Rise and Build: Marriage Shouldn't Shrink Your Life [FULL SERMON] - Lisa Bevere | Colour Conference

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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
  • ONCE UPON A TIME…
    Marriage was forever. It was a covenant that knit one man and one woman together. This weaving made both stronger, nobler, and more vibrant expressions of who they were created to be. They were better together than either had been on their own.
    The wedding ceremony was but the beginning. It was the gateway to build their happily ever after. Each choice and action was designed to construct the life their union represented. Husband and wife walked into the great unknown with hearts, hands, and voices intertwined to express the love of their Creator.
    How did we lose touch with this profound love story? Whether you’re married, single, or engaged, I hope this sermon encourages you to see your story as a part of His.
    Continue to dive deeper with my free “Story of Marriage” course: go.MessengerX.com/SOMC
    Get John’s and my “Story of Marriage” book: store.messengerinternational....
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    Chapters:
    0:00 - Have You Ever Had a Text Argument?
    0:51 - My Greatest Regrets in Marriage
    3:67 - The Marriage Dynamic
    5:51 - Marriage Isn’t Meant to Shrink Your Life
    6:47 - My Marriage Testimony
    15:10 - It’s Time to Rise and Build
    15:54 - God Created Woman as the Answer to the First Problem
    18:25 - Strength of the Sexes
    25:17 - The Devil Has Confused Our Mission
    26:31 - John’s Family vs. Mine: The World’s We Brought Together
    29:30 - God Is Listening in and Takes Note
    30:31 - My Challenge to You
    32:47 - Prayer for a New Beginning
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Komentáře • 79

  • @GerardoRamirez6131
    @GerardoRamirez6131 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Lisa, I watched this message. Yes, I know. Why would a man watch this? I did and I was blessed by your message. Keep empowering the body of Christ to fight for and build their marriages. I've been painfully separated from my wife for 2 years now and constantly grieve the impending threat of divorce because I love her. We had a strong vision for our marriage, family and ministry assignment. I'm trusting God to restore and reconcile us. May God's richest blessings continue to keep both you and John. 🙏🏽

  • @Awakenministries
    @Awakenministries Před rokem +28

    This is such a beautifully, powerful message. I will be the 1st of a 1000 generations to honor God! I claim it I declare it :)

  • @realchristian__podcast
    @realchristian__podcast Před rokem +18

    I’m only a couple of minutes in this video pastor Lisa. And I’m so desperate for restoring my marriage. I wish I can talk to you and John. I’ve been on fire with god praying for my wife and seeking revival in our church. But her heart is still hard Lisa. I don’t wanna give up Lisa but it’s so hard.
    I pray that I get through this

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Před rokem +4

      I just prayed for you, Malachi. My husband has behavioral problems that are genetic. They are not learned, as he was adopted before he was even born, and we didn't meet his biological family until we were in our early 30s. I found out from my husband's biological mother that these problems are the reason she didn't stay with his father and the reason she gave my husband up for adoption. My husband and I have been together for over 30 years. We have two sons whose childhoods we're wrecked because of their dad. Our family life has been decades of compulsive lying, theft, homelessness, multiple acts of adultery that led to a venereal infection for me, and physical violence. Now, even our 12-year-old grandson wants nothing to do with him. I finally became so worn out, feeling I had gone ridiculously above and beyond and given all that I could, that I cried my heart out to my Daddy in heaven, asking if it was finally time to leave. I was pacing as I was crying and praying, when the Lord suddenly gave me a vision of my husband as a new creation. It's been nearly a year since that happened. The Father has removed the last two women having sex with my husband and arranged for me to temporarily live with my younger son, 20 minutes away from my husband, who is currently sleeping in his truck. Every day, I speak life into my marriage and thank the Lord for what He is working in my husband. I keep in daily contact with him and try to spend some face-to-face time with him once or twice a week, sometimes overnight in a hotel room. Though progress seems slow, it doesn't really matter what it looks like; Christians walk by faith, not by sight. The Lord lit the start of my path with tea lights that made it impossible for me to doubt my direction. I remember them on days that are difficult, days when the enemy starts asking me did God really say? I don't know how long this process is going to take, but God never lies, and He never fails. Hold the line, Malachi. Even if no one else supports you in your decision to fight for your marriage, do not give up. Do not ring that bell. DO NOT tap out. May our Father in heaven bless you with clarity of direction, encouragement, and the strength to hold on while He's bringing you and your wife through this valley of darkness. Amen.

    • @Cookie2rosie
      @Cookie2rosie Před 11 měsíci +4

      Stewart keep praying and believing. I was separated from my husband for 3 years. He told me I’m never coming back . I don’t love you. It’s been 1 year since he is back and God continues to amaze me. It’s been 1 month he is going to church with me. I saw him worship God and I’m amazed. He says I love you every chance he gets. This is God. Don’t believe the lies of the enemy. There is nothing that our God can’t do!!!

    • @realchristian__podcast
      @realchristian__podcast Před 11 měsíci

      @@Cookie2rosie thank you so much . I pray that it’s all true one day

    • @ruthlandis7911
      @ruthlandis7911 Před 6 měsíci

      You dear precious soul, you are a saint keep fighting the good fight of faith​@@suzannahschulthies1260

  • @ptl3564
    @ptl3564 Před rokem +9

    Powerful! ❤
    I will be the beginning of a thousand generations, in the Name of Jesus.

  • @tenille_soblessed
    @tenille_soblessed Před 2 měsíci +2

    I want to restore my marriage. I’ve been separated for 6 months. I have hope that God will do it

  • @jesslca79
    @jesslca79 Před rokem +11

    Love Lisa Bevere!! She is so real.

  • @777965
    @777965 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Lisa this is simply beautiful we need it in this hour my marriage is in trouble i have a wife but no love for me i love her as we have been married for 25 years the last 9 years has been not good but ive hung in there there has to a way through this as it is not right and just i need prayer but i praise god anyway for our god is outstanding always GRAHAM O'NEILL

  • @jdee1891
    @jdee1891 Před měsícem

    Thank you!!

  • @anniastewart6902
    @anniastewart6902 Před rokem +4

    Thank you Lisa for this word....we need to be INTENTIONAL!!! Amen God will remember those who remain faithful to Him, and who love, fear, honour the Word of God and respect Him. Love the emjoi analogy ❤

  • @phechristchild
    @phechristchild Před rokem +1

    Very very beautiful, informative, spiritual, and timely. I like that you said "...write what you want for your marriage and family at the end..." I pray that we will all fight for our marriages, family, city and children whether or not we have a family as yet just start fighting now! May the Blessings of God Almighty rest and remain with you always in Jesus Christ's Mighty loving Name, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!!!!!

  • @hueyjoseph4526
    @hueyjoseph4526 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Beautiful Word Sis. Lisa Awesome Testimony of God Love for the Family.❤❤❤

  • @aw5308
    @aw5308 Před rokem +5

    This is gold 🙏💗🙌

  • @joannelucille
    @joannelucille Před rokem +1

    I am the beginning of a thousand generations 🙋 I'm blessed and highly favored, in Jesus Christ, my Lord and my Savior! All glory to Him Who is faithful and true forever ❤ Amen!

  • @christiek470
    @christiek470 Před rokem +3

    Mightily blessed by this sermon, Ms Lisa!! Jesus bless you and use you much more for the expansion of His kingdom.

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Před rokem +1

    Love Lisa ❤ So Real as A Woman and Then Great Faith Leader❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amyk9126
    @amyk9126 Před rokem +3

    You are hysterical.

  • @CalynnA
    @CalynnA Před rokem +1

    Lisa Bevere I love you ❤️ where have you been all my life 💕 you spoke some powerful words of life into me, thank you

  • @Guidance777
    @Guidance777 Před 5 měsíci

    Beautiful prayer❤ God bless you all!

  • @donnasmith6978
    @donnasmith6978 Před rokem

    I appreciate your honesty

  • @marissawalters3785
    @marissawalters3785 Před rokem

    This was amazing! Thank you so much Lisa!

  • @jhaslett03
    @jhaslett03 Před 11 měsíci

    ❤ Thank you for the message ❤

  • @carlinndube9999
    @carlinndube9999 Před rokem

    Thank you for this message - powerful!!

  • @feliciagreen4905
    @feliciagreen4905 Před rokem

    Thank you for this message God bless you

  • @corneliabugelnig5654
    @corneliabugelnig5654 Před rokem

    Thanks a LOT
    You changed my life❤

  • @A.Delizia
    @A.Delizia Před rokem

    Wonderful message

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Před rokem

    WOW!!! Powerful Lisa.....Message needed and received.....😊❤

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Před rokem

    I've haven't been married over 25 - 30 yrs...I'm happy device.... Prayers God..... Jesus has heal me and I'm not waiting on king Jesus to send me my Boaz..... Im not at a peaceful place without drama today and I'm covered by my father God and his son Jesus and I'm covered the blood and anointed by the holy oil...... Jesus has blessed me coming in and going out in the hills and on the the mountain ....I am blessed.... Not stressed!!!;;;; ..... Jesus is a keep and he is mmm ....
    The holy spirit is mmm good

  • @georginaguzman8901
    @georginaguzman8901 Před rokem

    I need to hear this! Praise God

  • @gingerlee4116
    @gingerlee4116 Před rokem +1

    She is funny!!😂
    She ministers..

  • @jenniferdiane
    @jenniferdiane Před 11 měsíci

    Needed this ❤

  • @morepreciousthanjewels3585

    This women is so beautiful from the inside out

  • @karenjones1918
    @karenjones1918 Před rokem +1

    Lisa is very powerful as a speaker I know she’s been through a lot but I believe it truly made her stronger God bless your soul..I love her husband too they are a beautiful fit together it’s like they were just made for one another😊

    • @AstronautRaymond
      @AstronautRaymond Před 6 měsíci

      Hi I really like you can I get to know you , my name is Raymond I'm an astronaut from Europe

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Před rokem

    I Love You Lisa ❤ Thank You😊

  • @rosanavila1917
    @rosanavila1917 Před rokem

    ❤🎉love Lisa your menssagem God bless you and your family members.

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Před rokem

    Marriage Can Enlarge Your Life🎉❤😊

  • @leahsplattstoesser6763
    @leahsplattstoesser6763 Před rokem +1

    I want to be a better wife. I go lots of days feeling like I am a bad wife. My husband was raised Mormon, but got saved at Celebration Church in Fresno when we lived there. Since moving back home it has been so hard. I want to have a good godly marriage. Please pray for my family.

    • @leahsplattstoesser6763
      @leahsplattstoesser6763 Před rokem

      What do you do when you feel like you have to lead because your husband won’t? It makes it so stressful and hard 😢

    • @leahsplattstoesser6763
      @leahsplattstoesser6763 Před rokem

      I don’t even know what it means to love my husband well. What he needs…

  • @chorusfrog2548
    @chorusfrog2548 Před rokem +2

    What Matthew 19:11-12 actually says..."But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it."
    Be aware of The Message...it twists God's true word.

  • @twoforone_
    @twoforone_ Před rokem

    "Very good" ❤ multiply

  • @jenniferlexa1719
    @jenniferlexa1719 Před rokem

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 1st Date Story❤

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 Před 4 měsíci

    your my sister in the Family of God

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před rokem

    I will be the beginning

  • @K777angel
    @K777angel Před rokem +1

    Wow

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Před rokem

    I am so fine single right now I'm not rushing into anything with anyone there's no present in the blessing so I'm going to go ahead and not stress while I'm getting blessed!!!!!!.
    Say what you will the Bible says touch not my anointing and do my prophet no harm everything you have done to me has been done to you it has been returned back to send it tenfolds and to your generation.... I'm not threatening no one that's in the Bible that's in the word of God!!!!!

  • @pauldebroaharrington9955

    What about being all in but husband is never in at all? What about exhaustion? Neglect? Years n Decades of submission and no response? That's hard. To be in a marriage and for years you already accepted that ur hubs doesn't love OR like you. That's horrible. I live it daily. EVERYTHING is a priority to ny husband BUT me. He's not even approachable. It's horrible. I feel like God doesn't have me here to feel ugly everyday , unwanted, invisible, not important, neglected. DAILY. It never ceases. Idk. I feel like my husband takes my faith as his tool to have a woman that plays the position he wants ... idk.

    • @angelaaguilar5424
      @angelaaguilar5424 Před rokem +1

      Yea I am curious too. Seems like her husband was interested in working on the marriage and prioritized it. Kinda hard to apply this when it’s only one spouse putting effort

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Před rokem +5

      My husband has been very much that way with me for over 30 years. I FINALLY wised up and truly handed it all over to the Lord and got out of His way. It's been one heck of an ugly, rough ride, but as soon as I completely surrendered and quit trying to fix him on my own (unsuccessfully for three decades), our marriage is turning around; my husband is SLOWLY on his way to becoming a new creation. Also, the Lord is showing me things about myself that needed to be corrected and cleaned up so that I will be worthy of the husband he's going to give me. Waiting for my husband to surrender to Jesus and become that new creation is a long and difficult exercise in patience and faith, but watching the changes in both of us unfold is incredible!

    • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
      @Jolly.Joy_Rose Před rokem +1

      The Bible says for a woman to be submissive to her husband and some men thrive on that information forgetting that THEY were told to love their wife like Christ loves the church. Sadly women take the submissive part and take unnecessary abuse from men who push the “Im the head of the household, I am man, I am the leader…” etc. Ladies please don’t give up on yourselves, God made each and every one of you for a purpose. Not to be someone’s emotional or physical punching bags, and yes just because he doesn’t “hit” doesn’t mean words don’t hurt. Lean on Christ, listen to what God says about you! Don’t rely on your husband to fulfill your needs because I guarantee you’ll be disappointed. I can’t tell you what to do, I can only say ask God and the Holy Spirit in the name of Jesus to guide you. Prayers for you all my sisters ❤️ You are beautifully and wonderfully made!

  • @vanettamason1605
    @vanettamason1605 Před rokem

    Love my husband well

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 Před 5 měsíci

    😊

  • @kimg5142
    @kimg5142 Před rokem

    ❤️🔥❤️🔥🇨🇦

  • @Mu_the_Maori
    @Mu_the_Maori Před rokem +1

    Who is this kewl looking woman ♀️ can Lisa cook?

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 Před 4 měsíci

    foosball table

  • @danicadegooijer2219
    @danicadegooijer2219 Před rokem

    Only 7?❤🙏🙋‍♀️

  • @danicadegooijer2219
    @danicadegooijer2219 Před rokem

    Exact..kids of divors

  • @realchristian__podcast
    @realchristian__podcast Před rokem +2

    Do you believe our marriage can be restored even though she left and took our child 3 months ago?

    • @suzannahschulthies1260
      @suzannahschulthies1260 Před rokem

      ABSOLUTELY!! The Lord loves to work with what seems impossible. He quite enjoys showing off, and oh, the glory it brings Him!

    • @realchristian__podcast
      @realchristian__podcast Před rokem +1

      @@suzannahschulthies1260 your faith is amazing and encouraging. I hope you’re right truly

    • @CalynnA
      @CalynnA Před rokem +2

      Check out Marriage Revealed Ministries CZcams channel, it's all videos about standing for your spouse, many in similar situation as you. Bless you, our mighty God can absolutely turn things around and restore ❤️

  • @natalinacampisi4606
    @natalinacampisi4606 Před 11 měsíci

    HI LISA, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO A HUSBAND THAT REFUSES TO LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE AND CHIDREN BECAUSE SHE HAS CATS.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 Před 4 měsíci

      Give your cats up for adoption. Show him you love him more than any pets.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 Před 4 měsíci

      Peacemaker

    • @SeanLawn71
      @SeanLawn71 Před 3 měsíci

      Well, if you want your husband home I’d give the cats away.

    • @kadi9682
      @kadi9682 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@SeanLawn71 yes I’d give away any pet to keep my family together.

  • @emmapeel299
    @emmapeel299 Před rokem

    😂😂😂

  • @johnchacko1425
    @johnchacko1425 Před 4 měsíci

    ping pong table

  • @angelashuttleworth6527

    So funny! Love it! Thank you for sharing the "realness"! ❤️🫶🏻