Are INTJs Dangerous? 9 Specific Reasons They Can Be
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- Many people think an INTJ is evil. They believe an evil INTJ just who they are. But, are INTJs dangerous? These 9 specific reasons they can be will tell if you an INTJ is truly evil and dangerous.
Not everyone can understand the complexity of an INTJ personality. Their minds work in mysterious ways, and if you’re not an INTJ, chances are you won’t be able to understand their actions or read between the lines. They see the world through the lens of logic and, above all else, value honesty. If you’ve locked eyes with an INTJ or are fortunate enough to have one in your life, you must know they can be dangerous as well, although rare. What makes them potentially dangerous is not obvious to most of us - but when you experience it, there is no question.
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1:10 INTJ Understanding
2:06 INTJ Mind
3:22 INTJ Protection
4:41 INTJ Tact
5:48 INTJ Conflict
7:18 INTJ Independence
8:14 INTJ Value
9:24 INTJ Justification
10:33 INTJ Challenge
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Do you think an INTJ is dangerous? What are your thoughts on these reasons they can be? Leave a comment and tell me your stories!
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Story:
I have been a licensed(state & federal) Class II Wildlife Rehabilitator for 27 yrs... I run a wildlife hospital(501c3). Each of the licences & permits have restrictions attached. I HAVE to abide by those restrictions.
A week ago, the MAGA Republicans next door decided to hang a profanity flag insulting Biden in full frontal view of my front yard & driveway; a DIRECT violation of 2 specific license restrictions, profanity & politics; neither can be anywhere within the public's access as the hospital is a public facility. Police would do nothing; a 1st Ammendment issue & they're terrified of a lawsuit. I spoke with lawyers & a Judge... They were appalled & leaning towards filing suit(civil), a legal channel that takes months to play out. The director of Special Licenses for the state spent hours bantering back & forth about what to do as the profanity flag WAS a clear violation but WAS NOT ON MY PROPERTY, so multiple aspects were in play: the state took me off-line until they could devise a solution that adequately addressed ALL the aspects. Finally it was decided that I needed a "public disclaimer" sign, clearly disowning the profanity flag, pushing back on the "bad neighbors," that also apologized to the public for any discomfort the profanity flag generated to anyone in my yard. I ordered the custom sign, picked it up a day ago, & prominently positioned the 3' x 5' metal sign disclaimer where it could be readily seen as soon as anyone pulled into the drive. Pictures of it in position were sent to local and state Capitol offices of DEC, & 2 hours later, the hospital was back on-line at 100% capacity. ***In 3 days, REPUBLICANS who find what the bad neighbors did disgusting, HAVE DONATED ENOUGH $$$ TO MORE THAN COVER THE COST OF THE SIGN!!!***
Where the hell did the dysfunctional idea hatch, that ANYTHING like this situation was ok??? You're entitled to your own opinion, but when that opinion creates major legal issues for another, ***IT'S NOT OK!!!*** What the hell are they thinking?????????????🖤
Guys, do you think a INTJ can also be a INFJ?
@@rgpqf I council Empaths, to fortify their confidence levels and teach them how to push the emotional overload back, focusing rather on just the facts & logical analysis thereof. In that context, I have run across a few that have given me pause to consider just your question: Is it possible to be a blend of "T" & "F," the other 3 (I, N, & J) being equal. My answer is WHY NOT!!! Many try to define personality whereas I say none of their definitions are conclusive, but rather a personality can be defined as a BLEND of definitions... each "ingredient" it's own tweak of the final blend in each individual. We're not "boxed mixes," but unique blends of various ingredients, influenced by our individual genetics and the reality of the physical world in which we each live. That Pandora's Box has befuddled the field of Psychology since it's inception, & I'm not convinced we're any further ahead... Logical analysis as it applies to each individual, key word LOGICAL: does it make sense to you if applied to you??? You know yourself better than anyone else: you've been with yourself since birth... everything else constitutes the changing landscape of life itself.🖤
@@catherinerhea6336 wow! Straight to empath... I guess I would consider myself one, but not in the magical way people tend to describe empaths. Its more like being highly sensitive and attuned to people's body language, voice tone and the meaning behind the words... And yes these two types of personality are somewhat similar. INTJ is my standard but I believe that when the situation demands a more quick or spontaneous response the "F" comes into play.
What about you?
@@rgpqf My empathy is "kept on a leash" & well hidden, because given the opportunity, there are too many who would deliberately weaponize it. My private practice & my wildlife hospital get the lion's share of the empathy I "allow." I'm always analizing everything because in that moment, everything IS connected, & I want to understand those connection threads. THAT data helps me zero in on what **DESERVES** my empathy, but I'm still Vulcan to my core...🖤
I am an INTJ, and I don't think the "brutal honesty" part is necessarily true. Maybe for some.
If it's someone whose opinion I don't value, I will be nice and just get along. My "bluntness" is only on display around people whose opinions I value. It is actually sort of a compliment, in a weird way.
I’m diplomatic. I’m not an idiot. Why would you want to sabotage yourself by being too blunt in the workplace? You’re gonna need these people at some point.
INTJ-A here. And yep, I can confirm. Sometimes it scares me. I had been on few dark paths before. The feeling of nothing as I destroy some people. The way I can read people like a book. All those well thought and specially designed plan.
I would never want to fight someone like me.
I think the experiences of sm intj are what make them this way. I grew up in the military and it gave me a don't fuck with me side. It took me years to realize it's not cool for my family to be terrified of you. Even when it was never my intention. Just by presence.
Wait... you said that INTJ's don't like to focus on the "supernatural" or "fairy tales" but things in the real world that can be "proven". I found this video highly accurate up until this point. INTJ's have very imaginative, curious, open minds. And INTJ's with the most developed Ni have minds that are infinitely curious focused on learning and understand the universe and all of its hidden truths. So it would be quite unusual for none of them to ever want to explore the abstract, philosophical ideas, of eschatology and theology, at least a little. Especially since these concepts are so fascinating and resonate deep within the human psyche. Ideas like the "soul" and "God", and the possibility of other supernatural phenomena are definitely in the realm of the mind of the INTJ.
Indeed. My inlaws are Mormons, I find it fascinating.
I dont entirely agree with you. Im also an INTJ and matters that are subjective are strictly subjective to me. We think about them but we dont have any interest in talking about them to other people, cause I already know their opinions are not backed by facts. This is how a typical Fi user works. Things like Morality, Soul or God are not proven by facts so I dont get anything from talking about it.
@@soham4741 Facts? lol What are you? And Si user? What about imagination? Curiosity? and Possibilities? The INTJ personality type transcends way beyond just "mere facts". It's very abstract and theoretical. But if you think INTJ's only deal with "concrete facts" then you are under a strong misconception.
Not big into religion but god is not proven therefore of little interest. But I do believe in some form of spirituality because of personal experiences, but rarely talk to people about this issues because its not proven, unless they are into this subject as well.
I am INTJ and a Christian Apologist. I am amazed that so many supposedly intelligent people can be so closed-minded, arrogant, and uninterested in exploring the Natural and Supernatural worlds.
As a intj I think an underrated danger is self destruction when feeling too tunnel visioned and neglecting mental health.
Intj are also dangerous because we’re always calculating the what ifs. We’re 3 steps ahead of any scenario
This understanding part don't resonate with me, i don't think i have ever met a person who understands me. So i can't lose patience on people for that. This is just what it is, it's more my problem than theirs. I'm also so bad at explaining things and ideas so can't really bleme anyone, so i leave them to their world and enter to mine alone again.
Are you an INFJ?
@@steveruqus2680 I really don't know, Trying to put me into a just one box ain't easy. All so familiar not fitting in again.....Keep getting intj/infj results from tests.
I always got the INTJ and for me it's the same. Always look more at my faults than others and still hoping to find someone who gets me. :-/
@@SeraphimZero A common INTJ take would be I feel misunderstood not ooking for someone that gets me. Do you see the difference? One is looking out the other is looking in. Your desire sounds like an idealist temperament (XNFX) not information seeking (XNTX). It sounds like you're looking for harmony (Fe) vs Effectiveness (Te) unless your stuck in an Ni, Fi loop. Research loops and see if that resonates. If yes research introverted Feeling (authenticity) which would be 3rd for an INTJ else zoom out and look at Keirsey temperaments then zoom back in. I can break that down further, but not from my phone. Alternatuvely you could shoot me an email. Note that's INTJ for the ball is in your court because most people won't put in the work so I'm protecting my energy.
Yeah, nobody really understands me except my Creator. I have a friend who said to me that she saw a picture in her mind of Jesus standing in front of a canvas, which represented my heart. Then she wrinkled her nose in perplexity and said, "And, Lanny, He paints WEIRD stuff on your canvas." I laughed; it is so true, but it's a lot of fun, most of the time. He shows me stuff that most people can't handle, and sometimes it is hard for me, too, but I adjust.
Ignorance and idiocy are two different things. I don't get angry at intellectually disabled people.
An INTJ is dangerous to scheming significant others because their bad acts will typically be discovered (and corrected). Would fight to death for my loved ones. However, I am very interested in the spirit being and spirit world. Wrath is indeed rare but will make me appear like a crazy woman to others because they seldom, if ever, witness my anger.
As an INFP, I have an INTJ friend and he is everything that this video said and I understand that and care for him, protecting him emotionally when they need it and we form a nice duo if we want to do something, we will do it
Also remember that INTJ’s are really… flexible. There’s no single ‘type’ of INTJ, and that’s not even getting into INTJ-T vs INTJ-A lol
Some of the usual online INTJ stuff applies, some doesn’t, and it seems like every INTJ is a little different yet very similar in how complex we are
Hopefully everything works out!
I was interested by your comment about INTJs not tolerating religious zealots. I have read that INTJs are the type most likely to be Atheist, but I'm not Atheist.
I find religious zealots of the New-Atheist, or Magic-Monkey Religion (Evolution), type to be ignorant, especially the New Atheist types. Brick walls make more sense than New Atheists because at least brick walls don't say such stupid things.
I've never experienced anybody as closed-minded and arrogant as a New Atheist.
This had me laughing (at how many examples of each point came to mind) but also questioning my actual interactions. Especially my more negative ones and my own reactions.
Not dangerous, unless one considers "stacking knowledge" dangerous:
...had a conversation with a cop about surveillance systems... young kid full of ego over his uniform & badge... Took him "to school" on the State Laws regarding surveillance...he struggled to "rephrase" his "line of questioning" because he kept "missing his mark" & was visibly frustrated...
Conflict avoidant: consider a value assessment... IF there is a value to the conflict, then I am tenacious about it: IF I see no value to the engagement, I will walk away from it. Value IS the hinge pin...🖤
Value.....🖤
There is the difference between mature INTJ and immature INTJ as well
Brutal honesty and I'll argue anyone over it! We are such a threat to authority that most employment won't want you as you can see right through any pretence, we are sticklers for correct language, grammar and spelling and are extremely moral. For those values we are called dangerous.
Thank you for this. And fully agreed.
Great video. Thanks.
I'm a 66 yo INTJ. Absolutely correct, all of it!
Sometimes I feel dangerous because I plan revenge. I have a stong sense of vigilante justice so I often act ouside the law to justify wrongs done to me. For exaple, a guy stole my Ipod as a teen, I rallied 5 peole to go to his house and smash out his windows with shovels.
why didn't you just covertly burn his house down while he slept?
I’m an INTJ in sales management and marketing. It’s a fantastic challenge
We will exploit loopholes if it is more efficient.
😂❤. This is exactly how not even my own brothers and dad can’t stand me. I am. Black sweet angel of revenge.
But if an INTJ does lie to you, you wont find out until its too late.
We dont, unless we want to manipulate someone and use them as a tool
Absolutely. Lie.. rarely, but sometimes necessary to protect others or plans.
@@RonHaddock1 Exactly. My natural tendency is to be honest, but often it will destroy my diplomatic relations
Only lie to protect myself or others
@@Dimmary Exactly
Thankyou for this video!
事実に真摯に向き合いたい。
そういう謙虚さがないのは嫌。
不誠実な対応は嫌い。
好戦的ではないが疲労を避けたい。
切るべき関係もある。
相手を理解したいので時間をかけるようにしている。INTJはそんなに理解されにくいのか…？
ENFJと思われる人物に、裏切りのようなことをされ、人間不信。混乱しそうになり、対応が難しかった。
I don't know why INTJs get so much attention. It's to do with Ironman, right? If someone met me they'd be so disappointed. They'd probably only get a slightly self-deprecating and sarcastic sense of humour.
I used to shy away from conflict, now I dominate everyone who chooses to engage me effortlessly. But it definitely starts to feel like I’ve come here to help this place.
Keep your judgment. I don’t need it. INTJ male here. The “INTJ door slam” is invoked only after careful analysis, & then only for toxic individuals
If you weren’t in my door slam situations then how can you call me evil for abruptly cutting someone off
I have little to no use for religiosity but I believe that there is ample evidence to support the idea of a single overarching entity that has created the world we live in.
by the way I find ENFPs seem to be a bit flighty at times but there is a strong connection between INTJ & ENFP.
Wish I had followed through with MBT I typing when I was first exposed to it. But I am now alone after losing my wife to PD & having to find a whole new circle of friends. MNTI has helped me to better understand those who have a type that can be problematic.
- Dan
Spot on ,
I need more of INTJ please 🥺
@Blanc S I have plenty more INTJ for ya! Check out this INTJ Playlist: czcams.com/play/PLESS5tck6M7TW1bHSYQ_gJGKNmbwJgZ__.html
@@SuccessForBreakfast any chance you have other channels for other types? Mainly ENFP. I have an ENFP friend that's getting started and wish there was a similar channel to get her started.
ENTPs are our best translators. They're particularly well-wired to interpret our fuckery, and we see through their bullshit like glass. It's a good dynamic. Probably terrifying to everyone else, though, lmfao.
1: We do want to be understood because, we still crave connection we however get frustrated when that effort is not returned which is more then often not the case as people are egocentric and incredibly selfish
2: Razor sharp mind but, with demon Si we regularly bump into thing and, are prone to sabotage ourselves
I'm an INTJ whose got Bipolar issues brought on from Depression, Anxiety and PTSD (Non Military) I also have OCD and ADHD and mild Autism as well. And let me tell you, I find myself getting extremely angry from things that get in my way of my plans, disrupt my day in any way. Or just when I'm dealing with price haggling customers as a cashier who just don't want to pay the price of the item at all. And more or less, on the inside having worked retail for a couple years and working in customer service for a few years. I could tell you, I seen and learned a lot of crap that people like to pull. I know that there is a lot more out there *Knocks on wood*
Yes, when people give me their BS, it makes me wish I could just use some mental powers to make them spontaneously explode something awful. And when I get a manager who is over me, and they want to give me ludicrous BS, In my mind, I have given them the bird a few times and long for that mind trick ability from Star Wars to get them off my back and stop issuing so much of that stupid BS. It has been this way with about each and every single one of my places of employment.
So, more or less, each and every single time I have to endure any amount of BS, I about want to make who ever is issuing it to me just spontaneously explode a lot. And the thing of this is, I have felt powerless and alone and more or less like a Human trapped in a cage by Apes from Planet of the Apes. And it has caused me to get so excruciatingly angry to the point, that I wound up harming myself to avoid hurting others physically. And this is not any good for me, especially knowing that I must work with people on a day-to-day basis.
I feel much better being alone most times so that I could recharge, and when I can't get any of my alone time, I get anxiety panic attacks which cause me to more or less want to shut down. If I'm around people too much, I get tired and just more and more want to be left alone something awful. What used to happen was that I would naturally switch off and go to sleep and just be in slumber so that I could be inside my own world for a bit. But as time went on, that became more and more of an impossibility than a possibility for me. And thus, I have found myself getting more and more cranky and irritable, and having to bottle it up inside me just makes it even worse.
And there has been many times when I was forced to bottle it up inside me for way too long, and it was to the point where I just wound up exploding right there in front of people and I started going ape crap something awful. And when I get customers who want to give me their life story on why something that is costing $3.00 with brand new factory tags reading anywhere from $100 - $2,000, and they want it for cheaper than the price that my employer is charging for it. I'm like; "Are you freaking kidding me?" Even seeing what the first store was charging which is usually more astronomical than the MSRP (Manufactures Suggested Retail Price) and yet here we are, just charging them that $3.00?
And there are many other instances where I saw through peoples BS. Started back in school when the teachers would stop the movie and start rewinding the VHS Tape. And they would tell us; "Okay kids, we'll finish this later. We do need to go out to recess though." And seeing them rewinding the tape and me calling them out on it and them Gaslighting me or even pretending that I haven't spoken at all and just straight up ignoring me when I'm calling them out on their BS and what have you really did get under my skin a lot. There are many other things that I could point out to you. But seeing how I wrote in excess 6 paragraphs, I'm going to leave it here.
Also, to you Mr. Video presenter, if you wish to use this comment in a video, please be kind and give me credit if possible. Also, I think I'm getting Dejavu from this, like if I had a dream about this or something. So, might as well make me anonymous as possible, just use my first name.
"If I'm around people too much, I get tired." - Agree 100%. I grew up in a big family, and the happiest memories of my childhood were when I used to go to my grandmother's house and be by myself reading books. I love my brothers and sisters, but being too much around them used to be draining. I could never understand why until I was older and learned who I really am.
Alex, given time, I know the internal issues you carry will sort themselves out. I'm 44 and it took 41 years for all the internal mechanisms to finally fall into place and begin firing as a well-timed machine should. Up to that point I had the hardest time in life, I felt like I was constantly at war with everyone and everything at all times. It was spiritually exhausting and I just wanted it to end. I'd say the one thing that has helped me above all else is finding a purpose for my life, something that I can focus all my mental energy towards achieving. You have to ask yourself the questions, "If I could snap my fingers and make it so, what is it that I would do, what would I be, what future would I create, what is it that I want?" You have to envision what it is you want, no matter how ridiculous or unorthodox it is. Start there and think about that. From there your INTJ thought process will work backwards and slowly create a path until it reaches where you are now. Once that mental path has been created, you'll know exactly where you're headed and what you need to do to get there. Just don't let anything get in your way, no matter how long it takes, no matter how many people don't believe in you or your vision for the future. Often times you will be alone on that quest but as you get closer, things will fall into place faster and faster.
This is what you need to focus on. Once you do, you'll always be irritated by stupidity and inefficiency, but those things won't consume your mind. Your mind will start to be consumed with your purpose, and your focus will allow your intellect to start to draw out a map and blueprint. This will set you free.
Love this comment as an intj myself. I believe when pushed can be the most formidable opponent due to our tactical, analytical mindset and gift of seeing the future in a way. Always step ahead of the competition, and having the ability to understand people better than most if not all other types
Man I am not too cold
I try to be calm
Yikes. Some of these aren’t “rare” for me. Hopefully that doesn’t mean I’m a bad person. But, honestly my life has greatly improved whenever I have done some of these things... so do I actually care if people see me as dangerous or a bit evil? No, not really. 😊
When you are relaxing, I am finalizing plan c for defeating you. We aren't enemies _yet,_ but just in case.
Infp female here with question for intjs. I have a INTJ boyfriend with whom we seem to gell well and care about each other very much. There was one time we had an argument though and a few days later we addressed what happened online and that's when he gave me this stare that sent shivers down my spine and I dont scare easy. After apologises and explanations from both sides we made up pretty quickly and got back to how things were.
But how close was I to him leaving me, is this stare something intjs do during any disagreement/argument or was that a last straw/resort kind of thing?
He may have just been thinking about how to respond depending on the nature of the argument. If I am ever arguing with a girl about an emotional topic my ability to express a thought in a compassionate isn’t instant. He was probably just thinking about his response. If he wanted to leave you, he would have. If it is anything like me, it is an on off switch. I can love someone one day then realize it isn’t for the best and leave them the next even while I still love them.
He would've left you if he didn't loved you right there. That's inevitable but he loved you enough to forgive you. Don't leave him otherwise there will be consequences
Intj girl here. I have a serious face unless someone makes me laugh or something. But I do the death stare quite often anytime someone makes me feel the need to show how serious I am being. Or when they did something really dumb and I don’t want to waste my energy telling them that. However, when it is during an argument. For me its kinda of like my warning to take me very seriously and also it will continue until you have realized your mistake or at least have apologized. If I have to keep doing it more than once it can be pretty bad but I’m also not the type to leave someone for any little thing. (Any argument can be fixed unless the other person is simply ignoring the others reason for arguing or is too offended to grow from it.)
Hi, what is your background for making these videos?… i am wondering because i cannot find any sources on these subject . A french psychiatrist … almost retired..
Mbti. 16 personality types. Lots of stuff on this subject. Something, I assume he is presenting as his own theories, as he could be a physiotherapist, or psychologist. But most of his content is derived from 16 personality types, mbti.
I am eauipped to hurt people really bad but most of the time I would spare them. But no one can screw me over without serious consequences.
I think I'm only a danger to myself 😂
The last 5 is no doubt
It's true.
Dangerous? Ya, sure. Why not. Especially if they are packing a gun.
Why do I feel that it's difficult for INTJ to have many friends? What type of jobs can suit INTJ the best?
Hi! Just asking for a small favor, can anyone recommend for INTJs? This may and is not the right place to ask, but considering the topic, it's worth a shot
recommend as in give advice or what
exactly we need more data
I’m not really into this self bragging about being an Intj. Most are not dangerous and will just ignore you if you’ve done something wrong to them or their loved ones. It all depends on what happened. Well they will not refrain from violence if this is the fastest and best way. But dangerous is not the right term.
Saya bukan introver.terimakasih video nya menyimak.ok.pak .
I prefer to use my evil powers for good. Just don't piss me off too much and cross the rubicon.
In my perception, INTJs are simply Fi people with some additional skills, i.e. even if someone cannot understand all of an INTJ's ideas, mutual appreciation on a Fi basis is still possible. Otherwise you could not have a loving relationship with children, for example. The fact that many INTJs today are skeptical about religion and the supernatural in general, I think has less to do with these issues per se (Ni is open-minded about many things) and more to do with the way this is publicly taught.
Matt’s dad here. Extreme INTJ, sigma empath with an inquisitive mind. What you said about the spiritual plane vs. what people are taught about it, fits me to a T. My whole life.
@@mattgoodmangoodmanlawnmowi2454 Did you also have pertinent experiences with religious teachers who wanted to give you an emotion-based approach to religion?
@@kataiwannhn
Yes, & I would have been burned at the stake in am earlier time.
I have a very private spiritual side. It is an amalgam of best approximations of my understanding. Only a few people ever know me.
To most of the world, as a former Marine & lifetime martial artist who still won’t tolerate disrespect, most of the world sees me only as an embodiment of the ever active fearsome Japanese god Fudo Myu, the Immutable Slayer of Evil.
Only the perceptive have a chance of knowing who I really am. And they all end up either loving me or hating me, but intensely.
It has been a paradoxical journey to my center, a lifetime obsession with freedom & truth. Never easy, seldom boring. But I could never be the other way.
I wasn’t always grateful but the end has proven to be worth the means required by it.
I live by Death Before Dishonor & Word Is Bond and live it. My job is to stay true to my principles.
. It is the job of the Supreme Being too judge it. I can only worry about continuing to move towards my truth.
So yeah. I can identify.
@@mattgoodmangoodmanlawnmowi2454 Should I know your son? Somehow I can't remember a Matt right now.
@@kataiwannhn
He isn’t as involved in MBTI etc. And hr has mostly migrated to other apps. So mostly it has been me, given that plus we listen to& share a broad variety of music.
3: That's just karma
I'm all bark and no bite
are you
Broken glass ❤
Are we born intj, or existentially developed into intj’s?
I am an INTJ and I certainly believe in the supernatural, both sides of it, and I am a Christian, which I think is the smartest and most logical thing to be. I am so glad that Jesus found me and persuaded me to trust Him. I would be a terrible person and a huge mess, if I had not opened my heart to Him.
Some people don't like me because I tell them things they need to know, but don't want to hear, but it doesn't matter when you know that God loves you.
I don't want to ever do anyone any harm, even if they have harmed me. I prefer to let God deal with them because He can do it a lot better than I can, and maybe they will become a better person for it. That doesn't mean, though, that I don't stand up to people when they act like jerks and might possibly even bring charges against them, if warranted. Sometimes that is the only way that they will realize they have done wrong and see their need to change. I filed a complaint against my own parents to that end, regarding how they treated me, my brother, and my sister when we were children. They were angry with me for doing that, but I found it wonderfully liberating and finally felt like a real grown-up, instead of a child masquerading in an adult body.
Yes, I can walk away even from people I love, if their behaviour is toxic. I have had people I love walk away from me, thinking it is a punishment and I am going to be alone and lonely, but with Jesus, I am never alone and He delivered me from loneliness a long time ago. I always find plenty of stuff to do to keep me from being bored, while praying for them and trusting Jesus to deal with them wherever they are. With all the stuff that my dear ones have meddled with, and the way the world is right now, I would go nuts with worry, if I didn't know that Jesus still heals and nothing is too hard for Him.
Earlana, INTJ female here. I resonate with every word you have so thoughtfully typed. I am so glad I found you. Because He chose us, we are confident with whom we belong. INTJ females are rare, and those who are Christians seem to be even more rare. TY for being a great encouragement. Romans 8:30 "and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified."
@@Dedo70 When I took the Myers Briggs test in college in 2006, my result was Rational Mastermind, an INTJ. I was thrilled. It is a rare type. I knew I was different, but I figured there must be other people like me, but where were they? Some were at my college, and some were in a chat room on the Internet. I laughed my head off at the INTJs who were commenting there, because I could relate to what they said their habits are.
But then I started watching these videos a few months ago and found I could not relate to female INTJs whose main focus is their career and they never waste time reading novels or watching soppy videos. I have gone through seasons in my life where I read a lot of novels and watched videos for entertainment, as well as seasons where it was only educational stuff.
My attention kept getting drawn to the videos about INFJs, but I felt afraid. I didn't want to be motivated by FEELINGS. Feelings hurt. Feelings mislead and get people into trouble. Feelings are wimpy. But I finally got up my courage, watched the INFJ videos, and realized I have more in common with INFJs than with INTJs, and that I have been wearing the INTJ label like a suit of armour, hiding from people that I have a tender heart, in case they tried to take advantage of it.
I actually cried. I was so scared to realize that I am an INFJ, but Jesus tenderly comforted me, saying that He made me this way for a good purpose, and that His strength is made perfect in weakness. I calmed down and then started watchnig videos about sigma INFJs, which I gather are the emotionally mature INFJs. I could relate to the sigmas and it was a big relief. Sigma INFJs can be empathetic without being controlled by their emotions, or controlled by other people.
Looking back, I think that some of the people I met in college who test as INTJs are actually matured INFJs. Other INFJs who commented on these videos said they tested as INTJs. I remember a discussion with a Newfie girl named Bonnie that I was closest to in school, both of us having tested as INTJs. I said to her, "People think INTJs are cold, but we're not. It's just that we don't have sympathy for people when they are being crybabies, but it's different when they experience real tragedies. I cry sometimes when I read the newspaper." She said, "Me, too."
@@faithworks217 I relate to this part of you as well, as I've questioned if I am really an INFJ. I am really quite thoughtful, taking others into consideration before myself...that is fruit of the Spirit, aka "more developed Fe." My decisions are largely made with Ni/Te, and I am pretty robotic (people also think they are talking to AI when they talk to me on the phone) so I really think I am an INTJ.
It is rumored that Jesus is an INFJ, so you're in good company if that is true. 😊
@@Dedo70 Yeah, the robotic thing. I used to have a very bland face and voice. I had to learn to put inflections in my voice and expressions on my face. My son sounded and looked robotic, too, when he was a teenager. But are we natural INTJs or did we become INTJs due to childhood trauma? My mother did not allow us three older kids to be too sad or too happy or to get angry because she was afraid of us being anything like our father, who was a toxic narcissist, an alcoholic with a violent temper. She left him when I was two and half, married a taxi driver, and us three older children were not treated as well as our younger siblings. I learned to look and sound bland to please my mother when I was a kid.
In my teens, I was around bikers, so I learned to not express shock at what they said or did. I got saved when I was 17, before getting in too deep with them.
I married an alcoholic and we fought about his drinking a lot. My son is an introvert like me, and he has Aspergers, so the early childhood trauma and autism influenced his mannerisms. He and his sister ended up in his father's custody when I was experiencing a nervous break down that lasted four months after my marriage broke up, overstressed from ten years of dealing with my ex's alcoholism. He remarried and his wife was horrible to my children. The ex took off to another province with them and prevented me from having any contact with the kids for five years. It was really rough for them, but it gave me time to sort out a lot of things. I learned to make decisions based on logic, rather than feelings because following my feelings got me into trouble.
I learned to be assertive, to stand by my principles, and not be a people pleaser or a doormat. As a result, my dysfunctional family has not been happy with me. They have cut me off, and some I have cut off, but I have a quiet and peaceful life without their drama.
oh I thought that being an INTJ was the boring mbti
INTJ belive in the supernatural ! Rengeteg zseni nemcsak hiszi, hanem tudja, hogy van valami anyagi világ fölötti rendező erő, mindegy minek nevezzük. Az igaz viszont, hogy a vallásos dogmákat elutasítják.
Ahahaha! Yes. No idiotic shit before 11pm.
While having been misused,yep can be..?!?.🤪
I need a cigarette ❤
INXJ for breakfast
None of this stuff is "dangerous". If people are so emotionally, ethically or intellectually immature to be damaged by any of the list, you need to grow TF up.
I think it would be very hard to be an INTJ and be a Republican.
It's actually quite easy. I mean, Republicans are known to encourage individualism, independence, self reliance, and a "fuck your feelings" attitude. Many younger Republicans don't base as much of their political leanings in traditional Christian conservatism, and that makes things easier.
@@shemac1482 INTJ's aren't into BS or conspiracies. Also, I have enormous empathy, and have never thought "fuck your feelings".
@Carolyn Garman I'm not into conspiracies unless they're proven to be conspiracies. There's conspiracy theories,and then there are proven conspiracies. So INTJ can believe in conspiracies, and we're more than open to exploring a potential conspiracy theory while weighing all plausible data and ponder potential validity. I also have a lot of empathy. Sometimes, what's truly the kindest thing to do for a person is to not tip toe around their feelings. Sometimes, the best way to help a person is to cut through the bullshit niceties and identify the problem. There's a difference between being kind and being "nice."
@@carolyngarman1422 I would think that INTJs are pretty good at accepting that there are conspiracies because they are logical thinkers, can see the big picture, and spot trends fairly easily. Conspiracies that make sense, that is. Not crap like flat Earth. If they have been targetted for mind control to play key roles, though, maybe not so easy for them.
@@faithworks217 I considered conspiracies that are real to be fact. But the conspiracies the Republicans believe are insane, there's no logic to them.