Recently married Ashanti & Nelly...the non-love story
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- On today's podcast episode, the host tackles another listener requested topic. The MVMO Podcast is a listener topic generated podcast. The Grammy Award-winning artists are expecting their first baby together, the R&B songstress confirmed in a video shared to her Instagram on Wednesday, April 17. As Ashanti, 43, gets ready for a performance, her mom Tina Douglas asks her how much time she needs. "Uh, I'm gonna need about nine months," Ashanti answers, prompting her mom to look shocked. The singer shared the news with Essence, revealing that not only is she pregnant, but she and Nelly, 49, are engaged and now married, before the birth of their child.
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I 🙏🏾🙏🏾 their baby is born healthy!
I think Nelly and Ashanti actually wants to be together. Hope it works out for their family.
I hope the couple is happy. ❤
Wishing Ashanti and Nelly all the best!
Ashanti is into health and fitness, so hopefully that helps with her having a healthy pregnancy and baby.
I started perimenopause at 52.
I don’t make anyone couples goal. I feel everyone founds love in their own time. I believe they always had love for each other and I wish them well
Awhhhhhh! I really hope it’s true Love for them. I Love them together and wish them the best.❤🙏🏽
I agree she really wanted a child and they were safe to each. But I also believe they love each other and felt they never someone else they loved more. ❤
Famous men and women are just like us. They have insecurities and flaws, just like everyone else. Ashanti, like many women, longed for a husband and family and made a choice that, while not ideal, seemed familiar and somewhat appealing to her.
This is what I think as well. She went with what was familiar which is sad.
There were plenty of men She couldve chose from but she met a man at her level.
That's interesting. My menses stopped when I was 58. Never had any menopause symptoms such as 🔥flashing and such. However, my grandmother had her last child in her fifties, so I guess it's in the genes..
Hi. I'm not sure what your comment has to do with this. Maybe do research in what perimenopause is?
@@mvmochannel Well my comment is to say every woman's body is different also peoples genetic background does play a part. In fact the women in my family menses all ceased in late fifties some in early sixties. So as you said this may not be the average however I know that genetics and lifestyle definitely play a part. I know exactly what peri menopause is however I had no symptoms before or after . I know my genetics and lifestyle play a part.
Got it thanks. Yes genetics plays a part.
I got pregnant naturally at age 41 with my first and only child. My husband and I were thrilled, and our son is happy and healthy. I do agree, however, that my situation is rare.
Yes rare. I was quoting the science here. And as you know science is more about the "average" person, in this case the average woman.
Don't envy people. Thx.
She’s not envying, she’s stating the truth!
@@RealMuzik4 I'm repeating the life lesson form the video.... Don't envy people's relationship etc.
Did she call Janet Jackson a skink!! Lol, and said she could never rellly sing anyway..🤣 😂 😂😂
You didn't come to sugarcoat anything and I'm here for it. Great video!
I believe what messed alot of us up are the Disney books and videos we grew up on. Love is not a fairy tale. Your Prince will not come and save you from the big bad wolf. Nelly f’d up and realized he did and pursued the woman he always loved. People make mistakes. People take others for granted. He realized this and finally is giving her what she wanted. You can tell she left because he couldn’t give her what she wanted back then. He wasn’t ready for marriage. It took her leaving and him going through life without her for him to wise up. Ashante is married to Nelly. This is not a Keke Palmer, Osaka, Halle love story.
I agree the fairytale and happy family tv show really messed us up
Perfectly stated.
Good insight.
Unpopular opinion, anything is better than a sperm bank because it presents a special kind of void inna child when they do not know WHO their father is. At least if the mother has a baby with an old boyfriend then at least the child has a point of reference.
Ashanti has wanted children for over 15 years.
Good Luck to Them!!!!
I don't know about the claim that she may have been selling herself. She has written a lot of hits back in the day that she still collects residuals from and she owns a few apartment complexes. She was fine before all of this.
Child he could passing his disease on to his child! Nick is a mental case, that’s why he’s doing what he’s doing.
It's so sad, and I'll add that Ashanti allowed him to "let him run his dog out," meaning...go and run the streets and get that dog out of you, and I'll wait! This is so sad and not uncommon in the 'culture'! She's a beautiful and talented woman, and I wish her love, peace, and happiness.
But what do you do when you love the person? Settle for someone else? She tried that and it wasn’t working. So, when he tighten up his shot group and came correct she was ready!
I am SOOOO glad yoi did this story because I was randomly thinking about how crazy Ashanti looks. Nelly is not committed to her but some ninjas will have a baby with you to have something that 4 ever connects yall in the future. It doesn't mean he is committed. He just likes the idea of her...sadly she is a single mother and not knowing it.
I definitely agree about Nick Cannon. That’s what I think too, otherwise it makes no sense what he is doing.
43 you can have a child..but on stage all the time...in heels. No..blood pressure issues. Among other things
Rewinding and recording that one statement! If you want to make your life harder, become a single mom!
What’s the cliche’”, no devil like the one you already know? I believe she really loves him and was waiting for him to sew his oats even though that’s foolish. Hopefully this time is right for them both and time will tell. As far as Janet that certainly was an arrangement she dealt with him and his customs long enough to achieve the prize but stayed with her last husband and his alleged coke addiction for 10 years and got nothing! Both women wanted child and the clock was ticking. Wish them the best in both cases.
Nelly was with Ashanti when she received her star on the Hollywood walk of fame in 2022. They say different things because they said they were still friends. We really don’t know anyone’s truth other than what they choose to share.
Well they did just get married so we will see
That situation with Janet was always strange to me. These stars are too much for me🥹
Nelly may not have to be responsible for this child but I hope he steps up as a father because children need both parents. They need to know their father loved them too.
Now I know why so many people I’ve known over the years have had babies and I never saw a man anywhere around them. It’s always been a mystery to me.
I said the SAME thing about Nick Cannon!
So did I.
It’s all good, I’m happy she gets to procreate. Ultimately that is what our body calls us to do, and doubly if the woman has a strong desire to be a mother, which it seems Ashanti does.
OMGGGGGGG!!!
Ashanti and Nelly are married. We will see.
I'm confused, is the word MARRIED not in the title? I'm not sure what the point of this comment is.
They are a cute couple…They appear to love each other. I agree that it may not be a fairy tale…every thing is easy love story but Ashanti is very beautiful and I don’t believe that she would not have had any trouble finding a mate. These are not the average woman. Janet does not need that man’s money. She has a huge catalog of music…
Is your comment based on the title OR did you actually listen to the podcast?
I think along with Ashanti wondering if not having a baby was a mistake, society ostracizes and marganilizes women who decide not to have children. When Ashanti was single and living her life on her own terms, people talked and now that she'shaving a baby on her own terms, people are talking. I actually think Ashanti romanticized her relationship with Nelly to make it more palatable, so people wouldn't talk as much and she feels better about having a baby with him. Unfortunately Nelly is who he is and marriage and a baby will not change him. The outcome of their union is ill fated. I hope that, at the very least they can remain cordial as parents.
This is a very unpopular opinion nowadays for sure, but I always sigh, shake my head, and wince a little bit when I hear about a woman who went her whole life without having children having her very first baby with a man who has more than one baby mama. That will never be a success story in my eyes. That will never be romantic in my opinion.
I think Janet didn’t get the money from her ex husband. And we haven’t seen that baby since. The ex has the baby and Janet is back on tour to help make up for some of the money she lost in the divorce. She played herself by waiting until the exact date that it became 5 years in to file. She at least could have did 5 years and 2 months or something.
Right she should have waited, then filed.
I'll never understand wanting a child this badly..i know it's a natural feeling to want marriage and a child. But i just never desired a child just bc i was getting older... I don't get it at all.. Sometimes the answer is no..i hope they have a great marriage and family. But Nelly wasted her time and this is crazy to me..a 50 yr old player that was just exposed having felatio on camera. 🤷🏾♀️
But you definitely can have a baby if you are very healthy. You can have healthy biology a lot younger than your chronological age, if you eat a diet that is natural and alkaline diet. I do know that. About the love situation, I can’t comment. I don’t know these people. I hope they, especially her, is following a healthy diet.
Yes we all know this. I CLEARLY stated here I was quoting the science for the AVERAGE woman, not outliers. Sigh ....
Omg! I feel the same way! This guy never claim their relationship! Then he had a baby three years ago. So? At what point was Nelly looking for Ashanti. He was with that other lady for 7 years. And was on a show with her, and got engaged to her. He prolonged that ex for all the wrong reasons. This relationship is not going no where! Then they got married? They both are running low on money! Watch how this play out.
Wow didn't know he had a baby 3 years ago.
@@mmou3878 yes a boy
So how much money have you sent to them since they got together ,you all on social media so far your life is not workinh out for you,you project nd say things in order to assure yourselves your life is better than theirs,point of correction Nelly hasnt been ever been married or enageged if you know the basis of their last relationship were unfinished,keep telling yourselves whatever you feell like thats your business
You never heard him say that she didn't want to claim the relationship. Ashanti was the one who wanted to keep it quiet, not him
Who really cares.. Its there business what the arrangement is. Cute couple will make a beautiful baby.
Nelly poured out his heart in soul in his music & lives during their time apart. Ashanti set up boundaries with him that he respected. He has always spoke about how he wanted to marry the right person. It looks like he did. The sad part is that he really enjoyed himself as a single man. There are a lot of bitter mad 🐦 🐦⬛ 🦜 🦚 birds running up and down these social media streets.
Although I did not know WHY Nelly and Ashanti all of a sudden decided to get married and pregnant so late in life, this makes a lot of sense. It was really strange and almost too good to be true. Does someone have INSIDE info? If true, this is really sad. I am at an age that I don’t believe in fairytales. Will you be my baby daddy? SMH.
She has and carries the seed, he's carrying the "fertizelr ", so to speak.
I felt the same way. I thought this relationship was so strange.
I would have volunteered my services but we'd have to marry first. Having children outside of wedlock can expose them to generational curses. Most of my siblings were born outside of wedlock. All of them have major problems and their children have major problem. Even when you're married make sure you have fully repented befoee you conceive a child. Our sins can pass down up to 4 generations.
Jim Jones adopted a black son. He wanted a multicultural church too.
@12:00 Its not enough shame attached for me!