Getting Over A Breakup Unfiltered
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- čas přidán 29. 12. 2019
- Getting over a breakup is different for everyone. Today I went through the stages of getting over an ex. I hope this video can help guide anyone else that may be going through a breakup and show that it takes strength to ask for help whether it be from a therapist, life coach, guidance counsellor, trusted family member or friend. Mental health is just as important as physical health. I hope you enjoy!
Episode 1➜ • My Mental Health Unfil...
Episode 2➜ • Our Breakup Unfiltered
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“Part of me thinks that this is a break... but it’s actually a break up” goddamn that hit hard
I love how everything unfiltered cause you’re not the only one who is going through this you are the big sister I ever wanted
lol
💛x
Basically Soft I’m on the same boat! I actually made a video about it too. Only mine was a toxic relationship and getting over him has been so hard.
Woah I never got so many likes before
Preach
Dear Adelaine:
- Matt isn't crying because he's a guy. He will suddenly wake up crying or have a panic attack in the middle of the night in 6 months - usually about the time when you have started to really move on.
- Don't throw the photos away, they're precious memories. Store them in a box and let the box somewhere at your parents' house, so you don't have it near you but if you want to watch them in a few months or years you still have them.
- Don't rush talking to or seeing other guys, don't force it, take time for yourself... dating other people will feel awfully awkward at first, you may even cry when you kiss someone else but it will slowly get better. And even if it sounds insane now, one day you will be ready to fall in love again and be happy in a new relationship.
You have all our love and support, you are a strong girl and will get through this
Lauren Ricard it’s definitely hard! I’m going through my break up, 4 months in and he’s already seeing someone else and my heart broke all over again when I hear about that. I made a whole video on it, hardest thing ever.
I needed this
I agree with keeping the photos. They for sure don't need to be on display, but I have always kept my photos. They are happy memories and times in your life! I never understood why people throw these things away. Everyone is different.
Anastasia Beaverhausen I think it also depends how the relationship ended. For example if your partner cheated on you etc. I wouldn’t want to keep the photos personally. I think it’s seen as a way to just move forward. I personally got rid of most of the photos of my ex and I do have some on my computer but that’s about it.
Truly Greta, I guess. I don’t think I’ve had a relationship end well. I’ve never been one to lash out and ruin things or throw them away. I don’t go out of my way to look at them, but if there is a moment I see something - I don’t remember the hurt. I remember the happy time. The moments are never usually just about that one person. It’s the whole moment. Where you were, who else you were with, what things happened... I’ve had some friendships that ended and felt 10 times worse than a failed relationship and I still keep those photos too.
Losing the friendship after a relationship truly is the hardest part 😔
So accurate, he was my best friend
Michelle Schmidt just be ruthless and feel no pity like me. I feel nothing for any girl at all, my heart is cold because of how girls have treated me and how I been rejected and turned down and girls have given me fake phone numbers. I don’t have no trust or no feeling for girls. I’m a ruthless person that does not even talk to girls, only my family. I just ignore girls that are not my family.
@@GentlemenJack109 um child no u need help I’m sorry u feel like that
I feel like with out blue Adelaine would’ve really struggled with this break up . Blue licking her tears is everything
Break ups during quarantine hits differently..
Very different!
just got broken up with today and idk what to do...
@@shelbysmith1029 mine was 2 days ago... you're not alone :(
shelbysmith it will be hard, it’s been well over 2 months for me now and he’s with someone new and I’m not going to lie you’ll have your days when you feel amazing and on top of the world and then the next it feels as if it was a few minutes ago that the break up happened, but you’ll come out of this stronger and wiser about what you want in your next relationship. You’re one person down from finding your soulmate❤️ I’m here for you!
thenamesave !! You’re not alone either, we’re all going through this together! ❤️
To everyone who’s going through a breakup: Don’t be discouraged. I had forgiven my ex for so many things he’s done, that I had to find out on my own. He never told me the truth, and had never wanted to. And every time, I’d have to chase him for an apology, to talk things through. I realised that people who want to be there, would just be there. You don’t have to force, beg, plead. That shouldn’t ever be anyone’s normal. Also, don’t try to heal your heart by moving on too quick. The time you take for yourself, to heal and grow, to truly learn, trust me, you’ll never regret.
hey just thought I'd say you look really cute! Have a great day :)
Thank you for this 🥺
Ugh thank you for this
Thank you for this. I feel like I'm trying to move on really quickly because my ex doesn't deserve me crying for him after the things he did. I mean, I was asking him for more of his attention, and he wanted to take a break where he can hook up with others and have me as a safety net. But I have to do take my time for MYSELF, knowing I'll be happier in the future now that it's over.
“As a couple we fought so much, but as friends we had so much fun” I had the same thing with my now ex boyfriend and I lost him as a friend to
same exactly the same
Ok.
Exactly what I’m going through right now and I hate it makes me cry all the time and it would’ve been our 3 year anniversary on the 3rd of January x
@@meganwilkins7977 hi, im going through the same situation and saw my past relationship on this comment because it really sucks because life goes on and you just stopped everything but everything goes on and you have to get over him and the breakup by urself because you feel that you’re talking about him too much with your friends and you want to move on but at the same time you still have that one hope that you are going back together. It sucks and it hurts but you are not alone… and besides the fact that it appears you are, you aren’t. If he was the one, you knew. We don’t need a person that always goes back but one that never leaves and I believe and want to believe that someone better is out there… I feel you, girl. And want to get over this as soon as possible. It’s difficult and it consomes me but I really want to.
“Yeah because I love Lola, and Lola didn’t break-up with me.”
Losing pets through breakups suck!
JO. It’s so sad that she had to loose her dog he got her
ThatWeirdGirlTae I think you’re right
It’s crazy how I watched this video when it came out and was in a happy relationship. Now 6 months later I’m rewatching after my boyfriend broke up with me.
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Me too... trying to process 3 years of my life. He was truly my best friend. Quarantine hits different too because I can’t see my girls 😪 EDIT: I’m in such a better space right now. Something just changed and I’m really seeing myself again. But everything IS a process. :) appreciate everything from the small wins to the biggest growths.
Leeステラ i’m also going through a break up after a three year relationship. it’s so hard and scary and it hurts so badly
when you cry because you realize that you can relate now.
charlize melody OMG YESSSS!!!!
Watching this video today since my relationship of 2 years ended 3 days ago. 😭💔
Tutiwolf_ best of luck , im sorry youre going through that 🤍
Tutiwolf_ same 3 years together and it’s only been a few months broken up
Tutiwolf_ It's okay love. It'll get better. I wrote that comment 5 months again and was still with my boyfriend and I tried to leave but went back. Finally, on May 7th, I dumped his ass! And now I'm amazing. It gets better girly. I'm here for you ❤️
“october is the month of breakups”
i felt that.
Sadly it is..
Me to me it ended officially today
it's also important to remember that the stages can 110% overlap. you might feel accepting and angry or depressed while recovering, it's not a smooth cycle. and even once you think you're over it, you're probably not, and that's completely okay! it's a mess, but it's a justified mess.
Totally
I feel like Adelaine is known as the “happiest place on the internet” and that has limited her to truly show her emotions. We all love and support you 💛 things happen for a reason
Thanks for opening up with us!
I guess in a way, it got her to where she is now.💛x
I completely agree, I used to watch her and I know that she is trying to better our lives. Yet, I felt like she was suffocating herself by doing that.
I remember when she didn't use to was up and Matt called her on that.... I felt sorry for both of them
Currently going through a breakup of 5 years with someone I was with since high school. This video made me cry because it’s so raw, and real. Thank you showing me that I’m not alone
leticia reyes girl, same here 🥺 😭😭😭
Same you’re not alone!!!!!! 😞 We got this! All of us in this thread got this! 😔💪🏾💕❤️
Yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up we have been dating for 1 and a half year we were so close he was my only friend we shared a lot for 1 year we had planned our future lifes together we thought we would live together and in 3 years we would marry it sounds silly but I believed those would happen I wanted them to I still do I don't know if I can go on we know each other so well and we need each other even if we are not dating he wants to be us still but not the name under boyfriend girlfriend thing I don't know how I can manage to get through the breakup and be his friend I really don't want to lose him for good but it looks so hard
Hi just wanted to know how your recovery is? I am going through a breakup right now too of a relationship of 5 years :(
Big Daddy Quinn my recovery has been better, I was alone for about 3 months without talking to my ex.. and somehow we found out way back to each other, it’s been a rocky 4 months trying to earn each other’s trust and continue to grow in a healthy way. Things have been going better than ever, he’s been very consistent on communicating and making sure we’re both on the same page on things... things will get better, just focus on working on yourself first and learn from yourself. Start up new hobbies. I love to workout and lift weights for my mental health. Better yourself and love yourself.
I’m so damn proud of you! Carrie Fisher once said “take your broken heart, make it into art” and girl you are doing the damn thing. Amazing series! I’m sad that there’s only one more episode lol
i love how "raw" and real these videos are, it really makes it feel like we're close friends talking about what life really is! thank you for trusting us enough to open up and share experiences like you're doing 🤍 i love u
Juan Cortez Muro BRO YOUR IN EVERY COMMENT IN THIS VIDEO LEAVE
Lívia Mendes YES!!!! Every time that she's crying I cried too.... I just need hug her
Thaís Morais are you also brazilian? 🥺
Lívia Mendes yess!
@@thaismorais3543 ahhh that's so cool! never met anyone from brazil who also watches adelaine before! :')
i was with my husband for 7 years since i was 18 and we had a son together. we seperated in october and its still a struggle everyday. now im 24 trying to find myself. thank you for this series im sure im not the only one needing this right now
Briana Garza stay strong for yourself and your son 💜💜
Briana Garza you got this girl! Stay strong and just focus on making that little boy happy but also allowing yourself to have those moments of weaknesses and cry or binge eat! Much love!! Sending you positive vibes ☀️
Your so strong! 💛x
You are a strong woman and the Adelangels are here for you xxx
@@henrike16254 Ye, we are 💛x
watching you cry in the car and talk about how he was your best friend and now you cant go to him and tell him about your day is literally killing me to listen to rn bc my bf and i broke up this morning and thats exactly how i feel
Imagine going thru this but you’re pregnant with their baby. That’s what I’m going thru rn. Life is sooo crazy. So crazy. 💔 but life can also be so beautiful after the storm has passed. I can’t wait to meet my baby boy in Jan or Feb of 2020. He’s what makes me keep going and not give up. You got this Adelaine girl, we both do. #girlssupportinggirls
WaaavyNativeBaby girl, same here. I’m pregnant & my boyfriend just left me two weeks ago & I’m five months in. We had so many plans & it’s been hard but honestly him leaving made it extremely easy to get over him. I went through all the stages within 8 days & im just focused on the baby and my health now. Think about it this way, they did you a favor leaving now. Be strong girl I hope you’re doing well 💗
How’s the baby doing?
Same boat here!!! Hope all of you beautiful mommies are doing alright! 💕
He doesn’t deserve to be in that baby’s life!
Oh my gosh!!! Me too!!
no one:
blue: licking all the tears off adelaines face :,(
aw
Yeah that one hurt.
Why did u have to put no one
that literally hurt me
Me too x 😭
“October is the month of break up” went through that.
Same :(
omg SAME
same
Same
same
i feel like this is the exact same breakup that my ex and i went through. we were only together for a year but when he broke up with me, i was broken for a really long time. i had sleepless nights, i didn’t eat for a week, but he was just okay with everything, which only hurt me more.
Did he ever reach out again ?
How are you now??
did he end up reaching out to you?
How are u now?
Adelaine: maybe you'll be in denial for a year!
Me: *pauses the video* *takes a deep breath* DID YOU REALLY JUST CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT
Spicy Idiot that's was my reaction too!!!
Yep
This series has been the best I’ve ever watched on CZcams. Honestly your really not like any other youtuber you tell how your really feeling and you are really real and relatable on your videos. Your an amazing person and don’t let anyone tell you different.
@MHTalks Exactly x
It’s almost been a year since my breakup in January and I feel like I’m over my breakup but I’m definitely not ready to start something new with someone and that’s completely okay because I have to learn to love myself again 💛💛
Mary Arteaga reading you’re message helped me make up my mind. I feel the same way on “not ready to start something new with someone” I was going to start something, but feel unready. I thought it was bad so started to eat myself up and stopped focusing on loving myself again. I’m getting back on track because it’s what I need.
Same here, its been exactly a year and I feel like I never allowed myself to just fully heal because the ex kept coming back into my life to talk or keep in touch but his intentions were never clear or probably not even good so I've gone through resentment and hatred but I have just decided to give that whole thing up, blocked him and starting fresh. I want to feel fully content on my own
La Smiley I’m glad that I was able to help you. As cheesy as it may sound we need to learn to love ourselves before we are capable of loving someone else. Being independent while being in a relationship is important and I think that’s something that Adelaine touched on in the past few videos and I could not agree more
Klaudia Veronica girl same
Same🙌
That moment when you realize you're not fine after a breakup, you're just in the denial stage and the worst is yet to come 💔
Same
𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮...
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This is so me. We ended in good terms. We're still friends. Like my ex reached me after a day to ask things... AND I THOUGHT I WAS OKAY. BUT THEN, I FELT EVERYTHING. I was so a mess. I didn't know what to do with my life. My heart hurts so bad.
We're still friends but we're not talking now. I just lost my best friend and first love. :
Stated crying with you, because I’m dealing with a break up now
Kynsey skye stay strong, currently going through the same thing.
Kynsey skye I’m going through one too. When she was in the car crying I was sobbing
Same. Its hard. But we can get through this
** tip if the day on your next video or vlog**
“Mental health is healthy to talk about don’t worry you will be okay”
LOVE this! x
this is why i am scared to be in a relationship
sejal don’t . Worse pain you could imagine
It’s low key not worth it lmaoo
Don’t be, if you truly want somebody feel the fear and do it anyway. Don’t let fear stop you from taking a chance that could lead to amazing things.
@@lisaa9857 Totally agree 🤣! I wasted MANY years of my life! I could be rich and in my career by now 😂! It’s okay! I’m 24 and just NOW starting to clean up my act.
I feel like this series is going to help SO many girls/woman through break-ups and the stages and how it will actually all get better in the end, when in reality it is probably really hard for you to film and for that i just want to Thank you so much for doing this!💛
Dear Adelaine:
You can have all the highs that you had with Matt, without all the lows. This advice has gotten me through three heart wrenching break ups.
i love how she was eating so much chinese food on the first week lmao when i broke up w my ex i physically couldnt eat and got sick. i didnt even go down to eat and used being sick as an excuse for me looking like absolute shit. food is my joy so i cant believe i was deprived of that for weeks bc of a stupid boy
taterthot I couldn’t even sleep or eat , and my skin broke out , break ups are terrible
That’s literally what’s happening to me this is horrible
Beca Thomas it gets better trust me. If anything live your life. That’s the best way, just love and live in the moments you have with you and those that are here with you. I’m going through a breakup as well I’ve been there before but we have to realize it gets better for us the more we let go the more we live and learn to love our selves. One day someone’s going to walk into your life again and they could be the one :)
felt that
Currently in that phase where I feel like I can’t eat
Hey Adeline, I'm an old married lady. Soulmates are real, and it's so easy to know when it's right. You'll be so grateful for this time in your life when you meet him, because it brought you closer faster. Love ya.
I watched this a few months ago when I was in a relationship. We now have broken up after 4 years.. I’m rewatching this x and I’m so impressed and adore your progress! It gives me hope that things are going to be okay.. I’m okay, it’ll be okay.
I remember seeing this when it came out and not watching the whole thing, now I’m here fresh after a breakup and I’m ready to watch it all now thank you for everything girl💞
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𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮...
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Every time you cry i just want to give you a hug, Adelaine we love you💕
That's exactly how I feel x
*same* ✨
Bre Garner yes she is my fav CZcamsr
@@ajahairston2605 Same, I love her so so so much x💛
Every time Adelaine started crying, girl I was crying with her 🥺😭
Meg Reidler same girl 😭
me too, i just got broken up with on new years :c
Same! And I’m going through my mine too 😔 everything she saying hits different. We’ve been in a relationship for a Ismaili amount of time. And it’s true you lose a best friend and not mention their dog and their family.
I went through a break up in October too! October did us wrong.
It's so comforting see someone feel the same things and go through the same thoughts!
I cried during this whole series, it’s so sad, especially the part in like the first video I think when you were talking to your dad and you told him that you felt worthless
This is really hitting me different omg
Cried so hard because I know that pain. I ended a relationship of almost 5 years, two years ago,and it hurt so bad but it was the best decision I’ve ever made..
Dont throw the memories away. One day you will be able to look at them without any emotions. It will just be memories and you will laugh at the pictures.
I love you so much 💖💖💖💖
This has helped me so much. I went through a breakup a year and a half ago of a 3 year relationship. I'm just now in the acceptance and recovery stage. I feel like so many people believe that you need to have a terrible breakup with cheating in order to go through something like this but even when it's just that two people are growing apart and are too different it still hurts all the same. Love this series so much, so motivating and honest. Seeing you go through this and come out as a better person in the end gives me so much hope for myself.
I’m literally going through the same thing😭 we broke up around halloween too and I’m still in the recovery stage. About to move on to the moving on stage tho :( wish me luck!!😔
Jessica Hu omg girl I’m on that same boat! You can do this I believe in you.
La Smiley thank you 😭😭 you can do this too!!
U got this sis💖🙌🏽
You’ve got in it the bag sis go girl I believe in you you can do this
actually same lmao he broke up with me on like the 11th of november well hes trying to talk to me about things idk? but im not that intrested anymore and I think im in the recovery stage almost over it Dont worryyy we'll get through this guysss! :>>>>
The intro to this is so good 😊 I will be so sad when it’s over
Thank you for posting this WHOLE series, because it’s so true how you said “ for some it takes a month, for some people it takes a year, and some people a day” ! Everyone deals and copes with things differently x So glad to finally seeing to flourishing again!!! I know times must so tough, some days better than others. We are ALL here behind you to hold you up on the days that you can’t do it alone ❤️❤️
Truly loving the raw emotions and intensity. This is something that people don’t open up about, but it can be one of the most heartbreaking and real moments people can go through.
Tell me why every time she showed her crying I started crying too 😭 love you Adelaine💛 even though your struggling I know that you can get this through together no matter the struggles💛 hope you feel better soon!
In August I went through a break up with someone who I thought was my forever. I’m finally getting to the acceptance stage, and I’m really grateful to have people like you/videos like these to make me realize how far I’ve come in the past months. Thank you for sharing ❤️
You’re such an encouragement. It feels like this series was made for me. I want you to know that you are helping people.
i’m so grateful that she posted this. i’m going through a breakup right now and it’s nice knowing that i’m not alone
Aww hun I’m sorry it was so hard for you :(
Just keep your chin up because 2020 will be your year where you really learn who you are and who you’re becoming. You are going to gain so much independence this year and keep moving forward. This year is going to be so good!
I think you’re going to move on from high school and just become Adelaine and you’re going to learn to really love that person :)
When Adelaine started crying with blue it made me tear up 🥺💕
coming back to this 4 months after it was posted to try and help me heal from my (similar) breakup, thank you for posting these vids 🥺❤️
It tears my heart she went through this but I’m so glad this made her stronger emotionally
You’ll get over it. I went through a terrible break up too. I just had to stop thinking of him stop following his social media’s and stop listening to love songs for awhile and focus on myself . Kept busy with more important stuff
I know it’s so hard to get through a break up, especially a long term one. I recently was in a five year relationship and when it ended I felt like dying. Through all of that at the end, I came out stronger. Love you Adelaine! 💛💛🌻
Tara Evans It’s so hard. My ex broke up with me three weeks ago and it’s finally starting to get easier. He was my first real boyfriend and the first boy I’ve ever truly fell in love with and we dated for 6 months. He was also the boy I lost my virginity too and when he broke up with me I honestly got so depressed I contemplated committing suicide almost every day and on top of that I would have mental and emotional breakdowns and it was hard for me to function. I pushed everybody away and the fact that all of my friends are in happy relationships and they would send pics and videos of them with their boyfriends and girlfriends was like my breaking point because all I could think about was how that use to be me and my ex. I blamed myself and almost hated myself for ever getting involved with him but I’m happy I went through this because it’ll make me stronger the next time something like this happens. I’m at the acceptance stage and a big part was finally allowing myself to heal and recognizing my worth and knowing I deserve better. I’m so happy you came out stronger in the end! I don’t know you but I’m proud of you because it takes a lot of courage to be able to mend a broken heart. ❤️
Tara Evans I can’t see your reply but your absolutely right! If it’s meant to be it’ll be and that’s how I look at it. I think for my relationship personally my ex had experienced a lot of trauma from his previous relationship and it carried over into ours and it was almost like he was doing to me what his ex did to him. He would say hurtful things to me and turn around and play victim and he wouldn’t acknowledge when he did hurtful things. I think maybe one or two months into our relationship he told me he use to look at other girls and think they were attractive and he would remember he had a girlfriend. That was a red flag that I should’ve picked up on but I took him back and I kept giving him chance after chance. He also manipulated me into having sex with him and he would get extremely mad when I told him I wasn’t ready to lose my virginity and I felt I HAD to give it up to him to make him satisfied. Also his mom was weirdly overly involved in our relationship and I still to this day believe she feels like he’s her man and people in my family have said the same thing after I’ve told them about this and after hearing certain things she’s said or done about me or towards me. We both have our own issues to work out because I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and I also carried over those issues into this relationship as well and I’m not perfect I would say hurtful things to him too but it was in retaliation after he hurt me. The way he went about breaking up with me was horrible and I’ll never look at him the same after that but I still wish him success in whatever he chooses to do with his life. I feel like maybe he wasn’t the right person for me and the universe showed me in more ways than one but there’s someone out there waiting for me just as I’ve been waiting for them. The same goes for you. This is a milestone you’ve crossed and you’ll find that special someone one day. He’s out there.
Queen my ex was my first bf too but he brokeup with me because I was awkward and shy when he’s the one begged me to be with him. He knows that he’s my first bf and said that he liked the progress but now I’m starting to realize if this relationship was fake or not cuz he brokeup with me for the dumbest reason.
Preethy Jay My ex broke up with me because he said I always had a problem with him whenever he didn’t say or do the right thing which wasn’t true. He just couldn’t admit to his faults when he would do hurtful things to me and when I would try to check him about it he would get upset and play victim which is what I had a problem with. He also got mad at me because we got into an argument on his birthday over a birthday message I sent him and he instead chose to spend his birthday with his mother instead of me and he didn’t talk to me three days after that so when I texted him and asked him if we were still together because I’m not about to be chasing after any boy and I could find someone better he didn’t like that I said that and that contributed to us breaking up. I talked to three psychics and they all pretty much told me he still has love for me and he’ll be back in a few months but in the meantime I refuse to put my life on hold for him. If you feel like your relationship with your ex can still be saved then I say go for it and see if y’all can work things out and reach common ground and if not then it wasn’t meant to be. This is the time for you to work on yourself and try to find happiness within yourself and to know that’s it’s gonna be ok without him. He may not have been the right one for you but there’s someone waiting for you.
Queen Ik he’s not because he wasn’t being honest with me in the relationship instead of telling me the problem he brokeup up with me he said it’s because I was awkward and shy. It’s like he has two different personalities and I can’t trust him anymore. I care about him more than I care about myself. Now he has a gf he said he doesn’t have time for relationships but got into one. I feel so betrayed and lied to. I never lied to him and it was only the beginning of the relationship. I don’t know why bad things always happen to me I’m always good to everyone. :(
I'm still going through my break up after a year. I've been in a cycle thinking I'm over it and okay and then a wave will hit me and I'll be straight back at stage one. This is hard and I don't know how to get out of this. I'm still in the depression/ anger stage. It was rough how it all went down which is why I've been struggling. Watching this is helping me a lot. I feel yah pain sis. Distractions only work for a while until you let it all back in.
Hope you are doing fine
I completely admire how raw this channel is. Absolutely nothing is filtered about going through this roller-coaster and I appreciated the realness.
I pray you heal through this in the best possible way❤️✨
“Is it just me or do tears taste good?” No it’s not just you lol
Estephanie Rodriguez frfr
Her and Blue, apparently.
Lowkey lmfao
for a moment I thought today was Sunday and I was like wtf is going on lmao
Whitney Austins Same girl 🤯
You have entered the twilight zone
SAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEE
same
Yes feels like it!
I love this and really respect you for putting this out there especially for younger girls! Breakups always seemed like the absolute end of the world when I was younger and this is so uplifting and inspiring❤️
I can not begin to explain how relatable this video is and I can honestly say that I feel you and everything you've gone through and might still be going through. Breakups are hard. It's been almost a year since my breakup and it's still really hard sometimes. It's like a rollercoaster, but it has also gotten a lot easier with time and I've grown/learned so much since then. This series is the best thing that you have done and you are so so brave and strong for being able to do this. You are an inspiration. Keep doing what you're doing Adelaine. We love you.
I am honestly so happy that you are making this series because I think it is so important for people to see someone we look up to working their ways through their struggles. Thank you so much for the person who put a video out like this. I hope you are doing a lot better now and that you continue to grow and become the wonderful person that you can be.
This video was so touching thank you for putting your personal life out on to the internet 💛🌻💛🌻💛🌻💛 can’t wait for more! Mental health is healthy to talk about
seeing you cry broke my heart, i adore you ive been watching you for so long and i couldn’t help but cry with you! ugh you’re thriving now i hope you’re feeling better beautiful
“2019 HOLY SHIT was A YEAR”, i felt that
I needed this. My bf and I just broke up 2 weeks ago and Im going thru it but Im def gna be ok. I love this series. Adelaine ur amazing, i wish nothing bt the best for u in this upcoming year. Love u
Maria Victoria that’s great that ur healing after ur breakup fingers crossed for u girl
Cloe Clark aww thank you. 😊 I am healing, it’s important after a breakup. A lot of ppl dont. And they keep hurting others and most important themselves.
Maria Victoria how are you doing now ? It’s been 2 weeks since my break up and wanna know if it gets better 3 months later !
Just think about all the wonderful things you learned in that relationship, and in the next one, you’re just that much of a better girlfriend! You get to experience all the fun parts about falling in love again. And you get to feel what it’s like to bounce tf back! You get it girl!!!! 🌼🌻🌞✨☀️⭐️⚡️💛
I needed this, i just got out of a toxic relationship and lost my friend group.
Alejandra Tepetitla awwww that’s so sad don’t worry tho keep ur head up and everything will get better!! 💛💛💛💛
I love this series so much! I’ve never gone through a breakup, but it’s really refreshing to see someone really talk about it. Love you Adelaine 💛💛
i had a therapist for a while when i was young we just played games the whole time lmao cause i was not about to her a random woman my whole life in second grade
we believe in you and you have come so far
Being in a relationship and watching this is really hard bcz I can really picture myself in your shoes going through all the stages, I’m so happy you started this series and are showing the truths about breakups and getting through them - truly inspiring
you’re such an amazing person, truly. i’ve gone through this too and i know how much it really does suck. you got this girl you’re gonna do amazing things !! girls supporting girls!! love you sm 💛💛
This series has helped me so much and I can actually relate to it. I love seeing this side of adelaine unfiltered and true and raw. This is awesome I love you!!
gosh i just wanna hug you so tight! you will get thru this, i promise. love u always. 🤍
I love how raw this is! Totally relate to all the stages when I went through a break up with the loml, and now we are 4 years 💛 there is things I still remember about our break up, but I always remember that if I took him back is because I forgive everything that we’ve done and we are willing to move forward.
it’s really encouraging to see that there’s people going through the same thing i’m going through. the depression stage really hit home. thank you for this video it really means a lot and it helped me see that there really is light at the end of the tunnel.
I just wanted to apologise to you Adelaine I’m really sorry for commenting asking if you and Matt are still together at the time I felt like it would just get washed away into the sea of comments but it ended up getting a few likes and replies and you may have seen it and it may have made you feel upset and I really wanted to say sorry for that, best of wishes for the new year ❤️❤️❤️
so so so proud of you. i've been watching for 5 years and seeing you grow has been so amazing and inspiring. LOVE YOU!
If you’re going through a breakup do not text them or hangout with them on New Years do not ruin all the healing you’ve done ❤️
Thank you Adelaine for making this video💛It’s been a month since my boyfriend and I broke up and it’s been one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through. Especially in quarantine, ive just been locked in the house thinking about all our memories. This video really made me feel like all my feelings are valid and I’m not alone feeling like this. Thank you so much 💛💛🌻🌻everything is going to be okay!!
This series is really helping me out with what I’ve been going through. Especially my breakup. Adelaine is such a strong person and I have so much love & respect for her. Thank you for always being your true self and posting awesome content 💙
thank you so much for posting this series. i love at the end when you were talking about being uncomfortable because i'm doing something out of my comfort zone this year and i am so happy i am doing it because i feel like it will make me grow as a person in the end. love you!
I love how you’re able to open up about this❤️ I know it’s hard, but me and the rest of your fans are here for you!
Not only does this series help people learn how to get through a break up but it also shows how to be there for others and what to say to a person going through a break up. I know for me personally I never know what to say to friends when they are grieving over a breakup so this video was very informative for me at least to know how to best comfort my friends when they are in need. Thank you for being so open and honest.
i love how real this series is. as the titles say: unfiltered! it’s very brave of you to make this because going through a breakup is hard enough, but going through it while so many people are watching has got to be making it even harder. i know this series is going to help so many people, and you’re being the big sister you strive to be. sending you so much love and i hope you are doing better💛 stay smilin🌻
I am really loving this unfiltered series, it is so raw and genuine! I love it! just know Adelaine that we are always here for you and we love you sm 💛
Love you ❤️you’re such a strong person to publicly go through this and try to show other girls that they can get through what may seem the worst 🥰🥰
Thank you so much for making this. I am going through a break up and I felt so much comfort crying alongside you and seeing you get better over time. Losing pets and parents in a break up is also so hard, the grief is real.
Hello Nicole Todd, do you need tips on how to get your ex back?
Thank you!! ❤️❤️
On New Year’s Eve hours before the New Years. My boyfriend Broke up with me. I had to go to work with a broken heart and honestly was the worst way to start my new year. I’ve had depression for a few years now, and this year hasn’t been easy because it’s gotten worse. Him breaking up with me has made it even worse than it was. My friends are all busy and I came upon this video, just THANK YOU!!!
You might have just saved my life today 💛💛💛
i just got broke with yesterday and seeing this made me realize i’m not the only person going through this 😂
Shit gets tough but trust me, everything happens for a reason and you'll come out better! x
stay strong 💛
Caro my ex brokeup up with me cuz I’m not the girl that he wants but he begged me to be with him. I also realized he was never honest with me like he is my first bf and so I’m new to the dating world. He said he liked that I was taking my time but now I realize how fake he was and he playing me the whole time.
@@user-xk8rq9zc8z Then hes not the guy for you, you will do so amazing without him, everything happens for a reason and he clearly wasnt the one for you, dont text him block and move on! youll be okay x
Bryce Matrisciano youre not, and each day will be different. But remind yourself that it will pass and it will get better. It takes time
I feel for adelaine but just imagine how confused blue and lola are :(
This is exactly how I felt during a breakup , you have so much courage Adelaine , omg I felt that in a different level , much love 🤍
you have no idea how much i needed this. Break ups are the worst
I wish I had this to help me throughout my breakup last year because it's legit SO HELPFUL & RELATABLE thank you so much for sharing & opening up such a personal part of yourself💛✨
I could feel all the emotions in this video :( you’ll get through girl I know you will! Do what you need to do to get through this
As I have grown older these are the types of videos I watch now. I’m really loving the real, unfiltered and opening up about what you are going through. These are real life experiences and you posting these videos will help people and reassures us 💛💛