9 surprising mistakes men make when sliding into women's DM's

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @BervieReviews
    @BervieReviews Před 3 lety +4

    Oh my! 🤣😂🤣 It's your gestures for me with those pickup lines🤣

  • @Ben256MB
    @Ben256MB Před 3 lety +19

    Ever since IG existed i have never even thought of sliding into any IG model DM because it's super lame to me . I'm more old skull as hell ! The most cost effective , easy and enjoyable way to holla at chick is to approach them in real life . Approaching women in real life on the streets, shopping malls and anywhere is invaluable because you will build a lot of confidence . It forces you to be a great at conversations, you will be able to read women and your flirting skills also improve . You learn nothing about women DM'ing and going to on dating apps . Even if you get a woman on a date you wouldn't be able to navigate the interaction into a flirtous vibe!
    Men are just too scared of rejection which is a feminine trait! Men are supposed to be emotionally resilient and not care about what people think about them , if you have problems approaching women in real life then you're not ready have a girlfriend or a wife! Approaching women in real life is the easiest part . The difficult part is maintaining a situation with a woman .

  • @gregorycampbell3828
    @gregorycampbell3828 Před 3 lety +5

    Hi Jessica, my name is Greg, and I just started watching you yesterday and is it too soon to say I Love You. Well I really love what you are doing because we as men need this and have been needing this for a long time. I really love the way you speak, so very clear and precise. That’s beautiful. Keep up the good work, because the guy you end up accepting had better know Respect from the get go. I’m willing to bet that he would be the luckiest man on the planet. Pay attention men, to this woman and others like her, they are very special and deserve to be treated as such . Anything less, and you’re a total slacker. Keep representing Jessica, I’m with you 1000 percent.

  • @Daybreakhasme
    @Daybreakhasme Před 3 lety +132

    Rejection is your friend..seriously. It's a life saver in disguise.

    • @shandaysplays5642
      @shandaysplays5642 Před 3 lety +7

      Yup that motivates u to better yourself and be on your grind

    • @maxwell3814
      @maxwell3814 Před 3 lety +2

      Kind of positivity I need

    • @floyd_mph
      @floyd_mph Před 3 lety

      Facts

    • @shandaysplays5642
      @shandaysplays5642 Před 3 lety +6

      @Ricky Anthony no better yourself for your sake don’t do it to be seen or to be accepted by anyone do it for you.

    • @randybrown1225
      @randybrown1225 Před 2 lety +1

      How IF I REALLY LIKE HER N SHE REJECTS ME, ITS LIFE CHANGING, FUCK IM 😠,

  • @jamesnjenga5776
    @jamesnjenga5776 Před 3 lety +6

    That Gnarl there 3:06 literally cracked me up, hehe. I didn't see that coming.

  • @PajonHd
    @PajonHd Před 3 lety +2

    i love this lady one one single reason.. she only gets better

  • @geoffreyapenya551
    @geoffreyapenya551 Před 3 lety +3

    I cannot think of anything YOU DON'T HAVE. You're INDEED GOD SENT!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @maximadeofficial
    @maximadeofficial Před 3 lety +6

    The spotify line got me on the floor whaaat!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheTMontgomery
    @TheTMontgomery Před 3 lety +2

    When you are past that age of modern communication it’s amusing to hear all this.
    It took a while for me to work out what a DM was lol
    Well done again Jessica .
    Have a great day.
    Never knew so much information was published by persons .

  • @danielwilliamceau4282
    @danielwilliamceau4282 Před 3 lety +3

    It's a question of education... You're such a great and wonderful communicator... Be blessed lovely woman and i wish you happiness!

  • @michealkross3391
    @michealkross3391 Před 2 lety +6

    Your reactions to the pick up lines is very funny lol😂
    You're the best
    One love from Nigeria ❤️

  • @davedeluxe6196
    @davedeluxe6196 Před 3 lety +3

    I like the fact that you show how men embarrass themselves from a woman’s perspective. This is my second best video after the “if your woman does this, leave her”

  • @francisvarela9943
    @francisvarela9943 Před 2 lety +5

    Hahaha😂i love the pick up line part

  • @gamechangertmc3994
    @gamechangertmc3994 Před 3 lety +5

    Hey Jess honestly I don't wanna just slide into your dm but into your life....you seem to be a really strong smart intelligent black woman

  • @nuellafaith
    @nuellafaith Před 3 lety +2

    Those pick up lines got me😂😂😂
    I couldn't agree with you more💯

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy Před 3 lety +2

    I'm here for Jess voice❤️❤️👌👌 and the way she speaks so confidently❤️❤️

  • @Lastborn125
    @Lastborn125 Před 2 lety +7

    Dope pick up lines

  • @briceabogo1348
    @briceabogo1348 Před 2 lety +2

    Jessica, you simply excel in what you're doing. Your voice, gestures, mimic, jokes and all the rest are so nicely harminized that it is a real pleasure watching your videos and listening to you. In fact, one would say that you have acquired the mastery over how to keep the right balance and measure in all those necessary ingredients that make what you do always palatable and agreable. Passion, intelligence and good breeding only cannot account for it ( qualities that shine through every single video you post). A good amount of hard work lies softly hidden beneath such an achievement. Thank you. Wish you more success and love in all your undertakings.

  • @davisuduak2324
    @davisuduak2324 Před 3 lety +1

    Some of us guys would realize how much time we could save and make productive if we adhere to this knowledge and practically live it. Thank you so much Ma

  • @MansaQueen
    @MansaQueen Před 3 lety +3

    I can’t get over the pickup lines! Parking ticket, fine all over you 🤔😂. That one got me hollering and I Must confess that I like it. Now who’s sliding into Jessica’s DM! 🤔🤔 Love you lady! 🥰

    • @U95735
      @U95735 Před 3 lety

      Have you heard of gravity
      Coz am falling for you is a rich one too 😂

  • @nicshun4553
    @nicshun4553 Před 3 lety +3

    😂😂 I like the pick-up lines 😂😂😂

  • @maryagyei3255
    @maryagyei3255 Před 3 lety +2

    Jessy Jessy...the pick up line was hilarious

  • @risakovzuzu3854
    @risakovzuzu3854 Před 3 lety +2

    Those pick up lines are hilarious 😂

  • @benjaminmartin4835
    @benjaminmartin4835 Před 3 lety +2

    Jessica i must say everything you said was helpful and truthful which of course is the number one thing thank you .

  • @fombeedgar9066
    @fombeedgar9066 Před 3 lety +2

    Those pickup lines though 😂😂🔥🔥

  • @michaelmanners9244
    @michaelmanners9244 Před 3 lety +1

    Whenever I watch your teachings, there's something new to learn. I always wondered why I don't know some of these before now. Thank you Jessica.

  • @sadedot
    @sadedot Před 3 lety +1

    Big ups to the dude who took the business route to get yo attention. He did get yo attention. Can't Knock the Hustle!

  • @georgeokyere3309
    @georgeokyere3309 Před 3 lety +4

    The pick up lines 🤣😂

  • @DaringLizard
    @DaringLizard Před 2 lety +5

    The lines😂👌🏾

  • @ronwalker1975
    @ronwalker1975 Před 3 lety +2

    Jessica...personally I think you're INTERESTING, those videos of yours are needed...you remind me of my GOOD friend Valerie Sistrunk, keep on doing what you do, the WORLD is being deprived if they don't listen to Jessica O.

    • @ronwalker1975
      @ronwalker1975 Před 3 lety

      Eres bienvenido (you're welcome 😁)....that response was swift....may I have your email address if it's possible!?

  • @davidiampguy1354
    @davidiampguy1354 Před 3 lety +2

    Some of those pickup lines lowkey fire tho🤣🤣

  • @olapadeseun8586
    @olapadeseun8586 Před 3 lety +2

    I just like that number 9 statement, very interesting, what man refuse to do, move on... But they won't, I'm a man also , thanks I really appreciate that statement so... much. Thanks

  • @temitopeobinna4608
    @temitopeobinna4608 Před 3 lety +1

    Lately CZcams have been recommending your videos and I do ignore but after watching this I'd say I regret it!!! You're life saver

  • @SammiraIbrahim
    @SammiraIbrahim Před 3 lety +3

    I love love your videos so so educative. I can always relate.

  • @s-drileba8872
    @s-drileba8872 Před 3 lety +2

    I started following you since this month June 10th.... wow I watched all the videos...
    Jessica much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @JoelSam
    @JoelSam Před 3 lety +1

    Oh those lines were gold!!! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @kennethndungu9187
    @kennethndungu9187 Před 3 lety +3

    the lighting in this video is delish❤️❤️❤️

  • @fabianm.2982
    @fabianm.2982 Před 3 lety +2

    Your English command nd presentation thereof is top notch.. And yeah this isn't a pick up line, but rather an appreciation post.

  • @petercharlery7661
    @petercharlery7661 Před 3 lety +13

    A man's biggest problem is himself, his ego and the need to impress the people around him. Men should spend more time investing in and appreciating themselves instead chasing women are not worth their efforts.

  • @VVS30187
    @VVS30187 Před 3 lety +60

    Women are a whole lot of work . Just move on and make money .

    • @willenskyakangwa8248
      @willenskyakangwa8248 Před 3 lety

      hahahahhaha

    • @Adepentane
      @Adepentane Před 3 lety +2

      Simple... Just make money, Live fine, be happy and they will do the Sliding into Your DM's and start validating themselve.

    • @alrangele9915
      @alrangele9915 Před 2 lety

      Yep. Create youre gool! Woman comes and goos

    • @sahittafolli3007
      @sahittafolli3007 Před 2 lety

      A women can be, the key for your succes, keep that in mind!

  • @CocoaKrachi
    @CocoaKrachi Před 3 lety +2

    @Jessica!! Awesome insights. You are always on point. Just when I was planning to sneak into your DM, you provided all these insights... I feel like you already busted my sh*t...lolol...

  • @MrGreen32
    @MrGreen32 Před 2 lety +2

    the quality in these videos are amazing.

  • @stephenmungai2984
    @stephenmungai2984 Před 3 lety +5

    Loving your content from Nairobi, Kenya.

  • @danieloghenebrorhie2590
    @danieloghenebrorhie2590 Před 2 lety +2

    This is very very informative and instructive. Thank you Jessica Os

  • @robertomendy7217
    @robertomendy7217 Před 3 lety +3

    Av just landed on your platform but my God! i had to subscribe immediately, you are a great teacher, articulate, the accent,oh my 👌🙏🤭, Love from Uganda 👋🤗. Long live madam Jessica.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks for the sub

    • @robertomendy7217
      @robertomendy7217 Před 3 lety

      @@JessicaOS yo most welcome my friend, it would be ironic if i had not subscribed to your channel. God bless you, Africa is blessed to have you 😊👋

  • @ibrahimsanni6280
    @ibrahimsanni6280 Před 3 lety +3

    I can't stop laughing with those pick up lines .. llllooooooolllllllll

  • @simplecomplicatedtruth9064

    Bumped into one video, watched 3 and subscribed. You are appreciated.

  • @josemigel
    @josemigel Před 3 lety +2

    I'd love to use those pick up lines ..they're hilarious hahaha

  • @louissimutenda
    @louissimutenda Před 2 lety +2

    well, those pick up lines are fire! 🤣..you made my day @jessica

  • @perrylups
    @perrylups Před 3 lety +2

    I haven't missed any video here.. Keep going higher Jessi🚀🚀🚀✨✨

  • @Debbie_Awurabenaa
    @Debbie_Awurabenaa Před 3 lety +2

    Awwn 💯 true.
    Thank you miss Jess.
    You're really helping us paaaaa
    God bless.
    Ma supa role model
    Much love 💕💕

  • @bigdreams5175
    @bigdreams5175 Před 3 lety +11

    GUYS NEVER LISTEN TO DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN. If you want to know how to catch a fish you ask a fisherman not the fish. They are not in your shoes. She tellin you what they want. Women don’t know what they want. She not the one who wants the girl. DONT FALL FOR IT. Stay woke Kings

  • @jermaineallen8784
    @jermaineallen8784 Před 3 lety +2

    Hey Jess.. Great video, great channel. Your insight is so real and practical; I share the same sentiments. Before I got married I never tried any of these nonsense some dudes try, I believe your video really helps those guys to be real.
    Keep up the good work... Lots of love from Jamaica. As we say in Jamaica "Big up yu self!"
    Which really means "Lots of respect" ☺☺👏

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders Před 3 lety +1

    Godddď... the moment her voice came on,I had Goosebumps... I'll speak like this someday. Awesome content always

  • @Mark-gk1bu
    @Mark-gk1bu Před 3 lety +1

    Real advice from a real woman. Keep up the good work Jessica.

  • @folaranmiadepoju3528
    @folaranmiadepoju3528 Před 3 lety +1

    Very great content for we guys. I’ve learnt a lot from this. Thank you for sharing.

  • @symlexbrn5396
    @symlexbrn5396 Před 3 lety +5

    I prefer meeting and talking to real people first then we can use social media as an additional means of communication

  • @fifiswz4324
    @fifiswz4324 Před 2 lety +1

    🤣🤣🤣The pick up lines part...lol

  • @PT-ChucoTown
    @PT-ChucoTown Před 2 lety +3

    Lol, you crack me up on this video. Great stuff

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy Před 3 lety +2

    Cutecumber🤣🤣🤣🤣 hahaha this killed me with laughter

  • @elunubi2820
    @elunubi2820 Před 3 lety +1

    The parking ticket line is awesome...can't stop laughing

  • @maxwellagyei4257
    @maxwellagyei4257 Před 3 lety +1

    Tips for sure ,thanks so much Sis..

  • @joshuaocansey7285
    @joshuaocansey7285 Před 3 lety +4

    Sometimes, I feel our elder 'brothers' ruined the reputation of all guys on social media. Most girls think all guys sliding into their dm are bad, 'players' or ritualistic and most do not respond. That is so sad. Anyways, we move.

  • @vickymawutor5213
    @vickymawutor5213 Před 3 lety

    The if you were a vegetable line got me laughing 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂. I'm really learning. Thank you Jess

  • @jacksleazy1426
    @jacksleazy1426 Před 3 lety +1

    @Jessica Os you never desapoint 💯I love this so much, 😘👌👌

  • @SHOWERSTVBIZ
    @SHOWERSTVBIZ Před 3 lety +1

    Nice one. Keep them coming. Learning from you by the day

  • @danielyisa1572
    @danielyisa1572 Před 3 lety +1

    Those pick up lines though 😆 🤣

  • @marlonmonsegue5999
    @marlonmonsegue5999 Před 2 lety +3

    Hope everyone has listened to these great tips

  • @gaseitsiwemothewe
    @gaseitsiwemothewe Před 3 lety +1

    As for the pick up lines😂😂 love your channel, from South Africa. 🇿🇦

  • @tamgen3579
    @tamgen3579 Před 3 lety +1

    I like those pick up lines 😂😂😂😂

  • @edwardotoo5828
    @edwardotoo5828 Před 3 lety

    I just like the end " if she's not responding, do yourself a favour and move on 🤗"

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy Před 3 lety +1

    What's up Shorty😳😳🤣🤣🤣 hahaha you are hilarious Jess❤️❤️❤️

  • @AanuoluwaAdebanjo
    @AanuoluwaAdebanjo Před 3 lety

    The No.2 "pick up lines" got me laughing. Nice as always. Much love💕💕💕

  • @o.9763
    @o.9763 Před 3 lety

    Parking Ticket Line!!! Is Hilarious 😂😂😂😂

  • @rimdanful
    @rimdanful Před 3 lety

    Killed the parking ticket line.#TIGER.

  • @ralphgabahvlogs1760
    @ralphgabahvlogs1760 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm definitely stealing those pickup lines 😍😂

  • @ingridabbey9853
    @ingridabbey9853 Před 3 lety +2

    You're so on point

  • @bluetimothyosadebe-bto
    @bluetimothyosadebe-bto Před 3 lety +1

    The pick up lines killed me 😂🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @McCauky
    @McCauky Před 2 lety +2

    I love the background music at the start 0:13

  • @phase2220
    @phase2220 Před 3 lety +1

    I really love this video a lots, thanks for this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nyc4max
    @nyc4max Před 3 lety +2

    Your insights are surely valid and indeed logical. But at times some men chose which women to approach in these manners which as well reveals their intention Many women will take offense, those with dignity and moral value. Many others depraved of feminine value and self respect would even respond by sending the man a photo of their private part also. I understand that after a relationship has taken deep roots between two people, those exchanges may happen without backfire; But definitely would ruin any relationship at its genesis and it all depends on the woman. Your advises are of great social value and may benefit decent individual with positive vision and aspiration in life. Thank you and excelsior. I wish you success to your emission. God bless.

  • @emmanie2748
    @emmanie2748 Před 3 lety +1

    Always a joy to watch you Jess. Kudos!

  • @ahmedonawale9138
    @ahmedonawale9138 Před 3 lety +1

    Jessica: Spitting great advice.
    Me: Only here for the pickup lines. 😂😂😂
    Pun intended.

  • @pauldankwa1292
    @pauldankwa1292 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow! Woman you are good at this advise thing. 👌💪

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya Před 3 lety +2

    Solid Intro. Good Content 👌👏

  • @tommy5v
    @tommy5v Před 3 lety +2

    That was sooo helpful, I wish I heard this two days ago

    • @TheRex210
      @TheRex210 Před 3 lety

      luck boy u heard it on the 3rd day, yiiiiieeeeaa

  • @sola5229
    @sola5229 Před 3 lety

    I am really entertained by your gift of speech. I also like the way you make references to your personal experiences.

  • @billpascal8524
    @billpascal8524 Před 3 lety +1

    I swear I love this...you are amazing

  • @JohnKilombelevisualfxartist

    You happen to mention my name as an example....I was like OMG.. does she noticed me noticing her

  • @tenesesiyabonga6297
    @tenesesiyabonga6297 Před 3 lety

    Just found myself each time I am knocking off @ work tuning for the new upload.

  • @spencerway3703
    @spencerway3703 Před 3 lety +6

    First rule for men who wants to get a lady do not I repeat "DO NOT CHASE A FEMALE AT NO POINT IN TIME.!"

  • @priscillaasare09
    @priscillaasare09 Před 3 lety +2

    I just love this topic 👏👏 team Jess we move

  • @calebseyramquashie
    @calebseyramquashie Před 3 lety +1

    The pickup lines be like 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂

  • @ebenezerarmah5544
    @ebenezerarmah5544 Před 3 lety +1

    Awww Jess; you're just so good. I will try your tips on you perhaps. 🤣

  • @chotangandu7231
    @chotangandu7231 Před 3 lety +1

    You are the best youtuber atleast in my own world.

  • @curiousfox5074
    @curiousfox5074 Před 3 lety +1

    Love ur insightful contents these days

  • @kwakudwumfour9772
    @kwakudwumfour9772 Před 3 lety +1

    You are the best and thanks for the tips ,respect

    • @kwakudwumfour9772
      @kwakudwumfour9772 Před 3 lety

      Jessica I need someone to go check the situation of my house in kasoa for me,since am planning to home in December pls

  • @johnandrewservice8598
    @johnandrewservice8598 Před 3 lety

    Great advice Jessica. You are absolutely correct about this manner of trying to make an acquaintance online. Onelove ❤️💛💚🌷

  • @tendaichinamasa769
    @tendaichinamasa769 Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent video. But I think is appropriate to give a chance to all DMs and depending on the conversation, then make a decision to continue or the stop interacting. You just never know Jessica.

  • @alozie424
    @alozie424 Před 3 lety +1

    Have watched a few of your video's some weeks ago but just saw this today and got you a new subscriber :)