Navigating Friendships After the Honeymoon Phase: Love Bombing, Bad Seasons & Vulnerability

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • Like romantic relationships, our female friendships can go through a honeymoon phase where everything feels fresh and exciting; but what should we do when that season comes to an end? Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss the reality behind being friends for over a decade, how you can build true intimacy and secrets to finding joy and contentment in your platonic relationships.
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Komentáře • 23

  • @m_luluu
    @m_luluu Před 11 měsíci +25

    Recently let go of a 10 year friendship. Your podcasts are sooo timely, informative and comforting. 🥰💕

  • @bumblebee2333
    @bumblebee2333 Před 11 měsíci +13

    Ex girl on bf's life insurance policy....never heard of anything like that...ever!😅 man... Y'all need to have an honest conversation about this. There's still some feelings there

  • @Jaylove777
    @Jaylove777 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This was really good. So applicable in your 30s, 40s and onward.
    Be intentional, cause friendship is like marriage, so commitment is key. You need committed ppl as best friends. I recently had a vulnerable episode with my bestie, and she gave me grace because she realized I was condemning myself, rather than sharing or revealing all, so she could help. Once that happened, it was so easy for her to get me to share stuff I had never revealed, including to my spouse or blood sisters. It felt natural and safe to share that very part of myself. I’m that moment, I realized why she was my bff.

  • @2Ramako
    @2Ramako Před 11 měsíci +16

    With that insurance policy, I’d be like “yeaaaa…..it’s a no😂”

    • @SummerTyme2023
      @SummerTyme2023 Před 11 měsíci

      1000%....my 1st response in my gut was ...oh hell no..😒

  • @wanjikuwanyoike987
    @wanjikuwanyoike987 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Kenya is here girlies ❤❤❤ 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @Its_Gwyn
    @Its_Gwyn Před 11 měsíci +5

    This was such a beautiful and timely message for me, this really highlighted some bad habits I have developed in my friendships and deficiencies I need to work on if I truly desire have life long relationships. Thank you ladies 💕

  • @msdeesubtle8105
    @msdeesubtle8105 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Hey sisters! Hope you are well. I would like to weigh in on the dilemma. I honestly second all the points given by Courtney and Renee. My lovely sister needs to get the honest reason for the ex being on the policy. She also needs to delve into the idea of having the ex removed from the policy if the reason given is not worthwhile. She also needs to consider the entire scope of their relationship before going long term into marriage with the issues arising.

  • @shekinah4651
    @shekinah4651 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My favourite topic that you guys talk about is interpersonal relationships. I haven’t watched the video yet but I earn sooooo much from you guys 😭 God bless you both because He really is working though you two.

  • @mymbiye
    @mymbiye Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for this episode sissies❤️

  • @atupele4331
    @atupele4331 Před 11 měsíci

    Very real and helpful.Thank you🙏

  • @Bimbo_daniels
    @Bimbo_daniels Před 11 měsíci +1

    This was so good and so needed!
    Thank you for sharing!❤

  • @TraceTheFace62
    @TraceTheFace62 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Oh my goodness congratulations Courtney!! 🎉❤ very well deserved

  • @xl6672
    @xl6672 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Your advice is very helpful. Thanks to you both and God bless ❤

  • @doumlexploratrice
    @doumlexploratrice Před 11 měsíci +1

    " My name is Senee....Rapuku " I caaaaant 😂😂😂

  • @SheSharpNotFlat
    @SheSharpNotFlat Před 10 měsíci

    So good!

  • @_queenugo
    @_queenugo Před 8 měsíci

    Everything was spot on. Such gems!!

  • @xDanniielle
    @xDanniielle Před 10 měsíci

    I can’t wait to attend the live show is anyone else going? 🎉

  • @lalaEwool
    @lalaEwool Před 11 měsíci

    Are you doing a Ghana live show?

  • @allysonmarie3642
    @allysonmarie3642 Před 11 měsíci

    what are their handles for their personal channels ?❤

  • @stephaniepaul9130
    @stephaniepaul9130 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hi ladies, I hope you all are well!🤍 I wanted to weigh in on the life insurance policy dilemma. I too am not a fan however, I can understand there is something much deeper then we know of. If the fellow sisters bf really wants to do something nice for his ex he can give her x amount and be done with it, or put something in a trust that collects interest and at the time of his death it can be given to her. But to have her in something that can create generational wealth for future legacy and much more it’s a abosolute No for me. Also, I absolutely loved this episode! I learned so much and have some work to do regarding my existing friendships and the potential ones I want to cultivate. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Courtney and Renae for all you do, share, and teach!