Junaid I would like to request you to do a podcast with your parents. They have definitely done something right in their life that you have turned out to be the way you are. I would love to learn from them.
I agree. Utilmately, we are more accountable and responsible for our own children first before we are for our neighbours or our countrymen. Pakistan is a sinking ship anyway, and they don't deserve to have a person like Junaid spend so much energy for them.
To the girl who supports her parents: I have been at your place. My father passed away and I supported my family. With my experience, I would suggest just say: Mein paisay dena band kerdoun gi, ager ghar nahi rkhna to hostel chli jaon gi. Then see the behavior changing. Also, I had a friend who was a school teacher her father was violent and would beat her and her mother. Her mother would support her father too. She started earning only 12 thousand rupee per month and her father never raised his hand on her. Her mother still used to raise her hand on her, then she said mein paisay la ker in hatho pay rkhti hun ayinda na uthana mujhpay and from that day her mother didn't even ask her to cut vegetables. Mein ye nhi kerhi k batamizi kero but yar hum jesi larkiyan sb ko buri lgti hain, even humary maa baap ko bhi, wo bas paisy ki waja say chup huty hain. Uski importance bta dain.
Assalam o Alaikum, Junaid bhai kindly create a video on how you manage your expenses for travel. And how can a middle-class person/family manage their expenses for travel?
Junaid. I am writing to you & advising you as a sister. Don't leave your family on their own anymore. You need to take a decision of either staying in Pakistan or in London. Leaving Mrs alone in the UK is really not a good idea. However brave & strong she is; She would need you now. As you said just now, you sit alone & do your podcasts alone; You can do it from anywhere; Can't you 🤔? So be strong & wind up & stay with your family. Junaid, We've been there; done that & regretted that😢
45:06 - Conflict of Interest with Partner (Regarding Moving Abroad) I will suggest you to take her out to the another country like Dubai , Singapore or Malaysia where you can show her how first world country work there peace ,cleaning , environment , lifestyle if you and your children will be born their how good for them it for their future like that i m sure it change her mind
Nobody tell us how parents destroy and ruined the life of children in many ways! Be it being greedy or being so toxic. Everyone sells the manjan of PARENTS ARE GOD but nobody tells another side of coin. Every drama every movie portrays PARENTS AS GOD AND CHILD AS DEVIL. But how could one believe when he/she facing humiliation toxicity hate at their home from parents just bcz they say NO to something which could destroy their life/career/emotions/health and more importantly their happiness. This is very common in my circle how badly parents are treating their child specially GIRLS.
Brother, the answer is simple. Since we live in a patriarchal society, our egos can't accept the fact that there is someone who's idea is better than you. Be it your child. This needs to stop. We have to accept the fact that no matter how great our intellect is all matters of life there is someone whose idea will be better than ours. 😊
Yes this is so true. you explained it well. I often think about this too. I spent my whole life under the illusion that parents are always right and GODS but now I know how false that is.
I m big fan of u Junaid ji being Indian aap jo bhi aapne facts ek normal pakistan k rehne walo ki boltey oo woh hum sab bhi bahut related kar pa teh hai...❤☮️
To the Girl who is giving 300k in her home. leave the house, go to hostel. dont give them 1 rupee. let them sleep without food. Mother ko kahain apni oqat ma rahay.
Mujhy ye episode pictures editing kartay karty dekhna tha, but in the end all i do is just edit 10-20 pictures out of 248........mera dhayan divert hi nai howa is episode se🥰😍 love you @askgangiswag☺
I watched Click last night and what you said about not wanting to stay away from your family is exactly what the movie is about. What an amazing film! I'm sure you've watched it already :)
Carbon credits have been there for many years now. Traded on special trading platform, they allow companies to effectively manage their carbon emissions. Almost all companies in the west and also many in Asia publish data regarding their carbon emissions and cutbacks in Annual Reports. I knew a guy who used to deal in Carbon credits. The concept hasn’t found much traction in South Asia. In India, they do have a trading platform for carbon credits and policies set in place. Not sure about other developing Asian economies.
Carbon credits is fairly old but not picked up the traction so far. . For details of carbon credit please read about Kyoto protocol. . Thanks and regards.
Hello Junaid bhai, I trust you're in good health. Regarding the initial story about raising a child in today's society, I've encountered similar situations. I've been living in Islamabad for an extensive period and have had minimal interactions with children. Each child has their individual narrative and lifestyle, and they are selective about who they allow into their lives. This tendency was apparent from my childhood experiences. In Islamabad, people have their established mindsets and social circles, similar to the Russian Kid you mentioned. No one at that time provided guidance or managed that situation. I continue to face this predicament in Islamabad, and it's a consistent pattern everywhere. I've endured significant hardships over the years and still feel isolated. Irrespective of your efforts, people maintain their exclusive circles and only admit those they prefer. As I've grown into an adult, I've observed that these individuals remain unchanged. They only befriend you for personal gain, discarding you once their purposes are fulfilled. The people here are unsociable and tend to isolate themselves within their own circles.
Today i will get my first pay and i am thinking about not telling my family what i am earning. you need anything i have got you covered but do not ask about how much i earn.
#ganjiswag : to a girl working from remote area and parents are being toxic, you gave brilliant idea of keeping money in separate account and show less in her main account but give reason as because parents re traumatising her that's why her work and clients are being affected and if they still want her to earn efficiently then they have to let her spend life according to herself. Giving reasons about AI and work being saturated wouldn't be as effective I think
The toxic family question, where the family was financially exploiting the daughter, with an additional dose of emotional blackmail adding insult to injury, ought to be a widely common issue in Pakistan. Because I have heard about it and even seen it firsthand so many times 😒
How can anyone marry their cousin? Koi toh boundary honj chahiye purity of relationships ki…yahan log apni hi behno se shadi karte rehte hain, 🤮This is so absurd
Junaid bhai, you have bought a good mic but please do the recording indoors. We were listening more wind sounds and less yours. Aisa lag raha tha k bike chalatay huwe recording ki haï ap ne 😅
This carbon credits thing is quite funny, imagine if applied in pakistan the rickshaw and w11 guys have to buy carbon credit to keep their 90s engine running
21:25 What you are saying is biologically wrong. According to Neuroscience, children can learn languages faster till 13 years. The area of the brain responsible for creativity develops after the area resposibke for emotions. So you are simply wrong.
45:00 Not sure of what's desi fascination with Canada. Canada is a sh*thole, especially if you are highly educated person in tech. I am surprised why you people want to move to Canada when there is an innovative powerhouse US open for you. I studied and worked in US for years, moved to India, didn't adjust well and thus came to Canada. Since I am born in India, I cannot get US green card for decades, but Pakistanis can easily get it. An experienced software engineer in Toronto gets 130,000 CAD on average and a small townhouse costs 1.5 million CAD or more. Whereas a software engineer in Dallas, Texas gets 150K to 200K USD on average and a huge house costs less than 700,000 USD and Dallas is much warmer. If you are not a software engineer, many biotech/aerospace engineers with master's and PhD drive Uber in Canada as there are no jobs for them. Whereas they get good jobs in US, as soon as they get Canadian citizenship and can get TN visa. It takes years to find a family doctor in Canada, and if you need to get X-ray done, it can take weeks and months. Whereas if you have a good job in US, health insurance is provided by employer. Its very easy to find quality healthcare in US.
Please be professional, ganjiswag child playing , wind sound countiniusly making vedio unbearable. Take it as constructive criticism since your video are helpful to alot of people.
Well the last email man is a big hypocrite, he says his parents live in their village “cuz that’s what they like” but what if his parents liked to live in the city , wouldn’t they live with the son? Would they be present in the same house 24/7?? Would he send this mail if the problem was his parents?? Pakistani men’s hypocrisy is inexplicable
Ap pr Reaction video isliye banti hai kyu k ap k views ghalat hute hai islamic topic pr apki knowledge kam hai or apni islah krne ma koi burayi nhi hai agr koi sahi bt bta rha hai tu smjh leni chahiye…
Ganjiswag I’m a regular follower of you since 2017/2018 but I find it very strange that you haven’t said anything on Imran khan’s arrest. You had podcasts with him when he was reigning now nothing. Very strange
Can you bet on what you said about Pakistan? You mean we will go down more in coming 10 years. Are you sure about that? I am sure you are wrong on this.
For the 2nd question, I agree the parents were wrong but you saying helping your parents is like “paiso ko aag lagana” is borderline disgusting Junaid bhai. You don’t give money to your parents expecting a return on investment. They bloody raised you and never asked anything in return back when you were a child. Thats pathetic mentality and horrible advice.
Do anyone can Guide me how can i ask question from Junaid Bhai should i subcribe his Facebook page membership or Patreon Because I have to ask question from Junaid bhai? if anyone can Guide me or Junaid bhai if you see this comment Thank you
As a person living in Pakistan and growing alhamdulillah, I severely disagree with this stupid approach k baahir jaayen toh hi standard of living improve hoga. You can easily develop a standard of living in Pakistan. Yes, difficult, but come on, not impossible. Its an insult to us when people say yahan possible hi nai hai achi living and all. Bhai, make it happen, dont cry about it.
Dude, what he said is "his opinion" you don't have to agree with it, or take it as a fact, it's a subjective opinion. If you can make a good standard of living in Pakistan, all the power to you, but not eveyone is in the same situatio.
Conflict of Interest with Partner (Regarding Moving Abroad) : We never know where we will end up. Whats the guarantee, that the next person she meets wont want to go over seas, 95% of men in Pakistan would want to move overseas. I am a male and when I got engaged I was in US, Neither my (to be) wife nor my in laws had any big interest in US or being in US. Nor against it. My wife is also very close to her family so I can understand. Turns out, After marriage I was in Pakistan for some years and now I am in Australia, ... 🤷♂I myself never thought that I would ever come here. So, explain it to your fiance, you end up with someone else who is also " gher ki billi" type and works in a big Pakistani national company and he promises never to leave, then he gets an opportunity from this Pakistani MNC now to head their overseas branch and you end up outside after one kid.... what is she going to do now, She is going to stay back with her relatives or her "family". Wouldn't she think, that she ends up overseas with someone she actually liked or someone now she is end up with. This is a big decision for both of you. If her closeness to her family and relatives is near to toxic, that could become an issue as well for that she needs to mature. Again, you do not marry one person you marry into a family too. ( for both the girl and the boy)
Junaid I would like to request you to do a podcast with your parents.
They have definitely done something right in their life that you have turned out to be the way you are. I would love to learn from them.
Agree 💯
Haan jii Black keah kamayii keah leaye Pakistan mai baheta hai. Itna acha hai toah England mai job kare aur tax deah waha per.
Sir I think apko UK move karne ka sochna chahiye. You have done enough for this country. Now your son needs you
Janab Pakistan mai bagair tax pay keaye uc koah paisa mill raha hai aur chutiya hii hu gaah joah England jaah ker rahee gaah.
I agree. Utilmately, we are more accountable and responsible for our own children first before we are for our neighbours or our countrymen.
Pakistan is a sinking ship anyway, and they don't deserve to have a person like Junaid spend so much energy for them.
To the girl who supports her parents: I have been at your place. My father passed away and I supported my family. With my experience, I would suggest just say: Mein paisay dena band kerdoun gi, ager ghar nahi rkhna to hostel chli jaon gi. Then see the behavior changing. Also, I had a friend who was a school teacher her father was violent and would beat her and her mother. Her mother would support her father too. She started earning only 12 thousand rupee per month and her father never raised his hand on her. Her mother still used to raise her hand on her, then she said mein paisay la ker in hatho pay rkhti hun ayinda na uthana mujhpay and from that day her mother didn't even ask her to cut vegetables. Mein ye nhi kerhi k batamizi kero but yar hum jesi larkiyan sb ko buri lgti hain, even humary maa baap ko bhi, wo bas paisy ki waja say chup huty hain. Uski importance bta dain.
Theses type of mothers deserve slap on their face by their children.
i was Literally exploring podcasts to play, as i always play your podcasts while working!!
Assalam o Alaikum,
Junaid bhai kindly create a video on how you manage your expenses for travel. And how can a middle-class person/family manage their expenses for travel?
Junaid. I am writing to you & advising you as a sister. Don't leave your family on their own anymore. You need to take a decision of either staying in Pakistan or in London. Leaving Mrs alone in the UK is really not a good idea.
However brave & strong she is; She would need you now.
As you said just now, you sit alone & do your podcasts alone; You can do it from anywhere; Can't you 🤔? So be strong & wind up & stay with your family.
Junaid, We've been there; done that & regretted that😢
"Building emotional and financial boundaries with parents" I would suggest the girl to ask your father to support you as you wrote that he's kind
Saabun analogy was hilarious 😂
Thank you for sharing such valuable knowledge with us.
Junaid bhai is best Allahumma Barik!
45:06 - Conflict of Interest with Partner (Regarding Moving Abroad) I will suggest you to take her out to the another country like Dubai , Singapore or Malaysia where you can show her how first world country work there peace ,cleaning , environment , lifestyle if you and your children will be born their how good for them it for their future like that i m sure it change her mind
Nobody tell us how parents destroy and ruined the life of children in many ways! Be it being greedy or being so toxic. Everyone sells the manjan of PARENTS ARE GOD but nobody tells another side of coin. Every drama every movie portrays PARENTS AS GOD AND CHILD AS DEVIL. But how could one believe when he/she facing humiliation toxicity hate at their home from parents just bcz they say NO to something which could destroy their life/career/emotions/health and more importantly their happiness.
This is very common in my circle how badly parents are treating their child specially GIRLS.
Brother, the answer is simple. Since we live in a patriarchal society, our egos can't accept the fact that there is someone who's idea is better than you. Be it your child. This needs to stop. We have to accept the fact that no matter how great our intellect is all matters of life there is someone whose idea will be better than ours. 😊
Yes this is so true. you explained it well. I often think about this too. I spent my whole life under the illusion that parents are always right and GODS but now I know how false that is.
I m big fan of u Junaid ji being Indian aap jo bhi aapne facts ek normal pakistan k rehne walo ki boltey oo woh hum sab bhi bahut related kar pa teh hai...❤☮️
To the Girl who is giving 300k in her home. leave the house, go to hostel. dont give them 1 rupee. let them sleep without food. Mother ko kahain apni oqat ma rahay.
The sound is really horrible because of the wind
Agreed
The sound’s bad, yes it makes me sad 😢
Adobe audio software can remove the noise with just one click....
I started laughing in the last question the moment "chachu ki beti " phrase came out of Junaid's mouth
Really wish you were well enough to attend The Weeknd's concert. It's one quite hell of an experience
51:28 😂😂😂😂 this podcast is on another level. Loving the humour
Bhai I am from India.. your podcast is seriously very addictive.. literally you have solved many of my problems by solving others.. admi badia ho aap
Vlog*
41:48 talking about those burger Talibans from Islamabad 😂😂😂
Ganjiswag is still so triggered by Youth Club boys 😂😂
Never fails to mention their reaction video in every video.
Mujhy ye episode pictures editing kartay karty dekhna tha, but in the end all i do is just edit 10-20 pictures out of 248........mera dhayan divert hi nai howa is episode se🥰😍 love you @askgangiswag☺
I watched Click last night and what you said about not wanting to stay away from your family is exactly what the movie is about. What an amazing film! I'm sure you've watched it already :)
Carbon credits have been there for many years now. Traded on special trading platform, they allow companies to effectively manage their carbon emissions. Almost all companies in the west and also many in Asia publish data regarding their carbon emissions and cutbacks in Annual Reports. I knew a guy who used to deal in Carbon credits. The concept hasn’t found much traction in South Asia. In India, they do have a trading platform for carbon credits and policies set in place. Not sure about other developing Asian economies.
Great episode, but I believe there's a typo in the first question; writing instead of righting.
Carbon credits is fairly old but not picked up the traction so far. . For details of carbon credit please read about Kyoto protocol. .
Thanks and regards.
Junaiiiiiiiiid love you man
Hello Junaid bhai, I trust you're in good health. Regarding the initial story about raising a child in today's society, I've encountered similar situations. I've been living in Islamabad for an extensive period and have had minimal interactions with children. Each child has their individual narrative and lifestyle, and they are selective about who they allow into their lives. This tendency was apparent from my childhood experiences. In Islamabad, people have their established mindsets and social circles, similar to the Russian Kid you mentioned. No one at that time provided guidance or managed that situation. I continue to face this predicament in Islamabad, and it's a consistent pattern everywhere. I've endured significant hardships over the years and still feel isolated. Irrespective of your efforts, people maintain their exclusive circles and only admit those they prefer.
As I've grown into an adult, I've observed that these individuals remain unchanged. They only befriend you for personal gain, discarding you once their purposes are fulfilled. The people here are unsociable and tend to isolate themselves within their own circles.
Very detailed analysis brother. Good keep it up
Windy hay toh adobe podcast jakay noise remove karsaktay!!
Today i will get my first pay and i am thinking about not telling my family what i am earning. you need anything i have got you covered but do not ask about how much i earn.
#ganjiswag : to a girl working from remote area and parents are being toxic, you gave brilliant idea of keeping money in separate account and show less in her main account but give reason as because parents re traumatising her that's why her work and clients are being affected and if they still want her to earn efficiently then they have to let her spend life according to herself. Giving reasons about AI and work being saturated wouldn't be as effective I think
The toxic family question, where the family was financially exploiting the daughter, with an additional dose of emotional blackmail adding insult to injury, ought to be a widely common issue in Pakistan. Because I have heard about it and even seen it firsthand so many times 😒
Junaid. Ive been trying to reach you for over a year to discuss a robotics and manufacturing podcast. How can i contact you?
Why is this not posted on google podcast
Pls post this on google podcasts
Hi Junaid, could barely hear anything in this podcast, I think indoors with a better mic would’ve been better, thanks
BEAUTIFUL NATURAL BACKGROUND
Axel Rose is done singing. He doesn't have that energy. Slash is good. You should've attended Taylor Swift's Eras Tour in Switzerland 🇨🇭
It's "writing" not "righting" in the description time stamps... Editorial oversight...
The wind is ruining the video. Please record inside if you're in the UK.
How can anyone marry their cousin? Koi toh boundary honj chahiye purity of relationships ki…yahan log apni hi behno se shadi karte rehte hain, 🤮This is so absurd
kidhar apni behno say? west mein?
Pakistan mein@@taym2720
jab main chota tha na to mjy na lagta tha ky main film mein hun, wo jim carrey wali thi na tru maan show, mjy wo lagta hota tha !
Junaid Bhai kindly record Indoor next time. Bcz of the wind, your voice was not clear...
Junaid bhai, you have bought a good mic but please do the recording indoors. We were listening more wind sounds and less yours. Aisa lag raha tha k bike chalatay huwe recording ki haï ap ne 😅
Bhai Kia audio hai Ap se expect nai Kia Tha. Edit Mai hi dekh k upload nai krte ya voice over kr lete
Bro audio toh theek kro. Wind sound is horrible.
You need a lavalier microphone at the very least for recording podcasts outdoors.
Background noise a raha hai..
This carbon credits thing is quite funny, imagine if applied in pakistan the rickshaw and w11 guys have to buy carbon credit to keep their 90s engine running
36:28 Same thing happening with me as well idk what to do
It was difficult to understand many things in today's episode because of wind Junaid bhai.. lot of distortion
50:34 beautifully said 😝
Is episode ki voice boht bad thi, but the content was so great.
Please improve sound quality
21:25 What you are saying is biologically wrong. According to Neuroscience, children can learn languages faster till 13 years. The area of the brain responsible for creativity develops after the area resposibke for emotions. So you are simply wrong.
Bhai poora sun hi nahi paya. I listen to this while driving or jogging so video matter nahi karta, but audio ki wajah se continue hi nahi kar paya.
Junaid bhai iphone konsa hy? bht fir video aa rahi hy
JUNAID BHAI ZINDABAD
Background noise literally F*ked up the Video....
Immediate Fire your Editor. How can He miss that?
When recorded video is fucked up. What can video do?
Again he is a video editor not a sound engineer.
@@jaw0dadobe audio software can remove the air rumbling sound
Can you share thesis pdf?
Next Time mic issue ko Dhyaan rakhna. Wind ki wajah se video Acha nahi bana hai
Nice hawa🙂
45:00 Not sure of what's desi fascination with Canada. Canada is a sh*thole, especially if you are highly educated person in tech. I am surprised why you people want to move to Canada when there is an innovative powerhouse US open for you. I studied and worked in US for years, moved to India, didn't adjust well and thus came to Canada. Since I am born in India, I cannot get US green card for decades, but Pakistanis can easily get it.
An experienced software engineer in Toronto gets 130,000 CAD on average and a small townhouse costs 1.5 million CAD or more. Whereas a software engineer in Dallas, Texas gets 150K to 200K USD on average and a huge house costs less than 700,000 USD and Dallas is much warmer. If you are not a software engineer, many biotech/aerospace engineers with master's and PhD drive Uber in Canada as there are no jobs for them. Whereas they get good jobs in US, as soon as they get Canadian citizenship and can get TN visa.
It takes years to find a family doctor in Canada, and if you need to get X-ray done, it can take weeks and months. Whereas if you have a good job in US, health insurance is provided by employer. Its very easy to find quality healthcare in US.
Exactly 💯
Some one rise the same question in riyadh carbon credit.
sahi logic
Junaid don't give them ideas about Carbon Credit because they will find a way to do corruption in it as well 😂
39:05 Ophh man does this happend to you as well so accurate
Same
Koi bata sakta haa.
Agar koi question ho kis e-mail pr send karyy....?
ALLAH Apko khush Rakhe Junaid Bhai❤️
allah not existed
YES ME MIDDLE CLASS SHOUQ ULAAD K ZARAYA HE PORAY KAR RAHA HOON
Carbon credits are not that lol. It's a failed concept that lead to the failure of the Kyoto Protocol.
Andar taala laga tha jo bahar marke video banai hawa m ??
i watch every episode
56:37 facts
You create so much anxiety for people, keep to our culture 😊
The wind sound ruined the experience please dont sit outside
Voice quality not good
Aj enjoy nai ker sakhey
Sound 😕😊
Please be professional, ganjiswag child playing , wind sound countiniusly making vedio unbearable.
Take it as constructive criticism since your video are helpful to alot of people.
Bro just leave weeknd concert like that 😢
Sir ap vision ki baat kar rahy Pakistan ka vision hai SHADI KRO BACHAY PAIDA KRO!! EDUCATION, CARRIER PERSONAL INTEREST GYA BHARR MEIN!!!
sound issue
LifeBoy and Dove part
Boss hawa ka shor bohat a raha.
Well the last email man is a big hypocrite, he says his parents live in their village “cuz that’s what they like” but what if his parents liked to live in the city , wouldn’t they live with the son? Would they be present in the same house 24/7?? Would he send this mail if the problem was his parents?? Pakistani men’s hypocrisy is inexplicable
Ap pr Reaction video isliye banti hai kyu k ap k views ghalat hute hai islamic topic pr apki knowledge kam hai or apni islah krne ma koi burayi nhi hai agr koi sahi bt bta rha hai tu smjh leni chahiye…
Ganjiswag I’m a regular follower of you since 2017/2018 but I find it very strange that you haven’t said anything on Imran khan’s arrest. You had podcasts with him when he was reigning now nothing. Very strange
Useless to talk about Imran Khan who also have no vision
is being introvert is a bad thing
No mai bhi hun yr.
... your sound 🔊 is miserable, upgrade your technology...
*41:44** 😂*
Can you bet on what you said about Pakistan? You mean we will go down more in coming 10 years. Are you sure about that? I am sure you are wrong on this.
Milk & honey ki nehrain hoon gi I’m sure! 😊
Can anybody SUggest some good fan page of him where i get small small clip his podcast and AMG EP clips to make whatsup status daily❤
For the 2nd question, I agree the parents were wrong but you saying helping your parents is like “paiso ko aag lagana” is borderline disgusting Junaid bhai.
You don’t give money to your parents expecting a return on investment. They bloody raised you and never asked anything in return back when you were a child. Thats pathetic mentality and horrible advice.
@1:03:33 Meri to jaan nikaal di, headphones 🎧 lge the
🤣🤣🤣usssss bro😭
Oh ohhh
Do anyone can Guide me how can i ask question from Junaid Bhai should i subcribe his Facebook page membership or Patreon Because I have to ask question from Junaid bhai? if anyone can Guide me or Junaid bhai if you see this comment Thank you
Bhai AP email ke zariye question karsakte hein
I tried but did n't find any email. i think first i have to buy subscription then i can ask questions
@@ziyaadhussaini9935
Inder beth ke bol
First
Bhai q dill jalata hai UK mai bahet ker video bana ker. Hum gareebo kaah kia kasoor hai agur hum waha nahi jaah sakte toah.
Idr a k logo ny kia ukar lia hy?
@@keepsmiling9882 Bhai itna tung hu toah wapis q nahi aah jatee icc bahtreen country mai.
@@Testtest-ww5ew dor k dhol suhany
As a person living in Pakistan and growing alhamdulillah, I severely disagree with this stupid approach k baahir jaayen toh hi standard of living improve hoga. You can easily develop a standard of living in Pakistan. Yes, difficult, but come on, not impossible. Its an insult to us when people say yahan possible hi nai hai achi living and all. Bhai, make it happen, dont cry about it.
Dude, what he said is "his opinion" you don't have to agree with it, or take it as a fact, it's a subjective opinion. If you can make a good standard of living in Pakistan, all the power to you, but not eveyone is in the same situatio.
Agreed@@shehryartariq007
Conflict of Interest with Partner (Regarding Moving Abroad) : We never know where we will end up. Whats the guarantee, that the next person she meets wont want to go over seas, 95% of men in Pakistan would want to move overseas.
I am a male and when I got engaged I was in US, Neither my (to be) wife nor my in laws had any big interest in US or being in US. Nor against it. My wife is also very close to her family so I can understand. Turns out, After marriage I was in Pakistan for some years and now I am in Australia, ... 🤷♂I myself never thought that I would ever come here.
So, explain it to your fiance, you end up with someone else who is also " gher ki billi" type and works in a big Pakistani national company and he promises never to leave, then he gets an opportunity from this Pakistani MNC now to head their overseas branch and you end up outside after one kid.... what is she going to do now, She is going to stay back with her relatives or her "family". Wouldn't she think, that she ends up overseas with someone she actually liked or someone now she is end up with.
This is a big decision for both of you. If her closeness to her family and relatives is near to toxic, that could become an issue as well for that she needs to mature. Again, you do not marry one person you marry into a family too. ( for both the girl and the boy)
why can't you just sit inside & record