Too Dumb To Level Up (Tough Love)

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Komentáře • 433

  • @sol_di_14
    @sol_di_14 Před 3 lety +556

    We should be grateful of the time this woman takes to remind us and repeat to us all of this information

    • @firetiger2107
      @firetiger2107 Před 3 lety +19

      Extremely grateful

    • @gloriamaiga2786
      @gloriamaiga2786 Před 3 lety +5

      Sol Diestra I feel you deeply. Unfortunately some people only appreciate the best things when they are gone!

    • @lovelyone1675
      @lovelyone1675 Před 2 lety +4

      Same here!! It’s like she gives you the permission to be great!! I’ve spent my whole life trying not to seem like l was too high on myself as not to make women feel uncomfortable around me or have men be intimidated. Such a waste of my time!!!

    • @sol_di_14
      @sol_di_14 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lovelyone1675 same! But they're mad if you don't do anything too (they call you lazy). It's like they want you to try and fail but not be lazy, not try and win. I feel this way haha

  • @crystalseed.422.4
    @crystalseed.422.4 Před 3 lety +561

    Shera changed my entire vibration and goals and life entirely

    • @deeluxeee
      @deeluxeee Před 3 lety +9

      I agree

    • @jessepera2457
      @jessepera2457 Před 3 lety +8

      Absolutely me too.

    • @deeluxeee
      @deeluxeee Před 3 lety +21

      @@jessepera2457 Yay us!! Like seriously learned that your thoughts alone can just change your life path dramatically

    • @jessepera2457
      @jessepera2457 Před 3 lety +13

      @@deeluxeee I always wanted to level up but didn't know what it was called or even how to do it.

    • @brookepeoples6197
      @brookepeoples6197 Před 3 lety +5

      SAME!

  • @kendraquinn5034
    @kendraquinn5034 Před 3 lety +420

    I am BEYOND grateful for this Women’s existence !!!

  • @anitrajohnson7789
    @anitrajohnson7789 Před 3 lety +297

    One thing is for certain...no one stays dumb forever. Life has a way of teaching you the lessons you need. Leveling up is a process that takes time.

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 Před 3 lety +223

    It is a privilege to be a woman. Even in many cultures the woman leaves her original family and becomes a member of her husband's family. Leveling up is easier than you think.

  • @sassysucculent6291
    @sassysucculent6291 Před 3 lety +299

    Man I wish I would have had someone to tell me these things when I was 18-20. Such a simple concept. We make it hard. I appreciate her honesty on all subjects, so much. In a world full of lies and BS, her brutal truth is so damn refreshing

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess Před 3 lety +8

      This is not a simple concept. This is genius.

    • @sassysucculent6291
      @sassysucculent6291 Před 3 lety +26

      @@keepcreationprocess hunny we are genius ! We have just been programmed to be dumb

    • @Fireyamfooled
      @Fireyamfooled Před 3 lety +4

      I second this

    • @Cinder1987
      @Cinder1987 Před 3 lety +25

      Most of us had no idea about all of this at 18-20. That’s ok and a part of the learning process and finally leveling up. As long as we figure it all out and not allow it again in the present or future.

    • @saqueradry3629
      @saqueradry3629 Před 3 lety +2

      @Tasha Easley same happened to me. Smdh. Except I didn’t have a mother at all

  • @melliGumsl
    @melliGumsl Před 3 lety +502

    A relationship should be 50/50: I exist, he worships

  • @desireemckenneyrobinson6539

    I agree! Beauty is always acknowledged. Most museums are free, so any old bum can admire the priceless peices of Art. Forbid he try to take it off the wall. That's the same with you and your assets.

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 5 měsíci +6

    “If they’re not jealous, something is wrong with you” 🤦🏾‍♀️😫

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 Před 3 lety +66

    Shera is an incarnation of Venus.

  • @PittontheMove
    @PittontheMove Před 3 lety +64

    That exactly describes me, “book smart but no common sense”. I’m smart but stupid when it comes to real life.

    • @rahman.1339
      @rahman.1339 Před 8 měsíci +2

      As were so many....

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Look at the last few years. No common sense at all. I was astonished at people 🤣

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing Před 3 lety +107

    She definitely puts me up on a more strategic way of going about things.

    • @channelmerchdontleavecasho4420
      @channelmerchdontleavecasho4420 Před 3 lety

      OH, No; "You Got My Girl Lisa Phillips; NOooooooooooooo!!!!!! DaYuuuuuuMMMMM !!!!!!!!! OOOOOOOhhhhhh, Nooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
      @LisaSoulLevelHealing Před 3 lety

      @@channelmerchdontleavecasho4420 hahaha. I dont focus on the money part (I've dated too many guys with money to think that's the end all), but the games men have been playing and being more feminine and strategic about it- oh yes.

  • @tyranmayes
    @tyranmayes Před 3 lety +92

    I recently started jogging in the richer neighborhoods & have had lots of head turning reactions. Can’t wait until the weather is warm to start making calculated solo dates attract myself a richer gentleman 🙃

    • @vashhLOVE
      @vashhLOVE Před měsícem

      I know this is old but what where you wearing because I run in the rich hoods too and I’m tryna get same results

  • @hamidahbakali1017
    @hamidahbakali1017 Před 3 lety +79

    I checked all these faminine channels and I can tell most of them copy from shera and most don't give game like shera

  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna Před 3 lety +102

    Dr Myles Munroe also believed in men being sole providers and their women being pampered and spoiled....he is not a bad man to listen to

  • @mothmama4116
    @mothmama4116 Před 3 lety +58

    Shera, I love how you can take this negative conditioning that women receive for so long and help them turn it into something realistic and powerful. We can create so much success with just a shift in our perspective.

  • @TheSuzieChicTV
    @TheSuzieChicTV Před 2 lety +35

    This woman is a national treasure.

  • @Gaudyaesthetic
    @Gaudyaesthetic Před 2 lety +36

    There was a motherly love that exuded from her when she told that 24 year old girl to be free and have fun 💗💗💗

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 Před 3 lety +74

    Men also marry just for eye candy.

  • @praisehonorfaith7293
    @praisehonorfaith7293 Před 3 lety +56

    Shera is the mother I wish I had..... my CZcams mother

  • @jessicaeve2169
    @jessicaeve2169 Před rokem +18

    Read "Why Men Love Bitches" it will answer ALL the questions about men and engagement.

  • @Eshabee
    @Eshabee Před 3 lety +69

    I been single and celibrate for 8 yrs now and I won’t break my celibacy until I start to level up and meet someone I would consider to married. But my level up game is very mental I have it down pack in my head I just have to go shopping for new clothes so I could look good for dates. Until then I will continue to learn about this leveling up game.

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Před 3 lety +30

      Date meanwhile..8 years is a long time to not be interacting with men .the game changes when you take yourself out of it .

    • @Eshabee
      @Eshabee Před 3 lety +3

      @@Thekingsdota ok. thanks for the advice

    • @TereseLeigh
      @TereseLeigh Před 3 lety +8

      @@Thekingsdota Great advice. Gotta keep those dating/relationship skills active and sharp!

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Před 3 lety +11

      @@TereseLeigh i learned the hard way .took a 2 year break and when I got back on the scene damn if I didn't adapt quick I would have been fooder !Now I date at least 3 lol!

    • @TereseLeigh
      @TereseLeigh Před 3 lety +2

      @@Thekingsdota 🙌🏾

  • @Cinder1987
    @Cinder1987 Před 3 lety +69

    Whole lot of Dusty’s are good in the bed. But, that’s all they have. No good for long term.

    • @Cinder1987
      @Cinder1987 Před 3 lety +3

      @Tasha Easley 👀very true.

    • @realpristine
      @realpristine Před 3 lety +2

      Lmaooo facts!!

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Před 3 lety +10

      Better to get a vibrator and leave dusties out of the equation permanently

  • @fung8978
    @fung8978 Před 3 lety +36

    You truly have saved my life I want to thank you from my heart I was lost and confused and when I saw your videos it all made sense I was thinking more about him than me and that’s when he decided to mess with me I no longer care what he does this is true freedom . Thank you again

  • @PortugueseGirl27
    @PortugueseGirl27 Před 3 lety +37

    Three hours of sacred female mantra. I love it ❤️ 100%
    Thank you from Portugal 🇵🇹

  • @scurryfunge7608
    @scurryfunge7608 Před rokem +17

    I like how Shera's lipstick complements the pink in her shirt. This is such a cohesive and sophisticated look! 🤍🌷

  • @maryyybiegle8859
    @maryyybiegle8859 Před 8 měsíci +10

    I never wanted for someone to be famous as much as Shera. Her word should be teached in school

  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna Před 3 lety +88

    You gave some much needed tough love. I wrote down a plan ...how im going to dress, how im going to speak, where im going to go, and what i want my man to provide .....

    • @rayrayndiema
      @rayrayndiema Před 2 lety +4

      How’s it going? I hope really well

  • @dchrysostom
    @dchrysostom Před 3 lety +34

    Thank you... My self worth and self esteem is back because of you....

  • @angelstarxo
    @angelstarxo Před 3 lety +95

    I was too dumb last week, Shera!! Can't believe lol enough is enough

    • @saqueradry3629
      @saqueradry3629 Před 3 lety +24

      Don’t feel bad. I’ve been dumb for the last 5 years knowing better

    • @nicolespin4930
      @nicolespin4930 Před 3 lety +11

      Same here....won’t do it again but I’m dusting myself off

  • @Jeniffer61867
    @Jeniffer61867 Před 3 lety +30

    Her facial expressions are so amazing and have changed.

  • @breheart7510
    @breheart7510 Před 3 lety +53

    Hi Shera, I just wanted to reach out and thank you for the tough love. I used to wonder why I was so unhappy if I knew I was beautiful and deserved greatness in life. I was not leveled up and your videos really made me look in the mirror and change everything I knew about life. I’m finally happy and stick up for myself like never before! Sprinkle, sprinkle 😉

  • @lifeisall488
    @lifeisall488 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Being married myself i can tell you its all a game either you play or be played its never ending 😂 men are just very different then women we cant approach the same qay we will ourselves

  • @monicaharrison7795
    @monicaharrison7795 Před 3 lety +24

    “make up an ex stick him in the picture and kill him, no one had to know if he was real or not” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the best!!!!!

  • @marymary-vg2ts
    @marymary-vg2ts Před 3 lety +23

    It's never too late. Every right decision comes through the divine.

  • @amilllion1
    @amilllion1 Před 3 lety +30

    Was wondering why all the guys my age are dusty!!! Too young 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ikandee1
    @ikandee1 Před 3 lety +26

    Sheraseven1 is right level up all the way . Mentally , physically and spiritually . For months i have watched sheraseve1 and what she says is so true .

  • @Maimmarei
    @Maimmarei Před rokem +15

    Shera you’re smart and way developed for our generation, i hope society comes back to their mind ❤

  • @feliznavidad6958
    @feliznavidad6958 Před 2 lety +14

    My challenges are that people approach me with so much prejudice and assumptions, I cannot dumb myself down (and hate stupid men which sucks because I'm starting to realize that most of them are just above the line for mentally disabled), and guys always assume I'm taken or act insecure and tell me I'm out of their league when I've barely opened my mouth (and this was before I wore makeup).

  • @jewelshine2187
    @jewelshine2187 Před 3 lety +24

    The what if questions is mental barriers already in place...ask what if I level up and do this..most of it is mental, we all struggle but speak positive first...think positive first..tell yourself what you would tell a young child you want to great..its a daily chore, which then turns to habit..read positive affirmations get a vision board, write goals down, start small and build your mind to match how you want to be perceived...

  • @TT-jg8ju
    @TT-jg8ju Před 3 lety +43

    Sprinkle sprinkle🙃

  • @JamrockRose
    @JamrockRose Před 3 lety +19

    You look preppy and studious in that top and back ground. Love it!

  • @honeydove_4844
    @honeydove_4844 Před 11 měsíci +6

    It’s been 4 years thus far transitioning my mind to obtain a certain lifestyle..still not there but still going

  • @cookie4uc
    @cookie4uc Před 3 lety +14

    You can learn the easy way or the hard way!. I am so grateful for Shera . Change your mind....change your life.

  • @Diamondbstyles
    @Diamondbstyles Před 3 lety +24

    This video is everything. Leveling up is a must 😃

  • @CandyPinkcake
    @CandyPinkcake Před 3 lety +27

    I don’t think love exists anyways. No guy ever showed me they loved me

  • @valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179

    “I’m calling to see if your dental work is okay”😂🤣

  • @cannesbrianna
    @cannesbrianna Před 3 lety +13

    This is just overflowing with gems

  • @stellakamau6994
    @stellakamau6994 Před 3 lety +31

    I really enjoyed this live Shera. You dropped some major knowledge and the group chat was lit 😁😛

  • @Tampatsmi
    @Tampatsmi Před 3 lety +18

    Cash in hand = Reaction 👍🏽💓

  • @aspiringfemininity8626
    @aspiringfemininity8626 Před 3 lety +63

    This is some top tier advice. Thank you shera! My CZcams mom🥰 Im only 18 but Im learning so much!

  • @adaofcharles1217
    @adaofcharles1217 Před rokem +7

    God bless the day I came across your video Shera, I have so much work to do.

  • @chillchill1711
    @chillchill1711 Před rokem +8

    what a lovely message to all women

  • @shanabishop6798
    @shanabishop6798 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you so much I just enjoy listening to you talk in the background I wish I could’ve found this channel years ago

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 Před 3 lety +11

    Her Tough love videos are my faaaavvv♥️♥️👌🏾

  • @tequilabumbum4373
    @tequilabumbum4373 Před rokem +10

    Im so grateful that Shera takes time to answer ALL of our questions she gets, and in dept, no metter how dumb 😂❤️

  • @soldier_of_love
    @soldier_of_love Před 3 lety +18

    How I get schooled in the first 5 mins more than I have in my whole life. Thanks for the confirmation. I was just saying I need courage to follow my goddess given common sense. Can we get a video at starting back at square one?😥😆🙌🏽🙏🏾🌹

  • @cUser691
    @cUser691 Před 3 lety +9

    “Book Smarts” and “Common Sense” aren’t mutually exclusive, Shera. That means one can have both [or neither]lol

  • @ashyboo24ify
    @ashyboo24ify Před rokem +1

    I was brought to this video at the right time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and I am beyond grateful 😇 😇 thank you for helping me fix my crown 👑

  • @therealist9853
    @therealist9853 Před 3 lety +4

    I love you, is an understatement.. These words are facts👌Thank you Shera💜

  • @shebacynn1320
    @shebacynn1320 Před 3 lety +7

    I'm crying😂 Shera you have a lie for everything and a cover up too!

  • @universallove3038
    @universallove3038 Před 3 lety +13

    You're so cute been a fan for about a year now I use different emails but anywho I'm grateful 🙏 to have found such a wonderful mentor .. 💗

  • @charityredd9302
    @charityredd9302 Před 3 lety +17

    I respect you

  • @naomiarcega8426
    @naomiarcega8426 Před 3 lety +12

    This is my first time watching one of your videos and it has already changed my perspective on how I view things and setting up what I want to do in life. And I am starting to learn about what you’ve been saying. Thank you!

  • @daniellegates1354
    @daniellegates1354 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for the words of wisdom

  • @jeniod-6534
    @jeniod-6534 Před 2 lety +6

    for real tho... idk why I can listen to Shera for hours but when I watch others who talk about manifestations and level up, I'd just lose interest for the first few seconds 😝

  • @mikapettigrew5675
    @mikapettigrew5675 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you 🙏🏾 shera

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 Před 3 lety +5

    I love shera she is very helpful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Před rokem +5

    Common sense > book smart.
    2:43 marriage was traditionally to join two families for wealth. Poor people only married for what they *thought* was love
    3:58 romance movies created to appeal to people with no wealth/ poverty

  • @easoteric
    @easoteric Před rokem +4

    she has risen

  • @vivi268614
    @vivi268614 Před 3 lety +2

    Great Advice like always!

  • @anabelelizalde0926
    @anabelelizalde0926 Před 3 lety +5

    U are amazing im soo happy i came along ur channel 💕💕💕👌👌👌

  • @joyobas7477
    @joyobas7477 Před 3 lety +3

    I love yr idea soo much thank u👏👏👌👌

  • @100XPercentX
    @100XPercentX Před 3 lety +13

    Just listening and learning from you I felt like I was leveling up. You put what I already know into perfect words lol. I'm glad this came to me which is no coincidence. Thank you. Although I have no intentions to marry or any of that other stuff

  • @MaraMarieBeauty
    @MaraMarieBeauty Před 3 lety +14

    I’ve already watched this one 3 times I love the clipboard!

  • @dank12able
    @dank12able Před 3 lety +4

    The BEST video! 💛🌻🔑🧚🏾

  • @layszn6434
    @layszn6434 Před 3 lety +3

    Love your videos thank you

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Před rokem +13

    31:25 think outside of the box to create what you want in this world. You have been PROGRAMMED
    Emotions are temporary, decisions are permanent

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks shera

  • @givenchymuse5444
    @givenchymuse5444 Před 3 lety +34

    Where to freestyle during covid most fancy restaurant bars are closed😭
    Covid making me stuggle $ wise. Any suggestions😩💋

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess Před 3 lety +4

      No

    • @claudiaenlightened3672
      @claudiaenlightened3672 Před 3 lety +21

      Restaraunts with outside seating, boats, golf, go shopping, take a mini weekend trip w him

    • @WelcometoAshLand
      @WelcometoAshLand Před 3 lety +22

      High end grocery store, department store jewelery fragrance and accessories section, high end sporting goods (Patagonia, North Face), car wash, etc. Think outside the box but high end.

    • @praisehonorfaith7293
      @praisehonorfaith7293 Před 3 lety +1

      Wherever the rich are

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 5 měsíci

    “Backward thinking 💭 “ has tricked me out want I really want. Hopefully 🤞🏾 it’s not too late to try again 🙏🏾

  • @AshaMaat
    @AshaMaat Před 7 měsíci

    This video is so relaxing

  • @TheBlackGeisha
    @TheBlackGeisha Před 3 lety +8

    This describes one of my friend girls🥺😬 I just let her be🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @missarmiller78
    @missarmiller78 Před 3 lety +7

    I love u more and more as I find more of your videos that speak to me. LoL

  • @starridiamond
    @starridiamond Před 3 lety +4

    Such a good video 👍❣

  • @dayinibatrisyia5424
    @dayinibatrisyia5424 Před 2 měsíci

    Listening Shera in commuting to work

  • @niam185
    @niam185 Před 3 lety +4

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 the title made my day

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 Před rokem +2

    Needed this video

  • @zellaqueen
    @zellaqueen Před 11 měsíci +6

    Shera for president!!
    Encarcerate the dusties & pickmeshas🤣

  • @noragrey2205
    @noragrey2205 Před rokem +4

    only fools spend on luxury items and don’t own anything!

  • @samantha8343
    @samantha8343 Před 7 měsíci

    “Wait til his phone pop up with the u spent this much money then delete it” LMFAOO that’s exactly what I used to do with my SD😂🤣

  • @lc-il6wr
    @lc-il6wr Před rokem +2

    I don't lust..I LUV!

  • @fluermor..
    @fluermor.. Před rokem +4

    This is what my grandma called me because she had Alzheimer’s 😅💀😂😂😂😂😂

  • @carolynwilliams4926
    @carolynwilliams4926 Před 3 lety +7

    He has no plans to marry her.

  • @JP-dc6fu
    @JP-dc6fu Před 2 lety +2

    Sprinkle them jewels 💎

  • @MsTwilightSpeaks
    @MsTwilightSpeaks Před rokem +2

    This title is sending Me 😂😂😂😂

  • @dchrysostom
    @dchrysostom Před 3 lety +6

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙂🙂🙂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you are too funny...I need a friend like you ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’m laughing so hard... “eat less” who got money “ old men”” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @goddesswildred2087
    @goddesswildred2087 Před rokem +1

    Love Love Love

  • @schnioula
    @schnioula Před 3 lety +11

    EAT LESS!!! 😂😭

  • @heystupidwakeup4705
    @heystupidwakeup4705 Před 3 lety +1

    A day to be loved