I might try to find some flats with black toe. I have seen them in another French ladys CZcams chanel, and they are really nice. My crocs are only for the garden, I then chose comfort over elegant. In the cold winter of Norway I will still chose warm over elegant too, I have my very frown upon seal skin boots, but I need them to keep warm in the winter.
What is crazy to me is the defensive comments I see on videos about elegance that read like they're being attacked?? They say they're not trying to be elegant always and defending crocs or uggs. No one is expecting anything of anyone, the lady is just trying to help you lol 😅 why even watch these videos if you are so sensitive?? 🤧 love your videos
I agree w/ you. She was just explaining how to be more elegant . Not everyday you need to have elegance in the way you dress ( gardening/ picnics/ hiking, etc. )
Great video. The keywords here are French elegance. Going to a prize ceremony, first dinner with potential in-laws, job interview at a fancy workplace, upmarket art gallery opening... these kinds of occasions. We don't have to be elegant all the time, but when we need to be, these are perfect tips. I have lived in France - outside Paris - and you are absolutely right. I feel that nowadays people are trying too hard to express their personality through flashy clothes. Elegance is not boring, nor is it taking away one's personality - it's letting your intellect, kindness and other qualities shine. But when you don't have those, it's true that the clothes need to do all the 'shouting'. Keep up the great work.. Loving your videos so far 🙂
Heels are not inherantly sexual and directly reminding people of a h**ker just because they're tall and skinny... You keep repeating that, however personally I find it's similar to the whole "tattoo's are unprofessional" thing. It was a view very old fashioned and irrational... More like a generational trend that has died. People don't view plain heels that way anymore especially if they're nice leather, suede or other luxurious materials. Or nude heels are timeless... TLDR: Heels are'nt sexual just because theyre skinny and tall
Agree❤ But between TATOOS (no matter what it conveys for some ladies) n' "Comfortable yet Sexy" Heels 7cm max, on special occasions, I'd choose the latter 100x over😌☺️
I agree. Shorter women like myself will want at least 3-4 inch block. Not necessarily stiletto and if it has a platform to help offset heel height that's even better.
Your perspective is amazing and timeless, because you value (like some of us) the notion that people ought to look their best, be their best, and do their best both at home, and in society. This value system is worth preserving, and I could not be more grateful to you.
Any boots that can keep me upright on icy concrete are the boots I will wear. For me, it's not about elegance, but traction. Now for the rest of the year, these tips are great.
Wow… what a refreshing take on how to style oneself in an elegant, tasteful way. Also, I appreciate how she provides alternatives in case a viewer likes a particular look.
I love watching these videos, but I think I will always have an element of artsy/chunky/bright to the way I dress. Fortunately nothing in my life needs 100% elegance 100% of the time.
I agree about so many points, but I think there is a couple of warnings to underline. First one: classic is classy, but it always needs a touch of fresshness not to become old and a little boring, expecially if you're in your sixties and over. Second one, what you wear needs to be coherent with who you are. As an artist I feel the need to always have a "point of interest" in my outfit, may be just an unconventional jewel or a surprising colour in my very classic shoes or bag, for example . It might as well be anything else, but I need it. And you have to cope with your body, too. For example I love flats and ballerinas and wouldn't wear anything else... but I'm petite: if I wear too low heels with a formal dress I don't look elegant at all and seem to be wearing slippers. So sad but so true! 🥹 Thank you for your video, it's always a pleasure to have a nice talk about style, isn't it? 🌹
I'm 68, and I can certainly relate. I'm actually afraid of falling if my heels are too high! My way of coping is wearing a flat with just a hint of a heel - maybe one inch. I just bought a pair of shoes that have a heel of over two inches, and will probably save them for dressier occasions, but the heel that they have is a bit chunkier than most, and, therefore gives me a bit more confidence than a skinnier high heel would.
Classic isnt boring it is timeless. Thats why its classic. There is a difference between old frumpy and stuffy ... and classic. If you believe in yourself you dont need flashy. If you are very artistic and expressive it could be you dont want to express yourself as understated which is perfectly wonderful and fits your style and creative intelligence. Classic is understated and maybe understated doesnt reflect the freedom you want to express who you are. What is considered elegant does have a constricting restricting element to it as its associated with money status and certain restrained inhibited behaviour relegated to societal constructs and expectations. At the same time plastic carries a cheap image not just related to price but to its identity, and lack of innate value and beauty.
I really like your videos, so nicely put together, thank you! Here in Australia, where Ugg boots originated, they are mostly worn INDOORS!!!! I cringe every time I see people wearing them in the street, especially in UK. It's a big NO! Mind you having said that, we do have people who wear pyjamas and ugh boots to do a late night shop and think they won't be noticed!! It's very entertaining!
Although I agree with the esthetic point of classy looking shoes, one thing a lot of these aren't is practical or better yet healthy for your body (we are talking joints, posture, bone structure etc.) I believe it is more than ok to wear them from time to time but is not something that should be worn daily 'cause in a long run they are not good for your body
I am so amazed at the way you describe controversial topics in a subtle way. This is how an elegant woman do this. Really liked your movies and staying for longer 🙂
Well -6C is actually when it's warm in a Québec winter perspective 😅 so I will stick to my timberlands laced boots that covers all of my calf. You are right though that they are not in the classy side, but they are on the survival side when you walk a lot outside in Québec winter 😂 I discovered you recently and I love your videos! You are really good at explaining without judging, and I find your vibe quite comforting ❤ I would love to see a video on makeup! 😊
I guess I won't be going for classy & elegant on my trip to the Olympic National Park in a couple of weeks. I just received a fantastic pair of Keen hiking boots, brown with green laces, and I am so excited to wear them! Also packing for chill and rain every day, lots of socks, hats, merino everything. And bug spray. I'm looking forward to hiking and reading and writing, and big trees and moss, lots of moss. When I get back to work I'll promptly return to my Burberry trench coat, jeans, ballet flats, and a lovely cashmere sweater.
Much like the top comment i saw. When you have foot injury you are relegated to sports sneakers. I can't even go barefoot after major reconstructive foot surgery
VIVAIA shoes are superb in terms of comfort, and one can even wash them in a washing machine on their own of course. (One cannot dry them in a machine however… leave in a shaded place to dry). Most are made from recycled plastic (bottles etc), though they do not appear to be. Great shoes for feet healing from injuries, late recovery from surgery, bad bunions, etc. They are not THE most beautiful shoes, however I’m very glad these shoes made your list due to their simplicity and perhaps also to give those who can’t worry only about the appearance of their shoes an extra option… (with your mark of approval). PS VIVAIA doe shoes and boots come in many colors, which is “fun.” PLUS EASY TP SMASH INTO A SUITCASE without any worry about damaging them!
You do a great job of clearly explaining why certain articles in fashion are distasteful! I am 66 years old and I 100% live by your guidelines as taught to me be my mother as well!
Thank you for the guidelines! Comforting to hear that chunky boots are considered okay for snowy weather. Regarding that, could you perhaps do a video on how to dress elegant and feminine in harsher winters? The -15, -20 degrees type.
I never had a casual friday at work not one, until it snowed and I dressed for it with alpine boot, full climbing chic except the rope and my team was nearly cheering me, sometimes you just have to show up! with a bright lipstick of course!
Thrilled that you think VIVAIA are fashionable shoes. I’m in love with the waterproof boots I got from them. I get loads of compliments from my Parisian friends and colleagues. I splurged on summer shoes from them too. And I am highly tempted to grab a pair of black toed heals. Definitely recommend the brand. And no, I’m not working for them. Just a happy customer! J’adore vos vidéos ! Merci milles fois !
I wasn’t aware of elegant style much, but somehow I always avoided crocs, uggs, bows and laces, and high heels. I will probably get a pair of shoes with black toe, loved those :) Thank you for the video!
Just found your channel. Love the ideas in these videos. Re: Vegan shoes - Vegan shoes are typically made from plastic. I understand vegans believe we humans should not harm creatures for our pleasure (style, food, etc.). But vegan shoes (and handbags) put plastic into the oceans and landfills, so creatures are still being harmed. I hadn't given much thought to my beloved sneakers being mostly plastic. Food for thought. I will have to rethink the sneakers I buy. Thanks for your channel.
There are many vegan shoe and handbag options now that are not “plastic” (or are made from recycled plastic) and are beautiful! You just have to look for them.
As a vegan I weigh up the impact of everything I consume carefully. My main aim is not to eat anything made from animals because that is very much a daily decision that could cause the greatest harm. In the same way I try to buy my food plastic- free. My shoes are a quite different matter. I usually buy my hiking boots every seven years or so. Even if they are leather they often have plastic elements (for example - the soles). I wear canvas pumps throughout summer and they generally stay looking nice for several summers. They are machine-washable too! It is a challenge to be plastic-free. I imagine even you find it challenging to find berries in cardboard containers or to buy all your daily groceries plastic free. I'm incredulous that people always zoom in on vegans and the plastic shoes they may, or likely don't, buy once every few years.
I just binged your channel, i love your personality. Very honest and you have many tips I've not seen on other channels that reiterate rules my grandma and mother followed. Love it ❤
I am very petite (5'0") and hardly ever wear flats, but the thing is when it comes to a heel, a platform is much more comfortable. I like it best when they are an inner platform (meaning covered with leather and built into the shoe rather than stuck on the bottom) and this type of shoe does not have the look of stripper heels which is an extreme look. I've heard this before about platforms, and if comfort wasn't an issue, I like the look of sleeker shoes better probably, but they kill my feet in a fraction of the time.
@@MademoiselleSpends I wear what is attractive, not detracting. Learned from My mother who was born in 1921 and Nana, Aunt and Great Aunt. I give credit to them.
What I noticed about your makeup is the LACK of it. I am 68, and completely agree with this. It took me years to get here. When I was young, I wore WAY too much makeup, instead of just accenting my natural beauty. Now it's just a touch of concealer for my under eye circles, some cream blush, eyebrow pencil, and lipstick. For evening, I add a touch of eye shadow and mascara. And that's it! Oh, and sunscreen moisturizer - I have worn this for 40 years! By the way, Vivaia shoes are lovely, and they make them in Narrow width, if you need them! How refreshing! If you are also a Narrow foot, you could try Vaneli, although they are a bit pricey! (I get them vintage). For sneakers, I always order a regular width, but one half size up, allowing for movement when you walk fast, and, because you can pull the laces tighter, this pretty much takes care of the width issue. If you were a narrow width and ordered narrow in sneakers, you would find that the shoes would fit too tightly with a sport sock. I keep praying that shoe manufacturers don't stop making Narrow width shoes. They seem so hard to find!
in retirement my solution to not finding narrow has been the less than elegant but very comfy SLIDE in shoe with no back. That Vivaia sling back might work also.
Great tips for those who like the "French", elegant, classy style but could never get it right. Of course there's no law that you should always look like that. Maybe that's just not who you are. Maybe you're an artist or an athlete or into subculture and that's ok! I never realized about the "teacher boots" btw, didn't even know that they're called that, so thank you
I love your videos! I just ran across your channel yesterday, and I am enjoying it so much. I tend to be adventurous with my clothing choices and I do not always dress elegantly (sometimes I do), but I love fashion of all kinds and I love learning more about it all the time. Knowing all the ins and outs of the different looks and how to create them helps me make good choices, and helps me create the kind of vibe I'm going for every day. Thank you!
I have to defend Birkenstock a little-they offer a model called Madrid, which can look casual yet still elegant and feminine, especially in the big buckle version. The Arizonas mentioned in the video are just one of their designs. While they are iconic, I have to agree that they are indeed chunky :)
I don't wear Birkenstocks, but they look fine. I find it a bit ironic that the sandals she suggests instead don't look less chunky and are much less attractive.
You should make some practical videos about the elagant look for the budget .. with h&m amazon etc links. So we can shop there and you can earn some affiliate commission
Nothing wrong with heels, it's the type of heel that makes something elegant or not. You can wear heels- platform heels are not necessarily elegant though
I miss mine wore them until 50, it was flip flops and mud that hurt my ankle I must try to get back into them! Everything chic and tailored and elegant but the shoe, that is my look!
@@ashleymatthews683 I was best dressed in a very important office! I knew how to do it just right, solid colors, not much jewelry but if I had a good heel that was on sale, yeah. never had a debt either! My entire look was compared to Catherine Denerve. Most wear too much jewelry or fake nails, not me, never it has to be just right! And a red lipstick. In retirement I am in the garden. Get Crocs or similar for gardening!
I think so many people missed the point of this video. This was not a "shoes you can never wear" video. This was a "shoes you should never wear IF you're trying to dress in an elegant style" video. No one says EVERYONE has to dress elegant, or that YOU have to dress elegant, or that elegant is the only acceptable style. The level of defensiveness from the whole comment section is wild.
I just received this video by accident, really love it, I AGREE with everything you just said, I do not understood the representation of classic of Harry’s wife, there is a lot of better classics woman representation out there, THANK YOU.
❤ & 😂 - I was once asked by an acquaintance how I felt about the latest fashion in platform shoes - this was a few years ago - and had to work very hard to NOT utter my instinct feeling: These shoes made her look like the wrong kind of pro! 😂
I’m pretty sure she meant specifically the LARGE, clunky plastic shoe. If plastic were used in the style of any of the elegant style shoes she talked about, that wouldn’t matter, I’m sure she’d say. She wasn’t talking snobby here by naming brands that we should buy; she was just giving examples of elegant styles.
Oh, gone are the days when I could wear, walk, Greek dance and even run in my beautiful high heels. Right up to my mid, late-50s, I was fine. But as an ex University librarian of 30+ years, I always wore low, comfortable shoes, as my library had lots of stairs and endless reshelving of books, so comfy shoes were a must. I'm now 62 and no longer working as I am riddled with arthritis, 🙄 vile lower lumbar back pain, and, in my knees and feet. I've just had two knee replacements, and I can no longer wear my beautiful shoes.💔😭
I think she’s talking about how the look of most plastic shoes appears cheap. Vegan leather if it’s well made looks like leather. She’s talking more about the appearance in this context.
I think she could do better with calling audiences to action in advocating for more sustainable options at affordable levels-there are mushroom, pineapple husk, cork, and cacti, based vegan leathers if you can find the brands doing it. However usually being that in the know when it comes to sustainable/ethical fashion is a sort of luxury in itself. And I assume a French woman living in Norway who can comment on fashion as an influencer is in a very different circle and perhaps even income bracket for standard of living than most of the average viewers of this channel who probably don't come from such places of tradition and relative standards of wealth. So while I appreciate her subtlety in confronting a lot of much needed issue like consumerism in fast fashion and it's environmental impacts, I think we all benefit from learning and more squarely addressing the root environmental and economic factors beyond just brushing into them with product and aesthetics as the core focus of the videos too.
Vegan leather doesn’t have to be plastic anymore. It’s not everywhere yet, but mushroom leather and pineapple leather have been around for maybe a decade.
It obviously went over your head if you think she doesn’t have the ability to understand it’s a different different material and it’s probably probably made of something like that
Bought my first pair of Vivaia flats a couple of months ago. My only real complaint would be the “no blister” pad at the back, which actually gave me the worst blisters ever. The fake suede inside produced balls of lint that made my skin blister within 15 minutes during my first wear; they even rubbed holes into the protective skin tape I applied, and dislodged bandaids. I advise applying some friction prevention cream (got a stick from the pharmacy), VERY GENEROUSLY, so that it absorbs into the fake-suede fabric over the first few wears. Another minus would be that there’s no genuine leather at all, and I find the interior of shoes much more comfortable and breathable with leather insoles and lining. But they definitely feel great in the front part, especially not compressing my bunion. The rubber sole feels a bit heavy, but absorbs shock pretty well. Now that they don’t skin my heel raw, they’re great flats, and very stylish ✨
The rules are good, but they are a tad too conservative. The chunky boots can be part of a classy silouette, with the right coat and pants. And for the height of the heel, i think too low is as bad as too high. No one under the age of 70 would want to have Queen Elizabeth vibe in those 5 cm pumps.
It really depends on your lifestyle. I love my new balance 990v5. I wear it when I walk my dog or when I go food shopping. Of course I also wear sling backs, Mary Janes and boots when I go out but most of the shoes you’ve shown is either tacky or doesn’t suit many body types.
I think she did not refer to dog walking, or gardening (Crocs). That said, having worked for many years in France, their elegant shoes are designed for walking long distances, over cobblestone streets and up and down a lot of stairs. This means the arch is supported, the sole has discreet padding and the angle at ball of feet is not as sharp, even if the heel is high. The wonderful thing is that because they are easy to walk in, people walk A LOT. Taking elevators for less than three floors is considered morally lax. So, overall, you will see far fewer people having a certain body type.
There are certainly situations where being elegant is not a priority. For some people, it's never a priority. If being comfortable is your priority, go for it, especially when it comes to your feet. JMO, of course.
I live in Toronto and have noticed lately (since the pandemic) that sneakers, even chunky ones, are much more acceptable in the office. Even senior lawyers wear them sometimes to see clients, which I have a hard time doing myself. I wear sneakers to walk to work but change into more elegant shoes when I get there. I do own shoes in flashy colours but always in a classic style.
@@valerina01 The white sneaker (even clunky) are seen much more often since the pandemic in non-casual and non-sporty situations. However, senior lawyers in Toronto meeting clients is a surprise. Was surprised to see so many young women in dresses and large white sneakers in Italy last year and this, but they looked put-together and comfortable, though not exactly elegant.
@@hm4184 to be fair, I am referring to in-house corporate lawyers, not senior partners at law firms. But then again, the men hardly wear ties anymore so the whole business vibe is much more casual. Maybe the pendulum will swing back.
Thank you for the advice! I've watched a few of your videos now and I am going to try to incorporate as many of your suggestions as possible. I naturally gravitate towards the grunge clothing and shoes because of my body and foot shapes, is most comfortable for me, but I've been trying to wear more classy and becoming clothing as I am older now and not aging gracefully so my looks alone don't flatter me at all. I need my clothing to help me out a little lol
Thank you so much for this video. I have been transitioning to cleaner, classier items of clothing and footwear to simplify my life and was feeling like my lack of enthusiasm for overly high heels was just because I can not walk comfortably in them. Though I applauded those who can. Thank you for the contentand showing that classy and comfortable can co exist. ❤
I HIGHLY recommend Jeneba Barrie (she is also a lawyer) shoes; I own two pairs since I tan easily to match my skin in summer and winter. She offers a very large range of skin tones, in multiple heel heights including flats. I ordered the leather swatch book (the cost is credited to your first order) to be sure I got the best match. The shoes are beautifully made.
the shoes you note are nice but I would NEVER pay that for a shoe, always get last seasons at deep discount for any sort of shoe. I was best dressed but also I never pay full price!
Hi dear, I loved this video! Just wanted to say that your videos are always so interesting and you can really sit back, enjoy and have a cup of tea and enjoy girly time haha😍💕 perfect for all women who enjoy fashion and elegance!
2:58 I'm sorry, but if you really need to walk a LOT, these sandals aren't comfortable at all (maybe if you have flatfoot). These slide-on sandals are only good to pop in and out of the car, maybe walk a few blocks in the city. I get that shoes with thick soles are never going to give that chic look, but this is where it's not worth looking elegant, if you're feet are going to hurt at the end of the day.
I do like 40s style platform shoes which have a minimal platform. Not sure if they are “elegant” but they seem elegant to me if worn with the right dress or slacks. Though Marilyn was steered away from her platform favorites by the very elegant (almost stifling elegant) Amy Greene. I love the black peep toe 40s “platforms”, and also summer reasonable platform sandals. And for fun loved Marilyn’s lucite ribbon platform sandals, and these were worn only for cheesecake photos. But definetly not the ones shown here. They look like hooves to me and very stripper.
I'll fess up. I came here for self validation. Agree, agree, agree! The lace-up boots can go a number of ways, I think. If they are the dainty type, then they give off Mary Poppins vibes. They can bring a pop of feminine vintage to an outfit.
Please do a video of brand recommendations for elegant shoes, accessories, and clothing! You mentioned a few but I’d love to learn more! A lot of products sold in America are not comfortable or well made and it’s hard to where to buy from!
Excellent choices. Yet,I use platform boots and platform sandals which are aesthetic,not very high and definetelly not chunky.They are very comfortable and I can walk fast with them
Bonjour Ariane, Merci infiniment pour votre vlog ! Pourriez-vous s'il vous plaît faire une vidéo dédiée aux sorties et et les sacs de soirée pour aller à l'opéra (de Versailles) ?
I never understood the concept of heavy duty hiking boots with a heel on them. Like, what are you? A sexy hiker? Or does it give an advantage to hiking uphill? 😄
Even though I understand what your saying. Unfortunately elegant ladies will not look elegant if they wear stiletto pumps their young life because once they reach a certain age their feet will be mangled and not be able to work beautifully. So I disagree because in the modern world women are not just home all the time. Today they are working going to workouts, errands, etc. so thankfully there are so many styles that fit the occasion and women can look beautiful and elegant in a chunky comfortable sneaker.
Plastic is not ok, but Vivaie (shoes that you just order and very happy because that) is ok? Vivaie is made of plastic bottle. From Vivaie offical site: "The double "V" and "A" represent our diverse shoe designs. The double "I" symbolizes the plastic bottles we recycle to produce our shoes. Combined, it's who we are-VIVAIA." Sorry, but no sense at all.😏
I think it's fine to call out contradictions and am glad people are speaking out on plastic waste, or even acknowledge that budgets don't always make quality goods accessible for everyone. Obviously it's not good and natural materials would be priority, and maybe it's just her taking a "least bad" sponsorship the way many influencers want to support mental health but take on a troubled company like Better Health. But you have to acknowledge there's conscious choice and difference in the assessment when most companies simply generate fast, one-time use disposable apparel from raw materials vs. a company that makes a choice to center their operations around removing plastic from the waste stream at least once more to make their product while also possibly hoping to shift common industry practice. One is a conventional consumptive business model, the latter has potential to become what's called a regenerative business model if it has something akin to a circular economy business model, they may even make their shoes recyclable or reclaim them at the end of product life as well to adapt and repurpose those materials again to continue diverting waste. So I can imagine being able to extend discernment and consciousness into the notion of elegance being a fair consideration when overall it's about tactfully putting things into a more authentic relationship with signaling that more than meets the eye over flashy faddish choices.
@@keptthekisses I understand and agree with you. I myself wear Vivaie and in general I have no doubts about the benefits, but in a video like this I only see it as the next sponsor of Vivaie. After that I wait for Lily Silk and then we have the standard "yt fashion with style" picture. :)
I have Gabor sandales with a little bit of plateau....1 thumb thick.....because I need them....every thinner sole is poor torture, because of arthritis in my toes. I love them very much, because they allowe me to keep fresh feet in summer!!! Sorry ....I will not sacrifice my good mood and joy of life to elegant shoes, that put me in pain❤
What do you think? Any shoe you'll start/stop wearing?
After watching your video I just deleted forever my old shoe wishlist and will start from scratch. 😅
Very high high heels. They are not so comfortable at all as I nearly stopped wearing them and after this video, it is justified as well. 😂
I might try to find some flats with black toe. I have seen them in another French ladys CZcams chanel, and they are really nice. My crocs are only for the garden, I then chose comfort over elegant. In the cold winter of Norway I will still chose warm over elegant too, I have my very frown upon seal skin boots, but I need them to keep warm in the winter.
@@MademoiselleSpends I will stop wearing the MK platform shoes and the Loboutains. No need to draw un-necessary attention..
Is there any way you could style cowboy boots in an elegant way?
What is crazy to me is the defensive comments I see on videos about elegance that read like they're being attacked?? They say they're not trying to be elegant always and defending crocs or uggs. No one is expecting anything of anyone, the lady is just trying to help you lol 😅 why even watch these videos if you are so sensitive??
🤧 love your videos
Agreed!
Totally agree! I’m here for the art of elegance…if I wanted to be basic I’d watch another channel🤷🏽♀️
Exactly it’s a personal choice for instance when I am away from home I take my flip flops to wear in a hotel room and the shower.
I agree w/ you. She was just explaining how to be more elegant . Not everyday you need to have elegance in the way you dress ( gardening/ picnics/ hiking, etc. )
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Great video. The keywords here are French elegance. Going to a prize ceremony, first dinner with potential in-laws, job interview at a fancy workplace, upmarket art gallery opening... these kinds of occasions. We don't have to be elegant all the time, but when we need to be, these are perfect tips. I have lived in France - outside Paris - and you are absolutely right.
I feel that nowadays people are trying too hard to express their personality through flashy clothes. Elegance is not boring, nor is it taking away one's personality - it's letting your intellect, kindness and other qualities shine. But when you don't have those, it's true that the clothes need to do all the 'shouting'.
Keep up the great work.. Loving your videos so far 🙂
Elegant ladies don't say the f bomb either.
@@tamikaleeryker Yes they do. You will just never hear them say it. We are not monolithic and we are all human with faults.
Heels are not inherantly sexual and directly reminding people of a h**ker just because they're tall and skinny... You keep repeating that, however personally I find it's similar to the whole "tattoo's are unprofessional" thing. It was a view very old fashioned and irrational... More like a generational trend that has died. People don't view plain heels that way anymore especially if they're nice leather, suede or other luxurious materials. Or nude heels are timeless... TLDR: Heels are'nt sexual just because theyre skinny and tall
Agree❤ But between TATOOS (no matter what it conveys for some ladies) n' "Comfortable yet Sexy" Heels 7cm max, on special occasions, I'd choose the latter 100x over😌☺️
I agree. Shorter women like myself will want at least 3-4 inch block. Not necessarily stiletto and if it has a platform to help offset heel height that's even better.
Your perspective is amazing and timeless, because you value (like some of us) the notion that people ought to look their best, be their best, and do their best both at home, and in society. This value system is worth preserving, and I could not be more grateful to you.
Any boots that can keep me upright on icy concrete are the boots I will wear. For me, it's not about elegance, but traction. Now for the rest of the year, these tips are great.
Wow… what a refreshing take on how to style oneself in an elegant, tasteful way. Also, I appreciate how she provides alternatives in case a viewer likes a particular look.
Feels good I was already following these rules without realizing it. 😅
I love watching these videos, but I think I will always have an element of artsy/chunky/bright to the way I dress. Fortunately nothing in my life needs 100% elegance 100% of the time.
Love this!
I like your three personal style words.
@@softsophisticateI think overall they are comfortable/artsy/classic. My favorite outfits are a little bit of all of those.
I agree about so many points, but I think there is a couple of warnings to underline. First one: classic is classy, but it always needs a touch of fresshness not to become old and a little boring, expecially if you're in your sixties and over. Second one, what you wear needs to be coherent with who you are. As an artist I feel the need to always have a "point of interest" in my outfit, may be just an unconventional jewel or a surprising colour in my very classic shoes or bag, for example . It might as well be anything else, but I need it. And you have to cope with your body, too. For example I love flats and ballerinas and wouldn't wear anything else... but I'm petite: if I wear too low heels with a formal dress I don't look elegant at all and seem to be wearing slippers. So sad but so true! 🥹 Thank you for your video, it's always a pleasure to have a nice talk about style, isn't it? 🌹
I'm 68, and I can certainly relate. I'm actually afraid of falling if my heels are too high! My way of coping is wearing a flat with just a hint of a heel - maybe one inch. I just bought a pair of shoes that have a heel of over two inches, and will probably save them for dressier occasions, but the heel that they have is a bit chunkier than most, and, therefore gives me a bit more confidence than a skinnier high heel would.
Standing ovation to you.
Very important, crucial! points 👏👏👏
Classy is never boring.
Classic isnt boring it is timeless. Thats why its classic. There is a difference between old frumpy and stuffy ... and classic. If you believe in yourself you dont need flashy. If you are very artistic and expressive it could be you dont want to express yourself as understated which is perfectly wonderful and fits your style and creative intelligence. Classic is understated and maybe understated doesnt reflect the freedom you want to express who you are. What is considered elegant does have a constricting restricting element to it as its associated with money status and certain restrained inhibited behaviour relegated to societal constructs and expectations. At the same time plastic carries a cheap image not just related to price but to its identity, and lack of innate value and beauty.
I really like your videos, so nicely put together, thank you! Here in Australia, where Ugg boots originated, they are mostly worn INDOORS!!!! I cringe every time I see people wearing them in the street, especially in UK. It's a big NO! Mind you having said that, we do have people who wear pyjamas and ugh boots to do a late night shop and think they won't be noticed!! It's very entertaining!
I have to say I agree with everything you said. Elegance is the art of symplicity and understatement and never being too much.
Although I agree with the esthetic point of classy looking shoes, one thing a lot of these aren't is practical or better yet healthy for your body (we are talking joints, posture, bone structure etc.) I believe it is more than ok to wear them from time to time but is not something that should be worn daily 'cause in a long run they are not good for your body
I am so amazed at the way you describe controversial topics in a subtle way. This is how an elegant woman do this. Really liked your movies and staying for longer 🙂
Well -6C is actually when it's warm in a Québec winter perspective 😅 so I will stick to my timberlands laced boots that covers all of my calf. You are right though that they are not in the classy side, but they are on the survival side when you walk a lot outside in Québec winter 😂
I discovered you recently and I love your videos! You are really good at explaining without judging, and I find your vibe quite comforting ❤
I would love to see a video on makeup! 😊
Thank you for your kind words!
I guess I won't be going for classy & elegant on my trip to the Olympic National Park in a couple of weeks. I just received a fantastic pair of Keen hiking boots, brown with green laces, and I am so excited to wear them! Also packing for chill and rain every day, lots of socks, hats, merino everything. And bug spray. I'm looking forward to hiking and reading and writing, and big trees and moss, lots of moss. When I get back to work I'll promptly return to my Burberry trench coat, jeans, ballet flats, and a lovely cashmere sweater.
Much like the top comment i saw. When you have foot injury you are relegated to sports sneakers. I can't even go barefoot after major reconstructive foot surgery
VIVAIA shoes are superb in terms of comfort, and one can even wash them in a washing machine on their own of course. (One cannot dry them in a machine however… leave in a shaded place to dry). Most are made from recycled plastic (bottles etc), though they do not appear to be. Great shoes for feet healing from injuries, late recovery from surgery, bad bunions, etc. They are not THE most beautiful shoes, however I’m very glad these shoes made your list due to their simplicity and perhaps also to give those who can’t worry only about the appearance of their shoes an extra option… (with your mark of approval). PS VIVAIA doe shoes and boots come in many colors, which is “fun.” PLUS EASY TP SMASH INTO A SUITCASE without any worry about damaging them!
You do a great job of clearly explaining why certain articles in fashion are distasteful! I am 66 years old and I 100% live by your guidelines as taught to me be my mother as well!
Thank you for the guidelines! Comforting to hear that chunky boots are considered okay for snowy weather. Regarding that, could you perhaps do a video on how to dress elegant and feminine in harsher winters? The -15, -20 degrees type.
I am also very interested in the topic. Waiting forward 🙂
I never had a casual friday at work not one, until it snowed and I dressed for it with alpine boot, full climbing chic except the rope and my team was nearly cheering me, sometimes you just have to show up! with a bright lipstick of course!
Thrilled that you think VIVAIA are fashionable shoes. I’m in love with the waterproof boots I got from them. I get loads of compliments from my Parisian friends and colleagues. I splurged on summer shoes from them too. And I am highly tempted to grab a pair of black toed heals. Definitely recommend the brand. And no, I’m not working for them. Just a happy customer! J’adore vos vidéos ! Merci milles fois !
I wasn’t aware of elegant style much, but somehow I always avoided crocs, uggs, bows and laces, and high heels. I will probably get a pair of shoes with black toe, loved those :) Thank you for the video!
Just found your channel. Love the ideas in these videos. Re: Vegan shoes - Vegan shoes are typically made from plastic. I understand vegans believe we humans should not harm creatures for our pleasure (style, food, etc.). But vegan shoes (and handbags) put plastic into the oceans and landfills, so creatures are still being harmed. I hadn't given much thought to my beloved sneakers being mostly plastic. Food for thought. I will have to rethink the sneakers I buy. Thanks for your channel.
There are many vegan shoe and handbag options now that are not “plastic” (or are made from recycled plastic) and are beautiful! You just have to look for them.
As a vegan I weigh up the impact of everything I consume carefully. My main aim is not to eat anything made from animals because that is very much a daily decision that could cause the greatest harm. In the same way I try to buy my food plastic- free. My shoes are a quite different matter. I usually buy my hiking boots every seven years or so. Even if they are leather they often have plastic elements (for example - the soles). I wear canvas pumps throughout summer and they generally stay looking nice for several summers. They are machine-washable too! It is a challenge to be plastic-free. I imagine even you find it challenging to find berries in cardboard containers or to buy all your daily groceries plastic free. I'm incredulous that people always zoom in on vegans and the plastic shoes they may, or likely don't, buy once every few years.
I have many vegan shoes. They are made with textiles.
So true what you say about Louboutins. Unless you’re wearing all black or all cherry red, the red sole tends to really clash with a lot of outfits.
Please make a video talking about elegant hair styles for women… 😊
Only if she include women of color. There women of color all over the world including where she lives in Norway.
I just binged your channel, i love your personality. Very honest and you have many tips I've not seen on other channels that reiterate rules my grandma and mother followed. Love it ❤
I am very petite (5'0") and hardly ever wear flats, but the thing is when it comes to a heel, a platform is much more comfortable. I like it best when they are an inner platform (meaning covered with leather and built into the shoe rather than stuck on the bottom) and this type of shoe does not have the look of stripper heels which is an extreme look. I've heard this before about platforms, and if comfort wasn't an issue, I like the look of sleeker shoes better probably, but they kill my feet in a fraction of the time.
I have never worn these ugly shoes, so I do not have to stop wearing any of them. Thank you for the video, agree with you.
Sounds like you've always had an eye for elegance!
@@MademoiselleSpends I wear what is attractive, not detracting. Learned from My mother who was born in 1921 and Nana, Aunt and Great Aunt. I give credit to them.
I’m so happy I found your channel! Keep thriving! ♥️
What I noticed about your makeup is the LACK of it. I am 68, and completely agree with this. It took me years to get here. When I was young, I wore WAY too much makeup, instead of just accenting my natural beauty. Now it's just a touch of concealer for my under eye circles, some cream blush, eyebrow pencil, and lipstick. For evening, I add a touch of eye shadow and mascara. And that's it! Oh, and sunscreen moisturizer - I have worn this for 40 years! By the way, Vivaia shoes are lovely, and they make them in Narrow width, if you need them! How refreshing! If you are also a Narrow foot, you could try Vaneli, although they are a bit pricey! (I get them vintage). For sneakers, I always order a regular width, but one half size up, allowing for movement when you walk fast, and, because you can pull the laces tighter, this pretty much takes care of the width issue. If you were a narrow width and ordered narrow in sneakers, you would find that the shoes would fit too tightly with a sport sock. I keep praying that shoe manufacturers don't stop making Narrow width shoes. They seem so hard to find!
in retirement my solution to not finding narrow has been the less than elegant but very comfy SLIDE in shoe with no back. That Vivaia sling back might work also.
Wide shoes are hard to come by as well.
i still love sneakers esp new balance. I have to be comfy when i work and travel. I agree with most
Please make a video on hairstyles. Many thanks for putting into words what we knew but didn’t know the “why’s”. Super!
Yes, please review Vivia! =)
Thank you for the great content!
Great tips for those who like the "French", elegant, classy style but could never get it right. Of course there's no law that you should always look like that. Maybe that's just not who you are. Maybe you're an artist or an athlete or into subculture and that's ok! I never realized about the "teacher boots" btw, didn't even know that they're called that, so thank you
I love your videos! I just ran across your channel yesterday, and I am enjoying it so much. I tend to be adventurous with my clothing choices and I do not always dress elegantly (sometimes I do), but I love fashion of all kinds and I love learning more about it all the time. Knowing all the ins and outs of the different looks and how to create them helps me make good choices, and helps me create the kind of vibe I'm going for every day. Thank you!
I have to defend Birkenstock a little-they offer a model called Madrid, which can look casual yet still elegant and feminine, especially in the big buckle version. The Arizonas mentioned in the video are just one of their designs. While they are iconic, I have to agree that they are indeed chunky :)
oui oui!
l also defend my Birkenstock Gizehs. If wearing them for example in gold its not elegant, but a kind of comfortable chic. Ok, for me..🤷♀️😉
Birkenstocks rock. Anywhere. Subvert the norm.@@j.p.p.1964
I don't wear Birkenstocks, but they look fine. I find it a bit ironic that the sandals she suggests instead don't look less chunky and are much less attractive.
You should make some practical videos about the elagant look for the budget .. with h&m amazon etc links. So we can shop there and you can earn some affiliate commission
The complete professional wardrobe for a serious woman. love it
Feeling validated. The sneakers and birkenstocks I have refused to wear 😂
I would love a Vivía review! ❤ Thank you for your videos, they're great.
No one will make me hate high heels. NO ONE!!!!
No one will make me wear flats 🥿 they give me a back ache!
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Nothing wrong with heels, it's the type of heel that makes something elegant or not. You can wear heels- platform heels are not necessarily elegant though
I miss mine wore them until 50, it was flip flops and mud that hurt my ankle I must try to get back into them! Everything chic and tailored and elegant but the shoe, that is my look!
@@ashleymatthews683 I was best dressed in a very important office! I knew how to do it just right, solid colors, not much jewelry but if I had a good heel that was on sale, yeah. never had a debt either! My entire look was compared to Catherine Denerve. Most wear too much jewelry or fake nails, not me, never it has to be just right! And a red lipstick. In retirement I am in the garden. Get Crocs or similar for gardening!
I just took a pick of the VIVAIA shoes and they have very nice and chic models. I will try a pair!
I was in France in early July and saw lots Birkenstocks on many women.
But were they elegant? 😉
Tourists
@ninjacat508 nope, they were not tourists.
I think so many people missed the point of this video.
This was not a "shoes you can never wear" video.
This was a "shoes you should never wear IF you're trying to dress in an elegant style" video.
No one says EVERYONE has to dress elegant, or that YOU have to dress elegant, or that elegant is the only acceptable style.
The level of defensiveness from the whole comment section is wild.
I just received this video by accident, really love it, I AGREE with everything you just said, I do not understood the representation of classic of Harry’s wife, there is a lot of better classics woman representation out there, THANK YOU.
I couldn't agree more with this entire video. Great post!!
❤ & 😂 - I was once asked by an acquaintance how I felt about the latest fashion in platform shoes - this was a few years ago - and had to work very hard to NOT utter my instinct feeling: These shoes made her look like the wrong kind of pro! 😂
Great info! Thanks! ☺️
Would you consider doing a video showcasing elegant shoe brands that have offerings to females with larger feet? 🦶🦶 😬🙏
Merci 🙋🏻♀️ I loved this video. Can’t wait to see your next one 🥰
Love watching your videos. You express each point very well. Thank you for this great content
I’m pretty sure she meant specifically the LARGE, clunky plastic shoe. If plastic were used in the style of any of the elegant style shoes she talked about, that wouldn’t matter, I’m sure she’d say. She wasn’t talking snobby here by naming brands that we should buy; she was just giving examples of elegant styles.
Thank you very much for this advise. Great tips to follow.
Thank you for watching!
I really love this series! And your videos are amazing! Please keep it up!
Oh, gone are the days when I could wear, walk, Greek dance and even run in my beautiful high heels. Right up to my mid, late-50s, I was fine. But as an ex University librarian of 30+ years, I always wore low, comfortable shoes, as my library had lots of stairs and endless reshelving of books, so comfy shoes were a must. I'm now 62 and no longer working as I am riddled with arthritis, 🙄 vile lower lumbar back pain, and, in my knees and feet. I've just had two knee replacements, and I can no longer wear my beautiful shoes.💔😭
Just asking. . . much time spent explaining how AWFUL plastic shoes are. . . what do you think VEGAN LEATHER is?
It doesn’t really matter because they have to wear something if they won’t wear leather.
I think she’s talking about how the look of most plastic shoes appears cheap. Vegan leather if it’s well made looks like leather. She’s talking more about the appearance in this context.
I think she could do better with calling audiences to action in advocating for more sustainable options at affordable levels-there are mushroom, pineapple husk, cork, and cacti, based vegan leathers if you can find the brands doing it.
However usually being that in the know when it comes to sustainable/ethical fashion is a sort of luxury in itself.
And I assume a French woman living in Norway who can comment on fashion as an influencer is in a very different circle and perhaps even income bracket for standard of living than most of the average viewers of this channel who probably don't come from such places of tradition and relative standards of wealth.
So while I appreciate her subtlety in confronting a lot of much needed issue like consumerism in fast fashion and it's environmental impacts, I think we all benefit from learning and more squarely addressing the root environmental and economic factors beyond just brushing into them with product and aesthetics as the core focus of the videos too.
Vegan leather doesn’t have to be plastic anymore. It’s not everywhere yet, but mushroom leather and pineapple leather have been around for maybe a decade.
It obviously went over your head if you think she doesn’t have the ability to understand it’s a different different material and it’s probably probably made of something like that
Yes please do a review of VIVAIA🤩 I've been thinking for a long time of buying
Bought my first pair of Vivaia flats a couple of months ago.
My only real complaint would be the “no blister” pad at the back, which actually gave me the worst blisters ever. The fake suede inside produced balls of lint that made my skin blister within 15 minutes during my first wear; they even rubbed holes into the protective skin tape I applied, and dislodged bandaids. I advise applying some friction prevention cream (got a stick from the pharmacy), VERY GENEROUSLY, so that it absorbs into the fake-suede fabric over the first few wears.
Another minus would be that there’s no genuine leather at all, and I find the interior of shoes much more comfortable and breathable with leather insoles and lining.
But they definitely feel great in the front part, especially not compressing my bunion. The rubber sole feels a bit heavy, but absorbs shock pretty well. Now that they don’t skin my heel raw, they’re great flats, and very stylish ✨
I have 4 different styles of Vivaia shoes. They are absolutely lovely and comfortable! ❤
I love my Vivaia. Very comfortable. They should sponsor a video!
I love your channel! Very helpful with elegant, classy and respectable dressing. Thank you for reminding and informing others about modesty.
The rules are good, but they are a tad too conservative. The chunky boots can be part of a classy silouette, with the right coat and pants. And for the height of the heel, i think too low is as bad as too high. No one under the age of 70 would want to have Queen Elizabeth vibe in those 5 cm pumps.
I agreed with you. I personally don't find LV hand bags pretty at all. The uggs boots I wore them for the amazing comfort
Yes, please do a review! ✨
Yes, I’m interested in hearing what they’re like in real life before ordering any. Thanks!
Love your videos! ❤
I'm gonna start saying, "professional type of sexy" 😂 I love it. It's great
Enjoyed your common sense video on what to avoid to look elegant.
It really depends on your lifestyle. I love my new balance 990v5. I wear it when I walk my dog or when I go food shopping. Of course I also wear sling backs, Mary Janes and boots when I go out but most of the shoes you’ve shown is either tacky or doesn’t suit many body types.
I think she did not refer to dog walking, or gardening (Crocs). That said, having worked for many years in France, their elegant shoes are designed for walking long distances, over cobblestone streets and up and down a lot of stairs. This means the arch is supported, the sole has discreet padding and the angle at ball of feet is not as sharp, even if the heel is high. The wonderful thing is that because they are easy to walk in, people walk A LOT. Taking elevators for less than three floors is considered morally lax. So, overall, you will see far fewer people having a certain body type.
There are certainly situations where being elegant is not a priority. For some people, it's never a priority. If being comfortable is your priority, go for it, especially when it comes to your feet. JMO, of course.
I live in Toronto and have noticed lately (since the pandemic) that sneakers, even chunky ones, are much more acceptable in the office. Even senior lawyers wear them sometimes to see clients, which I have a hard time doing myself. I wear sneakers to walk to work but change into more elegant shoes when I get there.
I do own shoes in flashy colours but always in a classic style.
@@valerina01 The white sneaker (even clunky) are seen much more often since the pandemic in non-casual and non-sporty situations. However, senior lawyers in Toronto meeting clients is a surprise. Was surprised to see so many young women in dresses and large white sneakers in Italy last year and this, but they looked put-together and comfortable, though not exactly elegant.
@@hm4184 to be fair, I am referring to in-house corporate lawyers, not senior partners at law firms. But then again, the men hardly wear ties anymore so the whole business vibe is much more casual. Maybe the pendulum will swing back.
The movie references are excellent
Thank you for the advice! I've watched a few of your videos now and I am going to try to incorporate as many of your suggestions as possible.
I naturally gravitate towards the grunge clothing and shoes because of my body and foot shapes, is most comfortable for me, but I've been trying to wear more classy and becoming clothing as I am older now and not aging gracefully so my looks alone don't flatter me at all.
I need my clothing to help me out a little lol
Thank you so much for this video. I have been transitioning to cleaner, classier items of clothing and footwear to simplify my life and was feeling like my lack of enthusiasm for overly high heels was just because I can not walk comfortably in them. Though I applauded those who can. Thank you for the contentand showing that classy and comfortable can co exist. ❤
Thank you for your kind message! I am happy you are finding a way a dressing that feels aligned ♥
Loved the video
Happy to have found your channel honestly. Thank you for sharing and being a breath of fresh air ❤
Thank you for your kind words!
I think I found what I needed for years. Thank you a lot for your videos.
I HIGHLY recommend Jeneba Barrie (she is also a lawyer) shoes; I own two pairs since I tan easily to match my skin in summer and winter. She offers a very large range of skin tones, in multiple heel heights including flats. I ordered the leather swatch book (the cost is credited to your first order) to be sure I got the best match. The shoes are beautifully made.
I just took a look at her site. What a fantastic recommendation, thank you! I love her innovation of the leather swatch.
Totally with you about all the points ❤
the shoes you note are nice but I would NEVER pay that for a shoe, always get last seasons at deep discount for any sort of shoe. I was best dressed but also I never pay full price!
Hi dear, I loved this video! Just wanted to say that your videos are always so interesting and you can really sit back, enjoy and have a cup of tea and enjoy girly time haha😍💕 perfect for all women who enjoy fashion and elegance!
Thank you so much for your kind words!
You have the prettiest hair ever!!
Yes, please do a review for the shoes you ordered. Love your videos.
2:58 I'm sorry, but if you really need to walk a LOT, these sandals aren't comfortable at all (maybe if you have flatfoot). These slide-on sandals are only good to pop in and out of the car, maybe walk a few blocks in the city. I get that shoes with thick soles are never going to give that chic look, but this is where it's not worth looking elegant, if you're feet are going to hurt at the end of the day.
I do like 40s style platform shoes which have a minimal platform. Not sure if they are “elegant” but they seem elegant to me if worn with the right dress or slacks. Though Marilyn was steered away from her platform favorites by the very elegant (almost stifling elegant) Amy Greene. I love the black peep toe 40s “platforms”, and also summer reasonable platform sandals. And for fun loved Marilyn’s lucite ribbon platform sandals, and these were worn only for cheesecake photos. But definetly not the ones shown here. They look like hooves to me and very stripper.
I'll fess up. I came here for self validation. Agree, agree, agree! The lace-up boots can go a number of ways, I think. If they are the dainty type, then they give off Mary Poppins vibes. They can bring a pop of feminine vintage to an outfit.
Well said! Love your tips! I agree with everything… your elegance tips are spot on . Thank you!
I have watched many elegant videos non compares to the settled silent style you mention I love it
Wonderful video. So far, I'm making good choices.
Please do a video of brand recommendations for elegant shoes, accessories, and clothing! You mentioned a few but I’d love to learn more! A lot of products sold in America are not comfortable or well made and it’s hard to where to buy from!
Check, check, check. You are right on all accounts.
Thank you so much for all this information and advice. You present it in such a lovely way too 😊
Excellent choices. Yet,I use platform boots and platform sandals which are aesthetic,not very high and definetelly not chunky.They are very comfortable and I can walk fast with them
great tips, thank you! I agree with all you said.
Bonjour Ariane,
Merci infiniment pour votre vlog !
Pourriez-vous s'il vous plaît faire une vidéo dédiée aux sorties et et les sacs de soirée pour aller à l'opéra (de Versailles) ?
I fit in perfectly, except for the flip flops I live near the beach in California. The rest of the shoes make me gag.
I wish I could remember who said this first so I can give credit, but it is true:
You can be Classy and Sexy, but you can't be Sexy and Classy.
Could you please make a video on classy hairstyles?
I love your video's! Thank you so much!!
I agree with you.
Fashion is art.
Great video!❤
Vous etes tres charmante.. merci pour ces bonnes informations. Je regarde votre videos comme des fables. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I never understood the concept of heavy duty hiking boots with a heel on them. Like, what are you? A sexy hiker? Or does it give an advantage to hiking uphill? 😄
I agree with you an all the things
Even though I understand what your saying. Unfortunately elegant ladies will not look elegant if they wear stiletto pumps their young life because once they reach a certain age their feet will be mangled and not be able to work beautifully. So I disagree because in the modern world women are not just home all the time. Today they are working going to workouts, errands, etc. so thankfully there are so many styles that fit the occasion and women can look beautiful and elegant in a chunky comfortable sneaker.
Plastic is not ok, but Vivaie (shoes that you just order and very happy because that) is ok? Vivaie is made of plastic bottle. From Vivaie offical site: "The double "V" and "A" represent our diverse shoe designs. The double "I" symbolizes the plastic bottles we recycle to produce our shoes. Combined, it's who we are-VIVAIA." Sorry, but no sense at all.😏
I think it's fine to call out contradictions and am glad people are speaking out on plastic waste, or even acknowledge that budgets don't always make quality goods accessible for everyone. Obviously it's not good and natural materials would be priority, and maybe it's just her taking a "least bad" sponsorship the way many influencers want to support mental health but take on a troubled company like Better Health.
But you have to acknowledge there's conscious choice and difference in the assessment when most companies simply generate fast, one-time use disposable apparel from raw materials vs. a company that makes a choice to center their operations around removing plastic from the waste stream at least once more to make their product while also possibly hoping to shift common industry practice.
One is a conventional consumptive business model, the latter has potential to become what's called a regenerative business model if it has something akin to a circular economy business model, they may even make their shoes recyclable or reclaim them at the end of product life as well to adapt and repurpose those materials again to continue diverting waste.
So I can imagine being able to extend discernment and consciousness into the notion of elegance being a fair consideration when overall it's about tactfully putting things into a more authentic relationship with signaling that more than meets the eye over flashy faddish choices.
@@keptthekisses
I understand and agree with you. I myself wear Vivaie and in general I have no doubts about the benefits, but in a video like this I only see it as the next sponsor of Vivaie. After that I wait for Lily Silk and then we have the standard "yt fashion with style" picture. :)
@@keptthekissesit isn’t a sponsored video, as she said. The issues with Better Help are old btw, please don’t spread misinformation.
I have Gabor sandales with a little bit of plateau....1 thumb thick.....because I need them....every thinner sole is poor torture, because of arthritis in my toes. I love them very much, because they allowe me to keep fresh feet in summer!!! Sorry ....I will not sacrifice my good mood and joy of life to elegant shoes, that put me in pain❤
honestly, great choice... comfort over fashion anyday!!
No one said you had to?