Moving In Together After A Long Distance Relationship | WE MADE IT!

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
  • Life post-LDR: What's it like to have a routine for the first time? Is it difficult to get adjusted to the other person's habits? Do you start fighting about little stupid things? Do you stop appreciating each other because you're together all the time? Or: How wonderful is it to finally get what you've been wanting for so long, and to be able to fall asleep and get up again next to the person you love?
    Because Lilian was able to find an internship in Toronto, where Alexis lives, she moved in with her for the couple of months! We've spent the whole summer together traveling, which was an amazing time, but now we finally get to share a life together doing just the ordinary things. It may not be all rosy all the time, and we are going to show you what it's like: The ups and downs of living together after an LDR - or even just in general.
    Sorry for the grainy quality - or does that maybe make it even more authentic in some way? ;)
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    Thank you for watching! We love you!
    A + L
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Komentáře • 72

  • @AlexisLilian
    @AlexisLilian  Před 6 lety +103

    May I just note that by the end of our 3.5 months of living together, I was still left without a dresser and we found a nightstand that ALEXIS ended up using instead of me? Haha! - L

  • @kathyk9581
    @kathyk9581 Před 4 lety +9

    I wish this was available 25 years ago because I went from a long distance relationship to living together. I had no clue how to live with another woman. Alex and Lilian have taught me so much. Maybe I would not be alone all these years.

  • @chiomansoedo4360
    @chiomansoedo4360 Před 6 lety +28

    Omg i love the charisma between you two. You start arguing and then i few seconds you are back together. Your videos always make my day. I laugh so hard. I love your humour.

  • @LindsayC
    @LindsayC Před 7 lety +16

    That's awesome! So glad you get the chance to fall into a routine and live an ordinary life together!

  • @lalanifaure744
    @lalanifaure744 Před 6 lety +6

    You both really enjoy the outings fully and it is very relaxing to notice it. Go ahead..

  • @nataliagay2093
    @nataliagay2093 Před 7 lety +19

    You guys are so beautiful together!

  • @fafilalafafi9340
    @fafilalafafi9340 Před 4 lety +2

    I loved this move. May all the happiness be yours

  • @wanderers5641
    @wanderers5641 Před 7 lety +11

    Love seeing you two together in your own place, building a beautiful life together ☺ Welcome home! I hope you'll post more home vlogs

  • @nitateth1283
    @nitateth1283 Před 7 lety +4

    It’s so fun, you both are living together.😍😍😍
    Send love from here,...💙💙💙

  • @jessbell4265
    @jessbell4265 Před 3 lety

    goddd this gives me hope that me moving away for college doesnt have to be the end for me and the girl who owns my entire heart 🥺🥺 its so hard to imagine that i'll be okay without her but i believe that everything will work out... im just so scared of losing her. you guys' videos always make me feel 10x better tho so thank you ❤️❤️

  • @TeoElijah
    @TeoElijah Před 7 lety +9

    Good luck at the internship, Lilian 😊💟

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 6 lety +1

      Thanks! I hated it but it's over now, lol!

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 Před 7 lety +4

    Have fun living together! You're gonna be great!

  • @kaminari0
    @kaminari0 Před 7 lety

    Thank you so much for posting this! I'm out west in Calgary, and have been long-distance with my girlfriend in Frankfurt for almost a year and a half, but she finally got a job offer in Edmonton not too long ago. It's so inspiring to see the two of you together, and to see what it might be like for us when she gets here!

  • @Notmyr3alname
    @Notmyr3alname Před 7 lety +4

    Loved this video!! All of it!!

  • @kiki-ds9bo
    @kiki-ds9bo Před 6 lety +1

    Just found your channel, and I’m loving it. You two are so sweet together. Keep the vids coming! 💗

  • @chean_phanto3896
    @chean_phanto3896 Před 4 lety

    No matter whatever you guys do.. God always gonna love you both 😊

  • @gk37013
    @gk37013 Před 7 lety +2

    Good luck, ladies!

  • @user-cc8ou8hy6x
    @user-cc8ou8hy6x Před 5 lety +2

    Alexis is the most BEAUTIFUL GIRL I have ever SEEN 😻

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 5 lety +3

      +6 6 Right? I always tell her that too 😄 - L

  • @darl4lifekacineoc183
    @darl4lifekacineoc183 Před 6 lety +2

    You two were cute and beautiful together...The Perfect Match ❤

  • @carolyndignam3592
    @carolyndignam3592 Před 6 lety

    It’s awesome seeing you two together after all your time away from one another! Also if people don’t have something kind to say they shouldn’t say anything at all! There are so so many other horrible situations in this world that these mean people could direct their energy towards. I must say, not choosing sides this is, I would have to have a bureau to put clothes and personal items into, I have to have all my items in there place, Lol. I wish you girls tons of happiness in all you do together and hopefully forever.

    • @mitzieweir6576
      @mitzieweir6576 Před 3 lety

      It is nice what Carolyn wrote I quite agree with her I hope they get married there children will grow up to be pretty.

  • @AB-yt8bk
    @AB-yt8bk Před 5 lety +5

    "Ok I LIKE FASHION!" :-D sweet

  • @SandrunaPL
    @SandrunaPL Před 7 lety +4

    this vid is tooo adorable

  • @mesh9976
    @mesh9976 Před 4 lety +1

    I like watching your video both off you alexis and lilian,i am michelle buena from riyadh saudi arabia

  • @drawsleepread
    @drawsleepread Před 5 lety

    I strongly relate to Lilian’s two garbage cans in the room. I need one next the bed and one on the other side even though i don’t empty them out frequently since they don’t fill up fast but I’m too lazy to go to the other side of the room to throw a tissue. 😂

  • @francessun8130
    @francessun8130 Před 6 lety

    I love both of you, my new fav youtuber x

  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee Před 5 lety +8

    You look like models

  • @nickybebe688
    @nickybebe688 Před 7 lety +10

    Alexis wakes up still look cute with that face 😊

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 7 lety +2

      Haha *blushing* you're so sweet
      -Alexis ❤️

  • @pinkcherryblossom15
    @pinkcherryblossom15 Před 7 lety +2

    Your videos are amazing!!!!

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 7 lety +1

      Aw thank you Sam! you're! Amazing
      -Alexis ❤️

  • @cookiebiscuit5124
    @cookiebiscuit5124 Před 7 lety +9

    The idea of living together scared me the most..I don't know if it just me or my exes. It took only a month before I felt bored with the relationship. Guess I'm gonna stay single for the rest of my life 😭😭

    • @sitinurbaya3552
      @sitinurbaya3552 Před 6 lety +3

      CookieBiscuit the idea is you have not found the right one yet. once you have found everything will fall into its place like it fits the puzzle.

  • @pramlochanadhara
    @pramlochanadhara Před 6 lety +1

    Cover photo of your channel is fantastic👌👌. I 😍 it

  • @daphenewhite9500
    @daphenewhite9500 Před 6 lety

    Wow...at my home you would go insane.Garbage cans: Bathrooms (2) 1 each, bedrooms (4) in each, kitchen (4), 1 regular trash, 1 Aluminum cans, 1 for paper and 1 for plastics, then 1 in the laundry room and finally 1 in the garage...lol...lol.

  • @ZestyPanda-ox2jf
    @ZestyPanda-ox2jf Před 3 lety

    You two are so cute!!

  • @22sun
    @22sun Před 7 lety +4

    So great

  • @aerdraiochta
    @aerdraiochta Před 6 lety +2

    Lilian , war es schwer für dich nach Kanada zu ziehen? Ich finde die Entfernung sehr krass 😅 und deine Familie und Freunde musstest du ja auch zurücklassen...

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 6 lety

      Hi Amelie! Ich bin das erste Mal nach Kanada gezogen, als ich 19 war. Ich kannte die Leute und das Land aber schon, weil ich vorher als Au Pair da war. Es gab natürlich schwierige Momente, vor allem die Zeit, während der ich Kanada nicht verlassen durfte und dann Weihnachten und so etwas traurig war. Aber ich liebe Toronto und habe mich sehr gefreut, dort wohnen und studieren zu dürfen. Vor allem die Offenheit und Freundlichkeit der Leute, und die super präsente LGBT community habe ich so noch nie wo anders erlebt. Jetzt bin ich wieder in Europa, weil ich mal wieder was neues brauchte, und war dann die letzten paar Monate wieder zurück um mit Alexis zu sein. Aber alles in allem würde ich sagen: Nach Kanada zu ziehen war schöner, bereichernder und spannender, als es schwer war. Danke für die Frage! Liebe Grüße - L

    • @aerdraiochta
      @aerdraiochta Před 6 lety

      Alexis & Lilian Es freut mich zu hören, dass es dir dort sehr gefällt 😊 und dass du als Au Pair dort warst und das Land somit schon kennenlernen konntest ; hat es dir bestimmt etwas erleichtert ! Das Kanada eine große LGBT Community hat , freut mich zu hören da ich selbst lesbisch bin ;) Na dann bedanke ich mich für die Antwort und wünsche dir noch einen schönen Tag ❤

  • @cerysparry1622
    @cerysparry1622 Před 3 lety

    Omg I'm jst like this I've got a girlfriend and we r so excited to move in together, were in a long distance relationship x

  • @user-cc8ou8hy6x
    @user-cc8ou8hy6x Před 5 lety

    You both are my favorite

  • @mingmasherpa8646
    @mingmasherpa8646 Před 7 lety

    You guys are so cute ❤️❤️

  • @jennys6182
    @jennys6182 Před 6 lety

    Oh god this is soo cute

  • @destinycruz7276
    @destinycruz7276 Před 7 lety +2

    I like this video..

  • @yenisupramita3874
    @yenisupramita3874 Před 4 lety

    Padahal lihat mereka ngobrol aj
    Dan aku ga tahu artinya Krn aku ga bisa bahasa Inggris
    But they are my fav. CZcamsrs

  • @TranceGemini12
    @TranceGemini12 Před 7 lety +3

    💖

  • @Ayeshakhan-er9zu
    @Ayeshakhan-er9zu Před 7 lety +3

    Cute couple

  • @belnerearg
    @belnerearg Před 3 lety

    Loool, I get so much fun with you 2. I'd like to have a girlfriend like Alexis!

  • @lalanifaure744
    @lalanifaure744 Před 6 lety +2

    Lilian is quiet and careful in every way ... all the Germans are of this nature I guess.Good luck to you both.

  • @anazozo1234
    @anazozo1234 Před 6 lety

    lilian i love you

  • @yenisupramita3874
    @yenisupramita3874 Před 4 lety

    Siiip

  • @HIPSTERAMA
    @HIPSTERAMA Před 6 lety

    okay y’all are cute as fuuuuuuck

  • @natashia9384
    @natashia9384 Před 5 lety

    How much was your rent here? Hahahahahaha sorry just really curious since apartments in Toronto is crazy lately

  • @ayahoval7136
    @ayahoval7136 Před 6 lety

    first time i’ve meet lesbian and i love

  • @lgrinner
    @lgrinner Před 6 lety

    You girls have fun, but most of all you are natural. I liked the sign on the wall! What Zoodiac signs are U ?? ............Du bist schön

  • @pinot7914
    @pinot7914 Před 5 lety

    Hallo Ihr beiden...Hello to you😚....really a so so wonderfull Channel...because of you two...your personality...beautiful...my Girlfriend...my Love...lifes in Kreuzberg....800 km away...Not easy...but you help me...thanks...sending you Love
    ...Lg Sven

  • @a7ewald
    @a7ewald Před 7 lety +1

    Hell is OK! You don’t catch a could!

  • @chenbettie8607
    @chenbettie8607 Před 4 lety

    They are.my favourite lesbian couple

  • @sternchen112
    @sternchen112 Před 5 lety +1

    Hey, girls (Alexis and Lilian) everything is super-cool, your videos are very nice and funny and sweet and interesting, but there is ONE big problem I noticed - it is veeeery bad sound your videos has!!!(((( Please, maybe use some add. microphone ? Pleeeeeeeeease!!!! And yet, I like how Alexis kiss Lilian at the neck all the time)))). This is soooooooooo sweet!!)

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 5 lety

      thank you! yes we started off just with an iphone but seeing as people are actually watching our videos we have upgraded our equipment, so our latest videos are better 😉

  • @beingkind9389
    @beingkind9389 Před 5 lety

    🌝🤗👍💘

  • @thdi4289
    @thdi4289 Před 6 lety

    U-Haul!!!!😂

  • @ritanamondo8375
    @ritanamondo8375 Před 3 lety

    How can you guys say God is gay ?? Why not say God is great? What will that cost you.

  • @connielamb8159
    @connielamb8159 Před rokem

    Stinky incense is right. I can't stand the stuff either. This would be grounds for divorce.