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- Be prepared for your EX to chase and Beg you
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Which 1 would be the best to pay for out of the 1st 2 options after almost 5 months of a break up but finding out the real truth of why she hasn't been contacting me like that
@@tevinpowell242 An hour would be fine
I made my payment for in hour for 12:00 which state are you in cause we may have different times
I'm might need some one on one coaching. My problem is my ex wanted me back and I said no, and now I want him back and he is someone else. I feel like he is trying to get me back. Mind games
I would like some one-on-one coach session
When someone doesn't want you anymore should be a turn off itself. Self respect is the key for your growth.
This was so short but powerful 🙏🏽 you're absolutely right.
They'll come back eventually but if you work on yourself and put in the work consistently, you'll see the loser in them.
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Truth!
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Can you explain that? How will they know you're working on yourself?
She left me, I was desparate, started reading and improving all areas and then a better one came along, because I was in the right mindset. It's all energy and it happened for a reason. I thank her.
Hello dear, I feel that you are interested in manifesting your specific person or ex ❤❤
My ex dumped me for a drunkard because after years of not treating her good she finallymoved on but not for the better I guess just to spite me for all the hurt I put her through. No cap I'm the one who didn't reciprocate the love that I received because I didn't know what real love was like and after finally thinking I was gonna do right she dumped me. I'm the bad ex and I should be the one chasing but the fact that she dumped me for a drunkard tells me everything I need to know. I'm moving on because I can't manage the pain, I just deleted every message,picture, video and memory it's a clean slate now and even though I'm hurting so bad it's the best decision for my sanity.
@@renardopalmer9159 Am sorry for the pain but it will all get better with time. Be strong for yourself
@@joanoroni4462 thanks but I'm long over that hurt I recovered like in 2 weeks thought the feeling would last for an eternity but thankfully no.
@@renardopalmer9159 you didn't give a crap about her.. it happens.
Got dumped. I went from begging and pleading to no contact, she reached out. I moved on and its killing her 😂 Do Not Think its over they always come back.
How long did it take? And how did u act I need tips lmao
Trueee🎉
I wish they always did come back. Mine hasn't.
POV: I’ve been in no contact with my ex for 2 months now. Fast forward to today, his teenage son sent me a text to let me know his dad has been nothing but grumpy since we parted ways and he’s more than sure he misses me and is just being stubborn. 😂 I was shocked because I thought he had moved on. YOU’RE SO RIGHT COACH B.
One thing I won’t forget is that this man had a chance to reach out on several occasions and his actions said…f*ck you.
When a man leaves you, there’s a gift behind him leaving. Sometimes the breakup is the blessing.
They’re never going to be able to replace you.
Conduct yourself like the special person that you are and your ex will respect you more.
I am someone that he will regret losing.
One day there’s going to be a point where he’s going to regret everything he did to me mentally.
There is going to be a turning point in their life when they realized that they lost the one person that would have given them everything.
I finally know what it feels like to value my self.
One Love
i am in this position too and I feel like I tried so long and enough to show this person that I am the one that would be down to the very end and would do anything for them. still iam painted like I ain’t shit to lose. i have the chance to reach out, I improved my life , but iam hesitating cause I am scared I see my reach out as mature communication but in reality it just will be another me doing the most while being seen as weak. my heart says yes, my mind says no. if you got taken for granted or got abandoned it’s a different kind of issues you deal with. Almost like you scared to make the decision
No offence, but if he's a narcissist or toxic, he ain't care. If he comes back, not because he misses you or has changed or regret losing you, but to feed his ego or validation. Don't ever take them back! Lesson learned
@@hanihamid4450 problem is peoples attitude nowadays and the society we live in. If someone really misses someone, comes back, try to prove that they have changed, they get viewed as desperate and weak and it only fills the ego of the person that gets chased. Lot of people genuine did the work, want things to work out and change for the better, but the other person made they’re mind up long ago. Clear fact like u said: a narcissistic person only comes back to feed his own ego. Sad thing is that lots of the people that paint others as a narcissist, have narcissistic traits by themselves. Would be careful with throwing that word around, nowadays everybody is a therapist and think they diagnose narcissists …
Lol
I regret losing every woman I slept with. I wish I still could sleep with all of them.
Nobody should want to be with anyone that doesn't want you or value you put the focus on yourself.
The comments itself is a therapy ❤❤thank-you everyone
I remember an older lady told me as a teenager , pick who wants you !not who you want . I've never forgotten it . If they don't want you ......walk away and get on with your life .
Broke no contact after 42 days. She says "please leave me alone" i feel better knowing there is no more false hope. Don't break no contact guys
Block her
@@nonameyt4585 no need to block her....trust me fam, she won't hit em up
Damn bro she's coming off like MY ex, with that "PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE!!" text...
I lost haha but that lost will make you stronger
Yeah it’s dead my boy.. keep your head up
It’s been about 2 days of no contact. I’m ngl I’ve been a complete wreck. One minute I’m fine, the next minute I’m in tears, the next minute I’m laughing, etc. I know I’ll be okay, but man the first couple of days are ROUGH 😢
Girl I know how you feel! It gets easier the longer it goes, keep being strong 💪🏻
I feel your pain...ive been no contact for 4 days it gets easier slowly. My ex is stubburn so im not sure when if she contacts me. I feel better as the hours pass....stay strong through the tears ❤
I'm in the same thing with my ex girl it's been 4 days I know how this feels I truly do
I’m in the third week and it gets a little better but there are times where I’m a wreck too but I bring myself back by remembering why I’m here in the first place.
It's been a month for me and I still cry myself to sleep
This is very true. When he broke up with me I completed stopped all contacts. Never tried to get his attention in any way. It’s less than 3 months and he is the one trying all kind of ways to get my attention. It’s actually very funny because I realized how much silence can do to someone. I’m not going to break my silence until he initiates a direct conversation like a matured person…
So true what you are saying! Love yourself! Stay in no contact! They will always comeback. Workout and focus on yourself! Trust the process
My ex dumped me for a drunkard because after years of not treating her good she finallymoved on but not for the better I guess just to spite me for all the hurt I put her through. No cap I'm the one who didn't reciprocate the love that I received because I didn't know what real love was like and after finally thinking I was gonna do right she dumped me. I'm the bad ex and I should be the one chasing but the fact that she dumped me for a drunkard tells me everything I need to know. I'm moving on because I can't manage the pain, I just deleted every message,picture, video and memory it's a clean slate now and even though I'm hurting so bad it's the best decision for my sanity.
@@renardopalmer9159stay strong brother im in the same boat as you chin up stand tall even when it hurts embrace it and become the best version of yourself ❤️🩹❤️
You rn 💔😵💫> > > > ⏰< < < < Ex👋🖕
Give it time. You’re both on the opposite side of the spectrum right now. But over time the roles will be reversed like this:
You💪😊🖕
It's been almost a year. She is now the one chasing. Asking me to consider getting back together. No contact, improving myself physically in all areas has worked. She's coming over tonight where I will convince her to take care of my animals while I'm out of town for a few days. We were together for 7 years so she knows my pets.
I'm in same situation, but 6 months and now she's chasing.
@@80skid83 Stay strong brother. Don’t give in right away even if you want her back. Women love the anxiety of chasing. And if you do get with her don’t stop improving. Complacency is a killer
My ex dumped me for a drunkard because after years of not treating her good she finallymoved on but not for the better I guess just to spite me for all the hurt I put her through. No cap I'm the one who didn't reciprocate the love that I received because I didn't know what real love was like and after finally thinking I was gonna do right she dumped me. I'm the bad ex and I should be the one chasing but the fact that she dumped me for a drunkard tells me everything I need to know. I'm moving on because I can't manage the pain, I just deleted every message,picture, video and memory it's a clean slate now and even though I'm hurting so bad it's the best decision for my sanity.
@@renardopalmer9159 I been there. Just no it gets easier with time. Good things are waiting.
EVERYBODY LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO!!! This video should preface ALL of his videos. You absolutely must control your behaviors because your emotions cloud your thoughts/judgements. Trust this man because you will build a brighter better future for yourself wether your ex comes back or not, promise. My ex just sent me the longest text ever literally doing/saying everything he said exes will do when they want you back, I was blown away. We’re meeting up tomorrow not because I need it but because I feel it’s what’s deserving of the friendship and time we spent together, we’ll see where it goes. Coaches videos give you everything you need and some… just listen and apply accordingly! Coach this video is by far in my opinion your best one, thanks G!💯
How long has it been since you broke up?
How long was the break up for
Not my ex, pimpin, she's gone, has a new boo she met at church even brought him to her family's easter gathering this year. Funny, she broke up with me for the UMPTEENTH time back in late January/1st week February...so she had him on the bench ready to play while getting ready to dump me AGAIN!!
Happy for you dude!
Update please
This is 10000% true, 2 months ago my ex told me that doesn't want to see me again. 2 months later she likes my Instagram photo, and views my story, wears the ring I gave her, listens songs like "Call me, Without you, Want you bad" and so on, they will give signs, and they will come back.
Update?
@@FIOCCOCOCKATOO she texted me for Christmas, that wished me for Christmas and New Year and she told me she has been always single. In January she texted me that asked me when I'll move to Germany, and to text her when I go there. In February she followed my Instagram and again told me to not forget to text her. Emmm she is waiting that I move in Germany, she said that we will be closer and we will have it easier, now waiting for more. 1 month without talking but she always sees my stories and posts
@@FIOCCOCOCKATOO She texted and followed me on Instagram, she told me to tell her when I'll move to Germany, and that we will be closer and things will be better
How long… I’m on week 3 😢 I’ve stopped eating much…
@@runout1013 I feel you bro, I felt same as you, I couldn't eat, started to have stomach problems, felt so terrible. But then I started to think, this will not make things better, I should be better person, and I started to do gymnastics, do great in school, then she started to show interest. 1 month ago she texted me, to text her when I'll go to Germany, and said that there things will be different, I'll see everything now, but now I'm more mad with myself why I didn't start workout earlier and become better version of me :/ anyway, stay strong 💪 she will come back. If she doesn't be in any relationship after break up, take her back, if she was in relationship, then it is everything over :/
I dont want to be with someone who doesnt want me
Facts
I transcribed the most important words from Coach (presented at the end of the video.) You have emotionally checked out of the relationship. And you just want to move on with your life. They’re contacting you and you’re the one who is irritated by them!
You’ve moved on and you’re on to bigger and better things. Only if your ex comes back in the right way. They’ve done some work on themselves. They are a better version and you see that you could possibly align with them. Those are the only grounds on which you will consider getting back into a relationship with them. ❤️
Today is day 8 of NC. It's getting easier ❤
I've been in no contact for almost 260 days and I'm enjoying it, I've actually been talking to God alot more and that's been making it even easier. I don't know how much weight I've lost sense August of last year however I've lost alot. Still haven't heard from my ex and I probably wont hear from her. Oh well her loss
Good luck on your journey.
@@scottverge938 thanks I guess the best thing for me is to stay single
260 days she ain't coming back, I would say check all your spam mail. One time I went that long with an ex only to realise her messages had been going to spam long before jeez.
@@80skid83 she doesnt have my email, I never gave it to her. She knows where I live and she has my number that's about it. I'm moving on even though God said he was going to bring her back into my life, he never said exactly when. All God said was she will be back in your life soon, have faith and trust me. So that could be 5 years from now or tomorrow for all I know, so I'm going to put my trust and faith in him and what he tells me
@@darkchthonian856 how about fb, or other social media. My ex was sending messages on there but cos she wasn't on my friends list I didn't see them till 18 months later as it went to spam. After all.that time I reached out and we hooked up a couple times and then she faded away and I moved out of town anyway
I see many of these red pill CZcamsrs acting all alpha and making fun of those vulnerable. But your advice, support and kindness is a true example of how CZcamsrs should treat others.
I've checked out of a relationship where I really loved him. I met someone who is a REAL man, treats me right. My ex is reaching out regularly but I'm not into him anymore. I don't want a poor place to be in. I found gold instead . Your truth is real, but equally some people will remain unqualified to be in your life. ❤
I also agree Coach that this is your best video and the one that is the most useful. Thank you for showing me the way. Truly! 🙏🏽
You sound really supportive and calming. You're awesome 🙏🏻
Hope he begs until the day I let go of earth because those tears I’ve cried for him to change to love me and now it’s too late!! 😢
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😢 so real, stealing love you can never get back
He will
@@sasha-marie3366 thx 🙏
The moment she went straight to the rebound after 4 years, its over. One thing is to breakup and be alone out of respect for yourself and to tour partner. But the moment they go to the rebound, you know what happens, you know theres gonna be sex, you know theres gona be disrespect. As if we have done something that merits a "revenge". My god who have i been with for the past 4 years. Its too late for them to come back. Whats done is done.
agreed... i get sick thinking about that
Mine went back to her hook up guy after we broke up
Now you guys know about rebounds wacth coach court he talks about that and most of the time they don't work it just makes the pain lighter they are using them to get over you or they use it to suppress never good to leave one relationship and take all that baggage to another so sad to be used like that
@@sheliasmith2884 I was the rebound guy for a woman recently, nightmare. Always talking about her ex , next minute ex is back there sleeping round hers. NEXT !!!
I was a rebound as well and all they did was talk about there ex for a year then dumbed me to get back with with the ex. but didn’t work out
I watched your videos and others.. all this helps ME.. it gave me strength and taught me to live without him.. Not to mention I’ve been focusing on my fitness goals and love it.. I’m at the point now I don’t care if he comes back or not.. also.. knowing him he won’t reach out let alone beg.. and I’m ok with that too.. 😊
I’m in a good place now
I feel that also
Thanks! For your kind words and honesty
Oh thank you so much for not putting music in the background finally can focus on listening to YOU.
You're extremely insightful! Thank you for your content. It's priceless.
Cool video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
@@christopherkraft5553 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@christopherkraft5553 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I'm with you almost 9 year relationship, I can't even date tbh I don't want nothing else, but she is drinking and screwing up big time now it's beyond repair,,,I know that and I still hurt been almost 4 months😢
My suggestion is to find a therapist (it’s covered by insurance), join a gym and get fit, and look for ways to improve and love yourself. Take focus of ex
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Your voice and the background music is a perfect combo. Love to learn from your videos, continue doing great work❤
Just been listening to your advice sounds great but they are some people that will not chase you even when they know it was there fault for the break up everyone is different....Good talk.
No contact is the Genesis of the process to getting your ex back
Not if he/she is in a new relationship/situation
High 5 to 2:32 to 2:48. Stop with the excuses. Just keep it real. Feels so good to feel better. 👍🏾👍🏾
That is a very good example about company meetings
Thank you for being consistent
Oh wow great some inspiration..for those who was left out of the blue,keeps me going..
Thank you for these detailed explanations.
One of your best videos yet. Thanks.
Thanks bro
Your wisdom and advice is the best bro
Bro, thanks so much for your motivational words.
Damn i got only a few mins in and was like YES THIS NEEDS TO BE HEARD BY EVERYONE ❤
Most people use the no contact as a ploy or game to get their ex back. Its never used for its intended purpose, which is to use the time to learn and improve. Soon they'll realize they've wasted their time waiting and hoping for her to come back. When that day comes, they'll panic and react by reaching out to her. It's imperative to approach the " no contact" as if you will never see or speak to her again. In short, act like she's dead to you. If and when she reaches out to you, you'll be in a much better state of mind to how to reapond. If you did your homework, you'll ignore her. That's how you'll know you've improved. Stop using it as a revenge tool.
EXACTLY
Thank you so much. It really does help ❤
This is Great information, Thank you!!!!
Thank You Coach 💯
Thank you so much! So empowering!
Man I Love Your Videos. Thank You So Much.
Very helpful, I keep my fingers you are right...!!
Im getting ready for the chase,not waiting but prepared 🙏
Update?
Really enjoyed. Liked and subscribed.
Good stuff, thanks for sharing.
Amazing channel
Even better advice brother
Great video❤
Ty! 💜🙏
Its so hard to accept somethings and i cant accept it but i believe in the process even its so hard to do sometimes
He told me his pretty much depressed and his mentality not fit blah blah blah…so I told him I understand and that I got nothing but love for him and praying find mental clarity he whatever his seeking for and I’ll let him set the pace…I know I did my part and I’m good I’m definitely the prize
Good info thank you
Prioritize Yourself. If you spend more time working on yourself. You’ll eventually start to forget the person. Even if it takes longer then you expect. Consider your emotions and speak life into those areas. You deserve more . You are healing and only willing to accept peace. So when he/she does return.You’ll recognize his/her behavior don’t match your current energy. At some point your attraction will change. Since your mind has been elevating.
I’m dealing with this right now, wife divorced me about a year ago and I had all the emotions you described in this video. Went no contact, now she is trying to use the kids to get me back.
I just started no contact a few days ago after staying friends with my ex. I told him friends isn’t going to work for me and I need to move on. It’s so hard I’ve wanted to break no contact so many times being unsure of my decision but I’m being strong and haven’t!
Hang in there do the no contact properly it worked for me I waited 49 days got my text from him😊
Stay busy Anna go out with friends and family read the Bible go to church treat yourself with friends at a restaurant go to a good movie that's how I find a good book to read just keep busy girly
Friendship will help him get rid of you easier till he finds someone else. You’re a place holder. Go no contact asap.
@@benithacalloway8286 at this point it is what it is and I don’t care to get back together as much now because I haven’t seen him in 6 months and he’s not showing any interest so it made me loose interest for him.. I’ve excepted we probably won’t be in a relationship again and I think I’ll be okay. At least I have him as a friend and we still have that relationship. And I’m grateful for the relationship we did have because it was good and I was the happiest I’ve been in a while
@@andreajones6840been waiting like a good girl 👌
The example you used was a good way to put it! Thanks!
Dear Coach, I just want to say thank you and the best coach I've ever met on youtube!! I almost went crazy during my breakup phase but your videos keep me going. I practiced the no contact and always practice what you said in your videos. Now, it's my ex that has been calling me for some months now. So I decided to hear him out and he has been apologizing so bad. He really want to us to see , dont know what he want to talk about but i will give him the chance to see me when I'm in my best mood.
Did you get back with him?
I am 69 years old and was married for 40 years to a narc. This is the second breakup for us. I went back the first time because he said we could work it out. I just got so tired of the way he treated me. He was giving me the silent treatment and i said to myself this is enough. I hired an attorney and divorced him. I took half of everything. He tried to turn it around like he was done with me. I didn't care what he said or did. I am now divorced and living onmy own. I have not seen him ortalked to him in 8 months. He has texted me and goes and sees my brothers. I do not go around the friends we had together. I stay away from them. This has been difficult for me but it keeps getting easier. I have made new friends and i am going and doing different things. I pray he does not hoover or ever want me back. Lol. This just takes time. I am doing so much better. No one to put me down or try to make me feel bad. Just peace and quiet. ❤
My ex messaged me after months of no contact and all he said was "Hey"...I didn't respond. Next he said "You miss daddys d**k?"(completely inappropriate so I did not respond) days later he said "That must be a yes." I also did not respond to that. He was emotionally, mentally, and verbally abusive. I will keep him in my past and do not want him back. No contact was for my healing and peace.
Kinda wished I never replied to my ex now too after months of no contact, it has opened up old wounds for sure
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A person can't be mentally, emotionally and physically abuse for no reason it must be your inappropriate behavior
@@aby_yt2210 I never said physically. Also he had mental health issues that stemmed from childhood. My behavior to recieve those messages from him was literally me not contacting him sooo if you will please explain further?
@@aby_yt2210 um what
We have been booking up my ex we have been packed up about a month and then he came back on his own in this month February 10 We broke up again, and now he’s with a new newwoman Thank you coming back
No contact was the best thing i did for myself
¡Gracias!
Good morning Coach 🌞
Good morning!
Spot on
Thank you so much for your videos. My SP just recently broke up with me. He got upset bc he said I didn't reach out to him until after the weekend. Which isnt true I had texted him several times before the weekend asking if he had any plans but I never got a response. But once I did that's when he broke it off. I was stunned and confused. Idk if he will reach out bc he has said before that he was "done". He has blocked my number and on social media. Today is day 3. I contacted him the first 2 days, but I have done no contact starting today. I will listen to more of your videos and take tour advice bc it sounds promising. Again thanks for sharing tour knowledge.
I really love your videos Sr. It has been helpful...
One suggestion if you dont mind. Can you please see your camera? It feels like u are not talking to us because you are look to elsewhere... we pay more attention when the person talking to us is looking at us in a face it shows us that the person is so confident...
Thanks once again🙏🏾🙏🏾
I have to trust the process and be patient
Hello dear, I feel that you are interested in manifesting your specific person or ex ❤❤
I remember I my ex broke up with me I didn’t contact him at all a year later he contacted me. And before that one time he actually call me to say it don’t matter if I lose weight of what he was done. Broke up with me out of the blue……. But when he finally contacted me I was 2 months pregnant. Life is funny love what you have and treat people the best that you can.
About 2 weeks NC, and to make sure I stay that way My Friend and I have a Bet going. And gotta say it’s been really helpful on both moving on, and not breaking NC. But the day after I started NC and I called out what she did,she made a post saying “I am so much happier without you” (she was blocked btw) hope I don’t owe him concert tickets.
My advice is this: if they left you and didn’t want u, u were fixing your broken heart and bettering yourself all on your own. They showed you that you don’t need them. If you don’t need them, or they won’t be there for u, or they walked out on u, why the hell do u think u need them back? Self abuse? Low standards? No self respect? Think on it and value urself and say no! When and if they comeback, simply reject them and say u have moved on, and that ship has sailed. Tell them they PROVED to you, that u don’t need them, so u r better off 😊. Value urself, and let them be the one hurting.
Thank you so much
We lived together again and then my ex husband wasn’t interested in me and said there was someone else he wanted to pursue and told me he no longer loved me. I knew that he couldn’t move on so quick as the month before he was chasing me hard.
Moved out with my daughter and was so sad. Few months passed and I knew he will be in contact as he had a lot of rebounds prior, and now he’s chasing me , asking me how my relationships going.
I watched another dating advice guru and said if he wants me he’s going to prove it - I went through so much shit without him, and I knew wholeheartedly he will be back as it was a pattern. But he WILL have to work hard for me to give him a chance and show he won’t pick some random over me lol
Legend.
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THANKS 🙏👍
Once a Person turns there cheek, its all over, you lost it ,let go and carry on, forget about it its a new opportunity. Don't look back!
Honestly i did lose my way. I slowly started to ignore my college education. She broke up with me the same way you discribed. Ive used this time to get back on track, turns out once i finally acceped the reality and started moving foreward and focusing on myself, i ended up not needing to take any more classes because i earned my degree. Im not sure if this is some devine sign or result of moveing on but im glad i put my priorities back on me and my own goals
Dumped after 10 lovely years. He had another. I Immediately went into no contact. 16 months on he's made contact....with my dad....I've ignored him and will continue to! His loss! Go and creep around some other soft woman cuz I'm strong now.....and happy! 😊
Thank you
I love the title 😂 😂😂
TNX 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Trust the processes it works yall
Hello dear, I feel that you are interested in manifesting your specific person or ex ❤❤
I sent out thank you so much for everything and hope you are happy. I’m moving on, I’m leaving the door slightly open but not waiting anymore. Going no contact from here on out.
I wouldn’t have sent that. It is still trying too hard. But from here on out, be consistent and stop reaching out
Will do Coach, I haven’t contacted her at all since I sent that. Thanks for the advice. I would really like this to work out. Any advice on long distance relationship as well?
@@blacademicmy ex fiance left me and got married without telling me. i found out through facebook. naturally i took the L and went no contact. months later she tried to casually reach out. i gnored her. she tried to apologize. i just deleted the messages. she casually just emailed me to say she was thinking of me. WTH bro. contact works but at this point this is crazy. she married and has a kid. why she still reaching out. its over. i am so disgusted i cant even look at her let alone chit chat about the past.
I'm eagerly waiting for this power dynamic shift.
Did it happen?
@@nikhilavhad4284 Dynamic shift happened now i lost obsession with him, i don't want him anymore in my life but he didn't come back. He cheated and betrayed and is probably okay with that. I hope Karma remembers him everytime
You're like a wizard this is magic
Speak it, handsome
Thanks
THIS listen it to you 4 times til u get it
Imagine this happened in my situation lol ? Don’t see it happening but best of luck
The hardest part I'm dealing with right now is watching her be in another relationship. It's only been a few months that she's been with him but it's definitely tough to watch
Mine slept with another man the day she left. I hear ya.
Mine waited 8 months until she started seeing somebody else but I will agree it’s so hard to see even after 8 months post break-up. I won’t lie and say it gets easier because it don’t. But I will say this after enough time passes the pain dulls. Hang in there and I hope your healing journey much success. From one broken hearted to another. ❤
My ex, was grooming a new boo, during our "union"...as soon as she locked it down, I'm sure he KNOCKED it down, the day she left me...
We broke up this late January, she met the new dude in church and had him at her family's easter gathering
I'm 6 months now and could probably handle it tbh
Sorry brother
My Ex is calling. Ive broken no contact by ignoring the initial call and calling back days later only to hear the same topics which show there is nothing new to discuss and this stirs up in me a strength to push further away because hes showing nothing next level. I may have dropped the ball with no contact...but definitely identify his coming back around increasing...also asking questions concerning who, what, when n where...I told my son w/o saying his name..."go back my car out" and he asked who was backing the car out...I ignored the question...not to play games...cause he cheated, engaged (still calling) but because the interest to share those interpersonal things no longer exist...i know thats alot-but I see the dynamic Coacj is talking about.
Gold ⭐️ ❤ 5:25
But coach blac....you can do all that, but if the ex ever comes back, you will still be emotionally under that ex. It never works in the end. Just let them go! A person who truly loves will stay no matter what. Good riddance.