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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
  • You asked, we answer! 🙌🏻 It's time to sit down and catch up as it was a while since our last Q&A! We revisit some topics we have touched on before to give you our updated opinions, and also our honest and open answers to the Top Questions you've been wondering about. Thank you so much for being here, we appreciate each and every one of you! Love y'all!✨
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    00:00 Welcome back to Svalbard
    01:53 Polar Bear danger during Polar Night?
    02:56 Storm Shelter in Longyearbyen?
    05:02 What do you miss from the mainland?
    05:51 Where would you move?
    07:22 Is this real daily life?
    08:01 Will Longyearbyen expand?
    10:33 What surprises you about polar night?
    11:11 Seasonal Depression?
    12:41 New Puppy for Grim?
    14:06 Vlogmas 2023?
    14:36 Avalanche fencing
    14:49 Why Tractor Supply fans?!
    16:48 Make videos about the school?
    18:54 Do you still not want kids?
    22:04 What do your tattoos mean?
    24:31 Nordic Baking in the works!
    25:00 We love you!
    About Cecilia:
    Cecilia Blomdahl is originally from Sweden and moved to Svalbard 8 years ago. She works as a photographer and videographer in Longyearbyen, and with her social media channels. Check her out on tiktok and instagram under her handle @sejsejlija! Here on youtube she posts videos about her daily life in her cabin with her boyfriend Christoffer and her dog Grim, living just outside of Longyearbyen. Subscribe for videos about her daily life as well as adventures on an island close to the North Pole. They have polar bears there!

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  • @OsMom133
    @OsMom133 Před 6 měsíci +744

    Just a black, 45 year old single mom living in America (Baltimore) binge watching, learning and day dreaming about your lifestyle. I saw a reel or TikTok a week ago and now I’m hooked. I don’t want to be cold but I love the idea of finding a season or place you love, simplicity and being still. Thanks for sharing

    • @amyeastin5263
      @amyeastin5263 Před 6 měsíci +19

      Welcome. I’ve been following Cecilia Vlogs for years.

    • @jenniferhull3290
      @jenniferhull3290 Před 6 měsíci +34

      Me too single black woman in Baltimore. I'm not far from you in Annapolis. Love watching that lifestyle but not sure if I could handle the cold.

    • @jeanettejohnson7315
      @jeanettejohnson7315 Před 6 měsíci +31

      Who cares what color you are??Just relax and enjoy the channel.

    • @luciddreamer128
      @luciddreamer128 Před 6 měsíci +7

      I'm doing the same in the UK lol 😆

    • @SIC647
      @SIC647 Před 6 měsíci +41

      ​@@jeanettejohnson7315You obviously care...

  • @spruceysarah
    @spruceysarah Před 6 měsíci +1025

    I died laughing when Christopher couldn't remember his cat's name because I can just imagine a cat with Christopher Energy and the two of them not knowing each other's names because they never spoke. Also, I'm so excited for another year of polar night videos!!!

  • @prinzessinnnn
    @prinzessinnnn Před 6 měsíci +174

    I love how Christoffer lights up when talking about the fresh vegetables 🥰 a true chef!!!!

  • @amyrudolph1090
    @amyrudolph1090 Před 6 měsíci +93

    I think it is fantastic that they are so protective of the children being on film and respectful of the parents' wishes. That is how everybody should be.

    • @leelaural
      @leelaural Před 6 měsíci +5

      we exploit children here in America....its shameful what parents get away with...

  • @judyl5260
    @judyl5260 Před 6 měsíci +543

    The children’s privacy in Norway is well protected..your laws are wise

    • @letarogers6380
      @letarogers6380 Před 6 měsíci +7

      CZcams also has strict rules on showing children. Often comments will be disabled in videos here. (You can google why. It’s creepy that they have to.)

    • @willowmoon5063
      @willowmoon5063 Před 6 měsíci +30

      Something we should have in place here in America. Children get exploited to much.

    • @SIC647
      @SIC647 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Most countries do. It mainly seems to be a USAmerican thing to not have.

    • @donnabaardsen5372
      @donnabaardsen5372 Před 6 měsíci +26

      I lived in Norway for years, am also fluent in the language and culture. There's a very dark side to this so-called protection of children there. One can and does very easily lose their children for highly questionable reasons. Their child protection agencies (Barnevern) have removed children for appalling reasons: the biggest one being if you're a Christian, and raising them in a Christian home and raising them with Christian values. They and the government determine what's acceptable or not. Fairly recently, Christian parents with five children lost them when Barnevern decided they didn't agree with what the children were being taught. Further, you are not permitted to raise your voice/yell at your children when you deem it necessary, to make them do much of anything, including expecting them to obey instructions to help clean, etc. In all the years I lived there, I witnessed children behaving disgracefully towards their parents when they wanted something, or were told to do anything they didn't want to do. When I balked at this and told them to discipline them? They told me they couldn't because the government would take them! I said "I'd let them!" Make no mistake: Norwegian children run the home, are boss, know it, take full advantage accordingly. Absolutely true.
      Around the mid 2000s, one of Norway's newspapers, Verdens Gang, did an article about this. They interviewed a large number of teens and young adults in their 20s, most of them still living at home. Why? Because, they said, their parents owed them this and other things, because they didn't ask to be born. That it was their right because of this. I kid you not. Keep in mind that the Norwegian government promotes this thinking, and parents because they fear them, go right along with this. Interestingly, the title of this article was, translated, "Spoiled Entitled Golden Children" or close to that. Trust me, it's a very real, very awful thing. My now adult child is a dual citizen of Norway and America. I did not raise him there, and not just because I'm now a Christian. No government agency is going to tell me how to raise a child, and threaten me in the process. And, if a child did the same in an attempt to bully and take control of their parents and the home, they'd swiftly realize they're fighting a losing battle. If they were to threaten me with a child protection agency? Well, there's the door! Buh bye!

    • @ErnaSolbergXXX
      @ErnaSolbergXXX Před 6 měsíci

      Not at all. Norway is a terrible regime when it comes to how the government threat children. By average every child born in norway will be involved in a child protective service case (barnevernet) look at all the cases norway loose in Haag. Don't ever trust anything when the government get involved with your children.

  • @willowmoon5063
    @willowmoon5063 Před 6 měsíci +624

    As a woman who has chosen to not have children, It's annoying when people constantly ask why you still don't have any.

    • @countrygirl197906
      @countrygirl197906 Před 6 měsíci +48

      Agree, that's all I ever heard. Now that I'm older everyone assumes I have kids. Although I call my horses my idiot children. Lmao. So it really throws people off.
      I even tried getting sterilized young and no doctor would touch me. 😢 Thankfully my husband got cut. No babies in this relationship. Ever. Just pets❤

    • @darlenekozlovskis6907
      @darlenekozlovskis6907 Před 6 měsíci +29

      My son is 35 and single, and probably never will have any, my husband is upset because his bloodline dies with my son. Its all about choice, and if you don't meet the right person, what are you to do, right??

    • @willowmoon5063
      @willowmoon5063 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@countrygirl197906 absolutely, my husband and I got married later in life, and I was already set on not having children. He was on board. I show off my baby cat to everyone lol. Fur babies all the way.

    • @jeanettejohnson7315
      @jeanettejohnson7315 Před 6 měsíci +9

      I think they're just roommates.😂😁

    • @dnd1007
      @dnd1007 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@darlenekozlovskis6907 Or you can meet the perfect person and still not have children. My husband and I have been married for 16 years, very happy together, best years of my life. We've never wanted children, and nothing will change that. I'm 44 and don't regret a thing. I'm not meaning to be confrontational, just offering the perspective of someone who is happily child-free.

  • @heatherydew3361
    @heatherydew3361 Před 6 měsíci +250

    I cant tell you how much I'm looking forward to Christoffer doing the Christmas baking whilst Cecilia gets 😵‍💫 on mulled wine😂 It's a Christmas tradition now!!🤣

    • @debbiepalmer1094
      @debbiepalmer1094 Před 6 měsíci +4

      It really is!!

    • @louisebrislane6607
      @louisebrislane6607 Před 6 měsíci +7

      especially remember when she got Christoffer's age wrong & had him 20 years older!! I still crack up when I think of that!!🤣🤣🤣 It was so hilarious!!😁

    • @desratlinda8639
      @desratlinda8639 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@louisebrislane6607Lol! 😅

    • @desratlinda8639
      @desratlinda8639 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yeah, I remember when she got tipsy the last time 😂

    • @paigem7886
      @paigem7886 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hahaha just rewatched and its so funny

  • @GingerKral
    @GingerKral Před 6 měsíci +133

    I highly recommend that everyone start from the beginning. Thinking back some of the videos were pretty funny, always fun, and back in the day, there was a whole team of us rooting for Cecilia to capture footage or sound bites of Christopher. He was like the Big Foot of Svalbard. 😂 Gosh, i may go back now and binge watch..... 🩷🩷

  • @CosmicStarDust23
    @CosmicStarDust23 Před 6 měsíci +118

    Christopher he’s so chill, relaxed and cool….👊🏽

    • @Lilly-hh9es
      @Lilly-hh9es Před 6 měsíci +1

      He is booooooring yawn 😅

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Před 6 měsíci +8

      @@Lilly-hh9es some people are reserved on camera, nothing to do with boring

  • @jillian4573
    @jillian4573 Před 6 měsíci +160

    I'm 100% with you on your opinion on having children! I feel pretty much the same and am always happy if I get to know women who feel the same :)

    • @belaayya5094
      @belaayya5094 Před 6 měsíci +20

      43, married for 24 years, and we're both childfree & sterilized. As soon as we got dogs 4 years ago, it was confirmed. Children are not for us. My dogs are freaking exhausting; kids are that times 1000!

    • @Botoburst
      @Botoburst Před 6 měsíci +11

      @@belaayya5094 I'm reminded everytime my neices and nephews visit. I can't handle their energy.

    • @maemarie3926
      @maemarie3926 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I'm 35 and feel the same exact way. My husband is like Chris and has said from day 1 he would be ok with whatever decision I made. I always thought I might but I never had a strong urge to so it's a no for me 🙂 I use to be only a cat person like Cecilia as well but now I have a weimaraner who I am absolutely obsessed with 🥰 my life is so perfect and I'm so content I'm scared a baby would alter that and I just don't have a desire for one enough to take that chance.

    • @Authorthings
      @Authorthings Před 6 měsíci

      Same

    • @hereandthere6001
      @hereandthere6001 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I just love that so many women aren't being forced to have kids when they don't want them! live your life and do what you want.

  • @skiergirl4753
    @skiergirl4753 Před 6 měsíci +65

    I love how happy Grim is - he does not need a puppy!!!
    Also, you do not need to answer about a child. I am Cristoffer's age and have never regretted not having a child. I have lived my life following adventure and am happy and fulfilled. I spoil my friends' kids with bikes and skis and books and they let me be their friends. It works 😃

    • @Solarislun
      @Solarislun Před 6 měsíci +4

      I'm 41 and never wanted kids. I LOVE being an Auntie though!!

    • @chelsealouise3137
      @chelsealouise3137 Před 6 měsíci +2

      My friend never ever wanted kids she’s was together and married 20+ years they divorced and then both met new partners and my friend had a baby at 41 couldn’t believe it was so shocked. She decided she wanted to be a mummy after all. It’s not for everyone I didn’t want any but fell pregnant while on birth control then had another and was best thing I done. It’s one those things one decisions that’s very personal, if you don’t want then you don’t. Many womens bio blocks tick I can def say this as I have had mine I’m done but I
      37-38 almost and the feeling of wanting another creeps in…..but maybe if you don’t feel strongly don’t or leave it up to if it happens it does. Don’t be afraid to say no I don’t. You still have few years left nothing wrong with being older mummy. I can see why with where you live and lifestyle why having kids would be a bigger choice.
      Love you both ❤ and Grim of course

    • @alicedyment4219
      @alicedyment4219 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I actually think it's quite rude of strangers to ask about your desire (or not) to have kids. This is nobody else's business.

  • @SophiaTallulah
    @SophiaTallulah Před 6 měsíci +124

    I always find it so odd people ask the kid question. I’ve got three but wouldn’t dream of asking people such a personal question. I don’t think people realise that people might also being trying for one and struggling! Or they are just happy without.
    Anyway I like these type of videos! Thanks! 💕 xxx

    • @juliettatoedtman7973
      @juliettatoedtman7973 Před 6 měsíci +18

      Exactly. I have no kids and am happy that way. But why the need to pressure and insist someone answer such a personal question that seems to include judgement even by asking.

    • @silmuffin86
      @silmuffin86 Před 6 měsíci +3

      I agree, I have 2 kids and I'd never ask someone something like that. To this day I don't even know why my uncle and aunt don't have children, they chose not to share it with family, so we don't ask...

    • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
      @lizthedisjointedzebra692 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yep, I have a plethora of health issues, and I will never have kids for two reasons. One, because it would likely kill me from severe injury/placental abruption. Two, I could never, ever forgive myself if I passed on my shitstorm of genetics to another human being. I wouldn't wish this pain, physical and mental, on anyone.

    • @Aisha-gs2qx
      @Aisha-gs2qx Před 6 měsíci +3

      I have 2 children blessings but I agree I would never intrude and ask about children to a couple that's a very personal subject between the couple and unless they tell you I don't ask

    • @JJoy-bk8yr
      @JJoy-bk8yr Před 5 měsíci +1

      I don't have kids. To give an honest answer about why not, I would have to give the whole story of the first 50 years of my life. Ain't nobody got time for that, and why anyone even thinks they want to know is beyond me. I have been thinking of moving to a small town, but in my experience, townies are the worst when it comes to asking crazy questions, when they would not want the answers if they got them.

  • @CatWhiskering
    @CatWhiskering Před 6 měsíci +252

    You are 100% a whole, complete family without kids! Grim is all the kids you need.

    • @soulstar5161
      @soulstar5161 Před 6 měsíci +38

      ​@@HopeLaFleur1975didn't have to give birth to him to become family

    • @meenalpa
      @meenalpa Před 6 měsíci +25

      @@HopeLaFleur1975why does she need to give birth to anything ?

    • @Nina_Olivia
      @Nina_Olivia Před 6 měsíci +4

      Couldn’t agree more! ♥️

    • @loredanadincu4300
      @loredanadincu4300 Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@hopelafleur7621 Wow you sound so smart and nice, not.

    • @aszechy
      @aszechy Před 6 měsíci +8

      Dogs are not children and I'm sick of people talking about them as if they were. Yes, I know you love your dog and that's great, and maybe you don't want kids and that's cool too, but the two are really in no way comparable. (So if it is kids you want after all, don't have dog as a substitute :)

  • @70foolio
    @70foolio Před 6 měsíci +162

    Cecilia you made cry tears of joy talking about the storm buddies and how the community posts available room or hot meals. Love the love. 💞

  • @Cbiskit23
    @Cbiskit23 Před 6 měsíci +68

    Thank you for sharing your perspective on your life without kids! We chose not to have kids and as a woman honestly it feels like I don’t see a lot of examples out there of people enjoying their lives without kids and talking about that choice. It makes me feel a bit more seen!

    • @anitas5817
      @anitas5817 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Happily married 35 years, 60 now, we never wanted kids, no regrets!!

    • @according2hismercy355
      @according2hismercy355 Před 5 měsíci

      2023 we are dink videos taking over tik tok shorts the most annoying thing since .... well tik tok shorts 😂

  • @LaquetaHodge
    @LaquetaHodge Před 6 měsíci +84

    I also turned 34 & I totally love that you're both content with your lives right now. My husband and I have said we're ok if we don't have children, I've seen how trying so hard with no results can consume people & I swore never to be that way. Adoption is always an option if we can't actually have our own, but I'm just thankful for my marriage right now.

  • @celestialynx
    @celestialynx Před 6 měsíci +80

    I love watching both of you. Cecilia having that chaotic energy while Christopher is calm and zen all the time.

    • @massiahgrom
      @massiahgrom Před 6 měsíci

      Their balance is everything !!

    • @Audrey.17
      @Audrey.17 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I think I am the only one that does see his energy as zen. I have a hard time with his level of energy and decreased eye co tact. I know, this is about me. For me, I need someone who is more interactive. I am hoping this is a safe place to comment.
      Also- I know, it’s not me with him.
      But just seeing if anyone else feels the same as me. If not, that’s ok. ❤

    • @Lilly-hh9es
      @Lilly-hh9es Před 6 měsíci +2

      ​@@Audrey.17l really couldn't be with someone who can't look me in the eyes fr... his energy is like 0 but hey .. to each their own

    • @Audrey.17
      @Audrey.17 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@Lilly-hh9es thank you for your input. I was hesitant to post as I was afraid it was going to be misunderstood. I feel like you understand.

    • @88kayleigh
      @88kayleigh Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@Audrey.17yes, I think there’s someone for everyone, but I definitely would need someone who was more animated in my life too! No slander on him though, that’s just me.

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 Před 6 měsíci +113

    Cecilia, I genuinely hope you see this comment, as I want to thank you for your positivity. I live in a far north state and we experience constant darkness in the winter. Your outlook has challenged me to change my mindset around the winter time. I used to become down and depressed but now I consider myself a winter lover and the darkness doesn’t bother me like it used to. All because you challenged me to change my mindset. Each day, I gradually began to love the winter and find the beauty in it. So, thank YOU and God bless. ❤

    • @Leelaa3007
      @Leelaa3007 Před 6 měsíci +7

      It's the same for me Kate! I live in Ontario (Canada) and used to dread the winter months, especially after Christmas when all the lights were put away. But Cecilia has challenged me to look at winter in a new light and even last year I enjoyed it so much more. 🙂

    • @88kayleigh
      @88kayleigh Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@Leelaa3007she got me to put up string lights in my house year round to brighten it up! I’m also in Canada. It’s a little after 4 pm now and will be dark pretty soon… I still don’t love this darker and colder time of year, but her videos and outlook do help me!

    • @amyrudolph1090
      @amyrudolph1090 Před 6 měsíci

      That is so lovely, good on you! ❤

    • @amyrudolph1090
      @amyrudolph1090 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I live in Alaska and in my little town hardly anyone puts lights away after Christmas until March - they are so helpful!

    • @katysummer9418
      @katysummer9418 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I love winter and having a cozy home / place certainly helps but I also go outside as much as I can and that makes me feel really good. Nature is healing.

  • @LuisPerez-ft2rk
    @LuisPerez-ft2rk Před 6 měsíci +70

    I would love to see Christopher just break down and crack up laughing. That would make my year 😂. He seems to be the complete opposite of Cecilia. Not criticizing, opposites do attract, just an observation.

  • @matilda938
    @matilda938 Před 6 měsíci +33

    and my favourite thing about sundays is here🙂

    • @CeciliaBlomdahl
      @CeciliaBlomdahl  Před 6 měsíci +3

      😍 You're the best!

    • @infinityinfinity2253
      @infinityinfinity2253 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes, I commented that last week. Sunday’s are Cecilia video day and particularly winter😊

  • @CloudWatcher500
    @CloudWatcher500 Před 6 měsíci +117

    I almost spit my coffee out when you said you didn’t want to spread Grimm’s fear of floors to a new puppy….oh my goodness! 😂😂

    • @kasession
      @kasession Před 6 měsíci

      Same!!! 🤣

    • @VictoriaKimball
      @VictoriaKimball Před 6 měsíci +1

      I laughed too, because I also had a dog who was afraid of floors!

  • @alyz8376
    @alyz8376 Před 6 měsíci +38

    I love the videos with Christopher , he is so calm and collected that he makes me feel everything is going to be alright at the end

  • @elliev3593
    @elliev3593 Před 6 měsíci +37

    It is so refreshing to hear a woman say she’s leaning towards no on having children and then reading so many kind comments. Even more so that your partner is so supportive. I’ve never wanted children and that has been a huge issue for men when it comes to dating. Men have not responded kindly to my not wanting kids.
    Thank you for your honesty and sharing something so personal.

    • @forzanerazzurri2339
      @forzanerazzurri2339 Před 3 měsíci

      Your cats will eat you when you die

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen Před 3 měsíci

      You have to be a real degenerate to harrass women over this. You also have to be unintellligent and that's not lacking in the world.. This channel probably attracts more normal people.

    • @m_b_s_l
      @m_b_s_l Před měsícem

      I have two kids, i always knew I wanted them. What I didn’t know is the amount of work, effort, tiredness, exhaustion, patience, sleepless nights, selflessness and dedication that goes into them. Everything one can imagine multiply by 1000 gazillion. So kudos to you for making the other choice and not bringing kids into this world that are rejected or do not have enough of all that. I fully support child free women for making a conscious decision not to bring life into this world. Many of the ppl I know did that only because they want to protect as they don’t feel protected here. I get that 100000%. So thank you! And all the best!❤️

  • @jenniferjanssen9876
    @jenniferjanssen9876 Před 6 měsíci +30

    Greetings from NYC, love your videos and family.
    As a 58 year old woman , I’m thrilled with my decision never to have kids.
    I have always felt this way even in my younger years.
    Now I am married to a great guy who has 2 adult sons, they have become my friends, that’s great and enough.

  • @christinabennett6696
    @christinabennett6696 Před 6 měsíci +71

    Maybe you could try growing an indoor hydroponic vegetable garden? My cousins do it in northern U.S., and they love it! 😃

    • @whoopsydaisy6389
      @whoopsydaisy6389 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I wondered about this too. It turns out just getting some grow lights there is very costly.

    • @christinabennett6696
      @christinabennett6696 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@whoopsydaisy6389 IMy cousin got a whole kit last year, I think it was. It included the lights, the fixture with the planters and many different seeds. I think it was under $200 or $300? They had to assemble it, but they love it. It sounds like a waterfall and they have fresh vegetables and fruits all the time. 😃

    • @christinabennett6696
      @christinabennett6696 Před 6 měsíci

      They ordered it online and had to assemble it. It was heavy and her husband had to help her, but they love it. ❤️

  • @Mrswoo42
    @Mrswoo42 Před 6 měsíci +23

    20:43 I have two kids, and while I love them SO much, I don’t think I knew just how MUCH it is. In terms of emotional heaviness, the loss of identity and exhaustion. I’m so glad you are thinking about these specifics!

    • @desiree3488
      @desiree3488 Před 6 měsíci +5

      I love my daughter too but if I had known some things, I might not have had a child at all.

    • @ICaughtTheSnitch26
      @ICaughtTheSnitch26 Před 6 měsíci +6

      ​@@desiree3488absolutely. I have children and love them to death, but if I had an option of a do over, I'd not have them. I could be retired already if I didn't have children 😂

  • @user-pg7hk5kf1j
    @user-pg7hk5kf1j Před 6 měsíci +127

    I will never understand why people ask others about having kids, especially strangers they watch on the Internet. It's just beyond me.

    • @mortalclown3812
      @mortalclown3812 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Ditto. The combination of rude and idiotic is also next level on YT.

    • @35057
      @35057 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Exactly, it is a very personal decision and people need to understand that. Kids complicate life so much.

    • @ElgalloNegro241
      @ElgalloNegro241 Před 4 měsíci +4

      😂😂😂Glad this comment was one of the few sitting at the top section. Bought me time coz I was gonna ask the same thing. Can't believe some people at times...

    • @user-pg7hk5kf1j
      @user-pg7hk5kf1j Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@35057 It's odd, but a lot of people who watch vlogs end up feeling like they actually know the people they watch and can ask them whatever they want. They think it is acceptable to try and make vloggers share more than they already do.

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Perfectly natural question. Stop being so prickly.

  • @annescholten9313
    @annescholten9313 Před 6 měsíci +62

    I love your honesty about the desire (or lack there of) having children. Your life, your choice.❤❤❤

  • @aSoldiersGirlieGirl
    @aSoldiersGirlieGirl Před 6 měsíci +30

    I admire your sensitivity and honesty on the “having a baby” topic. It’s very well thought out and mature of the both of you. We have a daughter and I wouldn’t change it for the world, but children aren’t for everyone and others should respect that. Also, you wouldn’t want Grim spreading his “fear of floors” to human children 😂😂😂 I love it!! ❤

  • @Danielle_California
    @Danielle_California Před 6 měsíci +3

    I feel like people seems to forget that you can enjoy the cold vs the heat. I know for me, I like chilly weather, I like rain. When I tell people that they’re shocked.

  • @Xxxypher
    @Xxxypher Před 6 měsíci +4

    So much respect for Norway protecting the rights of minors and the video recording of them.

  • @jess48338
    @jess48338 Před 6 měsíci +120

    Hello Cecelia. I really enjoy your videos. The Arctic is very beautiful. I really love that Norway has strict laws about filming minors. I wish the USA would follow. The internet is becoming a terrible plan for children.

    • @amyeastin5263
      @amyeastin5263 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Totally agree about the US/filming kids/etc.

  • @Chrissyhappy
    @Chrissyhappy Před 6 měsíci +16

    Portugal may be nice for Christopher too because he could get his fresh veggies and fruit there. He’d enjoy that.😊

  • @gillykennedy9210
    @gillykennedy9210 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I know one too many people who regret having a kid. They're perfect lives were destroyed by having one and divorce and break ups happened not long after. Don't let social convention force you into doing something you don't want.

  • @emrekaya3429
    @emrekaya3429 Před 6 měsíci +5

    The way Christopher looks at Grim. Such a wonderful guy! In Turkey we believe who doesn't like animals can not love humans. In that case you are so lucky Cecilia. First time i see your videos and love it! I was just wondering about how's life in Svalbard, now i wanna see more content from you. Thanks for sharing.

    • @LucianaVIP1
      @LucianaVIP1 Před měsícem

      Do they like cats?
      You are soooo right! If a person doesn't like animals...this person is not good!!!

  • @susannesamuelsson2930
    @susannesamuelsson2930 Před 6 měsíci +55

    Greetings from Sweden!❤ My favorite thing to watch every Sunday is Cecilia, Christoffer and Grim. Such joyful cozyness from Svalbard once a week, and I love it! 👋❤️👍

    • @Alexis-ey4kp
      @Alexis-ey4kp Před 6 měsíci +4

      I feel completely the same, from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤

  • @MrKevinbeagle
    @MrKevinbeagle Před 6 měsíci +16

    Your answer to the “kids” question is identical to ours. We felt exactly the same way, we simply didn’t know and in the end opted not to have kids. And here’s something I realized, when I looked at all the people around me who have children, almost without fail, they all knew they had always wanted them, it was in their DNA and was always part of their life plans and that just wasn’t the case for us and that helped us decide. Had I become pregnant, we would have gone all out and been full on proud parents but we have our fabulous furry babies and we’re fulfilled 100% - on another subject we live in the USA in a small midwestern town and TRACTOR SUPPLY just opened here lol !!

    • @andrealevy218
      @andrealevy218 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Exactly … if someone is not dying to have them BADLY. , prob shouldn’t…

    • @tiryaclearsong421
      @tiryaclearsong421 Před 5 měsíci

      I know a couple of people who didn't always know they wanted kids, but they did have a very strong desire before I would guess 30ish. Some people realize it late, but I know way more people who realized after they had kids they would have rather not. So best advice is to have them if you really want them or just make a life with yourself. There are many benefits to a childfree life.

  • @thelaundress11
    @thelaundress11 Před 6 měsíci +11

    CHRISTOFFER WAS AMAZING! So candid and charismatic! He made eye contact and laughed! He’s warming up!!!!

  • @mmercer93
    @mmercer93 Před 6 měsíci +22

    100% agree that having kids or not having kids are both an equally valid life choice. I felt exactly like you and then around 36 or 37, I started wanting a child. Kind of suddenly, it was hard to picture our future without one. We had our first when I was 37 and second when I was 41. Of course, now I can’t imagine our lives any other way. Lol.

  • @70foolio
    @70foolio Před 6 měsíci +20

    I like how you explained that Polar Nights are “Cozy”.
    I have Seasonal depression so I purchased “Natural light” light bulbs that are a bright light with blue hues. I find them very helpful.

  • @jodiuhron1979
    @jodiuhron1979 Před 6 měsíci +33

    I agree on Grim being an only dog. We have a 15-year-old Shih Tzu named Sydney. She’s been an only dog since she was 4 months-old when she came to live with us. When she was 2, we thought about getting another puppy, but then I ended up getting pregnant with our daughter (surprise!). So, that put an end to getting dog #2. At this point in Syd’s life at age 15 as she gets older, she would have a hard time adjusting to a new puppy/dog. Also, as she ages, she will require us to give her more care. She also gets overwhelmed when around other younger dogs. For now, we have the best of both worlds with one child and one dog. Our daughter is 12 now and has grown up with Syd. They are “the kids.”

    • @spikespa5208
      @spikespa5208 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Grim reminds me of......me. 15 -30 minutes of socializing with others then, "OK, that's enough."

  • @EmunaZamani
    @EmunaZamani Před 6 měsíci +14

    Christoffer not remembering the name of the cat caused me to laugh so hard. It was actually a healing laughter due to dealing with some not so pleasant family stuff. Thank you for not editing that part out. I needed it.

  • @janiceh4521
    @janiceh4521 Před 6 měsíci +22

    I love that you both stand by your beautiful lives with or without children. If a person wants kids there is a need/drive and it’s not wrong to not have it either. People need to respect other’s decision neither is wrong. Life can be full, happy, healthy & fulfilling with kids, dogs, cats, adventures or living in same spot for 50 years! I love seeing the beauty of life on Swalvard! Can’t wait for polar nights❤

  • @evalynnchristiansen9430
    @evalynnchristiansen9430 Před 6 měsíci +1762

    Dear Cecillia, if you don't have very strong feelings about having children, please don't have any. It's really hard even if a person simply craves kids. It's ok not to have kids.

    • @kara2162
      @kara2162 Před 6 měsíci +120

      So agree. It’s hard enough having/raising kids even when they are much desired. Most likely you would have felt a strong pull by the time you were 30 to move heaven and earth if you wanted children.

    • @jphanks
      @jphanks Před 6 měsíci +116

      My 23 year old son decided not to have kids 4 years ago. 100% in support of his goals to live free and explore and help others. Similar to you guys! It's a great special life to not have kids!

    • @rdb4996
      @rdb4996 Před 6 měsíci +50

      ​@@jphanksyour son is very young to make such a definitive decision. I hope he gives himself grace to revisit that decision over time. ❤
      You must be proud though of him thinking life through at such a young age!

    • @christina7557
      @christina7557 Před 6 měsíci +73

      I have 4 special needs kids and if I hadn't chosen to be a mom, it could've gone wrong. I'm just grateful I get to be their mom, but it's not for everyone

    • @gingerleamcwow435
      @gingerleamcwow435 Před 6 měsíci +75

      ​@@jphanksMy daughter is 19 and after her 1st year of college, she told us that she's fairly certain that having kids isn't in her life plans. Of course she's young, so she may change her mind one day. But I support her no matter what she decides. She'll most likely have tons of negative comments about that the older she gets, just knowing how the majority of people in our area live and think. So, I made the choice that she'll never have to worry about hearing any negativity coming from me of all people. Its just nice when I see other mothers who are supportive in the same way. Best wishes to you and your family ❤😊

  • @AngelLuluBlu
    @AngelLuluBlu Před 6 měsíci +23

    It always amazes me that strangers have the audacity to ask you about having children. It’s none of their business, and I would never ask anyone that! Your graciousness despite the audaciousness of others is always admirable.
    As always, thank you for sharing your beautiful life with us. 🫶🏼

  • @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366
    @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366 Před 6 měsíci +35

    Thank you. I was married to a man older then me. I felt the same way. We chose to not have kids because our life was so so amazing and full. But years later he passed to cancer. And after a long while I remarried and had 5 kids. I’ve had the best of both worlds. My kids are older now and have all graduated and working. I guess I’m telling you because I’ve done both and ultimately it’s what you want in your lives. I loved both times in my life. If it is meant to be it will be. Just live a happy life. I do and I’m grateful.

    • @anikohrabovszky21
      @anikohrabovszky21 Před 6 měsíci +6

      wow, what a life you've had so far and lovely comment:)

    • @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366
      @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366 Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you. Yes it feels like I’ve had 2 incredible lives. I find the good in every thing. There’s always something good if your eyes are open.

  • @ohunuhon7917
    @ohunuhon7917 Před 6 měsíci

    i just get so relaxed by seeing you guys relaxed. thank you so much 😊

  • @sarahslovely08
    @sarahslovely08 Před 6 měsíci

    Love these sit downs. Thanks for these videos guys. ❤ God Bless you both.

  • @ellafit7974
    @ellafit7974 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I like Christopher! He is so calm

  • @Iris5556
    @Iris5556 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Kids can be wonderful, but they are also a sacrifice. Mine are close to being adults now. I don’t regret having them at all but I also wanted them very badly. We all have different paths in life and either choice is valid ❤.

  • @melissaromaine2206
    @melissaromaine2206 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love your Sunday videos, look forward to them. Thank you!!❤

  • @aleissa07
    @aleissa07 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love the warm vibe from this video

  • @equinistrahorses6221
    @equinistrahorses6221 Před 6 měsíci +11

    As a Canadian, I love the 4 seasons. I love the changes. Fall and winter are my favourites we have longer nights but I also love being outside on cold sunny days

  • @lisaharr1477
    @lisaharr1477 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Great video Cecilia ! You three are so special to watch and so enjoyable ! My favorite day is Sunday when there is a new video from you !! kisses to Grim !!! 💕💕💕💕

  • @lizstoutenour1856
    @lizstoutenour1856 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing your lives with us!!! It's always a pleasure ❤

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you as always for your graciousness! 😊❤

  • @cazdunlop387
    @cazdunlop387 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you for allowing us into your journey through life , I just love learning all about both of you and your way of life

  • @flemmingrostock5340
    @flemmingrostock5340 Před 6 měsíci +4

    You 3 are absolutely heart-warming to watch.

  • @jennifercesario9238
    @jennifercesario9238 Před 6 měsíci +2

    It's really good to hear that longyearben will not be overpopulated, or become a larger village. We need more laws like this in all rural wild areas in the world!!! We need to preserve our natural habitats and keep the wild wild! ❤

  • @rhiannonarjona5718
    @rhiannonarjona5718 Před 6 měsíci

    I always love your videos. They are the highlight of my week. Thank you for sharing.

  • @TravelsWithKy
    @TravelsWithKy Před 6 měsíci +13

    This was a very calming and chill episode. Always enjoy learning more about all 3 of you!

  • @SD-ol9os
    @SD-ol9os Před 6 měsíci +12

    I love your content! My great grandmother was from southern Sweden, so I really enjoy your videos and learning Scandinavian culture. It's wonderful that you take us along your journey with daily tasks and living on Svalbard.

  • @nikkihollabaugh868
    @nikkihollabaugh868 Před 6 měsíci

    Your outlook on life helps me so much, Cecilia, thank you!

  • @mc5366
    @mc5366 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Loved this relaxed vibes of answering people's questions. Love your channel!

  • @keyshalis18
    @keyshalis18 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I love my Sunday routine in the am just because I get to watch these videos while I enjoy my coffee and escape for a bit!

  • @okjessicah
    @okjessicah Před 6 měsíci +17

    I love listening to Christoffer talk. He has SUCH a calming presence. Loved this video too!

  • @helenelee3034
    @helenelee3034 Před 6 měsíci

    Love your videos. Very educational and a way to learn about parts of the world we never knew about! Thank you💚

  • @michellev4165
    @michellev4165 Před 6 měsíci

    Cecilia....I LOVE love loveeee your videos. They always put a smile on my face. Thank-you!!!! ❤❤

  • @33jwill3
    @33jwill3 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Christopher is such a calming presence. He is quiet strength.

  • @samanthafranklyput
    @samanthafranklyput Před 6 měsíci +8

    Greetings from Canada, Svalbard fam! 😊 Thanks for the morning chat.

  • @sjlyle28
    @sjlyle28 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You guys seem like such good, genuine people. Love the videos, as always.

  • @kellieprestidge9346
    @kellieprestidge9346 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Y’all are the best! ❤

  • @amyeastin5263
    @amyeastin5263 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Loved this Q/A session. Loved the questions and gave even more insight to you both who I’ve already been following for years. Can’t wait for “drunk” baking episode. (I still laugh). You guys are honestly the best. Never stop being you-and letting us out here join in your life. ❤

  • @nathan.brazil780
    @nathan.brazil780 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I always love seeing the interaction between these two. Christopher is always so laid back and chill to Cecilia's hyper happiness.
    His answer to the children question is perfect.

  • @libbybertrand9320
    @libbybertrand9320 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great Q & A! Looking forward to Holiday baking with Christoffer. You guys are awesome❤️

  • @Alessa-Kaz
    @Alessa-Kaz Před 4 měsíci

    You both have such a calm nice energy. Great to watch

  • @juliamallon2948
    @juliamallon2948 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Great video. I love that Christoffer is so much more involved and vocal!!

  • @rosemaryrodriguez6497
    @rosemaryrodriguez6497 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Watching Grim, Christoffer with You as well makes my day. Continue to create more content ❤❤❤

  • @coraskye4149
    @coraskye4149 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for continuing to make videos! Every week they make my mornings cozy while I drink my coffee. Love you both ❤

  • @storytelller
    @storytelller Před 6 měsíci

    Bravo for the honesty!

  • @sonjaanderson5216
    @sonjaanderson5216 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hi Cecilia, Christopher, and Grim
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful adventures with us!
    My ancestors are from Norway and we live in Canada. The landscapes that you share are breathtaking.❤

  • @mineolas
    @mineolas Před 6 měsíci +5

    How chill is Christopher. You guys are two opposite it’s hilarious 🙌🏻

  • @kezzien56
    @kezzien56 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks for yet another great Q&A Cecilia. You, Christoffer and of course Grim are such a wonderful calming presence and show amazing footage of a place many of us will never get to see so thank you. I will as always continue to watch ❤

  • @shirleyedginton7968
    @shirleyedginton7968 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you both and Grim of course. It is really refreshing to hear you speak your truth, instead of what you think people want to hear. Thank you for the q and a, always enjoyable and informative. All the best, love to all xxx

  • @nikole9640
    @nikole9640 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Dear Cecilia & Christoffer, i love when you guys sit down and do these Q&As. Just always love to hear from you guys and see you’re doing well.🙏🏼🤍 Our Svalbard SUPERSTARS!🤩🌟✨
    I’m so happy to see your channel is growing fast, you deserve it! Keep up the great work! You are an inspiration to the world.🌎
    Thank you guys. Love you lots.❤️

  • @markuserikssen
    @markuserikssen Před 6 měsíci +8

    Very interesting answers! I had the feeling Longyearbyen was a "booming" town because of tourism and such, and I saw that they were constructing apartment buildings in the central part of town. But it's good to hear that it's not expanding much otherwise, and that there are strict rules on where they can build.

  • @Michelle_143.
    @Michelle_143. Před 6 měsíci +2

    Seeing your channel grow is amazing!!!!!

  • @mh8241
    @mh8241 Před 6 měsíci

    I love your sit down chats, your accents are both so calming! Keep em coming🥰 xx

  • @patwilkinson2182
    @patwilkinson2182 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you both so much for sharing your lives with us. ❤

  • @endless_summer_rose
    @endless_summer_rose Před 6 měsíci +16

    Hi Cecilia! Your cabin looks so cozy! I love it! And Grim and Christopher and you! Hugs
    Also I would love to see that night sky. Hugs

  • @goodvibes2231
    @goodvibes2231 Před 6 měsíci

    I love you both with your personalities ❤ and energies. It is always a huge pleasure to watchyour videos. Whatever you do or not do, it is just right !! Thank you for sharing your life from the North.

  • @therealdeal3672
    @therealdeal3672 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Having a kid is an entirely personal decision and it is funny that people ask you about it. I put it off as long as possible and at age 37 realized it was something I was more than ready to do. And our son was born when I was 38. It's been the greatest blessing in our lives. But I've known couples who were childless who enjoyed their lives together making each other and their life together as the focus. Wishing you well! Thank you for sharing your world with us! ❄️

  • @marep5597
    @marep5597 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I’m so happy you share your life and beautiful island with the world. And Grim of course. I am fascinated by the Arctic and Antarctic. I know I could never live there but am grateful I can experience it vicariously.

  • @MaddieMadMoo1
    @MaddieMadMoo1 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Hi Cecilia, Christoffer and Grim. I can't beleive we are going into another Polar Night, it barely seems a few weeks since it ended. Thank you for the chill out and answering some questions. Your weekly videos and the catch ups on Patreon are the highlights of my week 💖💖 So much so that I am actively looking at getting a job on Svalbard as I very much need a change in my life.

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 Před 6 měsíci

    ,lovely To see you both & Grim ❤ love hearing about your life in Svalbard and see the most Breathtaking views
    Around you . Thank you so much for sharing 🥰
    Have a Good week 🥰

  • @andrewpike1993
    @andrewpike1993 Před 6 měsíci

    Been watching your channel for ages and just when I think I know most things about Svalbard I always learn something new! Love your Q&A videos, they’re wholesome, informative and funny too. Thanks for your willingness to share so much with us 👍

  • @sarahfarrell8214
    @sarahfarrell8214 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I love Sunday morning when I get to watch your video! Looking forward to Christopher's holiday cooking!

  • @lolamolly8723
    @lolamolly8723 Před 6 měsíci +38

    Every Sunday me and my two Boston terriers watches you, Christofer and Grim. We enjoyed watching all your videos. Hugs and kisses to Grim from Molly and Lola ❤🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺

    • @HandbagDiva
      @HandbagDiva Před 6 měsíci

      I have 2 Boston’s as well. One brindle & one lilac.

    • @threetreasures7698
      @threetreasures7698 Před 6 měsíci

      Me and my Tuxedo cat, Vesta LOVe watching this during their polar night which coincides with our (NYC) winter.

  • @nadinemaurer1148
    @nadinemaurer1148 Před 3 měsíci

    So interesting. You two are amazing together. Thanks for sharing.

  • @jeffminor1583
    @jeffminor1583 Před měsícem

    Great video, thank you, all three of you.