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Really glad that you shed light on abuse as a factor for why most women are actually scared of marriage and sex.
This guy is genius.. he know what thumbnail will attract Indian Pakistani viewer
Lekin jo likha hai andr wohi tha 😂
He still didnt get views 🤣
If the men told that " I was in a physical relationship" he would say divorce him he's is a cheater.
yep
Q#2: it’s painful for her - consult the doctor who would understand her problem , sometimes the tissues in that area are very stiff , she might need help- please don’t force it on her. Also try using lubricants. There will definitely be a solution. Please give it some time.
If it's not a childhood trauma then 1) she could be lesbian or simply 2) not in love or physically attractive to him. These are hard hitting realities.
@@sabrinakhan8217 There's nothing like lesbian...it's just a mental state where you think you are one but actually you aren't.
@@Nagin505 please tell me that it is true because i am as boy is really confuse. Don't get me wrong I am straight but when I hear people talking about this their side of story sounds realistic.
And i know about gender dysphoria which is a mental state.
@@Gaak967 Meeza Sayyed is wrong. Homosexuality exists in 450 species in the animal kingdom. It is not a choice, not a state of mind that can be changed, not a mental disorder. The American Psychiatric Association came to that conclusion in 1973. If Meeza Sayyed is right, then shouldn't being straight also be "a mental state where you think you are one but actually you aren't"? The majority of humans are right handed because the left side of their brain is dominant, but then randomly children of right handed parents are born left handed. My son is the only left handed person in the whole family. How does that happen? Very likely it is something genetic that leads to that. So also it is probably the combination of genetics that leads to children being born who are attracted to the people of the same sex as themselves. One thing is for sure, being left handed or being homosexual is NOT a state of mind that can be changed and it is not a choice.
Was recently watching the American Idol audition video of a young man named Jon Wayne who was raised by his grandparents. His grandfather stopped talking to everyone for a whole year and a half after his wife (Jon's grandmother) passed away. Finally the old grandfather admitted to his grandson that he had always been gay despite being in a loving marriage. So religion and family/social pressure can force a gay person to live a heterosexual life. But living that life is a terrible suffering for them because they still stay gay inside.
@Gaak you are either born straight or you aren't. Yo
Your response to the first question is disappointing. A woman literally confessed about having sex before marriage and then thinking about her ex while married .. why not advise her to apologize to him and leave him alone. Had this been a man confessing you'd have bashed him k bc tunay zindagi barbaad kyun kardi bechari larki ki ye wo... yahan nahi apply hota mera jisam meri marzi? If a man doesn't want to sleep with someone who's already been sleeping with someone else ,its HIS Choice! if you lie and he finds out then you should expect a divorce and separation to be the least as punishment for lying about something so big..
Junaid is a simp! 😅
A male feminist - filthy disgusting.
Absolutely! he was kinda defending the woman for her immoral acts
He is soft on issues like these even homosexuality. He is all goody good regarding Islam but on topics like these he has a very different stand than what is of Islam.
He's a liberal feminist, ofcourse he is going to be biased
Youre too illogical about it. Calm down! You sound like a psycho. Past os aadmi ka bhi hosakta hai ok. If she asks for forgiveness and is sincere about it, then she deserves a chance! ALLAH jab barai gunahgaroon ko maaf kr sakta h tu aap kyun pareshaan hotai ho? tumhai man ka kya pata maybe he wants to forgive! warna woh chor chuka hota.
You are such a huge hypocrite Junaid, if the first question had been asked by a guy, I can guarantee your stance would've been completely opposite.
bro i am im 27 years old i am attractive but never had a relation nor sex .bhai jab larki larkya ka future dekh k ati hai to larka apni zindagi mein zani aurat kiyun lae come face me on this one junaid bhai i want answer from u🙂
exactly! He seems to find ways to defend it somehow, absolutely pathetic
@@aizazg7785 hes trying to normalize it
Awww, 27yr old virgin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bhai deliberately mat lao ap lekin agar Kisi ki shadi hogai hai tou agar wo maaf kardega ye dekh kar Keh biwi ab naik hai ,tou agar biwi ko maaf karengey tou Allah Khush hoga Keh itni Badi bat ke bawajood tallaq nhi di😊 Baki sabki apni Marzi hai unhon ne koi hukum thori dia hai larkey ko unhon ne bas advice hi di hai na
Yes agree no good person or chaste person deserves a zani whether it’s a man or woman
Yesss!!! Im excited for this :D
Man! this Guy Genuinely Gives Good And Straightforward opinions To Our Problems, Love It ❤
not anwers - opinons. Take them as his opinions.
One thing is for sure , Ganjiswag is always tilted and has a soft corner for women, seen a lot of his videos and came to conclusion that when a man does something bad he takes him to cleaners where as he justifies if its a woman.
That's not that he has a soft corner for women.
He is a male feminist, a simp and a pervert who needs a female audience.
Douglaa hai bhai ye😂
U may be right....but that tilt your talking abt is unnoticeable....he never openly admitted that he is feminist....but han daby alfazon mein pata lag jata ha ke Thora sa larkiyon ke side pe rehta ha
He is himself a woman without hair .
@@legendaryhound5261 bhai usko pta hai larkian soft hoti hen thora sa unko kuch boldia tou thaka thak unsubscribe krdengi.😂😂😂
She told you her side of the story, it was probably her ex telling her husband because SHE slipped and hooked up with him in a reunion party. Great self control.
She is probably in contact with her ex till date. Like imagine, a man spent his life working hard, studying and living in Pakistan. Got married off his parents' choice and he receives a DM like this, imagine the threat he must've felt. Imagine the insecurity he must've felt. Feeling that his life and wife isn't private anymore.
I can bet it was her ex who texted him.
Junaid bhai it is 2023, too late for a Podcaster to have gender biases.
First story: I understand the teenage love chapter, but how can she sleep with someone when her marriage was already fixed? And what about STD risk? When any man has had a girlfriend before marriage, you suggest him to do STD checkup, why not the same rule applies to a woman?
Women are natural choose. They don't like every other man like Pakistani wild boar so called Muslim men.
Blame the feminism.... It's not even about checking STDs... Had the gender roles reversed,you would have seen hypocrisy of these feminists
1st question: The girl should leave her husband because he doesn't deserve such cheap and characterless woman as her wife
For the first question, the girl has done a really big mistake. How can you expect a man or even a women that he/she will forgive any past realation(of such extreme) and specially when its hidden. Junaid said that man is not broad minded enough to forgive her or let her past go away.However, this statement indirectly supports to normalize such acts(which is really not acceptable).
Tha husband should forget about it and move on with her wife but every human should know that this act is related to severe punishment.
may Allah guide us all ameen.
great speech man!
Q#2 I myself have been sexually assaulted by a family member in my childhood and couldn’t tell my mom for a long time. It happened several times to me by the same person when i was just 11 y/o
One day i have decided to tell my mom and she had confronted that person. After that the person stopped assaulting me but the fear stays still now at the age of 50
Have been get arranged marriage at the age of 20, i was anxious to get intimate in initial months. My husband thought i had physical relationship before marriage that’s why i was keen or interested into intimacy.
Things got worsen and we ended up getting our marriage after 3 years getting married.
5 years later i got remarried with a person who i have chosen myself. It is a love marriage and we have very special bond.
As i am not a very active intimate person my husband had issues in starting with it but now he is more understanding and gives my space . We have a son together who’s 18.
Still i hate sex and everything related to intimacy.
YOU SHOULD GET MARRY with any person inform them about incident 1,2,3 (and your sons, daughters) your job, expenses and how much money he should earn and pay you per month and get married simple (don't make it horrible story) its just a story and incidents and don't use, think anything related to love, hate, intimacy, sex etc etc
and live a +ve life and get married and live happily again
More power to you as it takes courage to speak up wish you all the best !!! May your marriage brings eternal happiness in your life and also your hubby's.
Learn Islam and pray namaz , everything will be fine , your past was a test from Allah on you because Allah tests those whom He loves , I hope you don’t take me wrong and you’re 50 now so you have already passed the important passages of life , now its just your old days
@@lilmuslim5069 yani junaid bhai ko islam seekhna chahey ya is khatoon ko jin ko bachpan main abuse kia gaya aur bad main divorce hogai in ko islam seekhna chahey aur 50 sey above age honey par sabar karlena chahey even if she hates intimacy yeh khuda ki azmaish hey & khuda un ko azmata hey jin ko pasand karta hey khuda in ko pasand karta thaa is liey in ko azma lia THATS WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY/CONVEY YOUR MSG TO HER? OR THE PERSON WHO IS MAKING VIDEO?
@@syedahmed6908 just read my comment again , this shows your mentality , matlab kya boloon unko ? Mayoos hojaye aap , Allah sy naraz hojaye , Mayoosi kufur hai aur kufur kren , In Islam one of the article of faith is that everything that happens is from Allah’s Choice , mein unko ye boloon k aap Allah k faisle sy naraz hojaye ? Your comment lacks maturity and knowledge
I'm sorry, but I strongly disagree with the answer to the first question. It's not about the fact that she has a past, it's about full disclosure.
A lot of people place importance on chastity and sex is a big deal for them. This is their preference/standard, so no, you're not allowed to ridicule them. Such people would also guard their own chastity and fight urges.
Now after all that, if they got into a marriage without knowing that their partner has a past (especially extramarital affairs), that is straight up unfair on them. It's ridiculous to justify that. And it's perfectly reasonable grounds for divorce.
It's always better to reveal such things before marriage to ensure your potential partner is comfortable with that. That way, neither party will be in for a nasty surprise after such a huge commitment of marriage. If they aren't comfortable, they can leave.
And it goes without saying, all of the above goes for both genders. The same standard applies.
I would agree that it's unfortunate that in our society men can get away with such things and women can't. If men can be forgiven and not ridiculed by society for this, same should apply to women. Or if women have to face condemnation for such activities, so should men. We should work to fix that, but that's a different topic under gender equality.
Lastly, people need to take responsibility for their actions. You can't make bad decisions and then run away from them or hide them. I'm not saying tell the world, but learn how to take responsibility and face the consequences for your actions.
Everybody messes up at times, and there's always room for forgiveness and growth, but that doesn't warrant a lack of responsibility. The world would be a better place if everyone started taking responsibility for their actions.
he married a left over toxic feminist for a passport bro
Unless someone has a history of crime or some form of abusive behaviour, their past is useless. Focusing on chastity has no practical value to anyone.
You are just amazing ❤
The first lady clearly had no control over her emotions as she hooked up with the same dude even after knowing she's getting married.. her husband would definitely feel cheated upon especially finding all this from someone else.. i dont blame him for his anger..
All she can do is apologize to him now & try to convince him she's changed, but if he does not agree ..then both of them should brace themselves for the consequences.
This makes no sense. What's wrong with hooking up by choice? How is that proof of lack of control? May be they like each other and thought they'll end up together but it didn't work out. I mean, even marriages break does that mean that people who got married had " no control over their emotions"
@@cauliflowerhead2735 bruh...she was engaged to another man and knew she's going to get married to him when she hooked up with her ex boyfriend .. that IS cheating !!
@@F-Khan491 it's actually worse than just cheating....in similar situations with gender roles reversed, you women want to harm and hurt the man as much as possible.... Why double standards against men though??
I've been a follower for a long time, but that answer to the first question is totally shit. He would have bashed men "pakistani " for doing such an act, but as usual, it's a woman he has to come out with a pampered answer. #hypocrisy .
Still love your content. Peaceout
Anyone else also infuriated by his answer to the first question? I mean it's not the first time he has revealed his subconscious bias towards women.
Imagine if it was his wife in place, would he have engulfed the fact easily? When you controlled your desires, didn't got into sexual intercourse, maintained your chastity and hoped for a virgin & chaste wife, but 5 years, 10 years later down the marriage you find out your wife slept with an another man, will he still have the same mindset? And live his own advice?
I don't know about women, but real men have strong protective jealousy inside them towards their women.
If someone stares women of your home, harasses them or if someone sleeps with them, And YOU don't feel angry, furious and sad, either you are not a man or there is definitely some problem with you.
I normally don't think divorce is the answer and we should avoid it to last resort, but in this case, separation might be the best idea.
As a man, he might never be able to live peacefully after that,
Knowing that:
1) Your wife beautfied the bed of an another man.
2) YOU were kept in dark for years of this infamous deed.
3) You were not the first man who penetrated her.
4) She felt an another man inside of her.
5) An another man's impurity touched your wife.
And i can go on...
It's very easy to give advice to someone else "it's not that serious", "move on", "stop being so backward" except when its your own wife/husband! Then you realise how it feels.
If you love/like a person, you can't tolerate for anyone else to touch your wife/husband except you!
We know men are not angels, especially Pakistani men, there are lots of cases of domestic violence & abuse but please stop with this strong bias against women.
A wrong, either done by man or women, is wrong, irrespective of their gender, and their deed must be condemned.
Why is it that certain Pakistani youtubers + feminsts defend and wrongfully support women for the same deed a man is heinously and brutally bashed for when the tables are turned?!
if woman are accepting men who are non virgins then why cant men accept women like that? double standards much?? also ppl get divorced even after so does that mean u dont move on in life? u need to grow up..
@@aena5995She hooked up with him just before the marriage that was the worst part like your marriage is fixed and you are hooking up with someone else.
Dont agree with the first question..
It's different for girls having relationships before or outside of the marrige. Mostly, girls are emotionally connected and CAN NOT move on even if she gets married. I'm not endourcing it, but men do not get emotionally attached and are able to forget their past when get married.
So she should've let her husband know before they got married
Most women are emotionally connected and cannot move on? How do you know this? Don't pull claims out of your arse. Only women can attest for how connected or disconnected they feel from an ex. You just want women choices to be pressurised so you're whipping up hypothetical narratives to justify your unreasonable demands.
From Bangladesh and recently came across your videos,loved watching em n was binge watching although some opinions differed that's normal.But your response to tge first question blew my mind 😅
Imagine ganji's response to a question where the wife complains about her husband not being interested in her..
That's a rare cases most of the time its other way around
But i get when this happens 90% chances are he is having some affairs with other wome
@Hassan Khan do you realize the hypocrisy?
@@tahiraleem you are referring if this had been done by a man his response would be different I get it, but usually in Pakistan men has upper hand femenism is real but Pakistani feminism is fake they just hate mens but the real reason should be like education for women which most under privileged extremists ban women and etc
@@tahiraleem it is important to note that physical medical conditions exist as well. Such as vaginismus..
@Tooba Asad do those conditions exist with both genders or just with women? Cuz apparently and hypocritically men are always cheater.
Women are judged for their past and men for their future. Play stupid games win stupid prizes the 1st question is inexcusable and should have been discussed before marriage and her actions should have consequences.
freshnfit
First question it’s a femal fault cuz she hooked up with gora just before their wedding she is for the streets the guy should divorce her
Your topics are sometimes sensible.. Best wishes.
Please read my whole comment and reply on it !
I am 22 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development.
So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her?
I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us.
I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach.
I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’ it is unscientific & judging someone on the basis of this is also wrong.) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ?
Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If one Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual/serious relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values.
Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past.
So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view.
their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone.
If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for whole family although mistakes was done by only one partner.
I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect.
Even if we agree on other points and we like each other then i will be ready to marry rape victim or person who had faced something wrong in past because in this case it was not that person’s mistake. Even i will give emotional support to her and stand for her. After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk.
I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in whole life ,she is the only one for me in whole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this !
But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion!
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In my opinion those who wants to be in relationship should clear each and everything before getting into it. Both should clear honestly everything regarding past,expectations and another things related future life. If matching then be together and if not then give wishes and move forward. There shouldn’t be lying or cheating!
I am against hiding,cheating,lying!
I just want to say like others, virgins also have point of view and honest expectations which i have mentioned in my above comment in detail. Because of that no one should call us narrow minded. Respect our expectations as we respecting your personal decisions.
i always try to have rational,progressive and liberal approach. And as per this you have to respect each and everyone’s rational and good personal choices. But i am against those hypocrites. I hate their hypocrisy that at one side they support personal choice but at other side they are opposing and denying totally the personal choice of choosing life partner on our personal terms and criteria.
I think people like me or people who have attitude like me don’t have representation.
I am against judging someone and against extremist of both sides cause I would like to think rationally..
I don’t judge anyone and totally respect each and everyone’s past and their personal and private life. I am no one to make statement on it . But their are many hypocrites who are indirectly making atmosphere In the name of ‘past is past’ against us where we just cannot have our terms. If we put our terms or criteria then they are ready to attack and comment on us that ‘we are narrow minded’. With this attitude they are making environment of inequality where we just can’t demand or expect like “if our partner is going to first love for us then why we should not expect same from him/her ?”
I am against imposing opinions, defaming our personal criteria and purposefully making unfavourable atmosphere related us and our opinions. I believe in ‘live and let live’
Sex can be very painful for women due to medical reasons as well. It’s not necessary that she has emotional/psychological/ sexual issues. She should see a gynaecologist. And pleasuring a woman like foreplay and going down on her plays an important role in making sex an overall a pleasurable experience. Just a suggestion
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yani aap ka suggestion hey alae kaar na ghusain oral sex start kardain (yeh to end hogai hey)
that's why i like to lick it all woman! -_-
Reverse the genders in the first question and his reponse would have been totally different.
Khalli walli karo
yep thats true
His response was absolutely correct
Agreed Bilal bhai
Please explain
As for the 1st suggestion that you gave, it’ll be even messier to confront the husband by saying that you might have the history too, just admit your mistake and try to calm him down, try to give your best to this relationship , hopefully things will work out between you two.
I thought the same
He will definitely feel she is dragging him in that gutter too
Wow, hypocrisy of junaid akram, for the first question, if guy did this. He would be like “o larki ki zindagu barbad krdi, pakistani mard krte hi ese hen, blah blah” this is the 2nd time he showed this hypocrisy with the fear of not getting cancelled by women. What a shame
He is a simp! A coward and he's a male feminist, so you can expect this from him. 😅
Even if woman is wrong, junaid will still take her side regardless and target the men.
@@kodvavi150 i have no problem with him being a feminist. But identifying himsef as a feminist, and then give unfair advantage to women goes against the cause of feminism and the equality they are saying they want.
@@professionalmady You are right tho.
he married a left over toxic feminist for passport bro
Q1 feeling bad for the husband, poor guy deserves better. Leave him for his life's sake
Mostly ek na ek din pata he chul jaata hai past k baarey mai, ghalat baat kabhi bhi nahi chupti ....
It's not necessary that the wife was assaulted, she may have a medical issue that needs to be taken care of... endometriosis, fibroids etc please take her gynecologist, multiple ones to get help till you find the solution.
A tale of hardship and dedication:
I suggest taking admission to some university for an MS CS program (any govt. or private university or affiliated college), and mentioning it in your resume, whether you continue or not. It will increase your CV's worth. You don't really have to take the degree.
What would I reply when they ask me why did you drop out in the interview?
@@syediftikharali8771 you can cite personal reasons for your break
How can he apply for ms cs ( 16 years of edu is MIN Requirement to get enrollment for MS program ) ?
@@geekygirl648 BComm k baad bhi MS CS ho jata hai, pre req courses perhne hotey hain jis ki waja se 3 to 4 years ka masters ho jata hai
you are off on first response junaid bhai you are fairly logical but when it comes to matter like this you always take girls side saying this in a good faith no hate thou
For wife's intimacy.
Please understand that it could be vaginismus as well. Most women don't even know it exists and in Conversations with Kanwal, it was actually discussed how a woman suffered emotionally and mentally because of it.
Therefore if wife is afraid because it is too painful, kindly discuss it with a female Gynae, there are ways and therapies that can help relax the muscles so that it is not painful.
Lately I know about vaginismus (by a couple who made OF content ) on reddit that was educational and also he discussed how they overcame this problem.
Junaid Akram LIBERALISM destroys the mind, body and soul. His biases and his hypocrisy shows here when women does anything wrong he does everything to defend her and when men does then see his reaction.
Exactly
prove your point
Does anyone know about online geo informatics courses? & What are the scope for WFH after doing this degree?
The last question had the most important ideas
Simply saying that only men from Pakistan want virgin wife is wrong. Men from all abrahmic religions (Islam, Christians & Jew) prefer virgin wives. I bet she will have a hard time finding a husband in Romania as well.
Only a virgin man must demand a virgin wife. Otherwise you are hypocrite.
Of course guard your chastity and stay virgin before first marriage (simple)
@@farwanqv where did I said, men can be promiscuous? Stop making stuff in ur head
@@farwanqv well that depends on thinking whether there should be virgin women for virgin men....main thing is to tell everything before marriage....decide the rest for yourself
@@farwanqv Agreed! But both have to disclose this before marriage.
I don't think so.
@Junaid, why are u calling the 1st girls’ previous relationships a mistake??
to the first question I would like to say sister contact some elder who is trusted and repected by both of you like any imam or anyone.And to all of the other people plz pray.If you are do not practise your religion you too will be vulnerable.just try.I have seen lives changed
Edit: And I think the situation is not that worse.I mean its in our nature that we feel disgusted by this that someone else had relationship with our wife but the fact that he hasnt left you at your parents' indicates that situation can be resolved.
Consult a gynecologist it's a must!!!!
Don't marry a woman who's like that.
A marriage without intimacy is like Biryani without boti.
Pehle roti ka intezam Karo fir boti khaana 😂
Q1, it is good that the husband got to know her wife's wrongdoing at this stage. Some people can't change. Stop defending adultery in any way because it's the biggest sin in the eye of Allah.
If a woman < 21 is not ready to have sex then she IS NOT READY. SHE is barely an adult and you want him to take her to sexologist instead of giving her time?? Wahhh
Feeling sad for the first guy, May Allah protect good muslims from these kind of Women.
Sex ko bahut bada matter bana lete hain log. Society ne isko bahut importance deke isko taboo bana diya. Ghar Mein khana khate hein restaurant mein kabhi khana khate hein. Isko aise lena chahiye logo ko.
Har ladke ko Gf chahiye hoti hai but apni sis ka bf nahi hona chahiye. Har gf ka bhi bhai hoga ye sochne ko ready nahi hote ladke. Dusre ki sis ko gf banana chahte ho toh apni sis ko bhi bf banane do. Agar sis ke liye allowed nahi hai toh khud bhi gf na banao.
Ur an Indian, right?
Kis society ki bat kr rhe ho ap...
Konsi society mein rehte ho aap🤡🤡
Please consult a doctor she needs counseling she might have a medical issue low libido can be due to underlying medical condition.
With regards to the first question, I think you should know what your partner's values are before choosing to discuss your past or withhold information. At 29, I am now in a position to consider marriage and one of my big concerns is what happened here. In my case, if pursuing arranged marriage I would tell the woman that it's very important to me that neither of us have been in a past relationship. I always had a sense of responsibility and never tried to mess around in my childhood because the end state of a romantic relationship is either marriage or dissolution and I was not ready for marriage and I did not just want to play with a young girl's heart for fun, there was also the religious point of view of such relations being haram in Islam.
Now I find out that society has become very corrupt these days and you can't even trust the virtue of a Pakistani woman anymore. I'm extremely disappointed and feel like my restraint and resolve was wasted. Now I believe that even if I were to ask such questions, the girl will always say that she is a virgin. She could be lying or telling the truth and I will never know. My solution now is to let go of my values and assume that every girl I meet will have a past, and so I should just go out there and find myself a girlfriend before thinking about marriage. If I've also been in relationships, then I will not be concerned with my wife's past. That's the plan I have for now, what do you all think?
same concern but opposite gender. but the thing is that if you didn't mess around because you have values and kept in mind the boundaries of islam then just pray for a naik saleh spouse, Allah swt will bless you with one if your niyah is right In Sha Allah!
If you protected yourself then trust in Allah. Make dua for yourself. Your demand is valid but please don’t see every girl as if she was in some past relationships etc.
World was always corrupted and with both good plus bad people.
If you have protected yourself for 29 years then why giving up now?
Allah can make you meet your spouse even if she will be on the other side of the world.
No, brother. You are wrong.
Just don't marry a university educated/indoctrinated and working woman, everything will be fine.
The morally corrupt woman only found here. Go and marry a religious girl, if you are religious and give her God given rights. There will be no problem like me.
If you marry a university educated and a working woman, she will be hardcore arrogant and do not even give you respect which is your God given right. She always threatens you and does not even have intimacy with you when you wish only for the sake of mentally torturing you.
A university educated woman is a dajjali woman for me. I hate them with my whole heart. I have seen university educated woman and their arrogant behavior with their innocent husband.
One of the reasons I support the Taliban's ban on university brainwashing for woman is this.
I have seen pious woman going to university and ending up having zina over 40 times and still arrogant.
I wish someone would also put a complete ban on women's university education. I don't know what universities are teaching these woman but it's very bad happening.
I appreciate the responses from you ladies and I am aware that there are plenty of good women out there. My concern is the fact that society has poisoned my brain. I find myself thinking, what if I am the type to be suspicious? "Shakk ky bemari" as they say in Urdu. I don't know if I will be like that after marriage because I've never been in a relationship, but if I have that poison in me, should I even try to get married?
What if I marry a nice girl who kept herself pure, but I am constantly suspicious of her because of cases like the one in the video. Just waiting for the day someone tells me something about my wife's past. It's a horrible mindset, but I can't seem to to rid myself of these thoughts. My mom thinks the solution is to pray, but when I told her about this idea I have about finding a girlfriend first in order to get rid of these thoughts, she wasn't strongly opposed to it. She certainly didn't encourage me to do so though.
I've been in your studio for the position of Video Editor, your assistant called Altaf Wazir has given me the same Goli... Lol but anyways i Respect you bro.
Lol , why are you telling people to hide their past from their future spouse?
If you think its not wrong then don’t hide , if you are trying to
Hide then you know it was wrong you did wrong so simply tell this to your future spouse if he/she’s ok then its good if they aren’t then its also good but don’t hide lol?
Hiding the past is good for both genders!
Past is past. Even if you discuss witha scholar they also suggest discuss future rather than past with spouse. Of course everyone can do investigations regarding future partner.
But discussing your past is a big no no simple.of course it doesn’t mean we don’t take care of our modesty etc
Yes if someone asks you upfront then you can be honest but then be straight forward and ask if they had any past relationships etc
@@kodvavi150 no its not good for the long term, if someone else tells your spouse about your past intimate relationships then it will be be problem , like the girl is facing someone told his husband.what will u do then? So its better to speak truth rather regret in future !
@@farwanqv see someone said that Men are interested in Women’s past and Women are interested in Men’s future!
So its by nature its not like that women don’t care about Mens past they just live with it coz they don’t care about it but when it comes to men they just can’t digest it that their spouse had past intimate relationships
And many relationships destroyed coz of this ,
And if someone waited for his whole life for this moment he would expect the same from his partner right?
There’s no concept of relationship in islam right? So in the very first place that is wrong if you had relationships more over you had intimate relationships then you are hiding it from your future partner , CMON, thats not how it works be sensible
You can’t do that to someone who waited all his life for that moment? And when he gets it he got cheated , can you imagine how it can hurt someone sentiments how badly it can affect their mental health ? They might have trust issues?
Won't it be better to inform the history at the start of the relationship? Mistakes can happen esp. when young but having physical intimacy is very special and should be kept for the one special. Wrong morally & religiously too. Even bigger red flag is having physical relationship when it was known to the girl she's getting married. It will be fair for the guy to be out of the relationship and find someone of his own choosing. Same would have been the case for other way round where guy say is of bad character.
bro the man who isn't involved in this activity will never forgive a woman, and this isn't true 100% that everyone has these types of relationships, especially in Pakistan.
The woman has done nothing that would require forgiveness. Having and asserting sexual autonomy is not a crime. I'm indian and I find it hilarious that Pakistani men want women to save themselves for men whom they don't even know. Why do Pakistani men want this much control over the woman's body? Don't you guys have anything better to do with your lives than obsess over such things? Men have no way to decisively prove that they are virgins, Pakistani men could be outrightly lying and women would have no way to verify their claims. Just admit it, you are a bunch of cowards who are scared of experienced women who know what they want or like.
@@unknown-or7fi its about religion not a country you nerd b*
@@unknown-or7fi In my circle 99% aren't involved in these types of activities, so please keep your assumptions in your own pocket
@@waqashassan9374 sorry bro I misread your comment
@@waqashassan9374 also in my circle only two boys are involved in this rest 90 percent are not . And what funny thing is they told me there girlfriend when goes to new university had make new boyfriends. Almost every person girlfriend boyfriend broke when they go from college to university for another person and you expect and they expect loyalty from these person it's funny
For the first question, would you tolerate if your son's future wife had relationships in past and she may not reveal to him, because you are telling to her or in general to all those who had dirty relationships in the past not to reveal. You know what my friend, if you are taking it lightly then you might be supporting it, the virgin either any gender would not tolerate this shit, if she had a different exposure then its better to marry there, her parents are responsible for her upbringing that she is loosing virginity in high school.
if someone has done something wrong in the past doesnt mean they will avoid the repercussions in the present remember that guys this world isnt a fairy tale be very selective of your actions
Q#2 some thyroid patients also don't like intimacy. Might she have a hormonal issue
3rd question: So she just married to the UK guy just to get more opportunities? Woh. Standards of Pakistani women when it's to come to marriage
She wanted to marry him because he lived in the UK (rich), he wanted to marry her because she lived in Pakistan (submissive).
She shouldn't get mad because she used him too.
100% agree on the nepotism case.
That is why I advise parents living abroad with their kids who "want" their kids to be connected to their roots, to go back to Pakistan when there is still time and ur kids r still younger. U can't blame the kids for these blunders.
I am surprised instead of saying its sin n bad to get physical with someone you are saying Pakistani man has territorial issue. ?? Ye message bhi de diya kero it's sin its harambee don't do this .
Junaid has given a very good answer to the first question. Straightforward and simple. Either live with a person’s past and if not comfortable then leave
I mean, at this point, Its the only option. Isnt it?
The guy got scammed by the girl plain and simple.
" Either live with a person’s past and if not comfortable then leave"
^This is only valid if you mention it before the marriage
Before completing the deal in this case marriage both parties should be pretty clear…. I believe this is the case of not being honest in building the foundation of trust and relationship.
No way can that girl be defended! Why should the guy stay with a girl with a history like that!
@@ryancooper1144 what do you expect from him to say?
Junaid, Your effort is great to bring these topics and discuss them in a humane way.However in addition to whatever you said about the lady who does not like to be intimate, you also need to bring in the possibility that probably she is Simply asexual. Asexuality is observed with a lot of people, and it's not really uncommon . In that case, as sad as it might sound, either the guy has to agree to a platonic relationship, which I understand is physically not possible for Him, or they should get separated amicably. I understand that all these options are very difficult to implement in practicality, especially in a socially conservative country like Pakistan, but asexuality is definitely something that. Cannot be "cured" because it is not a disease. In that case. the only option is to bow out.
Pepsi ka dakhkan mai nay kyun nahi khola 1st question
I should be opener not settling one down
Very bold 1st question. For people who think Pakistan is an Islamic society you are wrong. So many girls nowadays in Pakistan have boyfriends etc and do sex before marriage, it is just that it is not discussed openly in our society and is brushed under the carpet. So maulvis can claim we are the best society in the world.
3rd Question, UK has a lot of uneducated Pakistani mainly of Mirpuri origin. They are the worst they are involved in drugs, benefit scams and you name it. I am not surprised at the question. You should be lucky you got out of the relationship with your in-laws
No it's not true few cities don't represent whole Pakistan
Wrong. Most girl and boys can become friends but still avoid physical activity. A promiscuous man or woman is not only rejected as spouse in Pakistan/India but also in western societies.
The girl in the first question is not promiscuous. She had a boyfriend in her high school which is quite normal. Please stop using such words.
@@sarahjordan348 Hey, I didnt label her as promiscious. I said generally speaking. But she broke the trust when she didn't come clean before marriage. She admitted to one instance, who knows, what more she is hiding.
Where is question number 2 😂
Afraid of intimacy: if it is painful.. its most probably psychological issue called vaginismus or just could be genophobia.. its not necessarily mean you had a trauma in the past even. These are medical conditions
Ganji Bhai ki jinsi kahaniyaan ❤
Question 1 if the girl is reading this it's not your fault and there is no room for fixing the relationship if he already know and you should definitely leave this guy if he came to know about your past he would always torture you and life won't be better it'll be miserable but i hope you don't have kids in between.
Aap kitne hard working hain. Allah aap ko or aap k is jazbe ko salamat rakhe. Aameen
He is simp!
@@kodvavi150 chad
@@kodvavi150 well he also answers other emails rather than those so called "simp" ones....
Junaid bhai how can a girl be sure of future when her past is not clean. Its extremely likely she will cheat him on in future.
Agree with you
Past to mardon ka bhi hota hai lekin society judge sirf aurton ko hi karti hai. Yeah hamare society ki hypocrisy hai.😂
Ksi se pyaar karna koi gunnah nahi hota agar wo ullu patha kanjar us pr cheat krde or larki se shadi na karay to usme us bechari ka kia kusoor hai
Lasko ka past nahi hota? Kitne ladko ko jaante ho jinhone kabhi zinah nahi kiya?
@@pistrinaftsi liye Islam main ye sab haram ha(pyar karna gunnah ni hota) 😂
aap pakistani men ki baat kr rhe hain pehle question me, ap se bardasht hoskta hai yeh aap asaani se maaf kr skty apne spouse ko? its just a question
If you found a woman who had past relationships just leave her out of misery and move on and don't forget there are plenty of fishes in the Sea.
I'm a big fan of you Junaid bhai but your double standards for men and women are getting out of hands.
For First question: The girl knew the guy was a Christian and that relationship would never end in a halal one. Knowing this she still choose to be physical with him and all. This is not a GHALTI. She made a choice.
This is what happens when you get involved in pre-marital sex. That premarital sex destroyed her marriage and she will probably be divorced (not being negative here, just my observation of the situation) and end up doing sex with that same guy or some other dude or dudes later on.
May Allah guide our young generation.
I agree bro
Your new subscriber bro❤
How to text Junaid bhai? Can anyone please tell me?
Wife intimacy se darti hai to couple counseling ki zaroorat hai. Fear kyon develop hua hai is ko solve karna zaroori hai.
Kehna sab k liy asan hota wahan hona or bardasht kro to pata chaly
@@Miki5k.7 In dono ki shadi hui hai to khauf ke sath zindagi nahi guzar sakti. Isko ya to counseling ke zariah solve karna chayeah. Disfunctional marriage nahi chal sakti hai.
@@Miki5k.7 u trying to say u people dont need it or dont wanna have it
@@alihaiderkhan759 May be he is like serve or get lost. Are me wife will never feel anything if you don't value her as human not just sex object.
just flip the gender in first question ✌✌✌✌
Divorce her if she don't like intimacy
That's it
And for first question
Why is she even married to her
When she knows she had affairs before
She must not married him in the first place
That is hypocrisy
And the best solution is that he must divorce her
Yu know why
A men can never ever afford this at all
For sure
It will haunt him everytime
Once he gets knowed
Sad situation maaan
The first question. How about blaming your husband. You could have been honest with him
8:58 wah cheetay kia intellectual response dia hai "nahi nahi yeh woh"
You're the kind of guy who would give free promotions to a lady working in your office and would tell the hardest worker in the room to work harder if he's a man.
And
Make it a norm where girls would feel that if they did a mistake and tell you, you'll not be very plushy with them and they'll get an honest response.
i dont agree with your response to the first question. not every person in its 30s has a dirty past. A person with clean past definitely expects the same from its partner. You should tell a person about your past and if he/she is ok with it, then proceed with the marriage. So "nahi batana chaheye" is the utter bullshit. That lady was emotionally involved twice in her life before marriage. How would one feel if he comes to know that people know about his wife's past relationships. Secondly, in this case forgiveness takes time this matter wont be solved in one time discussion. "YES" or "NO" wont work here. what you are advising her is something we call "burning the bridge".
I totally agree with you. Ek to insaan chezain clear kare shaadi say pehla or apna past itna clean rakhe k in case koi pochey to aap confidently bata sako yes i have a clean past.
@@decentboy94 leken idhr clear krne ni denge na apko. 2-3 sawal larke wale krden to jawab ata "ap serious ni hain" xD.
@@smartize yr yeh chexain male female ko khud clear krni cheya yr. Agar aapka past clean ha aap bh aese banda bandi dsrv krte ho nd why not.
@@decentboy94 agree. but should you trust a person is a matter of question. yahan log jhoot bolte hain mashray ke pressure, apne ap ko naik dikhane ke liye ya wese he.
@@smartize han yr jo bh ha i like ur mindset. Is society me hamaraey jese mindsets waley bht rare hein. Jese junaid bhai ko dekhlo ajeeb he cover up kia ha is larki k case ko ajeeb.
Great v
Bhai … This is a private matter. Please consult with a doctor.
For first question, wife hide her dirty past, husband found out through others and this has created massive trust issues which will never be resolved. Wife has a bad past. Let her go.
Husband ka bhe past hoga. The only difference is that wife didn't find out about that.
@@mohammadazeemyaseen6586 what about those who never had a past?
@@Ahmed-ye8yj So you are saying men are more pious?
@@mohammadazeemyaseen6586 Not more but not all are indulged in haram relations
@@Ahmed-ye8yj But majority are.
19:09 , She missed the word old Indian dramas 😂
3rd story is the exact replica of every indian household
Now the girl regret... why she make relation before marriage and lose her verganty.. I support the guy to give her a present of divorce... and no body can marriage this kind of red falg bull shit girl...
Verganty 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
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Indeed but same must be done to men in this case
Mujhy dar lgta haii..Junaid bhai kahin Hakeem ka course ya Zafraan ka tail iss show py baijna na shroo na kar dain..
So true 😂
😂😂😂
same
Propagating un islamic things in Ramzan. Are you sure you are in senses?
What's Un-Islamic?
😂😂😂
@@kodvavi150 committing Zina
Ganji swag is a simp and male feminist and we can't expect Zina, if the male had done the same thing his view would have been different and he would be called a cheater etc, Zina is Zina. If a women gets intimate then the chances of a successful marriage goes from 80 % to 20 % percent I don't understand why Junaid akram is not being interested for promoting Zina
His thumbs up😁🤗
2nd case mein Couple intimacy ko SEXUAL ASSULT wagera se kyun relate kar rahay????????
Explain someone
Kyunke esa hota hai! Jab itna extreme case ho Keh 6months se yehi horaha tou larkian ishi waja se mentally accept nhi karpatin is sab ko
@@waniyakhan5804 nhi lekin ab to yeh ek legal relationship hai na woh bhi pasnd ka
@@hr4991 han lekin larkian bht sensitive Hoti Hain wo abuse ko bhula nhi patin or abuse ke elawa bhi unke fears hotey Hain , main kyunke khud ek larki Hun or mujhe phobia hai shadi ka ishi waja se isliye hi Keh rahii!
@@waniyakhan5804 mail mein to aisa kuch nhi hai
@@hr4991 male or female alag hain na tabhiii! Larkon ko pain nhi hota larkion ko hota hai naaa
Junaid bhai you quite unfair towards your fellow men .
In the third question the family is in the completely wrong of the guy. Islam has given the women right to have different home. The guy isn't a jahanami but anything else he will be rewarded because he giving her wife the rights Islam gave while the family of the guy will be questioned by Almighty Allah on the day of judgement. And if the lady who wrote the email is reading ma'am you've found a complete gem be sure to take care of him because their are hardly any guys who would stand up for his wife (i am talking about Pakistan society?)
Lots of prayers for you May Allah bless you with a happy marriage Ameen.
yahi kam agar kisi male ne kiya hota to ap usko 10 bateen suna chuke hote, stop this hypocrisy, Adultery male kare ye female dono conditions me Adultery buri chez he.
everything must be made clear before marriages. the woman must have told her husband that she is not virgin ... is he ok with this fact or not .. these type of controversaries can only be avoided this way
yar junaid bhai meri email ka jawaab kb dene ka irada hi.
6:00 she cheated while they were engaged