিজ হয় না, এটা অপরাধ হিসেবে গণ্যও হওয়া উচিত না বরং কথা শুনতে না চাওয়াটাই অপরাধ হিসেবে গণ্য হওয়া উচিত। ছেলেরা accused হবার ভয়ে মেয়েদের সাথে কাজ করতে ভয় পায়। আপনারা মেয়েরা always ছেলেদের বিরুদ্ধে মিথ্যা অভিযোগ করে ছেলেদের ফাসান। সমস্ত আইন মেয়েদের পক্ষে। একটা মেয়ে অভিযোগ করলেই হল, অভিযোগ সত্য না মিথ্যা সেটা যাচাই না করেই সমাজ ছেলেটাকে তিরস্কার করবে। ছেলেদের চড় মারা তো আপনাদের Birth right. জনসমক্ষে কোন মেয়ে কোন ছেলেকে চড় মারলে, সবাই মনে করে দোষ ছেলেরই ( বাস্তবে নিষ্পাপ হলেও )। কিন্তু যদি ছেলে মেয়েকে চড় মারে, গণধোলাই নিশ্চিত। নারীবাদ নিপাত যাক, মানবতা মুক্তি পাক।
@@adwitkantirouth2537 r8 bro..
Ai jonno amra saly. Rai dai..
Amra saly ra jasay na korei...
May jeta bolbo oita niai matamati kori..
Mone amon onek may aj sudo sudo
Saly der opor nijatton korse..
Ja kono saly bolteo parse na..
Can't understand language but understand the meaning 😊☺that is awesome.
Strongly support the action has taken...
I wish it happens like this. But in reality people's mentality is just``` she is not my relative or anyone I know then why should I stand with her? ```
And simply gaze at the scene. Only our family member reacts to this.
I feel sorry for us, girls. Those things are happening to girls in Bangladesh maybe everyday even though they dress properly, they still get the blame at the end. I’m very thankful to Allah that I have a very secured life. Alhamdulillah
I've never encountered this situation where someguy is eveteasing. Glad that my city is a little safe
Which city,just for curiousity
Not every Men out there have same intentions as portrayed, there are blissful people in world to who love to exchange healthy Conversations
Best, hope so every state public do it
bahh,, khub valo laglo
GOOD....
এগিয়ে যাক বাংলাদেশ 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
How nice when you don't just watched, stand together with the victims.
This should happen in reality.
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Sobai Jodi amon hoito amadar kosto dur hoya jato 😥😥
যারা বলেন ছোট মেয়েও ধর্ষিত হয়,তাদের বলবো আগে নিজেরা পর্দা করে চলুন। তাহলে এমন ছোটরা নির্যাতন ভুগ করবেনা। কারন আপনারা বেশ্যাদের মত বেপর্দা গুরেন আর মানুষ অইগুলা দেখে মাথাই কুমন্ত্রনা জাগে আর যখন আপনাদের কে না পায় তখনি অই মানুষ গুলা ছোটদের উপরে ঝাপিয়ে পরে।এবার বলুন দুষ কার???
Right
আপনার রিপ্লেকারী গুলো মনে হচ্ছে ধর্ষনের সাপোর্টকারী মানুষ গুলো। ট্রাম্পের মতো নিজের দোষ না দেখে অন্যদের দোষ দিয়ে ঘুড়ে বেড়ায়।
@@ashrafulislam7751 bepar hoilo amar ja iccha ami porbo but sheita kauke right deynai harass korar...islam e kothae likha ase je porda na korle rape koro?
@@bashirhabibnahid8402 bhai apnar moto manushder jonno western country gula muslim der terrorist bole
We seriously need this.. Everyone pls come and support our sisters it might be someday yours or mine sister too.. 🙏🙏 we need to change, stand up n take responsibility this is the way to make our India feel proud 🇮🇳..
I came here to witness some cringing unnecessary feminism thing but i am inspired by the ideo who ever made it.
Bravo.
@Akash Mishra, MGTOW which crap
if only everyone was like this in real life!!
Sad reality is if that guy would look good and attractive, the girl would sit beside him and talk with him. I have seen where even with good intentions a below average looking become bad, and with bad intentions good looking guy get the girl.
True
That's in movies and dramas, where the guy is damn flirty and still get the girl
@@shakira7301 don't get me wrong, what I share is real and my own experience, and I think you still need to know about world.
@@rit5916 eta sottiii kothaa
@@shakira7301 tumi bhodro but sob meyrai bhodro seta ke guarantee dieche??
I didn't understand a single word but liked the concept
It is based on eve teasing.
The man in the clip is telling the girl to come and take a sit a lets know each other until her boyfriemd comes. So the girl respnd why will i sit and talk with a stranger and have a cup of tea. So to support everyone started saying the man to offer them tea as well
@@simplyeducationJeetukalwani thank q
@@sushmak1107 pleasure is all mine.
Bcz it is imp fr u to know this. Bcz unless untill u wont raise ur voice for eve teasing nobody will come to help u. So b strong nd be fearless
There are English subtitles below :)
There are subtitles available now.
During danger nobody come, everyone is busy in there own world😒😒😒😒😒😞, so protest for yourself and protect yourself 😇
সবাই যদি সব সময় সবার বিপদে এই ভাবে পাশে থাকতো তবে এই সময়ে গুলো বেশি দেখতে হতো না কিন্তু এ সব কিছু এখন চোখেই পড়ে না আমাদের সবার উচিত অন্যকে সাহায্য করে
It's still happening everywhere, such shame that women have to go through this and nobody talks about it. Hope to see the future with more safer environment for women.
Hlo i am an Indian bengali. Awesome👏✊👍
people who make these videos should also make a video on how to approach a girl in the right way.. and the actors should be same..this is the same thing what henry cavill was talking about.. men are forced to go back to toxic females because even talking is seen as sexual harrasment.. thats why men avoid women nowadays..
Yes not only working woman but also teenage girls
I have watched many videos like this in hindi also & the difference is that over there people in the comment section took the videos positively as a motivational or inspiring video but here see people are criticizing for making such videos. These videos are to inspire people to fight against these. And you know they are coming forward but in their way ☺️
Is there a difference between Bangladeshi Bangla and Indian Bangla ??
Just a Curious Delhiite .
Yes there pronounciation is different from Indian Bangla like
Indian Bangla :- Aami tomake "bhalobashi"
Bangladesh Bangla :- Aami tomake "bhalobasi"
Just look at both the words inside double quotation
Thank you both Brother and Sister . This 70 Year old Partition created in a Divide in Language too. Hmm Obviously it was to happen just like Lifestyle etc. May God Bless us all and Strengthen our Relations. ☪️❤️🕉️🇮🇳❤️🇵🇰❤️🇧🇩❤️🇳🇵❤️🇧🇹❤️🇱🇰❤️🇲🇲
this one is a good campaign ad. to be realistic a creeper wont have the guts to say those words alone in public unless he knows he can get away with it.
What if this girl's husband is a creeper too and she has no clue about it? 🤔
@@yashwanthbhat4299 nice abstract thinking
I'm sorry but asking someone for a drink is not automatically sexual harassment. Maybe in India where even talking to a woman is seen as a crime, not matter what intentions (which is honestly quite f***ed up as it only builds more division between men and women, which in turn leads to even more sexual harassment as men are literally clueless about women and don't see them as equal human beings....) But in the West, and much of the world outside of India and the Middle East, this is literally how people get to know each other (both men and woman)... although this was creepy after he kept on insisting when she clearly wasn't interested. (No means no.)... But no. Asking for a chat and offering a drink is NOT sexual harassment.
I'm just concerned that content like this with "heroes" standing up to "sexual harassment" will lead to more incidents of moral policing as we saw on Kolkata metro where two people were consensually hugging and they beat up the guy. Or when police beat up legitimate couples for kissing. Or when an entire state passes a law preventing a certain community to love and legally marry members of another... In India it's definitely a slippery slope, and we have to be careful not to immediately react without taking in context and reach the wrong conclusion, but then again it's also the rape capital of the world so you can never be too cautious... I just wish normal healthy love and sexual freedom existed in the country - without creepy dudes, yes, but also without moral policing and vigilante justice where innocent people get lynched just for asking for directions to a group of students. In fact that shows more about your mentality than the victims - if you think talking to a woman automatically entails rape, and talking to children automatically entails kidnapping, it shows that YOU have a problem and are projecting your way of thinking onto others... I mean you can't immediately blame and attack a guy without knowing his intentions and without him actually sexually harassing a woman. You have no right to take law into your own hand. You are not a judge. There is yet another real life story of this when a man called Saravjeet Singh was wrongly accused by one Jasleen Kaur for harassment and lost his job and his whole life. He was acquitted and the women was found to have made up the story. Yet "heroes" like this happily paraded him as a rapists, demanded justice! (On the internet of course. No one dare does that in real life).
Yes we have to stand up to legitimate sexual harassment, which ironically never happens in real life in India because individual judgment is always overruled by mob mentality trying to enforce religious conservative (and honestly blatantly sexists) morals & behaviour. In reality it's a lot more fu**ed up than shown in this whitewashed skit. In real life rapists walk free and violence towards women is never questioned (when a husband beats his wife she deserved it, when a husband rapes his wife it's not rape because they are married), yet sweet love and legitimate interests between attracted humans is instantly shut down and shamed in an effort to prevent some sort of crime, probably a "moral" crime (sex before marriage? God forbid!... (I never had that, never spoke to a woman before the age of 30, and am in a shitty arranged marriage with a person I dislike, so you must suffer the same faith.)) which might never happen -- again, mentally backwards people projecting their dirty minds onto the innocent and liberally minded. Be cautions when judging. And stand up when you actually have to.
As India develops, becomes more integrated into the global culture, and as more people start urban lives -- it's values too will need to progress. Now is a good time to question where your social rules actually come from and whether they could be improved for everyone's benefit.
I understand bro. 🤜
@@akshaykm04 Thanks bro
The fact that he kept insisting repeatedly is the important part here. When he asked her the first time no one said anything to him and when she clearly indicated that she's not interested he shouldn't have tried to coerce or coax her into it. Your long ass comment is irrelevant to this because this is clear case of harassment.
@@gemini1404 Irritating someone with chai is still not sexual harassment, but it is harassment.
If you read my long ass comment you will see I clearly mention that.
@@MultiSciGeek oh really? Then why did he coerce only the woman to "sit with him"? If his harassment in this case would've been gender neutral it could've been directed at anyone but this guy purposely and repeatedly only targeted the woman to sit with him...when she was clearly not interested. I guess for guys like you unless and until a woman is physically touched you don't see it as sexual harassment.
Highly appricated
Although i don't understand the language but through subtitles i read all the discussion
In reality we should stand for urself....every women is a super women... Just a small defend towards the sexual harassment is enough to overcome from it...
He didn't do anything harassing. The woman is over reacting. The man seemed attracted to the woman. If the woman did not like him, she could politely decline his request. The man was polite enough. This concept is totally wrong.
U sick bro? U can get ur mindset tested sometime soon uk..life isn't a Bollywood movie.
It feels hell lot of creepy when a random guy treats u like that..
@@anshikasrivastava8409 Society is such that its men who have to approach women. Women do not approach men. Here we can see that the man likes the girl. So politely, he asks the girl to sit down and talk. He doesn't do anything vulgar or offensive. The girl is so rude to him and over reactive inspite of him being nice! If she didn't want to talk to him, she could have refused politely. She could have been compassionate about it. But no, she just assumed he was a harasser. It takes guts and confidence for anyone to approach someone. Can you approach a guy you find attractive on the street so easily? No! So at least when she is rejecting him, she can be a bit more kind. Not everyone is a harasser.
@@anshikasrivastava8409 Oh, that behaviour is too damn creepy is it? So it would have been better if he would have whistled at her, called her sexy and asked for kiss?? The motive of the video is good, but the final result is not very practical.
@Tsukiyomi He was still polite about it. The girl was angry. All he tried to do was calm her down. And he was quite respectful about it. If she didn't like him, she could have directly say that no, sorry she was not interested in him. But she didn't and just raged about. That is wild.
Why can't a woman be respected for being a human First..??
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no one deserves respect just for existing
you have to earn respect
If she sat with the guy no one would call her a slag, double standards. But that was weird, definitely.
Because they should not even asking her to sit was not wrong it's wrong when she said no and you are still doing it
It's just sad women are still not treated equally their people with feelings too
Yes, totally agree.
Plz ban this harrasment and give respect to women 🙏🙏🙏