Kendall and Grocery Store Joe Say Their Goodbyes - Bachelor in Paradise
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- čas přidán 20. 09. 2021
- Kendall Long and 'Grocery Store' Joe Amabile work to get some closure in their relationship, and Joe tells her that he came here because he knew it was over between them -- and that he thought she felt the same. The two hug and part ways, and Kendall leaves the beach. From 'Bachelor in Paradise' season 7, episode 9, 'Week 6.' Watch 'Bachelor in Paradise' 2021 TUESDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
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The regret Kendall feels right now is a reminder to all of us: home is where your heart is. Good love is worth moving across the world for. It's not the man you're moving for, it's your love and your heart.
100%. I moved halfway across the world to be with my husband and left my friends and family back home. Sacrificed the life I’ve lived and enjoyed, to build a new home with the love of my life. No regrets.
Love, heart, comfort, safety…
I wanted her to stay on the show despite Joe having moved on. I miss the Arie days with her, Tia, and Becca.
I moved for My ex and he was not worth at all.. he lied about everything our lives would look like and was completely lazy his name is Sean pinho. Horrible fiance. Most men are horrible to women.
Or compromise and start fresh at a new location.. One where they both could've had new roots. I'm sorry but I believe deep down they will always love each other. To quick for a new romance
Public service announcement: good people are hard to find so don't take that for granted.
PREACH! There’s too much, I don’t know how good I had it till I lost it.
I felt sorry for her but joe such gentle man that shows how he respect women .
Joe has a good point. Joe is right kendall had all the opportunity in the world to tell Joe that she wanted him back before they got to paradise. They literally dated for two years like they have each other’s fucking numbers. They know each other’s igs like they could’ve dmed
Kendall did not come to meet up with Joe. She came to find someone new. But seeing Joe set her back. If Kendall had come first and Joe had to see her falling in love while He's still single and feeling up connections, he'd be feeling salty too.
This was honestly heartbreaking and I know the pain of missing an ex, but she should have used better foresight and told him before he got to Paradise. He will always love her, but he's probably done a lot of work to move on himself because she never expressed she wanted him back until now.
I think if he said he still had feelings for her and they kissed, she would have stayed and screwed it all up for Serena. I’m glad he knew it was over and let her go.
He let her go a long time ago, she was refusing to go.
@@NH-tb2sm So true. Some people just don’t get the message. Lol. I am embarrassed for her since she seems to be oblivious.#joerena.
I think (just my opinion) Looking at the last season and what Joe had to go through to get her- and how many times he waited for her-I think that she expected Joe to keep chasing her. I don’t think she was prepared for the idea that nice Joe would simply move on.
That's what she gets for coming on paradise to try to reconcile with him instead of calling him before he went on the show. His heart was wide open for her and then he closed it on her and reopened it! She will regret this for a long time unfortunately. These fame seekers are too much!
I have been watching both seasons with them yet again! Kendall has NO ONE to blame but herself! Joe was so into her but she kept wanting to test the waters with other men! He stayed patiently waiting for her every darn time! Even after they ended up together.. She couldn't bend for him just a bit! She gave up a great guy whom was probably her soul mate. You can't keep tampering with folks emotions. I hope Kendall learned from this! I wish Joe the best in life.. He's A great man! God bless!
that awkward 30 second pause after kendall asked him why he was here is just omgggggggggggg
I can see that Joe accepted that Kendall and him broke up. Kendall did not want to try to move to Chicago (Joe tried to live in Los Angeles). Kendall seemed to have a hard time getting over him. I think Joe being honest and telling Kendall the truth was a good thing.
Tbh, i dont think she wants joe back but doesnt want anyone to be with him either
Ding ding ding. He was “nice Joe” who was suppose to always chase her and be there just in case she couldn’t find someone else. She never considered he’d move on.
She’s going to regret losing such an amazing guy!
Smart man joe.
It’s true, if she truly wanted him back, she would’ve told him before he started this whole thing.
she’s already left him once, she did it again, she’d def do it again in the future
💯 Whether or not he & Serena make it (I hope they found their forever person), it will never work with Kendall. She misses having him in her life, on her terms. She’s not saying she wants to be with him & build a life together. She wants him to always be there for her but did not appreciate him when she had him. She crashes his dang proposal and when Serena hears, she asks him how he is doing - that is love. Kendall would have broken his heart, again. Serena’s love for him is so sweet and sincere. I just hope Joe is smart & doesn’t break her heart. (If he does, his dad will kill him)
Honestly she should leave because there’s no point in her being down there because she’s just been distracted this whole time watching joe and Serena fall in love and hasn’t really found anything.
Bruh watch the show
@@thegodpotato132 I have been watching the show
@@SydneyKong watch closer
@@thegodpotato132 I don’t know how much closer I can get because I’ve watched every episode at least twice. I used to watch the beginning episodes three times
And feeling miserable. I love Joe and Serena. They make a beautiful couple. I think they will have beautiful children.
She had her chance. She has to let him go and try to find her happiness with someone else.
Are we really supposed to feel sorry for Kendall, who hadn't seen Joe in a year and a half, but felt the need to go see him in Paradise to let him know she's finding it hard being without him ?
It's really an annoying scene. He asks her why she came down, and she goesn't answer him. Instead she asks why he is there.
honestly at first i was like well that’s what she gets but… i can see she’s completely heartbroken and devastated. i don’t think anyone deserves to feel like that. i hope she can get through this and find her forever person.
She need man that lives in her home town. She won't move anywhere, that is why Joe and her broke up. . If you love your man, you would go with him wherever he lives.
She hates to see Joe happy with another woman. 1 and a years is a long time. Get over it. Just wish Joe and Serena happiness in their future and move on.
@@RodeoCowgirl-55 He could’ve moved for her too but he didn’t. Neither of them wanted to move for each other so that is both of their faults. Not just hers. That makes no damn sense lol
Relax. I never said I wanted her to be with Joe. I said I hope she finds her person. Nobody is perfect and shit happens. She still deserves happiness just like Joe and Serena deserve their happiness.
@@user-dk4ui1cp9x he did moved with her before. He probably felt it was his turn to move and she won't. If she love him enough, she would.
Just a reminder : Kendall and Tia are from Arie's season, he has 3 kids now... 😅
And Becca
LMAOOO TRUEEE
That's such a dumb comparison. 🙄 He had 30+ women to pick from.
A better comparison would be Ari's wife
@@keln7804 Yes that's it.
Why did Kendall wait for a year plus if she still loved Joe!! I really like what Joe has with Serena, even if what he had with Kendall was good too, but I think she should close that chapter and allow Joe to move on peacefully if he has moved on🤷♀️
Why would she wait until paradise to tell him that...😏
I think what people need to understand is that she didn’t ‘wait’ a year to tell Joe how she felt. Sounds like they both decided it was over & they both tried to move on in their own ways & respect each other’s space to help the process of moving on in that year they were apart. Sometimes it’s easy to convince yourself you’re over someone so when the opportunity arises to see them again you think it’s a good idea & it’ll be friendly and you can mend the friendship you once had but a lot of times upon seeing the person old feelings resurface & you find yourself wondering where all the work you did to move on went, it’s easy to become lost in it all again. May not make a lot of sense now, but usually trusting your gut feeling is the best thing you can do for yourself.
This is actually genuinely sad... however, I feel like she had her chance and blew it.
she did that to her own self… self sabotage
Why would Kendall wait that long and then go on a show to try and get him back? She almost lost him the first time around! She has been on that show before and knows what happens when former relationships collide with new relationships on the show. I'm glad she came to her senses and left the show! It would have been a disaster for her to stay and watch Joe's relationship grow in person. I think if Kendall tried before the show, we would not be seeing this breakup on tv, they would have started dating again.
Can't wait tommorrow night to see my favorite couple Dean and Caelynn
Poor Joe. Kendall should not have gone there and put herself through that when her relationship with Joe was over already.
They love their city more than each other. Nobody was willing to move to make this relationship work.
@@vandweller6740 Oh wow I didn't know he lived there that long. I thought it was for a couple of months. Yes, I think you're right. He is able to move on because he actually tried harder. He gave himself closure.
“She was really upset and it’s because of joe” Well that’s her own fault like what ?!
Her fault because she won't move to Chicago with him.
@@RodeoCowgirl-55 FACTSSSS
I feel for Kendall but I do not believe she should be bachelorette like some are calling for.She won’t move from California and that is her prerogative so why go on a show where everyone you meet lives in another state??I mean you shouldn’t go into a relationship expecting someone to move for you .Why set yourself up for another failed relationship??
Producers need drama, so I am sure they enticed her to come on the show....BUT, she should have known better than to think it would be okay to try to reconcile on TV, without considering that it wouldn't work out.
I still feel so bad for Kendall. Shes either engaged or married now,but,we all know who she would of chose first.
Bye bye Kendall 👋
Heart breaking, tragic ... they loved each other immensely. Should have had Kendall on at the beginning .... and maybe, maybe it could've worked .... so many "what ifs" here ....
Just bummed it didn't work
Poor Kendall.
I'm sorry but I just don't think him and Serena will last. She's so young. Maybe she's mature and wants the same things as he does and if so that's great. I hope I am wrong.
We don't care what YOU THINK!!!! stop having opinions on folks relationships.
@@ImaniDMoses lol what? that’s what the entire show is about 😆 and it’s super scripted too
Like why would you come down there just to try and get back with your ex boyfriend who doesn’t have feelings for you and moved on with someone else
Because she thinks she's all that and Joe would want to be with her the minute he saw her.
@@NH-tb2sm trueee
He does have feelings for her...said who he doesnt.
@@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv he literally said I loved her I’m always gonna care about her but it’s not there with Kendall. He doesn’t have feelings for her. He has feelings for Serena
I just remember Kendal having alot of deep issues for day one.. she really needs to move on..
He's the one that got away
It wasn’t meant to be.
She messed up big time! Relationship is sacrifice! Now, you have lost a good man. Serena, don't messed up too!!!!
Please he’s weird as f she’ll get over it same as he did.
I think now she finally got closure and she can move on
She's the type to think Joe will come back to her at some point.
@@NH-tb2sm lol I think he will
@@lilpandarose definitely not. So glad he's with Serena
@@NH-tb2sm I don't see it lasting last Paradise. I'd give it a year
"Love" is not enough to carry a relationship, there need to be agreement and willingness to compromise and to adapt. She wants Joe but, on her terms, that's no know it works.
But, after all I think that Joe is going to break up with Serena.
Update: I'm so, so, so glad I was wrong about Joe and Serena. Yay!
What is very sad is that Serena is going to get her heart broken because Joe most likely will break up with her. People should never completely open up to someone and then turn around and break-up. Say what you mean and mean what you say. I feel bad for Serena she does not deserve to be hurt. They both assured each other that they were in love.
@@curtisjones400 you're totally right.
He better not. I think despite age age difference and all, they are both mature and humble enough to make it work. #teamjoerena.
I just hope not. Serena is sooo mature for her age and carries herself well. Joe likes that.
Maybe in your dreams.
Spoiler alert, he went there and stayed for Serena P
I wish Kendall all the best. She will hopefully meet a great guy and not have to move somewhere that she really doesn’t want to be. Joe wasn’t a good fit for her anyway…in my opinion.
They say love can move mountains....yet her love cant move her tush to Chicago
I moved away from home for my fiance
It is my opinion that Joe did not come on Paradise for anything other then T.V ( like they all do)and he was surprised he caught feelings for Serena. I mean why would anyone who had a breakup because of logistics go on a show to find love ❤️ with a cast of people living in other states ??? It is also my opinion that Kendall simply came on the show to rekindle something with Joe even if for a short time and nothing changed she would still have more moments with the man she still loved.Her heart pulled her to the beach not her head.
No you Just a terrible person if you can’t see people are good.
@@thegodpotato132 I think they are good people.I never stated otherwise.
He never reminds her or anyone else he moved to LA for her! And she wouldn’t even try moving to Chicago. He’s an east coast Midwest boy def not west coasts and she’s too Cali
She can’t be serious and why the hell Becca was crying?
I shipped them when they were on Paradise last time, and they ended up together. I think he and Serena are cute, but I was still kind of hoping he'd get back with Kendall. However, it would have been pointless. She didn't want to move to Chicago, and Joe had obviously chosen Chicago over a life with her in LA. She also waited until she came to Paradise, and the producers sent her late because they were probably hoping for a messy love triangle. Joe didn't give them one, though. He seems over Kendall and very happy with Serena.
I really do feel for Kendall. ): everyone has been criticizing her for her actions, but ultimately it is hard seeing your ex advance in their relationship in a place that is so nostalgic.
I love Serena Pitt, but I think she’s way too young. + dude, Joe going to face the same conflict. Serena is literally from Canada…
Which would make it easier for her to move to his state
That is one thing I have noted - their age difference. It is 12 years. It's 15 with Kenny and Mari. Those obviously are not insurmountable. There are couples with those age differences, but I do think it could possibly add some challenge.
I'm taking 2:1 bets KnJ will get back together . . . down the road.
I moved away from home to be with my love. No sympathy for her
weird, but I can see Kendall as a bachelorette and Joe as the bachelor :)
You can't love your ex wife and serrano to so you have to make your mind up
He already made his mind up as Kendal refused to move away to his hometown.
Kendall and Joe were the real couple. He chose a child over a real woman and love! Joe is perverted!
Kendall's part here feels edited to me... using her pauses between words (while putting joe on the Camera) and only choosing parts that make her indecisive- I feel like I missed out on some dialogue...