MAKING a Gold Digger

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • A follow up Thailand video to MacTV and my collaboration video this week.. '7 Signs your Girlfriend is a Gold Digger.'
    Looking at the phenomena from the female perspective in Thailand, with a focus on Pattaya.
    I'm thinking of it like a debate question and I'm speaking on behalf of the for's. We'll return to our regular scheduling tomorrow night :)
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Komentáře • 97

  • @MurrayWards
    @MurrayWards Před měsícem +12

    I'm an oldie, lived in Pattaya 8 years.
    Your comments about most of the girls, who work in Pattaya, are very realistic .

  • @TheSlitTickler
    @TheSlitTickler Před měsícem +5

    Rarely comment anywhere but then again I rarely hear anyone with a real, empathetic insight on these kinds of things so I feel I have to. More power to you man, keep bringing perspective and insights.
    Good change of pace from the usual repeated content most people make.

  • @mikemcneil5647
    @mikemcneil5647 Před měsícem +7

    nice insight sam. more fleshed out and empathetic than the oversimplified bar talk we here everywhere.

  • @mactvtravel
    @mactvtravel Před měsícem +4

    Great follow up sam, enjoyed watching this good to highlight this topic mate 👏👏

  • @goonerdoy
    @goonerdoy Před měsícem +4

    I met a Thai girl in Sydney (studying her Masters at Uni) back in 2011 and she was richer than me. I ended up marrying her in Thailand haha.

  • @glentiller349
    @glentiller349 Před měsícem +1

    You’ve got your finger on the pulse Sam. I live in Australia, have a Thai wife and spend a lot of time over there. Fundamentally Western people have no concept of Thai culture. I used to watch lots of Vloggers in Thailand but their material is so shallow. You stand out as guy portraying the realities of life there. Just watch your heart, your an Empath in a sea of egocentricity. Keep it up, you’re talented and your channel will boom.

  • @somnumna2606
    @somnumna2606 Před měsícem +8

    I know more men that have been cleaned out by their wife in Australia that far outstrips what guys pay for play here…AND they are still paying.
    I’ve never been married, no kids and had the snip so all uphill from here.
    Remember if it Flys F or Floats it’s cheaper to rent.

  • @masteryancodesan
    @masteryancodesan Před měsícem +5

    Great story mate. It needs to be a 10 part series, Daisy's Drama haha. I watched the Mac video too. I'm enjoying your take on an old dirty city. Nearly 20 years in middle of Isaan here.

  • @vintageexcellence
    @vintageexcellence Před měsícem +4

    The Issan girls do it and so do the Lao girls but the Lao girls are 3 times sweeter when they do.

  • @BADQ
    @BADQ Před měsícem +2

    Nice mate, you crammed a lot into that one episode! Loved hearing the story, so true though... Keep up the awesome work Sam, just brilliant!

  • @slipnslide9308
    @slipnslide9308 Před měsícem +2

    Congrats on 10k subs

  • @dietmarbirkmann55
    @dietmarbirkmann55 Před měsícem

    Insightful and well told Sam

  • @RoaringRanger
    @RoaringRanger Před měsícem +2

    Yep nailed it.

  • @snitchy87
    @snitchy87 Před měsícem +3

    I think when meeting anyone we need to remember we are all products of our circumstances. That doesn't absolve us of all our decisions, but it can help explain them.

  • @spindle2323
    @spindle2323 Před měsícem +1

    Thumbnail is a classic 😂
    Great content

  • @MarkSmith.
    @MarkSmith. Před měsícem +1

    finally a story with some truth to it thanks for sharing

  • @raja8881
    @raja8881 Před 16 dny

    Love ya Work
    👍

  • @mcb00m
    @mcb00m Před měsícem

    You are a great narrator 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @RapiD0007
    @RapiD0007 Před měsícem +2

    I think you’ve hit the nail on the head here, it’s so easy to pigeon hole these girls You put it across very well let’s hope some people realise that these girls have feelings everyone in life deserves happiness and love. Surely that’s the basic as a human you deserve.

  • @DCGT703
    @DCGT703 Před měsícem

    I like that, great approach to this video.

  • @thecookdogg
    @thecookdogg Před měsícem +2

    First time for the 1st comment !
    I’ve learned a TONNE about ( majority ) of the chicks over there in my trips there.
    Be smart and be wary and don’t fall for the hype.
    When is your next live stream ?!!

  • @franksaunders6534
    @franksaunders6534 Před měsícem +1

    Great story, Sam! Western society tends to be selfish in the sense that we are very self-driven and full of self-pity. We tend to forget that we are in a foreign country, with different cultural values and unimaginable burdens and pressures placed on many individuals who mask this with their charming smiles when they are in our company.

  • @Davrosss
    @Davrosss Před měsícem +3

    Pretty much nailed it on the head.. these guys need to think.. like back in Australia would you go to the kings cross to find a girlfriend 🤔 many thai women are also very loyal to their family 💯

  • @michaelthegreat44
    @michaelthegreat44 Před měsícem +4

    I think we all know a Dara..just remember guys, chances are it isn't love.

  • @beau_de_jour
    @beau_de_jour Před měsícem +1

    wow i really like how you described the true based life story of those working girls, the sad consequences of their actions and the motivation of why the do all of this. And i feel your appreciation on what they do. Yes they may have scam and played with some foreigners indeed, but they were good souls in the beginning. Keep up the good work mate!

  • @HaklGuru
    @HaklGuru Před měsícem

    Very well done! This is definitely the next level up. Your video(s) are great but i see you went all out on this one and is very noticeable! Good on you brother!

  • @lordrossmacca
    @lordrossmacca Před měsícem +1

    Another very interesting insight into Thailand again very similar to China. Great stuff Sam

  • @WellRoundedMBS
    @WellRoundedMBS Před měsícem +1

    fully watched many thanks for the video

  • @GrumpyGrover
    @GrumpyGrover Před měsícem +1

    Good to get insights from the womans perspective. Nice editing btw

  • @robertlaird1281
    @robertlaird1281 Před měsícem +2

    that was brilliant

  • @passportmarc
    @passportmarc Před měsícem

    While I do agree that is the path of probably many “farm fresh” girls, Like Keis said there’s always a choice, I also know girls that are gold diggers but sell driver’s licenses to lazy tourists and help with visas in Bangkok and are making more bank jobs than me with a foreigner job. Then there’s people like Noona that did live on a farm but decided to sell real estate and some month’s destroys my earnings…
    As for the ending, we all know he fell in love, lost a shit ton a money went back home and simped on her sponsor list and can’t wait to be back, as for her she found a new client the next day 😅
    Great video sam, loved the storytelling, you’re a natural ❤

  • @tonyh6846
    @tonyh6846 Před měsícem

    Cheers mate,
    🙂

  • @leoagaw
    @leoagaw Před měsícem

    Correction: abortion is legal for up to 20 weeks in Thailand. You don't need a reason to have an abortion... After 20 weeks, it is a bit more complicated.

  • @muajin
    @muajin Před měsícem

    I’m curious. From what I’ve heard and seen, most foreigner CZcamsrs aren’t married to Thais. They either are divorced, dating one or single. Few are married to a Thai.

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 Před měsícem +1

    Very good insight 😊

  • @evansmusic2009
    @evansmusic2009 Před měsícem +1

    My 1st introduction to Thailand was through Thais I met in Sydney, birthday parties with the relatively tight social community where people had and did work in all sorts of industries... Nobody judged, and afaik all were sending money back to support family in some way... As someone that had stayed well away, and was judgemental to the point that I had no interest in travel to Thailand, I found myself intrigued to understand how they ended up here...so when offered opportunity to visit an Isaan village on my 1st trip to Thailand I took it and it changed my outlook on life somewhat... Back to my 2nd home in Jomtien Friday for a very short visit..

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem +1

      What a great journey mate to get here :)

  • @WJJ1961
    @WJJ1961 Před měsícem

    Sammy; sums it up so well. Almost every time I have asked a bar girl where she comes from it’s Isaan, as well. Well
    Told!

  • @ricksmith7308
    @ricksmith7308 Před měsícem

    Brilliant video, well researched, well presented and edited.
    I 100% agree.....for pattaya as that is predominantly where I have been and seen the exact same thing.
    Your videos are great viewing, thanks!

  • @goonerdoy
    @goonerdoy Před měsícem

    Great video brother, you are an intelligent, verbose fella! The lurking grammar police in me says it is "between xxx and me" not "I" bahahaha, cheers bro!!

  • @billanderson4585
    @billanderson4585 Před měsícem

    Got to say probably the best one so far Sam. Very thought provoking. There is always a story behind the shit that people say. 😊

  • @drewcorry5056
    @drewcorry5056 Před měsícem

    Absolutely Outstanding

  • @Bngn_Snkrs
    @Bngn_Snkrs Před měsícem +1

    Gday from Santorini!

  • @allanandersen6991
    @allanandersen6991 Před měsícem

    This guy is a legend

  • @rayphillip8483
    @rayphillip8483 Před měsícem

    excellent job telling that story…… for some reason I think it’s a true story that you were told…. Or you have witnessed. this was a good one. Look forward to your next video.. BLESS

  • @roadsofjapan6009
    @roadsofjapan6009 Před měsícem

    Points on the presentation and the ending, but yeah in the end it’s up to them or as they say “up to you” perspective is everything not only in Thailand.

  • @darrenbadger6814
    @darrenbadger6814 Před měsícem

    Great vid Sammy. I can see both yours and Adam's point of views. The problem with being a farm girl and getting a decent paying non bar girl job in the city, is that education is expensive, especially when you have a kid and family to support. So l guess Adam's dilemma is a moral one.

  • @keithmuckchucker6468
    @keithmuckchucker6468 Před měsícem

    A big part of the way a lot of western men see Thai women is from the stories from men that have only visited Pattay so they think all Thai woman are like the bar girls and treat Thai women who are living in western countries like that My Thai wife is from Bangkok and raised 2 handicapped children on her own by working in a factory then doing washing an irioning from home to support herself , yet one day in a shopping plaza here in Australia she got asked if she was "working" once he realised she was with me he took off before I could grab him and teach him a lesson, its sad that people dont hear the stories of the people who have had good long relationships with Thai women we have been married 11 years ans still going strong and NO I am not her ATM and she helps pay the bills etc! Even my own family were saying oh she's going to take all your money etc then there's the one's that say "mail order bride etc she is 51 and Im 63 she looks 25 like a lot of asian woman

  • @mikeyboy3054
    @mikeyboy3054 Před měsícem +1

    Excellent video. Decision making for a lot of young village girls is much more complicated than the average Western Girl. Too many Farangs make generalized opinions about the apparent lifestyle of many of these ladies. In many cases the girls have a short window to earn money for their family. Too many cheap Charlies come here and act disrespectful.

  • @Abundancesobernew
    @Abundancesobernew Před měsícem

    Wow, that is wild, half true, half true, and half true, could be true or true, many ways to success for young girls. Bangkok or isan or changmi. Big money awaits. Good luck.

  • @passportbro7
    @passportbro7 Před měsícem

    Sam 😎ON POINT

  • @999britain
    @999britain Před měsícem

    They give up a lot.....
    And give out a lot.

  • @Darryl_Smith
    @Darryl_Smith Před měsícem

    Sam - you got this:
    And its only the tip of the proverbial...

  • @gingjok
    @gingjok Před měsícem +1

    Booya!!

  • @Fluppe1990
    @Fluppe1990 Před měsícem +1

    You sure about abortion? They have the same rules in Thailand as in France and Belgium, I'm together with a girl from Kalasin that works in Pattaya (not in the entertainment industry)

  • @matthewfriedewald8551
    @matthewfriedewald8551 Před měsícem

    Sad how easy it is for some to judge another's life.

  • @Waluigis1
    @Waluigis1 Před měsícem

    Why did you feature footage of your girlfriend in the 'gold digger' part at the beginning? Can't imagine she'll be happy about that lol

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem

      This is an advertisement for the family integrity of thai girls. All the drone footage featured is of her village. She’s very happy with what I produced

  • @keisone
    @keisone Před měsícem +22

    IDK man gotta kinda disagree with the story of the gold digger girls needing to work in a Bar.. While I understand the attraction of money, there are millions of other ways they could earn a living, its mostly a choice in my opinion.. Pattaya is only a very small part of Thailand don't forget! The amount of people in that industry that have multiple "boyfriends" and people they take money from is what really makes them gold diggers.

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem +14

      Thank you for sharing as always. I disagree wholeheartedly

    • @mctruehunter
      @mctruehunter Před měsícem +2

      @keisone I’m with you on this.

    • @johnceragioli9671
      @johnceragioli9671 Před měsícem +4

      @GoneAdrift. You and Keis are both right depending on your perspective on this issue. Based on your perspective Sam, my past is quite close to yours, except the Thai girl I was seeing (we did not meet in a bar( broke it off and went with another, richer man when the pandemic hit. Family is everything to the Thai people.
      Most of the girls who come from “rural” Thailand are not highly (read university) educated and as such are not hire able for higher income jobs.

    • @snitchy87
      @snitchy87 Před měsícem +4

      When you work 60 hrs a week in a factory for 8000thb and half of it is being sent elsewhere you can see the attraction to better money, but there is a point that it crosses over from needing to support family to just wanting money and stuff.

    • @johnceragioli9671
      @johnceragioli9671 Před měsícem

      @@snitchy87 Most of the time, it isn’t an attraction to better money, it is a need for better money. $110 a week is questionable when living in Bangkok, even for a Thai person.

  • @daveduffy2292
    @daveduffy2292 Před měsícem +1

    Hi I’m jack. I’m looking fro Dara…..

  • @thetruth5011
    @thetruth5011 Před měsícem

    I think it’s the other way around, after she gets the implants she finds many different boyfriends or starts flirting much more because she likes the attention and is now more confident. Unfortunately in the end she falls in love with his money not him, thinking how much she will take him for a ride and can easily move onto another. Sad but true most bar girls are like that.

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem

      I can agree on the modus operandi, but the motivation is something else entirely

  • @rickpugliese1682
    @rickpugliese1682 Před měsícem +1

    omg

  • @GlitteratiLive
    @GlitteratiLive Před měsícem

    Big fan, full support. However, this video makes me sad. It propagates an old stereotype that is slowly disappearing, and survives mainly in Pattaya. The amount of middle class young women in my extended family that make serious money grows each year. I wish for you to have more contacts in regular mainstream society.

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem

      🙏🏻

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem

      I appreciate your ongoing support Sir :)

    • @snitchy87
      @snitchy87 Před měsícem

      @GlitteratiLive the middle class is growing but the issues of the thai poorer class are still there. I wish for you to have more contacts outside regular middle class society.

  • @user-Jenfromdownunder
    @user-Jenfromdownunder Před měsícem +1

    Righto, there's a plethora of commentary about men hot for Thai women--insert yawn-🥱😴 Here's an idea! What about a balanced discussion about women exploring opportunities for all manner of relationships in Thailand? Or is that taboo? C'mon, if anyone can pull off exploring this topic, it's you mate 😁👍

    • @GoneAdrift
      @GoneAdrift  Před měsícem +1

      I love the idea!! 💡

    • @user-Jenfromdownunder
      @user-Jenfromdownunder Před měsícem

      @@GoneAdrift Fabulous!! Finally your female fans will be visible in exploring all opportunities when relocating to Thailand. i can't wait for what I know will be an informative and entertaining series! On ya mate! 😁