Dehydrated Dating - Single & Secure - Rich Wilkerson Jr.

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  • čas přidán 12. 07. 2024
  • If you get thirsty enough, you will settle for anything.
    Many times we seek for anything or anyone to fill our voids. Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr. continues to part 5 of the Single & Secure collection of talks titled “Dehydrated Dating”. Regardless of your season, fill yourself with the living water, Jesus. Avoid settling for what the world deems fitting. No person or relationship can save you, only the Savior provides security.
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    Section Titles
    0:00 - Intro
    2:53 - John 4.7-18
    4:56 - Dehydrated Dating
    7:44 - It Might Not Be Love, It Might Be Thirst
    17:21 - You Might Be Thirsty If…
    19:56 - 1. Heal From The Past
    20:28 - Unresolved Childhood Issues
    21:15 - Trust Issues
    22:44 - 2. Prepare For The Future
    23:56 - Get Out Of Debt
    25:50 - Build Something
    27:13 - Be The One You Desire, Desires
    31:07 - 3. Be Wise In The Present
    31:28 - Postpone the Physical
    33:55 - Don’t Missionary Date
    40:25 - Deal with Conflict

Komentáře • 59

  • @camillecultura2515
    @camillecultura2515 Před 2 lety +41

    Thank you, Pastor Rich. I am going through a really hard time with someone I am romantically attached to. And it's been really hard for me and this series has been helping me get through it. I believe God has been talking to me through the messages you're sharing. It's still hard but I'm gonna get through it in Jesus' name.

  • @leticiafanx1684
    @leticiafanx1684 Před 2 lety +37

    ''If you don't heal from what hurt you, you will bleed on people who never cut you.'' Very good!! Great message!!
    God Bless!!
    Love from Brazil!!

  • @adilyntan284
    @adilyntan284 Před rokem +6

    God has really given Pastor Rich a gift in applying God’s way to life 😍👏🏼

  • @tessal.5769
    @tessal.5769 Před rokem +2

    Wow! Finding these single and secure sermons is exactly what I needed. After being through a divorce from an alcoholic and then a very rocky 3 year relationship which ended in betrayal, I had lost all hope. I am not used to being single as the last 15 years of my life I was in a marriage and then long term relationship. Now I am basking in my singleness and using it to BUILD something...my relationship with God. Thank you for these sermons.

  • @angelajoybb
    @angelajoybb Před 2 lety +8

    Yes those 8 points are all current issues. The divorce not being finalized shouldn’t be a shock. I’ve seen quite a few men still married dating others while “separated” but living together. Settling for a man with a tattoo of a cross is eye opening! Ahhh!!

  • @marisoljesus9862
    @marisoljesus9862 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for all your messages!! Speak truth.. I am single but definitely not thirsty. Seeking God first and working on to better me. Waiting patiently 🙏

  • @chocortez23
    @chocortez23 Před 2 lety +6

    Hola desde Costa Rica!! Pastor Rich!! Thank you!! So so soo timely and so convicting. I am not dating or have a boyfriend, waiting on God's direction and Him to say, "Here he is, I will lead you to him. You don't have to play the game.". This message has helped me to continue to wait on God and not start to be dehydrated and start thinking, "he might be the one or yeh, but maybe...". No! No! I want my thirst to be quenched by Jesus! I don't need a guy for that and until I meet the man after God's own heart that He has for me, I shall wait. Thanks! Keep preaching the truth!👍🏆

  • @hanajahslens
    @hanajahslens Před rokem

    i love this entire series yesss so goooddd

  • @tryingtothrive157
    @tryingtothrive157 Před 2 lety +6

    Perfect timing! Jesus guided me to the teaching needed for my current struggle. It's embarrassing how much you reinterpret your faith to turn a worldy thirst into an acceptable Christian choice. These reminders will help everyone and anyone who wants better relationships. Even a non-believer will benefit from these practical approaches to living a good & productive single life.
    Thank you, Pastor Rich.

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety +1

      Just like Jesus and the woman at the well, when will we be filled--even if we're single?💯💯💯💬

  • @olivermarroquin8944
    @olivermarroquin8944 Před 2 lety +13

    Loved this talk today. Thank you Pastor Rich!

  • @GregJBurgess
    @GregJBurgess Před 2 lety +5

    Wow. speaking right to the heart of our church. love you pastor.

  • @niksolo4311
    @niksolo4311 Před 2 lety +8

    one of your best sermons pastor - so relevant for todays day and age and much needed! God bless!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety +1

      Who was the samaritan woman in the story?💃💃🦄🦄

  • @epieselvie4389
    @epieselvie4389 Před 2 lety +11

    Hi from Indonesia 🙋‍♀️ Thank you for preaching this. I am so blessed with the insights, they help me a lot to understand what to do during this season of my life. God bless you. 🙏❤😇

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety

      When it comes to our struggling, don't ministry date...period!👎👎👎

  • @samuelepps5733
    @samuelepps5733 Před rokem

    We must always have good counsel. Someone with knowledge and wisdom. I agree with you on this pastor Rich Wilkerson.

  • @marisoljesus9862
    @marisoljesus9862 Před rokem +1

    I am making me the person who I want..

  • @kerrynsammons5698
    @kerrynsammons5698 Před rokem

    God is the best thing, he’s the real thing ❤️‍🔥

  • @melissasuarez2574
    @melissasuarez2574 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow this is so good, I really wish i would have heard this 6 years ago.

  • @annmariedelacruz601
    @annmariedelacruz601 Před 2 lety +3

    WOW this was SOO good !!! So grateful for this series

  • @danicaregala8415
    @danicaregala8415 Před 2 lety +2

    Love these series Pastor Rich!!
    Life changing
    Thank you!!!

  • @barbaraallen8439
    @barbaraallen8439 Před 2 lety

    Preach it pastor 🙏🏽😌
    Single and secure I adore it
    So important to be whole with the Lord before courtship or marriage
    I pray the Lord leads his children to this word and they soak it up

  • @sincerelygiulz
    @sincerelygiulz Před 2 lety +1

    SOOOOOOO GOOD!!! My God!

  • @michelevorster3195
    @michelevorster3195 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so good!

  • @melaniemartin4319
    @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety +2

    Following the message, I now have trust issues. Help me, somebody!😴😴💗💗

  • @andreastanley8946
    @andreastanley8946 Před rokem

    Thank you!!!!!! ❤❤

  • @andrewlarragoitiy9592
    @andrewlarragoitiy9592 Před 2 lety +3

    Create a bond before a title.

  • @ellenroseatwood9860
    @ellenroseatwood9860 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for your blessing of your gift of god

  • @monicakading3039
    @monicakading3039 Před 2 lety

    omg sooo good!!!

  • @samuelepps5733
    @samuelepps5733 Před rokem

    Amazing word. Thank you pastor rich

  • @lesyanisgarcia3896
    @lesyanisgarcia3896 Před 2 lety

    Gold

  • @lurbbs7786
    @lurbbs7786 Před rokem

    this is really treasure!!!!!!

  • @genevieveafif1227
    @genevieveafif1227 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow wow woww!!!! all the points are fire. Thank you Ps Rich for speaking truth, wisdom and sharing biblical insight.

  • @narsmarzietraveldiaries6773

    AMEN🙏🙏🙏

  • @nolo_Ramaloque
    @nolo_Ramaloque Před 2 lety +3

    I am dehydrated 🥺

  • @daninevanniekerk5330
    @daninevanniekerk5330 Před 2 lety +1

    This is a very powerful message! I just noticed Pastor Rich using God's name in vain a few times. I know saying "O my God" is part of the way in which Americans speak, but it is still sinful to give into that bad habit.

  • @winnielim80
    @winnielim80 Před 2 lety +1

    How do you address childhood wounds and father wounds? I have been suffering from this for 22 years and there’s no way I can find help.

  • @abiwav
    @abiwav Před rokem +2

    1. Heal from the past
    - [ ] Good counsel taking inventory of my soul, being honest of where I’m at
    - [ ] Unresolved childhood issues (Father wounds)
    - [ ] Trust issues (forgiveness others, forgive ourselves, it’s a process
    2. Prepare for my future
    - [ ] Vision of where you want to be with that person
    - [ ] Living in that manner now
    - [ ] Get out of debt
    - [ ] Dating should be investigation (what happens when you get angry, whats your dad or mum like? do you have debt?)
    - [ ] Build something on your own (education, character, friends, church, running their race, how jesus pick his ppl, be the one you desire, are you behaving in a manner that will be attractive for the person you’re looking for, are you the person you’re looking for, is looking for? I want someone passionate, stop being apathetic, ambitious stop being lazy, who makes me laugh, quit mopping around, someone attractive, go to gym, on fire for God, build something, what you project, others will reflect)
    - [ ] Establish healthy habits (butterflies will fly away, habits are involuntary behaviours, marriage only magnify what’s going on, expose what’s on the inside, good decisions, addictions, trauma, your decisions are impacting your future children)be wise in the present
    3. Be wise in the present
    - [ ] Postpone the physicals (cover up other problems, forgiveness, conflict resolution, communication)
    - [ ] Don’t missionary date (fall in love with Jesus, dating some person who think you’re responsible to be their missionary, do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever, easy to fall in love and butterflies, go to church doesn’t mean anything or you’re candidate for marriage, do we believe in jesus, are we strong together, do we have a mission, whats our life for, shared values, going through crisis and turbulence struggles, you need a partner we gonna pray, believe in that, love you from afar, without deepest intimacy in my life, hosea prophet married a prostitute Old Testament illustration god in the form of jesus coming and buying back the bride you and i, not an application to your dating life, fall in love w god who found us in our brokenness, truly fall in love not just thirsty, direct that person to God’s word, they really want you to be a christian, family trying to change somebody, find somebody who believe what you believe)
    - [ ] Deal with conflict (learn how to forgive and communicate, john chapter 4, pushed aside by society, jesus figures out a way to Samaria to the well in the middle of the day, wants to love her and meet her need, why 5 husband-thirsty, 7th man no. Of completion and perfection, living water, looking for validation in the wrong places, there’s a well that never run dry, jesus will you satisfy me, commenting look and see and like us, jesus is our only maker, we will never ever be dehydrated)

  • @Niens0124
    @Niens0124 Před 2 lety

    ❤😇

  • @rebeccarakototafika3366

    🥺❤️

  • @samuelepps5733
    @samuelepps5733 Před rokem

    I want a clear vision of where I am going.

  • @meg-d3024
    @meg-d3024 Před 2 lety

    🇬🇧

  • @caroliinec
    @caroliinec Před rokem +1

    17:41 "What is bumble? ...never been on it." Spoken EXACTLY like someone who has been on it but doesn't want anyone to know. Praying for DawnChere. ❤

  • @susanhorton9492
    @susanhorton9492 Před 2 lety

    what city is this ?

  • @shirleymorales3161
    @shirleymorales3161 Před rokem

    Upside down broken cross 🥲