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Black people do not love their black color ,they love Brown colors,so for black people to unite as one the black color need to change to brown.

Pure ignorance this brother a real wannabee and pretending i was born in guinea .. lived in chicago and been to few states in the east coast love me some African Americans there's lack of ignorance in America bcz its westernized but it doesn't mean they are fools some of the best experiences in my life in the black comunity as a black man was in the U.S just ghetto and all the oyher nonsense doesn't mean all AA are ghetto ..we African got lots of issues bcz thinking we are the majority of the blacks and most messed continent and tribalism my step dad was Afro-American and only god can paid him he was the nicest ❤guy in the world i was young back there i want it to see my pop's..in the motherland bcz am from Guinea,,African Americans are most decent people walking this planet africans are reaping what they saw tribalism and etc ..i know the whole shit ..

ACT LIKE A LADY / WIFE GET TREATED LIKE ONE 👍🏾

You operate in a partnership by playing your roll to many women act like men don't want nobody to tell them nothing ect

Amen 🙏🏻 ❤

It's so disrespectful to say blacks don't have culture when we're the ones who build this country. Majority of the inventions came from our ancestors. Thats apart of our history, the way we talk, walk and dress have been copied, and it doesn't matter if our ancestors was given straps to cook, they made soul food from it, seem to me that you're wanting to be accepted from a different culture so bad that you're willing to ignorantly put down the black race, Anybody that comes to the USA can see our culture, and yes hip-hop and r&b is a part of our culture also, weather you want to accept it or not.

This guy is "Omo Ogbon" very intellegent, i just love how he responded to the questions. Akata also means someone with "swag".

Having that ?

You become obsessed and infatuated simply because you want to learn about our mother land and native language and tongue And then there is afrobeats that has exploded across the globe and we want to help bridge the gap between our ancestors and today It’s quite amazing and exciting time no jealousy or envy love what is happening ❤

I’m African American and love the Nigerian culture and dating a Nigerian man for 4, and he is the kindest and loving man I have ever met and u have dated and Nigerian men are not selfish

Post traumatic slave syndrome

I appreciate his transparency and the raw confidence that brings a certain type of attraction that likely attracts that soft woman indeed and that's beautiful. I am engaged to an African man (DRC). I feel he has an African ego and judgemental side but an African American insecurity or entitlement or laziness maybe (?). Or maybe he's a narcissist. So I say that because initially he did all the swooning. I told him that I don't need a man to pay my bills or dinners but I had discovered that I find it incredibly sexy when a man takes that lead and finds it disrespectful when women offer. I should note that I am Mexican so yes, our men also take grate pride and honor in being providers while women take great honor in taking care of his needs as well as the kids and house and we like pleasing and serving our men above anyone. So it is innate in me even when I try to act as if I didn't like that due to environmental circumstances and pressures. I love being soft and taken care of, it's me no denying it. So I let him know this and he said he loved that and did all he could within his means to show me a good time. We ended up living together and then he bought a house of which we share bills and we got engaged. He says he is all about family and my ovaries vibrated when he said that because I wanted to give him kids almost instantly. But it turns out it's only HIS family that matters. Not mine. Not creating one of his own. This is where what Nosh said resonates and makes me seek within myself. I see this in a lot of African men. Do men have a genuine respect for women as equal partners as in we both have a role to fill to accomplish what is needed for our household and family or is his mother always going to be queen and dictate everything he does and take his money? Am I just a role player and baby producer? Because a man who cannot put a healthy but lax boundary on his initial family is unattractive to me because what that tells me is that I am not your queen, your mother is and my ovaries don't want to produce children for a man that sees me as third it brings great insecurity. In the Mexican culture a man leaves his mother and father to walk with his wife and she becomes his queen the mother and father are there for support but dictate nothing in our marriage because a man should already know his responsibility is to his wife and kids and providing for them and more importantly to honorably represent your family’s last name. So when Nosh said women don't like family visiting, it's not that I don't like it because I love seeing him around his family, it's that they tell us last minute and we both work and have responsibilities and can't drop everything to pick them up at the airport and prep our house and schedule so it brings some pressure as a woman because they do judge instead of understanding or being empathetic or at least giving us a heads up. Now with that being said this wouldn't be an issue if he actually treated me better and gave me more financial and emotional support because now it's if I need tires or car repair or can't at the moment afford a ticket out of the country to join him and his daughter on a trip or I have a medical bill he will not provide that. I didn't have the financial security because I had just made a large purchase for our home so I wanted to save a bit. I asked him to wait so I can save but he said no and didn't offer to pay and he has the money. But then pays for his mom to go. Is that normal? To place your mother and family above your wife?? That's very anti-Christian. His parents are always right and I have to shut up and take it even when there's actual video proof that they are lying. I should also let them run the house but then if I don't provide help or support then I'm lazy and unwelcoming but when I do then I'm controlling and they feel like they aren't wanted there. Should he not set boundaries for both myself and his family? He has never been able to tell his family no and to me that's very unattractive and not masculine and weak. I love cooking and I clean and I do all the things most men want from women so I'm confident it's not that as I've also confirmed with him. So does the African (Nigerian) have the same push to be his wife's financial, emotional and structural support as he has for his drive? Because I can tell you right now if a man is treating me respect, validates me, sees me as his partner, prioritizes my needs, makes me feel secure in every way then honey yes please lead me and tell me what to do. But I cannot give you my body and mind and dignity if you run to mommy for every bump in the road so that she can stroke your ego for an exchange of money. It's quite disturbing tbh. You never treat them like you mistreated me, they don't sleep with you, they don't wash your clothes, cook, be a mother to your daughter, they don't work but I'm supposed to shut up and take it? It's an honest question. Loved your insight. You guys are both beautiful.

Well…..all I can say is; I’m a AA woman who married a sweet handsome African King and so glad I did. I’ll do it all over again. On top of it all I told him I’m excited to know when the time comes we will be moving back to his village. My husband’s culture is my culture, we are one now. All I want is to make him the happiest man on this earth until Christ comes. I’m so in love with him until I wish I could stand on a mountain top and tell the world.

She seems a little difficult to date, just my pov

I know who that is ❤it’s skinny c

This host is a disgrace. She should be ashamed of herself. The 304 is strong in this one.

We don't have culture but they break their necks to come to the land our ancestors built & somehow we permeate multiple continents but no culture is laughable they always want our rhythm but never want that blues. SOME African ppl r a trip. The host was a very distasteful representation of our culture as if west African cultures don't have ghetto & deplorable communities it just looks different like SCAMMING for one I could go on an on she might as well said she identified as a yt lady

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Having kids before marriage and leaving marriages is the problem

Remember the History. When Rome invaded Israel. Our Semite People escaped to Juda (which the Nigerians, Ghanians and some sellouts sold Us into slavery via the slave trade. The Europeans wiped off the maps of the world and thus tried to wipe out Our History. But God is restoring ALL OF US ACCORDING TO JOEL CHAPTER 3 WHERE HE GOD WILL BRING ALL OF HIS PEOPLE INCLUDING OUR AFRICAN BROTHERS AND SISTERS BACK TO THE ORIGINAL PLACE. READ IT. THE NEGRO(BLACK AMERICAN AFRICAN DATES BACK TO THE LEVITICAL PREISTHOOD. GOD HELP US PLEASE.

Just because we don't worship tribalism doesn't mean we don't have culture as FBAs

Who gives a flying fuck

Neally 50% of our children are being born outside of marriage and that tells you everything about modern day women

Why doesnt anyone understand that women choose who they have sex with... they have ABSOLUTE power when it comes to who get some...they choose whois born...

I don't think I can be married, it's going to be hard to be in a partnership, my personality is not going to blend well in a marriage

Wow this is something so different I’ve never seen before. Beautiful!

In with what I’ve seen in the black community.. I’m speaking from my huge family on my dad side.. there is A LOT of trauma from the women that chooses the black man who have mental implications. I’ve heard stories about my grandma and grandpa and the stories was of struggle, hardship, mental abuse and possibly physical abuse… same issues with my grandma sister and her husband.. I’ve heard stories that my grandpa left my grandma to stay with a woman across the street and my dad and my aunt wasn’t raised by him and they seen my grandpa everyday ignoring them with another woman and her kids…. Which caused my grandma to be angry and emotionally abusive to my dad and aunt then eventually my dad was the same way with me and my siblings. The cycle is traumatic and sad. My grandpa and grandma are still together but come on now that was a lot of trauma that affected generations. Then I only hear stories, my grandma and grandpa sweep everything under the rugs and never wants to talk about their relationship with me or anything of the past. My dad is fifty years old and he is still affected by it… he talks about how he deserves an apology from his mom and for years and years he’ r haven’t spoken to his mom but speaks to his DAD and buys his gifts for his birthday. It’s sad. Thank God, I’ve did the hard work to get my answers to break through the repeated cycle.

How is it men & women’s problem, if they are being raised by single mom’s.. wouldn’t that mean it’s the mother doing it ? How do men get included ? Lol

Ik several bw that don't want be wives just want to be bms

It is not about how they were raised , it is about dating standards.

I’ve watched so many videos with this pro Nigerian men slant… Unfortunately, I worked with many Nigerians in NYC… I was disappointed to hear these Nigerian men talk about how easy Black American women were for sexual fun…. It hurt me to watch my Black American women falling all over themselves for these men…. This video is pure nonsense and it makes Black American men and women look bad….. Yet these Nigerians have to leave Nigeria for a better life!!!!! Arrogance has no bounds!!!

She seems like she likes him 😊❤😅

Please tell the flight that we do have African-American culture !! Wow😢 can’t believe she’s saying that

She gives pickmisha

Firstly, as a British born Nigerian, this is so endearingly beautiful to see... I'm an ambassador for the African - Caribbean - USA unity by action as regards interaction with our peoples everywhere.... That's my religion, not church. However, black Americans Do have a culture which is so infectious on the entire black race for the most part... The beauty of the music.. Especially real soul.. Listen to groups like CHANGE, BB&Q.... the Hip hop,... Stations like WBLS in New York,... Hot 97.....thats just music and entertainment alone we garnered out of the pain of the enemy of both of us.... The pain of exclusion.... There's the intelligence, inventions hidden from our own educational knowledge... No wonder Einstein was endeared to us... This constellation of our own self creative endeavour borne out of deliberate external denial from the other race is culture enough and is beyond reproach! Love to us all... 🥂

First of all we Americans need to drop “African” from our race. We are not from Africa. We were not born there. Our grandparents weren’t born there. We are Black Americans who have a culture of our own. Africans feel that because we don’t share the same culture it’s that we don’t have any. That’s ignorance on the Africans part. What I get is that Africans seem to be jealous that we were that blacks that were brought to America where there’s better opportunities

Black American men have been k!lled down over the last 40 years to their now 3%.. News media from the 1960s 1970s u can find tons of white media groups like "face the nation" they would talk about finding ways to reduce the Black population n America. The "system" realized that in order to keep the black community from growing an one day take over they must do something. And make it look like its blacks that cause their own troubles. They figured out by reducing the black male population an adding drugs an putting most responsibility on to the female an over time this would create madness within their unit. They spent billions using many behavior health tactics an other tactics to help break the black culture. Putting systems n place that depress any culture or group. Using their own women to colonize the black community. Many many abuses against Black americans an whats sad is how the small number of blk americans have no support. Chinese have China . Indians have India. Mexicans have mexico. Canadians have Canada. If anything so brutal so harsh was happening to either one of these groups they would have protections . Black Americans have no one. No friends no back up no country that would stand for or with them and because america sees an understands this they continue to bully attack an soon to eliminate then replace the black American. Their will b punishment for all the wrongs an non support done against Black American Trans Atlantic Slave Trade 😮😢

There are no people without a culture, the only difference is the richness and value of one culture. In Nigeria, we have many tribes, so our culture comes with different diversity in terms of languages, foods, dress and many more compared to African Americans with the same language, same, way of dressing, same lifestyle and so on

We have culture. What is she talking about. We don't have African culture. She is a shame of her heritage. Jazz, blues, hiphop,soul, country, gospel. Our struggles of being human and our rights to freedom has given all black people who migrate to the US benefits.

Tribalism

Black Americans women are not Obsess with Nigerians men

And by the way, the word "AKATA" is not a good word it actually means "WILD ANIMAL" and what this confused female doesn't realize is there are under bellies in all cultures and races, no matter where you go.

This black chick is very ignorant, and ignorant folks can be dangerous at times cause she knows nothing of the culture here in America. And she thinks that things are better in Africa, just think about it for a minute, if it is so much better there then why do they flee here to America to a country that FBA's built? The fact is FBA's have a culture and we know who we are, and the grim reality is most immigrant blacks are from new lands ran by new invaders who run it, it is a fact that most AFRICAN'S don't even know when they were born which is why, most of them don't have birth certificates.

Too masculine and combative. Not all, of course, but it seems like a cultural behavior

Yes we do have a culture that's why every other nationality want to be like African-American including Nigeria the women especially want to be like a African-American woman but don't know how. And the Nigerian men wish they had African-American swag but they can't get that cuz its not in Them ....the whole world Wanna Be Like Us

Saying black americans dont have any culture is disgusting and untrue. Im carribean but don't speak down on our brothers and sisters. Do better

Just wanna say: I think *she likes him*...& him -her too.

8:35 This African American lady is sadly disconnected from her own culture. 😢 Jazz, jumping the broom, cookouts, soul food, street fashion, tons of inventions, etc.

oh man, not this we dont have culture narrative ...smh...this is getting irritating..I blame us for not gatekeeping and even practicing some of our traditional culture.

I agree with what she is saying. Dating a bisexual man is putting your health at risk. Especially with HIV and AIDS being so rampant in the blk community. Its a hard NO for me