VLOG: dealing with holiday blues, building a fort, starting new traditions
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- čas přidán 17. 12. 2022
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Around the holidays people always talk about all the fun with Christmas and celebrating together. I grew up with friends who had families who did this and I have struggled as an adult with holiday blues because my experience was very lonely growing up during this time because my parents are southeast Asian immigrants and they don't celebrate. It felt so isolating to see all my friends talking about their families and exchanging gifts and having a good time. I'm trying to do better as an adult and make myself find ways to celebrate but it is still hard because of memories from childhood. ❤
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I can relate so much 💗 I grew up with just my dad, and even though we tried to follow the western 'celebrations', I was always reminded more during xmas that it was only us two, with our family in China far away, and seeing everyone else with their whole family gathering made me so lonely. Now being grown up, I still feel the pressure to make the holiday 'perfect' for everyone and celebrate but to some degree it feels so forced and makes me more anxious than enjoying the actual holiday. Hope you can find your ways of celebrating 🎄 It gives me so much comfort seeing others share similar experiences and knowing I'm not the only one who struggles around this period
how you care for your pets is so sweet.
My friends and I make a blanket fort every year on New year's eve! We do dinner, drinks, and share what we accomplished the past year and what our goals are for the next year! In my many years of blanket fort making, a nice sturdy coat rack, string lights, cinder blocks and clips can really help.
Love how warm, cozy, and full of love your home is! Definitely missed the wahlie vlogs
Money’s lil diaper is the CUTEST oh my goodness🥺 her little walk onto the blanket in the fort too🥺🥺💗
she's the cutest little old lady ☺
I totally agree with your sister's approach. Holidays are what you make them :) For me, the end of the year isn't that different from the rest of the year but I just try to make everyday life a bit cozier and then appreciate the small, magical moments that inevitably do happen
You are spot on… the holidays can bring a sense of gloom, and seasonal depression is a real thing. For me I lost my mom around the holidays some years back but I find putting a Christmas tree up and the beautiful lights and creating a theme of decorations for your tree is always helpful.. I love sitting on the couch with the lights off and the tree lite makes the holidays seem beautiful.. sometimes it’s just the simple things ❤️ best wishes
Holidays growing up was depressing. The only reason I put up with it now is for my kids.
This video was so cozy and felt like a warm hug. Loved it so much 🥲🥹 thank you Weylie you lifted my spirits up❤
Adorable furry animals. My family misses our Westie so much so watching your Westie comforts us💕
Happy Holidays Weylie 💕 this was the perfect video as always, just presents the right vibes and aesthetics to enjoy while watching 😌 I loved the clip of all the doggos together! And I think it’s really great to try and change the mindset about the holidays. I normally feel heavy and anxious when Christmas and the new year comes, but I think changing the narrative can be so helpful. Something I’m going to be mindful with this time too. Also so nice to hear about how sesame is doing 🥺💕
I just love your vlogs so much they bring me so much joy ! I hate holiday time as well due to it being very triggering for me and you made a beautiful vlog that made me think maybe I do something similar with my dogs ❤❤❤ thank you much love to you all
13:54 Happy birthday, Sesame!😘
Yess!! You've described what I've been going through literally to a tee (even with the grandparents and our pets not doing well 😭) Usually I love the holidays, I get to see my family and catch up with friends but it's been hard to look forward to that when I've been going through so much 🥺
Loved this cozy Vlog and seeing all the babies. Seeing them always makes me so happy, I love all the different personalities they have.
I lost my dog on dec 22nd it was the saddest hardest thing to do. I hope and pray your healing and loving your fur babies extra. Sending you so much love through this hard time ❤️🖤❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m thinking of you as well
Absolutely loved watching this video! Wishing you guys all the best in the new year! ❤️❤️
Holidays used to be the best. Dad was in Armed Forces. The was always an airman at the table with use so he was with a family and not alone. I miss this and most especially my Parents should have enjoyed it more while I had it. I love you Mom an Dad ❤️
I love the holidays! My parents were Asian immigrants but my mom tried very hard to make sure we had an "American" Christmas. This included visiting Santa at the mall, setting up the tree and presents on Christmas morning followed by lunch with relatives. But my husband (also second gen) had a much less festive holiday experience. I always feel awful when we compare our childhoods, but at least we can celebrate holidays together now. :)
Really resonated with this video. I feel the same way as you.. about the holidays. But you've inspired me to re-invent it. Loved the cozy atmosphere you made with Wah and all the delicious snacks. I think I will do the same. Thanks for the inspiration ~💕❤️
We love you so much Michi 💗 so so much 💗
Didn't think fort building was so hard. It seems so easy peasy when we were kids.🤣 Thank god the chair didn't fell on Money
What kind of dog is white one?
I'm definitely feeling pressure and anxiety around the holidays. That would lead to my feeling down and depressed when I feel overwhelmed. Listening to Christmas music and watching Christmas movies tend to lift my spirit. And cookies, of course!
@Write me up @WeylieHoang HI Weylie!!! Is this really you?
Your Vlog makes me relaxed. It is just part of my life now. I like to walk around and take pictures. I have been into Korean dramas.
Your videos always put me in a good mood! 🥹💓
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! The fort omg, I would’ve just brought the tent in at that point haha 😅
Happy holidays to Weylie, Wah, and all your cute family members! Happy to see lots of Japanese food. I was surprised to see how you eat Furikake. Looks yum😊.
Always loved christmas, it's magic🎅🎄😍
I love the idea of new traditions. I think that's a great idea. Traditions are usually tied to our childhood, so it's beautiful to see you doing something different. Also, where did you get your comforter for under the fort? It's beautiful.
My parents never celebrated Christmas. My mom loves colors, holidays, and decorations but my dad grew up mostly homeless when he was young so he doesn't like to celebrate anything except Lunar New Year. So my entire life living with my parents, we never really did anything. Only at my cousins' home. However, school sparked a joy in me for the holidays. So as I got older and after I left my parents' house, I find ways to decorate, celebrate, and enjoy with others. Seeing theights and cute decorations help cheer me up for this generally depressing season. I usually get into funky moods every now and then starting in August or September until about March or April. I'm a girl who loves warmth and sunshine, so when it gets gloomy, dark, and cold; I have to find my own ways to make me and my husband's home feel warm. I grew up sort of poor. Right now, my husband and I are struggling financially because of unexpected home expenses. 😮💨
So I agree, definitely start whatever traditions you like and need that makes you feel happy. Even if it's for a short while. 😊❤️ So Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, or Happy Indoor Tent with String Lights Season!
Love you guys always,
Kat
Merry Christmas🎄
YAY! This is where I saw you that day!
I love the holidays! It’s such a magical time of year for me. It’s really the only time I get a week or so to just relax and have family time. Also, I love you! Please never stop being on CZcams, XO.♥️🤍
Romantic room setting. the quiet piano background are right choices
@WeylieHoang. Thank you Weylie, I had added your instagram.
Ah another vlog from weylie!!❤
Looking thru ur recent vlog and knowing michi wont be around anymore make me so sad. Give you and wah all the love. Stay strong. 💕
Happy holidays Weylie and Wah. Loved seeing the doggies 🐶 and Sesame ❤
Hi Weylie, I received an email that I was chosen as a winner for a prize. What do I need to do…
Growing up the only festive thing my family did was gather for the holiday , eat and open presents (even if they were just chocolates). We didn’t have much disposable income so it wasn’t easy to do as many things I saw in mainstream media or other friends did.
Now that I’m older I’ve “claimed” Christmas as my holiday of choice where I become festive with my partner. We started all our own holiday traditions how we would have wanted to grow up. We are very lucky to now have the money to do some of these things like get Christmas decor or even cut down a fresh tree every year. But some other things we do is get roasted chestnuts, host Xmas at our house, come up with holiday games with our friends, bake Xmas cookies/ decorate them, gingerbread house competitions, and go see lights!
The holidays used to be a kind of depressing time for me, and as I’ve gotten older with more family out of touch, I’ve really made it a priority to bring people together, even if it means I have to deal with the logistics.
Have a great christmas weylie
Hi weylie , I’m so happy to watch your videos again, I also feel the same way about bout end of year .. and elderly getting sick except that I did imagine it being a wonderful time to end , but unexpectedly my mom got sick and is at hospital. Right now just being strong and hoping for my moms recovery and returning home ! That’s all I wish for this Christmas. :.( little did I knew my family we will have to face my mom going through this but praying and hoping for the best . You bring me comfort .. and I hope everything goes well for you as well . ❤️❤️❤️
Aw Tiffany, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom being sick. I hope your mom makes a recovery soon. Sending you and your family lots of love ❤
Omg your hair looks real good!!
I am just like you just stress so same with me
I find it harder and harder each year. I also have older pets so I am just happy I get to be home with them. Thank you for your videos!
NAVI's TEEF!!! Adorable!
😁 it was cute! agree!
1:53 "no rush, just be quick" ♥
I just realized watching you build the fort made me really want your rug! Where did you buy it from?
Hi Weylie! Holiday blues are tough, idk what your beliefs are or your feelings on it but try attending a Christmas Eve service or Christmas Day service at a local church. There’s a joy that you’ll feel seeing families gather, holiday songs being sung, and even the decorations around the church. Cheers ❤
I love your videos so much!
Why are you making up the guest bedroom?
I was born in the Philippines, and in Filipino culture it's a huge thing to celebrate Christmas eve and NYE with family. So I was used to being around my family every year. But sadly, I don't have all of my family here in the Bay Area, so for me... I get sad around the holidays, esp. because I spend it alone.
Love your vlogs! And your living room rug! Where is it from??
Mele Kalikimaka Weylie & 'Ohana. Here in Hawaii we have many family gatherings. We have musicians in our family so we sing along to holiday music and dance hula. Eat alot of local Hawaii food, and some traditional Hawaiian foods. Everyone kokua, or helps with this holiday tradition. It's wonderful that your sister has begun her own holiday traditions. ✨🎄😊
Love your hair❤!! What do you use currently to curl your hair currently?
I know It’s rlly simple but I rlly love ur hair around 4:00
Weylie, where is your comfy outfit from?! It’s so cute!
Thank you! My sweater is from Jenni Kayne and my sweats are from Alo Yoga!
dear I also feel the same melancholy toward the end of the year. It feels as if you're gonna change immediately and make your life suddenly better within one day from December 31st to January 1st. not physical psychological changes build up day after another
Make some "tong yuen" this year! It's part of the end of the year tradition for my family
Money is just the sweetest baby!
Love you guys ★★★★★
My family never celebrated the holidays either. Now im a crazy Christmas dog mom and force my little family and chosen family to be festive 😂
I adore your hair 😊
Happy holidays! What movie did you watch?🤔
Weylie where is your brown top and bottom set from? Thanks!
How did you teach your dogs not to go for food that isn’t theirs? I’m amazed that you had all that food on the floor (including grapes!!!) and none of the dogs went for it. Please let me know your tips and tricks on how you trained your dogs!!
Are you still a vegetarian/pescatarian?
Where is your brown 2 piece cozy set from? Can you share a link?
Y'alls Target is STOCKED! Ours are so bare lately. 😔Hi fur babies! 😘
Did you get your coffee tables from freesiapark? I think ive seen the same ones in her old apt lols
Are y’all considering getting sesame a bunny playmate? Just wondering because I selfishly love seeing bunniesssss LOL
Christmasyyyy🤪🤪
Hey how come money wears a diaper? Is it bc since she is older it is hard for her to hold her pee? Thank you
Also wondering this
She is an old lady, so sometimes she gets confused and has accidents in the house!
What kind dog is white?
觉得你笑起来很像港姐张宝儿
Second 😂
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I hope u have a baby soon😩😩
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