Stop caring about what others think about you

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  • čas přidán 26. 12. 2023
  • If you continue to care about what people think, you continue to live a life that isn’t truly yours.

Komentáře • 298

  • @Matt-bg3bd
    @Matt-bg3bd Před 6 měsíci +429

    50 year old white dude here. Literally stumbled on your videos today. As someone who is single after being in a bad 20+ year marriage I am trying to make sure my next chapter is a happy and healthy one. And I think I just found a guide that can assist me in this journey while I “do the work”. Bravo young man. Bravo.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Před 6 měsíci +100

      Much love to you brother❤️thank you for tuning in

    • @madelinemcpherson6313
      @madelinemcpherson6313 Před 6 měsíci +10

      hope you’re doing well! good job choosing yourself and your happiness!

    • @Fiatfan
      @Fiatfan Před 6 měsíci +1

      Keep up the good work on yourself

    • @sushiii475
      @sushiii475 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Proud of you old man 👏

    • @theevolvingmindset333
      @theevolvingmindset333 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I love this!! You've awakened, it's only up from here!

  • @abuengkeddy8230
    @abuengkeddy8230 Před 6 měsíci +55

    bro this dude is my fav therapist

  • @GrowthGuidance12
    @GrowthGuidance12 Před 6 měsíci +75

    This video felt like it was meant for me right now for the things I’m going through. Thank you

  • @sw_calebschultz
    @sw_calebschultz Před 5 měsíci +39

    Deleting Social Media really made a huge impact on my perception of my own life.

    • @Xzortix
      @Xzortix Před 4 měsíci

      how so?

    • @sw_calebschultz
      @sw_calebschultz Před 4 měsíci

      From my own personal exsperience, I was always focused on what other people were doing with their lifes I began to start comparing myslef. "Oh they always seem like they are having a good time" or " Damm I wish I had friends like that" and so when I deleted social media it made me realised and apreciate what I have already without comparison and learned that we are all on our own journeys @@Xzortix

    • @ralph9923
      @ralph9923 Před 2 měsíci +14

      @@Xzortixcause you are not comparing yourself to any unrealistic standards on social media and only focusing on yourself. It’s the best thing to do as well as desexualising your mind by quitting porn too.

    • @Frank-ix7jw
      @Frank-ix7jw Před 2 měsíci +1

      how did you comment this

    • @sw_calebschultz
      @sw_calebschultz Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ralph9923 100%

  • @BernardMumba755
    @BernardMumba755 Před 6 měsíci +28

    True 🙏 I stopped doing that in 2023

    • @erenyeeagah204
      @erenyeeagah204 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Im just starting its hard i wish i learned it sooner or that it clicked in my head sooner cus ive known for a long time. From now on im living for myself tho

    • @saber3719
      @saber3719 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@erenyeeagah204 Same here. I've been so selfish conscious, and in me head, and had so many doubts and false thoughts and constantly thought what peeps thought about me. But I'm done living for other people in the sense of their opinions a d being in my head so much and doubting and all that low vibe stuff. I'm going to be me 100% and i accept me 100% abs will keep bettering myself everyday. And I'm living for myself too from now on. And I'm living for me abs my Intrests.

    • @daze77gaming
      @daze77gaming Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@erenyeeagah204don't just comment it
      actually do it

  • @TheMeron100
    @TheMeron100 Před 6 měsíci +16

    The algorith suggested me a video fo yours and now I'm watching others. You're a good guy, God bless you my friend

  • @Cherishcherryberryss
    @Cherishcherryberryss Před měsícem +4

    i really appreciate this because im going to the 8th grade and i want to start a new style but im worried that people are going to pick on me but this video made me actually not care about what people say tysm!❤

  • @OVOXO__0
    @OVOXO__0 Před 6 měsíci +14

    this man will have a good future on youtube, im telling yall, he has something. thank u man
    love ur vids!

  • @Sparky-if9sn
    @Sparky-if9sn Před 4 měsíci +15

    What in the world . In my head literally 1 minute ago I was thinking about how my whole life I care about what people think . Never feeling good enough . I hit refresh on my CZcams and this is the FIRST video that pops up. I haven’t listened yet but my mind is blown .

  • @darkshadow955
    @darkshadow955 Před měsícem +3

    I wish I had this talk with my parents when I was younger.

  • @zhoxc
    @zhoxc Před 6 měsíci +7

    "Everything don't need to be said, every thought don't have to be exercised", shit this is good

  • @theevolvingmindset333
    @theevolvingmindset333 Před 2 měsíci +3

    You're such a young and wise young man. I love it. I'm 53 and been on my journey for 5-6 years and you're speaking TRUTH for all people at any age. I pray my son finds one of your videos and it resonates. Keep doing what you're doing, young man. You're living in your purpose by sharing this knowledge. Take care. ~Mrs. B~

  • @bkroberts89
    @bkroberts89 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Because I was told that’s selfish by family since a young age. Funny part is how selfish they are.

  • @Drifter.Dreams
    @Drifter.Dreams Před měsícem +16

    The funny thing that happens when you start pleasing yourself, is that the burning desire for outside validation begins to dissolve. That need for outside praise and fulfillment (others doing for you as you *wish* they would) fades away when you begin to make fulfilling choices for yourself instead.
    Once that happens, it's like an energetic shift takes place. Your needy, grasping energy returns home to center and you become calm and still. And *that* is likely the point in which the attention and validation you've been rabid for this entire time will come -- it's a wild contradiction. A calm and private, satisfied spirit is like a magnet in this world that is filled with seeking, grasping energy.
    Boundary up, kids, this is the most wild of rides. 💕

  • @tjmcmahon2972
    @tjmcmahon2972 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Really needed this today,. I caved and cut my hair off after receiving a lot of cold looks, unsolicited commentary, and overhearing guys make fun of it at work today. I had finally had enough of it and cut it when I got home. Really upsets me just how judgemental people can be. It’s been a rough past 2 years for me, my best friend OD, my father got shot during a night of stupid decisions and came extremely close to dying really put the rest of the family through hell, and I just wanted to try a different look then the usual. I’ve never been one to tell people how I think they should look when it comes to their appearance, I think you should do whatever makes you happy in life, as long as your not hurting yourself or others. To everyone out there with long hair, my fellow guitar players in arms, and artist alike, don’t let the assholes out there get to you like I did today…. Don’t let them.. life is to short to care about what people think. To everyone out there who thinks it’s ok to give people your unsolicited opinion, maybe think twice before you say anything because you never know what that person has been or is going though. Thanks so much for the video man really helped make me feel a little bit better today. Tomorrow is a new day.

  • @estevanlopez2608
    @estevanlopez2608 Před 6 měsíci +85

    Truly a blessing from the lord man. You're changing my ways of life now and I can't thank you enough. Keep motivating and guiding people to a better them. All love man, I'm supporting you 100%!!!

  • @johnnybravo9194
    @johnnybravo9194 Před 6 měsíci +8

    This is the message I really need. I always find comparing myself to others, and become depressed when they're "better" than me.

  • @theultimatereductionist7592

    60 year old white dude here. Literally stumbled on your videos today. As someone who is single my entire life (except for 5 girlfriends/sexual encounters) I am trying to make sure my next chapter is a happy and healthy one. And I think I just found a guide that can assist me in this journey while I “do the work”. Bravo young man. Bravo.
    (Sorry, @Matt-bg3bd. 😂🤣 I'm just messing with you: it was easier to copy and paste what you wrote than to start from scratch.)

  • @sylow1357
    @sylow1357 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Thank You man, I am truly starting to change my ways because of you

  • @anhquynh4938
    @anhquynh4938 Před 12 dny

    I just can not say thank you enough, your videos appear at right time to me when I was so struggled to set the boundaries and do not know where to start to find self love. I do believe that you helped so many people, your guidance like the answer from the universe when people needed the most. I wish you all the best.

  • @navyacexv2937
    @navyacexv2937 Před 6 měsíci

    This channel is amazing thank you for what your doing man I’m truly starting to change because of your words and you deserve this crazy growth for your channel

  • @rwoodford9812
    @rwoodford9812 Před měsícem +2

    Great Video, very wise young man! 😊🙏

  • @PPP1k
    @PPP1k Před 6 měsíci +2

    Bro thank you so much bro your a blessing to all of us and I mean that man! I appreciate the videos bro

  • @tylerbrooks0410
    @tylerbrooks0410 Před 6 měsíci +7

    found your channel yesterday and it’s truly a blessing. you’re already changing my life and the way i think after only one day. i already feel like a better person and i cant imagine what ill be like in weeks, months, and even years from now. im truly grateful for you and your content. keep grinding king👑🙏🙏

  • @alessandro1268
    @alessandro1268 Před 6 měsíci +1

    you are saving my mental health man, much love and keep it up!

  • @Chris_978
    @Chris_978 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Bro you been dropping gems love it! It's facts tho can't live life revolving around ppl that's the thief of joy. This is why I do what I do weather it be gaming , choosing multiple interest like photography, beat making , coding. If I'm content with my life then I am. Focusing on others or what they say takes away a lot. I used to care about what ppl thought because of growing up as a kid and feeling down but as I grew up and got advices plus learning thru my own experiencesI really learned not too. I learned the only times I should care if it's for my own good and it's valid.

  • @Djebwbsjziebbe
    @Djebwbsjziebbe Před 6 měsíci +19

    Found your channel today. I needed these types of videos badly. Your gonna change many lives bro. Much love bro❤ have a great day/night!

  • @adopezebra
    @adopezebra Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dude I’m loving these uploads. There are loads of men that are just so lost right now, and this seriously helps a ton. Thank you.

  • @horsenberg6175
    @horsenberg6175 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Man you’re really helping me get my spark back. I cant thank you enough.

  • @SaxonWaters-tz1ef
    @SaxonWaters-tz1ef Před 6 měsíci +1

    10k in one day. That is awesome. You are making an impact on so many lives mine also. Thank you so much man

  • @StarkIndustries68
    @StarkIndustries68 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Damn this was deep man I swear I needed to hear this 5yrs ago. This was so on point.

  • @apsode.
    @apsode. Před 6 měsíci +1

    i aint gon lie bout this man u really became a real one for me

  • @KarismaSung0506
    @KarismaSung0506 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love you too bro, your vids inspired me to do things I’m passionate about and be confident. Recently I’ve been wanting to make good music and share my music journey along the way but I’m afraid of what ppl think, and this vid literally wake me up and let me know that I should be doing my best instead of worrying. I love the community you’ve built and allow us all to improve together ❤

  • @Inkked7
    @Inkked7 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Stumbled upon your channel last night and I have been watching several videos already. I can't thank you enough for the immediate substantial input you share. It helps a lot in carrying this weight and persevering through life's absurdity.

  • @NMayfield-se6nd
    @NMayfield-se6nd Před 3 dny +1

    Thanks man! Really needed to hear this!

  • @capirucho5065
    @capirucho5065 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thanks for doing this videos man, this year was hard asf for me and i have been trying to be the best version of me, i’ve been doing it pretty good i think but this channel reminded me to not lose sight of my goal. Thank you kindly

  • @user-rx8no1zt4c
    @user-rx8no1zt4c Před 2 měsíci +2

    Brooo I’m going through it right now and these videos help me like for real man keep the videos coming. Much love from London!

  • @dmx-am
    @dmx-am Před 6 měsíci +4

    Congratulations on 50k subscribers bro 🎉 a week ago at 10k and look where you are. You've helped me tons man, thank you ❤️

  • @bananasplit121212
    @bananasplit121212 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You're timing is incredible man. Thanks for sharing.

  • @aidendelao721
    @aidendelao721 Před 6 měsíci

    this was a beautiful video. been trying to “fix” myself on and off for a while and this channel helps keep me true to my goals, thank you man

  • @alexsandoval7051
    @alexsandoval7051 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Nothing but facts. I needed to be reminded of this again, even though I’m aware we sometimes lose our self with the thoughts of what others think and how they feel about us. I felt like I had struggled through that probably my whole life in a way trying to find my own identity. My family is truly important to me and without them I wouldn’t be who I am and same goes for my friends. But im at a time where now the same friends I have been with since elementary and middle school we all see and do things less and pick and choose who we want to associate with. What this year has shown me was exactly what you said in this video word for word brother. through this experience of life I now see where I stand and what I should be shooting for. Thank you 🙏🏽 keep up the uploads it’s very informative!

  • @yesi2117
    @yesi2117 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for these video. I've been trying to change myself.

  • @ukiyo1406
    @ukiyo1406 Před 24 dny

    Omg.. I watched a lot of videos about this topic but only this one get in my heart. I even cried.. I’m just so tired to please others and think about their opinion about me, but I never think about myself.. I didn’t think what I like, what’s comforting me..

  • @shreysinha3567
    @shreysinha3567 Před 6 měsíci

    I stumbled across your videos today, you don’t bs, you are genuine, I want to build a good likeable personality who everyone wants to be around always, u are like a big brother to me.

  • @jamesseven6655
    @jamesseven6655 Před 6 měsíci

    I never really had this problem but that was the problem I didn’t hear what others were saying it didn’t affect me much but it would affect the way they would treat people close to me now I realize the importance of caring to a certain point , thank you for trying sirs not just being here but actually trying makeing a difference in peoples lives it’s a trait that’s becoming rare

  • @Nobankrupt
    @Nobankrupt Před 6 měsíci

    im 21 in a sober living w all old people in here, new in town don’t know anyone in here, i’m learning to accept myself and love myself the way i’m able to love others, that’s my main goal atm, i have a lil daughter that needs me, thank you for making videos like this fam. big love

  • @kylepayne1828
    @kylepayne1828 Před měsícem +1

    You gained a subscriber in less then 5 seconds just by the tone of your voice and how you jumped right into it keep it up brother

  • @datbishded435
    @datbishded435 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I love you man, youre so comforting and youre so calming. Its like you speaking helps me heal myself. I love your thoughts and mindset

  • @user-zg3lp3gw7i
    @user-zg3lp3gw7i Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for talking to us and not feeding our ego.

  • @derek554
    @derek554 Před 6 měsíci

    Haven’t been so present with life let alone CZcams videos. Watched every frame of this video bro, thank you for speaking to me.

  • @MillyMill87
    @MillyMill87 Před měsícem

    Man I needed to hear this

  • @EnJe682
    @EnJe682 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This speaks volumes. Self-love is the best love❤

  • @jett7249
    @jett7249 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much man, this was therapy for me and I honestly feel so much better listening to you and my frame of mind has changed ever since I listened to you! thank you, brother!

  • @trsdepotllc9393
    @trsdepotllc9393 Před 4 měsíci

    Great Words!! You saved Alot of lives....your words are seeds planted in peoples hearts...

  • @a1anaillustrates
    @a1anaillustrates Před 5 dny

    I'm so grateful for this video. You are helping me be a better person, I was feeling bad today and worried about it but you showed me that it's okay to consider myself. ❤

  • @ju999X
    @ju999X Před měsícem +1

    Surprisingly, this helped alter my perspective, a bit, on “lovin myself”. i say a bit because i already don’t really care what people think of me. my friends will laugh at my music n my fam will judge my clothing , all minor things nothing serious, but like u said it just makes me like that shit even more 😂
    but regarding truly loving myself ..idk i get unsure of my worth…especially with dating …but i should use that same feeling i have of my clothing n music , on my whole self too… idk 😂 Thank you tho

  • @milanardito9249
    @milanardito9249 Před 5 měsíci

    Your words are gift, you’re voice is a gift, I don’t know where your soul come from or the reason why you’re doing this but thank you

  • @Rasberry-ni6hu
    @Rasberry-ni6hu Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤ I really needed to hear that ❤

  • @HopeFaith-d1c
    @HopeFaith-d1c Před 9 dny

    Yeah yeah! I needed to hear this, God bless you bro!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Nowaybud3
    @Nowaybud3 Před 2 měsíci +1

    God bless you for making these videos, they are truly eye opening.

  • @Sato_Editz1
    @Sato_Editz1 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Bro, I wanan meet you so bad, you literally made me cry bro. Keep it up. Your inspiring to so many people. Luv your stuff bro

  • @GhostHybridX
    @GhostHybridX Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks man I actually really needed this.

  • @JanuaryCroy-wl6wo
    @JanuaryCroy-wl6wo Před 2 měsíci +3

    I love how this guy sounds kinda mad but he’s still speaking facts

  • @devpatel1716
    @devpatel1716 Před 6 měsíci

    Your channel is amazing it helped me a lot on that corn addiction i thought i can no di anything i can not overcome it but after seeing your videos it gave me boost….pls keep uploading videos it helps many people and I am always supporting you…

  • @Tundra109
    @Tundra109 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This really helped me man, thank you so much

  • @miniking7865
    @miniking7865 Před 6 měsíci

    Your video on moving on and healing popped up in my recommended, and I can’t thank the algorithm enough to be pushing your positive messages towards me. I’m locked in with your channel now, you’re a blessing to everyone G. Keep pushing out these videos, and if I can make a request, can you make a video on quitting smoking (vaping, cannabis) etc. God bless

  • @yeriel2809
    @yeriel2809 Před 6 měsíci

    I needed this so much bro. Thank you. This is giving me the courage to ignore what others think abt me. Also congrats on 50k🎉

  • @jefferyboat7428
    @jefferyboat7428 Před 5 měsíci

    He is so right about family. I thought this too, he confirmed it for me. I hope god blesses you with abundance and joy and fulfillment in life. Love you back brother.

  • @channelization3796
    @channelization3796 Před 21 dnem

    Damn I needed this. Appreciate you bro❤

  • @Crow3DM
    @Crow3DM Před 6 měsíci +5

    I don't usually watch CZcams Channels like this / videos like these but you showed up on my recommended and I thought why not. I'm honestly glad you did because the stuff you talk about it so real and it has completely changed my mindset within the first few weeks of watching. I really appreciate your videos and how it feels like it's a friend talking to me about this stuff, truly amazing content man keep up the good work!

  • @gugu532
    @gugu532 Před měsícem +1

    I will try my best to implement this mindset. Thanks for this valuable info

  • @boldeh0717
    @boldeh0717 Před 3 měsíci

    this was a great reminder of the concept of not caring for me! for a while i used to think that i had already internalized the idea, but i also used to think that it was only meant for your interactions with and the opinions of strangers. but now i have realized that this goes for literally everybody in my life.
    and also, the point about one's dislikes in other people being mere reflections of their own insecurities lit a lightbulb in my head. not long ago i started getting scared of being a bad person and wondering why i was unable to sympathize with other people's struggles, but i hadn't realized that i had yet to think of taking my own past experiences into account, which would have led into deeper thoughts about my own reactions and emotions. thank you so much for your wisdom, once again :]

  • @therealstax-565
    @therealstax-565 Před 6 měsíci +1

    wow I really feel God Has showed me you’re channel. Thank You for this Video it has opened my eyes

  • @Samaiyyya
    @Samaiyyya Před 2 měsíci

    This is the greatest video I’ve ever listened to

  • @moyak_
    @moyak_ Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you, I'll love myself and care more about myself, hope u too

  • @IsaiasHill
    @IsaiasHill Před 6 měsíci +4

    I felt that "I love you". I love you too man you've helped me change how I think and act in certain situations and I want to thank you for that I'm very much grateful to have found your channel🫶🏼

  • @kieraskyy
    @kieraskyy Před 6 měsíci +3

    I really needed to hear this. I get so tuned in on how I portray myself to other people and I hate that. I’m really trying to work on it and this video helped so much. Thank you💕

  • @luvvvfear
    @luvvvfear Před 6 měsíci

    literally just have to be yourself and focus on yourself and everything else falls into place. if you’re comfortable with yourself nothing causes a huge problem. easier said than done but it’s true

  • @merix2741
    @merix2741 Před 6 měsíci

    When I yet again stand at the edge between pit and a ladder shouting for help, your videos came to my feed. Thank you brother for you helpfull videos, I thought my eyes were open, but I was still half asleep.

  • @padplays8441
    @padplays8441 Před 6 měsíci +4

    It's funny how we all know that some thing's are bad for us. We know this but yet there is like this fog in between our thought's and ourselves, that fog is mostly created by social media. And you sir are doing an amazing job telling people the truth, only with words, nothing else. Keep going man your doing good for the people who don't have a bigger brother or sibling. You are giving them brotherly love through video's.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Much love to you❤️❤️

  • @Claude-fj1kn
    @Claude-fj1kn Před měsícem +2

    You ! Explained this so well ,It is the Confidence of who you want to be and finally Loving Yourself and Living for you an Nobody else ,Thank You For The Talk ❤️🔥💯💥💖✨

  • @JT-7771
    @JT-7771 Před 6 měsíci

    Hello Shimon just came across your videos about a couple of days ago your videos are really inspiring and I’m thankful for your knowledge and wisdom your doing great.

  • @YEVS1234
    @YEVS1234 Před 6 měsíci

    I've been watching all of your video recently and i must say your just amazing. I appreciate all of your video, it really help me thank you ❤

  • @cinthiaglez7270
    @cinthiaglez7270 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for this video 💛

  • @BeReborned
    @BeReborned Před 6 měsíci +1

    Most inspirational on social media you growth has inspired and woken me up, keep grinding your meant to be at the top🔥

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Let’s fly high g🧘🏾‍♂️💯

  • @mohamedabdelazim5788
    @mohamedabdelazim5788 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks this video came just in time I have been thinking about that these days. my biggest regret in life is not putting myself first

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Před 6 měsíci +1

      🧘🏾‍♂️❤️

  • @gamezod18
    @gamezod18 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you bro I really glad to see your video most times be like what they think of me this that but now not so much thanks for reminding to find my self keep doing what your doing new suscriber

  • @Newstarz1
    @Newstarz1 Před 6 měsíci +1

    this is a important life lesson, Very Very important i wished i learned at a young age .

  • @kylecajowski850
    @kylecajowski850 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm so happy I found this channel.

  • @blackz-2462
    @blackz-2462 Před 6 měsíci

    i wish i had a friend like you man

  • @matisbruggeman6069
    @matisbruggeman6069 Před 6 měsíci

    These are things I've heard many times before but there's a way on how you phrase it that makes it powerfull and meaningfull. Thank you.

  • @the3j595
    @the3j595 Před 4 měsíci

    I love your video so much bro pls keep helping people like you did for me. Thank you 😊

  • @billotron5521
    @billotron5521 Před 6 měsíci

    Nice job on 50k dude. You deserve 100 times more, but small steps man. God bless you 🙏

  • @chowi3229
    @chowi3229 Před 6 měsíci

    this really helped me man thank you!

  • @NoSurrender786
    @NoSurrender786 Před měsícem

    This is phenomenal, greetings from London

  • @AzeTunez
    @AzeTunez Před 6 měsíci

    So motivating bro, thank you for this, made my day fr ❤

  • @KarismaSung0506
    @KarismaSung0506 Před 5 měsíci +1

    YOU ARE LITERALLY THE BEST CZcamsR IVE EVER SEEN YOU ARE AMAZZINGGGG

  • @giolighter8588
    @giolighter8588 Před 6 měsíci

    thanks man, thanks for reminding me who I am.

  • @mardiiiiii
    @mardiiiiii Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love your videos bro. Helping me.

  • @bububarks1273
    @bububarks1273 Před měsícem +1

    you are legend my brother