It’s The Variety Show!!! Ask Carly… Atlanta Influencers Edition!
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2023
- Thank you to our guests for coming along for the ride!! We tried something a little different…and we had a ball! It was a party y’all!! Sometimes you have to let your hair down…and just have fun! We had food, cocktails amazing vibes and creative personalities- perfect landscape!!!!
We talked about some of everything! Ask Carly, Dating… and so much more!
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Wow this is something so different I’ve never seen before. Beautiful!
This was a great conversation that was full of respectful discord amongst Kings and Queens. We love to see it!
Thank you and very much appreciated ✨
Loved this episode and hearing the different perspectives!!!
Thank you beautiful ✨
GANG GANG!!! Thank you for the good vibes! Also, your hair looks tf GOODT!
You already know! Ayyye!!!! ❤❤❤
55:20 he's speaking facts.
It’s about boundaries. And to clarify, I haven’t seen the whole video, but Based off of this clip, the term used was “dating” but monogamy was somehow automatically attached and/or associated to it. Frankly, If a guy (or anyone really) is dating or pursuing you, it is your job to discuss what they are pursuing u for. And as ur discussing u set boundaries. And then u have to stand on those boundaries. But If u fail to do step 1 and then u get upset bc he’s still having sex with other women, as disrespectful as they may seem to u, what exactly have u done to mandate another grown adult to cut off other avenues of pleasure for someone who isn’t mandated to fill that need?
Also let’s stop with the lack of control thing like men are just sex beasts. While a lot of ppl just have to scratch that itch and struggle with self control, Women are just as sexually active as men and they have to put in a lot less resources and effort to get it. But we almost always attach liberation and freedom to a woman who’s really sexually active. Stop it. It’s inaccurate and disingenuous.
So, again, It’s not always a lack of self control thing. A lot of times it’s about balancing your risks and rewards. Let’s paint this picture: YOU, the potential life partner, are an internship. Probably one I’m not getting paid for at that (no sex). You the internship have the potential to lead to a job that pays more money (marriage and legacy) than the 2-3 jobs that I’m currently working to make ends meet. But in order to participate in said internship I’ll have to give up those jobs. Which means that I’ll be broke until i hopefully get the new job. So who’s going to pay my bills while I’m pursuing a better job? So if ur not a paid internship then I can’t pursue u unless someone comes and pays my bills, which probably won’t happen.
Now with all that being said I am not saying to always have sex with the ppl ur dating. I repeat, That is NOT what I’m saying. I’m simply describing the mindset of someone who already has consistent sexual partners. And u showing up as a potential love interest and not having that initial discussion, when y’all both agreed to spend time and get to know each other, is a you problem and failure on your part. U can’t project how u operate or navigate life onto other ppl.
Which would do you women really leaving 😂😂😂? Pluto here we come 😂😂😂
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Believe half of what you see, none of what they tellin you
Many times while on the dating scene, many men find themselves having to refine and filter their honesty.
While many women may say that they want the truth, there are many who are really meaning to say “I want the truth, BUT I want the truth to be told in a way that suits my feelings.”
One example of this is, women may say “Be honest with me.” And then the man may say something like, “I really like you and I would like to continue to grow our connection…but I also have a high sex drive so if I’m going to be exclusively pursuing you then we would need to have sex while in this stage of connecting.” MOST women would not be able to handle that type of upfront honesty. 💯
I agree… and what your describing is a mature dating experience full of communication, respect and intention. I can appreciate your perspective.
Carly as I said on a prior video, you're a beautiful woman but you may not be as good a listener as you might think: you were ready with a "but.." at the end of every single of that brother's comments. Watch the video back and watch how many times he was still talking and you raised your hand to interject. Hearing and listening to absorb are two different skill sets.
I hear you… when we are recording we have already had cocktails and we are having organic conversations. It’s a whole different vibe in studio… of course along with cocktails.
Thank you for you for the feedback!
@@letstalkovercocktails lol I get it
Carly and the last brother are making each other frustrated. Part of the issue is women say "I want to understand men" and then go on to tell men how they want men to be. Well THAT is not reality. People have been vindictive, cheating, lying and self-serving for millennia across all mankind. Forget understanding "men", try understanding SOME men. This brother is trying to let you know some things you need to understand about some good men so you can win. You can't both take Ls and dictate how men should operate.
That’s fair. ❤
So wait you're dating multiple ppl but don't want them to have sex with other ppl? How does that make any sense? Smh
You’re right! That’s doesn’t make sense… that’s not what she said…
Dating multiple people doesn't mean you need to have sex with them.
STOP YELLING in the microphone ffs... What is wrong with you people?!
Triggered? Lol it was a good time on set.
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