You Know You're Dating a SERBIAN Woman When...
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- čas přidán 29. 03. 2023
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Watch this before you go out with a Serbian woman. From meeting her dad to Slavas and gift giving, to Serbian pride... Is a Serbian woman for you?
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Marina Iakovleva (directing)
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Eddie Cristobal (video)
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Oleh Voitovych (editing)
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Toronto, Canada - Zábava
LMFAO as a Serbian man I couldn't stop laughing, the rakija in a coke bottle (or any random bottle) is so fucking accurate especially
Should one drink it in one go or not?
Rakija is pretty rough. So if u ain't used to it go slow. Traditionally we shot it
Not just Serbs but whole east Europe. Nobody is Serb you are not people from skies.
@@completelymindfuckeddepends, if ur are offered as only drink , and u gonna drink only that, u drink it slowly, if its like a toast then u go for a full.But also depends on a region, it could be eve town to town.But generile advice would be either drink like everyone else is in the room or dont.
@@completelymindfucked No.Slow,and with a meal.
Married to a Serbian lady for more than 12 years…really made me laugh. The Serbian father-in-law scene is totally legit
Why?
@@m1lst3r89
Let me explain well.
Rakija
(which is often made from plums.)
Although there are also other variants.
Which is drunk on several occasions.
Especially in connection with holy days.
Has to do with how many saints we have in our faith.
Which saint is honored can vary considerably per family
And holy holidays.
Like our
Serbian Orthodox Easter.
Serbian Orthodox Christmas.
And our Serbian Orthodox New Year.
Real traditions
Real norms and values..
Often it is only when your father-in-law wants to drink rakija. With you.
you get his approval to marry his daughter.
A real man should be able to handle a little alcohol..
At least according to the real traditional Serbian reasoning.
The only reasons why I'm not as traditional as I'd like to be.
Is due to the fact that my father was not that traditional based on what he experienced as a child.
He often joined me and my sister with my mother in keeping traditions alive.
My mother was and is traditional in that respect.
I am happy and proud to be of Serbian descent and I wouldn't have it any other way.
@@zokilauda I know all about rakija and what is, I was confused by the statement of the OP. Not every father drinks rakija or offers rakija.
@@m1lst3r89
Although that rarely occurs in Serbia,
you do have a point.
You must be very tall.
All the love from Lebanon🇱🇧 to Serbia🇷🇸 ❤️
Pozdravvv
I really don't know what to say, I am dating my dream girl now, I'm so lucky to have her in my life and her family around me.
Her father immediately started calling me '' zete'' and invited me to drink Rakija with him 😂 and her mother treats me like her own son.
Živeli 🥂
Volim te Vasi❤️
Ćao zete, budi dobar i živ bio!
You’re lucky because most Serbian women will not date a non Serbian man
This is so true, hahaha 🇷🇸
My wife is half Serbian/Balkan (she is Italian). She has a fiery temper, strong will, traditional values and wears no make up "bad for you". She is so beautiful. I love her, she is my flower
That's cute😊how you both meet?
@@maria17H we were on a Mediterranean cruise together
@@GerMFnU1848Sax time, love, body, protection, gifts. Join Serbian culture.. eat her food. Honour her parents. Don't talk about their wars. Serbian women love babies.
And you don't show her the shawn Connery backhand? Whats wrong with you?
Fiery temper is probably from the italian side.
Her father's like a hybrid of Čola and Bregović. I love it! And about the serbian music I can confirm it gets stuck in your mind very easily 😅. Love from Greece! ❤️
Love for our Greek brothers!🙏♥️ We love here Greek music too!
Aleksandra Tadic Cipka, her song Ludo Ludo has become my number one favorite next to Dostupan😅😊
They are 49% Turks
That's so true, been to Belgrade several times and got into a lot of Serbian music, it's unavoidable :P
🇷🇸❤️🇬🇷
Four years ago I went to Belgrade to watch football game (yes, Partizan vs Crvena Zvezda) and after the match we still had some time to go out and partying a little. I don't exactly know the name of that part of Belgrade, I just know it was along the river with lots of clubs there. We went to a bar and a lost my voice. All women there were drop dead gorgeous , even the waitresses. I had a neck ache from turning my head, it was like unexpected beauty contest. I am a Slovak guy, there a lot of beautiful women here, but in Belgrade it was incredible.
As a Bulgarian I'd like to share that we also use vegeta a lot! And, of course, drink loads of rakia. For the holidays we don't do chores only on certain ones and this was done mostly in the past when people had to wash clothes with their hands (not washing machines). But I still think it's so cute we have these cultural similarities 😊. Much love from your neighbours! 🇧🇬❤🇷🇸
I’ve been married to my wife whose also Serbian for 7years. I’ve never seen a video that is so spot on. She watched it with me and all I could do is just stare at her as if it was her in this video.😂😂
Haha! This was recommended to me and so had to watch. The dad and the rakija bit is so true. Can’t tell you how many times I was wasted by 8am because my father-in-law would give me shots to start the day. The greatest moment was when my wife told me, “you know, you can just say no? He won’t mind. He just thinks you actually want it.” “Ne hvala (No thank you.)” is your friend in these situations. 😉
from where exactly is your father-in-law?
have you been to Serbia and talked with current serbian politicians, if not do you plan to come here.
i find your views as balanced and reasonable but we all know that countries are not built on it, they are built on interest,
as serbian president said "international law died in 1999..." did it ever existed in the first place is my question, if it can be applied only to those who can be forced to respect it, but rest are not obligated like USA or Russia, do we need to reform international laws and how are they going to be executed ?
Look at this guy😂all the time i thought u were against us but u are actually one of us!😂
I’ve been married to a Serbian woman the last 16 years and this most definitely rings mostly true. Mine would have been more bothered about me doing the laundry than it being a holiday. Roles and responsibilities are clearly defined and she’d be horrified if I were doing something she considers her responsibility.
How did you two meet
Damn right. When I marry my woman, I'm only 22, I'll protect and provide and she will be a housewife. That's realistic gender roles
@@GerMFnU1848Sax you're a G
@@lifebecallin thanks? What is a G?
@@GerMFnU1848Sax so you're telling me you don't know who the TOP G is? 💀
Serbian dad makes for an ideal father-in-law 😂
i mean , that's your best friend the moment u take the daughter xD Not rly bad thing, at least u can get drunk and say to her "i'm there at your's , helping" works anytime ....
With rakija you also inherit the obligation to safeguard his daughter, though, so be ready 🤣
Serbian women are amazing, greetings from Russia ❤️
Lol
Srpske zene je monogo lijepe ❤
I could have dated a Serbian girl in Toronto 20 years ago. Only problem was that she was a chain smoker and I'm allergic. Otherwise, we got along just great! She was very STUBBORN in an adorable way!
It's not a dating story, but I started laughing when I saw the rakija on a Coca Cola bottle. I was in Vienna a few years ago on a holiday, and there wasn't many places available for dinner. So I found out there was a serbian restaurant in the backstreet of the hotel and I went there. I'm brazilian, so I don't read cyrillic, and as the waiter explained the menu to me I asked for what I wanted and spent some time waiting.
No one else in the restaurant, he turns to me with a bottle without any label on it and says "fancy a drink? maybe a little taste of Serbia?". I don't drink alcohol but he was so persuasive I could not say no. I can totally relate to the video reaction: "wow, it burns". lol!
Hahaha yep that’s typical for a lot of people in ex-Yugoslavian countries 😂 Rakija is also a medicine for us here :)
@@iss2500dear sir, Vienna isn’t an ex Yugoslav country 😅
@@salsadip7453 Dear whoever did I say that? He said that he found Serbian restaurant in Vienna so I was referring to that situation with rakija also hospitality included! I’m from Montenegro and I know very well which countries are the Balkan countries! Read again.
@@iss2500Dear Sir Isodora (a female name)😅😅😅
@@salsadip7453 but it is full of ex-Yugoslavs.
This is still one of my favorite channels. Love this vid. Entertaining, and educational.
Great video, love Serbian girl! You included the most important aspects of every Serbian relationship -friend, father, girlfriend-boyfriend. An I like the best singing Natasha Bekvaac while washing teeth.
Although I'm from there but literally I found this Vedio informative
😂 really appreciate it well done 👍 I'm from suif Africa 🇿🇦‼️
OMG i've been wanting a Serbian woman video for such a long time and there finally is one!
I was in Serbia, their women are top notch. Greetings from a Greek guy to Serbian bros
I waited for this video for a long time ever since I watched the "dating a Serbian guy" video. That video was hilarious. Unfortunately, I didn't recognize myself in this video. Sadly, I was never one of these girls. I never had a "girl tribe".
My Serb roots come from Hercegovina, south-west Serbia (Zlatibor region), and Montenegro. I was raised in a strict Montenegrin tradition. I mostly hung out with my cousins! And if the guy ever approached me, he better knew my cousins. I wouldn't acknowledge him unless he came with "recommendations". 😄 Gosh, I feel old. 😄
I did enjoy the part about meeting the dad, though! 😄 I recognized all the males in my family and the pressure on my husband to drink with them!
Hehe.. As an Indian I really finding it cultural shock..
I've been waiting for this one! Love it!
"its always praznik, it was praznik last week"😂😂 I'm dead 💀
That made me laugh so much. Every Sunday is a praznik and can't do laundry on that day. :)
I love this channel and as a serbian woman I'm glad you finally featured us :) The video was so funny and I'm amazed at how accurate it is! My house was a train station growing up, relatives and friends just come and go without invites and praznik is the reason why I don't wash clothes so often 🙆🏻♀️ Everything else is also true but serbs kiss 3 times that was missing in the slava scene but other than that great video 🥰
Ohh that's good to know..
Yeah, it was the same when I was growing up in Serbia as a kid. One morning, I woke up, and my sister wasn't even in the house. I went into my sister's room, and there was her best friend putting on makeup. I asked, 'What are you doing here?' She replied, 'Oh, just running to school, I came to put on some makeup.' I said, 'Okay, see you later.'
I went downstairs to the kitchen, and my sister's another friend was opening the kitchen cabinets. She said, 'Hey, where is Plazma? I'm rushing to school, I just need to eat something quickly.'
I'm not joking, it was so normal back in Serbia. Now, I've been living in Canada for 20 years since my parents moved here when I was 15. It feels unreal that this was part of my normal life when I was in Serbia.
@@markospasit sounds fun😊
What do you mean about kisses?
@@walterbrunswickYeah, usually you wouldn't hug each other, especially if you come to Slava. You will kiss the host three times on the cheeks, from right to left and back to the right one. Hehe. I have a friend that once have came to SLava with me to my parents place, he is Canadian and my dad started kissing him and he was like wtf
Thanks for making videos about Serbian people, I like it so much, because you really analyze deeply our nature.
Related to my experience the father scene is 100% accurate, also for the wrong pronunciation of my name, after 6 years of relationship with her he still continue to call me "Matija" instead of "Matteo" ahah
that is your Serbian name. You are literally never going to escape that. Maybe the younger generations in the family will be more considerate, but still... it's either way
Cool as always! Ahm the Rakija part reminded me of the Greek Raki and people's state after it X'D
"I'm running out of underwear.."
She said "you can borrow mine, it stretches"
😆 🤣 😂
was fun! the actors where really funny :)
That was so incredibly cute! It warmed my heart and made me laugh! ❤😆
Looooved it! Very nice as ALL of your videos!!!
Thank you!
haha so true I know a Serbian girl she is my roommate and best friend and as A Turk its quite similar to us:)
What a bizarre coincidence. The CZcams algorithm somehow just put this random vid into my suggested playlist?! I do remember once upon a VERY LONG TIME AGO "acting" in one of these skits and as a result my full name ended up on IMDB 😂
Quality content, thanks!!!
I love it how I can relate and I've never consider myself a typical Serbian girl. Now when I look at it, we're all like this.
Pa naravno da jeste...
@@emillyyelen5169 zakeranje ili kompliment?
@@ZlatnoPeroTV pogodi!
@@emillyyelen5169 tebe?
@@ZlatnoPeroTV There can be only one!
That's so funny and familiar to me. The scene where the friend entered the couples bedroom is very exaggerated though, maybe the only option this to happen is if they were sisters. Greetings from neighboring Bulgaria!
Haha amazing video. As a Serb I can verify that this video is 100% true.
Hey there! I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw your video on the youtube. It was like a breath of fresh air in a sea of ordinary content. I was hooked from the first second and couldn't look away. It truly left me speechless and left a deep impression on my heart.
We haven't used Vegeta much since the Yugoslavia break-up as it is now an imported Croatian product. There are many local clones and replacements like "Začin C" and similar from brands Aleva, Polimark, Yumis, etc
As a Russian man still searching for love in japan if i find no luck in japan I'll try Serbia
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Oh, this is perfect!
Awesome video
Your videos enrich my life and provide a lot of food for thought. Straight forward, Serbian woman are all about marriage.. so it's all about Cupido. Good to know..
The bill sharing joke was best, ahahahahaha
This reminded me so much of my Serbian ex-girlfriend😂 I love how traditional they are especially because it pushes me to become not only a better person but also as a man I really wanted to do right by her. Especially me being Hispanic my family is traditional as well.
Shoutouts from a Serbian man 👋🏼
There’s missing the most important phrase from the Serbian women “what’s your zodiac sign?”
Yes great point. I heard the same when I was in Belgrade, but then we decided to ask girls on the street and some were really into it, but others not so much
@@DatingBeyondBorders damn we're really into it. my friend once asked me about some guy's zodiac and when I told here I didn't know she was like "How didn't you ask for his zodiac sign????" so yes, a lot of my friends know their star sign and the moon and the rising sign and we like gossiping about people in that way.
Lots of love to Serbia from Israel 🇮🇱🇷🇸
I always meet some serbs tourists here and they are very funny😂
I love serbs to. They're very warm and mediterranean like jews and I don't know if you know it, rakia is slivovitz, which makes my galitzianer heart sing.
who gives af
Shalom abc d. Ma kore? I love Tel Aviv❤️
@@danielgalil5020 begone jews
@@danielgalil5020 no, sljivovica is rakija. There are many other types of rakija from many different fruits.
Just an idea: Make one video about a Paraguayan woman.
Paraguay is a not well known country.
Save tačno! Bravo!
I quite enjoyed this
Omg this is sooo good 😂😂😂
I am in a relationship with a serbian guy and we have an amount pf at least 5kg Vegeta and 7 packages of plazma (ane Nescafe) at home. When his family is coming,they bring so much with them 😁
I think he's not Serbian if he has open relationship lol
That was fun
Omg they are so familiar to my two friends... so cute together❤
This sounds like an absolute win, lol!
Sis is like *I’m not taking care of you guys tonight…*
😂😂😂
The belief of not doing housework (laundry and cleaning) during religious holidays because it "brings bad luck" is an ancient way for women to rest from "women's" household chores.
Srpkinje su lenje, istina. Mladja generacija pogotovo.
Ma daj im jos dana sta prosipate glupost, pa ni mi ne radimo nista, onda smo svi lenji, i da vam kazem nesto, evo bas me boli uvo
Wow, I really like the dude in this video. He's charming and has a quaint yet comedic acting style.
This apply for all the Balkan countries
It doesnt because what you moust likely consider balkan is much more diverse culturaly,geneticly than you can imagene.
@@abpast5319 yeah but these are all still things that are common throughout all (or at least most) of the balkan countries
@@kiiryth9835 no
@@abpast5319 are you even balkan lol
@@kiiryth9835 I am croat and I dont consider croatia balkan neither I consider balkans to be a realistic group in cultural and geographical way.Balkans should be hald island and somehow its not.If balkans were island it would be greece albania macedonia parts of south serbia and south west bulgaria but it somehows spreding from greece to hungary to slovenia to turky to fucking moldova which doesnt makes any sance in any way.Some of this groups dont even have any cultural etnich connection.There is centraln european there is longobard/north italian culture there is oriental greek ortodox east european and etc.For exemple croatia as slovenia as serbia and bulgaria share that slavic features in culture even tho slovenianas and croats are central european and longobard north italy like and bosnians oriental and serbs greek ortodox and bulgarian greek ortodox and east european.
This video is great and so funny! Too bad I'm already married. LOL!
Nice video, nice couple :)
I think I would love a Serbian woman! Reminds me of my women back home.
Damn... Tako to i ide u Srbiji :D Spot on! :D
Hola Marina! Saludos desde Miami, Florida, Estados Unidos 🇺🇲
Can you do the Swiss man next, please 🙏🙏?
Lmao that scene with the rakija that reminds me to much of myself when I drink oof.
Cedevita!❤️ please next: slovenian woman 🇸🇮
Hahaha my cousins from Beograd are usually in shock when they come in Zagreb. You can hear Turbo folk music everywhere you go, in Beograd I've heard it only on splavovima. We hate it :P. And yeah when you are invited on Slava, be respectful. Croat here btw.
And even if you are not invited to slava you can come, everyone is invited 😂❤
@@valentinasjenicic5918Napisi datum i ostavi adresu ako je to bas tako 😂. ...Na Slavu se zove jednom,a ti pozvani se vise ne zovu,to je tradicija i prvo treba nauciti nju pa tek onda Engleski...
the girl is so pretty 💖
Im from Spain and im dating a Serbian girl, and all of this video is totally accurated
I wish I had a Serbian father in law
@someoneelse9783 that is...if he is ready to let his babygirl go. Serbian fathers can be super protective over their daughters.😁
@@lenarosic As an American I love Serbia
My Serbian father in law taught me what I needed to do make his daughter happy but also what I needed to do to keep her in check 😂. He knew she wouldn’t be happy in life if I gave in to her.
@@rymic72 did you learn to dance kolo?😁
@@lenarosic I actually did 😃. Took more than a little rakija to get me in the mood to learn
1:59 Traditional drink, cleaner, etc
Nice video...Well done you Serbs, you preserve your traditional values....in addition I like when Marina also appears in videos 😊
Well...preserving tradition should mean dating inside your own nationality.
Tradition is fiction in Serbia. The gangster culture rules here, criminals are worshiped - right after you go back from the Church.
@@m1lst3r89, we're more flexible about that. It's more about preservation of culture (which anyone can participate in) and traditional in the sense we want a family life and traditional gender roles.
Mixed marriages are very common (and healthy).
@@HelerifiKtion i don't see how mixed marriages can be healthy and traditional. Also, mixed marriages are not really common. It's not like that majority of Serbian popularion picks non Serbian people. Plus, if you are not Serb, you should not be allowed to dance kolo.
@@m1lst3r89, of course you don't. Do you know what inbreeding does to absolutely every people ever? Take a look at the Habsburgs. You have to mix genes if you want a healthy population. Mixing cultures also leads to spreading tolerance between cultures, it's a type of diplomacy.
What's "Serbian" nowadays is actually a genetic soup that allows for people to be healthy and continue existing. There isn't a single Serbian family that doesn't have mixed genes. Whenever someone historically tried that genetic purity, they ruined their own population and had to forcefully fix it via mass migrations, raping of women, and/or some type of devshirme. It's much better to create fraternisation of different populations.
Zivili!
Yaaaay finally!! #teamSerbianGirl
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Yeah, that's what my beautuful Serb sisters are all about and that is why I love them. Thanks for this video, greetings from Serbia!
Perhaps I should go to Belgrade
@@maxhalsted5381 or any other city in Serbia
Gonna marry me a Balkan lass. I had a Croatian girlfriend, but to marry her? Nah man I want a Serbian wife
@@GerMFnU1848Sax Iets fly the Redeye to Belgrade
@@GerMFnU1848Sax advice for you - dont bring any politics topic, always ask questions (if you dont know something or if you are interested in topic) and be honest.
5:11 They kissed each other two instead of three times. Also "being conservative when it comes to relationships and a sense of humor goes a long way"??? Hahahaha good one
yes , thruth
Very entertaining video
"Big house" bahahaha good luck!
looks like I am moving to Serbia...
Has anyone noticed that rajika was in Cocla bottles in this video and the Croatian one XD
Both were part of the same country so many things are the same.
Please make a video on dating with Costa Rican girls. I have crush from Costa Rica, I think she also likes me.
That was Uber sweet! WAAAAAY too old for a Serb girl now 😂
Good accents!
I'm interested in Serbia🇷🇸 watching from the Philippines 🇵🇭
Come visit us! You will have great time I promise ❤
Nikotin is a BANGER
Funny how they calling him Andre when his name is Andrew. The booze is in a cola bottle. Must be home made.
@krs48, people in Serbia (and the rest of ex Yugoslavia) use ANDRE, not Andrew. Different spelling of the name.
Andrej
Andre is Spanish of Andrew.
It's homemade alright😅
Ive been dating a serbian woman for about 2 years now. Gonna go visit her this year. Any suggestions on things we should go do ?
Have you met her before?
@@BillyraycyrusIII I'm going out there for two weeks in two months.
@@mikeaston2111update us brother. How's it going there?
I am not an exact balkan but this culture is pretty much same with ours in the western and seaside parts of our country zdravo is Türkiye love balkans and surely Serbia
ahaha one of my roomates is serbian, and this is pretty spot on
I'm 28 but I'm kinda old-fashioned. I don't use Tinder because I prefer meeting someone authentically and naturally. Is Tinder popular in Serbia just like the West?
if u wanna find a serbian girl ur best bet would probably be a club or cafe (in belgrade because thats where most non serbs go) and yes maybe a dating site but idk if tinder is what they use
In the big city.
Not at all. It's mostly foreigners who are on Tinder and other dating apps.
I used to date an American. He would come to pick me up and wait in the parking lot for me. I used to think how disrespectful that was of him because in our culture you’re suppose to come to our house, its an expectation. He used to think how rude I was for not inviting him because that was the expectation in American culture 😂😂😂😂
Anyone know the song that is playing at 8:07. It sounds really nice
Natasa Bekvalac -Nikotin 😌
Kolo dance!! Dobro!
Wow
😂 So funny and true
I like her father
This is definitely for all ex-Yugoslavian countries,not all Balkan countries what many people wrote!☺️
8:18 🤣😆 Haha
I would even say all Slavian countries!! 🤣
@@nataliasolita8152 You probably meant Slavic…hmm we’re similar yes- we had Ottomans here,Italians etc so it’s a mix here of a lot of things but also in the Balkans in general. My people here are special..no one is hospitable,nice,warm like us but temperamental at the same time :) We share this about drinking thing for sure,also our language is Slavic-South Slavic :) I’m from Montenegro:)
@@iss2500 I did mean Slavic, thank you :) I am Russian myself and find everything in the video true for my country too.
Hell yeah that’s my kind of woman
You must be talking about her looks alone. That personality was insufferable.