Heartache and Heartbreak - Single & Secure - Rich Wilkerson Jr.

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  • Don’t let bitterness steal the blessings of God.
    Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr. continues with part four of his Single and Secure collection of talks, titled "Heartache & Heartbreak.”
    It's easy to get offended and allow the bitterness to grow in our hearts, but the good news is: God is ready to heal our wounds.
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    Section Titles
    0:00 - Intro
    1:59 - Hebrews 12.15 | Heartache & Heartbreak
    5:14 - Bitterness
    13:37 - 1. Heartache
    15:36 - 5 Types of Dad’s
    24:31 - 2. Heartbreak
    33:50 - Do You Need a Rebound?
    34:56 - 5 Signs That Your Heart Has Healed
    40:03 - From Bitter to Sweet
    42:47 - Angry with God

Komentáře • 145

  • @ava-jl1ll
    @ava-jl1ll Před 2 lety +179

    Going through a recent breakup - 3 weeks in. Just awful. 2nd heartbreak in 2 years back to back. God please give me the strength, revelation, clarity and healing. I pray for everyone else here who is hurting

    • @jessicaannsoler
      @jessicaannsoler Před 2 lety +5

      @ava will pray for you 🙏🏻. I’m going through the same and know just how you’re feeling. Jesus will heal us all.

    • @ava-jl1ll
      @ava-jl1ll Před 2 lety +3

      @@jessicaannsoler thank you Jessica. Likewise for you ❣️

    • @steffiealtingsiberg9339
      @steffiealtingsiberg9339 Před rokem +3

      Praying for you...I am currently going through this, dont want to let go.

    • @ava-jl1ll
      @ava-jl1ll Před rokem +5

      @@steffiealtingsiberg9339 hang in there babe. It gets better!!!! I promise something even better will come. I can attest to it.

    • @melulopes
      @melulopes Před rokem +1

      same here, praying for us all ❤ May the Lord bring us healing

  • @elvinagabriell3100
    @elvinagabriell3100 Před rokem +44

    This sermon is amazingly touching me. My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago after 5 year relationship. I have been praying to God to give me strength to move forward and forgive him. Slowly I’m starting to heal, God will restore me. Amen.

  • @Mensluxegrooming
    @Mensluxegrooming Před 5 měsíci +12

    Broke up over a month ago and I'm struggling so badly. It was a rebound relationship for him and I can't stop reeling through these cycles of depression. I'm still maintaining my sobriety and diving into God's word nonstop. However, just like when my youngest daughter passed away, he seems to be the first thing that my brain thinks of when I wake up and it's such a terrible feeling. I just want the madness and sadness to end. I'm begging God to make this hurt go away. If any of you see this, please pray over me. I need it so badly. I'm praying for all of us struggling as well 🙏

  • @HazeyDread
    @HazeyDread Před rokem +45

    My girlfriend and I broke up on Saturday because unfortunately she suffers from depression and anxiety. I have a lot of regrets and I wish I did things differently if I would’ve known it was too late
    :( We dated for 2 and a half years. I hope she’s able to get better and I really hope that God brings us back together after we heal. Please pray for me guys as I am hurting pretty bad, it’s only been 5 days and it’s still very fresh. May God heal her and myself and make us better for each other.

    • @CMD_Line
      @CMD_Line Před rokem +8

      Hey man, obviously I don't know you or your situation and I'm certainly not judging and I understand how difficult it must be for you.
      This is my story., My wife left me after 13 years because I was going through anxiety and depression from things in my past. It was in lockdown my world came crumbling down and I didn't know what was happening. Instead of standing by me, loving me, supporting me and helping me through it simply "done her head in and this wasn't what she signed up for".. She ran away when I needed her most, the one I decided to do life with left me and I felt totally abandoned.. What happened to them life vowels hey..
      Either way I'm now out of it, free, healed and a much better person than I was before. Take from this what you will, of course there is two sides to every story and every situation is different. Sometimes yes, you do have to walk away but this is what happened to me.
      I'm now a much better man and if she stuck around she would be getting the new better me, now someone else shall get this blessing and whomever that is will appreciate me.

    • @connie10000
      @connie10000 Před rokem +3

      Praying and thanking God your wife and yourself both are healed 110%. And your marriage is RENEWED with more joy trust & love than ever before! 💞

  • @xavierthelegend5576
    @xavierthelegend5576 Před rokem +30

    Hurt and wounded for 5 months now, still feeling heartache and heartbroken. Been praying day and night every single day for healing, left that sinful relationship, left that sinful life. I still couldn’t find that happiness I once had. But everyday, I look for sermons like this to learn and understand more on how God is working in my life. Thank you so much Pastor Rich for this message and lesson. Really opens up my spirituality.

  • @aliceandappetizers
    @aliceandappetizers Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you Jesus that you’re desire is to heal me. Thank you Father that you are perfect and you show up in a way that my earthly father never did and never will. Thank you Father for being on my side and being my defender. I love you Lord and I’m grateful for You. I open my life to your healing and your Love for me. I receive it. ❤

  • @donetalkingpodcast4
    @donetalkingpodcast4 Před 2 lety +59

    Currently going though a breakup it’s been two months now. God is slowly but surely mending my heart back together. This was a powerful message that I needed

  • @6.0hhh
    @6.0hhh Před 3 měsíci +2

    "You need to make a list of how all the ways that person wasn't good for you."
    I need to do this. How come after they leave do we dread on all the fun and happy times and not all the times you all argued and disagreed? 😭 Oh how I miss her but she honestly wasn't good for me. 😞 Oh Lord, heal my soul. Please. Fill the void in my heart that I continuously seek to have a woman fill. Until then I can never have a healthy, stable relationship. In Jesus name...

  • @yvonnemadyambwa1601
    @yvonnemadyambwa1601 Před rokem +10

    Well it's amazing how God loves us ...Got into a relationship that God warned me about ...it was clear that it wasn't meant for me ...He did warn me several times through dreams 😴...the very same thing I dreamt about happend and I had to walk away ...But I just thank God because he cares soo much for us that he doesn't want us to waste our time and energy on the wrong relationship.

  • @johnskinner2728
    @johnskinner2728 Před rokem +24

    I am so heartbroken right now and I feel like I had finally found the woman that I would spend the rest of my life with but I am believing for healing and redemption please pray for me

    • @jeancabugo6281
      @jeancabugo6281 Před rokem

      😢

    • @dj_krome
      @dj_krome Před 10 měsíci

      Stay strong bro. I know the feeling it’s unbearable. But it gets better trust me.

  • @erinbailey7278
    @erinbailey7278 Před rokem +6

    Wow! Why in the world would he say that Naomi didn't have reason to be Bitter?? For Pete's sake, she had Lost her Husband and her Sons!! In a Short amount of time!!! That's a Lot of Loss for one person to bear. Mourning takes time. Where is this man's Compassion for Naomi's Mourning time?? Does he truly not understand the loss of a loved one?? The Bible doesn't focus on Naomi being bitter forever, so it's just a guess here, that once she worked through her mourning time, and with the support of God and her family, she was able to get through it. This pastor is the first man I've heard that gives Naomi such a hard time. If a person is struggling with bitterness, yes, they do need to Go to God, He is the one who can Heal that.

  • @CaliLizzo
    @CaliLizzo Před rokem +5

    Either AI or God 👉 came up onbmy feed.
    My heartbreaks and my heartache have been effecting me for year's. Idk what you want from me Lord. I have an addiction and I let it consume me and it hurts so bad to let it go.
    I forgive my ex and my dad for their trespasses. I deserve your Grace Lord and I don't want resentment or bitterness to be on the driver seat.
    RELEASE ME LORD AND HEAL ME ✨️🙌❤️

  • @thaissalima6834
    @thaissalima6834 Před 2 lety +15

    This made me cry

  • @zehtajof9403
    @zehtajof9403 Před rokem +11

    My boyfriend and i broke up the other day, because im leaving the country soon and he is getting married(arranged) soon. It just hurts. But i hope he we both find our happiness. Please pray for me because the pain is unbearable💔💔💔🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @karen94558
    @karen94558 Před 4 měsíci

    Psalms 34 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌

  • @winnielim80
    @winnielim80 Před 2 lety +5

    This guy is definitely has an anointed gift in speaking to people who are single and secure . Really speak to those who have experienced heartbreak , shame and backed by scripture and very authentic .

  • @sincerelygiulz
    @sincerelygiulz Před 2 lety +12

    This collection keeps getting better and better! So blessed by today's message!

  • @anujpal6653
    @anujpal6653 Před 2 lety +10

    Although I'm an Atheist but I love to listen to Rich

    • @nazleyvanblerk1703
      @nazleyvanblerk1703 Před rokem

      Jesus is waiting for you to come home to him

    • @anujpal6653
      @anujpal6653 Před rokem +3

      @@nazleyvanblerk1703 I'll definitely go If Jesus show me the path

  • @VictorGarcia1008
    @VictorGarcia1008 Před 2 lety +13

    This sermon is helping fill my cup to pour into so many others who are going through so many of the spoken situations here. This series is on absolute 🔥 and God is speaking THROUGH Rich to bless us all ❤️

  • @nicoleann0703
    @nicoleann0703 Před 2 lety +45

    I so needed this; this is going in what I like to call my "tool kit" of Christian messages! 🔥I have definitely struggled with bitterness because of heartbreak over the past 10+ years and I've really had to lay it before God over and over. Loved the list Pastor Rich gave of how you can know you're healing, also loved the part about father wounds. Grateful for The Lord, great churches, my local body of Christ, and my therapist. Great message. Miss you, Vous!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety +4

      Heartbreak hurts...period!🤭🤭🤭

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety +2

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

  • @sadgirlvisuals4126
    @sadgirlvisuals4126 Před 2 lety +12

    Today , I learned that I’m so use to toxic parents , so when God tries to act like a real father , I get so confused and defensive. In my head , I’m like “what are you doing keep your distance ” 😂😂😂 I need to understand that he just doing what’s right . I’m just not used to it

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety +1

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

    • @sadgirlvisuals4126
      @sadgirlvisuals4126 Před 2 lety +1

      You should , if you’re ready ! I’ve been single all my 25 years of living😂 I’m kinda ready but not really prepared yet 😅 but come back in this comment section to let me know how it turns out 😃

  • @tiffanymarshall6094
    @tiffanymarshall6094 Před 2 lety +9

    Wow thank you !!You helped me realize I'm still broken hearted and now I see where I need healing.. God bless you for this !!!I really enjoyed this... 😊😪

  • @tee2678
    @tee2678 Před 8 měsíci

    This is my first time listening to Pastor Wilkerson. Wow! Very timely message. Thank you for allowing God to use you to bring healing to His people. I have just embarked on my healing journey. This isn't the first time I embark on a healing process as I have been hurt many a times in the past, however, this sermon has shared a new perspective. My journey will be different this time around. I am looking forward to listening to the rest of the series. God bless you and everyone watching. 🙏🏽

  • @BrianOzuna1900
    @BrianOzuna1900 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m man, 25, I’m really glad I didn’t go to this service because I would have ugly cried in front of everyone. God bless you Pastor Rich and God bless the rest of the Vous team

  • @Tysurgemeh
    @Tysurgemeh Před 2 lety +12

    Going through a heartache and feeling more and more like I just lost my moon and stars. Thank you for your message Rich, cause I can’t internalize and shoulder all this hurt on my own. God’s there for me!

    • @jessicaannsoler
      @jessicaannsoler Před 2 lety

      @skyman I’m going through the same and it feels like my world is crashing. I’ve been battling depression and suicide but I know Jesus will heal His children of all pain and hurt.

  • @shanrika1970
    @shanrika1970 Před 2 lety +8

    WOW so blessed and convicted with this powerful Word.....much love and blessings from South Africa🙏🙏💞💞

  • @NicoDuran-ow5gp
    @NicoDuran-ow5gp Před 3 měsíci

    My idea of God is that he is terrific and at the same time capable of overwhelming me. But I think that's part of my own unresolved bitterness.

  • @kristenkittjuntunen
    @kristenkittjuntunen Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you Pastor Rich and Vous Church! This series is so important and I appreciate you speaking on it :)

  • @tia.thecreator
    @tia.thecreator Před 6 měsíci

    This was amazing to come upon today! It’s been 1 month break up and 1 month no contact and I questioned if I was healing and I realized I was❤

  • @bex_b
    @bex_b Před rokem +2

    The song People by Johnathan Mcreynolds really helped me through past break ups

  • @rajeelaann766
    @rajeelaann766 Před 2 lety +1

    From Jesus to the Father. That hit hard

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety +1

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

  • @melaniemartin4319
    @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety +8

    When it comes to heartaches, I dont know where to turn. Help me, pastor rich!💔💔😿😿

    • @vanessavan5217
      @vanessavan5217 Před 2 lety +6

      turn to God! Give yourself time for your heart to heal and ask God to help you through it and He will answer you like the good Father He is.

  • @SunnieMo_
    @SunnieMo_ Před rokem +1

    This is excellent Word and RIGHT on time. Thank you God 🙌🏾

  • @nazleyvanblerk1703
    @nazleyvanblerk1703 Před rokem +1

    Lord thank you so much for Vous Church... Cape Town SA

  • @alysontin7752
    @alysontin7752 Před rokem +1

    thank you pastor rich for the sermon. been going through a heartbreak and the Lord initiated it because it wasnt a healthy relationship. i pray for restoration in my heart and i pray that his heart isnt hardened after this. i pray that i can grow in God from this path onwards and so does he. if the Lord allows i pray that he and i can meet again and restore the relationship. i pray that he will be more mature so that he can be a better boyfriend and a better husband. i pray that the Lord will grant me maturity and security in my identity. Amen

  • @krystlepaul4146
    @krystlepaul4146 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for this message a broken heart be it from a break up or the loss of a loved one this is timely indeed🙏

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

    • @krystlepaul4146
      @krystlepaul4146 Před 2 lety

      @@danielwise5786 well in God's timing seek him first for guidance moving forward..

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety

      @@krystlepaul4146 can we be friends

  • @alexnavarro301
    @alexnavarro301 Před 2 lety

    Love this church!

  • @xzavierburkhart9784
    @xzavierburkhart9784 Před 8 měsíci

    This is a great online church

  • @milesocampongrizal8665

    I cried

  • @amandamason2173
    @amandamason2173 Před 2 lety +4

    I really needed this today. Went to marriage counseling last night and today he said he needed to come talk to me face to face tonight. Regardless of what happens today I TRUST GOD!

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 Před 2 lety

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aliciahopegage7904
    @aliciahopegage7904 Před 10 měsíci

    Amen...Thank you Vous

  • @jessicarosekena7880
    @jessicarosekena7880 Před rokem

    God bless you ❤ so helpful 🙏🏾

  • @s-wes4107
    @s-wes4107 Před 2 lety

    Awesome message! SO applicable!!!

  • @thegoodangel506
    @thegoodangel506 Před rokem +2

    Im hurting my someone special just left me and i cant move on please pray for me

  • @jonwygant5663
    @jonwygant5663 Před 2 lety

    Great word from Pastor Rich!

  • @andrewmcallister3903
    @andrewmcallister3903 Před 2 lety

    💨💨 wow, powerful message of healing 🙌🏽

  • @rayanaraj3658
    @rayanaraj3658 Před rokem

    So blessed by this sermon ! 💜

  • @nickid
    @nickid Před rokem

    Thank you for your sermon ❤❤❤❤

  • @dorothykapembwa3237
    @dorothykapembwa3237 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful 🥺God bless you pastor.

  • @connie10000
    @connie10000 Před rokem

    Grateful for you and your wife... being top-notch preachers and so genuine

  • @samantapillay5127
    @samantapillay5127 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Pastor Rich. This sermon helped me sooo much.

  • @benjaminc.a4844
    @benjaminc.a4844 Před 2 lety

    Can't tell everyone how thankful I am for Vous Church. It's so hard hitting everytime and totally fills my heart with the peace of Jesus because it's a calmness like no other in a storm. He is always there

  • @natashafrederick2393
    @natashafrederick2393 Před 2 lety

    Lovely sermon Pastor Rich

  • @zoemtz
    @zoemtz Před 2 lety +2

    wow this was an amazing message really needed this God is so good!!

  • @anissabahouche8490
    @anissabahouche8490 Před 2 lety

    incroyable

  • @selflove96
    @selflove96 Před rokem

    Very helpful 👌

  • @mikaylablanke5137
    @mikaylablanke5137 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you! It's a sign from God that I received this message today... it's exactly what I needed.

  • @vera7299
    @vera7299 Před rokem

    I broke up with my boyfriend who has a good heart and I love him. I had to break things off now before I got bitter. He was bitter and I was the one who getting cut and bleeding. It was a cycle. I thought that I could change him. Then I realized if God can't change him , I won't be able to. I am ready to be with my life partner and I told him that I didn't want to put more energy into the relationship for a potential outcome. I don't feel anything right now since it happened yesterday. So I can say I am in the denial stage of grief.

  • @mikofriebel5844
    @mikofriebel5844 Před rokem

    Such a beautiful, beautiful sermon. Your words touched my heart and has brought me clarity in my own heartache and bitterness. Thank you.

  • @connie10000
    @connie10000 Před rokem

    I'd give anything to move and be closer to this church. I recently moved from wi to SC and it has been a nightmare with church people. It's been a long time since I've seen a preacher use visuals like this one😇

  • @kristarobinette3586
    @kristarobinette3586 Před rokem

    You two are A beautiful couple. GOD had sent your messages to me. Amen. I love your preaching. Wow!!! In GODS LOVE ❤️Krista Robinette

  • @Learning2luvME
    @Learning2luvME Před 2 lety

    So needed to hear this today! ABBA wants to set me free of bitterness! Thank you Jesus for forgiveness help me to be a forgiver by the power of your HS. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @teresacalderon502
    @teresacalderon502 Před 2 lety +4

    I used to go to this church when I lived in Miami. I really miss you guys and this community. Can’t wait to order your books.

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

  • @missytellez6915
    @missytellez6915 Před 2 lety +2

    New Mexico 🥰

  • @_ness6522
    @_ness6522 Před 3 měsíci

    How do I heal from learning that your boyfriend had been cheating on you for months and then he chooses to rather end things with you and hurt you for the other women and protecting her over you. As much as I've forgiven him it's all hard to forget and stop all the negative thoughts.. Judging myself and comparing myself to her.. Like she's everything I'm not, she's soo much better than me in every way

  • @alejandrovegabrendel5919
    @alejandrovegabrendel5919 Před 2 lety +1

    regards to Valparaiso, Chlle, blessing for us ;)

  • @pDOT508
    @pDOT508 Před 2 lety

    🙌🙏

  • @connie10000
    @connie10000 Před rokem

    OMG ...my dad who adopted me & birthfather left Open Daddy Wounds then later my BMs husband. My biological left my birth mother when she became pregnant. Later, I was adopted to a couple.... who only did the best they could as farmer parents yet... No love you or hugs. I found my BM in 2007 yet NEVER met my BF. My BM already had dementia by the time we were reunited due to her husband REFUSED me to meet her. He died then later the doors were opened by HIS SISTER...BMs new guardian. 9 years of professional searching and getting denied due to my BMs controlling, also mentally ill husband. ALL passed now. NOT sure re: BF?!?
    I FORGIVE ALL 3 OF THESE DADDY FIGURES. I MOVE ON TO RECEIVE GODS BLESSINGS💞 Thank you for removing ROOTs of bitterness in my soul.

  • @miladymartell
    @miladymartell Před 2 lety +1

    Uff such as a beautiful message thanks God for used pastor Rich 💕

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety

      What happened to ruth?♦️♦️♠️♠️

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 Před 2 lety

      @@melaniemartin4319 Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

  • @markesabowers1567
    @markesabowers1567 Před rokem

    Thank you Jesus for healing and restoration,repentence.

  • @isaiahgee3356
    @isaiahgee3356 Před 6 měsíci

    😢

  • @karielw
    @karielw Před rokem

    Thank you! Been dealing with a life of loses since the age of 9.

  • @lovelymoore2257
    @lovelymoore2257 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you pastor rich for this!
    Im from the Philippines and I love to watch your preachings.
    Where can i get a copy of your book?
    This preaching made me realize i am still bitter after being heartbroken for more than 5years! I'm claiming forgiveness and healing. 🙏

  • @noneya2355
    @noneya2355 Před rokem

    The father of my child left me and is not engaged to his new gf that is 20 years younger than him. I need prayers😢

  • @brianacabado2590
    @brianacabado2590 Před 2 lety +6

    Been going on heartbreak. My partner broke up with me and we have a 1 year old son. So hard to move on cuz we still chat to update our son via ldr

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety

      Why the breakup?😭😭😭😭💴

    • @brianacabado2590
      @brianacabado2590 Před 2 lety

      @@melaniemartin4319 she doesnt love me anymore to found out she has already a someone before we broke up. :(

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie Před 2 lety +2

      @@brianacabado2590 so sorry to hear this, you was cheating on you by the sounds of it 😕 you deserve much better ! I pray that God heals your ❤️

    • @brianacabado2590
      @brianacabado2590 Před 2 lety

      @@kaoshi_kutie thank you so much for your prayer. Its tough even though the red flags from my partner i still love her. And we still chat to update my child.

    • @ellnerparedes
      @ellnerparedes Před 2 lety +1

      God bless you man - stay strong. Pray everyday. Be honest and vulnerable and transparent and sensitive. God has a shield of protection around you.

  • @aregna
    @aregna Před rokem

    19:59

  • @lisakopp6730
    @lisakopp6730 Před 2 lety

    Hey, my name is Lisa. Unfortunately I’m from Germany and can’t buy the book here. Is there any chance to get it to Germany?? I would love to read it!!!😍

  • @paigestokes8495
    @paigestokes8495 Před 2 lety

    um yeah wow

  • @Ro_dini
    @Ro_dini Před 6 měsíci

    Please, pray for me. My ex left me for somebody else after 3 years. Just feeling down you know.

  • @emmanuelmontoro2171
    @emmanuelmontoro2171 Před rokem

    I dislike the furtik style of preaching and this one too, bitter use of the word.

    • @joleencox5900
      @joleencox5900 Před rokem +1

      You should really rethink that. Pastor Furtick and Pastor Rich are both amazing preachers that are saving hundreds of thousands people weekly

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Před rokem

      @@joleencox5900 🧘🧘🧘

  • @edwarddebone402
    @edwarddebone402 Před 2 lety +1

    Using valuable sermon time yet again to preach so called good advice and not the Good News of Christ. Look away from these characters